The art of speaking

A Special Report By Sinn

Introduction
He
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uy
s
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od
a
yI

mgoi
ngt
ot
a
l
ka
bou
t
Spe
aki
ngWoma
ne
s
e

which is basically learning to decode the signals that women give.

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ommuni
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yd
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ha
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e

sal
o
to
f
hidden meaning in what they say and what they do. But, once you get
the hang of what they are really saying, life gets much easier.
So i
nt
hi
sr
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po
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twe

l
lt
a
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rl
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behavior. I

mg
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ot
a
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ka
boutt
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s
edi
f
f
e
r
e
n
c
e
s
.Where they come
from, why they come about and the general social applications that
come about because of the different way women socialize.
Plus, we are going to talk about the physical and mental aspects of
t
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ef
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ma
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eps
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land physical aspects
are a major driving for
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,
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ta
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ofwo
me
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ha
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or
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l
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tagoodi
de
aofhowwoma
nt
hi
nkwhe
ni
tc
ome
st
o
sex and sexual relationships.

Logic VS Emotion
Wha
t

sr
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a
l
l
yi
n
t
e
r
e
s
t
i
nga
bo
utt
hewa
yme
na
ndwome
n
communicate is the different ways that we send signals. Men are
generally going to be a little more logical; women are generally going
to be a little more emotional
Men are very, very logical. We are much more verbally direct and
we are more physically direct too. We touch. We grope and we grab.
We awkwardly state interest ... and we hit on girl
s
.Tha
t

sba
s
i
c
a
l
l
y
how we communicate.
Women on the other hand kind come equipped with a more
sophisticated way of communicating.
A lot of it comes from the fa
c
tt
ha
twome
ndon
tl
i
k
es
oc
i
a
l
discomfort. Most of the time they want to do what society thinks is
right.
What do I mean and what does it all boil down to?

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It comes down to the two basic drives that drive men and women
have. Drives which are different. Once of which is the drive to have a
f
a
mi
l
yt
onu
r
t
u
r
ea
ndt
ogr
ows
ome
t
hi
n
goft
he
i
rown,
t
ha
t

st
h
ev
e
r
y
feminine drive.
Some guys have that drive very strongly later in life, but generally,
men have more of a drive to achieve a passion or a purpose.Tha
t

s
something that drives men more.
So now I

mg
oi
n
gto talk about where these differences come from,
how they kind of come about and what general social applications
happen because of the different ways women socialize.

Social Awkwardness:
Why do women hate social awkwardness? Because, women have a
bunch of very intricate social values and social hierarchies that feel
they have to follow.
When women are out socializing - especially when they are out at
clubs with their friends or in other social situations - they play very
intricate games because of these social values and hierarchies.
Wha
td
oIme
a
n?Wome
n
ssocializing depends on a very specific
e
n
dg
o
a
l
.Wha
t

st
hee
ndgo
a
l
?Eve
r
ygi
r
lwa
nt
st
oe
ndupwi
t
hag
ood
emotional outcome. The end goal for every girl who goes out is to feel
good ... to experience good emotions.
No
w,y
o
uc
a
ns
a
yp
a
r
toft
he
s
e
go
ode
mot
i
oni
n
vo
l
ve
ss
e
x
.Whe
n
girls are out partying, sex is a big part of those good emotions they
want. Women like being hit on, especially by the guys s
he

sa
t
t
r
a
c
ted
to.
Another part of these good emotions is being with her friends and
experiencing a lot of fun, freedom and excitement. Again, all of these
are good emotions.
So when girls go out, they want to feel good, to have those good
emotions. A lot of the time they might even want to get laid, but
somehow these social values and hierarchies get in their way.

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How? Well, there are a couple of things that stop women from just
b
a
n
gi
n
ge
v
e
r
y
b
odyt
he
ywa
n
t
.But
,mo
s
t
l
yi
t

st
he
i
rs
oc
i
a
l
programming.

Social Programming:
Remember earlier I mentioned that women have a social hierarchy?
We
l
lag
i
r
l

ss
oc
i
a
lh
i
e
r
a
r
c
hyha
sbe
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npr
ogr
a
mme
da
ta
ne
a
r
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yage.
And women like to impose this social hierarchy onus
.He
c
kt
he
y

v
e
done it all of their lives.
You see; women have endured years of sexual brainwashing. From
early on their parents teach them to say NO. Not to mention the dozens
of organizations and various other bodies, such as the Christian Church,
the Harems in ancient Egypt. They did the same.
All of thes
egr
ou
psa
ndp
e
opl
es
t
e
pp
e
du
pa
nds
a
i
ddo
n
th
a
ves
e
x
.
They told girls to wait. Said that it

sbest to be monogamous and that

sex is supposed to be special and shared; that sex should be amazing
and this, that and the other. It goes on and on!
So, at an early age, women think sex is taboo. Tha
t

swhe
r
eal
o
to
f
the anti-slut defense comes from. It comes because of the societal rules
laid down by men. Society tells girls that they should stay virgins. That
i
t

sbad for a girl to sleep around, etc. And, maybe for good reason!
It

sc
e
r
t
a
i
nl
yalittle more dangerous for girls to sleep around;
primarily because girls can get pregnant. In theory, if there wa
s
n

ta
ny
laws and societal stuff, guys could just go around impregnating every
girl he slept with without any consequences. He could keep moving
a
r
ou
n
da
n
dwou
l
dn
tr
e
a
l
l
yl
o
s
ea
ny
t
hi
n
ga
sl
on
ga
shedi
dn

tge
ta
ny
STDs, right?
The reputational value of having a kid out of wedlock is still bad.
Ofc
o
ur
s
ei
t

snot as horrible now. Single mothers have gotten a lot

mor
ea
c
c
e
pt
a
bl
er
e
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l
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,b
uti
t

ss
t
i
l
ls
ome
t
hi
n
gt
ha
t

sgoi
ngt
oa
dd
some baggage. Girls with kids usually have a story ... a bad guy ... a
r
e
l
a
t
i
o
ns
h
i
pt
h
a
tdi
dn
twor
ko
ut
,
e
t
c
.And
,nows
h
e

sr
a
i
s
i
ngt
h
ek
i
dby
herself. Plus, girls with a kid can have consequences; not necessarily

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bad consequence, because some people like kids, but still consequences
nonetheless.
So this is the type of stuff that girls think about. Plus girls that have
sex and flaunt it are looked down upon by other girls. They often get
harassed, called sluts and thought of as skanky, etc.

Social Hierarchy:
An
d
,
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ywec
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tbl
a
met
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i
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ewewe
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we

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ec
a
t
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g
or
i
z
e
dpe
opl
e
,putt
he
mi
nt
odi
f
f
e
r
e
ntgr
oup
s
.The popular
kids are always picked first. They are picked first for sports teams, for
homecoming king and queen, the prom king and queen ... and this, that
and the other.
In general, our social structure flows from the bottom up, kind of
like a pyramid. With the wide part of the pyramid representing the not
so cool people, because there are so many of them. The top represents a
few, rare, really cool people. Get it?
Cool guys want cool girls. But the coolest people are the rarest to
find, so what happens when the coolest guys want to have virginal girls
and the girls get all hung up with that social programming and say no.
Well, a lot of the time guys get really mad at girls because they
wo
n

tho
oku
p
.Wet
h
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i
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;oh,
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,
andt
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d
i
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g
o
ut
,
a
ndt
he
y

r
edoi
ngt
hi
s
,t
hatan
dt
he other thing.
Tr
o
ub
l
ei
s
,gi
r
l
sr
e
a
l
l
yc
a
n

twi
n.If girls fuck they get picked on, if
t
h
e
yd
o
n
twet
r
e
a
tt
he
ml
i
kes
hi
t
.And, i
t

snotl
i
kea
l
lof this sexual
r
e
pr
e
s
s
i
o
ni
st
o
t
a
l
l
ya
l
lt
hegi
r
l

sf
a
ul
te
i
t
he
r
.
Girls are just playing by a set of social rules and hierarchies that
were predetermined years ago by men.
So
,y
o
uc
a
n

tr
e
a
l
l
yg
e
tma
da
tg
i
r
l
s
, since we sort of created a lot of
that sexual stuff. Probably bec
a
us
ewe

v
egotal
otofs
e
x
ua
li
s
s
ue
stoo
... more than we let on anyway!

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That

sWhen the Claws Come Out!

