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"The Book of Reincarnations"


Sefer Gilgulim
written by Jonathan Waxman based on the book by

Reb Chaim Vital



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The Talmud relates a true story where Rabbi Yoseph son of Rabbi Yehoshua fainted
and went into the Spiritual World of Souls, he was allowed to take a glimpse at the
Eternal Divine Spiritual World. When he awoke, they asked him "what did you see?"
He said he saw a world that was totally "upside-down" as the great and famous
people are considered unimportant in Spirit World. Whereas some of the poorest and
most unimportant people in this physical world are considered to be the greatest souls
in Spirit World.
He awoke confused, but was assured by Rebi Yehoshua Ben Levi that in fact he had
seen the truth and the true reality of this world and the truth of the Eternal Divine
Spirit World. (Quoted from the Talmud Pesachim
Page 50a).

Appearances are Deceptive in this Physical


World
Without spiritual understanding there are many things that occur in this world that
seem unjust, unfair and simply "not right". Belief in the Eternal Divine Creator of the
Universe - The GOD and belief in an Eternal Spiritual World instills in a
person an acceptance that whatever happens, happens for a specific reason, nothing
happens by accident nor chance.

Therefore when something seemingly unfair and unjust happens, one instinctively
accepts and knows that the perpetrators will not go unpunished, either in this physical
world or eternally in spirit world or their souls will be forced to reincarnate to come
down to earth again to correct the mistakes of their past lives; if one is the victim then
maybe it is you who has needed to experience something unfair in this life to cleanse
your soul from a previous life, therefore making it necessary for one to experience the
pain, learn the lesson, and then learn to forgive which will break the cycle of
reincarnation.

The Books are Balanced Over Many


Lifetimes
The Eternal Divine records known as ( or known as Akashic records) are
records of everything that has happened in past lives and happens in this life. In most
circumstances the "books are balanced" daily or during a single lifetime; however
some situations are simply beyond repair in one lifetime, and therefore a Credit or
Debt is issued over a persons soul.
Such a Credit or Debt, Reward or Pain can only be collected when the person
reincarnates to live life in this physical world. This is the purpose of
"Reincarnation of Souls" - the balancing of the spiritual books.
Nothing happens by "chance" nor "accident" in this world, everything has reason,
therefore if someone has caused you pain and anguish, don't be upset, trust and know
that they will feel that pain and anguish or know that maybe in a previous life you
caused them pain, so now is time to forgive, heal and close that part of your soul that
needs healing from the injustice and pain.

Sefer Gilgulim
The Sefer Gilgulim The Book of Reincarnations and the Shaar Gilgulim
The Gate of Reincarnations are probably the best Jewish Spiritual books
ever written on reincarnation (which we highly recommend you buy and read in the
original hebrew text) these books have been accepted by all sections of the Jewish
communities; both were written by By Reb Chaim Vital from the teachings of his
Rebbe - the Ari Zal, both books explain in depth the spiritual understandings of the
Soul & Reincarnation.
The chapters in www.gilgulim.com have been chosen because of their fundamental
importance in the study of Gilgulim "Reincarnation" intended to be a practical guide
to living a spiritually enlightened and successful life, enabling one to heal past lives,

forgive people as one expects to be forgiven, thereby moving-on to higher levels of


spirituality and most importantly to be able to move-on to the future.
Many people of our generation feel stuck and unable to move-on with life, we
sincerely believe the spiritual explanations of "Sefer Gilgulim" will help everyone's
soul leave the past in the past and move onto a spiritually enlightened brighter future.
We sincerely wish, hope and pray that each and every person who gleans the
knowledge of Gilgulim - Reincarnation from Reb Chaim Vital's wisdom will indeed
find complete success in this physical life, perfecting and cleansing ones spiritual
soul thereby elevating ones soul to highest attainable level in this world which will
last for eternity in Divine Spiritual World Amen .
This new website www.gilgulim.com has the following chapters :Reb Chaim Vital , a history of Reb Chaim Vital
Spiritual Writings of Reb Chaim Vital
Introduction to our website and brief explanation of Sefer Gilgulim
Spiritual Laws and Understanding of the Soul :The Soul , an explanation to the 5 levels contained within each and every persons
soul., Nefesh , Ruach , Neshoma, Chaya and Yechida .
The 7 Stages of Life, explains the stage of life when each of the 5 elements of ones
soul enters ones physical existence.
Meaning of Gilgulim, explains the hebrew meaning of the word , Gilgulim.
Birth & Death , the cycle of life and the journey of the soul .
Guardian Angels , understanding that every person has at least 2 guardian angels
throughout their journey in this life .
Destiny, explains the spiritual fact that one came to earth to experience life and
nothing happens by accident or chance in this life, everything has a reason and
purpose.
Soulmates & Soulgroup'sexplains that in reincarnation, it is vital that ones connects
with souls of ones soulgroup and one soulmate to be able to accomplish ones destined
purpose in life.

3 keys of reincarnation explain the 3 keys that enables one to open doors in ones life
to unlock the blockage that ones soul came to earth to overcome in reincarnation.
Your Soulmate, understanding that you came to earth to be with your soulmate,
everyone has a destined soulmate, your job is to find your soulmate . Every living
creature on earth is only a half of one whole . Every man has his destined woman,
and conversely every woman has her destined man . NO ONE is to remain single, this
is NOT natural and therefore of utmost importance for each person to complete the
tasks they need to complete as a single person for a TIKUN haGILGUL ( means to
clear the past life's situations that need correcting) , and then find one's TRUE
soulmate , and NOT someone else's GOD forbid .
Your home, everyone on earth as a specific place where there soul belongs , by being
in that place on receives ones soul and hence physical nourishment one needs to live .
As a reincarnated soul , one is not always born in the place of one's true place . It is
your job to find that place, by clearing the obstacles out of your life , healing your
soul and succeeding to arrive in your true home where one receives the maximum
"YENEEKA MILMALE" soul sustenance from spirit world . Otherwise
the only other time one can connect with this place is whilst sleeping and traveling
there in "sleep state" to recharge your depleted energies.
Your purpose , the moment you are born , every reincarnated soul has 3 purposes in
life in order to break the cycle of reincarnation; this chapter helps one understand that
the journey of life in terms of a "bigger picture" , this world is simply a learning
school and transition for our soul .
Test & Problems , understanding events that happen in our life for a specific reason,
once we have found the reason the problems and tests are no longer needed; ALL
reincarnated souls are given test and problems for one reason.

Sefer Gilgulim - Understanding


Reincarnation
Spiritual Rules of Reincarnation , understanding that Reincarnation is a gift and
opportunity to our souls to refine, correct and elevate ourselves and our soulgroup in
Gilgul. Understanding that the gift of sensitivity is a gift given to reincarnated souls
to enable one to have success in this life.
Two Pathways, an explanation of accepting that we have a freewill choice in life , and
sometimes there are two correct pathways to the same result .

Side-tracked , an explanation to understanding the difference of being on a destined


pathway and being completely side-tracked , known as our soul in exile .
Transference, understanding the spiritual concept of losing ones Neshoma by
transference and how to cancel this out and regain ones own destined life back again
and return ones own soul to ones body.
Who are you ? , when a person is really lost along the pathway of life, it is an
emergency to understand exactly whom you are to be able to live life properly, Sefer
Gilgulim guides a person at this moment of crisis in identity.
Success , identifying when you have really succeeded in learning your lessons in life ,
and when you have risen to higher levels spiritually and broken the cycle of
reincarnation Tikun HaGilgul.
The Key of Life, an understanding that once one has corrected ones purpose of
reincarnation ones soul is then gifted with the Keys of Life, that is the power of
prayer which will unlock all the closed doors in ones life.
Prepare for the next life , understanding the cycle of life , and refining oneself in this
life is a preparation for spirit world and the next cycle of life .

May GOD Bless and Guide YOU !


These are the initial and most important chapters of Sefer Gilgulim pages for the
internet; We hope to add more chapters next year in 2008, however we strongly
recommend you to read the original Books of Reb Chaim Vital. We sincerely wish
every reader success in breaking the cycle of reincarnation and find a life with
meaning and purpose - Amen !

History of Reb Chaim Vital



1543 - 1620 ( yarzheit 30th Nissan 5380 ) Buried in Damascus - Syria , he lived in
Israel sefad and in Syria . A pupil of the Ari, he was respected worldwide both
ashkanazic and sefardic jews alike . Reb Chaim Vital was the author of many
Kabbalist, Talmudic and Biblical works including Etz Chaim (Tree of Life) on
Kabbala, and Lekutai Torah (Gleanings of Torah) . He had sole possession of the Ari's

writings, and most of our knowledge of the Ari's life and teachings are from Reb
Chaim Vital.

The Disciple
Rabbi Chaim Vital (sometimes referred to as Rabbi Chaim Vital Calabrese, since his
family was from Calabria, Italy) was born 1st Cheshvan in the jewish year 5303 ( that
is 1543 CE ). Rabbi Chaim is renowned primarily as the recorder and editor of the
teachings of Rabbi Yitzchak Luria, although he himself was also an accomplished
kabbalist and writer.
Rabbi Chaim's father, Rabbi Yosef was famed as an expert scribe whose tefillin were
much sought after, having been written in holiness and purity, and with special
kabbalistic intentions. Rabbi Yosef Caro said in the name of his maggid (an angelic
teacher) that half the world existed by virtue of Rabbi Yosef Vital's tefillin. Rabbi
Yosef was born and lived in Calabria until he was given a blessing by the Famous
Rabbi Chaim Ashkanazi and advised to go and live in Zefas - Sefad in Northern
Israel, a village famous for spiritual great leaders whom have lived there ( such as
Rabbi Yonosson - Yonatan - Ben Uziel ). He was blessed that by moving to Israel he
would have a son who will become a very great spiritual Rabbi , and therefore two
year later Reb Chaim Vital was born , named after Reb Chaim Ashkanazi .
Rabbi Chaim studied the revealed aspects of Torah under Rabbi Moshe Alshich, one
of the foremost rabbis in Safed. Rabbi Yosef Caro, at the behest of his maggid,
advised Rabbi Alshich to invest as much effort in his young student as possible, for
he would be Rabbi Caro's successor. Rabbi Chaim studied Kabbala under the leading
kabbalistic luminary in the world at that time, Rabbi Moshe Cordovero (Ramak). One
of the senior kabbalists living in Safed, Rabbi Shabtai Lapidot, recognizing that
Rabbi Chaim was destined for greatness, urged the young man to extract himself
from all worldly matters and devote himself to the study of Kabbala, promising him
that he would reach unimaginably lofty levels.
Indeed, in the year 5329 (1569 CE), at the relatively young age of 26, Rabbi Chaim
began writing a commentary on Zohar, the primary text of Kabbala, according to the
teachings of Ramak. However, by the following year Rabbi Chaim's life took a
completely different direction.
In the year 5330 (1570 CE) Rabbi Yitzchak Luria (the Arizal) came to Safed from
Egypt. Initially Rabbi Chaim was not attracted to the Arizal, but after the passing of
his teacher, Rabbi Moshe Cordovero, he became attached to the Arizal, quickly
becoming his chief disciple. He tells that Ramak appeared to him in a dream a few
months after his passing, and when Rabbi Chaim adjured him to tell him the truth whether they studied Kabbala according to his system or according to the Arizal's in

the Heavenly Academy - his former teacher replied. "Both approaches are true.
However, my approach is the simple one, suitable for beginners in the wisdom of
Kabbala, whereas the teachings of your teacher [the Arizal] are deeper and are the
primary approach. I, too, in the Heavenly Academy, study only according to the
approach of your master."
Rabbi Chaim describes his initiation into the Arizal's new approach to Kabbala as
follows: "When I [first] came to my teacher of saintly memory [the Arizal] to study
this wisdom under him, he was about to leave for Tiberias. He took me with him. We
boarded a boat, and as we were sailing [across the Kinneret] at a point opposite the
arches of the Old Synagogue of Tiberius, my teacher dipped a cup into the water and
gave it to me to drink. He told me that now I would be able to grasp this wisdom [the
teachings of Kabbala] for I had just drunk water from the well of Miriam [which is
buried in the Kinneret]. From that time on I began to enter the depth of this wisdom."
Rabbi Chaim remarked that the works of earlier kabbalists, from after the Ramban
[Nachmanides, 4955-5030 (1195-1270 CE)] until the Arizal, were built on mortal
intellect, whereas the teachings of his master, the Arizal, were revelations received by
the Arizal through Divine inspiration (ruach HaKodesh).
Within a year of his initiation into the Arizal's teachings, Rabbi Chaim had become
famous throughout Israel and the Diaspora as one of the great kabbalists. When the
Arizal passed on in 5332 (1572 CE), a mere two years after Rabbi Chaim had begun
studying with him, Rabbi Chaim was almost universally regarded as his successor.
The Arizal was not accustomed to record his teachings in writing. Many of his
disciples, however, recorded his oral teachings, despite the Arizal's explicit
prohibition to do so. He had given only Rabbi Chaim permission to record his
teachings. After the Arizal's passing, Rabbi Chaim gathered all their manuscripts and
began editing and organizing them. Today these are known as Kisvei Arizal - the
Writings of the Holy Ari.
He began teaching the kabbalistic insights he had received from his master to his
many disciples and thus he became the revered leader of a significant group of
kabbalists. He also gained a reputation as a miracle worker, a healer and a master of
practical kabbala. He was able to discern the nature and history of the souls of men.
As he was able to discern the "root" SHORESH HA NESHAMA - , and
thereby able to fix the soul from above which healed and corrected anything wrong
physically .
In 5347 (1587 CE) Rabbi Chaim was appointed a leading judge in the rabbinical
courts in Jerusalem by his teacher, Rabbi Moshe Alshich. He remained there for
several years and then returned to Safed. He moved to Damascus in 5354 (1594)
where he passed away in 5380 (1620 CE) at the age of seventy-seven.

His Gravestone from Damascus, Syria


Reb Chaim Vital died and was buried in Damascus Syria, his entire grave was moved
from the old cemetery in Damascus to Kiriat Malachi in Israel .

History of Reb Chaim Vital



1543 - 1620 ( yarzheit 30th Nissan 5380 ) Buried in Damascus - Syria , he lived in
Israel sefad and in Syria . A pupil of the Ari, he was respected worldwide both
ashkanazic and sefardic jews alike . Reb Chaim Vital was the author of many
Kabbalist, Talmudic and Biblical works including Etz Chaim (Tree of Life) on
Kabbala, and Lekutai Torah (Gleanings of Torah) . He had sole possession of the Ari's
writings, and most of our knowledge of the Ari's life and teachings are from Reb
Chaim Vital.

The Disciple
Rabbi Chaim Vital (sometimes referred to as Rabbi Chaim Vital Calabrese, since his
family was from Calabria, Italy) was born 1st Cheshvan in the jewish year 5303 ( that
is 1543 CE ). Rabbi Chaim is renowned primarily as the recorder and editor of the
teachings of Rabbi Yitzchak Luria, although he himself was also an accomplished
kabbalist and writer.
Rabbi Chaim's father, Rabbi Yosef was famed as an expert scribe whose tefillin were
much sought after, having been written in holiness and purity, and with special
kabbalistic intentions. Rabbi Yosef Caro said in the name of his maggid (an angelic
teacher) that half the world existed by virtue of Rabbi Yosef Vital's tefillin. Rabbi
Yosef was born and lived in Calabria until he was given a blessing by the Famous
Rabbi Chaim Ashkanazi and advised to go and live in Zefas - Sefad in Northern
Israel, a village famous for spiritual great leaders whom have lived there ( such as
Rabbi Yonosson - Yonatan - Ben Uziel ). He was blessed that by moving to Israel he
would have a son who will become a very great spiritual Rabbi , and therefore two
year later Reb Chaim Vital was born , named after Reb Chaim Ashkanazi .
Rabbi Chaim studied the revealed aspects of Torah under Rabbi Moshe Alshich, one
of the foremost rabbis in Safed. Rabbi Yosef Caro, at the behest of his maggid,
advised Rabbi Alshich to invest as much effort in his young student as possible, for
he would be Rabbi Caro's successor. Rabbi Chaim studied Kabbala under the leading
kabbalistic luminary in the world at that time, Rabbi Moshe Cordovero (Ramak). One

of the senior kabbalists living in Safed, Rabbi Shabtai Lapidot, recognizing that
Rabbi Chaim was destined for greatness, urged the young man to extract himself
from all worldly matters and devote himself to the study of Kabbala, promising him
that he would reach unimaginably lofty levels.
Indeed, in the year 5329 (1569 CE), at the relatively young age of 26, Rabbi Chaim
began writing a commentary on Zohar, the primary text of Kabbala, according to the
teachings of Ramak. However, by the following year Rabbi Chaim's life took a
completely different direction.
In the year 5330 (1570 CE) Rabbi Yitzchak Luria (the Arizal) came to Safed from
Egypt. Initially Rabbi Chaim was not attracted to the Arizal, but after the passing of
his teacher, Rabbi Moshe Cordovero, he became attached to the Arizal, quickly
becoming his chief disciple. He tells that Ramak appeared to him in a dream a few
months after his passing, and when Rabbi Chaim adjured him to tell him the truth whether they studied Kabbala according to his system or according to the Arizal's in
the Heavenly Academy - his former teacher replied. "Both approaches are true.
However, my approach is the simple one, suitable for beginners in the wisdom of
Kabbala, whereas the teachings of your teacher [the Arizal] are deeper and are the
primary approach. I, too, in the Heavenly Academy, study only according to the
approach of your master."
Rabbi Chaim describes his initiation into the Arizal's new approach to Kabbala as
follows: "When I [first] came to my teacher of saintly memory [the Arizal] to study
this wisdom under him, he was about to leave for Tiberias. He took me with him. We
boarded a boat, and as we were sailing [across the Kinneret] at a point opposite the
arches of the Old Synagogue of Tiberius, my teacher dipped a cup into the water and
gave it to me to drink. He told me that now I would be able to grasp this wisdom [the
teachings of Kabbala] for I had just drunk water from the well of Miriam [which is
buried in the Kinneret]. From that time on I began to enter the depth of this wisdom."
Rabbi Chaim remarked that the works of earlier kabbalists, from after the Ramban
[Nachmanides, 4955-5030 (1195-1270 CE)] until the Arizal, were built on mortal
intellect, whereas the teachings of his master, the Arizal, were revelations received by
the Arizal through Divine inspiration (ruach HaKodesh).
Within a year of his initiation into the Arizal's teachings, Rabbi Chaim had become
famous throughout Israel and the Diaspora as one of the great kabbalists. When the
Arizal passed on in 5332 (1572 CE), a mere two years after Rabbi Chaim had begun
studying with him, Rabbi Chaim was almost universally regarded as his successor.
The Arizal was not accustomed to record his teachings in writing. Many of his
disciples, however, recorded his oral teachings, despite the Arizal's explicit
prohibition to do so. He had given only Rabbi Chaim permission to record his

teachings. After the Arizal's passing, Rabbi Chaim gathered all their manuscripts and
began editing and organizing them. Today these are known as Kisvei Arizal - the
Writings of the Holy Ari.
He began teaching the kabbalistic insights he had received from his master to his
many disciples and thus he became the revered leader of a significant group of
kabbalists. He also gained a reputation as a miracle worker, a healer and a master of
practical kabbala. He was able to discern the nature and history of the souls of men.
As he was able to discern the "root" SHORESH HA NESHAMA - , and
thereby able to fix the soul from above which healed and corrected anything wrong
physically .
In 5347 (1587 CE) Rabbi Chaim was appointed a leading judge in the rabbinical
courts in Jerusalem by his teacher, Rabbi Moshe Alshich. He remained there for
several years and then returned to Safed. He moved to Damascus in 5354 (1594)
where he passed away in 5380 (1620 CE) at the age of seventy-seven.

His Gravestone from Damascus, Syria


Reb Chaim Vital died and was buried in Damascus Syria, his entire grave was moved
from the old cemetery in Damascus to Kiriat Malachi in Israel .

Reb Chaim Vital - His kever (tomb) was moved to Kiriat Malachki, photo on the right
is of his grave with thanks to www.thirdtemple.com
The blue strings are "Kedusha- Kever" strings wrapped around the site
These "Kedusha Connection Cords" segments of 100% pure wool ( on Reb Chaim's
Grave the light blue color was designated ) were wrapped around 7 times each of the
kevers of our special holy people, the tzadikim.
As the tradition is to walk around in a counter clock wise direction encircling the
grave 7 times when visiting graves of Holy People . This is done to help to remind
oneself of the person and what they stood for, and to reflect on this physical world is
indeed a journey to take us further spiritually forward to the 7 heavens above . The
colour is usually the colour of their AURA - , the spiritual light / colour that they
saw in their lifetime , and which enveloped them spiritually .

Asking GOD to guide us with all the inner and outer strength to be a true to GOD and
reveal to us our true purpose in this life - in a real material sense just like the spiritual
colours of the rainbow which are constantly revealed to special people into eternity. . Which according to RASHI (Genesis 1), the righteous are able to
see even in this physical world with their "3rd Eye" . ( see more on this with respect
to Yosef - Joseph and his coat of many colours . )

Torah Codes

The 5373 letter of the Torah is a Gimmel, then every 3rd letter spells the hebrew
word GILGUL . The verse is in Genesis Chapter 4 the 2nd to last word in Verse
25; The verse explains that after Cain murdered Abel, because he was Jealous that
Abel's offering to GOD was accepted; Adam and Eve had another child called
"Sheis".
Kabbalah (Sefer Shinuyim) teaches that this "child" Sheis, was the Reincarnated soul
of Abel, hence this soul became the very 1st GilGul in the world. Verse 26 continues
to explain that Sheis prayed to GOD, this teaches that even if a person was murdered
their soul has the gift of reincarnation to live life again to fulfill their true destiny and
purpose in life.
Adam & Eve knew they needed to have their destined child who would to start the
generations of mankind following a correct and good spiritual pathway.



The 3rd letter in the large font in the middle sentence above starts to spell the word
;then take every 3rd letter you get the word . The fact that 5373 letter of
the Torah starts the word GILGIL is no fluke nor accident as Reb Chaim Vital

had collected all his writings and compiled the book Shaar Gilgulim in the Jewish
Year 5373 which was 7 years before he died. Absolutely Amazing ! Ofcourse it is ! It
makes us recognize the enormity and precision of every letter of the Torah and how
everything is written in the Torah, every moment of life on earth - this is truly
DESTINY !

Sefer Gilgulim
But without doubt the most famous and profound book he wrote was Sefer Gilgulim
the Book of re-incarnation .... .
According to Jewish tradition, it has been accepted that only, the most learned and
knowledgable Rabbis can understand the writings of his books at the age of 40 .
However, with a special "Bracha"- blessing, we have undertaken to explain Sefer
Gilgulim in simple terms, as the leading Rabbis of our generation feel that by making
this knowledge available , people will complete their role and fulfil their purpose in
life . With the sincere objective of the ultimate perfection on earth, peace and love
amongst all of humanity with no more wars and hatred, and thereby bringing closer
the time of MOSHIACH .
As Reb Chaim Vital explains , in the times close to MOSHIACH , all the souls on
earth will indeed be reincarnated souls , with the ultimate task of completion and
wholeness of mankind through peace SHALOM - , and love of our neighbours ,
.
Below is a photographs of his hand written script from Sha'ar Ruach HaKodesh
Below the Photograph (on the left) of one of the front cover , first printed Sefer Gilgulim
in Frankfort Germany in the Jewish year 5444 , that is the Year 1684 ce. On the right are
photos of front covers of some of the other books Reb Chaim Vital wrote

The Sefer Shaar Kavonus -


This full Sefer is available free online at with thanks to the Tzaddik, Rabbi Simcha
Halevi Ashlag whose father Reb Yehuda Ashlag , whom wrote an
extraordinary explanation , click on the book to download in pdf format, (it may take
a few minutes as it is 13 MB of 160 pages) or click here if the link does not work
and please be patient for it to download as it takes a few minutes to download
this whole Sefer.

Special Note Kislev 5767 - December 2006

Please note that in the interest of uploading this website - we shall continue adding to
this webpage once we have completely uploaded all our spiritual websites especially
Sefer Shinuyim - the Book of Changes & Sefer Tikunim - the book of Corrections.

Spiritual Writings of Reb Chaim Vital


Without doubt the most famous and profound books he wrote was Sefer Gilgulim the
Book of Reincarnations . and Shaar Gilgulim
Reb Chaim Vital explains, in the times close to the times of Moshiach, the time of
Spiritual Enlightenment at the end of time Moshiach, all the souls on earth will
indeed be reincarnated souls, with the ultimate task of completing to make perfect
and whole all of mankind through peace Shalom - , forgiveness, and love of our
neighbours , .
Below are photographs (on the left) of one of the front covers of the first printed
Sefer Gilgulim in Frankfort Germany in the Jewish year 5444 , that is the Year 1684
ce. On the right are photos of front covers of some of the other books Reb Chaim
Vital wrote.

The Sefer Shaar Kavonus -


This full Sefer Shaar Kavonus By Reb Chaim Vital is available free online at with
thanks to the Tzaddik, Rabbi Simcha Halevi Ashlag whose father Reb Yehuda
Ashlag , whom wrote an extraordinary explanation , click on the book to download
in pdf format, (it may take a few minutes as it is 13 MB of 160 pages) or click here if
the link does not work and please be patient for it to download as it takes a few
minutes to download this whole Sefer.

Introduction to

"The Book of Reincarnations"


Sefer Gilgulim
by Reb Chaim Vital


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The Talmud relates a true story where Rabbi Yoseph son of Rabbi Yehoshua fainted
and went into the Spiritual World of Souls, he was allowed to take a glimpse at the
Eternal Divine Spiritual World. When he awoke, they asked him "what did you see?"
He said he saw a world that was totally "upside-down" as the great and famous
people are considered unimportant in Spirit World. Whereas some of the poorest and
most unimportant people in this physical world are considered to be the greatest souls
in Spirit World.
He awoke confused, but was assured by Rebi Yehoshua Ben Levi that in fact he had
seen the truth and the true reality of this world and the truth of the Eternal Divine
Spirit World. (Quoted from the Talmud Pesachim
Page 50a).

Appearances are Deceptive in this Physical


World
Without spiritual understanding there are many things that occur in this world that
seem unjust, unfair and simply "not right". Belief in the Eternal Divine Creator of the
Universe - The GOD and belief in an Eternal Spiritual World instills in a
person an acceptance that whatever happens, happens for a specific reason, nothing
happens by accident nor chance.
Therefore when something seemingly unfair and unjust happens, one instinctively
accepts and knows that the perpetrators will not go unpunished, either in this physical
world or eternally in spirit world or their souls will be forced to reincarnate to come
down to earth again to correct the mistakes of their past lives; if one is the victim then
maybe it is you who has needed to experience something unfair in this life to cleanse
your soul from a previous life, therefore making it necessary for one to experience the
pain, learn the lesson, and then learn to forgive which will break the cycle of
reincarnation.

The Books are Balanced Over Many


Lifetimes
The Eternal Divine records known as ( or known as Akashic records) are
records of everything that has happened in past lives and happens in this life. In most
circumstances the "books are balanced" daily or during a single lifetime; however
some situations are simply beyond repair in one lifetime, and therefore a Credit or
Debt is issued over a persons soul.
Such a Credit or Debt, Reward or Pain can only be collected when the person
reincarnates to live life in this physical world. This is the purpose of
"Reincarnation of Souls" - the balancing of the spiritual books.
Nothing happens by "chance" nor "accident" in this world, everything has reason,
therefore if someone has caused you pain and anguish, don't be upset, trust and know
that they will feel that pain and anguish or know that maybe in a previous life you
caused them pain, so now is time to forgive, heal and close that part of your soul that
needs healing from the injustice and pain.

"Prayer of Reb Chaim Vital


In the Introduction of Sefer Gilgulim"
"May whoever sees, touches, reads, remembers, talks or thinks about the spiritual
knowledge of Reincarnation of Souls may they never be reborn in unfortunate
circumstances, may they receive only rebirths in situations conducive to the perfect
practice of reincarnation, meet only enlightened spiritual guides, quickly have a
healing, clearance of past lives corrections - Tikun Hagilgul - and immediately attain
enlightenment for the sake of all humanity"

Introduction to Gilgulim - Reincarnation


There are only three reasons why a person reincarnates :1. To correct the past life
2. To elevate the soul to a higher spiritual level
3. To be a leader, a guide and a teacher for other people

And every reincarnated soul is given a special gift of "sensitivity" and "intuition".

The Gift of Sensitivity for "Reincarnated


Souls"
The 7 aspects to understand "sensitivity" from the chapter of "Sensitive Souls", from
Sefer Shinuyim "The book of changes" and Sefer Gilgulim "The Book of
Reincarnations" teaches the importance of knowing what "being sensitive" means and
how to handle this special "spiritual gift" :1. Everyone's soul has chosen the specific level of "sensitivity" one needs during life
and for each stage of change during ones life.
2. Sensitive souls are "OLD" souls reincarnating, the gift of "sensitivity" is a
"spiritual gift" that one has earned in previous lifetimes, and provides a person with
"special" protection during this life.
3. Sensitive souls feel "unsettled" in this physical world.
4. Sensitive souls feel isolated and lonely.
5. Sensitive souls take time to adjust to life on earth, once they learn the spiritual
rules of controlling their "sensitivity" they then have wonderfully productive
fulfilling and happy lives.
6. Success for sensitive souls comes as soon as they make the right connections
spiritually, and keep "closed" to lower souls who are dangerous "freeloaders and
parasites" trying to steal good life energy, by bringing them down to their level and
ruin their souls !
7. Sensitive souls need to keep connected to "LIFE" and "LOVE" and disconnect
from "DEATH" and "HATE", one needs to learn when to be "open" and "closed", so
they can control the energy flow in ones soul through the gift of sensitivity of ones
mind and thoughts.

Introduction
All humans more or less have the same physical characteristics, however the
individuality of each person is identified by the way one THINKS. Ones thoughts and
in particular the gift of SENSITIVITY gives a person the "extra special" Divine help,
to accomplish ones purpose and achieve success in life.

The more "sensitive" a person is, the greater ones potential and ability to succeed.
This is provided one understands the gift of being "sensitive", learning and knowing
when to "open" and "close" the sensitivity, controlling the flow of energy that is given
to a sensitive person by learning to use ones MIND power, and using ones unique
gifts that are contained within the blessing of "sensitivity" correctly, this page will
explain this "gift" of sensitivity.

1. Every person has chosen the specific


level of "Sensitivity" one needs during life
and for each stage of change during ones
life.
Our soul chooses to be "sensitive" before we are born during our childhood, in order
to maximize our potential in this life, and to make 100% certain that we succeed in
"getting it right" by listening to our sensitive feelings, thereby correcting all the
mistakes we have made in previous lifetimes and learn the lessons we wanted to learn
in this life.
The Divine purpose in making a person "sensitive" is in order to ensure that we
follow the correct pathway in life. If a child is told NOT to touch a hot oven and then
touches the oven and gets a "burn", this child's sensitivity is teaching the child NEVER touch burning hot ovens! During childhood our physical senses, parents and
teachers teach us and guide us along a safe pathway for our survival in life.
As we develop during childhood and adulthood, there are unique experiences
applicable to each individual, the ONLY guide we have is the gift of "sensitivity".
When a person uses and "listens" to the sensitivity correctly, and IGNORES all the
people who are giving them bad advice then one can have great success.
Many refer to the "sensitivity" as a strong spiritual connection with ones guardian
angels who are protecting and guiding the individual. However a person perceives
"sensitivity" - it is a gift that is given to each individual in different measures, to help
one make the right decisions and follow the right pathway for each persons
individualistic life.

Everyone is "sensitive" whilst


one is "growing up" or "changing"

Every human-being and animal has a basic sensitivity, that enables them to grow-up
and survive in this world. During life-changing moments in ones life, especially
"mid-life-crisis" moments, divorce or death of a loved one, or any kind of "loss", a
persons soul and mind is made to be "open" and more "sensitive", this is in order that
a person learns and listens to their "sensitivity" in order to make the necessary good
changes in their lives.
Often changes occur just after someone who loves you dies, spiritually this is because
their soul in spirit world WANTS to help you and is trying to guide you along the
correct pathway in life, hence the extra-sensitivity is a GIFT from their soul to you to help YOU.
Many people misconstrue super-sensitive as "bad feelings" that are "attacking" a
person, this is incorrect, there is something that needs changing and these sensitive
feelings are there to help a person to change, so "work" with and don't fight against
these feelings.
Many adults, try to suppress their "uncomfortable" feelings, but in fact these sensitive
emotions are trying to teach a person to CHANGE, and guide a person AWAY from
their current life to a NEW pathway. If the person chooses to ignore and suppress
these feelings, then it often gets worse, until the physical body and soul decides it is
an emergency and a "big sign" is needed to change a person.

Once a person has learnt the lesson


there is no need for "sensitivity"
Once a person has learnt the lesson that they are being guided by their "sensitivity",
then there is no need for the "uncomfortable feelings". If, however a person does not
listen and change, then the uncomfortable feelings persist until a person changes. In
the section of our website called "The Pathway to Enlightenment", outlines the 26
different aspects that a person may need to change to unblock ones life and feel
wholesome.

2. All "sensitive souls" are


wise "OLD" souls reincarnating.

All "Sensitive souls" are "OLD" souls reincarnating, the gift of "sensitivity" is a
"spiritual gift" that one has earned in previous lifetimes, and provides a person with
"special" protection during this life.
Sensitivity is an indication that a person is an OLD soul, the more sensitive a person
is indicative that their soul is very OLD.
In addition to the usual gift of sensitivity of a child, an "old" soul that is returning to
earth to live life again is blessed with the gift of extra special "sensitivity".

"Super Sensitivity"
Most people come to earth to learn the basic lessons of "" , that is:- to have
children, learn to create a life of love, and survival. "OLD" souls have lived and
fulfilled these basic lessons in a previous life, these souls have come to earth for a
specific purpose. A unique role applicable to them, and with a collective purpose to
humanity.
These "old souls" also known as "teachers", are blessed with a "super sensitivity" in
order that they may succeed, this sensitivity gives them special "Protection" to keep
away from "freeloaders", jealous, hateful and "nuisance" people. This gift
"sensitivity" keeps one focused, not being diverted by materialism or mundane
physical pleasures. This makes sensitive people feel very uneasy and uncomfortable
doing anything their soul considers "useless" to the purpose they came to earth to
fulfill.

3. Sensitive souls feel "unsettled"


in this physical world
Sensitive souls feel they do not belong in this physical world, they feel
uncomfortable, unsettled and find it difficult to adjust to this physical world. This is
because they still have deep emotions and memories of previous lifetimes embedded
in their soul. The "older" the soul and further back in history were they have
originated from the more unsettled they will feel in this life.
In the understanding that "sensitive souls" are reincarnated souls, this means that they
have lived many years ago in a different place and certainly very much "differently"
than our modern generation. If you imagine how an african who lives without
electricity would cope if they suddenly woke up in Manhattan New York during "rush
hour" !!! Conversely if we woke up in a world without computers, electricity or

running water !!! Now think how a wise old soul who lived 2000 years ago would
manage if they would be born in our generation !
It would take a lot of time to "acclimatize" to this physical world, whilst still trying to
remain focused on the specific purpose of their reincarnated life, without being side
tracked, distracted or diverted by "modern life's temptations" or bad advice from nonspiritual distractions.
All sensitive souls feel "unsettled" in this physical world, as their souls have spent
more time in the truthful open "spiritual" world, than they have done in this physical
world which contains a lot of "deceit". Naturally these "old sensitive souls" feel more
at home in the spiritual world, however once and ONLY when these souls start to
connect with other "old souls" and start to accomplish the purpose they came to earth
to fulfill, then they will feel at peace with themselves.
Until that time comes, these "sensitive souls" simply need to learn how to be
"Closed" (both physically and spiritually in ones mind and thoughts) to external
draining influences that cause the soul a loss by "Transference" with interaction with
"freeloaders" who give them "bad feelings".
(What are "freeloaders"? - As we explained on the RESCUE souls page, "freeloaders"
are earthbound souls after they have died, however, as we in the next paragraphs,
there are bad people who still alive and are called "freeloaders", freeloaders look as
though they are physically alive - but their souls inside are "DEAD", they have no
connection with creative loving life energy, as they are full of hatred, fear and
destruction, such people are annoying as they have ruined their own lives and their
aim and desire is to destroy and ruin other peoples lives.)

