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Arguably there has never been a stable human society in which any
institution has been more important to the participants than the family.
Thus China is by no means unique in considering the family important,
and scholars of Chinese life are well served by focusing attention upon
it.
The strong institutionalization
of the family in traditional China
would seem to have made
familism even more central in
that society than in most.
It is not possible to do justice
to the complexity and diversity of
this institution on a simple web
page, but this page attempts at
least to provide a few
coordinating principles and
define a few terms. (Given the state of college teaching about Chinese
society, this web site is probably the only place you will ever have the
Chinese terms revealed to you if you happen to be studying Chinese.
Copy them now!)
Because this page is devoted to the traditional Chinese family
system, I have tended to use the past tense (and the pictures are mostly
from the 1800s). Many of the institutions, beliefs, and values discussed
here are still present in China, but I have preferred to focus on the past
in order to stress traditionalism and to avoid dealing with the
complexities introduced by the modern growth of industries, urban
populations, and foreign influences, especially foreign influences on law.
For the text of the family-related passages of the late imperial legal
code, click here. For underpinnings (or reflections) of family life in the
words used in Chinese philosophy, click here. Occasional additional
links are provided further down the page.
This page uses simplified characters, printed in red. When the
traditional and simplified Chinese orthographies differ, the traditional
equivalents are added in blue.
Page Outline
I.
The Family
II.
III.
IV.
Marriage
V.
Sexuality
VI.
I. The Family
Definition: The traditional Chinese family, or ji (colloquial:
jitng ), called a "chia" by a few English writers, was a
(1) patrilineal, (2) patriarchal, (3)prescriptively virilocal (4) kinship
group (5) sharing a common household budgetand (6) normatively
extended in form.
(It was not the same thing as a descent line, lineage, or clan, all of
which also existed in China.)
This means:
1. Patrilineal
The term means that descent was calculated through men.
A person was descended from both a mother and a father, of course,
but one inherited one's family membership from one's father. China
was extreme in that a woman was quite explicitly removed from the
family of her birth (her ningji ) and affiliated to her husband's
family (her pji ), a transition always very clearly symbolized
in local marriage customs, despite their variation from one region
to another.
Reverence was paid to ancestors (zxin ). For a man this
referred to his male ancestors and their wives. For a woman it
referred to her male ancestors and their wives only a couple of
generations up, but was extended also to all of her husband's male
ancestors and their wives.
In popular belief ancestors depended upon the living for this reverence
(usually seen as provisioning them with sacrificial food, literally
feeding them), and therefore the failure to produce (or, if
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The term means that there was a strongly held preference and
expectation that a newly married couple should live with the
groom's family.
It was considered ideal for all men in a family to marry and bring their
wives to live on the family estate, and for all women born to a
family to marry and go out to live with their husbands. The change
of families was of course a defining event in the life of a woman,
and the traditional, even prescriptive, sentiment was great sorrow
at leaving her girlhood home, only sometimes mitigated by a sense
of adventure or excitement about assuming her new status as
married woman. In some parts of western China there is a tradition
of women's musical lamentations on this theme, and the days
leading up to marriage may be
celebrated with carefully
structured sessions of ritualized
sobbing involving the bride-to-be
and her unmarried friends or
younger sisters.
In actual fact, sometimes a family
lacked the resources to support
additional personnel. A man with
two daughters whose income
derived from carting goods in a
wheelbarrow had little chance of
becoming the head of a unit with
The "kinship" part of this means that members of the family were
related genealogically, i.e. either by having common ancestors or
by being married. The "group" part means that they had known
boundaries and shared activities or resources with each other that
they did not share with outsiders.
This means that the possessions, income, and expenses of all family
members were pooled, and decisions about resource distribution
were the legitimate business of all family members, and were
ultimately taken through the patriarchal authority structure of the
family.
It has been convincingly argued that the common budget is one of the
most important defining characteristics of Chinese families. One
effect of this custom is to define who is in or out of a family by
means other than kinship. Kinship makes one a potential member
of a family. But close kinsmen can be in different families if the
family has decided to stop sharing a budget.