Le
t

sl
oo
ka
tho
ws
oc
i
a
lp
r
o
gr
a
mmi
nga
ndh
i
e
r
a
r
c
hywor
k.Le
t

s
say there are two girls and both girls are pretty equal physically. They
both look hot.
Fo
rt
h
i
se
xa
mpl
e
,l
e
t

sus
eaJersey theme and call one girl Vicky
and the other Barbie.
So Vicky and Barbie are like best friends, until one night they go to
the club and end up liking the same super hot guy. They both compete
over this hot guy and Vicky wins.
Vicky gets laid and Barbie gets pissed off. So now they hate each
other, but since they know the same people they still end up going to
the same clubs.
Sohe
r
e

st
h
eque
s
t
i
o
n:Whoha
smor
es
oc
i
a
lpowe
r
?Th
eon
ewh
o

s
higher on the pyramid ... the one who got the guy, right?
So since Vicky got the guy she has more social power... she won
right? So what happens? Barbie says something like: Oh, well, you
know she just a slut. She was cheating on him. I saw her suck this
g
uy

sd
i
c
ki
nt
heba
t
hr
o
omt
wowe
e
k
sa
go,
e
t
c
.
So no
wa
l
lofas
u
dd
e
ns
he

splaying the social game. She pulled

out that social hierarchy card to raise her own social value and to lower
her friend
s social value.
I
td
o
e
s
n
tt
a
kewome
nl
o
ngt
of
i
gur
eou
t that sex is a powerful
weapon; a weapon that can be used against another woman to lower
their social power.
Yet, if I was the guy who got my dick sucked in the club by Vicky,
and she was in a relationship at the time, tha
tdoe
s
n

tnecessarily mean
I look bad.
It may make me look a little bit scummy, but scummy in a way that
attracts girls, as opposed to hanging out in the Camaro in a parking lot
at a high school. That would really make me look scummy.

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So what stops women from getting laid?

Female sex drives are very, very powerful, much more powerful
than men; especially as women get older. Women tend to hit their
sexual peak around thirty-two, whereas men hit their sexual peak
around eighteen.
This means that for us guys, when we are out clubbing, dating or
enjoying the single scene, we get further and further away from our
sexual peak whereas women get closer and closer to theirs.
When it comes to sex most women are just like we are. The same as
we walk down the street and get aroused by a hot girl; women check
out guys too.
They see a cute guy and they want him. Maybe he reminds them of
some guy they used to like, or a guy they had a crush on when they
were like ten or something, or a guy that fits the stereotype that they are
attracted to. Who knows, but e
v
e
r
yno
wa
ndt
he
ny
o
u
l
lge
tgi
r
l
swh
o
r
e
a
l
l
yd
o
n
tgi
v
eaf
uc
ka
b
outs
oc
i
a
lpr
o
gr
a
mmi
ng or what others think.
The type that will pretty well fuck anyone and be proud of it.
These types tend to be a little older. Mostly because the
y

vea
l
r
e
a
dy
g
on
et
h
r
o
ught
ha
t
t
r
y
i
ngt
od
owh
a
ts
o
c
i
e
t
ywa
nt
s
phase and now
t
h
e
y

r
eab
i
tb
i
t
t
e
rabout relationships and what society thinks.
Ma
y
b
et
h
ewhol
ema
r
r
i
a
get
hi
ngi
s
n

tf
ort
he
m.Th
e
ydo
n
twa
n
tt
h
e
wh
o
l
emo
noga
myt
h
i
ng
,b
e
c
a
us
et
h
e
y

v
ebe
e
nbur
ne
dbe
f
o
r
e
.Pl
us
,a
s
they get older they get closer and closer to their sexual peak.
Whatever the reason, just realize that women get attracted like we
do. Women check out just as many guys, as we check out girls, maybe
even more.

Women Get Aroused More Sensually!

So if women are just as horny as we are, especially as they age,
what stops them from going out and just fucking every dude, they think
is attractive?

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I
t

sbe
c
a
us
ewome
nge
ta
t
t
r
a
c
t
e
di
nad
i
f
f
e
r
e
n
twa
y
.Me
na
r
emo
r
e
visually aroused. We see a hot ass or a nice pair of tits and sometimes
t
h
a
t

sa
l
li
tt
a
k
e
s
.
Women get aroused more sensually. And, because of all the good
e
mo
t
i
on
st
he
y

r
ea
f
t
e
r
,t
he
i
rs
e
n
s
ua
l
l
yseems to touch all of their
senses: hearing, seeing, tasting, smelling and touching -- all of that kind
of blends into the overall process.
So when girls go out, remember they want to feel good, to have
those good emotions. And, in most cases they really want to get laid,
but somehow all that social programming gets in their way. But getting
them aroused sensually helps.

Club Competition!
Another thing about psychology that you have to remember is that
i
t

sac
ompe
t
i
t
i
on
,e
s
pe
c
i
a
l
l
yi
nc
l
ubs
.Ba
r
snots
omuc
h, but clubs
competition is huge!
And, th
e
r
e

sa
l
wa
y
sahi
e
r
a
r
c
hyo
fc
oolpeople and the girls who go
out them. When girls go out, especially in groups their goal is to be the
coolest, funniest girl at the party and meet the coolest, hottest guys.
So
,g
i
r
l
sdr
e
s
sbe
t
t
e
r
,t
he
y

l
ltell you they know this person and that
person, they know this, that or the other, just to stand out.
For girls th
a
t

swha
tma
ke
sagoodn
i
gh
t
.(Now of course a good
n
i
gh
tc
a
ni
n
c
l
ud
es
e
x
,i
ft
heg
uykn
owswha
the

sdo
i
ng
.Buto
f
t
e
nt
h
e
guy never makes a move.)
Yo
u

l
le
v
e
ns
e
es
omegr
o
up
sofgi
r
l
st
h
a
ta
c
t
ua
l
l
ygi
vet
he
ms
e
l
v
e
s
names and stuff. Like the Sex and the City girls were in their twenties.
(They would have weird like The Lions or something.) These types of
groups exist, and within them each girl usually has a different role.
I know it sound crazy, because it is! It
sr
e
a
l
l
ywe
i
r
dt
h
ewa
yt
h
e
club-culture works. But each girl will have a little role in helping them
be the coolest girls in the club.

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Yo
u

l
lha
veagi
r
lt
ha
t

sr
e
s
p
ons
i
b
l
e
,the driver; another will be the
flirt who gets all the drinks, then you have the girl who knows people,
the girl who gets people in, etc.
So when girls go out they have a big goal and a local goal. The big
goal is to be the coolest girls and to meet the hottest guys and the local
goal is to make sure that they are all following their individual role
goals.
Tha
t

swhy girls will police themselves. And, whyi

t

sa
c
t
ua
l
l
y
easier to get same-night lays when t
he
r
e

samixed group of guys and

girls.
When groups are mixed, and at the end of the night there is a guy or
two guys and another girl (or a couple) and the conversations goes
something like: Hey, we
r
eg
oi
n
gt
ogobac
kt
omypl
a
c
ean
dh
a
ngou
t
for a bit, so we

l
ls
e
ey
o
ugu
y
sl
a
t
e
r
,
i
twasn
i
c
et
ome
e
ty
ou; and the
g
i
r
l

sa
r
egoing along with it, guy
swo
n
t say: No, wait, you said you
were coming home with us, and we made a pact... whereas the girls
can.
So, one of the reasons girls will do that is because they have that
overall goal of trying to be the coolest, hottest girls. Heck, you

l
ls
e
e
girls cock-block each other, even when they are with guys who have a
lot of values or guys who are really cool.
Some girls will just cock-block each other, because it makes the
whole group look bad as a whole. They may talk about a slutty looking
group or girls. Say something like: Oh my gosh! The
y

r
es
u
c
hs
l
ut
s
;
t
h
e
yd
o
n

tha
v
ean
yvalues. So to avoid this from happening, girls
police each other:
Remember a girl
s behavior is influenced by:

Lack of social awkwardness

Policing each other
Maintaining social reputation, and
Being a social climber

Yes, women are social climbers! They are attracted by social

values. And, the more they seem to have, the better.

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Does that mean that social value is the only thing that
si
mp
or
t
a
nt
?
Absolutely not!
You are not in danger of some cooler guy just coming along any
minute and stealing your girlfriend or wife because of it, but know that
in every segment of life whe
t
he
ri
t

st
h
ePTA,a
taclub, in a
sororities, or a volunteer group - women have a tendency to try to climb
to the top of the social hierarchy.
I
t

sj
u
s
tt
ha
twomen want to get as high socially as they possibly
can. They want to have as much socializing control over events and
activities as possible. I
t

spa
r
to
ft
he
i
rna
t
u
r
e
.
So, if a girl is in a club group, i
t

sn
otu
nc
ommonf
o
rhe
rt
os
wi
t
c
h
groups, or start dating someone from another group, just to raise her
social value.
I
t

sa
l
s
oi
mpor
t
a
ntt
oknowt
ha
tge
ne
r
a
l
l
ygi
r
l
swi
l
lnotmove down
social hierarchies in order to date, but they will move up social
hierarchies to date. Espe
c
i
a
l
l
yt
her
e
a
l
l
yho
tg
i
r
l
s
,
i
t

sr
e
a
l
l
yu
n
l
i
ke
l
y
t
h
a
tt
he
y

l
ldate people they think are beneath them socially.
I
fy
o
ud
o
n
ta
c
tl
i
ket
het
y
peofg
uy
,a
ndy
oudon

th
a
v
et
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d
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nt
i
t
y
t
ok
e
e
pt
h
et
y
p
eofg
i
r
lt
ha
ty
ouwa
nt
,y
o
u
r
enotgoing to be able to
magically swoop in their with a lot of game and pluck some girl wh
o

s
used to like partying with celebrities, and put her into some lifestyle
wh
e
r
es
h
e

se
a
t
i
ngs
u
s
hi
,a
n
ds
ome
bo
dya
thomer
e
a
di
ngc
omi
cbo
o
ks
a
n
dwa
t
c
h
i
ngTV;be
c
a
u
s
et
ha
t

sno
the
rki
ndo
fs
e
gme
nti
nl
i
f
e
,
a
nda
l
l
girls are different.
Soi
t

sve
r
yimportant that you know wha
tt
y
peo
fgi
r
ly
ou

r
e
looking for, for the type of relationship you want. I

vet
a
l
ke
dabout that
a lot, and I will continue to harp on it, be
c
a
us
eIt
hi
nki
t

soneo
ft
he
most important points overall in dating.
Tha
t

sk
i
ndo
fa little of the thinking behind why women are going
to act like they do, the anti-slut defense, ther
e
a
s
onswhygi
r
l
swo
n

t
even flake. A lot of guys are very confused by flakes, but, he
r
e

st
h
e
thing, if you make a girl feel uncomfortable every time you call her,
she
sgo
i
ngt
oe
ndu
pa
t
t
a
c
h
i
ngabun
c
hofuncomfortable emotions
with you. Women are very good at associating emotions with people.