4. Sensitive souls feel isolated and lonely


"Sensitive souls" as they are "old souls" usually feel isolated and alienated from most
people of their generation. Even in large crowds of people, they find very few people
with whom they can really "connect" with. This is especially important for parents
and "sensitive" children to realize, that if a sensitive child doesn't integrate well at
school, with children of their own age, it is NOT a sign that there is something
"wrong" with the child, to the contrary - it is simply the child has the soul of old
reincarnated wise person who has nothing in common with other children.
Once such a sensitive child realizes, the power of his/her soul, then this child should
be channeled to learn to use their sensitivity at a young age to try and identify what
their skills are from previous lifetimes. This is the reason why religious jewish
children learn hebrew at a young age of 5, "hebrew" is the reconnection with the
mother-tongue of jewish souls, which reconnects the child's soul and brings them

"alive". All "jewish" souls have an immediate ability to the hebrew language, it
comes very easily to true jewish souls, as it is embedded within the souls memory.
Once this door to the soul is opened, this easily allows the mind to be opened to all
knowledge and spiritual energy.

All "sensitive children" have a gift


Likewise, all "sensitive children" will find something that they are very gifted and
learn very quickly, it maybe a language like hebrew or french, a science such as
astronomy, astrology or maths, knowledge of the bible, history, (old books which
remind them of the past lives), or artistic drawing or creative writing abilities or
playing a musical instrument etc.,
It is the duty of good responsible parents to try and help their sensitive children
"unlock" their past, and find these gifts. This will instantaneously bring their soul
"alive" and help guide their soul to their correct pathway. Once they are connected
with their purpose the feelings of isolation and alienation dissipate, as the doorway in
their soul is opened and now they will start to connect with good people, who are all
part of their destiny.

5. Sensitive souls take time to adjust


Sensitive souls take time to adjust to life on earth, once one learns the spiritual rules
of controlling "sensitivity" one will have wonderfully productive fulfilling and happy
lives.
These simple rules are (1) to be aware and understand the concept of the soul, (2)
understand that there is a "bigger" picture of life in this physical world and spiritual
world than we see with our eyes, (3) understand that everything that happens in a
persons life is controlled by ones mind and thoughts, learn to use ones mind
effectively and think for oneself, (4) learn how to keep "Closed" to freeloaders and
not allow oneself to be side-tracked or easily influenced by the wrong people, (5)
understand that ones mood is susceptible to "change" by external influences, so
ensure that one does not lose ones energy in a loss by "transference", (6) keep
focused that one has been blessed and one has a specific role in life to accomplish
with ones gifts.
Once a person recognizes these facts and lives with the understanding that they have
a specific and unique purpose, which is part of a divinely planned and destined
pathway, then "sensitive" souls gain a self confidence (without being "proud and
arrogant"), then always have wonderful purposeful enlightened lives, in spite of

having "setbacks" in early life, that are usually caused by freeloaders taking
advantage and abusing the goodness of sensitive people.
Sensitive souls take longer than most people to adjust to this physical world, they
may mature later than most people, and "late developing" is perfectly normal.
According to the Talmud, sensitive souls usually only marry and "find loving
soulmate" after the age of 30 or even 40 like the famous Rabbi Akiva who married at
40. Until this age they need the freedom to use their minds to learn and develop their
spiritual gifts, being married with children would "disturb" their souls pathway, so
inherently they are "late-developers". This is perfectly normal, hence it is vital that
"sensitive souls" NEVER to compare themselves to other people !

6. Success for sensitive souls as soon as one


makes the right connections spiritually
As with all reincarnated souls success and a sense of "life energy" and vitality ONLY
comes when one makes the right connections with the right destined people and
places. The gift of super sensitivity gives a person the intuitive "feeling" that a
particular place, people and events in ones life are 100% correct, even if "other"
people think you are wrong. It is up to you to trust your spiritual guidance and have
confidence in your feelings of sensitivity instead of listening to other people.
This spiritual guarantee for "sensitive souls" is this KEY to life, once the correct
connections are made, then "magically" good things happen for the person, as signs
that this is the correct course in life, coupled with a sense of knowing that this new
pathway is the right destined pathway. Until the correct pathway is taken - then there
will be blockages, depression and failures, all these are signs of guidance to ensure
that one feels unsettled and "not at peace" until one is one the right pathway.
Ofcourse one has the freewill choice to "Block Success" or even if one tells the
wrong people, these "destructive people" can cancel out the potential, until one learns
Closure from these people and STOP being drained in any loss by "Transference".
Only YOU can feel what you are feeling, and instinctively and spiritually your soul
will know what to do ! Even if one resists changes, life will stagnate or "go round" in
circles until one gets it right !

7. Keeping connected to LIFE


and disconnect from DEATH

Sensitive souls need to keep connected to "LIFE" and "LOVE" and disconnect from
"DEATH" and "HATE", they need to learn when to be "open" and "closed", so they
can control the energy flow in their soul through their sensitivity.

Who is "Alive" & Who is "Dead" ?



"Good souls when they die are in fact alive"

"Bad souls when they are alive are in fact dead"
Defining and categorizing everything into "life" and "death", is intrinsically vital so
that we can remain energized with the good life-giving creative energy of GOD
which is LOVE. We explain this further on the page of Protection . This is the reason
why spiritually sensitive people visit the gravesites of good people and peaceful
spiritual cemeteries and famous rabbis whose souls are ALIVE and continue to help
from spirit world.
Everyone and especially sensitive souls are constantly interacting and sensing
everything around them, it is vital that we connect only "life" and "love" energy. If a
person senses or feels drained this is a sign that the person, place or energy of ones
activity is "dead" energy. KEEP CLOSED and GET AWAY from such DEAD energy.

Conclusion
We have explained the importance of the gift of sensitivity in the introduction page of
this website www.gilgulim.com as this is going to be your fundamental inner tool to
help guide you to understand why you were born and what it is your soul came to this
earth to accomplish.
The "Gift of Sensitivity" to all reincarnated souls is the greatest gift one can have and
it will help you to solve the mystery of your life; your own inner feelings will help
you answer the reason why things have happened in your life and what it is that you
need to do to make your life a success.
With this introduction now we shall now explain the 5 elements and levels of one
SOUL and the 7 stages of life .

Special Note Kislev 5767 - December 2006


Please note that in the interest of uploading this website - we shall continue adding to
this webpage once we have completely uploaded all our spiritual websites especially
Sefer Shinuyim - the Book of Changes & Sefer Tikunim - the book of Corrections.

Understanding the Levels of the Soul


from "The Book of Reincarnations" by Reb Chaim Vital

The Soul and Belief in GOD


Believing or not believing in GOD - Thankfully in our generation more than in any
other generation we have the freewill choice as to believe or not believe; in the past
generations religious leaders brainwashed the population, and in many cases punished
violently the non-believers. Hence these irresponsible leaders caused a backlash of
rebellion against traditional man-made religious laws and the man-made "religions".
It is inconceivable to understand that anyone can force someone to believe in GOD.
This freewill choice enables a person to think for themselves and use the power
within ones own mind, thoughts and soul to come to the same conclusions as many
other spiritually enlightened souls. The journey and pathway to "finding GOD" and
"finding ourselves spiritually" in that we all contain a powerful spiritual soul within
our physical existence is as amazing as the number of souls that live on this planet.
Belief in an Eternal Divine Spiritual Creator of the universe and belief in
a SPIRIT world is an inner personal experience. Each and every individual has their
own unique feelings, experiences and beliefs.
There are 3 basic guidelines, given by the good spiritual leaders to help each
individual explore their own beliefs by themselves as we explained in the page on
"Soul & Belief" from HeavensRegister website.

#1. Awakening your spirit within you - by looking at the Stars in the sky at night and
looking at the beauty of nature, the trees, plants and flowers .
#2. Awakening ones belief in a soul and spiritual world . This occurs when someone
you love dies and passes over to spirit world . Every single person in the world knows
and loves someone, at some stage of their life who dies . This connection and
continual process of life connects all the generations and spirit souls.
#3 Awakening the depths of love everyone has hidden and suppressed well springs of
LOVE and creative loving energy deep inside . The opening up of true unconditional
wellsprings of LOVE within ones soul, connects each person directly with the
creative energy of this world - GOD . Feeling and expressing LOVE, connects one
with life energy of GOD . Where there is love there is GOD, and where GOD is there
is life, vitality, happiness, faith, hope and peace .

Only When a Person has Found the


Inner Spiritual Feeling & Belief in Spirit
World
It is only when a person really and truly believes in an Eternal Divine Spiritual World
and simply "knows" of the existence of a spiritual soul from within ones mind,
thoughts and soul that one can start the journey to understand "Reincarnation"- the
journey of ones soul, from where one has come and to where one is going.

The Awakened Soul



The first questions one will be puzzled by when trying to understand the concepts and
existence of soul (commonly referred to in Jewish teachings as a Neshoma ), is
what is a soul ? Where is it ? How can we quantify it ? All of these questions puzzle
everyone. The soul, just like belief in GOD, is a feeling and awareness that each
individual develops for themselves at a destined and specific time.
Reb Chaim Vital in the Book of Reincarnations explains that our physical and
spiritual aspects coexists together. It is clear to everyone exactly where our physical
body is located, however our soul can exist in and out of our physical body; it's
energy ascends and transcends into our physical presence but can also be in two or
many places at the same time, depending one where our thoughts are focused.

Or rephrased more accurately the "Nefesh Soul" aspect of our soul can be in our
physical body whilst the "Yechidah - Oneness" aspect is together at One with GOD
and spirit world, meanwhile all the other aspects in between can be almost anywhere
else; the most centered of spiritually enlightened people have all the aspects in
control in the place where they want them, whether it be in this physical existence or
in the spiritual realms.

Every Living and Non Living Entity in this


Universe has a Soul
Every living and non living entity in this Universe has a soul, NOTHING physical
can exist without a spiritual soul energizing and connecting it with the Eternal Divine
Spiritual realms. This includes absolutely EVERYTHING; mountains, clouds, rocks,
trees, flowers even a blade of grass, and the minutest of ants etc.,
This is one of the spiritual reasons that the Torah - Bible forbids destroying fruit trees,
as indeed the person who cuts down a fruit tree is murdering a spirit soul, that was
designated by GOD to provide its fruits to mankind. The levels of spiritual soul
existence will vary in each group as follows:-

The 5 Levels of Created Existence


1. Inanimate objects like a stone or crystal rocks, mountains, the seas, and the
sky, in fact everything that was created on Day 1 & Day 2 of the Creation of the
Universe as written in Genesis Chapter 1.
2. Vegetation, plants, trees and everything that grows, everything created on Day
3 of Creation of the Universe as written in Genesis Chapter 1.
3. Living creatures, animals, birds, insects and everything living as created on Day
5 of Creation of the Universe as written in Genesis Chapter 1.
This level of existence the animal kingdom that breathes, moves on the earth and
needs to move in order to survive on this planet. The aim of this group is survival and
is constantly searching for ways to feed each day. It has the occupation in populating
and reproducing itself .
4. All humans beings in the world that have the gift of speech.
The basic human population has the same earthly animal level, which is here to learn
lessons of survival and repopulating itself , but does have the intrinsic
potential to elevate the soul to having a purposeful life of the next category :-

5. Spiritually enlightened and blessed humans that have used and do use the
power of speech wisely (the power of Ruach) are then blessed with the existence
of a higher level of Neshoma Soul to be able to have higher purposeful life for
sake of the existence of the world and of mankind.
The highest level in this physical world attainable is called , this is attributed to
someone who has higher goals in life. A person whose life has a higher purpose other
that survival and repopulation, who lives in service of GOD or service to mankind.
With the objective to making this world a better place.
Such people are selfless and are constantly finding different ways to be of service to
GOD and to humanity. This group know and believe in GOD and an eternal Divine
spiritual world; they live in this world with inner peacefulness and glow of spiritual
radiance knowing that this physical world is merely a short journey for ones soul.
The levels 3, 4 & 5 of created existence are reflected in the aspects and facets of the
Spiritual Soul as follows :-

5 Aspects of the Spiritual Soul within each


Person
1. Nefesh is the "Earthly Soul"; every Living creature (Level 3 above) contains
a Nefesh.
Every living creature, animal and human has a "Nefesh Earthly Soul", this gives
the body the natural instincts to eat sleep and the sexual desire to reproduce, the
"Nefesh Earthly Soul" is the key for survival and continuity of living life and
humanity.
A persons "Nefesh Earthly Soul" arrives in this physical world with ones
conception, during the act of love of ones parents; "Nefesh Earthly Soul"
transcends down from spirit world through the fathers soul into the mothers body.
Sefer Raziel at www.raziel.info explains in astrological terms that the astrological
energy within ones "Nefesh Earthly Soul" is influenced by the time of conception
(and NOT the time of birth as non-jewish / spiritual astrologers believe).
2. Ruach is the "Spirit Soul" in breathing humans and animals, (Level 3&4
above), this explains the principle that humans can reincarnate as animals, especially
where they need to correct the facet of Ruach as explained 3 keys of
Reincarnation page.

3. Neshoma is the Soul that is in the breathe of life for humans; this aspect of
the soul is fully awakened spiritually; aware of all the profound consequences of ones
actions, words and thoughts. One who thinks with ones " Neshoma Soul" is
living life with a purpose, goal, ambition and has an inner driving motivation of
yearning for something special. This inner yearning is the yearning of ones Soul
Neshoma for a stronger and closer connection with GOD and a desire for spiritual
enlightenment.
4. Chaya is the Souls Life-Giving energy, the spiritual quality of the 4th Level of
ones Soul " Chaya" is where one acts as a channel to bring down spiritual "LifeGiving" energy from the realms of the spirit world to his physical world, this level is
called " Chaya" which means Life, as without this flow of spiritual energy there
would be no life on earth.
The sources and people with this aspect of spiritual soulful energy of "Life
Chaya" are throughout the whole world and act in pure idealistic selfless service to
the Divine Creator of the whole infinite Universe for the benefit of mankind and in
service of GOD.
5. Yechida Oneness is the Souls desire to be at ONE with GOD, this is the souls
existence of Oneness and wholesomeness with the Eternal Divine Universal GOD.
We explain on the page of Spiritual Laws and Rules of Reincarnation the
understanding and ability to move between theses 5 levels of ones Soul (with sources
and explanations including the original hebrew text from Shaar Gilgulim
) .

Appearances Are Deceptive


There Could be a Great Soul in Anything or Anyone
As explained on the home and introduction page of this website, this world is full of
deceptive appearances; we may never know how great a soul there maybe in anyone
or anything we see around us through our physical eyes; that is why the greatest
spiritually minded people such as the Ari Zal and Reb Chaim Vital taught the
importance of respecting everything and everyone, even plants, flowers, trees, birds
and animals, as there could be a very great soul inside.
We explain on Spiritual Laws and Rules of Reincarnation a great soul may only need
to reincarnate as a tree or animal to make a correction for their soul; hence the saying
that fish contain the souls of righteous people .

When a person indeed thinks carefully that there could be a great soul in anything or
anyone, one will never ever make the foolish mistake or being arrogant, snubbing
lesser people or judging anyone, Reb Chaim Vital emphasizes many times in his
books that it is NOT for us to judge anyone.
Reb Chaim Vital explains this further that one shouldn't even judge anyone even
those who seemingly don't believe in GOD, in a soul or in spiritual afterlife. After all
we don't judge cats or dogs who can't say whether they believe in GOD or not; it is
simply the facet of their souls existence in this world which doesn't give them the
element of expression nor spiritual understanding.
By thinking and respecting everything in the world, one will come closer to GOD;
recognizing with love and compassion that we are all creations of GOD with a
spiritual soul within.

The 7 Stages of Life


The next stage of understanding life and the Soul before we come to understanding
Gilgulim "Reincarnation" is to understand the 7 stages of life ; all the segments and
periods of life we have as humans.

The Soul and Belief in GOD


Believing or not believing in GOD Thankfully in our generation more than in
any other generation we have the freewill
choice as to believe or not believe; in the
past generations religious leaders
brainwashed the population, and in many
cases punished violently the non-believers.
Hence these irresponsible leaders caused a

backlash of rebellion against traditional


man-made religious laws and the man-made
"religions". It is inconceivable to understand
that anyone can force someone to believe in
GOD.
This freewill choice enables a person to think for themselves and use the power within
ones own mind, thoughts and soul to come to the same conclusions as many other
spiritually enlightened souls. The journey and pathway to "finding GOD" and "finding
ourselves spiritually" in that we all contain a powerful spiritual soul within our physical
existence is as amazing as the number of souls that live on this planet.
Belief in an Eternal Divine Spiritual Creator of the universe and belief in a
SPIRIT world is an inner personal experience. Each and every individual has their own
unique feelings, experiences and beliefs.
There are 3 basic guidelines, given by the good spiritual leaders to help each individual
explore their own beliefs by themselves:-

#1. Awakening your spirit within you - by looking at the Stars in the sky at night and
looking at the beauty of nature, the trees, plants and flowers.
#2. Awakening ones belief in a soul and spiritual world. This occurs when someone
you love dies and passes over to spirit world. Every single person in the world knows
and loves someone, at some stage of their life who dies. This connection and continual
process of life connects all the generations and spirit souls.
#3 Awakening the depths of love everyone has hidden and suppressed well springs of
LOVE and creative loving energy deep inside. The opening up of true unconditional
wellsprings of LOVE within ones soul, connects each person directly with the creative
energy of this world - GOD. Feeling and expressing LOVE, connects one with life
energy of GOD. Where there is love there is GOD, and where GOD is there is life,
vitality, happiness, faith, hope and peace.

1. Awakening Your Spirit


Lift Up Your Eyes Towards the Heavens,


and Look "Who Created These Stars" ?
Throughout the bible - "Torah", it is
suggested for everyone to look at the Moon
and the Stars in the heavens above at
nighttime . There is something
extraordinary about looking at the beautiful
sky on a clear night - especially the
beautiful moon.

You will feel some spiritual energy when


you look at the stars and the moon in the
sky. Your soul will be awakened. Just try it
and see, it is truly awe inspiring and
amazing, no-one can tell you how or what
you will feel, as each person is as unique as

a star in the heavens above, but it is


guaranteed that you will start to feel
something special and unique . For
thousands of years, millions of people have
looked at the stars at night, and have always
felt an inexplicable spiritual feeling .
From the first time noted in the Torah, of Abraham until the last generation of Rabbis,
like Rabbi Avigdor Miller of Ocean Parkway, New York, have always emphasized the
importance of looking at the stars at night .
Looking at websites like the NASA website, taking a tour of our solar system on their
website, may also give you a similar feeling. But there is nothing that compares to
looking at the stars in the sky at night with your own eyes.
As your eyes are the physical windows of your soul, by looking and connecting the
energy that is emitted from the moon and stars, a spiritual energy of wisdom and
understanding arrives in your soul .

Image reproduced by Courtesy of NASA


Similarly looking at photos of planet earth from one of the many satellites is as awe
inspiring . This photo is of Europe at sunset - its amazing to think that you are looking at
an area with over 1000 million people, and with so much activity, as the sun is setting for
another day.

As your eyes are the physical windows of your soul, by looking and connecting with the
energy that is emitted from the moon and stars in the sky at night, a spiritual energy of
wisdom and understanding arrives in your soul .

2. Awakening a Belief in a Soul & Spiritual


World

Our soul - the Neshoma ( ) , what is it ?
where is it ? how can we quantify it ? all of
these questions, only YOU can answer
yourself. The soul, just like belief in GOD,
is a feeling and awareness that each
individual develops for themselves at a
destined and specific time.
THE MOMENT of DEATH
"The Key" and the moment one really
becomes aware, starting to understand the
existence of a soul, is when someone you
love and someone who loves you, dies.
Have you ever been with someone at the moment they die ?

At the moment of death, the person usually


gives a few deep gasps of breath and their

eyes open wide, like they suddenly have


come alive with new vitality, they see
something with their eyes opened wide, and
then they die. From everyone whom has
been with someone at the moment of death,
they will tell you the experience is the same.
This is "the moment of death experience".
Looking at the body after death, and
knowing the person when they where alive,
is one of "life's experiences", it makes
everyone think and feel that the body is not
just a physical body, but a home to
something more - like a soul. Then it arrives
- at that moment - an intrinsic belief in some
type of life-after-death spirit world.
During a normal persons life, one will have
this opportunity of spiritual awakening
several times. We all have and know
someone older than us whom we love - who
dies. Many people will tell many stories of
how they came to be with their loved one at

the hospital just moments before they die.


This is no coincidence, it is spiritual destiny
for your soul.
This is the connection of continuity of life.
They have passed to spirit world and with
the bond of love, one is connected eternally,
the stronger the love the more spiritual
experience. For those people whom have
felt a panic feeling after someone they love
has died, then please see the page on spiritual rescue work,
to comprehend those feelings.
The Spirit World is all Around
Hence clairvoyants, astrologers, palmists
and mediums have always been popular, as
they help us to try to understand ourselves
and re-affirm our belief that there is lifeafter-death.
As for the Jewish belief, may we suggest
you read the article on re-incarnation of
souls, taken from the Book of reincarnation by Rabbi Chaim

, one will learn to understand that a


persons soul contains many levels, some of
which exist in the physical body, some
hover around the person's body in one's
AURA, and some vibrate on a higher
frequency in SPIRIT world.
Vital

The Spirit world is simply a world of spirit


souls that surrounds us in harmony with this
physical world, but on a different vibration.
In a similar way that we know the
atmosphere around us is full of
electromagnetic frequencies of airwaves,
anything from television airwaves and radio
waves to mobile phones all those signals are
transmitted in the air around us on different
frequencies.
Similarly spirit souls and Divine energy is
all around us vibrating of higher energies
and frequencies. Spiritually sensitive people
will in fact see the pure spiritual souls and
energy with their 3rd eye in the form of

colours, usually purple, pink, green or as a


wholesome golden colour.
Which brings us to our next page SPIRIT &
GUIDANCE communicating and interacting with
spiritual energy and our guardian angels that
are close to us and surrounding us .
Only When a Person has Found the
Inner Spiritual Feeling & Belief in Spirit
World
It is only when a person really and truly believes in an Eternal Divine Spiritual World
and simply "knows" of the existence of a spiritual soul from within ones mind, thoughts
and soul that one can start the journey to understand "Reincarnation"- the journey of
ones soul, from where one has come and to where one is going.

The Awakened Soul



The first questions one will be puzzled by when trying to understand the concepts and
existence of soul (commonly referred to in Jewish teachings as a Neshoma ), is what
is a soul ? Where is it ? How can we quantify it ? All of these questions puzzle everyone.
The soul, just like belief in GOD, is a feeling and awareness that each individual
develops for themselves at a destined and specific time.

Reb Chaim Vital in the Book of


Reincarnations explains that our physical
and spiritual aspects coexists together. It is

clear to everyone exactly where our


physical body is located, however our soul
can exist in and out of our physical body;
it's energy ascends and transcends into our
physical presence but can also be in two or
many places at the same time, depending
one where our thoughts are focused.
Or rephrased more accurately the "Nefesh Soul" aspect of our soul can be in our physical
body whilst the "Yechidah - Oneness" aspect is together at One with GOD and spirit
world, meanwhile all the other aspects in between can be almost anywhere else; the most
centered of spiritually enlightened people have all the aspects in control in the place
where they want them, whether it be in this physical existence or in the spiritual realms.

Every Living and Non Living Entity in this


Universe has a Soul
Every living and non living entity in this Universe has a soul, NOTHING physical can
exist without a spiritual soul energizing and connecting it with the Eternal Divine
Spiritual realms. This includes absolutely EVERYTHING; mountains, clouds, rocks,
trees, flowers even a blade of grass, and the minutest of ants etc.,
This is one of the spiritual reasons that the Torah - Bible forbids destroying fruit trees, as
indeed the person who cuts down a fruit tree is murdering a spirit soul, that was
designated by GOD to provide its fruits to mankind. The levels of spiritual soul
existence will vary in each group as explained in the Book of Reincarnation Sefer
Gilgulim, in the section 5 levels of existence.

3. Awakening The Depths of


Love

From conception, birth and early childhood,


all existence is based on constant LOVE
and life energy of love. Depending on the
concentration of creative LOVE energy, will
give the physical and spiritual soul the
energy and strength to grow. As a person
matures, the natural transition of any normal
person is to reverse the role of receiving
love into one of giving love and creating a
loving energy.
Sadly some people never "mature", and
expect to keep on receiving and stealing
energy from others instead of giving and
creating love/life energy.
The awakening of ones soul begins when
one learns to truly love. Everyone has
within ones soul an infinite wellspring of
love. The opening up of true unconditional
wellsprings of love within ones soul
connects each person directly to the purest
of creative energy of this world, a strong

connection that makes one fall in love with


life and fall in love with love energy with
spiritual love and appreciation for GOD.
Feeling and expressing love, connects one
with life energy of GOD. Where there is
love there is GOD, and where GOD is there
is life, vitality, happiness, faith, hope and
peace.
From conception, birth and early childhood,
all existence is based on love and the
creative life energy of love. This
concentration of love, gives the physical
and spiritual soul the energy and strength to
grow. As a person matures, the natural
transition of any normal person is to reverse
the role of receiving love into one of giving
and creating love energy with ones parents,
siblings, friends and family, with genuinely
nice people one meets every single day and
ofcourse the greatest love of all is with ones
true soulmate.

The moment one begins to generate an


energy of love is the moment ones soul is
awakened. Only an awakened soul can truly
love. The wellsprings of love are deep
within everyone's soul, once a person has
matured and learnt how to love one has then
truly mastered the key of life and unlocked
a door forever.
When we live with unconditional love, we
are filled with life energy and vitality, this
feeling of aliveness is like a flowing river of
continuous loving Godly life energy. In the
same way we were conceived with the
LOVE energy of our parents, then
throughout all our lives, our vitality and
energy is only maintained through the
creative LOVE energy we generate each
and every day. Without thoughts of love in
our lives we are sleeping, only thoughts of
love have the power to awaken our soul.
Giving and Creating LOVE Energy

This transition and transformation of ones


personality and of ones thoughts, comes
with age and maturity. When one matures,
one recognizes that LOVE energy is not
something that is in short supply, but indeed
is an energy that can be created abundantly.
Ones loving thoughts create a strength and
energy for ones soul. The more loving
thoughts one has, the more life energy and
vitality is created. People who are sad,
depressed, jealous and hateful are simply
blocking their own potential, by suppressing
their true potential of loving creative energy.
The wellsprings of love are deep within
everyone's soul, once a person has matured
and learnt how to give love and create a
loving energy, one has then truly mastered
the key of life and unlocked a door forever
(unless one foolishly closes this loving
energy by becoming sad and depressed).
Throughout life, there is a natural urge to

build on this loving creative energy,


becoming even more kind, generous and
loving, with a selfless desire to marry and
have children, and helping as many people
as one can in all kinds of situations.
LIFE of LOVE
The aim of this God-given gift called LIFE,
is to use and develop our individual and
collective spiritual energy towards a true
spiritual selfless service and unity with
GOD, then there will be only peace LOVE
and harmony on earth. No-one will ever
want, and all our needs will be provided for,
by nature and earth. Greed, hatred and
jealousy are destructive forces that corrupt
our souls and cause death.
When we live with unconditional love, we
are filled with life energy and vitality, this
feeling of aliveness is like a flowing river of
continuous loving Godly life energy. In the
same way we were conceived with the

LOVE energy of our parents, throughout all


our lives, our vitality and energy is ONLY
generated and motivated through the creative
LOVE energy we generate, through love of
life, love of our soulmates, parents,
children, friends, and the love of our
purposeful life in selflessly helping other
people. Without LOVE in our lives we are
DEAD .
LIFE versus DEATH ; LOVE versus
HATE ;
There are many reincarnated souls of "complaining"
people who have had experiences in life, but
instead of learning and changing their
attitude, they chose to COMPLAIN,
blaming others, with hateful and bitterly
negative thoughts. They poison and fill
themselves with jealousy and hatred, instead
of using nice loving constructive words.
They are the type of people who criticize
and destroy others with their gossip and

slander. Hence, they cause their own death


and create even more problems, as they are
suppressing their love energy and blocking
their own life vitality, such people get
further "side-tracked" because of their bad
attitude and complaining.
If only - they would change their attitude,
stop complaining and start THANKING
GOD for the gift of life and all the
wonderful experiences available to each and
everyone of us, like watching a beautiful
sunrise or sunset, looking at the beauty of
the stars and moon at night, or seeing the
natural beauty in green trees, plants,
flowers, fruit and vegetables.

Wake-Up !
In the book Chovos halevovos Shaar
Bechina - , known
in English as the book "Duties of the Heart"

by Rabeinu Yosef Ibn Paquida, teaches that


to awaken oneself spiritually especially if
one feels tired, lethargic and sleepy during
the day, one should immediately focus ones
thoughts on love. The greatest and purest
love is the love of GOD and love of life.
Thank GOD with love for this opportunity
to experience this amazing journey of life
on planet earth, with especial thanks for the
radiant variety of beautiful colours of the
fruits, plants, flowers and trees. For the
beauty of the sea, the clouds and rain,
sunshine, the stars and the moon in the sky
at night, all thoughts of the beauty of nature
will generate a real love of life energy
within ones soul, and ones soul will truly
awaken each and every moment of every
day with the energy of love.
At that moment in your life when you feel
love in your heart, softening you to become

full of love and compassion is the feeling of


true spiritual awakening of ones soul.
Once a person has awakened spiritually
with love, ones life will never be the same
and transformation has just begun. Suddenly
ones aims and ambitions change. Life has
new meaning with a sense of purpose,
enabling a person to explore the meaning of
ones life.
Love of GOD and Love of all Creations of GOD


- is a continuous life of vitality,
that will always radiate a sense of
happiness. Using the power of speech to
compliment others constructively, finding
ways to be helpful and loving to others.
Then one will continue to love and be
loved, enjoying life with LOVE , happiness
and vitality even until the day of transition
out of the physical body to spirit world.
Living a life of LOVE

In radiating LOVE, that is the true LOVE OF


GOD and SPIRIT world, and LOVE of
mankind, this, in turn creates you as a
medium of the spiritual energy of GOD,
which will raise ones soul level to CHAYA and then
hopefully elevating to a Oneness with GOD - Yechida.
This sense of strength of pure spiritual LOVE, one will feel alive and be able to send
LOVE and healing energy help to those who may need it in this world. The cycle of life
and love always continues and never dies, being part of the creative life cycle means life
energy will always continue to flow to you and through you for the benefit of others.

Where there is LOVE, there is GOD.


And Where there is GOD there is
Life, Hope, Faith and True Happiness.
We all arrived on this planet through sexual love of our parents, everything that is grown
and produced in this world is done through LOVE. Love is the creative energy of planet
earth. So make the decision to choose a life of LOVE and kindness, and you will always
feel the LOVE of GOD, which will attract LOVE and happiness into your life.

At that moment in your life when you feel


the LOVE of GOD work on your heart,
softening you to become full of LOVE and
compassion then nothing else matters, and
all your problems dissipate . Feeling the
energy of true LOVE is truly a gift from
GOD.

Your life will never be the same and


transformation has just begun . Suddenly
your aims and ambitions change. Life has
new meaning with a sense of purpose and a
true love of life fills your heart with inner faith,
hope and peace.
As a preface to the "Meaning of Gilgulim -Reincarnation" we first need to understand
the 7 stages of life that exist during the course of ones physical life. If one has made
mistakes and not lived a particular stage of life correctly ones soul needs to relive the
experiences in order to learn the necessary lessons of that stage of life.
The Divine records known as ( or known as Akashic records) as explained
in the "introduction", need to be balanced either daily, periodically or at the very
worst during the whole single lifetime; however some situations are simply beyond
repair in one lifetime, and therefore a Credit or Debt is issued over a persons soul.
Such a Credit or Debt, Reward or Pain can only be collected when the person
reincarnates to live life in this physical world. This is the purpose of
"Reincarnation of Souls" - the balancing of the spiritual books.
Each of "the 7 stages of life" identifies the natural need for a facet of our soul to
develop, refine, mature, elevate and change; once we understand these 7 stages of life
we can then understand "Reincarnation" much easier, as a simple method for our soul
to progress in continuity of our past life, especially for lessons and stages of life that
we failed or were beyond repair in the previous lifetime.

"The 7 Stages of Life"


The physical growth during our lives is simply a reflection of the spiritual growth as
the levels of ones soul enters the physical body. As we grow and mature through
these stages of life, we transform and change. In each period of our lives a different
set of parameters & rules apply. It would be inconceivable that a 30 year old should
behave in the same way as a 7 year old behaves, although we all know some people
who never seem to grow up !

In understanding each of the 7 stages of life, we can then understand the infusion of
the 5 levels and aspect of the soul existence in life :-

1. Infancy & Early Childhood 0 to 7 years


old
Learning to survive, relying totally on the people around, copying and emulating
everyone. The survival of the first 7 years is based totally, in receiving energy from
others by any means possible, crying, demanding, even cheating and deception, or
more subtly through loving and "being sweet". Whatever technique is applied to
receiving from the adult world, this leaves a lasting impression on ones soul and is
carried forward into adult life, unless changed by reprogramming this behavioral
pattern.
In this "infancy stage" a baby reacts naturally, when something hurts and pains the
immediate reaction is to CRY. Crying clears the negative energy so much that the
infant will almost immediately forget the pain after a good cry. Crying is not only a
way of attracting attention, but an inner spiritual reaction to dissolving the negative
hurt. The child will also immediately forgive the hurt or damage and will never
harbour any resentment.
As adults, we forget this "normal" reaction of crying to cleanse our soul that we were
supposed to have learnt at this stage; instead adults fight the pain by suppressing the
hurt feelings. Until the hurt becomes too much to cope with and affects the health of
the adult.
It would therefore be an excellent idea if we would learn from this infant stage, and
cry whenever there is hurt instead of "suppressing" the negative emotions and forgive
and forget immediately, instead of harbouring resentment jealousy bitterness, and all
the negative emotions that prevent us living as complete and wholesome adults with
lovely purposeful lives.

2. Childhood 7 - 13 years old


This stage of life starts the emergence of the personality and a very much "copied"
identity; during these years a person, still impressed and sensitive to emulate the
people, the mannerisms and character of those they come into contact with, copying
the behaviour of others especially siblings and of ones parents.
This character is based entirely on the influences that the child comes into contact
with. If the child is brought up by a nanny and the television, the parents must expect

to see a confused child of our modern society. If the child is brought up by kind
intelligent educated, thoughtful and loving parents, whom allow the child to be
impressed by their etiquette and decency. The child will indeed copy the identity of
those parents.
These years of education and transformation of character are the basis of the adult
life. If in adult years the adult makes errors and mistakes, it is because the foundation
of ones character in these years was poor. Hence in reforming and changing ones
nature in later years, imperatively one needs to look at the influences of these
childhood years. Debrainwashing and reprogramming all the false copied
characteristics that one was impressed during childhood.
Inherently no person is bad or evil, it is simply their soul and character has been
tainted by bad influences. Everyone is intrinsically good, and has the potential to
accomplish greatness and goodness with love, kindness and sincerity; if a person
doesn't have these good qualities this is indicative that the period of life from 0-13
years old was flawed and the damage needs to be undone.

Reb Chaim Vital explains in the section above in hebrew from


that a person is given the Nefesh the "Earthly Soul" from the moment of one is
created, the Nefesh is within one from Conception to Death, and only when a person
has a character the Ruach Breath of spirit can enter ones physical existence.

3. Adolescence, 13 until 20 years old


During these years the element of ones soul known as the "Ruach Breath of Spirit
", enters ones physical life and spiritual soul. The RUACH is the power of speech,
learning to use this facet properly, constructively, lovingly and thoughtfully is the
focus on this stage of life.

The power of speech allows a person to communicate ones inner thoughts to another
person. Thereby creating energy whether it has constructive, through intelligent, kind
and loving words, or destructive, through lies, deceit and slander.
This period of ones life allows the adolescent to explore these energies through the
power of communication for both constructive and destructive, good and bad.
During this stage of life a person solidifies their identity and manner of
communicating; if a person lacks confidence during these years from 13-20 then in
later years a person will have to repeat this stage of life; and learn or teach oneself
how to communicate constructively, creatively and lovingly.
The main reason for most failures at any age in ones life is the inability to
communicate properly, indicative that the power of Ruach Breath of Spirit from
ones soul needs refining and correcting.