It is possible for the same family budget to be shared by a family that
crosses several households. One can imagine a family with some
This means that it ideally included a descent line of men and their
wives and children. The usual Chinese term was simply "big
family" (dji , colloquial: djitng ). This is more
precise than the popular usage of the term "extended family" in
one father), but there may be many people per generation looking
down (since a person may have many sons).
Dying Out. Another characteristic is that all ancestral generations
successfully produced children that is where I came from but
descending generations may or may not produce sons: any
descent line has the prospect of dying out in the future.
Collateral Lines. Since any man, ancestral or descendant, may have
a brother, and since the brothers of my ancestors are not
ancestors to me, there are any number of "collateral" lines made
up of their descendants. My father's brother's son (my patrilateral
parallel cousin, in anthropological jargon) is a collateral to me
because I have an ancestor (my grandfather) shared with him, but
also a more recent ancestor (my father) not shared with him.
2. A Patrilineal Lineage (or Patrilineage)
Definition. A patrilineage is an organized group of descendants of a
single, specific ancestor. The ancestor is referred to as an "apical"
ancestor because he is at the "apex" of the genealogy by which the
lineage membership is determined, and the descent links to this
person are known (or anyway written in a genealogy where they
can be looked up).
Exogamy. In China, as in other lineage systems, it was (and is)
regarded as incestuous to marry (or mate with) a member of the
same lineage.
Women & Lineages In China a woman is a member of her father's
lineage at birth, but at marriage she is transferred to her husband's
lineage. As noted, cross-culturally this is an extremely unusual
arrangement. One effect of it is that it is usual for all members of
the same family to be members of the same lineage. (In most
lineage systems around the world, members of the same family
belong to different lineages.) Women did not usually participate
very significantly in lineage worship, however, and their level of
interest in lineages was far less than that of men (even though they
cooked the sacrificial food).
Geographical Distribution Lineages were an optional feature of
Chinese social structure. Although every person by definition had a
descent line, organized lineage groups were nearly universal in
some periods and regions (particularly the southern, Cantonesespeaking world), but a rarity in others.
Lineage Property. Where they existed, lineages owned property. In
some cases this consisted of little more than an ancestral hall, or a
few fields that were rented out to provide income used for the
worship of shared ancestors. In other cases lineages had
substantial holdings, and could afford to maintain loan funds,
catastrophe insurance, student scholarships, or even schools for
the benefit of lineage members.
Genealogies. Because lineage membership had potential benefits,
most lineages maintained written genealogies, which began with
their apical ancestor and then included all lines descended from
him. Written genealogies allowed a lineage to be very clear about
who was and who was not entitled to various lineage benefits.
Ancestor Veneration. The prime collective
activity of a lineage was ancestor
worship, and whatever else it did, it
always did this. Many a lineage would
maintain a modest (or occasionally
pretentious) "hall" (tng ) for this
purpose, usually with provision for the
permanent storage of ancestral tablets.
The commonest procedure was for
members to move tablets from family
altars to the lineage hall as the tablets
got older. In some regions there was a
general rule about this tablets over five
generations old would be moved out of private houses and into the
hall, for example. In other regions tablets would be moved in
whenever the hall was rehabilitated. In some cases members who
wanted to put tablets in the hall would pay for the privilege, the
income going to the maintenance of the hall. Not infrequently
tablets were recopied or consolidated under cover terms (like "five
generations") when they were moved to the hall. (The hall altar
shown here is from the Hong Kong Heritage Museum.)
Social Class. Because lineages were based on kinship, and because
different descent lines from the apical ancestor might have fared
differently with the passing of generations, many lineages cross-cut
social classes. To the extent that richer members tended to provide
lineage resources which were used by poorer members, this
tended to recycle wealth and reduce social class difference, but it
also potentially alienated the rich members from the lineages as
these organizations began to be a financial drain. "Anti-poor"
measures sometimes included the payment of fees for the
enjoyment of full lineage benefits.