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On the other hand, i

fy
ouma
k
eagr
e
a
tf
i
r
s
ti
mpr
e
s
s
i
ons
h
e

sgo
i
n
g
to be really, really happy to hear from you, you make a bad impression,
s
h
e

sgo
i
ngt
ober
e
a
l
l
y
,
r
e
a
l
l
yu
ps
e
tt
ohe
a
rf
r
om y
o
ua
n
dt
ha
tg
o
e
s
back to the idea that women are more emotional than men.
How she f
e
e
l
st
hema
j
or
i
t
yoft
het
i
mey
ou
r
et
oge
t
he
rwi
l
lb
et
h
e
emotional temperature that she remembers. I
fs
h
e

sf
e
e
l
i
n
gl
i
k
e
: Oh my
God, I really like this guy, I want to be around him all the time;t
h
a
t

s
g
oo
d
.I
fs
h
e

st
hi
nk
i
ng
,I

mnots
ur
eaboutt
hi
sgu
y
,he

sal
i
t
t
l
ewe
i
r
d;
and you keep calling, and calling then you fall into
ne
e
dy
v
e
r
y
quickly.
So you want to be aware of what her emotional temperature is at all
times. The idea is, she is emotionally experiencing something every
t
i
me
,
a
nds
h
e

sgo
i
n
gt
ogi
vey
ouc
l
ue
sa
st
owh
a
ti
ti
s
,b
e
c
a
us
ewome
n
are not just going to come out and tell you these things.
Girls will rarely say what they want; what women say they want,
and what they actually respond to obviously are two very, very
different things.
But very few girls are going to come right out and say something
like: I t
h
i
nki
t

sr
e
a
l
l
y hot to get shoved during sex, and I like being
thrown against things, and I like having my hair pulled, being bitten,
being taken up the ass, and experimenting with weird-group scenarios.
Tha
t

sjust not going to happen most of the time.

Like I said before, because of the social consequences, they have to
pay lip-service to those social rules. They do
n
twa
n
tt
ob
er
e
s
po
ns
i
b
l
e
for sexual or the relationship's escalation, mainly because of that role
that they play in society of being socially oppressed.

Pushing The Interaction Forward

Pushing the interaction forward is YOUR responsibility! It

sy
ou
r
j
o
bt
odot
h
ee
s
c
a
l
a
t
i
ng.You
r
et
heonewhohas to move thing
forward.
This mean that you have to take responsibility for every escalation,
take responsibility for meeting her, approaching her, touching her,

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moving her, getting her phone number, trying to lead her back to your
place, setting up a date, etc. etc. etc.
Men lead ... wome
ndon
t
... so get over it.
If y
o
ud
o
n
tl
i
kei
t
,Id
on
tkno
wwh
a
tt
otell you. Women are just
more attracted to guys who lead. Most women don
twant to take on
t
h
a
tr
e
s
p
ons
i
b
i
l
i
t
y
,s
ot
he
ynor
ma
l
l
ywon
t
.
Of course, there can be plausible deniability. With women plausible
deniability is huge. This means that a girl can explain away her
b
e
h
a
vi
o
rs
ot
ha
ts
hedoe
s
n
th
a
v
eto take responsibility for what
happened or the escalations that have just happened.
These are key when it comes to threesomes, which we are going to
cover later in the year. But for now just remember that you always
have to provide a reason for everything.
Everything you do should have a good reason attached, but not the
real reason. Yo
uc
a
n
tj
us
tdi
r
e
c
t
l
yc
omeouta
n
ds
a
y
,He
y
,c
omeover
h
e
r
ewi
t
hmef
o
ras
e
c
ond
... and when the girl asks Why
?... you
say, Well, I know that I need to move you around in the venue a lot so
y
o
uf
e
e
ll
i
k
ey
o
u
v
ek
nownmel
ong
e
r
,plus I want to get you out of your
friendsv
o
i
c
er
a
nges
oIc
ant
al
kd
i
r
t
yt
oy
o
u.Tha
t

sn
otgoi
ngto
work.
Instead say something like, He
y
,we

r
eg
oi
ngt
ogoov
e
rhe
r
ef
o
ra
s
e
c
o
n
d,
Ij
us
tr
e
al
l
ywan
tt
os
i
tdownand then you sit down and you
put her on your lap. Or say something like, He
y
!I

mr
e
al
l
y
,r
e
a
l
l
y
hungry. I have these great cookies at home and I really want one, why
don
ty
o
uc
o
meba
c
kwi
t
handI

l
lgi
v
ey
ouone
,buty
ouc
a
n
ts
t
ay
long.
Just remember to never make it her fault! Even if she accuses you of
bad stuff, you can turn it around on her and make it her fault, but in a
playful way. Never seriously make it her fault. He
r
e

swha
tIme
a
n.
For example, if she says,
You
vedo
net
hi
st
oal
oto
fgi
r
l
sha
v
e
n
t
y
ou
?

;y
ouc
a
ns
a
y
,
No
,i
t

sj
u
s
ty
ou
rf
a
u
l
tf
o
rbe
i
ngs
oc
ut
e

.
.
.
but
r
e
me
mb
e
rk
e
e
pi
tpl
a
y
f
u
li
t

snever ever her fault.

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He
r
e

sa
n
o
t
he
ri
mpor
t
a
ntt
i
p
.Be
c
a
u
s
eofagi
r
l

ss
o
c
i
a
l
programming, if you want her to go home with you should always give
her a reason she can tell her friends.
Why? So when they ask her what happened the night before, where
s
h
ewe
n
t
,e
t
c
.
.
.
.
s
hewon
tha
v
et
os
a
y
: Wow, I was really horny and
wanted to get fucked so I just went with this guy because I knew he was
going to fuck me.
Tha
t

sne
ve
ra good strategy. Instead help her have a
more planned out r
e
s
p
ons
e
.Re
me
mbe
rs
he

sg
oi
n
gt
opa
yl
i
ps
e
r
v
i
c
e
to that societal thinking, so help her come up with an acceptable story.
One time, right in front of me, a girl tha
tI

v
es
l
e
p
twi
t
hon the first
night told her friend that wedi
d
n
ts
l
e
e
pwi
t
he
a
c
hot
he
runtil the third
or fourth date. Even though I was there, I know I had sex with her the
first time we met, but the reason is, they want to look good socially.
Tha
t

swhyIuse this fact to my advantage. I

l
lbring a girl in on this
and say something l
i
k
e
,
Loo
ky
ou
r
eg
oi
ngt
oge
tcock-blocked, so
y
ou
v
eg
ott
og
i
v
ey
ou
rf
r
i
e
ndsar
e
a
s
ony
ou
r
ec
omi
n
gh
omewi
t
hme

.
Or
,I

l
ls
a
y
.Loo
k
,
Iac
t
u
al
l
yk
i
ndofl
i
k
ey
o
u,s
oI

mnottelling my
friends that I met you in a bar because t
hat

sr
e
al
l
yt
a
c
k
y
. So where did
weme
e
t
?AndI

l
lgot
hr
ou
gh a role playing scenario to nail down the
details about where we met.
Another thing I do is say, Lo
okI

mno
tma
k
i
ngou
twi
t
hy
o
ui
na
bart
ha
t

sr
e
al
l
y
,
r
e
al
l
y
,t
ac
k
y
.Asmuc
hasIwa
ntt
ok
i
s
sy
ou,
I

mno
t
going to do it in ab
ar
,s
od
on

tg
e
ta
nyi
de
as
... a
ndIa
c
t
ua
l
l
ywon

t
do it.
In fact, I actually won
tkiss girls in bars, mostly, because I found
that I never get laid quite as often if you do. Instead while at the bar I
maintain t
hes
e
xua
lt
e
ns
i
ont
hr
oug
hou
tt
heni
ght
.I

l
lget into dirty talk
i
fs
h
e

si
n
t
oi
t
,
a
n
dt
e
a
s
e
,
a
ndt
e
a
s
e
,and tease, and when the kiss finally
h
a
p
pe
n
s
,i
t

sa
bo
utabi
l
l
i
ont
i
me
s more powerful,a
n
dy
oudo
n

tg
e
tas
much cock-blocking. But I will draw societal attention to stuff like that.
Basically, you do
n
tma
keou
twi
t
hs
ome
b
odyyou just met in a bar.
Why? Because it shows people tha
tI

mc
oo
la
ndt
h
a
tI

mn
otg
o
i
n
g to
do anything weird to make a girl look like a slut.
If I demonstrate concern about her social reputation, by talking
about how discreet I am, when we get to stuff later it actually escalates