Reb Chaim Vital in the above hebrew text from explains that one
is given Ruach the "Spirit Soul" in breathing humans; the profound ability to
speak and communicate from the age of 13 onwards, however if one mishandles the
power of speech the power of Ruach is taken away and one lives life as a earthly
basic human.
Losing the power and energy of speech is considered to be a "living death"; Reb
Chaim explains that what is meant by losing the Ruach Spirit breathe of life, is that
even though people speak their words have no energy nor power. The correction one
must make is one of the "3 Keys of Reincarnation".

4. Adulthood, from 20 until 30-45 years old


Adulthood is the creative period of ones life. This stage allows all the lessons and
foundations of ones character that one has developed to then assume a responsible
role in life.

As a young and responsible adult one is given ones full soul Neshoma this is the
full character of whom you are; this aspect of the soul is the fully awakened spiritual
soul, whereby one is creating a purposeful life and is given according to Reb Chaim
Vital at the age of 20.
This starts the period of marriage and sexual intimacy for the purpose of creating
loving energy and having children. One has transformed ones nature from a "taker" of
energy, to a "creator" and "giver" of loving and supportive energy. Ones career and
purpose in life are formed in this period, and an identity label of whom you are is
formed. This identity is based on your foundations of the earlier stages and guided by
your values your set yourself during adolescence that is based on the Nefesh and
Ruach.
The achievements in ones life during this period identify whom the person is and are
simply a reflection of the inner soul Neshoma. If we compare to a budding flower
some radiate beauty, colour scent and aroma whilst some simply grow leaves and
seeds. Nonetheless everyone has a purpose and an identity, this period identifies the
fruits of ones earlier stages of life.
At this stage one is using all ones thoughts , that is ALL of
ones mind, thoughts and soul to create events that have consequences for yourself
and for other people. With the essence of ones Neshoma Soul one takes personal
responsibility for all of one's thoughts words and actions.
During this transition from childhood to adulthood, many immature adults feel
disorientated, yearning to go back to a playful irresponsible childhood, well for those
who refuse to "grow up" the element of the soul known as "Neshoma" is withdrawn
from them, thereby leaving their life in limbo until they are ready to WAKE-UP
spiritually. Hence the concept of late-developers - people whose spirit of Ruach may
enter their physical existence at the age of 30 instead of 13 and people whose soul
Neshoma enters at 40 instead of 20. This is known as the "waking up" stage of
"midlifecrisis".

5. The Spiritual "Wake-up" Stage of Life


From 26 - 45 years old until the end of life
This period is exceedingly important, and happens to everyone. Reb Chaim Vital calls
this stage the "spiritual wake-up call" in our modern day time many call this the
"mid-life-crisis" stage.

During this stage in mid-life years, a person will have found their identity and role in
life based upon the foundations made from childhood, but there will be a
dissatisfaction with attainments in life, one will have a growing awareness of physical
decline and mortality, experiencing "down-in-the-dumps" depressing moments,
feeling that the life they wanted and dreamt of is not filled with the excitement,
vitality and sense of loving creative purpose they had imagined as a child. This stage
of life will have the emphasis on a search for truth, meaning and purpose of life.
If one chooses to ignore feelings by suppressing any need for change, one will settle
directly into "old age" - a selfish life without use or creative purpose to anyone. With
such a bad decision to go into an "old age" mode one looses the spiritual essence of
one soul "Neshoma" which goes away, this is known as being spiritually "sidetracked" .
Nonetheless one can "find" oneself at anytime anyday of any year to return and come
back "on-track" as soon as one recognizes that one has lost the energy of life
"Neshoma"; this is the spiritual purpose of a dedicated day each and every year
Yom Kippur, the day of reflection and atonement each and every year on the 10th of
Tishrei, as a opportunity every year to "wake-up" spiritually and come back "ontrack".

Building Solid Spiritual Foundations


Most people, use these spiritual "wake-up" feelings sensibly to either make slight
alterations to their lives or to turn their lives "upside-down" starting afresh and
building solid foundations.
Having pursued with vigour - desires, wishes and fantasies of a teenager, by the mid
life crisis years, the honest person will realize that these were the wishes and desires
of an immature teenager. Now with the wisdom of experience, the gift of intuition,
strength of an adult soul Neshoma and with honesty, the individual confronts the
innermost feelings. Knowing that getting-it-right will lead to a wholesome and
"golden" period in life. Getting it wrong will lead to a premature living death like so
many other vacant and empty people.
At this stage in life, it becomes an emergency to CHANGE, at all costs, even at the
expense of status in life, (if the job is depressing and draining then there is no other
option than to quit the job or business), or at the expense of divorce (if one realizes
that the husband/wife is not suitable with the same spiritual or life aspirations).
This time of transformation, is always accompanied by reminiscing the childhood and
adolescent years. This is instinctively done by the soul, as a way to help guide the

person, the mid-life crisis person feels that they went wrong somewhere, and will
investigate honestly where that point in life occurred, by "going back" in time .
The root cause for not having a perfect and wholesome life is that the foundations
laid were of poor quality. By uprooting those bad foundations and laying new ones,
based on spiritual, purposeful, loving and creative values, the person transforms the
inherent "childhood" NEFESH soul and "adolescent" RUACH soul stages that were
engrained, (and in some cases brainwashed) by misinformed and misguided parents.
One then learns to be ones own parent, laying good foundations.
When a movie director makes a film , the director has a very clear end vision fixed in
their head . The director will use his/her experience insights and knowledge to keep
going over the same scene until its 100% correct . Similarly the honest adult in midlife crisis will keep on making the corrections until the perfect "end vision" is
fulfilled. However, painful and boring it maybe to keep going over the same scene,
the person realizes that unless it is perfect, they will NOT be able to live with the
uncomfortable feelings of "uselessness of life".
This intuitive inbuilt feeling of wanting to get-it-right is a demand from within ones
soul and is indicative that one soul is reincarnated, one has come back to life to get-itright in this life. Only when a person has broken the cycle of Reincarnation and
succeeded is their a relief of inner tension, this is a sign of spiritual success, until that
moment of breaking the pattern of reincarnation one will feel unsettled inside.

6. The Golden Age,


From Mid-Life Crisis Years for Eternity
This period is ONLY applicable to those people whom have worked on themselves
during the mid-life crisis years, refining their character with spiritual meaning of life.
This person now has a life of creative purpose based on kindness, love and spiritual
understanding .
This stage of life is where one acquires the spiritual level of the Soul known as
Chaya the Souls Life-Giving energy; this spiritual quality of the 4th Level of ones Soul "
Chaya" is where one acts as a channel to bring down spiritual "Life-Giving" energy from the realms
of the spirit world to this physical world, this level is called " Chaya" which means Life, as
without this flow of spiritual energy there would be no life on earth.

Such a spiritually enlightened and refined person radiates and exudes life and vitality.
It is said that many spiritually successful 40-60 year olds look and feel younger that
some "Old aged" 20-30 year olds having attained the spiritual level of Soulful "
Chaya".

In this Golden Stage of life, comes a maturity, wisdom and knowledge that all of life
is interrelated in a cycle of Divine life and loving energy. There is no shortage nor
scarcity of love, as love is created by ones soul, thoughts and actions, abundance runs
freely in ones life and nothing is impossible. One exudes a peace, calmness and
contentment with life.
The next stage of spiritual progression within the "Golden Age" stage is the ultimate
existence (5) Yechida Oneness the Souls desire to be at ONE with GOD, this is
the souls existence of Oneness and wholesomeness with the Eternal Divine Universal
GOD can come at anytime, but due to the constraints of this physical world one can
only espire to live this level of spiritual existence for several hours each day; one
would be practically be angelic if one could live at this level all day everyday,
nonetheless physical death for all the enlightened souls, means a progression to a
permanents state of complete Oneness with GOD in the Eternal Divine Spiritual
World.

7. Old age, possibly from 30 years old on


This period of "old age" is the acceptance that ones productive creative years have
ended. That the person no longer has anything to offer of any purpose to other people.
This stage of life is where one loses ones Neshoma and Ruach and returns to
the stage of a child having just a Nefesh soul inside.
The inevitability of such a persons life is going to require another life and the person
will surely be reincarnating to live life again in the future. This inner confrontation of
accepting eventual death, together with the fact that the person knows that they have
messed up their life beyond repair in this life, brings upon them "old age".
But this attitude is a false one as if a person really wishes they can restore life vitality
at any age; the freewill choice is in everyone's hands; however the older a person is
the more difficult changes can be, nonetheless for so long as a person is alive it is
NEVER too late to change.

Reincarnation is ONLY necessary


When a Soul is Beyond Repair in One
Lifetime
Now that we have explained the 7 stages of life that exist during the course of ones
physical life, we can now understand the "Meaning of Gilgulim -Reincarnation" -

which is in fact the purpose of living in this life as a correction & continuity of our
souls experience from our previous life, especially when and if a soul and situation
are beyond repair in one lifetime, and therefore a Credit or Debt is issued over a
persons soul.
Such a Credit or Debt, Reward or Pain can only be collected when the person
reincarnates to live life in this physical world. This is the purpose of
"Reincarnation of Souls" - the balancing of the spiritual books as we explain in the
next chapter "Meaning of Gilgulim -Reincarnations.

Meaning of "GilGulim"

"Unveil My Eyes that I may See the Wonders of the Torah"
Psalms 119 verse 18

The Hebrew word Gilgulim means Reincarnation; it derives its meaning from
the hebrew word GAL which means to reveal or unhide; the doubling up of the
word implies in the word Gilgulim Reincarnations that we need to unveil and
reveal the hidden meanings of life in this physical world, in spiritual world and from
a previous lifetime.
The hebrew word Gilgulim means Reincarnation and is used as the hebrew
word for a cycle, wheel and airwaves. All of which are implied from the spiritual
meaning of Gilgulim Reincarnation; as a cycle of life and death, wheel of fortune in
life and the spiritual energy in airwaves that are totally invisible to ones eyes and yet
airwaves can be heard but not tangibly seen.

Gilgulim - Reincarnation - Cycle of Life &


Death
Our physical existence on earth is simply a GalGal HaChaim - "Cycle of
Life & Death" birth and death, rebirth and death until we succeed in getting it right.
This continual cycle is intrinsic to the spiritual belief that we are all spiritual souls on
a physical journey we call "life" and that we are all children of GOD as we are all
spiritual souls that are interconnected with each other and we all connected with the
, Eternal Divine creator of the Universe and with spiritual world of souls.
There are three reasons why a person's soul reincarnates :1. To correct the past life

2. To elevate the soul to a higher spiritual level


3. To be a leader, a guide and a teacher for other people
In all cases we are eternally spiritually connected, and in living life we are all
following the wishes of our Creator the , playing our part in life and
experiencing the unique specific tests for our soul; it's not for us to question why and
what, but to accept that everything has reason, in accordance with a destined
purposeful plan; an individualistic destined plan for each and every person, for ones
soulmates, for ones soulgroups and an overall plan for the whole world as a single
unit.


Each person is part of a Team
Reb Chaim Vital explains that each person is indeed part of a soulgroup team. The
SoulGroup works together to ensure spiritual success, each and every person is part
of a SoulGroup that consists of the person, ones Guardian Angels in Spirit world and
of other souls and people in this physical world and in spiritual world of souls that
have the same goals.
Gilgulim, reincarnation emphasizes the need to be responsible not just for oneself,
but for the sake of other people in ones soulgroup and for the souls in the spirit world
whom are working together with your soul, to elevate your whole soulgroup, it is
therefore emphatically important to become a highly responsible spiritually
enlightened soul, and to realize that there are others depending upon you spiritually.
When a person considers that one "Guardian Angels", souls of ones Soulgroup and
ones soulmate are all working together with you to succeed, one is reassured that one
is never alone, even if one appears to be all alone - one os NEVER alone.

Understanding the Meaning of Gilgulim


For every single soul in this world the meaning of Gilgulim - Reincarnation will have
a different meaning; just like the "meaning of life" has different meanings for
everyone, as each and every person has their own specific unique "thing" that must
do to correct ones "past life" mistakes.
Nonetheless everyone whom is a reincarnated soul has the inner feeling that they are
reincarnated and know instinctively that there is something they need to do to release
the past-life blockage in order that they may continue and live a fulfilling purposeful

life without the draining "heaviness", recurring problematic situations or baggage


from a previous life.
A reincarnated life is like a jigsaw puzzle, all the pieces of information, experiences
and feelings are there in ones life, it is now up to the person to get the right pieces in
the right place; which includes getting the right soulmate, living in the right place and
fulfilling ones true purpose in life.
There is no doubt that when one becomes aware that ones soul is on a mission of
"Reincarnation" as a spiritual puzzle that one needs to get right, in order to move-on
in life it then becomes imperative to focus ones prayers and with the help of ones
Guardian Angels succeed in getting-it-right in making a complete "Tikun HaGilgul
Correction of Reincarnation", so that ones soul can move-on in life.

The Spiritual Meaning of the


The hebrew word means cycle, according to Sefer Shinuyim the word Gilgul for
reincarnation has a deeper spiritual meaning; as all hebrew words are known to be
encoded, they have a numerical value or gematria. The numerical gematria of is
72, this is the exact same number as the gematria for "kindness - Hesed - ":-

3
30
3
6
30
72 =
72 = Kindness
Sefer Shinuyim explains that this teaches that it is a DIVINE KINDNESS to our
souls that we are given the opportunity to reincarnate in order to rectify our past-life
mistakes. As we shall explain on "Spiritual Rules of Reincarnation" the GIFT of
Kindness to reincarnate teaches that 72 x 5 = 360, where 360 degrees represents a
complete & whole cycle of life; Jewish Reincarnation believes a person's soul has
maximum of 5 Reincarnations, and is learnt from Sefer Shinuyim on Genesis chapter
45 verse 22:-


Genesis 45 verse 22 Joseph gives 5 changes of garments to Benjamin
indicative that a reincarnated soul has 5 incarnations according to Kabbalah

Each Reincarnation is a KINDNESS from


GOD
Understanding Birth & Death
& Ibbur Neshoma
In considering the cycle of life, we need to understand the meaning of birth & death
in spiritual terms. Everyone's physical journey of life begins at the moment of
conception when the persons father is making love with ones mother; at this moment
of conception a soul transcends from the spiritual realms through the fathers soul and
hence through his physical body and into the mothers physical body hence the soul of
the soon-to-be-born baby becomes attached to the mother.
The important point to know is that the soul of the child about to be born has the
spirituality determined on the basis of the father. The quality of soul that can be
brought down or attached from spiritual realms is based on the fathers spiritual
strength.
A father who is not "thinking" what he is doing when making love could bring in any
soul even one that has no connection to his soul from lower spiritual realms, this is
the reason why some men like animals procreate and then leave their spouses, as they
have no spiritual attachment to the soul of their child.
Whereas a spiritually-minded father who is fully aware that every time he makes love
is connecting with the spiritual realms has the power to bring down a very spiritually
enlightened good soul into this world, whom is and will always be connected with his
father.

Neshoma Soul from Father


Nefesh Soul from Mother
Each and every person is created with the energy of ones father and the energy of
ones mother; in the same way physically one has some characteristics of ones father

and some of ones mother, likewise spiritually one has a spiritual facet that is from
ones father and a facet that is from ones mother.
Reb Chaim Vital understood that the Neshoma Soul is from ones "Father" and
the Nefesh Soul is from ones "Mother"; likewise if one follows back ones
generations one can see that ones own father has aspects of his father and aspects of
his mother. As explained on the page of "The Soul", these two elements of ones soul
are very different, hence as a child grows into an adult ones character changes from
being like ones spiritual essence of ones mother to incorporating and becoming like
the spiritual essence of ones father.
If one has very different types of parents, then during ones life one will be oscillating
ones spiritual character in a state of confusion between ones father and ones mothers
spiritual energies. If for example ones parents were totally incompatible spiritually
and they divorced then one will feel "unsettled" within oneself spiritually until one
understands how to balance these energies, retain the good side and negate the bad
influence.
Hence the explanation for difficulties for children of interfaith marriages, or with
unbalanced parents of different spiritual beliefs, and will be problematic for the
maturing adult until one finds ones true inner spiritual identity and source of ones
soul.

Men Must Pray to Bring Down a Good Soul


Reb Chaim Vital explains that it is the duty of the MAN to bring the spiritual soul
down from spiritual world into this physical world; it is therefore the duty of the man
to pray, refine his character and attract the best possible quality of soul from spirit
world; this is especially true for single men or men who believe they are living with
the wrong soulmate or men living with a woman who doesn't want children using
ways to block children being conceived. It is upon MEN to pray for good children !
Sefer Tikunim explains that MEN should pray and light a single candle for the soul of
ones child in spirit world whom is waiting for you, whether it be to get out of the
wrong marriage/relationship, or to find the right soulmate and then to conceive this
child whom is waiting in Spirit world to be born with you and your true soulmate.
When a person thinks carefully that the souls of ones children in the Spiritual world
are waiting to be born and the only reason they are not being born is because one is in
the wrong relationship / marriage then one should recognize this as avery significant
blockage in ones life.

In the same way one is blocking life being born, ones life will be blocked until one
makes this correction; thus the reason why so many people have unsettled inner
feelings when they are with the wrong partner; it is simply a sign that spiritual souls
are waiting for you to change your life.
Before going to bed and making love; Reb Chaim Vital explains that one should read
one verse from the Torah, or spiritual writings of inspiration, or prayers from Psalms,
anything spiritually enlightening that connects a persons soul with "Oneness to GOD"
and to spirit world, hence the reason for saying the "Shema Yisroel" at
night .
For women it is slightly different as they are the nurturing basis of the Nefesh
aspect of the child's soul, all a woman needs to do is be the solid good spiritual
foundation for a wonderful aspect of Nefesh to encompass and protect the child,
being in tune spiritually with her spiritually minded husband will ensure that the child
matures into a refined, well balanced and harmonious adult.

GalGal HaChaim
"Cycle of Life & Death"
The way of the world is a continuous cycle of life and death, means as
one generation leaves this world another generation enters this world. This is the
cycle of souls and cycle of life.
Reb Chaim Vital explains that if a soul needs to reincarnate there is NO MINIMUM
time needed in spirit world before a soul can reincarnate (this is because the aspect of
time is a physical constraint for a physical world); therefore as soon as someone dies
their soul can infact be immediately conceived in this physical world. As is often the
case that as someone in the family dies, someone in a family has a child within the
year, this is indicative that the soulgroup of the family still needs to work together.

Love of GOD and Love of all of GOD


Creations

Living a life of LOVE is the true source of continuous vitality of life energy and one
will always radiate a sense of happiness when living a "life of love" because one is
truly connected to GOD and to spirit world.

The true connection to GOD is through that is true


LOVE OF GOD and LOVE of mankind, the inner strength of pure spiritual LOVE, is
life energy, it encompasses the souls aspect of Chaya and Yechida . Once a
person lives with a continuous strong and true connection with spirit world then the
moment of death is just a continuity of life, and the transition out of this physical
world is like taking a wonderful journey. There is no need to fear death.
The feelings of "Fear" is death itself, anyone whom has any thoughts of fear in any
aspect of their lives is living with a dark thoughts "death" energy; the more one learns
to live a life of LOVE the more life energy one will have and the closer one comes to
GOD. Where there is LOVE, there is GOD, and where there is GODs' energy there is
life, hope, faith and true happiness.


Nothing "bad" comes from GOD
God is love, the kind creative energy of this world that gives life to everything and
everyone. If something is considered bad it is simply an identity of lack of Godliness
and a lack of love. Therefore what people usually term as "bad" isn't really "bad"; its
simply peoples wrong perception.

Death is a normal stage of Life


Physical death is something that is guaranteed to happen to each and everyone of us
on this planet. We are all eventually going to die and the sooner we perceive that
death is inevitable and recognize that death is a spiritual transition for our soul to
leave this physical world to continue its journey in spiritual world then the word
"death" looses its fearful meaning.

The Concept of Birth Every Day on Any Day


There is a concept of birth and death every day, this means that you have the potential
for CHANGE every single day. Therefore one has the potential for a cycle to be
reborn each and every day, provided one really changes ones character and literally
become someone new. This is the basis to understand that people who convert are
given a new soul, as the day they convert a new spiritual soul is attached to their soul,
and they are born anew.

Similarly every single person in the world has the chance and opportunity to be
magnetic to attract into their soul an extra soul, that will work to help them through
life. This extra soul is known as IBBUR Neshoma - .
Reb Chain writes that every single person is given a spiritual gift every Friday
evening at sunset for Shabbos - The Jewish Sabbath, everyone is given an extra soul,
angel guide - an extra soul that will work to assist a person grow
spiritually.

The concept of IBBUR Neshoma


One of the most important spiritual laws and teachings Reb Chaim Vital teaches in Sefer
Gilgulim is the concept and spiritual law of "IBBUR Neshoma " that is
having an additional soul of the Neshoma level attach itself to your soul to work with
you to ensure a physical and spiritual success in your life.

Ibbur of a Good Soul

In the hebrew excerpt reproduced above from Sefer Shaar GilGulim Hakdoma 2
, explains that a righteous and good soul Neshoma can attach itself to
work with a person, to help one correct ones life, and find a good pathway; such a
spiritual assistance can even elevate a person above their original destined pathway to
a higher spirituality.
The person has merited to become part of a new and higher soulgroup by the help and
assistance of this extra soul through "IBBUR Neshoma"; in fact when a good soul
attaches itself to you in life to improve your spirituality, their soul too benefits, as

together your souls are achieving far more than a single soul could ever achieve.
Hence the saying "two is better than one" of King Solomon's proverbs
is referring to two souls working together one is this physical world and the other
helping from spirit world is better than just one soul alone in this physical world.

The concept of IBBUR Neshoma


A soul attaching itself to work with another
person .
The concept of IBBUR NESHOMA - , is the concept that a soul has
unfinished work to do in this life. Therefore the soul of that person will attach itself to
a good spiritually sensitive soul with whom they can work together to accomplish the
work that needs to be completed before the soul is then free to enter spirit world.
These SOULS that attach themselves, can be of people whom died prematurely, by
accident, or people who were murdered or died tragically or absolutely anyone.
IBBUR NESHOMA are always of good souls, who have been permitted
by GOD and spirit world, to work with a someone whom can and will work together.
This is allowed spiritually, as it is easier for a soul to connect itself to a good person
still living, instead of reincarnating and being reborn to go through a whole cycle of
conception, childhood and adulthood. It is a kindness of GOD to the both souls to
allow IBBUR NESHOMA .

IBBUR Neshoma of a Soulmate


If a person has died by accident or tragically before marrying their soulmate, then
their soulmate whom is alive is empty and void, is searching for their true soulmate
and not finding, as their soulmate is in spirit world.
The soul that has died and is in spirit world can search and find someone sensitive
spiritually, as a potential soul to attach their soul to in - ibbur neshama. This
new person may also have lost their true soulmate or may have made mistakes in
their life that has meant they have missed their original destined soulmate and hence
by IBBUR NESHOMA , they have now have a true soulmate union.
Such a blessing of IBBUR Neshoma of a Soulmate usually creates a much
stronger union, love and connection that could ever be in any relationship as the
energy of the man and the woman is bound strongly spiritually as well as physically.

The person whom the soul attaches itself to, can even be non-jewish, or someone
whom was non- spiritually minded as the only prerequisite is the person be sensitive
and open to allow in a spiritual soul to work with their soul.
The attachment of this soul will transform the person completely and in the case of
non-Jewish person being attached with a Jewish soul can create a desire of non-Jew
to to become Jewish or a spiritually void selfish person will become selfless kind and
spiritually minded.
IBBUR Neshoma is like a complete rebirth for the person and will bring a
new life-energy, if however a person rejects the gift of a soul the IBBUR NESHOMA
then it can unsettle the person for a short while, but there is never a
concept of a forced IBBUR Neshoma - this is the gift of freewill choice
If however, the attachment is good and works well spiritually, the collective
achievements are amazingly good and blessed, it is known in history that all the
greatest spiritual leaders have worked with souls attaching themselves by IBBUR
Neshoma .

- "Side Tracked"
When a person has been "Side Tracked" in life, that is to say a person has lost their
sense of direction in life, and has followed a pathway that is not really good nor
correct for ones soul, then this is known as spiritually as losing ones Neshoma in
exile and being side-tracked, this is a form of death as a person feels empty inside.
Reb Chaim Vital explains the fact that a person feels drained or lacks motivation in
life is a sign that a person is not connected spiritually, this is because the aspect of
ones soul has left ones body; ones is living the life where it should be but
ones physical body is somewhere else, hence one is feeling disjointed and
disconnected. We explain - "Side Tracked" how to find oneself and bring
about a rebirth in ones life. Where as ones soul leaving completely this
physical world is a form of death as ones action have caused one to loose the spiritual
gift of Neshoma Soul. Only by changing ones ways and "coming back" to ones
destiny will ensure ones soul returns.

Guardian Angels " Shomrim"



"For He will command His angels to Guard you in all you ways" . (Psalms 91 verse 11)

The Spiritual World is a world of spirit souls that surrounds us in harmony with this
physical world, but on a different vibration. In a similar way that we know the
atmosphere around us is full of electromagnetic frequencies of airwaves, anything
from television airwaves, radio waves to mobile phone conversations, all those
signals are transmitted in the air around us on different levels of frequencies.
All these energies exist and yet we cannot see them with our physical eyes, if one has
a suitable receiver like a mobile cell phone then one can tune-in to the energies in the
air around us. Similarly spirit souls and Spiritual Divine energy is all around us
vibrating on higher energies and frequencies, if only we knew how to "tune-in" to
these spiritual energies then we would really be special, nonetheless we are all able to
"tune in" to our personal spiritual guides and helpers known as our Guardian Angels.

TWO GUARDIAN ANGELS


Each and every person has at least two guardian angels with him/her all the time. The
first mention of Guardian angels accompanying a person in the Bible is in Genesis 28
verse 12, when Jacob rests for the night and sees a transfer of his angels, some
leaving him and some joining him, at that moment when he was leaving Israel on a
special journey on his own in need of an extra and different kind of protection.
Continually in the TORAH - bible, mention is made of Angels accompanying
prophets, rabbis and leaders on a mission.
The principle of Guardian Angels is explained more clearly in the Holy Book Tana
Devei Eliyahu, written 2000 years ago by Rav Onan, who learnt with the prophet
Elijah - Eliyahu (explanation of this book).
By Courtesy of Eshkol printers Jerusalem . Below is the section in original Hebrew
from Tana Devei Eliyahu Zuta Chapter 3 paragraph 4 . .

To translate:- If a person makes himself to be a righteous person and speak the truth,
he is given an Angel who guides him along the path of righteous people and truth is
always spoken to him . If a person makes himself to be wicked, to corrupt and speaks
lies, then an angel will be attached to him who will corrupt him/her and mislead them
in life . If a person makes himself a "chossid" - an especially kind and thoughtful
person, accepting everything painful, then a special angel is given to the person
which can guide along the pathway of the exceedingly righteous, giving them
strength to sustain any pain ...
To explain simply:- each of us has two guardian angels, similarly to having friends. If
you treat your friends nicely then they stay with you, if you lie and cheat your
friends, they will go away, and other types of friends will befriend you, probably low
life - cheats and liars. If you ignore your friends who are trying to be kind and helpful
to you, then they will ignore you.
If however, you move up the social ladder by dressing smartly, talking eloquently,
honestly, respectfully and behaving morally then you will automatically attract a
much better class of friend, and if you pay attention to and appreciate your friends
good advice then they will give you more good advice and guidance.
Similarly and even more so with Angels, our thoughts, words and actions have a
profound affect. Reb Chaim Vital explains the major gift we have over the animal
kingdom is our ability to speak, hence, this is the judging factor by which our
Guardian Angels are monitored and given to guide us, depending on the way we use
the power of speech. Lies and deceit are so abhorrent and unacceptable that it induces
from spirit world the worst consequences.

Be Careful with ones power of SPEECH


....
"One who speaks gossip (even if its true) against another loses their right to his/her
destined place in spirit world" (In Talmud Sanhedrin page 90a). And so the Tana
Devei Eliyahu teaches us that gossiping, telling lies, ruins and corrupts a person soul,
so much that angels are given to the person, to corrupt their lives even more. As a
direct consequence that the person has abused the power of his/her speech through
their lies, deceit slander and gossiping, that the persons prayers are not answered.
(These are the main focus of the teachings of the Chofetz Chaim and Rabbi Segal)

Conversely, it makes the ability to change for the better - so


simple.
Just tell the truth, be 100% careful with every word one says,
then good guides and angels will guide and protect you .
The ability to refine ones soul through refining ones speech, attracting new guardian
angels of higher spiritual levels is therefore the key to changing ones future. This
subject is the essence of " Sefer Shinuyim " and "Sefer Tikunim".

Reb Chaim Vital explains that this Physical


World is a World of PAIRS
Everything that exists in this Physical Life exists in pairs
The specific energy of planet earth is the number 2, everything on earth arrives and
comes in PAIRS. Our physical body contains TWO of everything, we belong in pairs,
a male and female exists in every living entity on planet earth. The creative energy of
our planet is LOVE, and this LOVE energy can only be created with at least one
other entity or person. You have to have something to LOVE, in order to create and
perform an action in this physical world.
Similarly we are given two guardian angels to help balance our soul. These two
angels work together to create the energy and opportunities in our life, to guide us to
have a purposeful and fulfilling life.

The TANA DEVEI ELIYAHU explains that throughout our lives, everything happens
in pairs. "If it happens once - it will happen twice" . The first letter of the TORAH is
a Beis - Bet, the second letter of the alphabet, to indicate as a sign to mankind that
this world is based on pairs and the number TWO . As we explain on the page of
"Destiny", a mature person recognizes that they are one half of a whole, the transition
from childhood into adulthood starts a phase of life, searching for their soulmate, just
one and yet the most important one of the "3 keys" to life.

There are Two Types of People in this


World.
The first and most wonderful category is the HONEST group, which basically means
when you are nice to them they are nice in return, when you are horrible to them they
are horrible in return. When you ask them a question, you are given the honest
answer in return. The intrinsic goodness of this group, will always make you feel
alive and happy. When you hear something good has happened to anyone of this
group, you too - feel the happiness. Conversely when something bad happens you
feel their sorrow and pain. The honest group person, will always find ways to be nice
and compliment, saying nice constructive words, looking for the goodness in people,
and they will always exude, radiate love and happiness, even in the face of adversity .
They will always find ways to create loving energy and NEVER "steal" energy from
others by hateful, negative or destructive thoughts, words or actions.
The other group of people in this world are the DECEITFUL (liars) people, which
basically means when you are nice to them they are horrible in return, when you are
horrible to them they are nice in return . When you ask them a question, you are
given lies and deceit in return. The intrinsic deceit and twistedness of this group, will
always make you feel drained and sad (unless you are of the same type - in which
case you feel re-assured and happy mixing with them, as you will always end up
gossiping and slandering good people, and re-assuring yourselves that your lifestyle
is the correct one ). When you hear something good has happened to anyone of this
group - you feel a sadness or indifferent . When something bad happens to this group,
you either feel happy or indifferent . That is to say, the soulful energy is not exuded or
radiated from this type of person, they are usually very closed and selfish with their
energies.
The good thing about being in the honest group, is that in a short time of speaking to
the other deceitful group, you "instinctively know" who they are, your guides and
angelic helpers, give you the feeling. And in the conversation with them, they lie or
contradict themselves and you catch them out . This is the protection given to you by
GOD . A deceitful person will always lie, they cannot help themselves, it is natural
for them. They are always caught out by the honest group of people . There will

always be signs along the way, they may cheat of their husbands/wives, at work they
will be lazy, sleeping on the job or time wasting etc..or as bosses they will abuse their
staff and never show appreciation, continue cheating and fiddling their staff out of
money ... basically they have no morals or ethical standards, and they don't trust
anyone because they themselves are not to be trusted .

Attracting Good Guardian Angels


This ability to categorize the two groups, is directly related to this chapter on
Guardian Angels, as it is intrinsically important and establishes the foundations of the
Spiritual energy in ones life that enables Good Guardian Angels to attach themselves
to ones soul for good spiritual growth, and thereby releasing the deceitful and
misleading angels (see rescue page with respect to spirits in astral plane - Olam
Hasohu).
Reb Chaim Vital explains the basis of this spiritual law is "as it is physically so it is
spiritually", if a person feels blocked physically in life then a person is blocked
spiritually, if a person has bad friends then one may have misleading Angels, whereas
if one has good trustworthy and sincerely loving friends then likewise spiritually one
has good Guardian Angels which will ensure one is always guided along the correct
pathway and never making mistakes.
Therefore, be careful with every word you speak, knowing that the words you use
will have an affect on your spiritual Guardian Angels. By using the correct words in
your life you will improve yourself spiritually and thereby be worthy of exceptionally
good Guardian Angels, whom will come close to you to enhance your life on a
pathway of spiritual growth. The freewill choice is yours.
A warning with this, is to be aware that if you use words that have irreparably
damaged someone's life, then unless one corrects the damage one has done with the
abuse of speech . This situation one has caused with the abuse of the power of speech,
this will affect ones soul and life forever. (Until one changes and corrects the damage
done as explained in Sefer Tikunim- Book of Corrections). Especially if this has
caused irreparable damage to another persons life .

"In the Way You Wish to go in Life,


So You will be Led by Your Guardian
Angels" .

This printed passage is from the famous Rabbi Eidels known as the MAHARSHA
, who lived at the same period of time as Reb Chaim Vital (Maharsha lived
from 1555-1631) quoted from the Talmud Makkos page 10b, this passage explains
that , in the way you wish to go in life, so you will be led by your Guardian Angels.
The Maharsha Rabbi Shlomo Edels explains, that every action, word and thought that
you do in this world creates an angel, so if you really want something good to happen
in your life, create enough angelic good angels with kindness, loving thoughts and
honest words . Then these angels you have attracted to you by your good thoughts,
words and actions will indeed lead you to your goal .

TWO ANGELS
Reb Chaim Vital in "Otzrus haChaim" - ,"Shaar Kavonus"- .
continues to explain the principle that everything in this world occurs in pairs, states
that everyone is given two Guardian Angels.
Every person is born with two angels who are appointed to guide the person along
their way in life, to ensure they follow a life pathway of their destiny, to make sure
they find their destined soulmate partner, have their success in their job to provide
money to support their life and fulfill their purpose of life to their maximum
potential. The two angels maybe considered to be male and female energies, more
correctly termed and reflecting "emotional" and "intelligence-logic" energies .
There are certain destined major goalposts, or "meetings with destiny" that are set out
in our life, it depends on us if we meet them, or get side-tracked. Or if one has
detached oneself from ones original guides and Guardian Angels, and have new ones
- whom because of ones lies, are there to distract even more from the life pathway UNTIL - the person wakes up and recognizes that one is in a place so far from where

one feels comfortable and from where one truly belongs, that the person then knows
it is an emergency and must change - reconnecting with GOD and with ones original
Guardian Angels who will always be there for you, and thereby finding the true
pathway ( this is detailed more on the page of "Two Pathways". The persons original
Guardian Angels will always be there waiting to guide the person on the correct
pathway for ones soul.
Above your two Guardian Angels there is a "gate keeper" angel, " shomer
pesachim" who monitors the energy around you, allowing in and out, the good and
not good angels to help you or distract you according to your efforts .
Immediately we must write - to say that a "not good " angel does not exist, it is in fact
an angel that is created by ones misdeeds, lies and dishonesty, and is their to corrupt
and make a persons life unsuccessful and unhappy until one WAKES up, to change
and return to the true destined pathway, much like a strict disciplined teacher .

Communicating with Your Guardian Angels


According to the principle that NOTHING in this world happens by accident, every
single event in your life happens for a specific reason guided from spirit world
.
Reb Chaim Vital explains the fact that a person is attracted to read his books,
especially SEFER GILGULIM - the study of Reincarnation of souls, then this means
that your soul is thirsty, ready and prepared to learn.
You are now ready to communicate with your spiritual Guardian Angels, and just as
importantly they are prepared to communicate with you. ( We have received many
emails from people who have by "destiny" arrived at this website and read this, which
simply reaffirms that there is indeed a higher spiritual guidance guiding them to learn
and develop spiritually at the appropriate time).
Reb Chaim Vital explains that there is NO NEED to exert any effort to connect with
them, it will happen at the correct time for your soul. Anyone who pushes or forces to
connect, when they are simply not worthy or not of the correct spiritual level, will
connect with earthbound spirits who are in OLAM HASOHU - , and will
deceive the person as explained in Spiritual Rescue Work of earthbound soul for
understanding of earthbound souls in OLAM HASOHU.