Lineages & Politics. At times and places where lineages were strong,
they were sometimes charged by the government with local
administrative functions ranging from tax collection to dispute
settlement or defense. There is a tradition of lineages
supplementing their genealogical documents with "family
instructions" (jishn / ), moral injunctions by elderly
members passed down to their descendants, sometimes with rules
for the conduct of lineage business, and often with general
instruction on citizenship and moral behavior.
Lineages lost face if their members engaged in illegal or immoral
acts, and they had provisions both to punish errant members and,
if necessary, to eject members and expunge their names from the
written genealogies.
Lineage Benefits. Lineages sought to promote the welfare of their
members, and since this might be at the expense of non-members,
conflict between lineages was not unusual. In times and places
where lineages have been strong, local warfare has been an
occasional result. Even when open violence does not occur, there
is a tendency for residence with lineage-mates to be more
comfortable when there is inter-lineage tension. The result, even
today, is the existence of single-lineage villages, or villages where
most residents are members of a single dominant lineage.
Lineage Division. Lineages normally could not divide, like families,
but since any ancestor could be taken as the apical ancestor of a
new lineage, the work-around for lineage division was for a
dissident group to contribute property as an endowment of a new
lineage centered on a lower-level ancestor whose descendants
included "the right people" and excluded "the wrong people." When
Lineage B was centered on a genealogically lower apical ancestor
than was Lineage A (that is, when the apical ancestor of Lineage A
was an ancestor of the apical ancestor of Lineage B), Lineage B
was said to be a "branch" (fng ) of Lineage A. (The same
vocabulary is sometimes used of multi-household families.)
Anthropologists sometimes use the term "sublineage" instead.
Lineages in the XXth Century. Lineages have, at least in concept,
been prestigious (except briefly during the Communist period), and
few Chinese willingly concede that the system is not universal in
China, even though it patently is not. In many cases, this derives
from confusing lineages with clans. (See below.) In fact, the
"lineage system" was so frail by the time the Communists came to
power that no official steps needed to be taken to end such
Chinese from north of the Yngzi River into the southern half of
China, and later in the migration of Chinese from China into
southeast Asia and other parts of the world, a fundamental mutualaid device has been the same-surname association.
Clan Ancestor Veneration. Although worship of the putative apical
ancestor occurs in clans, the lack of genealogical records
successfully linking other members and branches to each other
makes more specific ancestor worship less common (even
potentially embarrassing in some cases), and clans are inevitably
centered on the mutual protection and shared risk functions of
lineages more than on ancestor worship.
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IV. Marriage
One does not teach about the traditional Chinese family system to
sexually enthusiastic California college students without being asked
(1) whether the Chinese nation can't be retroactively compelled (perhaps
by armed intervention) to stop using matchmakers and (2) whether there
were homosexual alternatives to married life. The answers are no and
no, in that order. This section elaborates on marriage, the following one
on sexuality.
Arranged Marriage. Traditional Chinese marriage was not the free
union of two young adults to establish a new household. Rather it was
thought of as ideally a union of families of different surnames for the
purpose of providing descendants to one of them (the groom's) and
some level of mutual benefit to both. For practical purposes, it was the
movement of a woman from her natal family (or ningji ) to her
married family and her assimilation into her married family as an
economically productive member of the family corporation and the
mother of her husband's children. (The importance of this "transfer" was
dramatized in an elaborately ritual-encrusted procession of the bride and
her dowry to her new husband's abode. The picture here, probably taken
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standing with his back to us is more likely a son of the family than the
prospective groom.) The artist captures the self-presentation of a
professional matchmaker, who wanted to be seen as accustomed to
associating with high quality people, and hence likely to know many
worthy potential spouses. Although often suspected of lying to clients in
the interest of making a quick "sale," matchmakers were also sometimes
celebrated, the most famous and most sympathetic of them being a
certain Hngning , whose name has become a generic term used
when matchmakers refer to their profession today. (Story link)
(Professional and semi-professional matchmakers still operate today.