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a lot faster. I
t

sl
i
keIc
r
e
a
t
espace for it to start escalating, because she
knows thatI

mnotg
oi
ngt
owe
i
rd her out or anything. Or to get
freaked out and tell people that I banged some slut.
Tha
t

sake
yt
hi
n
g;respect is really big with girls in general.
As long as you show the girl that her open sexuality is not
something that affects your respect for her, y
ou

r
ei
ngoodc
ompa
ny
.
I

v
eda
t
e
da lot of girls who are more ofwha
tIc
a
l
l
upper class...
sophisticated like sorority debutants and stuff. Those types of girls are
really wild and freaky when you get them into bed. But when these
girls get into normal society situation they act super-proper. They often
wo
n

teven kiss you on the cheek.

Soi
t

sr
e
a
l
l
yi
mpor
t
a
ntt
ha
ty
ous
h
owt
h
eg
i
r
lt
ha
tyou respect her
no matter what, Andt
ha
ty
out
h
i
nks
h
e

sc
oo
lnoma
t
t
e
rwha
t
.She

s
got to know that the sex stuff is just fun stuff that will be kept between
you and her.
The guys who are really good at this understand that the sex is not a
big, crazy deal. Girls want sex as much as guys do and that nobody
needs to know about it. Because the more people that know about it the
less people will want to have sex with you, because women don

twa
nt
all those bad emotions from having sex.
Now obviously, you won
tever say anything like that to them. But
t
h
a
t

st
h
eoverall kind of thinking that you need to do, and demonstrate,
i
fy
o
ur
e
a
l
l
ywa
ntt
ounde
r
s
t
a
ndawoma
n
sps
y
c
hol
ogya
ndt
oma
s
t
e
r
this stuff.
So, within those social levels, girls need to be fully respected even
wh
e
nt
he
y

r
er
e
j
e
c
t
i
ngy
ou.Alot of the things that women do, have a
way of being scooted a
r
oun
db
e
c
a
us
ei
t

sc
ons
i
d
e
r
e
dasocial violation.
So, basically the idea is that girls have cognitive dissonance, right?
No girl even the girls who go out and blow guys off super-hard
want to think of themselves as bitches. Th
e
ydon

twa
ntt
oe
ve
rthink:
I

mt
h
et
y
peof girl who is a bitch and blows guys off; so they have to
rationalize it. Women are constantly looking for rationalizations.

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What do women really mean?

When girls met guys they have all sorts of comments and opinions.
Some they will tell to your face, others only to their friends. This
section will cover those comments and reveal what they really mean.
Lame and boring is a good reason to blow someone off, but girls
wi
l
ln
e
v
e
rt
e
l
lag
uyt
ha
th
e

sl
a
mea
n
db
or
i
n
g.I
ns
t
e
a
d,
t
he
y

l
lg
i
v
e
short answers, not elaborate on any point, not laugh at anything the
p
e
r
s
o
ns
a
y
s
.The
y

l
lgi
vek
i
ndofgi
vewe
i
r
dpl
a
i
nt
i
ves
mi
l
e
swi
t
ht
h
e
i
r
eyebrows a little bit raised, and basically just give him enough rope to
h
a
n
gh
i
ms
e
l
fu
nt
i
lhes
a
y
ss
ome
t
hi
n
gr
ude
ors
ome
t
h
i
ngt
h
a
ta
l
l
o
ws
t
h
e
mt
os
huthi
mo
utpo
l
i
t
e
l
y
,l
i
k
e
;
Don

ty
ouguy
swa
ntt
ot
a
l
kt
o
me
?
I
fy
o
u
r
ebe
i
n
gt
r
e
a
t
e
dt
h
i
swa
y
,ma
y
bei
t

sbe
c
a
us
ey
ou
r
e
coming across lame and boring.
So what do girls consider a
nice guy
?Aguy

swho
sj
u
s
t
b
l
a
t
a
n
t
l
ya
ve
r
a
ge
.He

st
hee
mot
i
ona
le
qu
i
va
l
e
ntoft
h
ef
a
tc
hi
c
k
,
t
h
e
average chick. Nothing good, nothing bad, just very vanilla, very
blandnice, boring; polite, boring; friendly, should be good, but could
be a little too much.
Wi
t
hn
i
c
eguy
s
,gi
r
l
spr
oba
b
l
ys
a
ys
ome
t
hi
ngl
i
ke
,
We
l
ly
ouk
n
ow,
we

r
ej
u
s
tha
vi
n
gac
onv
e
r
s
a
t
i
onbe
t
we
e
nf
r
i
e
nd
s
,b
uty
ou
r
er
e
a
l
l
y
n
i
c
e
.
I
t

sn
i
c
eme
e
t
i
ngy
ou
.
The
nt
hey lock him out of the
c
o
n
ve
r
s
a
t
i
on.I
t

spo
l
i
t
ea
n
dt
he
ydon

tha
v
et
obeab
i
t
c
h.Muc
hb
e
t
t
e
r
t
h
a
n
,

Dud
e
,
wedon
twa
n
tt
ot
a
l
kt
oy
ou,g
e
ta
wa
y

.Mos
tg
i
r
l
sa
r
en
o
t
comfortable saying that.
I
fy
o
u

r
et
h
et
y
peofguywhogi
r
l
sde
s
c
r
i
bea
s
really nice
, what
t
h
e
y

r
er
e
a
l
l
ys
a
y
i
ngi
st
ha
ty
oua
r
ea bit boring. No one that masters
t
h
i
ss
t
u
f
fwo
u
l
dbec
a
l
l
e
d
really nice
.However, being known as
really nice is okay too, but realize that most women may find you a bit
boring.
So, what does it mean when agi
r
ls
a
y
s
,
He was creepy!
and how
does that translate into real life? Well,
He was creepy!
translates into
he either the guy did too much touching or he spooked her. Meaning
he made her feel uncomfortable.Hej
us
twa
s
n

tpaying enough
attention to her comfort levels.

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So, h
e

sc
r
e
e
py
, would mean too touchy, it could be leaning in, it
could be not releasing your touching early enough, it could even be that
you were talking with your hands too much, but creepy is generally
going to go with touching, and leering; staring, getting caught looking
a
tt
h
egi
r
l

sb
r
e
a
s
tal
o
t
,o
rc
he
c
ki
nghe
ro
utt
oomuc
h
,o
rc
he
c
k
i
ngo
ut
other girls. Doa
nyoft
hos
et
hi
n
gsa
ndgi
r
l
swi
l
lt
h
i
nky
ou

r
ecreepy!
Of course there are a several different levels of comfort, which the
next section will explain.
In the meantime, le
t

sl
ooka
ts
omeot
h
e
rc
omme
nt
s
.Le
t

sj
us
tb
e
friends.
Le
t

sj
us
tb
ef
r
i
e
n
dsf
r
o
map
i
c
kupc
o
nt
e
xta
c
t
ua
l
l
yme
a
n
s
,I
d
on

twa
ntt
ot
a
l
kt
oy
oua
ny
mor
e
.Pi
c
kupi
snotho
wpe
opl
eg
e
ne
r
a
l
l
y
become friends. Obviously there are exceptions to this. I have had sex
with girls who have later said: l
e
t

sj
us
tbef
r
i
e
n
dsa
n
dt
h
a
t

swo
r
k
e
d
out really well.
But generally, if youa
s
kf
oragi
r
l

sph
onenumbe
r
,ork
e
e
pa
s
k
i
nga
girl out, or you take her out and then she says, Le
t

sj
us
tbef
r
i
e
n
d
s
.
s
h
e

sr
e
a
l
l
ys
a
y
i
ng
,I

mn
oti
n
t
oy
ouata
l
l
.
Remember, pe
opl
edon
tg
e
n
e
r
a
l
l
ygot
oba
r
st
of
i
ndf
r
i
e
n
ds
.I
t

s
mor
el
i
ke
l
yt
ha
ty
ou
l
lda
t
epe
o
ple you meet in bars, because friends
are going to hang out for long a long pe
r
i
odove
ral
otoft
i
me
s
.I
t

sa
b
i
gc
ommi
t
me
n
t
.The
r
e

smo
r
ec
ommi
t
me
ntt
oaf
r
i
e
nd
s
hi
pt
ha
ni
ti
st
o
g
oo
nad
a
t
eon
c
e
,s
oi
t