Spirit Communication from Loved Ones

One opportune moment is normally when someone you love, and indeed someone
who loves you - dies. This could be family, friend or a teacher someone who sees
your spiritual potential once they arrive in spirit world and choose to stay close to you
to work with you spiritually. This can happen at any time in one's life, no-one is too
young or too old to start to awaken to communicating with their Guardian Angels. It
depends on your spiritual level and not on your physical age.
The love connection you both have for each other will instill in you a strong bond of
communication, and after a period from 1 month up to one year of them dying, their
soul will be ready to come back as a guide for you.

Awakening Your Spiritual Soul


The awakening in your spiritual life and the start of communication with your
Guardian Angels will happen in a dream or a strange coincidence, where you will feel
a special inexplicable spiritual feeling, that there is more to life, other than what
appears to the physical eye and to logic. You may still have free choice to ignore
these signs and be closed. However, the more they love you, and the more urgency
there is to get your life back on the correct pathway, the more they will try and
awaken your soul spiritually.
As you think about them, and even talk to them as if they are "really" with you, you
will feel the special peaceful loving and re-assuring energy, it is inexplicable, as each
person senses this differently, but i assure you - you will feel it.
Once you have acknowledged the existence of your Guardian Angels and started to
talk to them in prayer, you will find it much easier to pray and ask for help from
GOD and the eternal Divine world of good spiritual guides and angels whom will
come into your aura, give you the knowledge, help and spiritual feelings you need as
you are progressing along your journey of life.

SIMPLY TALK TO YOUR GUARDIAN


ANGELS WITH HONESTY
Talk to them regularly, tell them how you feel, the more you develop the more you
will understand yourself what to say, the intuitive thoughts come in automatically into
your mind, thoughts and soul.
Always start your conversation by THANKING your Guardian Angels for the help
they have given you in looking after you. Then you are indeed ready to ask them for a
sign, and intuition as to whom your guardian angels are, you may receive your

answers as thoughts or in a dream, or someone new will come in your life "MIN
HASHOMAYIM" - "Heaven sent "- who will help you along your spiritual journey.
You may find at this moment that your friends and family will not understand or
comprehend the changes you are experiencing, and events may happen in your life to
close doors on those superficial people whom have no relevance in your newfound
spiritually enlightened life.
However, a better life is being prepared for you, and Reb Chaim Vital emphasizes the
importance of honesty, kindness, and being 100% careful with the power of your
speech, and with complete honesty in prayer with your Guardian Angels, even if you
tell no-one else the truth, ALWAYS tell the truth to your Guardian Angels exactly
how you feel. This will indeed assure you of continuous support of good Angels
whom will instruct you along the correct spiritual pathway.

Extra Special Spiritual Times


According to tradition from the times of Abraham who kept Sarah's anniversary of
death; there are indeed more opportune moments to connect spiritually; .On the
yarzheit, that is the anniversary of death, of a loved one, Famous Spiritual teacher or
Rabbi or any Spiritual leaders anniversary of passing to Spirit world, these are
exceedingly strong days spiritually to pray and connect with them and their souls,
according to Jewish tradition we light at least two candles, one for their soul and one
for yours.
Another especially good time is Friday evening, lighting candles at sunset to
commence the Sabbath Shabbos, day of rest. This time applies to all of humanity,
friday evening, is indeed a spiritual evening in the whole world for everyone (and i
add for both Muslems who go to Mosque on friday's and Christians who eat fish and
not meat on friday's).
The reason is that Friday has always been the end of the physical working week,
therefore a transference of physical energy at the end of the working week on Friday
becomes potentially pure Spiritual energy on Shabbos - at sunset on Friday evening and becoming more spiritual is automatic, each and every single week.
Those people who "go out" to get drunk, discos or parties, or even those people who
waste time and watch TV or go to bed early on Friday evening are missing a great
opportunity to grow spiritually every single week on the Shabbos - Friday evening.
Try and change just one Friday evening, light candles and think spiritually, you will
be amazed at the affect it will have on the whole of the following week ! (I must add
that this spiritual energy is in the world for everyone, not just for jewish people !)

This spiritual gift to all of humanity is that on the Friday evening at sunset each
person is given an extra soul, angel guide, according to what he deserves
by his/her actions during that week .

Making Your Own Spiritual Time


The best way to connect to Spirit World is to visit the graves of Famous Spiritual
Rabbis or graves of good righteous people you have known in your life. The gravesite
is the last physical connection they had on earth and therefore the beginning of their
spiritual spirit-world journey. The essence and presence of their spirit at their
gravesite can be attracted there when you visit.
They will then be able to infuse a spiritual energy of Ruach within you, of
knowledge and understanding, and they will guide you. They will NOT force you to
do anything, you have freewill choice, but they will give you the intuition, strength of
character to know the difference between right and wrong.
Reb Chaim Vital recommends anyone searching the enlightened spiritual pathway to
start by connecting with good people and Rabbis whom have passed over to spirit
world, connecting with them in thoughts and learning their books and visiting their
gravesites. Similarly by reading good spiritual books of the TORAH , MISHNE ,
GEMORA and TANA DEVEI ELIYAHU and the ZOHAR kabbala will attract the
good spiritual guides.
Please see article by Rabbi Pinchas Giller for full historical and spiritual importance
of the tradition of visiting gravesites throughout the generations. The spiritual energy,
enlightenment and guidance ones soul receives, has been the fundamental reason why
generations of Jewish people always connect spiritually by visiting the gravesites of
Holy Rabbis, Rebbes and spiritual leaders.

KEEP IT SECRET !
Reb Chaim Vital makes an important point, and this is exceedingly important, and
that is DO NOT TELL ANYONE about your spiritual experiences even if you
extremely confident and strong that they will not block or destroy your good energies
with their twisted dishonest negative corrupt energy, simply by telling someone will
create a block.
Reb Chaim Vital quotes from his teacher the ARI ZAL, that the least one talks about
these spiritual matters to other people the better, as one is starting on a sensitive
spiritual pathway for ones soul it is silly to tell anyone.

Many people who had the spiritual potential get set-back in time by telling their
cynically dishonest non-believing parents, family or so-called friends; energies of
non-believers are strong enough to block this sensitive spiritual link. The journey to
spiritual success can take a longer more painful detour, especially if one has to
overcome the negative thoughts and words of non-believing destructive people.
Nonetheless that is destiny as some people love to learn the hardest and most painful
way possible. Your Guardian Angel will tell you when it is time and with whom it is
safe to talk about these spiritual matters, you will instinctively know who you can
trust

Instantaneous Magnetic Attraction is a


Spiritual Energy of ones "Guardian Angels"
Soulmates have an instantaneous magnetic attraction to each other, as their
relationship is "destined" and important for their lives on earth. Even people who try
and fight this magnetic love desire for each other, will find their efforts to block futile
and they will eventually be together. As "soulmates" will never find true purposeful
fulfillment of their souls until they are together, that is either physically or with their
mind, thoughts and soul eternally spiritually together.
The reason for this inexplicable magnetic attraction between 2 people is that their
Guardian Angels are guiding them and bringing energy to both people in order to
"force" situations to be together. Ofcourse ones stubbornness and freewill choice can
block this, but eventually "soulmates" always come together. Each persons Guardian
Angels will ensure this happens, however illogical.

Wrong Relationships Always Fail


Similarly the reason why "wrong" relationships, lovers and marriages fail is that each
of the individuals Guardian Angels are conflicting with the other persons Guardian
Angels, both individuals are incompatible on a spiritual level and hence eventually
they end up conflicting on a physical level.
A "sign" for this is that there are conflicts, disharmony and imbalances in the
relationship and very often a person enjoys having "SPACE" away from the other; in
the "space" a person feels enlivened and happy for this freedom !
True soulmates always need and enjoy being together all the time. Once the wrong
person is out of ones life, some good fortune always happens in a persons life, as a

spiritual sign that one is now on the correct pathway and free from that "negative"
person.
Everyone believes in "SIGNS" which give everyone an indication of good energy, a
good omen to ones soul which is living in this real physical world that one is with the
right person doing the right thing at the right time. If one feels "uncomfortable" or
misfortune happens where it has not happened before, then take this as a sign and
have "closure" and please run away from them !
Once one has "closure" from "draining" people, a positive energy of excitement and
"aliveness" is given by ones Guardian Angels, this is because ones soul is "blocking
success" when one is with bad people. The more spiritual and sensitive a person is the
stronger the "blocking energy" caused by other peoples transference energy, through
ones Guardian Angels.

A sign a man needs from a woman


For men when they get involved with women they always need a sign that this
woman is lucky or not for them. The connection with the right woman makes a man
lucky in business and in life, with an aliveness of motivational energy that ONLY a
man can feel.
Many women don't understand this concept or energy that men need to feel this
energy from a woman, which is generated from a pure sincere & spiritual love which
is intrinsic in a mans soul and from his guardian angels. The reason is that a man only
loves to give to a woman who appreciates him with a supporting selfless love, if the
woman is selfish & materialistic, and is not looking to be part of her man, then this
blocks the flow of success that a man needs to feel from a woman. Men only love
women who appreciate them, likewise women only love men who desire to create a
loving flow of energy and success.
This "mazel" and good fortune is given as a "sign", this special feeling a man feels is
from his Guardian Angels. When a man or a woman has closure from such a wrong
person, ones Guardian Angels unblock an energy and ones good fortune is restored.
This we explain more in the section of Soulmate of the page "Life of Love".

In CONCLUSION - "Guardian Angels"


As you are beginning your spiritual journey the basic fundamental key you need, is
your connection with your Guardian Angels, it must be honest, trustworthy and
strong . With a focus and purpose of selfless service to GOD and to spirit world .

Know and believe that your Guardian Angels are always with you and will always
LOVE you. They are on your side and will always want to help you, no matter how
many opponents or difficulties you may have in life. Your Guardian Angels will try
and help YOU as much as they possibly can, they do this out of LOVE for you and
desire to help you maximize your spiritual potential in life.
One Guardian Angels are working together with you and all the souls of your
soulgroup to ensure your life succeeds.
Always remember to THANK GOD, spirit world and your guardian angels for the
help you receive every moment of every day of your life as implied from this
following anecdote.

FOOTPRINTS
One night a man had a dream. He dreamed he was walking along the beach with is
Guardian Angel. Across the sky flashed scenes from his life. For each scene, he
noticed two sets of footprints in the sand; one belonging to him and the other to the
Guardian Angel.
When the last scene of his life flashed before him, he looked back at the footprints in
the sand. He noticed that many times along the path of his life there was only one set
of footprints. He also noticed that it happened at the very lowest and saddest times in
his life.
This really bothered him and he questioned his Guardian Angel about. "Guardian
Angel, you said that once I decided to listen to you for guidance, you'd walk with me
all the way. But I have noticed that during the most troublesome times in my life,
there is only one set of footprints. I don't understand why when I needed you most
you would leave me."
The Guardian Angel replied, "My precious child, I Love you and would never leave
you. During your times of trial and suffering, when you see only one set of footprints,
it was then that I carried you."

Destiny


"Forty days before a person is conceived into this world, it is announced in Heaven the Divine Spirit World, that the daughter of this man is destined to marry this man,

the house in this place - is destined for their home, and this field (livelihood /
business / profession) is destined for this person". Talmud Sota 2a. Everything is
decreed in our "Destiny " as a Divine plan for each and every person in the
Divine Heavenly records.

This is the original text in Hebrew - Aramaic from the Babylonian Talmud Sotah 2a

Foundation of Believing in "Destiny


" .
The fundamental basis of understanding and believing in this fact that everything is
really is decreed in our "Destiny " in the Divine Heavenly records is to
first believe in GOD.
Until a person starts to "think spiritually", having the innate feeling that there must a
GOD and there must exist a spiritual world from where our souls came from and to
where are souls go to after this physical life has ended then a person will continue
existing a superficial life like a wandering sheep believing that everything that occurs
is simply a haphazard misfit of events, situations and circumstances, created by
themselves and others - which is simply ridiculous as this world would truly descend
into chaos and self-destruction if that were so !
It is ONLY the fact that everything is decreed in our "Destiny " in the
Heavenly records that enables each and everyone to exist and live as individuals and
collectively as a society in a whole.

Destiny - Nothing is Wasted

Life Only Gives Your Soul the Experiences


it Needs
In the idealistic spiritual realms - "nothing is wasted" - EVERYTHING that occurs in
Spirit world and in this physical world happens for a purpose. There is no experience,
coincidence, event or happening that is allowed to occur in this physical world unless
it is a necessity for our soul to learn and change.
This principle of "non-waste" helps us understand that during our physical existence
which we call "life", our soul yearns and needs lessons, situations, tests and
experiences in order to learn, transform, change, correct past-life mistakes and
elevate oneself spiritually.
The spiritual law of Destiny ensures that we all get every experience we
need in order for our soul to fulfill its maximum potential. If one doesn't listen to the
signs and guidance one is being shown in life, discarding everything that happens in
life as mere haphazard occurrence, then one will not learn nor change, and certainly
one will be unable to break the cycle of reincarnation successfully .
Being able to break the cycle of ones life and the cycle of reincarnation successfully
one first needs to STOP and think carefully at EVERYTHING that occurs in ones
life, concentrating on the fact that everything happens for a specific reason.
Remember NOTHING happens by "chance", every coincidence is a piece of a
DESTINED DIVINE plan for ones soul.
Everything that occurs in your life is talking to you and teaching you a lesson. It is up
to you to understand what the lesson is and what is being told to you by Spirit world.
Accept the fact that NOTHING happens by chance nor accident - so continually ask
yourself - "What do i need to learn from the experience i am going through? Why is
this happening to me? & What should i be doing with my life? & What am i being
guided to do with my life?"

Lonely - Feelings of Isolation and


Alienation ?
There is no need for anyone in this world to feel isolated or alienated; every single
person is part of a whole unit - that is ones "soulmate", everything and everyone in
this world is simply a half of a whole.

Each person exists a part of a SoulMate unit and also exists as part of a SoulGroup; if
one feels isolated, alienated and lonely, this implies that one is not connected nor
feeling connected with ones SoulMate or SoulGroup.
Ones Guardian Angels and inner instinctive feelings give a person feelings of
"Isolation, Loneliness and Alienation" and hence feelings of "Depression" as a sign of
being detached from ones true destined pathway, either one is with the wrong
person/people, in the wrong place doing the wrong things for ones soul.
Most people ignore these signs until it becomes overwhelmingly intolerable then it
becomes an "EMERGENCY" to break away with many sudden changes.
If one feels lonely, the first step is to PRAY and ask for guidance from GOD and ones
Guardian Angels; then eliminate the bad and draining connections from ones life, but
most importantly focus on the GOOD connections, which person, place or activity in
your life really brings you strong energy of feeling ALIVE?
The search must start in your mind and thoughts for all the good and positive
connections with souls and people in ones SoulGroup, then one will be guided to
automatically find and be with ones SoulMate. and live in the correct place for ones
soul, fulfilling ones true purpose in life.

Destiny is an Inexplicable Inner Feeling &


Instinct
"Destiny" is an inexplicable feeling that NO ONE else can feel or explain other than
YOU. In our generation, many of us have heard amazing stories of soulmate's
meeting on the internet, overcoming barriers of each others cultures, countries and
societies, with a feeling of knowing this is their destiny and soulmate. For the past 40
years since Air travel, has made the whole World a more accessible place, there are
many more people moving to live in the place that they "feel" is right for their souls
to live.
These feelings unique to each and every personal; one thing is for 100% certain when
a person is away from the wrong place and living in the right place for ones soul with
the right soulmate and connecting with people of ones Soulgroup one truly feels the
spiritual strength, inner reassurance of "being connected" to GOD, and full of
aliveness and happiness.

Signs of Destiny

According to the Tana Devei Eliyahu, there is a Spiritual Law is that every situation
and event in this life comes in pairs; this is meant to act as a SIGN Of DESTINY.
At the same time one is connecting with ones SoulGroup; ones Soulmate and finding
the right place to live for ones soul, simultaneously something good will be
happening in your life. It could be a new job, new business or new home. Be assured
that there will be a sign, this is simply spiritual law of duality and pairs.

Destiny is a Key to Open the Door


To open an enormous door, you only need a tiny key. To solve a baffling mystery, you
only need a small clue. Finding your true destined destiny is finding one of the KEYS
of Life.
To open the enormous door of your destiny, all you really require is a little piece of
information. A word or two from the right person. An idea from the right part of your
own imagination. An insight from the right section of the library. A seemingly trivial
discovery is about to make a very big difference.
All this starts with a sincere prayer and many tears, as we know in "kabbala" crying
opens up a direct link to GOD, to the Eternal Divine Spirit World of Souls, as all
prayers are answered with tears, by crying many tears one can actually make miracles
!
This is especially true if one feels that one has gone away from ones destiny, by
praying and crying; this is always an instinctive feeling for everyone who feels
lonely, isolated and depressed to CRY. A tear is the KEY to OPEN THE DOOR and
will start your journey to find your true destiny.

"Destiny is Written in the Heavenly


Records"
The study of astrology and palmistry, teaches and reassures that everyone's
DESTINY is mapped out for you, and there is no need to be sad, depressed or give-up
on life.
Let the past remain in the past and consider that TODAY is the 1st day of the rest of
your life ! Smile and be Happy ! As soon as one has found ones true destined
pathway there will never be a need to ever be sad or depressed ever again in ones life.

The Future is already Written !

The Talmud Sotah 49b explains many signs that will occur during the last generation.
This is reference to the times known as "Moshiach" which is the time when the veil
between this Physical World and Spiritual world will be removed and everyone will
see everything clearly.
The only thing that isn't written is our attitude and the way we handle everything that
occurs; the freewill choice is ours to accept everything that happens with calmness
and reassurance or to get upset. If we truly trust in GOD then we will never get
flustered nor upset by anything that happens in life.

Prophets & The Future


"Everything is written" in destiny; as explained on "seeing the future" from Sefer
Chochmas Yad, the only reason we are given signs, scriptures, prophets and spiritual
writings is to inform us of the future in order to reassure everyone that DESTINY is
written in the Divine Heavenly records.
It is written and given by prophets to give everyone a proof that there is a GOD; an
eternal DIVINE Creator of the whole Universe and an Eternal Divine Spiritual World
of Souls. Everything has a purpose and plan in accordance with the will of GOD.
May it be the will of GOD that we see everything that happens in our lives for good
and be able to see the signs in our life to find our true destined pathway.

SoulGroup is the 1st Key


Finding and connecting with ones SoulGroup is the first Key to open the door to
your Destiny.

Success in Breaking the Cycle of


Reincarnation

Reb Chaim Vital explains that the ONLY purpose for every reincarnated soul is to
BREAK the cycle of reincarnation. Having to come back to earth-school again and
again is a spiritual blessing and gift, but it would be far better for our souls to either
choose to come back to earth or to completely elevate our soul and never need to
come back to recorrect our past-life mistakes.
Until we make the necessary corrections for our soul, each and everyone of us will
keep coming back as reincarnated souls. As explained on "The Purpose of Life" , we
must learn to perfect the 3 aspects that are vitally important for all reincarnated souls.
(1) The need to learn to FORGIVE.
(2) The need to learn to be COMPASSIONATE to everyone.
(3) The need to learn to LOVE.
Only be focusing on these aspects will one be able to break the cycle of reincarnation.
Reb Chaim Vital explains that together with the 3 keys of reincarnation especially the
1st Key of always being grateful and happy with everything in one's life, one will
have true spiritual success in breaking the death cycle of reincarnation.
The challenge to ALL reincarnated souls is to NEVER think hateful, angry, bitter,
jealous or negative thoughts. Each time a person thinks a negative thought it creates
an energy of DEATH, whereas everytime a person thinks of a positive loving happy
thought one creates energy of LIFE.
The pain of reincarnation means that there are going to be situations and people
whom one will be inclined to be hateful, angry, bitter or negative towards, this is
because ones soul has carried over from a prior lifetime this negative DEATH energy,
that's why a person has reincarnated, if one had indeed succeeded in a previous

lifetime to have only LOVING and LIFE energy then ones soul would not have
needed to reincarnate in this lifetime.

Success in Unblocking the Blockages


caused by Reincarnation
Blockages created by ones soul in order to deal with issues of
"reincarnation", these blockages are needed to ensure one learns lessons of change,
love and forgiveness. Perfecting ones life from silly mistakes one has made in
previous lifetimes, is the reason why inexplicable "blockages" occur at anytime in
ones life.
Our souls have come to earth to learn specific lessons, blockages in our life are
created to force and channel our soul to perfecting itself by understanding the signs
and thereby making corrections and changing, each is specific to each unique
individual. The first step is to recognize that nothing happens by "chance" and
everything, however inexplicable and painful it has a reason why it happens in ones
life.
As our soul learns its unique and specific lessons then the "blockage" is taken away,
and our soul will feel enlightened.

The Recipe for Success is Easy


Unlock the doors using the 3 keys of reincarnation and then focus on the spiritual
purpose of reincarnated souls, it seems so simple and easy - and it is !

Once the Door is Opened...


Once a person has corrected the reason for reincarnation then the spiritual doorway is
now opened for one to live ones future; the past is now closed and finished.

...
"One Knows Instinctively"
The spiritual saying that "one knows ones own level of spirituality from within
oneself" is so true, as one feels the inner glow of spiritual success from within. No
one can tell you how you feel, it's a spiritual feeling from within ones own soul. One
will instinctively know when one has broken ones own cycle of reincarnation.

Always Be Careful !
Even though one has broken the cycle of reincarnation from past lives, always be
careful not to create any new situation in this life that will cause one to make any
more silly mistakes and cause reincarnation.
Each and everyday always be careful to keep and follow 3 keys of reincarnation and
focus on the spiritual purpose of reincarnated souls, always ASK GOD for
forgiveness for any mistakes one has made, for so long as we are alive as humans we
are always tempted to make silly mistakes !
"Please GOD Forgive Me For Everything I Have Done Wrong In My Life & In Prior
Lifetimes, I Have Made Many Silly Mistakes Which I Truly Regret, Please Forgive
Me".
Then one will be guaranteed to be at ONE with GOD in the Eternal Divine Spiritual
Realms, this indeed is the best preparation we can give our soul in this life. This is the
Key to breaking the cycle of death and the cycle of reincarnation and remaining a
spiritual success.


The prayer known as Tikun HaGilGul "The Prayer for Correction of Reincarnation",
is in fact the Book of Song of Songs, Shir HaShirim; this book is an expression of
love from King Solomon for his sincere love of GOD. The highest success in
correction for ones soul is to really LOVE GOD.

The True Purpose of Life


Reb Chaim Vital explains that each individual has their own unique and individual
purpose in life, however ALL reincarnated souls have 3 specific purposes in life.
In this chapter we shall explain the purpose of reincarnation for ALL reincarnated
souls.
(1) All reincarnated souls need to learn to FORGIVE.
(2) All reincarnated souls need to learn to be COMPASSIONATE to everyone.
(3) All reincarnated souls need to learn to LOVE.

Life versus Death; Love versus Hate


Choose Life & Love
The reason our souls have reincarnated in this life is because we have made mistakes
in previous lifetimes that need correcting; events and situations occurred in prior
lifetimes that have created negative ties, when our souls left the prior lifetime we had
created DEATH and now we need to cancel out the "DEATH" from prior lifetime and
convert this to "LIFE" in this lifetime for all of eternity.
"DEATH" is anything that isn't life; "DEATH" includes hatred, jealousy, bitterness,
un forgiven arguments, resentment and a greedy selfish physical attachment to this
physical earth.
"LIFE" is love; "LIFE" energy brings happiness, contentment, peace of mind, trust in
GOD and an optimistic outlook on life, eager to live every moment of life. "LIFE"
has the power to create more "LIFE" and hence choosing the pathway of "LIFE"
means choosing to be part of a continuity of life. Once a person chooses continuity of
life then a person has broken the dead-end cycle of death and reincarnation. Ones
soul is now spiritually enlightened and FREE from "death" for eternity. The freewill
choice is ours LIFE versus DEATH, LOVE versus HATE - Be wise and choose life
.

(1) The Need to Learn to FORGIVE.


The first purpose for all reincarnated souls is the URGENT need to learn to
FORGIVE, this is the single most important key to successfully break the cycle of
reincarnation; the success of ones life will be judged in the ability to forgive.
Reb Chaim Vital explains that it is totally unimportant whatever anyone has done to
you, the IMPORTANT factor is to FORGIVE them completely. If one has been hurt
in this life by anyone it is quite possible that one did this to them in a prior lifetime.
The ONLY way to break the cycle of reincarnation is to FORGIVE them completely.
This is so imperatively important that Reb Chaim Vital says that this is the whole
purpose of living a reincarnated life - to learn to FORGIVE.

FORGIVE AND FORGET COMPLETELY


The sign that you have successfully forgiven another person, is that when you think
of them, you no longer have any hatred feelings. In fact you should have NO

FEELINGS towards them at all. They mean NOTHING at all, not to you or your life
anymore as you have disconnected yourself from their soul through your forgiveness
to them you have set yourself free from them.
If you still feel some element of hatred or any emotions towards them, this is a sign
that you have NOT disconnected from them and their evil ways, and THIS WILL
HURT, POISON AND DESTROY YOUR LIFE AND SOUL.
So simply forgive them in your mind thoughts, forget about them, don't even mention
their name, and detach yourself from them completely.
The Jewish prayer said every night before going to sleep, is the same prayer said on a
person's death bed in the final preparation as the soul leaves this physical world and
according to Reb Chaim Vital is the prayer one should say every time someone upsets
you.
Reb Chaim Vital states that one should say this several times every day during the
day to cleanse ones soul, especially at any moment when someone has upset you or
made you feel angry and hurt, as these are people that for some reason have come
into your life to upset you for a specific reason to heal the negative energy in your
soul , so learn to FORGIVE them and FORGIVE everyone who has done you harm
in this lifetime and prior lifetimes.

Translated :- "Ribbono Shel Olam - Master of the Universe - I forgive everyone who
has angered and upset me, or sinned against me, whether they did this physically,
materialistically or disrespectfully. And whether they did this by accident or
intentionally, with horrible evil thoughts or without thinking, whether they said the
words or with actions, whether in this life or in previous lifetimes ...... i forgive
them... and please GOD do not punish or hurt them, do not bring any illness or
anything bad against them as i forgive them completely ....... I FORGIVE
EVERYONE through the power of my prayer and my speech".

See the "Bigger Picture" and Forgive them !


It is so easy in life to hold resentment against people who have done you unjustly
wrong in life, there maybe many legitimate reasons why one should logically
continue "fighting" them, with all the negative hateful and destructive energy that one
can create, however, this just continues a cycle of destruction and negativity.
Try breaking the cycle and simply FORGIVE them; even if one is in the middle of a
court case, in the middle of a very destructive argument with them, simply listen to
the spiritual teachings of Reb Chaim Vital and Sefer Gilgulim and FORGIVE
everyone.
Say the "forgiveness" prayer and repeat that you FORGIVE them, and you will be
surprise at the changes that will occur.
Reb Chaim Vital explains that everything that happens in this physical world has it's
source in the spiritual world, therefore one can heal and change the physical situation
of ones life by changing the spiritual situation. Learning to genuinely FORGIVE
anyone and everyone will actually FREE your soul from them, and will you life and
soul will grow and rise to higher levels of spiritual enlightenment.
Reb Chaim Vital explains that one doesn't have to have contact with these people in
order to forgive them, simply forgive them in your heart, thoughts, mind and soul.
Everytime one genuinely FORGIVES someone one is healing ones soul and
rectifying the reason one's soul reincarnated into this life.

Forgiveness
Reb Chaim Vital explains the hebrew word for forgiveness is Selicha; the first
letter is closed letter teaching that without forgiveness one will just go around-andaround in circles in life, accomplishing nothing and dying miserable, bitter and
resentful.
FORGIVENESS has the power to break all reincarnations setting a persons soul
FREE and enabling one to live a life of happiness and love in this world and for
eternity for ones soul. This is the most important purpose ones soul has reincarnated
to FORGIVE and become FREE from that negative connection.

"I FORGIVE EVERYONE"!

Keep Saying the Words I Forgive ...


Reb Chaim Vital explains that if one has any uncomfortable feelings about anyone,
any dislikes or anyone that one feels any kind of hatred from, then one should say the
word "I forgive ...(the name of the person)... for the hurt they have done me".
Keep repeating this many times until one feels that there is complete forgiveness
from you in your mind and you actually feel good, relieved, disconnected and
released from them. This is the purpose you are alive in order to FORGIVE everyone
and everything that happens in your life, past present and future, FORGIVE everyone
!
Only when one has forgiven then one can start to cancel out any "loss by
transference" that has occurred in ones life.

Then ASK GOD for Forgiveness


Once a person has broken all the negative aspects of reincarnation, by forgiving all
the people whom have hurt, angered, destroyed or damaged ones life, one is now able
to ASK GOD to be forgiven. Simply say:-

"Please GOD Forgive Me For Everything I


Have Done Wrong In My Life & In Prior
Lifetimes, I Have Made Many Silly
Mistakes Which I Truly Regret, Please
Forgive Me".
The spiritual law applies that since one has forgiven all those people whom have done
wrong and hurt against you, so too you will be forgiven. This is the Key to breaking
the cycle of death and the cycle of reincarnation.

(2) The Need to Learn to be


COMPASSIONATE

All reincarnated souls need to learn to be COMPASSIONATE to everyone, which


means NEVER hurt anyone and never gossip nor slander anyone. Use the power of
speech wisely.
Reb Chaim Vital explains that having compassion for other people is having respect
for them, the Spiritual Law of Compassion explains that all humans are created with a
unique soul by GOD, everyone has a unique purpose, and everyone deserves respect
for their specific role they have in life, even if we have differing opinions, different
ways of doing things and different beliefs & perceptions of life.
Compassion means understanding that anger is a result of arguments and
disagreements when people are intolerant towards others and lack compassion for
other human beings, the meaning of "humility" and the ways of a humble person is
the key to having compassion for everyone and the key for "spiritual" elevation of
ones soul, as explained fully on "Life of Compassion" .
When a person has compassion for another person, one will instinctively have respect
for them and will NOT gossip nor slander them.


Whoever is a person that loves life, loving each day to see goodness; Will guard ones
tongue from badness and ones lips from speaking deceitfully. Psalms 34:13&14

...
What is a persons purpose in this life? To keep quiet as much as possible !
The Talmud explains that the reason why most people fail to elevate their souls and
find themselves reincarnating again and again is because they have failed to use the
power of speech correctly. The only reason why a person slanders and gossips against
another person is because a person is resentful, bitter and uncompassionate. All these
factors are negative and will cause a person to be reincarnated, these are DEATH
energies.
Therefore one should learn to be extremely careful with the power of ones speech, the
only way one will have life is by using ones speech that creates LIFE energy. NEVER
criticize anyone, NEVER shout or destroy anyone's life through the power of speech
otherwise one will be locked into a cycle of reincarnation. If someone asks your
opinion of someone then "teach yourself to say - i don't know" ...
. Respect and be compassionate to others as you expect others to respect and be
compassionate to you.

(3) The Need to Learn to LOVE.


All reincarnated souls need to learn to LOVE, the most important purpose of life is to
LOVE. The famous Rabbi Hillel said that the essence of the whole Torah is "Love thy
neighbor" and everything else is simply an explanation of how to LOVE. Learning to
LOVE is the key of life, when one chooses to LOVE one chooses life, when one
hates one chooses death.
Reb Chaim Vital explains that once a person has corrected the 3 keys of reincarnation
especially the 1st Key of always being grateful and happy with everything in one's
life, the next stage to ensuring a corrected and perfect reincarnation is to LOVE
everything and everyone. Learn to continually think loving thoughts and live a
wholesome "LIFE OF LOVE".
Naturally, this can be challenge because there maybe situations or people that may
"make you" feel that you don't want to be loving towards them. However, the
challenge to ALL reincarnated souls is to NEVER think hateful, angry, bitter, jealous
or negative thoughts. Each time a person thinks a negative thought it creates an
energy of DEATH, whereas everytime a person thinks of a positive loving happy
thought one creates energy of LIFE.
The pain of reincarnation means that there are going to be situations and people
whom one will be inclined to be hateful, angry, bitter or negative towards, this is
because ones soul has carried over from a prior lifetime this negative DEATH energy,
that's why a person has reincarnated, if one had indeed succeeded in a previous
lifetime to have only LOVING and LIFE energy then ones soul would not have
needed to reincarnate in this lifetime.
Therefore one must HEAL ones soul and correct all of ones thoughts to ONLY be
positive and LOVING thoughts.

3 Aspects Vitally Important


Purposes of Life for All Reincarnated Souls
(1) The need to learn to FORGIVE.
(2) The need to learn to be COMPASSIONATE to everyone.
(3) The need to learn to LOVE.

Reb Chaim Vital guarantees that if one focuses on these 3 aspects each and everyday
one will find ones soul becoming healed and corrected from all the mistakes from
prior lifetimes. This is the whole purpose of ones life, everything else is to "keep
oneself busy" whilst correcting these 3 aspects. It can take a whole lifetime but that
indeed is the purpose of life. FORGIVE, LOVE and be COMPASSIONATE.
Only when one has forgiven, compassionate and is full of love then one can start to
cancel out any "loss by transference" that has occurred in ones life, which is the final
step in living the destined life one has been destined to live.

"Soul Groups & Soulmates"


Are You Lonely? Do You Have Feelings of Isolation and Alienation?
The truth is that NO ONE is this world should feel lonely, isolated, alienated or
depressed; having these feelings are a sign that some facet of ones life is not correct
and needs to be changed.
Each person exists a part of a SoulMate, and each SoulMate unit exists as part of a
SoulGroup; if one feels isolated, alienated and lonely, this implies that one is not
connected nor feeling connected with ones SoulGroup.
Ones Guardian Angels and inner instinctive feelings give a person feelings of
"Isolation, Loneliness and Alienation" and hence feelings of "Depression" as a sign of
being detached from ones true destined pathway, either one is with the wrong
person/people, in the wrong place doing the wrong things for ones soul.
Most people ignore these signs until it becomes overwhelmingly intolerable then it
becomes an "EMERGENCY" to break away with many sudden changes.

The SoulGroup
During our journey of life, we travel on this earth in "SoulGroups", that is a group,
culture and identity where all the members of the SoulGroup understand each other
and live on the same physical and spiritual wavelength.
The members of ones SoulGroup will not all be alive on earth at the same time, just
as many (if not more) will be in spirit world helping and guiding you from the realms
of the Divine Spiritual world. All the souls in ones SoulGroup whom have passed into
to Spirit world maintain contact with you as they are part of ones SoulGroup in much

the same way as "Guardian Angels", they NEVER ever detach themselves as you are
all members of the same SoulGroup.
The remainder of the members in ones Soulgroup will be alive in this physical world
and will be searching to connect with you just like you are searching to connect with
them.
One will always be able to rely upon ALL the Souls and members of ones SoulGroup
to help, guide and assist you; Likewise they can rely on you with the utmost of
loyalty to help them; the souls in each SoulGroup are all collectively working
together to ensure the whole Soulgroup succeeds to fulfill ALL of the goals,
objectives, challenges and purposes of ones SoulGroup.

The Purpose of Ones Soul Group


The purpose of the "SOULGROUP" is to make a person feel wholesome with LOVE
and enable one to accomplish the mission and purpose of life through physical and
spiritual LOVE energy. Everything constructive and good in this life is only created
through LOVE. Only through the loving spiritual energy created together within ones
SoulGroup and from ones Soulmate creates the perfect energy to live, bringing
meaning to everything in ones life.
Every person and every soul in ones Soulgroup is 100% helpful and will never let
you down, they are on the same "team" and work with your soul with 100% loyalty.

Disconnected from Ones SoulGroup ?


Once a person has learnt the lessons of ones life, it is possible to elevate ones soul
into a higher soulgroup, and likewise if one makes a bad decision one can move out
of ones soulgroup into a lower group.
If one has made silly mistakes and bad choices in ones life, and one now feels lonely,
isolated, alienated and depressed this means that one has disconnected from ones
SoulGroup, it is imperatively important that one reconnects as soon as possible. It is
your lifeline to enable you to live life; without this spiritual connection to your
SoulGroup one will feel so depressed that one actually wants to die, with emotions
and feelings that there is nothing to live for; these feelings are simply inner spiritual
feelings letting a person know that they are disconnected from their Soulgroup.
The Divine Spiritual guarantee is that one will always be able to reconnect with ones
SoulGroup; through the help of ones "Guardian Angels" and all the helpful souls
from ones soulgroup, together with the "Three Keys of Reincarnation" that one may

need to unlock any closed doors in ones life that have caused a person to be
disconnected from ones SoulGroup.


