In this article: What's Happening with Your Body All About Baby How Big Is Baby !ost Co""on Pregnancy #uestions !ultiple !adness $or Your Partner $un $act $ollow %he Chronicles o& a 'eal-(i&e Pregnancy Occasionally, pregnancy coplications dictate that you slo! do!n """ #uite a $it" %our doctor ay recoend that you go on partial or full $ed rest" &ind out !hat this eans 'and !hat you can do to get through this tough tie(" You're &eeling like a hu"an )ungle gy"* It's a rockin' and rollin' in there* +ince there's still roo" to "o,e- that little guy or gal is using it all* +o"ewhere around now- you "ay ha,e an internal e.a" to check your cer,i. &or risk o& preter" labor/ What)s *appening !ith %our Body As your baby bu"p gets "ore noticeable- so will your aches and pains/ Added weight puts pressure on your back- o&ten leading to soreness/ Your &eet and ankles can swell- especially i& you ha,en't been able to take a break during the day/ You "ay &ind your appetite increases but that your digesti,e syste" is o&&/ Your digestion slows in pregnancy- and your sto"ach is &orced upward as your baby-to-be needs growing roo"/ Both proble"s "ean you "ay ha,e &re0uent heartburn- indigestion- bloating- and &latulence/ But your disco"&ort won't last &ore,er1you're well past the "idpoint o& your pregnancy* Bed Rest $orty weeks can see" like &ore,er- especially when you can no longer see your toes and you're taking bathroo" breaks e,ery hour 2e,en at night3/ But your baby-to-be needs ti"e to grow and de,elop within your uterus so that she'll be healthy and strong when she &irst greets you/ In so"e pregnancies- howe,er- your body "ay want to push the baby out be&ore your 45 weeks are up/ According to the !ayo Clinic- about si. to se,en percent o& all pregnant wo"en go into preter" labor- so"eti"es in the second but "ore o&ten in the third tri"ester/ Any contractions that lead to the cer,i. beginning to open be&ore week 67 are considered preter" labor/ %here are se,eral risk &actors and reasons why you "ay e.perience preter" labor pains/ +o"eti"es physicians are able to pinpoint what's happening with preter" labor- but o&ten doctors aren't sure why wo"en go into labor early/ I& you're e.periencing preter" labor pains- your healthcare pro,ider "ay take se,eral steps to keep your baby-to-be's deli,ery day &ro" happening too soon/ Restrictions and $ed rest: 8epending on the se,erity o& your labor pains your healthcare pro,ider can suggest a range o& strategies to pre,ent labor/ $irst your pro,ider "ay try to pinpoint any changes in your li&estyle or diet that could be "odi&ied/ $or instance- dehydration can lead to preter" labor pains- according to 8r/ Willia" Ca"ann- !8- director o& obstetric anesthesia at the Brigha" and Wo"en's Hospital in Boston- !assachusetts- and coauthor o& Easy Labor/ By drinking plenty o& water and slowing down "ore- your labor pains "ay slow down too/ I&- howe,er- your labor pains are "ore se,ere- your healthcare pro,ider "ay put you on bed rest/ %here are se,eral reasons why bed rest can delay labor/ $irst- with your &eet raised and your body rela.ed there's less pressure on your cer,i./ +i"ply standing creates &orce on your cer,i. &ro" the weight o& your baby pushing down/ Putting your &eet up relie,es pressure on your cer,i. and on all your internal organs/ (ying down also aids blood &low- "aking it easier &or your heart to pu"p blood throughout your body/ (abor-pre,enting "edications and "onitoring9 When bed rest alone doesn't pre,ent preter" labor pains- your healthcare pro,ider "ay gi,e you "edications that will/ :&ten you can take these "edications at ho"e/ 8epending on your circu"stances- your healthcare pro,ider "ay also gi,e you at-ho"e- contraction- "onitoring "achines/ *ospitali+ation: I& bed rest and "edications &ail to keep your labor pains away- or i& there are other co"plications- you "ay be hospitali;ed so you can be under constant care/ Surviving $ed