sr
e
a
l
l
yj
us
tan
i
c
ewa
yo
fl
e
t
t
i
ngy
oudown.
Now, if you actually wantt
obef
r
i
e
nd
swi
t
ht
hi
sgi
r
la
ndy
o
udo
n
t
want to have sex with her, then agree and actually continue and pursue
a friendship. J
us
tc
on
s
t
a
n
t
l
yr
e
mi
ndhe
r
,i
fs
h
et
r
i
e
st
of
l
a
keo
rdo
e
s
n

t
wa
ntt
oh
a
ngo
ut
,t
ha
ty
o
uj
u
s
twa
n
tt
obef
r
i
e
nd
sa
ndy
ou
r
eno
tt
r
y
i
ng
to get into her pants.
A lot of girls will f
l
a
k
eo
uto
ny
ou,
e
v
e
nwh
e
ny
ou
r
ej
u
s
tt
r
y
i
n
gt
o
be their frie
n
d,
be
c
a
us
et
h
e
yt
hi
nky
ou
r
ej
us
tusing some kind of a
pickup technique or something.
The
r
e

sal
o
tofguy
swhobe
c
omef
r
i
e
n
ds.
.
.
whob
e
c
omeo
r
bi
t
e
r
sa
s
we call it in the community ... and they basically just hang out with hot
girls as the
y

r
ef
r
i
e
nd
sas part of an eight-y
e
a
rs
e
duc
t
i
onpl
a
n.
Tha
t

s
n
otg
oi
n
gt
owo
r
k.
Soi
fy
ou
r
edo
i
ngt
h
a
ts
t
opi
tr
i
gh
tn
ow.

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Be friends i
fy
our
e
a
l
l
ywa
n
tt
obef
r
i
e
nds
,butdon
tu
s
el
e
t

sj
u
s
tb
e
friends a
sawa
yofge
t
t
i
n
gg
i
r
l
s
,be
c
a
u
s
ei
t

sj
u
s
tgo
i
ngt
oc
r
e
a
t
e
problems later on. Girls will remind you about it, then you look
d
i
s
ho
ne
s
t
,a
n
di
t

snotg
oo
dt
ode
ve
l
opar
e
l
a
t
i
o
ns
h
i
pf
o
un
da
t
i
ono
n
that.
Ofc
o
ur
s
e
,It
hi
nki
t

sagr
e
a
ti
de
at
oa
c
t
ua
l
l
yhave female friends. I
think you learn a whole lot about girls from girls.
Ia
l
s
ot
hi
nki
t

sar
e
a
l
l
ygo
odi
de
at
owa
t
c
hs
howsl
i
keSex and the
City, or if you can stomach them, even Soap Operas, because you get a
real insight into both female fantasy and female reality in those types of
shows. Plus, you also see the swell of emotions, the whole logic and
general values and societal teachings that get tossed out the window
wh
e
nt
her
i
g
htki
ndofguyc
ome
sa
l
o
ng.Soi
t

sr
e
a
l
l
yp
r
e
t
t
yr
e
a
l
i
s
t
i
c
.
A
lot of the interactions between guys and girls are real, especially in Sex
and the City.I

vel
e
a
r
ne
dqui
t
eabi
tf
r
omt
ha
ts
h
ow.
An
o
t
he
rc
omme
n
ty
oumi
ghthe
a
ri
s
,
I have a boyfriend. I have
a boyfriend, could mean a couple of things. I have a boyfriend could
me
a
ny
o
u
r
ehi
t
t
i
ngonmea
ndI

mn
oti
n
t
e
r
e
s
t
e
d
.Ge
ne
r
a
l
l
y
,y
o
u

l
lge
t
that if you do a daytime approach; or you go really, really direct.
For example, if you say:
Hey, I noticed you from across the park,
a
n
dIt
hi
n
ky
ou

r
ea
bs
ol
ut
e
l
ya
d
or
a
bl
e
,
Iwanted to come over here and
meet youI

mJ
on

,e
t
c
..
.
.a
nds
her
e
pl
i
e
s
:
Sorry, I have a
b
oy
f
r
i
e
nd
. Basically, tha
tme
a
n
sI

mnoti
n
t
e
r
e
s
t
e
di
ny
oui
nt
ha
twa
y
.
It may or may not mean she actually does have a boyfriend. It may
just be a polite way of blowing you off.
Often girls say they have a boyfriend because i
t

sar
e
a
l
l
ye
a
s
ywa
y
to get rid of a guy. Of course, she could have boyfriend and be telling
you that she just wants you to know what the situation is. Soy
oud
o
n

t
get too attached.
I

mn
o
tabi
gbe
l
i
e
ve
ri
nt
he
every girl cheats
school of thought. I
d
on

tt
h
i
nkt
ha
t

sp
a
r
t
i
c
ul
a
r
l
yt
r
ue
,It
hi
nkmos
tg
i
r
l
sa
r
ep
r
e
t
t
yhon
e
s
t
a
n
dl
oy
a
lwh
e
nt
h
e
y

r
ei
nf
ul
f
i
l
l
i
ngr
e
l
a
t
i
on
s
hi
ps
.
I just think most girls and guys settle to easily. So you have to be
aware that most people that are settling or in a settled relationship

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usually means that all bets are off. They are just going with the status
the relationship as it is at that time.
So, sometimes girls will say they have a boyfriend because they
wa
nty
out
okn
owt
h
a
ty
ou
r
enotgo
i
ngt
os
e
et
he
me
v
e
r
ywe
e
k,a
nd
that this may just be a one-time thing.
I
nt
h
a
tc
a
s
ewh
a
t

sgoi
n
gt
oha
p
pe
ni
st
he
y

r
egoi
n
gt
odr
opi
ti
n
like: Oh, yeah my boyfriend.
.
.
ort
he
y

re going to say something like,

We go t
ot
h
es
h
ow or me and my boyfriend do that, this, or the
o
t
he
r
buti
twi
l
lc
omef
u
r
t
h
e
rinto the conversation.
The further into the conversation when the boyfriend thing comes
up, the easier it is to get around it.
If you get that line upf
r
o
nt
,y
ou

re most likely stopped. Unless you

are a real confident guy, in which case you can openly state that you are
g
oi
n
gt
opur
s
ueh
e
rde
s
p
i
t
et
hef
a
c
tt
ha
ts
heha
saboy
f
r
i
e
nd.
.
.t
h
a
t

s
what I do.
Ba
s
i
c
a
l
l
y
,
Ij
u
s
ts
a
y
,
Oka
yt
ha
t

sc
o
ol
,do
e
shet
r
e
a
ty
ouwe
l
l
?
a
n
d
s
h
eus
u
a
l
l
ys
a
y
s
,s
ome
t
h
i
ngl
i
ke
,
Ye
a
hh
edoe
s

.The
nIs
a
y
,
I
wo
u
l
dn

t.
.
.
t
he
nIk
e
e
pt
a
l
k
i
ng.An
di
fs
heb
r
i
ng
si
tu
pa
ga
i
nIs
a
y
,

He

spr
ob
a
bl
ygoi
ngt
obepr
e
t
t
yma
dt
ha
ty
ou

r
ef
l
i
r
t
i
ngme.
.
.y
ou
s
h
ou
l
dp
r
ob
a
bl
ys
t
o
p,y
ouknow,I

mde
finitely trying to get into your
p
a
n
t
s
,
s
oi
t

spr
o
ba
b
l
yaba
di
de
a
.

Because when I do that I create a little bit of a societal matrix.

Normally, woman will continue flirting, because she wants to prove
t
h
a
ts
he

si
nd
e
p
e
nde
nt
.She wants to show you that she can flirt, and
that she has control over her own emotions. Wha
tI

md
oi
n
gi
s
challenging her and usually the more she flirts and the better it feels,
the more likely she is to hook up with me.
Wha
tI

mr
e
a
l
l
yd
oi
ngi
ss
a
y
i
ng.
I

mr
e
a
l
l
yc
ha
r
mi
nga
n
dI

m
definitely trying to get in your pants so you should run away, because
youne
ve
rkn
o
w.
.
.So more than not she
l
lsay,
We

l
ls
e
e
!
I end up creating a little trap where I get really powerful emotions
all stirred up. But it also plays up the fact that she has to keep objecting,
which add sexual tension... good tension. Of course, I have to take