"Shoresh Neshoma" The Root of Ones Soul
Reb Chaim Vital explains that this connection of ones soul is compared to a leaf on a
tree finding its root; according to the science of plants and trees (&Kabbala!) every
branch on a tree has a direct link through the tree trunk to a source of life energy in
the roots of the tree where is absorbs minerals and water from the ground to give
itself "Life".
Our Souls are similar, we all have a connection called " Shoresh
Neshoma-The Root of Ones Soul"; this is the direct connection of YOU in this
Physical world to the root of YOUR soul in the eternal Divine Spiritual world and
therefore a direct connection of your soul to GOD.
" Shoresh Neshoma" The Root of Ones Soul - is the connecting root of
YOUR soul that is connected to the Eternal DIVINE source of all life, to the source
of all physical and spiritual life, to GOD.
When a person is connected with ones SoulGroup one will feel at-peace, full of life
energy with an inner spiritual feeling that one is living ones true destined life and that
one is truly connected to Spiritual world. However if one feels lonely, isolated or
depressed or one is not feeling "at peace" with oneself, this implies that something in
ones life is wrong and that one is disconnected from the root of ones soul.

Therefore the first step is to reconnect with ones SoulGroup; which will in-turn
enable one to completely reconnect strongly to the " Shoresh Neshoma the Source & Root of Ones Soul" to get ones true life-energy, ones true destiny, and
ones true Soulmate.

Pray & Ask for Guidance to Find ones


SoulGroup
If one feels lonely, the first step is to PRAY, ask for guidance from GOD and from
ones Guardian Angels; then eliminate the bad and draining connections from ones life
by having "closure" from them, but most importantly focus on all the GOOD
connections; which people, places or activities in your life have really brought you
strong energies and feelings of aliveness?
The search must start in your mind and thoughts for ALL the good and positive
connections with souls and people in ones SoulGroup; start by thinking of the most
special memorable good moments in ones life when one had real "life" energy; with
good fortune; then think of all the people one has known in ones life who have
HELPED you.
Everyone has had people in ones life whom have ONLY helped, these people never
took from you, never hurt you, but ONLY helped YOU and did GOOD for you,
unless something went wrong or someone interfered in the energy flow between you
and that person that blocked the connection or caused that connection to turn bad,
however that person remains a source to your soul of a spiritual connection that has
done good for you, and can do good for you.
These people and souls are from your SoulGroup, in the same way they helped you,
they will ALWAYS help you, whether or not they are living in this world and whether
or not you are still in contact with them or whether or not the blockage caused by
other peoples energies (such as "transference" blockage) still exists, the fact is their
souls exist for eternity and they will ALWAYS be there to help you, as they are part
of your SoulGroup.
Therefore the 1st step in connecting with ones SoulGroup is to connect in ones mind
and thoughts to all the helpful people in ones life, past and present. THINK about
them, use your mind and thoughts to connect your soul to them, then you will feel a
door opening in your mind and soul that connects you even further to even more
positive connections of your SoulGroup.
Then one will be guided to automatically find and be with ones SoulMate and live in
the correct place for ones soul, fulfilling ones true purpose in life.

Disconnected and Broken


Disconnection from ones source of spiritual life energy is often the reason why a
person is not living the destined life they were meant to live; this break and
disconnection can be caused by other peoples overwhelming and interfering energies,
or by bad freewill choices in ones life, where one made a bad decision and chose the
wrong pathway, disconnecting from ones " Shoresh Neshoma - Source &
Root of Ones Soul".
Reb Chaim Vital explains in 2 pathways & side-tracked the ease at which it is to
"come back" to ones destined perfect pathway, by "returning" from the bad pathway
one has taken.

Forgiveness
We explain on the page of "Three Keys" of Reincarnation, that when one has
disconnected with members of ones SoulGroup because of arguments, hatred,
jealousy or other peoples energies interfering in your life, then by forgiving the
events and people that caused the disconnection one can easily reconnect with ones
SoulGroup.
Once a person has reconnected with the ones SoulGroup, ones Soul will
automatically start to strengthen its " Shoresh Neshoma" The Root of
Ones Soul with the Eternal Divine Spiritual world and one will start to live the life
one was originally destined to live.
It is imperatively vital that one is connected spiritually with ones SoulGroup before
one can completely heal ones soul and correct past-life mistakes, and open the doors
to break the cycle of Reincarnation and have complete wholesomeness in ones soul.
The extent of "true forgiveness" is seen when everyone that has caused you pain,
even though they should have been helpful in your life, is in a list of people you are
really thankful for in your life, these are members of your SoulGroup and are the
closest souls to your soul.
Whether you or they like it or not, they are all members of your SoulGroup, and
when you get to Spirit world you and they will see the truth and you will see how
successful you were in cleansing your souls and forgiving each other, so why wait
until then? Forgive them and cleanse your soul now so that you can connect to the
" Shoresh Neshoma" The Root of Ones Soul and to ones spiritual
SoulGroup, we explain more on forgiveness in "Success in breaking the cycle of
Reincarnation".

The Family Tree of the World


Everyone in the whole world is connected, we all originate from the same Adam &
Eve
Reb Chaim Vital makes an important note that in correcting the cycle of reincarnation
we need to undo the damage of the very first reincarnated soul Sheis, who was the
soul of Abel whom was innocently murdered by his hateful and jealous brother Cain,
as explained on the "meaning of reincarnation" page.
Reb Chaim Vital explains that this is more significant to spiritually enlightened souls,
to show love, compassion and selflessness, there is no need to hate, be destructive, be
greedy nor be jealous of anyone, we all have our destined destiny and we are all part
of the same DIVINE spiritual world of souls .

3 Keys to Open the Door


To open an enormous door, you only need a tiny key. To solve a baffling mystery, you
only need a small clue. All one needs to clear the pathway to find ones true destined
destiny are the 3 Keys of Reincarnation.
To open the enormous door of your destiny and to break the cycle and blockages
caused by reincarnating is the spiritual knowledge to unlock the doors known as the 3
Keys of Reincarnation.

Exercises to do:1. Write down all the names of everyone you have met in your whole life
Thank GOD and think thoughts of gratitude that all these people came into your
life
2. Write down all the names of the people who have ever helped you in your life
Think LOVING thoughts of gratitude that all these people came into your life
3. Write down all the names of the people who have helped you but something
went wrong
Then FORGIVE them for the situation that occurred then think LOVING
thoughts of them.
4.Write down a list of all the people whom have helped you in your life that have
since died
Think LOVING thoughts of gratitude for all these people and if you sense them
coming close to you as you think of them spiritually, ask them if they can help
you in your life.

" Where is Your True Home?"


This chapter in Sefer Gilgulim explains the principle of " Yeneeka
Milmaala" which literally means "sustenance from above"; in real terms
"Yeneeka Milmaala" is the spiritual understanding that a person needs to be in the
correct place for ones soul to receive the destined fullness of physical and spiritual
energy for ones soul, in order that one can maximize ones true potential in ones life.
If one is not in the correct place nor connected with the correct place for ones soul
then one will feel drained, empty, disconnected and without goodness in ones life.
There is no doubt that there are different places for each and every person that give a
good energy and other places that make a person feel drained, which are indicative
that they are unsuitable places for ones soul and hence for ones physical existence.
Reb Chaim Vital explains the importance of understanding " Yeneeka
Milmaala" to be able to correct any past-life reincarnated aspects, hence enabling one
to live a fulfilling purposeful life in this life in the correct place for ones soul.
In this chapter Reb Chaim Vital explains the following points :-

(1) The importance of understanding about ones "Birth Place" and the place of ones
conception in this lifetime as a source of energy and sustenance for ones soul.
(2) The importance of feeling "connected" with the source of energy for ones soul
and " Shoresh Neshoma-The Root of Ones Soul" the need to be connected
to the right place; without a " Yeneeka Milmaala" sustenance for ones
soul, one will feel drained and one's life will be blocked.
(3) The importance of understanding that reincarnated souls may have several
different places in this physical world that they need to complete "unfinished
business" from prior lifetimes before they can find the real peace of mind in the
perfect correct place for this lifetime.
Once a person has healed and corrected a particular lifetime within a section of this
lifetime then they must leave the place and move onto the next phase of life.
Otherwise they will feel drained and blocked as there is no longer any more
" Yeneeka Milmaala" sustenance in that place, Reb Chaim Vital explains the
"signs" for when one has completed each phase of reincarnation and when is the
correct time to leave that place.
(4) The explanation of the famous Jewish spiritual rule of ,
"Change ones Physical Place - Will Change ones Fortune", and how we can really
change our destiny and our life by "moving" ones physical home.
Reb Chaim Vital explains the basis that different places offer different energies of
sustenance for our soul, some places are 100% spiritually energizing whereas other
places are 100% materialistic and how to "balance" the energies from separate places
in ones life.

The Importance of Understanding


"Where is Your True Home?"
Reb Chaim Vital explains the importance of understanding "Where is Your True
Home?" is vitally important to finding your true soulmate as it will be impossible to
find your Soulmate and live the life you are truly destined to live if you are in the
wrong place !
Many people question, why nothing is happening in their lives, and surely they are
quite correct to question the "stagnation" and ask for reasons why they have "no
good-luck" in their lives. If one has a "stagnated", dull-and-boring life with "nothing"
happening then indeed this is a sign that one has disconnected from the source of life

energy for ones soul and one needs to make changes URGENTLY to connect with
and receive ones "sustenance from Above " Yeneeka Milmaala".
The first change needed is to connect with the source of spiritual energy for ones soul
from ones SoulGroup; then one needs to question oneself truthfully that just "maybe"
one is living in the wrong place for ones soul, hence ones good fortune is actually
being sent down from heaven, but because one is in the wrong place one isn't
receiving the parcel of heavenly good fortune.
Therefore use the knowledge of this chapter, then study and consider for yourself
where you really belong? Where is your soul "pulling" you to go to or to live? Are
you feeling that you don't really belong where you are living? All these questions
ONLY you can answer, but with the spiritual knowledge of Reb Chaim Vital who
assures everyone that everyone has a perfect place in this physical world for ones
soul and body, everyone will find ones TRUE HOME provided one first recognizes
the truth that one is in the wrong place.
The first step in understanding " Yeneeka Milmaala - Sustenance for
Ones Soul" is to understand all about ones "BirthPlace", and the identity of energy of
the place at the time one was born.

(1)The Importance of Ones "Birth Place"


Ones "Birth Place" is the actual and real physical place in this world that ones body
had its initial freedom, independence and individuality; this is the start of the
emergence of ones personality and development in this world in this lifetime at the
moment of Birth.
Reb Chaim Vital explains that spiritually the original place of ones arrival on this
planet occurred at the moment of conception, the moment when ones soul
transcended through ones fathers soul and physical body into ones mothers physical
body and attaches itself to ones mother during the 9 months of pregnancy.
During the 9 months of pregnancy all the physical and spiritual energy one receives is
channeled through ones mothers soul "NEFESH"; then from the moment of birth one
has ones own unique individuality and has a direct source of physical and spiritual
energy channeled to ones soul.
Every child that receives love and energy from its parents and love from everyone
that it connects with during childhood will develop a good sense of security and inner
strength to grow physically and spiritually. Likewise a well-nurtured child will be
open to receive spiritual strength for ones soul to grow and to find ones own spiritual
identity and individuality of ones soul.

Many children that are reincarnated souls will often find themselves being born into
an unsettled environment which creates situations that will unsettle and challenge
them from an early age; these are lessons and signposts that create blockages in their
growth, therefore forcing them to instinctively "leave" home at an early age.
Nonetheless everyone's "Birth Place" is extremely important in identifying the energy
of ones soul; in order to do this we need an historical knowledge of the place of ones
birth together with an honest "outsiders" opinion of the place of ones birth.
For example, for anyone and everyone born is spiritually Holy Cities especially
biblically named cities, such as Jerusalem, Hebron, Kiryat Arba, Shechem, Tiberias;
all these cities have energy dated from history that the whole world reads about in the
Torah Bible. For all of eternity they have a specific spiritual energy.
Whereas "modern day" cities that have only existed in the past few hundred years
have a different meaning, even cities such as New York, Miami, Chicago, Los
Angeles, and Toronto have a different energy to European cities such as London,
Paris, Zurich, Madrid, whereas Rome and Berlin invoke another type of energy.
Each city is as unique as every country of the world, and to save any discrimination i
shall simply say that EACH city has its own specific energy and feeling to everyone
in a different manner. Just like some people will not feel welcome or safe in some
cities due to their racial background, likewise spiritually there are "un welcoming"
places for our soul.

Time and Place of Birth


Whilst considering the energy of ones "Birth Place" and place of ones conception as
the originating source of " Yeneeka Milmaala - Sustenance from Above"
for ones soul, one MUST also consider the TIME of conception and TIME of birth.
What energies good or bad where transcending into the world at that time ?
Reb Chaim Vital explains this is indeed the importance of "astrology" and hence the
deep-rooted spiritual astrological teachings of Sefer Raziel HaMalach in Jewish
Spiritual knowledge.
In considering the place of birth, one needs to understand the energy that town/city is
famous for and at the time of your conception and birth, the energy that was
associated with that place.
I give an example for our "modern day" readers - Liverpool UK, everyone in the
whole world has heard of Liverpool but most people have ONLY heard of Liverpool
after 1963 when the Beatles revolutionized the music world, before then Liverpool

didn't have the fame or fortune as it did after then. The creative loving transformation
they made, catalyzed a whole generation to change, with their music which rebelled
against the past, encouraging freedom of expression of life by living freely and
lovingly. Anyone born in Liverpool in those years of 1963 and 1964 will be
associated with that potential energy to catalyze a CHANGE in the world like the
Beatles did for the music world, culture and society.
This would be called a NEW " Yeneeka Milmaala - Sustenance from
Above" that came at that specific time to that place. Whereas someone born in
somewhere like London or Paris at anytime in any year will always have the
"London" or "Parisian" identity.
Other thoughts and examples such as New York, considered be many to be the
number 1 city of the world, with the tallest of sky scrapers on Manhattan, is the
centre of capitalist business and materialism in the whole world. Paris, city of love
and romance. Rome, thoughts of the Roman Empire and of religion of christianity.
Every moment of everyday, constantly in the whole world there are energies
transcending, places being given the gift of LOVE and life vitality, and those places
that are a focus of negative emotions hatred violence and death.
Just think of the following places as potential holiday destinations, which of these
appeal to you and which don't, then ask yourself why? and why not ? Paris, Rome,
Brussels, Jerusalem, Bagdad, Istanbul, Chernobyl, Addis Ababa, Damascus, Moscow,
Warsaw, Prague, New York; Now do you understand that each place has an energy
called "A YENEEKA MilMa'ala" Sustenance energy from heavens above, therefore :-

The Birth Place of Reb Chaim Vital


As an anecdote , in the personal history of Reb Chaim Vital , his father Reb Yosef
Vital was given a blessing when he lived in Italy by Rabbi Chaim Ashkanazi, and was
advised to move to Sefad in Northern Israel. He was told that "If he moves then he
will be blessed with a specially gifted son, who will write many spiritual books
teaching for many generations all of Klal Yisroel"; Thank GOD his father listened
and moved, thereby Reb Chaim Vital was born and we have been blessed with his
knowledge from his books.

Revisiting Ones Birth Place


Everyone's Birth Place is the specific unique source of " Yeneeka
Milmaala - Sustenance from Above" for ones soul, there is something special about
that place. It is written then whenever a person has had a traumatic upset a person has

a feeling to go "back home" to ones birthplace, even for a visit one is reconnecting
with the original strength of " Yeneeka Milmaala - Sustenance from
Above" for ones soul.

(2) " Shoresh HaNeshoma"


The Connection to the Root of Ones Soul
& Receiving 100% Sustenance for Ones
Soul
" Yeneeka Milmaala"
The importance of feeling "connected" with the source of energy for ones soul and
" Shoresh Neshoma-The Root of Ones Soul" and the need to be connected
to the right place is vital for everyone in order to live life; without a
"Yeneeka Milmaala" sustenance for ones soul, one will feel drained and one's life will
be blocked.


"Shoresh Neshoma" The Root of Ones Soul
The importance of connecting with the right source of energy for ones soul is
imperative to connecting to the Source and root of ones Soul " Shoresh
Neshoma - The Root of Ones Soul". In the Chapter of SoulGroups we explain the
meaning, however, if one considers that from the moment one is born, throughout
childhood into early adulthood one is like a nurturing tree, absorbing energy from

ones surroundings and circumstances, only when one has inner strength and
confidence then one can "travel" and explore the world as one is connected to reflect
a continuity of inner physical and spiritual strength.
If, however, one's soul is not "connected" to the source of sustenance for ones soul,
enabling a continuity of energy flow then one will be unable to "travel" without being
drained and weakened.
This is the reason why so many people feel weakened or problems occur when they
go away on "holiday"; as their souls aren't strong enough to remain connected to the
source of sustenance, and therefore they become weakened physically.

Always Seeking to Return Home


Inherent in our human nature is the instinctive feeling of always wanting to "go back
home"; wherever we are in our lives and at whatever age, our spiritual soul will
instinctively be reconnecting from time-to-time with memories of "home" in order to
connect and re energize ones life-giving energy; Our birthplace is the place of our
initial " Yeneeka Milmaala Soul's Sustenance", it provided us with the
energy to grow and will always have the potential to create rebirth and growth.

Unblocking Ones Life


Reb Chaim Vital explains that for people who are searching to "find" themselves,
especially if one is feeling drained, ones life is stagnated, living without any "goodluck" in ones life, then one needs to reconnect by "returning" home to the energy and
source of ones life-energy, to ones Birth Place.
However, one cannot physically travel there, then one should use the power of ones
mind and thoughts to energize ones life with feelings of "home" of ones BirthPlace,
the safety, security and inner sustenance of that place with invigorate ones soul as a
" Yeneeka Milmaala" sustenance for ones soul" starts to flow into ones
soul.
From that moment in ones life of reconnecting with one birthplace and it's energy,
one must continue to remain connected in order to allow a continual flow of good
energy into ones life. Which will provide one with a good inner strength of character,
positive energy and good fortune & a good "Mazal".

Revisit Every Good Place

Similarly, with every place one has been to that one ONLY has good memories, has
achieved good fortune and has ONLY had happiness and success, these are important
places for ones soul; and at a time of depression, blockage, dull-and-boring stagnated
moments in ones life, one should go to these places of good fortune and happiness for
ones soul as they have an inherent physical and spiritual sustenance for your soul,
" Yeneeka Milmaala".
Conversely ANY place which has been draining, painful and problematic in ones life,
one should KEEP AWAY from. These are signs that there is no energy in that place
for ones soul, therefore if there is no spiritual " Yeneeka Milmaala"
sustenance for ones soul, it is only a matter of time before there is no energy for ones
physical existence and one must leave that place, it is a danger for ones soul to
remain there, if there is no goodness, as we explain this below.

(3) Reincarnated Souls Have Different


Places in This Physical World Where They
Need to Complete "Unfinished Business"
From Prior Lifetimes before Moving-On
With Life
Reb Chaim Vital explains that if we find ourselves in a place or situation in our lives,
we must assume that NOTHING happens by accident and that everything is destined;
this doesn't mean that its 100% perfect for us to remain in that difficulty, situation or
place, but it is a sign that we need to correct a facet of our soul or learn a specific
lesson in that situation.

Reincarnated Souls
It is necessary for reincarnated souls to travel and live in different places in the world
where one has lived in previous lifetimes in order to "correct" the past life/lives
experiences and failings when a person lived in that place. If one has a strong affinity
to a place it is probable that one lived there in a prior lifetime and one's soul is
yearning to go there to complete its "unfinished business".
When a person has completed the past-life rectification of those experiences that one
has needed to correct then one is able to leave that place, "fate & destiny" release the
person from living there. Only when we have learnt the lesson, corrected the mistake

we have made from a prior lifetime, then we will be released from the difficulty or
place.
In most case the easiest way to release oneself from a situation, especially one that is
due to prior life mistake, is to follow the spiritual rules of reincarnation and
successfully break the cycle of reincarnation.
Very often the key to releasing oneself from a place is to STOP fighting the need to
"run away" from the place or situation; learn to be happy and be grateful for the gift
of life and learn to see all the good points of a place; this is the basic "1st Key of
Reincarnation" that is to STOP complaining by learning to say "THANK YOU" with
sincere gratitude to the place where one is living.
Secondly, by following the spiritual rules of reincarnation, one will learn to find the
reason why one is living in that place and what "corrections" one really needs to
complete in order to move-on with life. Once a person has completed the "unfinished
business" from prior lifetimes, ones life will be healed, enabling one to move-onto
the next phase of life.
A true move that is a sign of completing "unfinished business" from prior lifetimes is
that the "move" will happen magically. Events will occur in ones life that simply
opens doors to ones future; one will easily and finally be able to let go of all the pastlife baggage that one carried forward into this life, in order to learn, refine and correct
ones soul.
As we explain on spiritual rules of reincarnation the "Keys" of letting go of the past
life are forgiveness and love. Whereas hatred, jealousy, resentment and bitterness
keep one attached to the past life, so learn to forgive and love everyone, it's the
easiest way to get the past-life experiences removed, healed and out of your life for
eternity !

(4)
"Change ones Physical Place - Will Change ones Fortune"
The explanation of the famous Jewish spiritual rule of - "Change
ones Physical Place - Will Change ones Fortune".
Reb Chaim Vital explains the basis of this spiritual rule is that EVERY place in the
world has a different energy that transcends and energizes it; if one feels that one life
is blocked, dull-and boring with no vitality then it is a sign to MOVE.

Naturally and innately sensible one should consider where one is living and what one
is doing with ones life; this is especially applicable to all "single" people who have no
family nor children; they should honestly consider that the truth that maybe they are
living in the wrong place for their soul.
Reb Chaim Vital explains that different places offer different energies of sustenance
for our soul, some places are 100% spiritually energizing whereas other places are
100% materialistic, and one must learn to "balance" the energies from separate places
in ones life. Nonetheless there are moments in ones life when it becomes a physical
and spiritual emergency to leave wherever one is living.
The spiritual law of - "Change ones Physical Place - Will Change
ones Fortune" has applied for centuries of generations, however it takes a strong
character to actually MOVE; many people prefer to suffer in pain and stay in the life
that they have than listen to the reality and rise to the spiritual challenge and move.
A person will ALWAYS be given inner feelings and a sign that they should move; it's
not a haphazard nor a silly move that one makes when one moves in order to change
ones fortune, Reb Chaim Vital writes that at every stage of moving home one will see
"signs", if it goes smoothly or if there are problems and delays.
Everyone should know that if a person has been placed in the "wrong place" then
there is a good reason. The Eternal Divine Creator of the Universe in the Divine
destined plan for your life and soul
has placed everyone in the right place for ones soul to learn lessons, once the lessons
have been learnt the situation and the need to have the problem disappears. This is
done when one makes a complete success in correcting the reasons for ones
reincarnation, making a TIKUN HAGILGUL.
The conclusion of Reb Chaim Vital is that we are all living in the destined place for a
specific purpose in our life for the benefit of our soul, both for the clearance of pastlife experiences and for a correction of our soul in this lifetime. Until we are guided
to be in the perfect place of spiritual and physical sustenance for our soul - the ideal
place " Yeneeka Milmaala" for our soul, we will yearn to be there and
feel "unsettled" where ever we are living.
The Key is to live life with true spiritual purpose in our life thereby enabling spiritual
success for our soul.

The Challenge of the Ideal "Traveler"

Reb Chaim Vital writes that a truly elevated and enlightened spiritual person can
travel everywhere and anywhere as their thoughts are always keeping them grounded
and connected to the source of sustenance for their soul " Yeneeka
Milmaala" wherever they maybe physically, spiritually their souls are always
connected to the source of all energy - to GOD.
Nonetheless for everyone else there is no doubt that every place has a specific energy
to each and everyone which gives our soul sustenance or takes from our soul an
energy. Our duty to our soul is to find the place that energizes our soul and keep away
from the place that drains our soul, enabling each and everyone of us to live a true
spiritual purposeful life in this reincarnated life we came to live.

A "Life of Love"

"One moment of love gives more life and is worth more than a 1000 years of hate".
The Essence of - Sefer Shinuyim Book of Changes

The 7 aspects of "LOVE" from Sefer Shinuyim "The book of changes" that explains
that the ability to change is only when one understands the true meaning of "A Life
Of Love" - are :#1 Understanding the meaning of "LOVE", explaining that everything that happens in
our lives, originates from the emotions and energies of LOVE within our "Heart and
Soul". Understanding that the only motivation to live and a true desire for life in this
world is through LOVE.
#2 Understanding the difference between physical love and spiritual love.
Understanding the difference of LOVE that is conditional and unconditional, and
hence understanding why love either lasts forever or is temporary.
#3 Understanding that ALL emotions are degrees and levels of LOVE energy, and
how to identify & convert hatred, jealousy, bitterness and anger into LOVE energy.
Understanding why "opposites attract" in love and why people deceive themselves
especially over their true love emotions of the heart.
#4 Understanding the concept of "TRUE LOVE" that connects ones soul to Spirit
world, which energizes ones soul with the DIVINE source of all pure
creative physical and spiritual energy of LOVE.

#5 Understanding how to find ones true SOULMATE, and the concept that the
inexplicable energy of LOVE from ones soulmate is a wonderful gift given to ones
soul from the Spiritual world. In contrast to the temporary and superficial love
generated from the external physical existence and beauty, which never lasts.
#6 Understanding that a "life of love" brings energy, love and healing to many
peoples lives. This pure spiritual "LOVE" energy flows through an enlightened soul
helps people all over the world, and connects this physical world to souls in the
spiritual world. Everything we have and everything we are, is identified in our soul
by the amount of sincere LOVE we glow and radiate, in this life, from previous lives
and in the future eternal spiritual world.
#7 Understanding the eternal spiritual law of love; that LOVE can never be
destroyed. The DIVINE source of energy for every single soul, everything in this
physical universe and in the DIVINE Spirit world is the ETERNAL DIVINE LOVE,
which can never be destroyed. No one or nothing can ever destroy this true love
energy - this is the eternal spiritual law of love.
Everything created by GOD exists for eternity, but it can be destroyed in this physical
world by the evil of man. The only way to protect our souls from destruction is by
connecting to the DIVINE source of LOVE, which guarentees eternal spiritual life.
Understanding the most important principle and spiritual law of Change,
- "One moment of love gives more life and is worth
more than a 1000 years of hate".
The foundational essence of - Sefer Shinuyim Book of Changes, is that
through one thought of LOVE, connecting ones soul to the DIVINE source of
spiritual energy of LOVE one can change and have power more than 1000 years of
hate and destruction.
We shall explain each of the 7 important aspects of "LOVE" as explained from Sefer
Shinuyim "The Book of Changes", which guide and teach a person exactly how to
change ones life through the power of "LOVE", and how to change ones attitude in
order to find true "LOVE" with a constant feeling of the amazing radiant glow of
"LOVE", "LOVE of GOD", "LOVE of Spirit world" and "LOVE of everyone of
creations of GOD", whoever and whatever they are or have done.

1. Introduction "What is LOVE?"

"Love" is the most amazing inexplicable feeling and emotion that we can ever sense
with our physical body. "Love" energy brings life vitality, strength, courage and a
desire to want to live life to the fullest potential.
"Love" is the collective and common energy that connects each person to each other
in the whole world. It connects our physical body with the spiritual soul, to the Spirit
world and to GOD.
"Love" is the emotion that is sensed through the senses of sight, smell, sound, taste,
touch. The highest form of "Love" is sensed directly within our soul from other souls
and from spirit world.
"Love" is an energy that can only be fully felt when it is shared with other people. It
is impossible to contain "Love" energy selfishly for oneself, (that is why selfish
people cannot find true love), the only way to feel "love" energy in ones life is when
one connects with other people, with spirit world and with GOD, with love.
"Love" gives life and is the "meaning of life". When one has "LOVE"- one has
everything, without LOVE one has nothing. Pure "Love" is a spiritual energy and
therefore is always completely FREE, no one can buy "true love", synthetic and
superficial love always costs money!

"The Heart Beats for Love"


The heart is physical centre of ones emotions especially of "LOVE" energy.
Whenever one feels the energy of "LOVE" ones heart starts to beat faster. The faster
ones heart beats the more emotional energy one senses, until one feels the
overwhelming loving energy that takes ones breath away.
Whenever a persons finds there heart beating faster this is a sign that one is receiving
energy of LOVE. Whether it is a physical attraction of love or a spiritual energy of
love or someones loving thoughts who are thinking of you, this is indicated by a
persons heart beating faster in excitement.
The sense of anticipation in most peoples life is felt by ones heart beating faster, the
secret is to recognise that this energy is NOT trying to overwhelm or make a person
"panic" but it is a gift of LOVE energy into ones soul, and one should appreciate this
energy and use it wisely sharing it selflessly to LOVE people. Just remember to take
a deep breathe, dont feel anxious and enjoy whatever is going to happen in ones life,
now that one has this energy of "love".
Remember the purpose of this overwhelming excitable "LOVE" energy indicated by
faster heart-beat is in order for one to desire to give LOVE and share this "LOVE"

selflessly with someone else. Pure "LOVE" energy is only truly felt when sharing
with other people, "LOVE" can never be hoarded and kept for ones self, as this
blocks the flow of more "love" energy coming into ones life.
Sadly, many people find "love" energy too overwhelming and try to find ways to
suppress such "love" emotions, by drinking alcohol, smoking cigarettes etc , but once
a person learns to handle this energy one can have an amazingly energized life of
LOVE. So NEVER block or suppress such lovely emotions when one finds ones
heart beating faster, simply take a few deep breathes and learn to LOVE !

The Beginning of Life is LOVE


Every single physical living entity in the whole world is created from "LOVE". Even
hateful and depressed parents have a moment excitable overwhelming "LOVE"
energy, when they "make love", when there hearts beat fast full of LOVE, that is
needed in order to create a child.

Motivation for "Living Life" is LOVE


As explained in the chapter of "motivation" in order to motivate oneself to "wake-up"
and live life with a true desire for life is through LOVE. It is therefore imperative for
everyone to learn to desire LOVE in order to drive and motivate a person into
purposeful actions.
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"One moment of love gives more life and is worth more than a 1000 years of hate"

Life is about the moments of excitement when you are truly loving, those loving
moments are the true energy of creative life energy. The more moments of true
selfless love one has then, the more exciting and enjoyable a persons life is and the
more energy of "aliveness" a person feels within their soul. True "LOVE" energy is
actually connecting ones soul with the eternal DIVINE energy of life from Spirit
world and bringing down a , a life sustaining energy from the realms of
Spirit world.
Life is not about the number of "breathes" you take during your life, but about the
amount of moments that take your breath away !
People who never "want" to love are dead, the only emotion that connects our
physical existence to our spiritual soul and connects to the DIVINE source of all
energy is LOVE, that is the LOVE emotions from the heart - all the "fast heartbeats"
of LOVE.

Love blockage and depression


When people block and refuse to allow "love" energy into their lives they are
blocking their own life-energy ( ) and committing "spiritual suicide", even
if by some "good fortune" of Divine intervention they suddenly are given a chance to
"love", they find that the overwhelming sense of "love" is too much for their
depressed soul to handle.
Depressed people prefer to thwart and block their own lives through their bad attitude
and prefer to be depressed without "love", than overwhelmed with an aliveness of
"love" energy, so they act to "self-destroy" any opportunities of "love" in their lives,
which may even cause them to miss their own soulmate ! So remember NEVER
block any emotions of the heart !

2. Understanding the difference between


Physical Love and Spiritual Love
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Pirkei Avos Chapter 5 Mishne 16

"Whenever LOVE depends upon something physical and it passes away, then the
LOVE passes away too. When LOVE does not depend upon something physical then
the LOVE will never pass away. An example of love depending upon something
physical is sexual attraction of beauty such as physical desire of Amnon for Tamar.
And an example of the love that is not dependant on anything physical is the spiritual
friendship and love of David and Jonathan". Pirkei Avos Chapter 5 Mishne 16

Physical Love
Every person, every place and in fact every single object in this physical world
contains an energy of LOVE. Every single entity in this world has been created with
an energy of LOVE.
The strength of each person, place or object is dependant on the amount of LOVE
energy that was used to create it and the amount of LOVE energy that we attach in

our mind and soul to it, togther with the continual emotional "LOVE" energy that
flows to that entity, conversely weakness is defined by the "blockage" of LOVE
energy which is reflected in negative emotions of hate, jealousy or bitterness.
Before we define the difference between Physical LOVE and Spiritual LOVE, we
need to explain the 5 categories of all entities in this universe, with their potential to
affect our emotions of the heart, each with different level of creative LOVE energy.
This explanation is the essence of " Perek Shira", which emphasizes that the
way to come to appreciate the gift of life, and finding a true LOVE of GOD is to
reflect on ALL of the wonderous creations in the Universe.

The 5 Categories of Physical Entities


in this Physical World
Firstly let us explain the 5 categories/levels of which every entity in this universe can
be classified into, which defines the amount of energy it has, and therefore the
amount of "LOVE" energy that flows in/out and that can potentially flow through as
part of the continual creative life-cycle of this wonderful universe of LOVE.

1. Inanimate objects created at the creation of the Universe, such as the Sun,
Moon, Stars and Planets, earth, sand, stones, mountains, the sea etc., (which includes
all the elements of the "periodic table"!). Everything that was here before we were
born and after we die ! This category never change their energy or state, and remain
the same as the day they were created by GOD at the creation.

It is because they were created by GOD - the DIVINE creator of this whole universe
and have been unchanged since the creation for almost 6000 years that they contain a
"magical" pure beauty, of amazing energy. Everyone loves to see the inate and
unspoilt beauty of the snow-topped mountains, it has an energy to fill ones mind and
soul with a real "LOVE" of the beauty of "nature".

Looking at an amazing sunset by the sea and allowing our souls to sense, feel and
connect with "LOVE" to the DIVINE creator who made this wonderful world, allows
our souls to be energized with LOVE.
Simply looking at nature, (even without "thinking") energizes & enlivens everyones
soul, hence the reason why people love "the sea", "the mountains" and the
countryside, seeing and appreciating the amazing natural beauty in this world created
by GOD.
This category of - "Inanimate objects" have the inherent benefit that they were
created with purest DIVINE creative energy, and have never changed since the
"CREATION", millions of people from hundreds of generations have been seeing
these places of natural beauty, and have engraved on their memories and souls, a

specific energy of LOVE for these places and objects. The specific physical LOVE
for such natural beauty is actually a Spiritual energy of LOVE that our soul senses
and receives.

2. - Every kind of tree, plant, flower, fruit, vegatable and grain that grows from
seeds. This category has been implanted from creation, but continues in a cycle of life
and death, needing sustenance from the sun, rain and wind in order to grow. This
category is a constant and daily gift of sustenance from GOD which provides each
living entity on earth with food to live.

The physical love we feel towards vineyards, growing fruit and all kinds of produce
is a feeling that we are LOVED by GOD and that we have been given food. The
physical love we have for growing flowers is a sense of awe and amazment that from
nothing such beauty is created from seeds.

The colours of the food we eat such as red strawberries instills in our heart and soul a
sense of LOVE. When we think of the amazing colours of the creation we feel alive
with an excitement and a instintive LOVE for life. Especially the colours and
aromatic scent of flowers instinctively instills emotions of LOVE into everyones
heart.

3. , Every living animal, bird, fish, insect, etc., all life that moves and reproduces
with its pair. This category of LIVING animals, live and die with the same cycle of as
humans, they have senses that guide them in order to sustain their own survival. They
have a soul which has emotions with their unique character. They live, reproduce and
survive out of an instinctive LOVE energy.

Their instinctive LOVE energy of the animal kingdom, gives them an energy to
LIVE. They survive by keeping to their own group of animals which identifies their
specific purpose in life. Very few animals interact with other groups with LOVE. Any
interaction with other kinds of animals is AVOIDED, and in some cases is considered
a threat to their survival, so anger and hatred, even violence until one animal kills
another animal is possible in order to defend their own survival.
This is an important definition of the living animal kingdom, as the Book of
Reincarnation Sefer Gilgulim explains that some human souls are forced to
reincarnate as animals in order to learn the lesson of compassion, love and selfless
service. As many humans fail in life, because of their selfish arrogance. Hence their
soul will need to learn the lesson in another lifetime as an animal.