A conference paper I wrote on modern matchmakers can be found
elsewhere on this web site. Link)
Age Differences. The ideal age for engagement and marriage has
varied over time and space, although it has nearly always been believed
that the bride should ideally be slightly younger than the groom.
Although data are lacking, it seems likely that competition between
matchmakers could depress the age of engagement in some areas,
sometimes into early childhood, and that socioeconomic stress (war,
famine, or simply the cost of an unexpected funeral) could lead to
deferral of marriage for at least some people.
She fails in the main job for which she was hired.
She is envious.
(jw )
She is talkative.
(dukush )
(This famous list is not always identically worded. This version is from Le P. Guy
BOULAIS 1924Manuel du Code Chinois. Shanghai: La Mission Catholique, p. 301. The
Chinese expressions are not quite those used in the law code, but rather are those used
in an earlier document to which the law code alludes. The differences are trivial.)
Remarriage. Tradi
tional China always
honored "chaste
widows" or
guf / ),
literally "lonely wives,"
who, on the death of a
husband (or fianc),
did not remarry, but
remained attached to
the husband's
household and
continued to serve his
family. An important
consideration was
such a woman's
economic security,
since she was legally entitled to continuing support from her dead
husband's family just as she was obligated to continue her service to it.
In the case of young widows, the practice of remarriage seems to have
been far more common than not, since women who did not remarry after
early widowhood could be honored for this by the erection of stone
"chastity" arches (zhnji pifng / ), some of them
quite elaborate. (The photo here was taken in Schun Province in
about 1911.)
Such a convention was not always comfortable for all parties
concerned. Some law cases turned on efforts by other family members
to eject or marry off younger widows, or to sell them as prostitutes or
servants. Others turned on the "escape" of widows from intolerable
servitude, or their voluntary abduction by lovers. As far as I know, we
lack detailed data on actual practice, but it seems likely that most
younger widows, especially without children, probably did eventually
remarry in most periods (with varying levels of enthusiasm or family
approval), while most older widows probably did not.
Not surprisingly, men were expected to remarry after a decent
interval following the death of a wife if she had not given birth to a son. If
a man already had a son, remarriage was regarded as largely a matter
of his comfort and was left to his discretion. In general, growing old
without a wife was considered a greater tragedy for a man than growing
old as a chaste widow was for a woman, so "re-matchmaking" for elderly
men was probably always a feature of Chinese life, just as it is today.
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V. Sexuality
Traditional Chinese society was as prudish about sex as any other
society, but since the population reproduced itself it is hard to believe
that very many people were fooled by the
rhetoric.
The Confucian view was that sex
properly occurred between married people
and was for the purpose of producing heirs.
Beyond that it was undignified.
The Daoist view was that it was
probably dangerous unless accomplished
using various esoteric techniques (when it
could prolong life).
The Buddhist view was that it tended to distract one from the
business of improving one's karma.
In short, no respectable philosophical school advocated unrestrained
whoopee-making. But, as anywhere else, a lot of whoopee was, of
course, made. (The "coin" shown here purports to be a copy of a late
dynastic brothel token, with suggested sexual positions molded into it.)
Sexual Intercourse. Sexual intercourse was traditionally considered
dangerous for men, since they lost semen, which was identified as a
man's "yng-essence" and was thought to be a non-renewable resource
necessary for life, a belief that is still widespread. (Daoist longevity
exercises involved attempts to avoid ejaculation and instead, through
meditation, to recirculate semen up the spine and into the top of the
head. Appropriately enough, the "god of
longevity" is represented in art with a vertically
elongated head.)
Folklore includes tales of lonely scholars
seduced by maidens who turn out to be yngsucking she-devils, often transformations of
dreaded fairies whose real form is that of a fox. It
is not clear what level of worry the prospect of
losing their yng essence would actually have
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Dngcn Folklore Museum, Shnx Province . (Matchmaker, from a museum
mural.)
Hong Kong Museum of Art. (God of longevity.)
Private collection. (Brothel token.)
Ynchng Municipal Gund Festival, 1992. (Peach Orchard Oath.)