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responsibility for the escalation, which is something I talked about

earlier.
Another c
omme
n
ty
ou
l
lh
e
a
ri
s
:
We

r
enotha
v
i
n
gs
e
x

.We

r
en
o
t
having sex me
a
n
sIwa
st
h
i
nki
n
ga
bou
tha
vi
n
gs
e
xa
n
dwe

r
ea
l
mos
t
certainly going to have sex.
We

r
en
oth
a
vi
ngs
e
xi
sl
i
ke
,
t
hes
ho
wdowna
tt
heO.K. Corral in
one-night stands and in getting girls back to your house and stuff.
I
t

son
eoft
hos
et
hi
ngs
,wh
e
r
ei
fy
oudo
n
tpul
li
toutf
i
r
s
t
,
s
he

s
d
e
f
i
ni
t
e
l
ygoi
n
gt
opul
li
touta
n
d,y
oud
on
twa
n
tt
obel
e
f
tbe
h
i
n
dt
ha
t
8th ball.
You might hear this one just as y
ou

r
epu
l
l
i
n
gt
heg
i
r
loutoft
h
eb
a
r
o
rc
l
u
b,
o
rwhe
ny
ou
r
et
r
y
i
ngt
oge
th
e
rt
oc
omeba
c
kt
oy
ou
rplace for
ad
a
t
e
.She

sl
i
ke
,
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we

r
enotge
t
t
i
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a
i
d
,s
odo
n
tt
hi
nky
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r
e
g
e
t
t
i
n
gl
a
i
d
,l
i
ke
:Don
tt
hi
nkt
hi
si
smei
nv
i
t
i
ngy
o
uu
pt
os
e
et
hev
i
e
w
or something.
What she really means is I

l
lmak
eoutwi
t
hy
o
u. When a girl
says that is she

st
hi
nki
nga
b
outi
t
,
s
hek
nowsi
t

sgo
i
ngwe
l
l
,s
os
h
e
k
no
wsy
oua
r
et
h
i
nki
n
ga
bou
ti
t
.Sos
he

sge
t
t
i
n
gi
ti
nt
ot
h
eope
n.Sh
e

s
r
a
i
s
i
n
ghe
ro
bj
e
c
t
i
on
s
,s
ot
ha
tI

l
ls
t
a
r
tc
onvi
nc
i
nghe
rt
h
a
twes
hou
l
d
h
a
v
es
e
x.Th
a
t

sba
s
i
c
a
l
l
ywh
a
t

sgo
i
ng on in her head, she wants it,
but for social reasons has to play hard to get.
You see, girls want sex too, butt
he
ydon
twant to feel any bad
emotions about having s
e
x.
Th
e
ydon
twa
ntt
of
e
e
lt
ha
tt
h
e
y

r
eb
e
i
nga
s
l
u
t
.The
yd
on

twa
ntt
of
e
e
lt
ha
tt
he
ya
r
epur
s
ui
n
g you or that they are
g
i
vi
n
gu
pt
he
i
rpowe
rt
o
os
oon
.Th
e
yd
on
twa
ntt
of
e
e
lt
h
a
ty
o
ud
o
n
t
r
e
s
pe
c
tt
h
e
ma
n
dt
he
yd
on

twa
ntt
of
e
e
ll
i
key
ou
r
eg
oi
ngt
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e
twe
i
r
d
a
n
dn
e
e
dyr
i
ghta
f
t
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ri
t
.Ort
of
e
e
ll
i
k
ey
o
u
vema
n
i
pul
a
t
e
dt
h
e
mi
n
t
o
that decision.
So t
he
r
e

sawhol
ebunc
hoft
he
s
el
i
t
t
l
el
a
ndmi
ne
st
oa
vo
i
d.Bu
t
,i
f
y
ouc
a
na
voi
dt
he
ma
nds
hewa
nt
st
oge
tl
a
i
d,e
s
pe
c
i
a
l
l
yi
fy
o
u

r
eo
na
date ... and she came out, she took time out of her schedule to get to
know you... she likes you... she wants you to make it happen and make
h
e
rwa
nti
tt
oh
a
p
pe
n,t
he
ni
t

sa
l
lg
ood.Bu
ts
he

snotgoi
ngt
od
oi
tf
o
r
y
ou.
Soi
t

sv
e
r
yi
mpo
r
t
a
ntt
he
r
et
ha
ty
o
ua
c
ta
si
ft
hes
e
xi
sc
e
r
t
a
i
n
,
bu
t
y
ou
r
eno
tg
oi
n
gt
opus
h
.

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One of the biggest things to change my game was when I started to

tell girls what was going to happen. They used to call it selfcommentary. You want to tell them what to expect from you, because
women are big on honesty, in most cases much bigger on honesty than
men are, I think.
Everyone knows that we all tell little white lies. Everyone does, and
g
i
r
l
sa
r
en
oe
xc
e
pt
i
on.An
d,
s
omeg
i
r
l
sdol
i
ea
b
ou
twhe
r
et
he
y

r
eg
oi
n
g
a
n
dwh
ot
he
y

r
es
l
e
e
pi
ngwi
t
h,
a
sd
os
omeguy
s
.ButIt
hi
nkont
h
e
whole women respect honesty a lot more than men do.
So if you can behone
s
twi
t
hagi
r
la
n
dde
mo
ns
t
r
a
t
et
h
a
ty
ou

r
e
serious about your intentions, while being funny it works. Just say,
I

mg
oi
ngt
ok
e
e
ph
i
t
t
i
n
go
ny
ouunt
i
ly
ouf
uc
kme
.
.
.a
n
da
sl
o
n
ga
s
y
ouma
kei
tf
u
n
nya
ndy
ous
h
owt
he
mt
ha
tt
he
y

r
ei
nf
ul
lc
o
nt
r
o
l
,t
h
a
t

s
really the sweet spot.
One of the keys to my game is telling girls how really aggressive I
am orI

mgoi
n
gt
obe
.I

l
ll
e
tt
h
e
mkno
wt
h
a
tI

mnotgo
i
ngt
os
t
o
p
hitting on them and that I am trying to have sex with them, but I also let
them know thatI

mne
ve
rgoi
ngt
odoa
ny
t
hi
ngt
oma
ket
he
m
uncomfortable.
I actually say, Look
,
I

mr
e
al
l
yat
t
r
a
c
t
e
dt
oy
o
u.Obviously, I like
y
o
ub
e
c
a
u
s
eoft
h
i
s
,t
h
atandt
heot
he
r
.I

l
lt
e
l
lh
e
rwha
tIlike about
her and why I want to have sex with her. Stuff like,
I

mr
e
a
l
l
y
a
t
t
r
a
c
t
e
dt
oy
ou,
a
n
dI

mgoi
n
gt
oke
e
ph
i
t
t
i
n
gony
o
uunt
i
lIha
ves
e
x
with you,s
oi
ft
h
a
t

sapr
o
bl
e
mwe should probably just part ways right
now
... and they usually respond with,
Ah
,a
tl
e
a
s
ty
ou
r
eho
ne
s
t
and
I

ml
i
k
e
,

Cooland t
he
yl
a
ug
h,a
ndno
wt
h
e
yknowki
ndofwh
a
tI

m
about.
The
nl
a
t
e
r
,
I

dpr
ob
a
bl
ys
a
ys
ome
t
hi
n
gl
i
ke
,
Look, the most
unattractive thing in the world to me is feeling like I want someone
mo
r
et
ha
nt
he
ywan
tme
,i
tr
e
al
l
ygr
o
s
s
e
smeo
ut
... which is true,
because I used to get a lot of last-minute resistance and it really does
gross me out.
Ir
e
a
l
l
yd
o
n
tl
i
kef
e
e
l
i
n
gt
ha
tI

mt
r
y
i
n
gt
os
c
a
mphe
ra
ndc
r
a
wl
,
or
t
ou
s
ea
nyt
y
peoft
r
i
c
kt
oge
ti
n
t
oagi
r
l
spa
n
t
s
.Idon

tl
i
ket
ha
t
.

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I want the girl to really want me as badly as I want her, and so if I

ever feel like I want a girl more than she wants me, then it grosses me
o
uta
n
dI

l
lj
us
ts
t
oppur
s
u
i
nghe
r
.
I
t

sa
l
la
bo
utma
ki
ngagi
r
lf
e
e
lc
omf
or
t
a
bl
e
!

3 Levels of Comfort!
The strategy of the game is all about making the girl more and more
comfortable, or at least making her a little bit less uncomfortable.
You see the game is just making a woman feel more and more
c
omf
o
r
t
a
bl
e
,
i
n
c
r
e
a
s
i
ngl
y
,u
nt
i
ls
he

sr
e
a
dyt
obec
omf
o
r
t
a
b
l
ei
na
sexual way.
The first level of comfort is what we call social comfort.Th
a
t

s
when you are okay with giving a stranger the time of day when they
stop you on the street.
However, if you look like a bum and you are walking around on the
city streets asking for money, people are probably not going to stop
because t
he
r
ei
s
n
te
noughsocial comfort.
Whereas, if a normally-dr
e
s
s
e
dpe
r
s
o
n,g
uyo
rgi
r
ls
a
y
s
,
Hey, do
you know where the subway iso
rs
ome
t
hi
ngl
i
ket
h
a
t
.Yo
u
r
eg
o
i
n
g
to be a lot more likely to look at them and answer. You see, people are
n
e
r
v
o
uswh
e
nt
h
e
ydon
tk
nowwha
t

sgo
i
n
gt
oha
pp
e
na
ndi
t

s
normally something that they do
n
twa
ntt
ode
a
lwi
t
h
.So, social
comfort is the first level.
Second level of comfort is rapport comfort, where people feel
comfortable exchanging information with you. This is when they trust
you or are comfortable enough to get to know you in person, etc.
The third level of comfort is sexual comfort. Tha
t

swhen people
are comfortable getting physical with you and when they let you get
sexual with them.
The main thing to understand is that girls are always going to have a
different way of saying things that allows them to act in a way that they
want to act. Remember, they will preserve good emotions at all cost.