The love from the "Animal Kingdom", teaches that all living people should be
compassionate and loving. The interaction of good energy between all the creations
of GOD is through LOVE. Some animals instinctively show respect and love for
everyone, and live a life whose purpose is to radiate love. Cats which bury their
faeces, keep themselves clean, get rid of filthy rats/mice, and continually REFLECT
an energy of selfless LOVE are wonderful examples of LOVE
The word "reflect" is important as, cats & all animals are sensitive; in the same way
we treat them they reflect our emotions, if we are loving then they are loving in
return. Cats teach that animals and humans can interact only with a common energy
of LOVE. This is important to note, as humans "reflect" each others energy, hateful
people reflect hate, loving people reflect love.
This is the reason why all the great spiritual leaders loved to look after animals from
the times of Moshe, King David and likewise the reason why "single" people in our
generation should have a cat as a pet, to learn how to show selfless love and
compassion as in our generation "single" materialistic cold-hearted people cannot
find true love as they have simply closed their emotions of "LOVE".

4. , Human beings that are given the power of speech. In exactly the same way
animals live, survive, reproduce, nations and peoples of the world keep to their own
group/nation as an identity of their soul. Humans use the power of speech to
communicate and connect with people of their same group and category.

Although people are attracted to physical beauty, nontheless without the ability to talk
and communicate, they cannot connect with each other. The power of speech
connects human beings, hence the reason why relationships either succeed or fail
based on the ability to TALK to each other. When dialogue of communication stops,
the relationship dies.
Human beings that can't be bothered talking to other people are "committing suicide",
as they are blocking energy coming into and out of their soul, the Human soul needs
to talk in order to energize oneself physically and spiritually.
Remember that the principle difference between the LIVING and DEAD is the ability
to speak and communicate. This is why "GOOD souls" when they are physically dead
are in fact ALIVE as they are able to communicate from Spirit world to other
righteous people in this world.
Loving and selfless kind people, love to talk and communicate with everyone with a
warmth loving affectionate, friendly and happy nature. Whereas selfish and
"emotionally dead" humans refuse to communicate with other people, hence they
block a life energy.
Such "living dead" would never think of replying to emails or making an effort to call
anyone, they expect other people to communicate with them and give them life
energy, hence by isolating and alienating themselves and refusing to
"COMMUNICATE", they disconnect with "life energy" and are considered "dead".
The inherent "life-giving" quality of human beings is the ability to communicate,
which enables other people to understand, listen and connect themselves to each

other. Without this ability to transfer our to thoughts and ideas from our mind & soul,
we are the same as animals. If we wish to be classified as "humans" then we must
learn to use the power of speech wisely and frequently.

5. Elevated spiritual souls that act as servants of spirit world and help to energize
other peoples lives through their souls energy and spiritual connection with the
eternal and Divine wellspring of LOVE.
This category of "Human Beings", who are the spiritually-minded person, completely
connected to SPIRIT world, constantly working in "Selfless Service", who live a
chosen spiritually motivated pathway, focusing on the higher purpose in life. They
understand that this physical life is just a transitory short journey within the much
larger context of the infinate spiritual world and UNIVERSE created by a DIVINE
GOD.
When a person recognises that we are all children of GOD, and merely a spec of dust
of insignificance in the great scheme of life, and yet on a specific mission in life with
a spiritual purpose, then automatically a person has a desire to LOVE all people with
compassion and unconditional LOVE, in the same way the DIVINE creator loves
every single soul.

The Concept of Duality

The Concept of "Duality" means that everything in this physical world has TWO
energies, a physical energy and a spiritual energy. Most people who live a physical
and materialistic existence will only consider the physical energy. Souls in Spirit
world will only see the spiritual energy.
Our purpose whilst we are living in this world, is to learn to see and sense BOTH the
physical and spiritual energy within everything. Allowing our physical eyes to see
and enjoy the images, instilling in our soul an energy of "Peace of Mind" and an
energy of LOVE out of appreciation for the spiritual creative energy of GOD.

Spiritual Love & Physical Love


Physical energy is temporary and last for only a short time, hence physical love
energy never lasts. In the same way we are only physically alive for a short period of
time, similarly physical love is temporary, for example, the physical "skin deep"
beauty of most woman only lasts between 15 to 35 years from when a woman
matures, unlike the spiritual beauty, which is radiated from a good, sweet, kind,
spiritually-minded woman with a love that lasts for eternity !
Spiritual energy lasts forever and for eternity, as it communicates and embeds itself
within our soul, such eternal emotional LOVE energy is carried over from previous
liftimes and carried onwards to future reincarnations. We shall explain this further in
#5 Soulmates below, the inexplicable LOVE connection of soulmates which lasts
forever.

"How to Make Love Last Forever"


In order to make anything last forever, it must be SPIRITUAL, and its energy needs
to have made an indelible mark on ones mind, thoughts and soul. Anything that only
has a physical energy will fade away and die.
In order to instill an energy of LOVE that will last forever, it must by energized with
a spiritual emotional LOVE energy.
Everyones heart only beats for LOVE, ONLY those moments in which are our heart
beats fast with an overwhelming energy of emotional excitement, are those moments
which our SOUL will remember FOREVER. When a person is lying on the death bed
and reflecting on all the moments of their life, they only remember the moments of
extreme emotions when their heart "beats fast".
Sefer Shinuyim in the chapter of "happiness" explains that EVERY person has at least
8 exceedingly happy moments in life, which are spiritual gifts given by GOD to

everyone, in order that a person should know the sense of spiritual eternal LOVE
energy. Unfortunately, many depressed people cannot cope with this gift of
overwhelming love energy, and find ways to block and suppress their emotions.
Whereas the "spiritually enlightened" person uses this amazing energy to learn to
develope their soul to be ALIVE all the time with a continual eternal emotional
LOVE energy. A person who is truly spiritual, remembers everything of everyday
with joy and happiness, as each day brings a wonderful new energy of LOVE and
emotions that is unforgettable lasts forever.
In each of the 5 classifications of everything in the universe - as above, try and learn
to energize ones soul with a loving excitement. For example, imagine that you only
have 10 seconds left in your life to see, whatever you see in these 10 seconds will
stay with your soul forever, by appreciating the wonderful colours in nature, flowers,
fruit, sunshine, stars and the sky will make a person learn to "WAKE UP" spiritually,
instead of living life like a dormant robot forgetting to appreciate the gift of vision !
When a person "wakes up" emotionally, ones heart will start to beat faster with an
excitement and a desire to live a loving life, which gives such energy that makes it
irreversably impossible for a person to ever feel depressed and unloved again.
A pure Spiritual Eternal Love energy will energize a persons soul, exuding and
radiating a creative life love energy which becomes part of the creative life cycle and
energizes many peoples lives, such a LOVE energy will last for ETERNITY, even
after a person passes from this physical world.
Hence the fundamental concept that #5 SOULMATES have an inexplicable eternal
deep LOVE energy for each other, and as we explain in #4 True Spiritual Love is a
love energy that lasts forever and connects people in this physical world with those
good loving souls in spirit world.

3. Understanding that ALL Emotions


are Levels of LOVE energy
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The Medrash in Genesis, explains that LOVE makes a person break all the rules and
normal rational behaviour of life. Out of sincere LOVE to serve GOD, Abraham

cleaned and saddled his own donkey, even though he had many servants to do this for
him. His LOVE to serve GOD, gave him the energy and excitement to wake up early
in the morning with a life vitality, breaking all ettiquette.
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Similarly Joseph, in excitement and out of LOVE to meet his father, got up early and
prepared his own horse. Indicating that LOVE breaks ALL barriers and ettiquette.
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Conversely HATRED and negative emotions cause a person to react irrationally,


Bilaam who was paid to curse the jewish people by king of Moav, behaved wildly
and out of character, as his emotions of hatred destroyed his own normal rational
behaviour.

Introduction
Emotions of the heart "LOVE and
HATRED" break all normal rules and
ettiquette of life
All emotions of the heart whether "LOVE" or "HATE", positive or negative, every
single emotion we feel and sense with our HEART and soul, has the power to make
an indelible mark on our SOUL, to the extent that it gives our soul the power to
CHANGE.
Every single emotion from our heart has the power to change our lives and soul
irreversably, hence it is vitally important for everyone to understand and use this
emotional power of our hearts wisely, to make changes out positive LOVE and not
out of negative fear or jealousy.
In order to comprehend "LOVE" we need to understand the 2 categories of inherent
EMOTIONS that every human senses. This is signified by the 2 types of people in
the world, the "Honest" group and the "Deceitful" group.
The "Honest" group fundamentally live with LOVE energy, whilst the "Deceitful"
group fundamentally live with negative emotions of hate, jealousy, bitterness and

anger as this their way to steal energy from, intimidate and control the "Honest"
group. If a sensitive person from the "Honest group" has acquired any negative
emotions then they have done this by "transference" from a person of the "Deceitful"
group, the simple remedy is to cancel out any Loss by "Transference", which will
restore the peaceful loving energy and dissolve the destructive hateful energy dumped
on them by other peoples negative emotions.
This explains the reason and purpose why "opposites attract" in love, and why people
deceive themselves especially over their true love emotions in the heart, as a person
lives in this physical world to learn lessons from difficult people who "oppose" their
soul, before they are ready to find true and perfect love from their soulmate, which is
in perfect peace and harmony with them.
We shall then explain how to convert oneself from the "Deceitful" to the "Honest"
group, thereby having physical and spiritual closure on the past, leaving behind the
bad emotions and continuing a life of only 100% pure LOVING emotions, a life of
wholesome creative LOVE.
Firstly let us understand the two categories of emotions by understanding the two
categories of people in this world:-

2 Types of People in the World


As we explained on the page of "Spirit & Guidance" there are 2 types of people in the
world :The first and most wonderful category is the "HONEST" group, which basically
means when you are nice to them they are nice in return, when you are horrible to
them they are horrible in return. When you ask them a question, you are given the
honest answer in return. The intrinsic goodness of this group, will always make you
feel alive and happy.
The honest group person, will always find ways to be nice and compliment, saying
nice constructive words, looking for the goodness in people, and they will always
exude, radiate love and happiness, even in the face of adversity. They will always
find ways to create loving energy and NEVER "steal" energy from others by hateful,
negative or destructive thoughts, words or actions.
Whereas the other group of people in this world are the "DECEITFUL" (liars) group
of people, which basically means when you are nice to them they are horrible in
return, when you are horrible to them they are nice in return. When you ask them a
question, you are given lies and deceit in return. The intrinsic deceit and twistedness
of this group, will always make you feel drained and sad.

Such people do not exude or radiate any kind of selfless LOVE and are usually very
closed and selfish with their energies of emotions, they are called the "Living dead"
as they block and close their own emotions of life and LOVE, and continually try to
block and drain the "Honest" group of any kind of life- giving loving emotions, they
make everyone around them feel sad and depressed,
We call this group of destructive souls "suicide bombers", as they have ruined their
own lives and desire to ruin other peoples too. The concept of people have messed up
their own destructive and hateful life, who then choose to destroy other peoples lives
is explained fully on original Yalkut Shimoni regarding Samson when he took his
own life in order to take the lives of the philistines - book of Judges chapter 13 - 17.

2 Types of Emotions in the World


The 2 intrinsic emotions in this world are positive and negative, creative and
destructive, love and hate, goodness and badness.
Positive

Negative
Negative emotions act to BLOCK life
energy and therefore destroy life
energy.

Positive emotions CREATE good


thoughts and create a motivational life
energy out of a desire withing the heart Negative emotions create blockages of
to live a life of LOVE.
life energy, YENEEKA - ,
Love, peace, tranquility, harmony,
is blocked and thereby preventing a
creativity, a desire to build, give, share, person to feel "alive".
teach, all come from positive emotions
Anger, hatred, bitterness, jealousy, all
of LOVE.
act as destructive blockages of life
energy
The "Honest" group live with the desire to be POSITIVE and creatively loving, it is
intrinsic in their character that they cannot be horrible to other people, they desire to
help others, from a profound and deep LOVE for life, a love for GOD and a love of
every one of the creations in this Universe.
The "Deceitful" group survive during their physical life by STEALING life energy
from the "Honest" group. They steal life energy by destroying other peoples lives, or
blocking other peoples progress by controlling their lives.

Whenever a good "Honest" person suggests any idea, a destructive person will
always block this idea, either with a destructive criticism or demeaning negative
disbelieving laughter that steals the "confidence" energy from the good person.
A strong tendency of the use of jealousy, guilt or other negative emotions is to control
other peoples actions. This can lead only to negative reactions that will automatically
weaken the relationship until it is destroyed.
All negative emotions block life energy of this "Honest" persons soul, whilst the
"Deceitful" person feels empowered with energy they have stolen.

Keep away from the "Deceitful"


Once a person has learnt to recognise these 2 categories of people, then it becomes
simple to have closure from the destructive "deceitful" type of people who are full of
hatred, heavy "death" energy and always trying to block ones life.
Once a good person realises that so much potential in ones life has been blocked by
draining and "Deceitful" types of people, it then becomes an EMERGENCY to have
100% closure from such destructively wicked people.

Transforming Ones Life from Hate to


LOVE
The first step is to recognise the need for change, and understand that good people
have bad things happening to them in order to teach them to completely eradicate all
negativity from their life and cleanse their soul by forgiving and having closure those
people who have caused destruction, in order to become 100% loving and
compassionate.

"You planned and thought to do evil against


me, God planned and thought to bring only
goodness to me"
The Story of Joseph in the Bible, teaches us that even though the 10 brothers did a
wicked act and sold Joseph into slavery for money, Joseph forgave them, as he could
see that there was a MASTER DIVINE PLAN.

..
The Torah - Bible in Genesis chapter 50 verse 20
"You planned and thought to do evil against me, God planned and thought to bring
only goodness to me"
Through love and forgiveness we too can transform all our enemies thoughts and
energies of hate and destruction into powerful energies of love and creativity. Joseph
used the energies of his hateful brothers who tried and wanted to kill him and whom
sold him into slavery. Joseph learnt to convert their deep emotional "hate" energy into
a powerful creative "love" energy that transformed his life, by forgiving them and
accepting that there is a DIVINE plan.
The emotions of Hate, Jealousy, Anger, Bitterness, are expressions of emotions that
block LOVE. Each of these negative emotions are used by the "Deceitful" group of
people because they do not know how to LOVE, they lack the knowledge and nature
within their soul to be kind, compassionate, selfless and loving.
Such people have no comprehension of a soul or spiritual world, and they certainly
have no sense of decency or importance of being kind or good to other people
therefore they have chosen to self- destruct their own souls, and to destroy other
peoples lives and souls too.
We explain in chapter Life of Compassion our need to look deeper at these people,
and feel compassion for their souls. This is indeed the essence of forgiveness, in the
same way we all forgive children for making mistakes, many adults are simply
"children" making silly mistakes through their destructive hatred, and therefore we
should forgive them and have pity on the souls.

Forgiveness .... Unblocks ALL Physical and


Spiritual Blockages and Creates Life Energy
of LOVE
This is the Jewish prayer we say every night before going to sleep, and it is indeed a
prayer said on a persons death bed, in the final preparation as the soul leaves this
physical world :-

Translated :- " Master of the Universe - I forgive everyone who has angered and upset
me, or sinned against me, whether they did this physically, materialistically or
disrespectfully. Whether they did this by accident or intentionally, with horrible evil
thoughts or without thinking, whether they said the words or with actions, whether in
this life or in previous lives ...... i forgive them... and please GOD do not punish or
hurt them, do not bring any illness or anything bad against them as i forgive them
completely ....... please GOD "

"Forgiveness" has the Power to Convert


ALL Destructive Hatred Energy
Into Creative LOVE Energy
Learn to Forgive & Forget Completely !
The sign that you have successfully forgiven another person, is that when you think
of them, you no longer have any hatred feelings. In fact you should have NO
FEELINGS towards them at all. They mean NOTHING at all, not to you, your life or
your soul.
If you still feel some element of hatred or any emotions towards them, this is a sign
that you have NOT disconnected from them and their evil ways, and THIS WILL
HURT, POISON AND DESTROY YOUR LIFE AND SOUL. So say the prayer and
FORGIVE them in your mind, thoughts and soul, forget about them, don't even
mention their name, and detach yourself from them and their ways completely.

In forgiving these "Deceitful" people and troubled souls we are actually freeing our
own soul from any connection from such heavy depressed and sad people.
The higher level of forgiveness is that you actually feel sorry for their soul with a
compassion and pray for them that they will also find GOD and a loving spiritual
pathway in this physical life.

Why then do "Deceitful" people exist ?


Lessons need to be taught to good people, and very often one can only learn from bad
people, from their evil and deceitful ways they teach us valuable lessons. Nothing
from the DIVINE spirit world is bad, therefore destructive and evil people are used to
give good people "bad experiences" in order to teach them lessons.

GOD allows BAD people to give


"Bad Experiences"

"Good things come about through good people and bad things will happen through
bad people"
Meaning that if something destructive has to happen in a persons life, then the Divine
Spirit world orchestrate that this destruction is perpetrated through bad people.
Conversely when something constructive and good is to happen in a persons life, then
the Divine Spirit world orchestrate that this should be created and come about
through the creative loving actions of a good person.
When Bilaam was going to curse the Jewish people, he realised he was being used by
spirit world as an intrument of evil to curse , so he changed his curse to a blessing
, which is prayer now used everyday in jewish
synagogues, to teach us that we can ALL CHANGE and become instruments of
goodness and not instruments of evil and badness.
Someone has to give people "Bad Experiences" - dont let it be YOU !
Deceitful People who give us "Bad Experiences" actually LOVE us !

"Love Your Neighbour Like Yourself"


"Love Your Evil Enemy !"
Literally translated from the hebrew means "love your enemy, that is LOVE those
who hate you and want to do evil to you" as the word = evil . Those who hate us,
deep down really have a tremendous amount of love for us, because they are of the
"Deceitful" group of people, they do OPPOSITES, so instead of showing love they
show hate.
The secret in this life is see beyond the physical situation, understanding the "bigger
picture" of life which then cancels the cycle of hate, death and destruction and one
can only live with a life of forgiveness to others and life of LOVE and Compassion.
Anger begets anger. When the bible says, 'Love your enemy', that's precisely what he
meant. If we want to stop a cycle of violence and evil, we have to step outside it, no
matter how shocked we may feel or how much harm it has done to us. We have to be
guided by hope and inspiration, not fear or fury.
Understanding these emotions of the heart, and continiually converting them into
LOVE energy is the task and challenge of almost every spiritually minded person in
this life.

The DIVINE plan


By understanding and accepting that there is a DIVINE plan for each and everyone of
us, then there is no reason or point to getting upset, annoyed or angry, these are bad
emotions that belong to bad people.
Good people only have LOVE, compassion and forgiveness. Life teaches us to learn
to FORGET, FORGIVE and MOVE ON to a better future of wholesome LOVE.
As a person "grows-up" spiritually then one learns that there is no need to feel any
negative emotions in life. Time is often the best healer, as in hindsight we all see the
"bigger picture" of life, whether we see this a few days later , a few years later or
during this life or in Spirit world, the same principle applies :-




....
For everything that the intellect cannot accomplish .... then time will succeed to
accomplish. The Philosophy of Life quoted from Sefer Shinuyim

"Opposites Attract" to Teach Difficult


Lessons
"Opposites attract" for the single purpose to TEACH a person difficult lesson. Most
people ONLY learn by being giving difficult situations with difficult people. These
are "opposites", they are NOT permanenet in a persons life , and only temporary
situations whilst a person needs to learn.
As explained in #5 Soulmates below, ones true SOULMATE does not need to conflict
of argue, as they are on the "same side". Anyone who brings conflict into ones life, is
doing so to teach one a difficult lesson. Once the lesson is learnt the person will leave
ones life forever !

4. Understanding The Concept of


"True Love"
Connects Ones Soul to Spirit World.
"True Love" energy is spiritual love energy, hence it is unconditional upon anything
physical. "True Love" is attained through the connection on a level of the soul to the
SPIRIT world. "True Spiritual Love" is the only way one can energize ones soul with
pure life energy, through connecting ones soul to the Eternal DIVINE wellspring and
source of all pure creative physical and spiritual energy of the whole Universe LOVE.
"True Love" is the creative life-giving energy that connects ones soul to Spirit world,
this LOVE connection energizes our soul with the from the DIVINE
source of all pure creative physical and spiritual energy.

What is "True Love" ?


"True Love" is a life-giving source of energy of UNCONDITIONAL love; it is not
given nor taken but it is a GIFT of energy that energizes a persons soul with "LIFE"
energy.

The spiritual law of LOVE is that LOVE has a power to CREATE energy. When a
person energizes ones heart with emotions of LOVE one is given motivational energy
to accomplish actions, tasks and "make life happen".

"Giving & Taking" OR "Creating"


People who only believe in the physical world, have beliefs of limitations, and do not
believe in the infinite power of creative energy of LOVE. Therefore they live a
"limited-life" based on "Giving & Taking", wherefore they live selfishly, by amassing
energy for themselves by taking as much as possible from others and not giving. This
leaves everyone they connect with - feeling drained, blocked and unloved.
The Spiritual Law of LOVE, and the basis of all the creations in the entire Universe is
that LOVE is CREATED energy. Every LOVE emotion of every second of every day
creates an energy and vitality that energizes a person mind, body & soul with an
"aliveness".
Therefore a spiritually enlightened person knows the ONLY way to generate a life
energy is by CREATING LOVE energy.

Creating Love Energy


(1) The first way to create LOVE energy is to connect to the Divine source of LOVE
which is through LOVE of GOD.
(2) Secondly, one can create LOVE energy by thinking of and connecting with good
loving spiritual souls in the Spirit world. People you knew when they were alive, and
through the bond of pure unconditional LOVE that exists eternally, connects our soul
with their souls in the Spiritual world.
(3) Thirdly, learning to appreciate and give thanks for all the wonderful things we
have in life, makes a persons heart fill with LOVE energy out of gratitude for the gift
and opportunities of life.

(1) LOVE of GOD


... ...
Learning to see the truth in life brings a person to be in awe of GOD.

When we contemplate the wonders of this Universe and the millions of people on this
planets earth, and the wonders of creations on the planet that sustain us with physical
life. We start to see the wonderful magnitude of the DIVINE creator of the Universe.
As we grow-up and become adults learning to create life with the power of emotions
of both physical and spiritual LOVE we learn that we are indeed a part of GOD. A
small spark of Godliness that is contained in everyones soul, that sustains our
physical and spiritual life.

(2) Connecting to Spirit World With Love


During everyones life we are all given 3 opportunities of "life-experiences" to
connect with the DIVINE Spirit World with LOVE :"Sudden Shocks" , accidents & life-threatening incidents act as catalysts for change
that "wakes-up" a persons mind & soul to appreciate the gift of life with a sincere
gratitude and LOVE of GOD for the gift of life.
"Sudden Shocks" such as accidents or life-threatening incidents happen in order to
"wake-up" a persons mind and soul to appreciate the gift of life. These "Sudden
Shocks" frighten a person into the perception that they could die at any moment
however young and tragic, making a person realise that one is mortal and that every
moment of life is valuable.
Very often people live like "unemotional robots", prefering a materialistic careerdriven life more than a spiritually-inspired loving and purposeful life.
Such "Sudden Shocks" are sent to everyones life as a "gift" to provide a person with
an opportunity to "wake-up" and CHANGE their total perspective of life. Usually
such "sudden shocks" are very dramatic with a spiritual "boost" of amazing
couragous energy to help a person transform suddenly.
Such "Sudden Shocks", and sudden transformations instill in ones soul an enormous
LOVE of GOD and appreciation for the DIVINE intervention in ones life, to the
extent that one feels ones life has been saved by unique Divine intervention -
- and one really has been !
Such a person who reacts to such "sudden shocks" of Divine intervention
generates an enormous gratitude and sincere LOVE of GOD, LOVE of LIFE, and
LOVE of Spirit world. From this moment onwards the life-changing situation will
have instilled an irreversable change of attitude, that will keep one energized with a
pure LOVE of GOD and LOVE of LIFE for eternity.

This LOVE is "TRUE LOVE" , as it is NOT conditional on anything


physical, it is pure as the Eternal DIVINE GOD, as this True LOVE of LIFE energy
has now connected ones soul with the DIVINE Spiritual source of all energy in the
universe.

When Someone You Love or Someone Who


Loves you - Dies and Passes-Over to Spirit
World
Awakening ones spiritual soul, mind and thoughts occurs everytime someone you
love dies. This happens in everyones life. Everyone has someone very special in their
life whom they love who dies.
The bond of unconditional love one has, is indeed a spiritual connection between the
two of your souls. This bond of love between your souls will keep you connected for
eternity. The tremendous love energy is classified by many as love of soulmates, as
this is no longer dependant on anything physical, it is purely spiritual love within
ones mind and soul.
Developing this energy of soulmate love for the person you loved whom is now in
Spirit world now enables a person to connect stronger to GOD.
Instinctively everyone developes a changed attitude at the meaning of life and the
meaning of "true love", when a person is naturally thinking with unconditional love
about someone special in their life whom has died and is now in Spirit world.
The LOVE of GOD and LOVE of LIFE developed with this spiritual connection
potentially can happen in everyones life at any time and is part of the continual
process of life & death that connects all the generations and spirit souls, enabling
everyone to become more spiritually minded.

(3) "Sudden Instinctive Moments"


"Sudden Instinctive Moments" - are spiritual gifts of energy that open our soul to the
spiritual world and the inherent deep love of GOD within our souls. These are known
as "moments of clarity". Inexplicable moments in ones life, where suddenly a person
feels clear headed and clear thinking. This is a gift from the Divine GOD and spirit
world.

At that moment in your life when you feel the LOVE of GOD work on your heart,
softening you to become full of true LOVE and compassion, then nothing else
matters, and all your physical problems dissapate. Feeling this energy of true LOVE
is truly a gift from GOD .
Life will never be the same and the Divine spiritual transformation has just begun.
Suddenly ones aims and ambitions change. Life has new meaning and a sense of
purpose and most importantlt a true love of life fills ones heart.
Where there is TRUE LOVE, there is GOD. Where there is GOD - there is life, hope,
faith and true happiness . Which inately creates a life cycle of abundantly good
energy as one will always show appreciation and give thanks for all the wonderful
things we have in life, making a persons heart fill with even more abundant LOVE
energy out of gratitude for the gift and opportunities of life.

5. Understanding How To Find Ones


True SOULMATE
In this section we shall explain the meaning of "soulmates" and how to find and
identify ones true soulmate, taken from Sefer Shinuyim - the "Book of Changes".
We shall explain the spiritual law of "Two types of "SOULMATES" one type that
gives one difficult and challenging experiences in order to teach one important
lessons in life and the other perfect harmonious soulmate that is excatly identical to
you as he/she is your "other half", the exact piece one has been searching for since
one was born to complete ones soul.
After reading this section we know and hope you will be placed on the right pathway
to find ones true soulmate and stop wasting your vital souls energy on the "wrong
ones" !
This section on "Soulmates" is explained in 7 stages:1.Explaining the purpose and meaning of "soulmates" and "soul groups".
2.Explaining that one actually has 2 Soulmates , one is a help , the other is
a challenging opposition .
3.Explaining how to find ones true "soulmate".

4.Explaining the reason for the amazing inexplicable magnetic attraction of


soulmates, and why one feels, senses and knows ones soulmates thoughts and
feelings.
Explaining that only the two people "know" they are each others soulmate, whilst in
other peoples "sensible eyes" they appear to be unsuitable and even unequal.
5.Explaining why there are difficulties whilst "soulmates" are trying to come
together, through blockages of " shells of negative energy covering ones soul",
created from other peoples negative thoughts that envelope a person to be blocked.
How soulmates themselves generate their own " shells of negative energy
covering ones soul", negative energies which challenge, test and doubt themselves
until they are 100% absolutely certain to know that this person is ones soulmate.
Then explaining how to negate any , negative, challenging and opposing
energies in making 2 soulmates coming and being together.
6. Explaining that every soulmate couple is a " small world". The principle of
soulmates needing to protect themselves and live in their "own world" refusing to
"allow-in" any destructive or negative energies into their relationship and having their
own unique purpose and mission in their lives.
7. Explaining the spiritual loving energy that is created by soulmates everytime they
"make love", which creates a spiritual protecting energy to strengthen their bond,
energize their lives and grow spiritually.

1. Explaining The Purpose And Meaning Of


"Soulmates" And "Soul Groups".
The true purpose of the gift of life on earth is inorder for our souls to learn and
experience life, through all kinds of events, opportunities and challenges throughout
our lives.
Thankfully we are not alone during our journey of life, unless ofcourse a person
believes themselves to be selfish egocentrical "individuals", then even amongst large
groups of people they are lonely and disconnected.

"The Soulgroup"
During our journey of life, we travel on this earth in "soul groups", that is a group,
culture and identity where all the members of the soul group understand each other
and live on the same physical and spiritual wavelength. The members of ones soul

group may not all be alive on earth, they may be spiritual souls who have passed onto
to Spirit world but mantain contact with you as they are part of ones soul group in
much the same way as "Guardian angels" .
One will always be able to rely upon ones soul group to help, guide, assist, the souls
in ones soul group will make 100% certain that one succeeds to fulfill ALL of ones
lifes goals, objectives, challenges and purpose ones soul came to earth to learn.
Once a person has learnt the lessons of ones life, it is possible to elevate ones soul
into a higher soulgroup, and likewise if one makes a bad decision one can move out
of ones soulgroup into a lower group. Nontheless one always has the intrinsic
continual opportunity and chance to return to ones destined soulgroup and likewise
on is always guarenteed to be able to find their perfect soulmate, through the help of
ones "Guardian angels" and helpful souls from ones soulgroup.

"The Soulmate"
Talmud (Sotah 2a) teaches that "destiny" has designated each and every individual
with a soulmate. The "soulmate" is actually the other half of a person. With ones
soulmate one is wholesome, without it one is void and empty. With ones "soulmate"
comes a "package" of a home to live and profession/job and purpose in life.
The spiritual and physical energy of planet earth resonates to the number TWO,
everything on our planet comes in pairs. The Earth itself is paired with the Moon, the
identity of the Earth needs the Moon to exist both physically and spiritually, in the
renewal of energies monthly and daily tidal flows, as the magnetic pull of the Moons
energy causes high and low tides - the Earth needs CHANGE to exist.
The emphasis and importance of finding ones true soulmate is the key to success in
life. The two halves that make the whole, once together one can lead a fulfilling and
purposeful life of "destiny". Having the "wrong half" means one does not have ones
soulmate hence one does not have "the key of life" to fulfill ones true destined
purpose in life. Without the right "key", ones life will seem frustrating and unlucky like stuck in a locked room full of closed doors . It maybe nice few hours, but would
be frustratingly painful to remain there for the rest of ones life !
The purpose of the "soulmate" is to make a person feel wholesome with LOVE and
enable one to accomplish the mission and purpose of life through physical, sexual
and spiritual LOVE energy. Everything constructive and good in this life is only
created through LOVE. Only through the loving energy created together with ones
soulmate creates the perfect energy to live, bringing meaning to everything in ones
life.

2. Explaining that everyone has 2


Soulmates, , one is a help , the
other is a challenging opposition .
Everyone has freewill choice in life, even when we think we are making a choice, it
is either categorised into a good decision or a bad decision. Both decisions are
choices that are potentially destined for our soul, the bad decisions we make will
challenge us and make life difficult for us in order to guide us to change, making the
corrective decision and finding the correct good pathway, our soul instinctively only
finds "inner peace of mind", when we are on the correct pathway.
Most people only learn from bad and challenging relationships. Such connections
will have a similar instantaneous magnetic attraction as good relationships, as they
too, are destined in order to teach a person important lessons, but they will continue
to repeat past patterns if bad relationships as there is a lesson a person needs to learn,
and until one learns the lesson one will keep on being magnetic to the bad and
"challenging" type of relationships.

The 2 Types of Soulmates


" - The Help"
" - The Help" soulmates are always 100% on your side with continual support,
help, love, passion and an eternal unconditional LOVE, and whom would NEVER
EVER hurt you.
Whenever one plans, talks and thinks ideas with ones true helpful soulmate, they
constructively help to energize ones life with loving energy, enabling one to
overcome any negativity, moving all obstacles and finding the correct pathway to
success. As ones true helpful soulmate always knows that they are ones "Other Half",
when something good happens to the other half of them, they too benefit from this
good energy.

" - The Opposition"


" - The Opposition" soulmates teach a person by constantly challenging, through
emotionally bitter lessons with pain and difficulties. The "opposition" bad

relationships always cause a sensible person to "go closed" on themself emotionally


in order to protect their soul.
Prefering to live alone in ones mind and thoughts than communicate with such a
destructive person in a dysfunctional relationship. A feeling of "living with the
enemy" ensues, and everything one plans or tells such a person gets blocked and
thwarted by their destructive and negative thought energies, critical words and
horrible actions.
Until it comes a point in ones life, where one says "ENOUGH" ! At such a "breaking
point" a person may loose faith in love, loose faith in relationships, loose faith life
and worst of all - loose faith in GOD.
But when a person realises that such a relationship is a dysfuntional " Opposition" soulmate, then this makes a person find an inner strength, admitting to
oneself the truth of the bad relationship and then learning how to find ones true 100%
loving soulmate the soulmate of " - Help".

" - The Help" can sometimes be a


" - The Opposition"
There are times that we all make mistakes in our lives, and even though we are living
with and have found our 100% loving soulmate, he/she may challenge us and be
absolutely right to challenge with the strength of "opposition".
They act in this way of challenging "opposition" as they are wishing to defend their
own soul, through love of their "Other Half" of their soul, they are trying to protect
the relationship by any destructive external opposing energies and any negative
influence or bad decision the other person has made. They are "challenging and
opposing" out of a deep sincere love, in order to protect the wholesomeness of their
perfect soulmate union.

" - The Opposition" can sometimes


turn into " - The Help"
" - The Opposition" soulmates always have the potential to become perfectly
100% loving soulmates, with no more need for bitter experiences, pain or difficulties
ONLY when they have have refined and elevated their soul after learning the
necessary lessons their souls need to learn.

Soulmates may choose to start their relationship through a "challenging" and


opposing energy, however, by working together and challenging each others
individualism they are able to transform themselves into a single UNITED soulmate,
through negating any opposing energies that exist by learning to completely love each
other, and thereby transform their relationship into a 100% loving helpful soulmate
union.

3. Explaining How To Find Ones


True "Soulmate"
When meeting new people in life, connections and bonds are made either because the
people share a "common interest" or because one person has something the other
person wants.

"Physical Chemistry"
In the case of love and relationships, men and women are magnetically aroused and
attracted to each other. Nontheless not all men are attracted to all women and vice
versa, there needs to be a certain "chemistry" that makes a man and a woman "fall in
love" with each other.
This "chemistry" is the energy of the thoughts in the mind, that is a man and a woman
only really feel a connection to each other when they are in harmony with each other
in their mind & thoughts. This "common factor" enables a wholesomeness and
fullness in the relationship, otherwise the love is merely a superficial animal - instinct
sexual love, which usually fades within a few weeks.
Human beings who are connected with each other, need to have an ability to think the
same way as each other, they need to have a "common factor" in order to feel the
relationship is wholesome. Hence the reason why single people join clubs and
organisations, or have hobbies and interests as a sense of identity of their personality.
Thereby enabling themselves to meet "like-minded" people and hopefully find a
suitable man/woman with whom they can have a meaningful relationship with, as
their inner minds and thoughts will be sharing similar identities, emotions and
feelings.
If either become disinterested in the "common factor" that originally united them,
then their relationship will have communication problems leading to an automatic

"falling out of love", as their thoughts and energy of their minds no longer have
anything "in common".
When a couple are not growing together, then they are growing apart in their
diverging lifestyles and interests. Such a relationship will eventually fail completely,
unless one of them changes to become like the other.