rest: Bed rest can be tedious/ You "ay &eel &ine and able to get up and "o,e around- but it's i"portant you &ollow your doctor's guidelines to ensure a healthy pregnancy/ %ry the &ollowing to "ake bed rest "ore bearable9 ,nlist the help of friends and faily" <et your &riends and &a"ily in,ol,ed with your care/ %hey can co"e o,er and keep you co"pany during the day/ Perhaps you ha,e other children that will need to be cared &or while you're in bed/ (et the" know what you need and allow the" to help you/ -alk to your healthcare provider" Your doctor needs to know how you're &eeling/ +he'll e.pect to hear a &ew co"plaints during your ti"e on bed rest/ .oin a support group" Your doctor "ay gi,e you in&or"ation on support groups in your area where you can talk to others who',e e.perienced di&&icult pregnancies/ :r- ,isit sidelines/org to &ind local support groups on your own/ Bed rest doesn't ha,e to be all bad/ You "ay &inally ha,e ti"e to read all those no,els you',e been talking about/ !aybe there's an online course you',e been "eaning to take/ %ry to look on the bright side1it won't last &ore,er- and at the end you'll ha,e so"eone else to cuddle with you the ne.t ti"e you're in bed/ /ontinued fro page 0 1ll 1$out Ba$y %wenty-three weeks "arks an i"portant point &or your unborn baby/ Your baby-to-be is &ar enough along in his de,elop"ent that he could ha,e a chance at sur,i,al outside the wo"b/ According to the !arch o& 8i"es- o& all babies born at =6 weeks- => to 6> percent sur,i,e/ %his nu"ber goes up considerably when you add )ust a couple weeks9 babies born between >5 to 75 percent o& all babies born at =4 to => weeks sur,i,e/ And ?5 percent o& all babies born at =@ to =7 weeks sur,i,e/ Although all o& your baby-to-be's internal syste"s are in place- he needs "ore ti"e &or those intricate syste"s to "ature/ *o! Big Is Ba$y2 Your little one now about eight inches long 2crown to ru"p3 and weighs in at around one pound/ 3ost /oon Pregnancy 4uestions I'" pregnant and e.periencing so"e ,aginal discharge/ Could I ha,e an in&ection or is this nor"al I& it is a yeast in&ection- how should I treat it while pregnant Pregnancy can induce se,eral di&&erent types o& ,aginal discharge- and "ost o& the ti"e- these discharges are nor"al/ Increased blood &low to your ,agina coupled with increased estrogen can cause you to e.perience a whitish- "ucousy discharge known as leukorrhea/ (eukorrhea is e.perienced by "any wo"en- e,en when they are not pregnant- at di&&erent ti"es in their cycles/ I& you e.perience discharge that causes itching or you notice that your labia are red- you "ay ha,e a yeast in&ection/ Be&ore you treat yoursel& with an o,er-the-counter product- always check with your doctor/ It "ay be a co""on yeast in&ection or so"ething else re0uiring di&&erent treat"ent/ I& the discharge has a &oul odor or is yellow or green- it "ay be sign o& a se.ually trans"itted disease 2+%83 or other in&ection/ What can you do %o a,oid or "anage a yeast in&ection- try these tips9 Wear panty liners to absorb discharge Always wipe &ro" &ront to back Wear cotton panties to help with good air&low to the area/ Wear loose-&itting clothing 8on't use scented sprays or wipes Ae,er douche* Check with your healthcare pro,ider i& you ha,e 0uestions and be&ore pursuing any &or" o& treat"ent I& you see any blood "i.ed with any ,aginal discharge- let your practitioner know right away/ %his "ay be a sign that you are going into labor/ You should also contact your healthcare pro,ider i& the discharge is thin and clear- as you "ay ha,e broken your water/ /ontinued fro page 2 3ultiple 3adness 1ctive Ba$ies in 5tero :ne o& the "ost hu"orous aspects o& being pregnant with "ultiples is obser,ing their personalities de,eloping in utero/ At so"e point- it will beco"e clear who is positioned where/ And- with their growth causing the inability to "igrate to the other side o& your uterus- they won't switch locations/ Be sure to note who was kicking where- and who was kicking what/ When twins are older- they "ay be able to recount these e.periences &ro" their days in the wo"b/ !y boys clai" that it was 'dark in there1because there were no windows- !o"/' !y little ones also co"plain that 'he kicked "e constantly in there'/ It's 0uite &unny 2and a little weird3/ Your Babies' Journey a 8B8 produced by Pioneer Productions &or the Aational <eographic Channel- docu"ents the &orty weeks o& a "ultiple pregnancy/ While it's challenging to docu"ent whether or not we actually re"e"ber our ti"e in utero- this docu"entary shows ways in which babies ha,e e.pressed personality traits in utero which are then seen again post-birth/ In one scene- ultrasound i"ages capture one twin sibling CpunchingC the other/ In response- the sibling turns away and rests her head on the placenta/ When these children were a &ew years old- their parents reported that when the sibling who was Cpunched'C in utero was hurt in e,eryday li&e- her coping response was to go to her roo" and put her head on her pillow/ Another &un acti,ity &or a $riday night is to sit and watch your belly when the babies are both acti,e/ It can appear as though you',e got aliens swi""ing around in there* I& you own a ,ideo ca"era- atte"pt to capture their antics/ %rust "e- your twins will &ind it hysterical in years to co"e/ &or %our Partner %our Relationship !ith Ba$y %he &irst &ew "onths o& &atherhood can o&ten be the "ost di&&icult/ Your baby arri,es- and along with hi" or her co"es e.pectations o& what being a &ather will be like/ !any o& these e.pectations in,ol,e holding your baby and i""ediately &eeling a strong connection and a power&ul sense o& lo,e/ While that will undoubtedly happen- it "ay take a bit longer to connect than you originally thought/ Instead o& a &ew days- it can so"eti"es take a &ew "onths/ D,en once your baby is born- you "ight &eel a little e"pty inside/ :& course you know the baby you're holding is yours- but he or she "ay not yet &eel like your baby/ 2You know that you lo,e your baby- but you )ust "ay not 0uite feel it yet/3 %his isn't unusual- and o&ten &athers &ind the"sel,es &eeling a&raid- stressed by &inancial pressures- and e.hausted &ro" lack o& sleep/ %his can all lead to "any new dads &eeling inade0uate or useless as &athers/ %hese di&&icult &eelings can be e.acerbated i& you're working outside the ho"e while your spouse is taking care o& Baby &ull-ti"e/ %he sad truth is "any &athers ha,e this e.perience but are a&raid to talk about it/ A lack o& discussion can &oster a sense o& sha"e and "ay pro"ote a &eeling that bonding con&ir"s a CbadC &ather 2or "other3/ Instead o& getting upset and gi,ing up- stri,e to re"ain in,ol,ed and you'll lay the groundwork &or de,eloping a bond with your baby/ 2Enow that i& you e.perience these &eelings- it doesn't "ean you're a bad &ather or that you don't or can't lo,e your child/3 In ti"e- you and Baby will build a distinct and unbreakable connection/ :ne day- you will look your little one's &ace and see a certain e.pression or hold her- and so"ething will &lutter in your chest/ Be&ore you know it- you will &eel such a strong connection you'll ha,e trouble re"e"bering li&e when you didn't/ &un &act %he lightest babies e,er born were triplets birthed in Birginia in F??G/ According to the Guinness Book of World Records- the trio weighed in at three and one-hal& pounds total/ %he babies' indi,idual weights were F pound 4/@ ounces- F4/G ounces- and F6/4 ounces/ &ollo! -he /hronicles of a Real67ife Pregnancy How do other wo"en e.perience pregnancy <et an inside look at one wo"an's ,ery personal )ourney to "otherhood with candid week-by-week accounts/ $ind out what happens to +arah (o,e in week =6 o& her pregnancy/ Wondering what is in store for you and your pregnancy? kip ahead to ne!t week" #urious to see how we calculate 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