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Do
n

tme
s
sa
r
ou
nda
ndtry to trap a girl for l
a
t
e
ron.
I

mno
tg
o
i
ng
to keep trying to get in her pants over and over and over again if she
d
oe
s
n

twa
n
ti
t
,
and neither should you.
I mean, if a girl says no to me I l
e
gi
t
i
ma
t
e
l
yd
on
tl
i
kei
t
.I
legitimately believe that if she

sgoi
ngt
obeunc
omf
o
r
t
a
bl
eId
on
twant
her to associate being uncomfortable with me, especially if I like her.
I
fI

mtrying to get a girl into bed, for the most part I really do like
them. Id
on
twa
ntt
he
mt
obed
oi
ngs
ome
t
hi
ngthat t
he
y

r
ego
i
ngt
o
r
e
gr
e
ta
n
dIdo
n
twa
n
tt
h
e
mt
odos
ome
t
hi
n
gt
ha
tt
h
e
ydon

tf
ul
l
y
, fully
want to do, b
e
c
a
us
et
h
a
t

sj
us
tno
tc
oo
l
.
Gi
r
l
sh
a
v
et
ok
nowt
ha
tt
he
y

r
ein full control. It

sawe
i
r
d
juxtaposition in the r
e
s
pon
s
i
bi
l
i
t
y
,be
c
a
us
et
he
ydon
tha
vea
ny
responsibility for the making of the moves, but they want to feel like
they are in full control.
Whi
c
hme
a
nsI

l
lt
a
ker
e
s
p
ons
i
bi
l
i
t
yf
oraggressively pursue them,
but they have to take responsibility for accepting my moves. If they
d
on

tshow me that they are acceptable, the

nI

mnotgo
i
ngt
ok
e
e
p
going.
Ift
h
e
yd
on

tl
i
k
ewh
a
t

sha
p
pe
ni
ng, I

mgoi
n
gt
os
t
opcompletely.
So even if they like it a little bit, when they say, no, no, nono more
kissing, i
t

sno kissing; and I guess it

sk
i
ndo
fs
i
mi
l
a
rt
oaf
r
e
e
z
e
-out or
wh
a
t
e
v
e
r
,bu
tt
ha
t

st
hef
i
r
s
tpa
r
t
. The second part is linking it with
actually knowi
ngwha
ty
ou
r
ed
oi
ngs
e
xua
l
l
y
,and in bed and the dirty
talk.
This is the ultimate idea of where the balance should between
pushing and letting a girl know that she

sc
omf
or
t
a
b
l
e
,be
c
a
u
s
ey
o
u
need both halves of those in order for her to get comfortable enough for
sex.
Whe
ns
h
es
a
y
s
,

We
r
en
oth
av
i
ngs
e
xt
oni
gh
t
i
tnormally means
that she feels l
i
kei
t

sgetting a little too obvious that I want sex. For

example
,s
a
ywe

r
eba
c
ka
tmyplace alone, the candles lit
,we

r
e
c
u
d
dl
i
n
gont
hec
ou
c
ha
nds
hes
a
y
s
,

Okay, we

r
enothav
i
ngs
e
x
tonight
.I
t

sp
r
oba
bl
ybecause she wants to slow it down until she feels
more comfortable.

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Sh
e

sr
e
a
l
l
ys
c
r
e
a
mi
n
g,I

mn
otc
omf
or
table being this sexual yet,
but I want to be;s
he

sba
s
i
c
a
l
l
ys
a
y
i
n
gma
kememor
ec
omf
or
t
a
b
l
e
sexually or make me more turned on.
So when you hear that, so one of those two things.Tha
t

sd
e
f
i
n
i
t
e
l
y
s
ome
t
h
i
n
gI

l
ldo.
Al
t
e
r
n
a
t
i
ve
l
y
If
uc
karound with what I call my really, really
overconfident game. With t
ha
tI

l
lj
us
tt
a
kee
ve
r
y
t
hi
ngthat they say
like an indicator of interest.
Everything they say, I

l
lj
us
tt
u
r
ni
nt
ot
he
mt
r
y
i
ngt
og
e
tmei
n
t
o
bed. so if a girls says, we

r
en
othav
i
n
gs
e
x
,I

l
lb
elike;
Believe it or
n
ot
,
I

v
eh
e
ar
dt
ha
tb
e
f
or
ef
r
omgi
r
l
st
hatIthen ended up doing
h
or
r
i
b
l
e
,di
r
t
yt
hi
ngst
o,s
owe

l
ll
e
av
et
h
atoneu
pi
nt
heai
r

.
Tha
t

s
j
u
s
taf
u
nnyl
i
t
t
l
el
i
nei
fy
ouh
a
v
et
h
eba
l
l
sf
ori
t
.
I
t

sar
e
a
l
l
yf
u
n
ny one,
b
uti
td
oe
s
n
talways go well; so, use at your own risk.
Then
e
x
to
net
ha
tIwa
ntt
ot
a
l
ka
bo
uti
s
Idon
td
o X until the first
date.Comme
nt
sl
i
k
e
,
Ido
n
ts
l
e
e
pwi
t
hs
ome
on
eont
hef
i
r
s
tn
i
g
htI
me
e
tt
h
e
m,Ido
n
ts
l
e
e
pwi
t
hs
ome
o
neont
h
ef
i
r
s
tdat
e
,Idon

tk
i
s
s on
t
h
ef
i
r
s
td
at
e
,Idon

tha
v
es
e
xunt
i
lt
h
et
hi
r
ddate,
e
t
c
.Whe
ny
o
uh
e
a
r
those kind of numbers, or arbitrary rules what girls are really saying is,

Il
i
key
ou
,b
utI want you to respect me because I want a relationship.
Anytime a girl starts to say something like,

Ido
n
tdot
hi
st
i
l
lt
h
e
t
h
i
r
dd
at
e
,Ido
n
tdot
hatt
i
l
lt
hes
e
c
o
nddat
e
i
tme
a
nst
ha
ts
h
e

s
already put you very clearly into a relationship track, bu
ts
he

spu
t
t
i
ng
you into a relationship track where she controls the strings. It
sno
t
s
ome
t
h
i
n
gs
h
e

sdoing consciously, obviously, bu

ti
t

st
hewa
ys
h
esees
you.
She sees you as a courtship guy. As the guy that is kind of boring
but dependable, like the Toyota Corolla of men. It gets you where you
need to be...ga
sc
ons
umpt
i
oni
s
n
t bad...doe
s
n
th
a
vea
nyma
j
o
r
problems... not too expensive to take care of ... but, do
e
s
n
te
xc
i
t
ey
ou
!
Soa
ny
t
i
mey
ou

r
ege
t
t
i
ngs
ome
t
h
i
n
gl
i
k
et
h
a
t
,i
tba
s
i
c
a
l
l
yme
a
n
s
you just are not sexually attractive enough t
ohe
ry
e
t
.She

sn
ots
e
e
i
n
g
you in that way where she wants to rip your clothes off, she sees you as
the type she can have two kids, a family and a white picket fence with.
Comme
n
t
sl
i
ket
ha
th
a
p
pe
nwh
e
ny
ou
r
ebe
i
ngtoo nice, not being

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dismissive enough, not having enough jealousy, not seeming like

enough of a guy who would satisfy her in bed.
Generally i
t

sthose emotional things that look good-on-paper. You

k
no
w,
aguywho
st
hi
r
t
y
-five, a lawyer, never been married, tall and
athletic, but j
u
s
tbor
i
nga
ss
hi
t
,a
ndi
tdoe
s
n
tdoa
ny
t
h
i
ngt
o
emotionally stimulate a woman in any way whatsoever; the type of guy
who d
o
e
s
n
tun
de
r
s
t
a
ndhowt
ot
a
l
kt
ogi
r
l
sorhow to read their body
language, etc.
Like I said, a guy that looks good on paper, but is horrible in real
life. So d
on

tbet
ha
tguy
,i
fy
ou
r
eg
e
t
t
i
ngs
t
uf
fl
i
k
ethat y
o
u
v
ef
a
l
l
e
n
into that category.
Another good one is,
I

mn
ott
hatk
i
n
dofgi
r
l

.You will get that a

lot.
Ba
s
i
c
a
l
l
yi
tj
us
tme
a
nss
he

sc
he
c
ki
ngt
os
e
ei
ft
h
e
r
e

sa
nyr
espect.
The whole key to diffusing that one is actually deconstructing it. So a
l
o
toft
i
me
swh
e
ngi
r
l
ss
a
y
,
I

mnott
heg
i
r
lt
hatwi
l
lha
v
es
e
xwi
t
hy
ou
in a public bathroomo
r
,I

mnott
hegi
r
lwhowi
l
lhav
es
e
xwi
t
hy
o
u
down by the river, or wherever, the lake
,
e
t
c
.I