"Spiritual Chemistry"
The next level of relationships is that people feel a "magnetic" attraction, a "twinkle
in the eye" or very lovely inner feeling, even without talking. Relationships that are
prompted by "just a thought" of them, seeing them or seeing anything that reminds
you of them, that is your mind and soul is connecting yourself with their mind and
thoughts.
Such thought energies are ones mind and soul communicating with you and likewise
with the other persons mind and soul is feeling the same inner feeling for you, your
souls are communicating with each other, this gives you the "inner spiritual feeling"
that you are made for each other, an inexplicable inner "spiritual chemistry".
Such a "spiritual chemistry" is definately a sign that this is someone important in
your life and definately from ones "soulgroup" as explained above. The important
question "how do you identify if they are your true soulmate?" This needs you to
understand the "soulmate chemistry":-

"Soulmate Chemistry"
Soulmates, and all members of ones soulgroup have a unique telepathic
communication of thought energies in the minds and souls of the whole soulgroup.
All the souls of ones soulgroup know and sense exactly what the other members are
feeling. They all have the same thoughts, feelings and emotions at the same time.
They feel pain, when people in their soulgroup are in pain, and likewise they feel the
happiness, love and strength from the other souls in their soulgroup.
The "soulmate chemistry" means that all the souls of the soulgroup are constantly
connected even if they are physically far away from each other, they are very close
spiritually, as their soul, mind and thoughts are constantly connected.
This "soulmate chemistry" is the reason why ones "guardian angels" and loved ones
in spirit world, are in constant contact with ones soul, as they are members of ones
spiritual soul group. The only reason a person feels alone and not in contact with
people of their same soulgroup is because one may block or deny the existence of

"spirit" world, believing that one needs to "get on with normal physical life" instead
of including a "spiritual enlightened pathway" within ones physical existence in this
life on earth.
Only when a person is connected spiritually and "open" to be guided spiritually, then
through "soulmate chemistry" of you and your soulgroup, through ones "guardian
angels" and loved ones in spirit world whom are waiting to help you find a spiritual
pathway, one is assured to be guided to connect with and find ones true soulmate.

How To Find Your True Soulmate


The first step in finding your true soulmate is to believe in GOD, Spirit world,
Guardian Angels and that through your connection to good souls in Spirit world from
your soulgroup, you will be guided to find your soulmate or that your soulmate will
find you.

"Asking for Guidance For Ones Soul"


Tikun Neshoma -
Sefer Tikunim in Tikun Neshoma - explains when a person has lived a life
void of any belief in GOD, belief in spiritual afterlife or in a "Spirit World of Souls",
then a person should light 3 candles to connect "spiritually":One candle for GOD, one candle for ones guardian angel and one candle for ones
soul, and then pray that one should be guided spiritually to correct any mistakes one
has made whilst living a life VOID of any belief in GOD, and ask to be guided along
the right pathway destined for ones soul.
Whilst praying one will feel spiritually enlightened, with feelings of awareness and
belief in GOD and belief in the existence of a spiritual soul. Such feelings and
understandings will bring a person to see a "bigger picture", that life on earth is part
of a spiritual journey for ones soul, with a unique and destined pathway for each and
every soul to experience emotions, events and changes.

Connecting to Spirit World With Prayer Will


Help to Strengthen Your Soul and Enable

Your Soulmate to be Found and Bring You


Together
Every prayer helps to connect ones soul to Spirit world and brings a person closer to
the DIVINE GOD that creates and sustains this Universe.
All connections to "Spirit World" will increase and strengthen your spiritual strength,
this includes praying at the gravesites of spiritually strong and good souls, especially
praying at the gravesites of good people one knew and loved, and/or praying at
Famous Rabbis & Rebbes holy gravsites, sending prayer requests into the Famous
Rabbi Yonatan Ben Uziel and ofcourse continually giving thanks for the gift of life
whilst asking for help and guidance to find ones true soulmate.
One can use the Prayers for Soulmate from Sefer Tikunim, but even stronger one
should use ones own language to pray from ones heart for ones soulmate with a few
heartfelt emotions and tears.
It does not matter what time of the day or night, whenever one intuitively and
spiritually feels the right moment to pray and ask for spiritual help, then light a
candle and pray in whatever language you understand. The stronger ones inner
spiritual connection the sooner ones true soulmate will be found by spirit world and
you will come together.

Lighting Candles For Your Soulmate


Light 2 Candles :
One For You and One For Your Soulmate
In preparing for your soulmate to come into your life, you will develope a selfless
and spiritual character, by lighting a candle for the soul of your soulmate even though
you have not met him/her yet, you are showing a love, compassion and desire to pray
and help someone else, who is actually YOUR other half.
Learning to show love, desiring to give selflessly and unconditionally to another
person is all part of "growing-up" from being a demanding selfish child to loving
unconditionally, and thereby become a perfect potential parent.
Ask yourself, "would you give EVERYTHING of what you have to your soulmate?"
if the answer is "YES", then you have understood that giving to your soulmate is

infact just giving to yourself, a cycle of life energy. The concept of sharing and giving
love in a soulmate loving relationship is the spiritual basis of life, as in the cycle of
life in the whole Universe, the DIVINE GOD constantly gives everything to
everyone.
When praying for ones soulmate, never focus your thoughts on any particular person,
as they may not be yours, and an even better person will be your destined perfect
soulmate, and then be "open" to listen to your inner voice of guidance and ACT, there
is no point in praying and then DOING NOTHING when one has a feeling to go
somewhere or speak to someone !

"Within 12 Months"
The Spiritual guarentee from Sefer Shinuyim - Book of Changes and from Famous
Rabbi Yonatan Ben Uziel, is that within 12 months of prayers of asking GOD and
Spirit world to find ones true soulmate then one will find him/her, DIVINE
coincedences, experiences and feelings will occur to guide you to your soulmate and
guide your soulmate to you.
In section 5 below we explain why there are difficulties whilst "soulmates" are trying
to come together, through blockages of of other peoples negative thoughts that
envelope a person to be blocked, and explain how to negate & eliminate these
blockages.

"Compare to Modern Day Internet"


If one is searching for someone on the internet than one first needs to get a computer
and be online, then a person needs to search by using a search engine like google or
yahoo.
Similarly spiritually, in searching for ones true soulmate, one first needs to believe in
GOD and Spirit world, connecting by way of prayers and lighting candles for GOD
and Spirit world for DIVINE help to find ones soulmate, and then "be open", listen
and allow one to be guided to meet ones soulmate.
Everyone has a perfect soulmate and when you find him/her your soul will
instinctively know, your life will "magically" open up with an amazing life vitality of
love and life-giving energy.
With your true soulmate you will feel an eternal LOVE energy, as soulmates existed
in spirit world before we were born when our souls arrived on earth and will existe
unified together once we die and leave this earth. The intermediary years of life on

earth is the challenge that we must ensure we waste no time in finding our true
soulmate to live a wholesome purposeful loving life together.

The True Soulmate


"One who looks for money, beauty, status or anything physical in a relationship
will NEVER find their true soulmate" quoted from Tana Devei Eliyahu
In seeking your true Soulmate ask yourself the following questions:When contemplating ones emotions with respect to ones true soulmate, one needs to
ask "Do you want to be so different from that person?" OR "Do you wish to actually
be identical to that person, and be a part of that person, in every single way ?"
In the desire to be that person, and become a complete part of that persons life
because indeed a true soulmate is the "other half", one is motivated and prepared to
change ones mind, thoughts and even physical existence to be with him/her,
energized by a magnetic love from the soul.
This power from ones soul is an identity that indicates ones "true soulmate", the
desire to reunite your souls together as ONE in this world as you have been before
you came into this world and will be united eternally in spirit world after leaving this
physical life for eternity, and refusing to allow anything physical or material distract
or block your souls from being together. One will not find true inner "peace of mind"
withing ones mind and soul until one is with ones true soulmate.

4. Explaining The Reason For The Amazing


Inexplicable Magnetic Attraction Of
Soulmates.
In this section we explain the spiritual reason for the amazing inexplicable magnetic
attraction of soulmates, and why one feels, senses and knows everything ones
soulmate is thinking and feeling.

Instantaneous Magnetic Attraction

Soulmates have an instantanous magnetic attraction to each other, as their


relationship is blessed by DIVINE GOD, blessed by Spirit world and "destined" as a
"key of life" for their lives together on earth.
Even people who try and fight this magnetic soulmate love desire for each other, will
find their efforts to block themselves futile and will eventually be together. As
soulmates will never find "peace of mind" and true purposeful fulfillment of their
souls until they are together, both physically and spiritually together. True soulmates
always need and lovingly enjoy being together all the time.
The reason for this inexplicable magnetic attraction between soulmates is that their
Guardian Angels are guiding them and bringing energy to both people
simultaneously, in order to "force", guide and bring this soulmate couple together.
Ofcourse selfish ego, stubborness and freewill choice can block this, but eventually
"soulmates" always come together. Each persons Guardian Angels will ensure this
happens, however illogical !

Wrong Relationships Always Fail


Similarly, the reason why "wrong" relationships, lovers and marriages fail is that each
of the individuals Guardian Angels are conflicting with the other persons Guardian
Angels, both individuals are incompatable on a spiritual level and hence eventually
they end up conflicting on a physical level.
A "sign" for this is that there are conflicts, disharmony and inbalances in the
relationship and very often a person enjoys having "SPACE" away from the other,
and in the "space" a person feels enlivened and happy for this freedom ! This
requirement for "space" is an energy from ones Guardian Angels to pull one away
from a bad and wrong relationship.
Once the wrong person is out of ones life, "good fortune" always happens in a
persons life, as a spiritual sign from ones Guardian Angels that one is now on the
correct pathway and free from that "negative" person .
Everyone believes in "SIGNS" as these give everyone an indication of good energy, a
good omen to ones soul which is living in this real physical world that one is with the
right person doing the right thing at the right time. If one feels "uncomfortable" or
misfortune happens where it has not happend before, then take this as a sign and have
"closure" and please run away from them !!!
Once one has "closure" from "draining" people, a positive energy of excitement and
"aliveness" is given by ones Guardian Angels, this is because ones soul is "blocking
success" when one is with bad people. The more spiritual and sensitive a person is,

the stronger the "blocking energy" caused by other peoples transference energy,
through ones Guardian Angels as sign to protect you.

Soulmates Communicate by "Eye Contact"



The Talmud Kidushin 41a explains that a person is forbidden to marry unless they see
each other with their eyes. The Talmud does not say "talk to each other" or kiss etc.,
but the talmud says a person needs to "to see" with ones eyes.
This is because ones eyes are the windows to ones soul, and "eye contact" means that
your souls are communicating with each other. Only by "eye contact" will you know
that this person is your soulmate and only through your continual "eye contact" your
souls are communicating with each other.

5. Why There Are Difficulties Whilst


"Soulmates" Are Coming Together? Created
By Blockages Of Other Peoples
Negative Thoughts That Envelope A Person
And Block.
Sometimes there are difficulties whilst "soulmates" are trying to come together,
through blockages of of other peoples negative thoughts that envelope a person
to be blocked, the reason is that the union of "soulmates" is VERY POWERFUL and
many people are jealous, hateful and spiteful with envy that one has developed
spiritually with a wonderful soulmate union of love, even destructive and controlling
"well meaning" parents can be jealous and create negative blockages!

Negative Blockages -
-"kleepes" literally translated are "layers of hard shells". Spiritually the word
- "kleepes" is used in reference to shells of negative energy that attach
themselves to ones soul and prevent "life energy" from DIVINE GOD and from
Spirit world coming into ones soul, these - "kleepes" are created by negative

emotions and thoughts such has hate, jealousy, deceit and lies. These negative
blockages are created by a person or by other people who wish to block ones life.
"Blockages" are created by negative thought energy hence they are easily cancelledout through the power of prayer and speech, as explained in the chapter Loss by
"Transference".

Resisting "Change" Creates Blockages


When a person finally meets their soulmate, they will both be in a transition period of
inner change, until they come together as one in physical sexual love. This is because
both have been living a "half life" without their soulmate and adapted to a
dysfunctional life whilst living alone. Therefore, some changes will be necessary.
If either one resist these changes in their lives, through their independant, selfish
childish ways of thinking, or their stubborn ego then this creates - "kleepes"
negative blockages. Only when they realise that each other is the "other half" of the
other and then decided to grow-up into mature selfless adults.
At that moment of inner decision they will both resist the need to create blockages of
moving forward by "holding onto" their past, and then they will come together for a
united wonderful future for their soul which is ONE, and then there is no longer such
thing as 2 people in a soulmate, they are simply ONE unit.

Other People Who Wish to "Control" And


"Own" Your Soul Creates Blockages
The other blockage of is created from other peoples negative thoughts that
envelope a person to be blocked, the reason is that the union of "soulmates" is VERY
POWERFUL and many people are jealous, hateful and spiteful with envy that one
has developed spiritually and has a wonderful soulmate union of love, even
destructive and controlling parents can be jealous and create negative blockages!
Single people who feel that they are "into their career" or "committed" to their job,
profession or business and have no time for loving relationships, may think they are
making a good decision themselves, however in reality they do not OWN their own
souls. They have "sold their souls to the devil", to their career or to the love of
"making money", as they are not in control of their own lives and have given their
soulful power away, this will create the same blockage in their lives, and thwart their
own spiritual success in finding their true soulmate.

These negative blockages are dissolved by cancelling out through prayer, power of
speech and inner change, as explained in Loss by "Transference", then the couple
must learn to be 100% closed and be spiritually protected to such negativity which is
trying to challenge and block their soulmate union.

Dissolve All Negative Blockages -


Light A Single Candle
6. Every Soulmate Couple Is A
" Small World".
Every soulmate couple is a " small world". The principle of soulmates
needing to protect themselves and live in their "own world" refusing to "allow-in"
any destructive or negative energies into their relationship and having their own
unique purpose and mission in their lives is vital to the existence and survival of their
soulmate world.
Therefore, whenever a soulmate couple feels any form of negativity in their loving
relationship - light a single candle, and embrace each other with love, as they are
ONE, this unity symbolized in ONE candle and connecting with the DIVINE Spirit
world will protect them and negate any negativity from whomever and wherever it
has come from.
When a soulmate couple are together they are protecting each other from any external
negative influences, in fact they are living in their own " small world" and
almost oblivious to any negativity that exists or any negativity that they would have
sensed when they were single. Being together and living in their own world,
especially when unified as one unit in making sexual love, creates spiritual and
physical love energy which protects from all negativity.

7. Everytime "Soulmates" Make Sexual


Love They Create Spiritual Energy That
Protects Their Souls

There is a spiritual loving energy created by soulmates everytime they "make love",
which creates a spiritual protecting energy to strengthen their bond, energize their
lives and grow spiritually.
The act of making sexual love with ones soulmate unites the two seperate physical
bodies in the most natural way, the womans body is lacking and the mans physical
body has the missing piece that unites the two bodies. Only through their loving
arousal for each other, through passion and love they unite in the act of sexual love.
Everytime one makes sexual love this creates spiritual energy for ones united soul,
the same way that "making sexual love" brings the potential for a child to be
conceived, that is to say that "sexual love" has the potential to bring a spirit soul
down from spirit world of souls into this physical world. Likewise everytime one
makes sexual love with ones soulmate this unites the physical and spiritual union of
their soul and creates a powerful spiritual energy.

"Make A Wish"
Sefer Shinuyim explains that at the specific moment a man orgasms, ejaculates sperm
inside a woman, he has brought an angelic and spiritual energy into this world.
The spiritual tradition at this specific moment is for a man to then say "make a wish",
although once they both become accustomed to each other they he no longer needs to
say it as the woman knows, even so if a man feels a very special energy - he should
say "make a wish".
The spiritual energy of the angel created by the sexual love in the soulmate union has
the energy to help, guide, protect and bring good fortune into their lives, but it needs
the woman to receive the blessing and for her to "make the wish".
It is a reward and thanks to the woman for her passion and love that the man has the
energy and desire to love, this is her unique reward for her kindness, support and love
for her soulmate man.
This is spiritual reason that use of condom or "coming outside", masturbating, or any
other act other than a mans penis inside a womans vagina making sexual love, creates
a negative blockage of energy upon the soul , as explained above and on the
page "Health & Diet".
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We understand that this section on "Soulmates" is long and the webpage Life of Love is
very long, we wished to keep the original from Sefer Shinuyim - Book of Changes and
not split the pure knowledge in different pages.
Nontheless we shall be inserting link to a separate webpage Sexual Love and have made
a separate webpage on "Prayers and How to find ones soulmate" with knowledge from
both Sefer Shinuyim and Sefer Tikunim.
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6. Understanding That A "Life Of Love"


Brings Energy, Love And Healing To Many
Peoples Lives.
The pure DIVINE spiritual creative and life-giving energy of "LOVE" that flows
from the DIVINE Spiritual realms is channeled into this world through enlightened
souls and through ALL loving people, this life-giving energy is radiated from the soul
and acts to give life energy and enlighten people all over the world.
The enlightened loving compassionate and spiritually-minded person acts to channel
and bring to the world a "life-giving" energy, through the constant connection to the
spiritual world such souls bring to this physical world the energy for others to live.
Everything we have and everything we are, is identified in our soul by the amount of
sincere LOVE we bring into this world, the loving energy we glow and radiate, in this
life, from previous lives and in the future eternal spiritual world. This measure of love
that we exude each moment of every day identifies the spiritual level of our soul. The
more compassion and love the more energy within our soul, the more hatred,
jealousy, sadness and anger the less energy within our soul.

Love versus Hate, Life versus Death


Choose Life & Love ...
It is impossible to have 2 emotions at the same time, one can either have emotions of
Love or emotions of Hate, one can either be happy or sad. It is impossible to be
positive and negative at the same time, the spirit soul is naturally either positive or
negative, this is the freewill choice of living life.

When a person is positive, happy and loving a person is connected to the DIVINE life
creative energy of GOD, whereas when a person is negative, destructive hateful and
depressed one has disconnected from the DIVINE source of life, and ofcourse it is
impossible to be connected to GOD and disconnected to GOD, hence a person is
either positive or negative, loving or hateful, alive or dead, creative or destructive,
selfless or selfish, optimistic or pessimistic, spiritual or materialistic.
It is impossible to be loving and hateful at the same time, as all emotions of LOVE
connect one to life, whereas all emotions of hate disconnect one from life, even the
most hateful and destructive people when "making love" with their spouses become
loving and connect with life energy !
This is the freewill challenge of life and the constant internal struggle in life to
always be vigilant of ones moods and emotions, ensuring one is always positive,
constructive, compassionate, kind and loving to make the freewill choice to
continually think of emotions of LOVE which create and bring LIFE, refusing to be
negatively influenced by bad people and always blocking any negative emotions of
hate, sadness depression and "self-destruction".

Focus On Loving Thoughts


Every moment we have emotions and thoughts of LOVE, we are connecting
ourselves to GOD - the DIVINE source of all LIFE, thereby giving our soul energy
and sustainance.
For every emotion of hate, jealousy, envy and sadness, one is disconnecting ones soul
from the DIVINE life energy, and hence bringing death, sadness, depression and selfdestruction into ones life.

The Strength and Power Of Ones Soul


Is Measured By The Flow Of Love
Through Ones Soul
A persons souls is identified by the amount of energy flowing through it. The
strongest people in the world channel more thought-energy into their mind, soul and
body, and share this energy with other people by giving-out an energy that energizes
other peoples lives, through their thoughts or power of speech.

The eternal DIVINE energy of life is LOVE, therefore a strong and powerful soul
allows more LOVE energy to channel through it than a weaker soul. The more a
person gives to others the more a person brings into ones life, like a flowing river of
life energy. LOVE energy is selfless and the ONLY way to bring more love into ones
life is by giving out LOVE energy to other people.

The amount of flowing "LOVE" energy one has in ones life, indicates the amount of
"life energy", the more flowing loving energy in ones life the greater the power
within ones soul.
People who feel their life is stagnant, blocked, frustatingly dull and nothing new is
happening in their life, feel this because there is NO NEW loving life energy flowing
into their lives. They are living from "loving energy" created in the past instead of
creating new love energy in the present. Unblocking starts by allowing a new flow of
LOVE energy into ones life immediately NOW - in the present moment.
Learning to say THANK YOU and being grateful to GOD for the gift of life,
recognising how lucky we are for every second of life. Think of the fact that on this
planet there are people who are in far worse situations than we are, there are people
who are dying of starvation and disease on this planet, people who have no friends,
no-one to love in their life, or no-one that loves them.
If indeed, you feel that you have no-one to love in their life, or no-one that loves you,
then you CAN break-out of such a life, by learning to LOVE.

Learning to LOVE
The first step in starting the flow of life energy of LOVE is learning to LOVE, find
someone that you can LOVE, even giving LOVE and affection for a cat or pet animal
helps to start the flow of LOVE energy.

Focus ones thoughts of thinking love for that person, it is much easier to think
unconditional loving thoughts for people whom have died and passed over to spirit
world, especially loving grandparents or very good friends.
This is especially true - whenever a person feels sad, lonely and depressed,
immediately THINK LOVING THOUGHTS. Then continue to find more and more
reasons to love more and more people. If one looks carefully one will always find
reasons to LOVE. Whereas a depressed and destructive person will always find
reasons to complain and hate.

Light A Candle For Love


Say A Prayer For Other People
Learn to show love and compassion by praying sincerely for other people, stop
worrying about ones own life and start to learn how to pray sincerely for other people
with compassion, pity and love. Light a candle and say a prayer.
The more one prays with LOVE for other people, the more one becomes a spiritual
channel of LOVE, a channeling source of life energy from spirit world to this
physical world to help other people. Then the channel of life energy through ones
soul will grow, radiating a loving energy that is magnetic for true happiness and love.
This channel of life energy of love will keep one connected to spiritual life energy of
GOD. Once a person has connected and feels the DIVINE life-giving energy of
LOVE it is impossible to go back to a depressing life, and a new pathway of spiritual
enlightenement is found.
The purpose of life is to "find GOD" and finding the source of eternal life energy of
LOVE in this physical world, where so much seems to be obscured to ones physical
eyes, however once a person opens ones spiritual senses and spiritual eyes one will
see, feel the truth, finding LOVE of GOD, LOVE of Life and LOVE of all creations
of GOD, leading to a stronger faith and trust in GOD - the DIVINE creator of this
magnificent Universe.

Radiating "Love" - Heals


Once a person learns to transform ones objectives from a life of selfish materialism
into one of "selfless spiritualism", then a person will be acting as a channel of life
energy of LOVE and compassion from the DIVINE spiritual realms. The persons

soul will radiate and glow with an aura of life and love, everyone who connects, sees
and senses such a person will be radiated by the spiritual glow of their soul.
This glowing spiritual energy of pure life energy is channeled by this soul, and acts to
provide everyone, (even the non believers, who connect with such a good soul), with
a source of life energy.
The DIVINE life energy of LOVE creates life, sustains life and heals life, such a
connection with a channel of spiritual life energy gives a persons soul the confidence,
faith and inner power to live life to their fullest potential.
The transformation and opportunity for change will come in everyones life after too
many experiences when one feels continually drained, tired and depressed. Realising
that only thoughts of love and connections with channels of life energy to good souls,
are instantaneously energizing ones life. Then suddenly, like an internal light being
switched-on, one learns, realises and decides to change ones futile draining pathway
and become a spiritual channel in the selfless service of GOD and learning to have
faith in a "Life of Trust in GOD".

7. Understanding The Eternal Spiritual Law


Of Love; Love Can Never Be Destroyed.
The DIVINE source of energy for every single soul, everything in this physical
universe and in the DIVINE Spirit world is the ETERNAL DIVINE LOVE, which
can never be destroyed. No one or nothing can ever destroy this true love energy this is the eternal spiritual law of love.

"Created by GOD"
Everything created by GOD exists eternally; everything created in this physical
Universe exists for eternity. Everything has been created with eternal DIVINE
LOVE. When we emulate our CREATOR and create with LOVE this infuses a
DIVINE life energy into that physical entity, hence children are conceived through
love of the parents; plants, flowers and animals continue the cycle of life through love
energy.

"Created by GOD - Destroyed By Man"


Everything created by GOD exists for eternity, but it can be destroyed in this physical
world by the evil of man.

The nature of mankind is to destroy. Every day our physical bodies eats wholesome
food, fruit and vegetables turning this good food into disgusting poisonous smelly
faeces-excrement. Every day our bodies convert good food into excrement, the more
physical and greedier a person is, the more a person eats hence the more destruction a
person is causing by creating more faeces-excrement.
Our challenge in life is to be more like the DIVINE creator of the Universe and create
life energy more than we destroy. This is especially true in our generation, with the
concern that we are destroying the air quality and protective ozone layer of the earth
in the environment with every journey we make in gas-guzzling cars, causing damage
to this planet earth and causing destructive climate change.

The Less Influence of Man - The More


Divine
The more mankind messes with creations of GOD, the more destruction caused,
hence the most NATURAL places on earth that have been created from the beginning
of time at the creation of this Universe by GOD that are the most unspoilt by man
have the most DIVINE energy.
This is the reason why everyone feels and appreciates the natural DIVINE energy of
mountains, hills, green countryside, natural waterfalls, the seas, beaches and the sky.
The less mankinds' destructive influence the more inherent GODLY energy infused
within and upon it.

The Divine Energy Can Never Be


Destroyed
When we consider and look at the magnificence of the whole universe, we see that
continuity of the DIVINE energy in the stars and planets that can never be touched or
destroyed by mankind. Everything GODLY can never be destroyed by mankind,
everything Spiritual can never be destroyed by mankind, the reason is that the eternal
energy of creation which is LOVE can NEVER be destroyed. LOVE lasts eternaly
forever.

"Protection from Destruction"


The only way to protect our souls from destruction is by connecting to the DIVINE
source of LOVE, which guarentees eternal spiritual life. The more LOVING we

become, the more spiritually enlightened and the closer we come to the DIVINE
creator of the Universe.
Understanding that the existence of our soul depends on the closer we come to our
DIVINE creator, the more compassionate and loving we become, and the less selfish
and destructive.

Changing & Undoing The Past Destruction


Understanding that the most important principle and spiritual law of Change,
- "One moment of love gives more life and is
worth more than a 1000 years of hate".
The foundational essence of - Sefer Shinuyim Book of Changes, is that
through one thought of LOVE, connecting ones soul to the DIVINE source of
spiritual energy of LOVE one can change and have power more than 1000 years of
hate and destruction.
Each and every thought we have creates an energy, a loving thought has the power of
GODLY eternal life energy, whereas a destructive thought only has the power of that
moment, hence one focused thought of love can eradicate 1000's of years of hate
energy.

"Hate Always Dies"


When we think in hindsight of the history of the world, looking and laughing at the
destruction of all the hateful, murderous and deadly empires such as the Egyptian, the
Babylonians, the Greeks, the Romans, even the Turkish and Nazi German Empires,
we see that NONE of these empires exist today. (remember the funny rhyme we used
to say in school, at the useless learning of Latin, "Latin is a language as dead as can
be - first it killed the romans - now its killing me"!)
All the hateful destructive regimes and enemies of good spiritually loving people
are all as "dead, buried, forgotten and insignificant", with its
foundation and principles of LOVE and COMPASSION survives and outlives all
hateful regimes. Hate always dies, Love always survives lives eternally.

"Love Always Exists Eternally"


This is the eternal DIVINE decree and spiritual law of life, that LOVE will always
exist and outlive hate. Love is the energy of physical and spiritual life. When a person
has a glimpse and reflects on the most wonderful moments of life, one only

remembers the exciting moments of LOVE. Our soul holds and retains the energy of
LOVE eternally. The ONLY goodness in the whole universe is LOVE. The ONLY
goodness in the whole universe is GOD - The DIVINE GOD is LOVE.

"The DIVINE GOD is LOVE"


Conclusion
The Hebrew word means GOOD - Gematria Numerical Value 17
The only true goodness comes when one is wholesome with love of ones soulmate
Chapter 17 of Sefer Shinuyim is "Life of Love" is the most important chapter as it is
the KEY to living life in this world, connecting this physical world to the eternal
spiritual world with LOVE of GOD, LOVE of Life and true LOVE of ones Soulmate.
The Essence and source of ALL goodness in the world is LOVE. The Power and
Energy of LOVE eliminates all negativity, blockages, death, sadness and evil. The
Power and Energy of LOVE creates energy from Eternal Spiritual world which heals
our souls and bodies in this physical world. Love is the key to everything in this
World and journey we call "Life".

A "Life Full of Wholesome Sexual Love"


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"One moment of love gives more life and is worth more than a 1000 years of hate".
The Essence of - Sefer Shinuyim Book of Changes
Coming soon during 2008 ,
A Complete Explanation of Wholesome "Sexual Love" in accordance with
"Life of Love" from Sefer Shinuyim
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Coming soon in Autumn 2006 - "Work in Progress" !!!
and hope to complete in the Autumn of 2006 !
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In the meantime please read " LIFE OF LOVE "


of which the important notes pertaining to this webpage are :Everytime "Soulmates" Make Sexual Love They Create Spiritual Energy That Protects
Their Souls
There is a spiritual loving energy created by soulmates everytime they "make love",
which creates a spiritual protecting energy to strengthen their bond, energize their lives
and grow spiritually.
The act of making sexual love with ones soulmate unites the two seperate physical
bodies in the most natural way, the womans body is lacking and the mans physical body
has the missing piece that unites the two bodies. Only through their loving arousal for
each other, through passion and love they unite in the act of sexual love.
Everytime one makes sexual love this creates spiritual energy for ones united soul, the
same way that "making sexual love" brings the potential for a child to be conceived, that
is to say that "sexual love" has the potential to bring a spirit soul down from spirit world
of souls into this physical world. Likewise everytime one makes sexual love with ones
soulmate this unites the physical and spiritual union of their soul and creates a powerful
spiritual energy.
"Make A Wish"
Sefer Shinuyim explains that at the specific moment a man orgasms, ejaculates sperm
inside a woman, he has brought an angelic and spiritual energy into this world.
The spiritual tradition at this specific moment is for a man to then say "make a wish",
although once they both become accustomed to each other they he no longer needs to
say it as the woman knows, even so if a man feels a very special energy - he should say
"make a wish".
The spiritual energy of the angel created by the sexual love in the soulmate union has the
energy to help, guide, protect and bring good fortune into their lives, but it needs the
woman to receive the blessing and for her to "make the wish".
It is a reward and thanks to the woman for her passion and love that the man has the
energy and desire to love, this is her unique reward for her kindness, support and love for
her soulmate man.
(This is spiritual reason that use of condom or "coming outside", masturbating, or any
other act other than a mans penis inside a womans vagina making sexual love, creates a
negative blockage of energy upon the soul , as explained above and on the page
"Health & Diet".)

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Below we have copied the "Health & Diet" page regarding good sexual ettiquette.

Spiritual laws on health for our generation


Explaining and understanding spiritual laws regarding health and diet pertainable
especially in "our generation" . Including a section on "Womens health" - the sanctity
and purity of keeping the "menstrual period", and benefit both physically and spiritually
to good sexual behaviour . In this section we shall indicate areas that our generation is
neglecting compared with previous generations .
- "MAKING LOVE"
The traditional hebrew term for making love is , meaning "connection and
kissing" . This is to stress that importance of sexual good behaviour following a spiritual
way of life, is connecting the "NEFESH" part of ones body & soul and the "RUACH"
part of ones body & soul ( see "THE SOUL" page for explanation) . Many people say,
what one does in bed is ones own choice . However, the wrong sexual behaviour has an
affect on ones soul, conversely following the correct sexual way enhances a loving
relationship, making it long lasting and stable with a physical and spiritual vitality .
In this section we shall explain the following :1. The spiritually correct way for "making love" .
2. The spiritual reasons for the "correct way", explaining the levels of ones soul that
connects with each other .
3. The damage and "short- circuiting" to ones soul, for wrong behaviour , and how to
rectify any damage .
4. The sanctity of womens "menstrual period"

Introduction - The levels of the soul contained in the physical


body
1. Nefesh ( earthly soul ) , the most physical of spiritual energy, opens and connects
through the sexual organs ( a mans penis and women vagina) .
2. Ruach ( Spirit in breathing animal / human ) , the spiritual energy contained in the
breathe of life . Our speech is a reflection of our Spirit "RUACH" . Kissing with ones
lips and mouth connects the two spirits of people .

3. Neshama ( Soul ) , all our minds higher thoughts and energies we use with
concentration . The heightened energised state of sexual orgasm connects ones
NESHAMA - soul at the highest level .

1. The spiritually correct way for "making


love"
Simple ! A man on top of a woman facing each other, lying down in a bed, with his erect
penis inside a woman's vagina ONLY .

2. Connecting all the levels of the souls .


Whilst making love, the man and the woman, kiss each other to connect the breath of life
the "RUACH - SPIRIT" of the souls with their mouths, whilst their sexual organs are
connecting their bodies as a wholesome "NEFESH - BODY" . As both come to
heightened energy of orgasm then their souls "NESHOMA" unite on the highest level
possible . Which is the recipe for making love and for bringing down a new spirit soul of
a child .
According to the ARI and Reb Chaim Vital, every time one makes love correctly an
angel is created ( even if a child is not conceived ), to enhance their lives spiritually and
successfully .
Many people will tell, that they have amazing good mazel & success, especially when
they "make love" properly the night before . A sign that a person is not acting correctly is
that they have failure in their life, as a sign they are "wasting" or destroying a creative
energy from their acts of sexual behaviour .
Staying inside a woman and connecting sexually for as long as possible, both physically
and spiritually is the purpose of the act of making love .Staying inside and moving
slowly with LOVE, and NOT in a hurried state of aggression and panic, but with good
thoughts and self- control Will connect the two souls together with a divine creative love
energy .
3. The Wrong way - Short circuits all the levels of the soul
Before we do explain, we should say that way to correct any wrong behaviour is to
STOP the wrong, simply by immediately stopping the wrong acts cleanses and heals the
soul.
In our generation their have been many instances of wrong behaviour, which all the
Rabbonim and Rebbes find unbelievable. Therefore, we make mention of these wrongs
and explain spiritually the damage to the soul.

For a woman to touch the mans penis, with her hand or with her mouth will damage
BOTH their souls. As spiritually this act connects the SPIRIT "breath" of one person
with the NEFESH of another, this lowers the level of the SPIRIT - RUACH to a
NEFESH .

For anyone to have "anal sex" like homosexuals, which the Talmud in Kiddushin 82a
(the text is reproduced above) explains that truly elevated spiritual souls and JEWISH
souls will never have, implying that anyone who acts homosexually is NOT a "spiritual"
Jewish soul. The very next section of the talmud talks about success in life, connecting
the fact that when one behaves morally correct one has true and lasting success.
Their act of "anal sex" means, that the mans physical sexual organ representing the souls
energy of creation and life is connecting with the most destructive energy a human can
create - excrement, disgusting and vile deadly energy.
The act of "anal" activity connects the soul "NEFESH" directly with DEATH . Once a
person has been in direct contact with this death energy, their soul level of NEFESH is
dead, and anyone they connect with, they will kill with their "death" energy. This is
according to the Medrash YALKUT SHIMONI on the story of "Sodom and Gemorra"
in the Torah - bible, hence the whole city of SODOM was destroyed as it lacked any
LIFE energy . This also explains the dis...ease of hiv spiritually .
"Coming outside" to avoid pregnancy etc ...or wearing a condom or any other perversion
of women touching the mans genitals ....WILL CORRUPT and short circuit THE SOUL.
This is because at the moment of heightened state of orgasm the soul "NESHOMA" is
connecting, if there is a blockage by way of condom. or the penis is removed to
disconnect, the spiritual energy of their souls have no way of connecting, so it actually
creates a destructive energy .
Similarly wasting "seed" in masturbation, this act brings ones soul to heightened level of
spiritual consciousness and orgasm, but has no one to connect the sexual spiritual energy,
and is wasted . The ARI and Reb Chaim Vital, quotes the ZOHAR that the destructive
energy created in masturbation, causes a destructive energy that hangs around a person
for a whole day until sunset the following day.
If a single person feels overwhelmingly sexual energy, then they should learn self control
and focus this energy into prayers for finding their true soulmate ( see the "destiny"
page ) instead of wasting this potentially strong good energy in a self - destructive act .