l
ls
a
y
,
Look, t
h
e
r
e

s
no such thing as that kind of girl. It
hi
nky
ou

r
eawe
s
o
me
,It
h
i
n
kt
h
i
s
i
sr
e
al
l
yh
ot
,
bu
ti
fy
ou

r
eun
c
omf
or
t
ab
l
e
,c
o
ol
,we

l
lj
us
tc
h
i
l
l
. Then
I

l
lactually start moving back into the venue. I

d wait until we get a

little bit further and closer, the
nI

l
lface her and push her against the
wall and make out with her again. This usually turns that one around
and it works pretty well.
The main thing is to show her that you won
tj
udg
ehe
r
. So when
she says, I

mno
tt
hatk
i
ndofgi
r
l
and you reply,
That

s ridiculous,
t
h
e
r
e

sn
os
u
c
hthing as not that kind of girlbut this is really weird
and I do f
e
e
lr
e
a
l
l
yi
nt
e
ns
ewi
t
hy
our
i
gh
tnow,andi
t

shot
,
andId
o
n
t
really kn
owbutI

mj
u
s
tgoi
n
gwi
t
hi
t
.
.
.
but, y
ou

r
er
i
ghtweshould
stop, and we should go in,i
nt
he
r
e
.
.
.
Sh
e

sr
e
a
l
l
ytrying to regulate
her body temperature, because s
hedo
e
s
n
twa
nty
out
ot
hi
nks
he

sa
slut. Sh
edoe
s
n

twa
nthe
rf
r
i
e
n
dst
ot
h
i
nks
he

sas
l
uta
nds
hed
oe
s
n

t
want t
of
e
e
ll
i
k
es
he

slost control. Shewa

n
t
st
of
e
e
lt
h
a
ts
he

smaking
this d
e
c
i
s
i
o
n
.Sous
u
a
l
l
yt
hi
sc
omme
ntr
e
a
l
l
yme
a
n
si
s
,

c
onvince me
that this is the right decision to make.

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Thel
a
s
to
net
h
a
twe

l
lt
a
l
ka
b
out
, before we talk about some facial
expressions a
n
ds
omeot
he
rt
h
i
ngsg
i
r
l
ss
a
y
;
You

r
eaj
e
r
kpl
a
y
e
r
asshole
.
Us
u
a
l
l
ywh
e
ng
i
r
l
sgo,
You
r
eapl
a
y
e
r
.You
r
ej
e
r
k
. You

r
ea
n
a
s
s
h
o
l
e
it just basically means they are attracted and they are testing
to see if you actually are cool. They are at least interested in getting to
know you and they need to see i
fy
ou
r
ea
c
t
ua
l
l
yg
oi
ngt
obea
b
l
et
o
stand up for yourself and set personal boundaries ori
fy
ou

r
eg
o
i
n
gt
o
bend and start qualifying yourself.
Basically anytime agi
r
lc
a
l
l
sy
o
ut
ha
ta
n
ds
he

sno
tve
r
yangry a
n
dy
o
u
veg
o
tt
oknow the difference between really angry you want
to think it in terms of the technicality of the game.
That would be a qualification hoop,l
i
k
ea
ny
t
i
meagi
r
ls
a
y
s
,y
ou

r
e
a player, you

r
eaj
e
r
k,y
ou
r
ea
na
s
s
ho
l
e
,e
t
cs
he

sb
a
s
ically throwing
out her hoop to see if you are going to jump through i
t
.I
fy
ou
r
ego
i
ng
t
oa
po
l
o
gi
z
ea
n
ds
a
yy
ou

r
eno
tt
ha
tki
n
do
fguy
,o
ri
fy
oua
r
eg
oi
ngt
o
d
oa
ny
t
hi
nge
l
s
e
.Sh
e

st
e
s
t
i
ngt
os
e
ei
ft
h
eguyi
sachump wh
o

s
going to do whatever she wants.
I

v
ene
v
e
rr
e
a
l
l
yha
dt
ha
tha
p
pe
nunl
ess I did something over and
over and over again that created that result.
Now, you are a player, is actually what we call a double-bind
b
e
c
a
u
s
ei
t

soneo
ft
hos
et
hi
ngst
h
a
ty
oudon
ta
ns
we
r
,y
ouj
us
ti
gn
o
r
e
it.
There are three basic prequalification hoops that girls throw at you.
You can agree and exaggerate and say something like, Actually, I
o
nl
yh
a
v
ee
i
g
h
tg
i
r
l
f
r
i
e
nd
s
,b
uti
fy
o
u
r
er
e
a
l
l
yi
n
t
e
r
e
s
t
e
dan
dy
o
ur
application completely checks ou
tI

mwi
l
l
i
n
gt
oaddy
oua
st
heni
n
t
h

or
Actually, y
o
uk
now,I

v
ec
utd
ownt
ohaving sex with girls only on
days that end wi
t
hY.
You can say anything that exaggerates and agreesa
sl
onga
si
t

s
f
u
nny
.
I
fy
ouc
a
n
tma
ket
he
ml
a
ughore
xa
gge
r
a
t
ey
oura
ns
we
rto
absurdity, then it just l
oo
ksl
i
k
ey
ou

r
et
r
ying to qualify yourself by
c
o
u
nt
i
n
gho
wma
nygi
r
l
sy
o
u
vegot
.

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It g
o
e
st
h
eo
t
he
rwa
yt
oo,b
uty
ouc
a
ns
ur
vi
vei
ti
fi
t

sf
unny
.
Whereas if you s
a
y
,
noI

mn
otapl
ay
e
r
t
he
ny
ou
r
et
r
y
i
ngt
oq
u
a
l
i
f
y
yourself as a nice guy and they win.
So again, agree, exaggerate and n
e
ve
rdi
s
a
gr
e
e
.
Th
a
t

sl
i
ket
hef
i
r
s
t
t
h
i
ng
,
do
n
tever try to disagree with any stuff that the girls throw at
you and always agree. Tha
t

sk
i
ndo
ft
h
eway to deal with that
comment.

Facial Expressions
Next I want to talk to you about facial expressions, because reading
female facial expressions is huge!
I want you to put a big focus on facial expressions and being able to
read them, so I want you to start looking to identify what facial
expressions girls use.
If they are listening you should see a smile or at least an openness
of both body posture and a loose, relaxed face.
I
ft
h
e
ya
r
ebo
r
e
d,y
ou
l
ls
e
et
he
i
reyes start to dart around. You
l
l
start seeing facial their expression will melt away into like nothingness.
Arms will be crossed. They
l
lstart to look around, maybe their necks
even turn and their body tension will start to shift.
If a girl is upset,y
ou
l
ls
e
eastraight
e
n
i
ngo
fpo
s
t
u
r
e
.Sh
e

l
lb
er
i
g
i
d
and her facial and hand expressions will point. Yo
u
l
ls
e
efurling of the
b
r
o
wa
n
ds
h
e

l
lenunciate each word.
The more the girls are focusing on the enunciation of their words,
the more pissed off they probably are.
Start paying attention and start cataloging all the facial expressions
that you notice. When you say something insulting, look at the facial
expression. It will look a little like a pull back.
When you compliment a girl and they light up you will see it in her
eyes. Her cheek bones wi
l
lr
i
s
e
.She

l
lsmile, etc.

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So
ony
o
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expressions are going to become really helpful later on. Down the line,
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Little hints like is the girl moving towards you or away from you will
tell you how receptive she is.
You constantly want to condition girls to move towards you and not
away from you, getting her conditioned and used to your touch.
Because the more you touch, the more you pull her into you, the more
comfortable she will be with it.
You want to be aware when a girl moves a
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For the next few months try studying muscular tension. For
example: If you pull a girl towards you a little bit, does she come easily
or is she very hesitant?
When you take a girls hand, does it come palm up or palm down? Is
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what you have to say, or is she leaning away? Does she lean toward her
friend? Do they move towards their friends?
The universal sign that girls are uncomfortable, is they will hug
each other, not like when they first see other, and they go, Oh my God;
when a girl first re-e
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is putting distance between the two of you, or to show y
out
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taken.
Eye contact is another key thing to look out for. Eye contact is
huge! Is a girl keeping eye contact with you most of the time? Is she
looking down at you? Does she ever check you out physically? Is she
looking at other people? Is she looking around the room? What are her
eyes doing? Is she girl-coding her friend?

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Eye contact is what girls will do when they eye-code or when they
girl-code. Basically, s
he

l
lflash looks at her friends, looks that say,

We should go! ... or she may even look where she wants to go. Be
aware of that one. Pay attention when girl-coding is happening. Study
what it looks like. Get an idea and a picture it in your mind.
If a girl is really into you her face will start getting closer to your
face. Try cutting into her facial space, slowly. Put your face side by
side and then judge the results. Does she get uncomfortable and move
away? Does she move closer? Is she comfortable? These are all things
to be looking for. Leaning in or out, t
ouc
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g,whe
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etc. Will help you determine how into you she is.
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Learning to read women is a key to mastering this stuff.
This report covered:

Where the kind of behavior comes from

The social awkwardness
The social hierarchies
The no-responsibility role
How they have to pay lip service to societal thinking
How women are more sexual but they have to hide it because of
rules imposed by men.
How women take social awkwardness and want to constantly
stream up social hierarchies
How all of that relatest
ot
hi
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y

l
ls
a
yt
oy
ou
Ways women act and ways that you can have them comfortable
enough to have sex.

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