The RAMBAM is quoted as permitting masturbation ONCE every two weeks, to let
flow the "seed" that the body has produced, in order to keep the body healthy, in
continual flow replacing old with new, but never using ones hands. (The Sefer Reishis
Chachma says one who uses ones hands in this destructive act will have the creative use
of their hands lowered into tasks of manual labour instead of refined intellectual tasks
such as writing or the gift of healing, etc.,). However, in a married relationship it's
forbidden - as there is no need as the maximum separation time of "menstrual bleeding"
is 12 days . From "modern day" doctors inform us that adults who eat excessively yeast
products, eggs, meat and fish will need "once a week" as the body produces excessive
seed from these foods, (we only quote the medical advice as a reference).
The Sefer Kav VeYosher - explains that a womans body a certain times, becomes hot and
sexually aroused, and can even "let themselves go" - masturbate in public places.
According to Kav veYosher, this releases an energy but it also affects sensitive people in
the vicinity. The book asks and pleads with women to control themselves especially in
public places. He understands that women have sexual needs and desires, more than
men, as their sexual desires are given by GOD in order to help continue the human race,
desiring children is a GOD-given natural gift for all normal women. This is the way that
GOD made and has blessed the womans body, but asks women to restrain themselves in
public places, and use this excitable energy to either focus in praying, loving and
desiring their true soulmate or if women really need to "let themselves go"- masturbate,
then only in private and never in public amongst people .
We are aware that many "modern - thinking" people may criticise our comments for
being intolerant, they may wish to continue to behave the way their desires want them
to . However all spiritual teachers, even in our generation , such as Diana Cooper , Linda
Goodman author of Astrology "STAR signs" , James Redfield and Carol Adrienne
authors of CELESTINE prophecy books all agree that spiritually it is vitally necessary to
behave sexually correct .
Spiritually, we needed to explain the damage done to the soul, once one has lowered the
soul, especially if the woman has used her mouth to touch the man, then the man loses
respect for the woman, he knows on his spiritual level that she is bringing him down .
The relationship, even if it is a destined soulmate can be ruined, by one act of sexual
degradation . Disease ...the name itself means DIS.... EASE , a person is not at ease with
themselves, their souls are not at peace and will never be a peace ... if it is diseased .
When the act of making love is done correctly it brings pleasure and life energy to both
the man and the woman .
As everyone is aware there are two ways of doing everything in life, the correct way and
incorrect way, making love with agression and with a "mars" energy to satisfy an animal
instinct is NOT the correct way . Making love, out of a desire of peace, love, dignity,
serenity and a desire to connect ones souls together in unity is the absolute correct way.

THE HIGHEST FORM OF CREATIVE ACTIVITY OF THE HUMAN BEING, IS


MAKING LOVE BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN, BRINGING ONE CLOSEST
TO GOD AND SPIRIT WORLD . BRINGING A SOUL DOWN FROM SPIRIT
WORLD TO CREATE LIFE .
THE ACT OF MAKING LOVE PROPERLY WILL LEAVE YOUR SOUL FEELING
ALIVE HAVING JUST CONNECTED WITH GOD - THE DIVINE CREATIVE LOVE
ENERGY .

4. Correcting ones mistakes


For those people who may read this and wonder, "Is there no hope if one has behaved
wrongly ?" the answer is simple .... Once a person recognises the error of their ways,
repents from the wrong-doing and recognises the power of spiritual healing, through the
recognition that the SOUL exists within a human being . Then by healing the soul and
connecting with creative LIFE energy, one then revives ones soul with LIFE . This is
learn from the Medrash on the Book of JONAH in the bible, where spiritually the town
of NINEVAH was DEAD, and even though it was decreed for it to be destroyed,
everyone repented and returned to GOD spiritually .
By reconnecting with the life energy of spirit , healing and revival is brought to the soul,
which in turn revives the body . It has been seen in our generation that many cases of
cancer, after therepy and a complete change of attitude to life, the person is healed and
can have a purposeful creative loving life . ( I would suggest any books of the spiritual
writer Louise L Hay, on healing with respect to cancer . She was diagnosed with cancer
and healed herself naturally by healing her soul through constuctive loving thoughts and
energy by herself, i have known many people whom have used her techniques to change
their thoughts, attitude of life and been completely cured from cancer) .
The first step is to recognise that hatred, jealousy and negative emotions ONLY act to
destroy and "to burn inside" the cells of the body and soul . The power to heal is to
connect with LOVE emotions , the power of LOVE is the creative energy of GOD and
SPIRIT in this world .
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The Womens body is a sacred symbol of the "cycle of life"
The physical body of a woman is the symbol of creative life on earth . Together with the
man, a womans body becomes the home of a growing baby / child during pregnancy .
The marvelous miracle of creation of a new born life, takes place in the womans body .
The loving life energy and spiritual energy growing attached and within the energy, soul
and body of the woman herself .
Menstruation - Womens Period

The cycle of life on earth , birth and death , occurs monthly within a womens body . The
potential to create life is a monthly potential . Once the opportunity is missed, then a
form of "death" occurs, in the form bleeding . It is known throughout the world, that the
just before the time of bleeding a woman becomes exceedingly sensitive and emotional .
This is her soul sensing this level of "death" which is about to arrive . Depending on the
attitude of mind of the woman , she will handle the period in much the same way as
handling a "death" .
Therefore according to both Jewish tradition and sacred Kabbalistic knowledge and
understanding . It is forbidden for men and women to have sexual relations whilst a
woman is "bleeding" during the monthly menstural cycle , which normally lasts at least
5 days .
The reason is simple , a woman represents LIFE , the reason for sexual relations is to
create LIFE , whilst the Menstruation - bleeding is occuring , this is symbolic of DEATH
. Therefore LIFE and DEATH must be kept separated . It is a fact of life, that ALL
marriage problems, arguments and break-downs in communication, occur during this
sensitive period of Menstruation .
Therefore spiritually and common sense decency, it is so important that both men and
women realise the "period" time must be treated with mutual respect for the cycle of
life . This is the reason why all jewish spiritual laws and kabbalistic traditions require
men and women to abstain from sexual relations during this "bleeding period" . This
normally last 5 days, thereafter a jewish woman is require to wait for 7 clean days . Then
immerse herself in a "Mikveh" - that is a small swimming pool of rainwater, before
recommencing sexual love - relations with her husband . ( please see www.mikvah.org
for full explanations of jewish laws ).
The quality of ones loving relationship, quality of ones life both physically and
spiritually is enhanced when one keeps the sanctity and purity of abstainance of sexual
relations during the period . According to Reb Chaim Vital , the famous kabbalist , it is
also a blessing that ones children, especially the quality of the SOUL of ones children is
so much more purer and blessed with an intrinsic purity, when the parents keep "family
purity " . It is accepted that ones eye colour is a reflection of the quality and purity of
ones soul , and influenced by the purity of sexual relationship of ones parents .
The Kalash People
Light coloured and clear eyes represent purity, especially light green . ( whilst dark
coloured is the opposite) . By an amazing "divine" coincedence just today - a good friend
has just given me an amazing DVD from the BBC by Michael Palin on "HIMALAYA"
on programme 1 chapter 5, where he meets a tribe of 3500 people, called the Kalash
people . Who keep family purity with exceptionally amazing etiquette .

Women who have given birth and women whom are menstruating, are separated into a
special home - a type of hotel, where they can relax and rest during the period . Men are
forbidden to enter this hotel - area . Only when they are "pure" again and have stopped
bleeding , they return home to their families .
This explanation given on the BBC DVD to Michael Palin is that women are
exceedingly drained, sensitive and fragile during this period, and therefore their bodies
need a rest from the usual stresses of life . He also comments that ALL the people have
exceptionally clear and beautifully light coloured green eyes . ( here is a link i found on
the web of a photo , note the green eyes ) Having searched the web i found on an israeli
website, a reference that the Kalash people maybe descendants of the tribe of Benjamin Binyomin, whom like the remainder of the 10 lost tribes of ISRAEL, dissappeared after
the destruction of the temple .
Certainly the fact that they keep family purity - Teharos Mispocha with such strictness,
could imply their jewish origins . (On the BBC DVD, the leader comments that all they
know of their origins is coming from "sion" - which could be ZION - , the biblical
name of Israel) . So far as i know only jewish laws have the "family purity" separation
law of abstainance of sexual relations during the bleeding "period" time .
Certainly the Kalash people in Chitral, far North Eastern corner of Pakistan are NOT
muslem, believe in ONE GOD who created the world. They are remarkably &
exceedingly specially spiritual for keeping the sanctity and purity of their physical body
and spiritual soul . Which proves that the light coloured eyes is a reflection of purity of
their soul and their parents family purity of sexual abstainance during the period .
{ As a spiritual note for all the non-jewish and for non-religious jewish spiritually
minded people who read this website, take an example from the Kalash people and see
the BBC DVD on Himalaya, try and refrain from sexual relations during the bleeding
period, learn to respect the physical body of women, who need comfort, loving support
and rest during the period . Hopefully you will feel the difference to the quality of your
loving relationship, and feel the renewed loving and sexual energy after a period of
refraining . This advice i give as good spiritual advice, i am certainly NOT trying to
influence anyone to become jewish or religious, just to improve spiritually ! } .
Learning to love without connecting
During the mensturation period, in abstaining from sexual intimacy . One can learn to
love on a different level . Connecting with each other, out of respect, kindness and
consideration . All men should know that a woman needs support and care during her
period . It is almost a feeling, that part of a woman dies inside every month, a sensitive
time needs a sensitive caring man . ( So learn how to cook and care for your wife during
the period ! give her all the support she deserves ! )

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Coming soon during 2008

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"The Pathway to Enlightenment"


This page is part of our new second section called "THE PATHWAY" taken from Sefer
Shinuyim - Book of Change and Sefer Tikunim - The book of Corrections , this
section explains with a small key of knowledge, one will have the ability to transform
and change ones thoughts and heal ones soul. This is the reason every person came to
this earth - to CHANGE.
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Sefer Hanesh by Reb Shem Tov Ben Yosef Falaq'ira


Sefer HaNefesh - is a book by Reb Shem Tov Ibn Yosef Falaq'ira ( lived in the
area of French Spanish border in 13th century, please see here for full history and
explanation of alll his writings in English ) . One of the most profilic Sefardic spiritual
writers . The book explains clearly the relationship between the soul, the levels of energy
within the soul , and the direct relationship with every part of our body . Especially
focusing on the bodily senses of sight, sound, touch, taste, smell and how these directly
affect the level of soul known as "Nefesh" . The book continues to explain the level of
"RUACH" - "the breathe of life" - spirit through the power of speech, relating the power
of speech and physical bodily senses together to bring healing to the SOUL .

Prayers to find ones Soulmate


Sefer Tikunim -
Every person whom is born on earth is a half of a whole, every single person has a
soulmate, and until one finds ones soulmate, one feels empty, an inexplicable lacking.
Hence the importance to find ones "destined" soulmate.

If a person is single and does not have ones soulmate, nor does one have any hope of
meeting anyone suitable, then ones soul needs URGENT attention and corrections need
to be made, as it maybe a person has taken the wrong pathway , and needs correcting to
be guided to the right pathway . The Sefer Tikunim - , the "Book of
Corrections" provides our souls with the spiritual recipe to make the necessary
corrections.
Each person needs to recognise that the only way forward in life is through a
transformation of ones character from being a selfish taker of energy into becoming a
creator of life energy through the power of "LOVE", Sefer Shinuyim in the chapter
"Life of LOVE" explains the transformation of thoughts needed in a persons mind to
connect ones soul to spirit world and find ones true soulmate with true love.
Sefer Tikunim - , the "Book of Corrections" explains that a person should
make the following TIKUN - correction so that one can OPEN the MAZEL and enable
one to find ones soulmate.

Declaration of Destined Soulmate


The first stage is to acknowledge and really believe that one has a destined soulmate.
This comes from the Talmud written almost 2000 years ago.



"Forty days before a person is conceived into this world, it is
announced in heaven - spirit world, the daughter of this man is
destined to marry this man, the house in this place - is destined for
their home, and this field (livelihood / business / profession) is
destined for this person". Talmud Sota 2a.

The Prayer to find ones Soulmate




"Forty days before a person is conceived into this world, it is announced in heaven spirit world, the daughter of this man is destined to marry this man, the house in this
place - is destined for their home, and this field (livelihood / business / profession) is
destined for this person".
"Ribbone Shel Olam, Master of the Universe, this is the spiritual law of destiny, the
declaration was made before my soul came to earth, please guide me and help me find
the right pathway for my life, the right home to live in and i really want to find my
soulmate, please help me find my destined soulmate that was declared for me in heaven
40 days before i was conceived ".
"Please Ribbone Shel Olam, Master of the Universe find a way for me where there
seems to be no way, guide and place me on the right pathway for my souls destiny, so
that i can fulfill my life with my soulmate, who is needing me as much as i need him/her.
For the sake of my soulmate who needs me, please help me find him/her so that we can
be one together ".
The custom is to say this every day 3 times a day, the essence of the prayer is that one
affirms the spiritual law of the declaration made in heaven 40 days before conception,
and then asks GOD to guide one to find ones destiny and fulfill this spiritual law.
One can use any language one feels comfortable with, i know many people who use the
Hebrew version or the Yiddish version, the most important aspect is that one OPENS up
in prayer and asks for DIVINE spiritual help to find ones destiny. The prayer should
come from ones emotions and heart, out of sincere desire to find ones soulmate.

Sefer Tikunim -
Book of Corrections
Explains that one should pray every day in the morning at sunrise and at sunset and in
evening before one goes to sleep asking for spiritual guidance to find ones soulmate. The
key that will open the door to ones life is ones true soulmate, so it is vitally imperative
that one finds ones key.
According to Sefer Tikunim who learns from our forefather Jacob and Rachel that it can
take up to 7 Years, from the moment one starts to pray for ones soulmate until one
actually lives with him/her. But Sefer Tikunim assure that NO ONE will ever have to
wait longer than 7 years !

Sefer Tikunim -
Sefer Tikunim explains that it is customary for a single person to read the story of Jacob
and Rachel from Genesis Chapter 29, once a week.

Then say the "Shira" from

For those people who pray the traditional morning prayers then they say this prayer
every day. Single people looking for their soulmate should have in their thoughts that
they are asking for DIVINE guidance to find their soulmate, just like the Jewish people
needed Divine guidance when they were saved from Egyptian slavery. The essence of
the "shira" prayer is the jewish people asked GOD - Hashem to make a way where there
is no way .
Similarly, when a person is single and lost, we ask GOD to make a "way" where there
seems to be "no way".

The "Shira" is from


Then Say Psalm 121

Psalms 121
1 A Song of Ascents; I will lift up my eyes to the mountains: from where shall my help
come? 2 My help comes from the LORD, who made heaven and earth. 3 He will not
suffer a foot to be moved; He that guards you will not slumber. 4 Behold, He that guards
Israel does neither slumber nor sleep. 5 The LORD is your keeper; the LORD is your
shadow upon your right hand. 6 The sun shall not hurt you by day, nor the moon by
night. 7 The LORD shall guard you from all evil; He shall guard your soul. 8 The LORD
shall guard your going out and your coming in, from this time now and for ever.

Single men should then say the prayer "Eshes Chayil" at least
once a week. ( As is customary to sing this prayer every friday
)evening before Kiddush

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Proverbs Chapter 31 verse 10 to 31
10 A woman of valour who can find? for her price is far above rubies. 11 The heart of
her husband doth safely trust in her, and he hath no lack of gain. 12 She doeth him good
and not evil all the days of her life. 13 She seeketh wool and flax, and worketh willingly
with her hands. 14 She is like the merchant-ships; she bringeth her food from afar. 15
She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth food to her household, and a portion to
her maidens. 16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it; with the fruit of her hands she
planteth a vineyard. 17 She girdeth her loins with strength, and maketh strong her arms.
18 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good; her lamp goeth not out by night. 19 She
layeth her hands to the distaff, and her hands hold the spindle. 20 She stretcheth out her
hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy. 21 She is not afraid of
the snow for her household; for all her household are clothed with scarlet. 22 She
maketh for herself coverlets; her clothing is fine linen and purple. 23 Her husband is
known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land. 24 She maketh linen
garments and selleth them; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant. 25 Strength and
dignity are her clothing; and she laugheth at the time to come. 26 She openeth her mouth
with wisdom; and the law of kindness is on her tongue. 27 She looketh well to the ways
of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. 28 Her children rise up, and call
her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her: 29 'Many daughters have done
valiantly, but thou excellest them all.' 30 Grace is deceitful, and beauty is vain; but a
woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised. 31 Give her of the fruit of her hands;
and let her works praise her in the gates.

Parnosa and Soulmate are connected

Finding ones soulmate is finding the key to ones destiny, similarly unlocking the door of
Parnosa - livelihood runs concurrently for most single people to finding ones soulmate,
therefore Sefer Tikunim explains single people should also unlock and pray for Parnosa.
By unlocking ones parnosa blockage one will simultaneously unblock ones destined
soulmate.

Parnosa , the specific prayers to ask for


opening up from spirit world of money and
livlihood, the importance of the power of
prayer in earning money in ones life,
coupled together with physical action,
allows the flow of energy in our lives.
- The Daily Heavenly Bread "Manna" in wilderness

The connection between finding ones soulmate and livelihood is the reason the Talmud
discusses jobs and earning money in the tractate of Kidushin, that discusses marriage.
Talmud Kidushin 82explains fully the section of the Talmud the discusses career, jobs
and profession. The ethical and spiritual codes of how to earn money.
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Explanation how to find ones Soulmate
Sefer Shinuyim - The Book of Changes
From the full chapter of "Life of Love"

Understanding How To Find Ones


True SOULMATE

In this section we shall explain the meaning of "soulmates" and


how to find and identify ones true soulmate, taken from Sefer
Shinuyim - the "Book of Changes".

We shall explain the spiritual law of "Two

types of
"SOULMATES" one type that gives one
difficult and challenging experiences in
order to teach one important lessons in life
and the other perfect harmonious soulmate
that is excatly identical to you as he/she is
your "other half", the exact piece one has
been searching for since one was born to
complete ones soul.
After reading this section we know and hope you will be placed on
the right pathway to find ones true soulmate and stop wasting your
vital souls energy on the "wrong ones" !
This section on "Soulmates" is explained in 7 stages:1.Explaining

the purpose and meaning of "soulmates" and "soul


groups".

that one actually has 2 Soulmates , one is


a help , the other is a challenging opposition .

2.Explaining

3.Explaining

how to find ones true "soulmate".

4.Explaining

the reason for the amazing inexplicable magnetic


attraction of soulmates, and why one feels, senses and knows ones
soulmates thoughts and feelings.
Explaining that only the two people "know" they are each others
soulmate, whilst in other peoples "sensible eyes" they appear to be
unsuitable and even unequal.

5.Explaining

why there are difficulties whilst "soulmates" are


trying to come together, through blockages of " shells of
negative energy covering ones soul", created from other peoples
negative thoughts that envelope a person to be blocked.
How soulmates themselves generate their own " shells of
negative energy covering ones soul", negative energies which
challenge, test and doubt themselves until they are 100%
absolutely certain to know that this person is ones soulmate. Then
explaining how to negate any , negative, challenging and
opposing energies in making 2 soulmates coming and being
together.
Explaining that every soulmate couple is a " small
world". The principle of soulmates needing to protect themselves
and live in their "own world" refusing to "allow-in" any
destructive or negative energies into their relationship and having
their own unique purpose and mission in their lives.
6.

Explaining the spiritual loving energy that is created by


soulmates everytime they "make love", which creates a spiritual
protecting energy to strengthen their bond, energize their lives and
grow spiritually.
7.

1. Explaining The Purpose And Meaning Of "Soulmates" And "Soul Groups".

The true purpose of the gift of life on earth is inorder for our souls
to learn and experience life, through all kinds of events,
opportunities and challenges throughout our lives.
Thankfully we are not alone during our journey of life, unless
ofcourse a person believes themselves to be selfish egocentrical
"individuals", then even amongst large groups of people they are
lonely and disconnected.
"The Soulgroup"

During our journey of life, we travel on this earth in "soul groups",


that is a group, culture and identity where all the members of the
soul group understand each other and live on the same physical
and spiritual wavelength. The members of ones soul group may
not all be alive on earth, they may be spiritual souls who have
passed onto to Spirit world but mantain contact with you as they
are part of ones soul group in much the same way as "Guardian
angels" .
One will always be able to rely upon ones soul group to help,
guide, assist, the souls in ones soul group will make 100% certain
that one succeeds to fulfill ALL of ones lifes goals, objectives,
challenges and purpose ones soul came to earth to learn.
Once a person has learnt the lessons of ones life, it is possible to
elevate ones soul into a higher soulgroup, and likewise if one
makes a bad decision one can move out of ones soulgroup into a
lower group. Nontheless one always has the intrinsic continual
opportunity and chance to return to ones destined soulgroup and
likewise on is always guarenteed to be able to find their perfect
soulmate, through the help of ones "Guardian angels" and helpful
souls from ones soulgroup.
"The Soulmate"

teaches that "destiny" has designated each and


every individual with a soulmate. The "soulmate" is actually the
other half of a person. With ones soulmate one is wholesome,
without it one is void and empty. With ones "soulmate" comes a
"package" of a home to live and profession/job and purpose in life.
Talmud (Sotah 2a)

The spiritual and physical energy of planet earth resonates to the


number TWO, everything on our planet comes in pairs. The Earth
itself is paired with the Moon, the identity of the Earth needs the
Moon to exist both physically and spiritually, in the renewal of

energies monthly and daily tidal flows, as the magnetic pull of the
Moons energy causes high and low tides - the Earth needs
CHANGE to exist.
The emphasis and importance of finding ones true soulmate is the
key to success in life. The two halves that make the whole, once
together one can lead a fulfilling and purposeful life of "destiny".
Having the "wrong half" means one does not have ones soulmate
hence one does not have "the key of life" to fulfill ones true
destined purpose in life. Without the right "key", ones life will
seem frustrating and unlucky - like stuck in a locked room full of
closed doors . It maybe nice few hours, but would be frustratingly
painful to remain there for the rest of ones life !
The purpose of the "soulmate" is to make a person feel wholesome
with LOVE and enable one to accomplish the mission and purpose
of life through physical, sexual and spiritual LOVE energy.
Everything constructive and good in this life is only created
through LOVE. Only through the loving energy created together
with ones soulmate creates the perfect energy to live, bringing
meaning to everything in ones life.
2. Explaining that everyone has 2 Soulmates, , one is a help , the other is a
challenging opposition .

Everyone has freewill choice in life, even when we think we are


making a choice, it is either categorised into a good decision or a
bad decision. Both decisions are choices that are potentially
destined for our soul, the bad decisions we make will challenge us
and make life difficult for us in order to guide us to change,
making the corrective decision and finding the correct good
pathway, our soul instinctively only finds "inner peace of mind",
when we are on the correct pathway.

Most people only learn from bad and challenging relationships.


Such connections will have a similar instantaneous magnetic
attraction as good relationships, as they too, are destined in order
to teach a person important lessons, but they will continue to
repeat past patterns if bad relationships as there is a lesson a
person needs to learn, and until one learns the lesson one will keep
on being magnetic to the bad and "challenging" type of
relationships.
The 2 Types of Soulmates
" - The Help"

" - The Help" soulmates are always 100% on your side


with continual support, help, love, passion and an eternal
unconditional LOVE, and whom would NEVER EVER hurt you.
Whenever one plans, talks and thinks ideas with ones true helpful
soulmate, they constructively help to energize ones life with
loving energy, enabling one to overcome any negativity, moving
all obstacles and finding the correct pathway to success. As ones
true helpful soulmate always knows that they are ones "Other
Half", when something good happens to the other half of them,
they too benefit from this good energy.
" - The Opposition"

" - The Opposition" soulmates teach a


person by constantly challenging, through
emotionally bitter lessons with pain and
difficulties. The "opposition" bad
relationships always cause a sensible person

to "go closed" on themself emotionally in


order to protect their soul.
Prefering to live alone in ones mind and
thoughts than communicate with such a
destructive person in a dysfunctional
relationship. A feeling of "living with the
enemy" ensues, and everything one plans or
tells such a person gets blocked and
thwarted by their destructive and negative
thought energies, critical words and horrible
actions.
Until it comes a point in ones life, where
one says "ENOUGH" ! At such a "breaking
point" a person may loose faith in love,
loose faith in relationships, loose faith life
and worst of all - loose faith in GOD.
But when a person realises that such a
relationship is a dysfuntional " Opposition" soulmate, then this makes a
person find an inner strength, admitting to
oneself the truth of the bad relationship and

then learning how to find ones true 100%


loving soulmate the soulmate of " - Help".
" - The Help" can sometimes be a
" - The Opposition"
There are times that we all make mistakes in
our lives, and even though we are living
with and have found our 100% loving
soulmate, he/she may challenge us and be
absolutely right to challenge with the
strength of "opposition".
They act in this way of challenging
"opposition" as they are wishing to defend
their own soul, through love of their "Other
Half" of their soul, they are trying to protect
the relationship by any destructive external
opposing energies and any negative
influence or bad decision the other person
has made. They are "challenging and
opposing" out of a deep sincere love, in

order to protect the wholesomeness of their


perfect soulmate union.
" - The Opposition" can sometimes
turn into " - The Help"
" - The Opposition" soulmates always
have the potential to become perfectly
100% loving soulmates, with no more need
for bitter experiences, pain or difficulties
ONLY when they have have refined and
elevated their soul after learning the
necessary lessons their souls need to learn.
Soulmates may choose to start their
relationship through a "challenging" and
opposing energy, however, by working
together and challenging each others
individualism they are able to transform
themselves into a single UNITED soulmate,
through negating any opposing energies that
exist by learning to completely love each
other, and thereby transform their

relationship into a 100% loving helpful


soulmate union.
3. Explaining How To Find Ones
True "Soulmate"

When meeting new people in life, connections and bonds are


made either because the people share a "common interest" or
because one person has something the other person wants.
"Physical Chemistry"

In the case of love and relationships, men and women are


magnetically aroused and attracted to each other. Nontheless not
all men are attracted to all women and vice versa, there needs to
be a certain "chemistry" that makes a man and a woman "fall in
love" with each other.
This "chemistry" is the energy of the thoughts in the mind, that is
a man and a woman only really feel a connection to each other
when they are in harmony with each other in their mind &
thoughts. This "common factor" enables a wholesomeness and
fullness in the relationship, otherwise the love is merely a
superficial animal - instinct sexual love, which usually fades
within a few weeks.
Human beings who are connected with each other, need to have an
ability to think the same way as each other, they need to have a
"common factor" in order to feel the relationship is wholesome.
Hence the reason why single people join clubs and organisations,
or have hobbies and interests as a sense of identity of their
personality. Thereby enabling themselves to meet "like-minded"

people and hopefully find a suitable man/woman with whom they


can have a meaningful relationship with, as their inner minds and
thoughts will be sharing similar identities, emotions and feelings.
If either become disinterested in the "common factor" that
originally united them, then their relationship will have
communication problems leading to an automatic "falling out of
love", as their thoughts and energy of their minds no longer have
anything "in common".
When a couple are not growing together, then they are growing
apart in their diverging lifestyles and interests. Such a relationship
will eventually fail completely, unless one of them changes to
become like the other.

"Spiritual Chemistry"
The next level of relationships is that people feel a "magnetic"
attraction, a "twinkle in the eye" or very lovely inner feeling, even
without talking. Relationships that are prompted by "just a
thought" of them, seeing them or seeing anything that reminds you
of them, that is your mind and soul is connecting yourself with
their mind and thoughts.
Such thought energies are ones mind and soul communicating
with you and likewise with the other persons mind and soul is
feeling the same inner feeling for you, your souls are
communicating with each other, this gives you the "inner spiritual
feeling" that you are made for each other, an inexplicable inner
"spiritual chemistry".
Such a "spiritual chemistry" is definately a sign that this is
someone important in your life and definately from ones
"soulgroup" as explained above. The important question "how do

you identify if they are your true soulmate?" This needs you to
understand the "soulmate chemistry":-

"Soulmate Chemistry"
Soulmates, and all members of ones soulgroup have a unique
telepathic communication of thought energies in the minds and
souls of the whole soulgroup. All the souls of ones soulgroup
know and sense exactly what the other members are feeling. They
all have the same thoughts, feelings and emotions at the same
time. They feel pain, when people in their soulgroup are in pain,
and likewise they feel the happiness, love and strength from the
other souls in their soulgroup.
The "soulmate chemistry" means that all the souls of the
soulgroup are constantly connected even if they are physically far
away from each other, they are very close spiritually, as their soul,
mind and thoughts are constantly connected.
This "soulmate chemistry" is the reason why ones "guardian angels"
and loved ones in spirit world, are in constant contact with ones soul, as
they are members of ones spiritual soul group. The only reason a
person feels alone and not in contact with people of their same
soulgroup is because one may block or deny the existence of
"spirit" world, believing that one needs to "get on with normal
physical life" instead of including a "spiritual enlightened
pathway" within ones physical existence in this life on earth.
Only when a person is connected spiritually and "open" to be
guided spiritually, then through "soulmate chemistry" of you and
your soulgroup, through ones "guardian angels" and loved ones in spirit
world whom are waiting to help you find a spiritual pathway, one is
assured to be guided to connect with and find ones true soulmate.
How To Find Your True Soulmate

The first step in finding your true soulmate is to believe in GOD,


Spirit world, Guardian Angels and that through your connection to
good souls in Spirit world from your soulgroup, you will be
guided to find your soulmate or that your soulmate will find you.
"Asking for Guidance For Ones Soul"
Tikun Neshoma -

Sefer Tikunim in Tikun Neshoma -

explains when a person has


lived a life void of any belief in GOD, belief in spiritual afterlife
or in a "Spirit World of Souls", then a person should light 3
candles to connect "spiritually":-

One candle for GOD, one candle for ones guardian angel and one
candle for ones soul, and then pray that one should be guided
spiritually to correct any mistakes one has made whilst living a
life VOID of any belief in GOD, and ask to be guided along the
right pathway destined for ones soul.

Whilst praying one will feel spiritually enlightened, with feelings


of awareness and belief in GOD and belief in the existence of a
spiritual soul. Such feelings and understandings will bring a
person to see a "bigger picture", that life on earth is part of a
spiritual journey for ones soul, with a unique and destined
pathway for each and every soul to experience emotions, events
and changes.

Connecting to Spirit World With Prayer Will Help to Strengthen Your Soul and Enable
Your Soulmate to be Found and Bring You Together

Every prayer helps to connect ones soul to Spirit world and brings
a person closer to the DIVINE GOD that creates and sustains this
Universe.
All connections to "Spirit World" will increase and strengthen
your spiritual strength, this includes praying at the gravesites of
spiritually strong and good souls, especially praying at the gravesites of
good people one knew and loved, and/or praying at Famous Rabbis &
Rebbes holy gravsites, sending prayer requests into the Famous Rabbi
Yonatan Ben Uziel and ofcourse continually giving thanks for the gift of
life whilst asking for help and guidance to find ones true soulmate.
One can use the Prayers for Soulmate from Sefer Tikunim,

but even
stronger one should use ones own language
to pray from ones heart for ones soulmate
with a few heartfelt emotions and tears.
It does not matter what time of the day or night, whenever one
intuitively and spiritually feels the right moment to pray and ask
for spiritual help, then light a candle and pray in whatever
language you understand. The stronger ones inner spiritual
connection the sooner ones true soulmate will be found by spirit
world and you will come together.
Lighting Candles For Your Soulmate
Light 2 Candles :
One For You and One For Your Soulmate

In preparing for your soulmate to come into your life, you will
develope a selfless and spiritual character, by lighting a candle for

the soul of your soulmate even though you have not met him/her
yet, you are showing a love, compassion and desire to pray and
help someone else, who is actually YOUR other half.
Learning to show love, desiring to give selflessly and
unconditionally to another person is all part of "growing-up" from
being a demanding selfish child to loving unconditionally, and
thereby become a perfect potential parent.
Ask yourself, "would you give EVERYTHING of what you have
to your soulmate?" if the answer is "YES", then you have
understood that giving to your soulmate is infact just giving to
yourself, a cycle of life energy. The concept of sharing and giving
love in a soulmate loving relationship is the spiritual basis of life,
as in the cycle of life in the whole Universe, the DIVINE GOD
constantly gives everything to everyone.
When praying for ones soulmate, never focus your thoughts on
any particular person, as they may not be yours, and an even better
person will be your destined perfect soulmate, and then be "open"
to listen to your inner voice of guidance and ACT, there is no point
in praying and then DOING NOTHING when one has a feeling to
go somewhere or speak to someone !
"Within 12 Months"

The Spiritual guarentee from Sefer Shinuyim - Book of Changes


and from Famous Rabbi Yonatan Ben Uziel, is that within 12 months of
prayers of asking GOD and Spirit world to find ones true soulmate
then one will find him/her, DIVINE coincedences, experiences
and feelings will occur to guide you to your soulmate and guide
your soulmate to you.
we explain why there are difficulties whilst
"soulmates" are trying to come together, through blockages of
of other peoples negative thoughts that envelope a person to
In section 5 below

be blocked, and explain how to negate & eliminate these


blockages.
"Compare to Modern Day Internet"

If one is searching for someone on the internet than one first needs
to get a computer and be online, then a person needs to search by
using a search engine like google or yahoo.
Similarly spiritually, in searching for ones true soulmate, one first
needs to believe in GOD and Spirit world, connecting by way of
prayers and lighting candles for GOD and Spirit world for
DIVINE help to find ones soulmate, and then "be open", listen and
allow one to be guided to meet ones soulmate.
Everyone has a perfect soulmate and when you find him/her your
soul will instinctively know, your life will "magically" open up
with an amazing life vitality of love and life-giving energy.
With your true soulmate you will feel an eternal LOVE energy, as
soulmates existed in spirit world before we were born when our
souls arrived on earth and will existe unified together once we die
and leave this earth. The intermediary years of life on earth is the
challenge that we must ensure we waste no time in finding our
true soulmate to live a wholesome purposeful loving life together.
The True Soulmate

"One who looks for money, beauty, status or anything physical in


a relationship
will NEVER find their true soulmate" quoted from Tana Devei Eliyahu
In seeking your true Soulmate ask yourself the following
questions:-

When contemplating ones emotions with respect to ones true


soulmate, one needs to ask "Do you want to be so different from
that person?" OR "Do you wish to actually be identical to that
person, and be a part of that person, in every single way ?"
In the desire to be that person, and become a complete part of that
persons life because indeed a true soulmate is the "other half", one
is motivated and prepared to change ones mind, thoughts and even
physical existence to be with him/her, energized by a magnetic
love from the soul.
This power from ones soul is an identity that indicates ones "true
soulmate", the desire to reunite your souls together as ONE in this
world as you have been before you came into this world and will
be united eternally in spirit world after leaving this physical life
for eternity, and refusing to allow anything physical or material
distract or block your souls from being together. One will not find
true inner "peace of mind" withing ones mind and soul until one is
with ones true soulmate.

4. Explaining The Reason For The Amazing Inexplicable Magnetic Attraction Of


Soulmates.

In this section we explain the spiritual reason for the amazing


inexplicable magnetic attraction of soulmates, and why one feels,
senses and knows everything ones soulmate is thinking and
feeling.

Instantaneous Magnetic Attraction


Soulmates have an instantanous magnetic attraction to each other,
as their relationship is blessed by DIVINE GOD, blessed by Spirit
world and "destined" as a "key of life" for their lives together on
earth.

Even people who try and fight this magnetic soulmate love desire
for each other, will find their efforts to block themselves futile and
will eventually be together. As soulmates will never find "peace of
mind" and true purposeful fulfillment of their souls until they are
together, both physically and spiritually together. True soulmates
always need and lovingly enjoy being together all the time.
The reason for this inexplicable magnetic attraction between
soulmates is that their Guardian Angels are guiding them and bringing
energy to both people simultaneously, in order to "force", guide
and bring this soulmate couple together. Ofcourse selfish ego,
stubborness and freewill choice can block this, but eventually
"soulmates" always come together. Each persons Guardian Angels
will ensure this happens, however illogical !

Wrong Relationships Always Fail


Similarly, the reason why "wrong" relationships, lovers and
marriages fail is that each of the individuals Guardian Angels are
conflicting with the other persons Guardian Angels, both
individuals are incompatable on a spiritual level and hence
eventually they end up conflicting on a physical level.
A "sign" for this is that there are conflicts, disharmony and
inbalances in the relationship and very often a person enjoys
having "SPACE" away from the other, and in the "space" a person
feels enlivened and happy for this freedom ! This requirement for
"space" is an energy from ones Guardian Angels to pull one away
from a bad and wrong relationship.
Once the wrong person is out of ones life, "good fortune" always
happens in a persons life, as a spiritual sign from ones Guardian
Angels that one is now on the correct pathway and free from that
"negative" person .

Everyone believes in "SIGNS" as these give everyone an


indication of good energy, a good omen to ones soul which is
living in this real physical world that one is with the right person
doing the right thing at the right time. If one feels "uncomfortable"
or misfortune happens where it has not happend before, then take
this as a sign and have "closure" and please run away from them !!!
Once one has "closure" from "draining" people, a positive energy of
excitement and "aliveness" is given by ones Guardian Angels, this
is because ones soul is "blocking success" when one is with bad
people. The more spiritual and sensitive a person is, the stronger the
"blocking energy" caused by other peoples transference energy,
through ones Guardian Angels as sign to protect you.
Soulmates Communicate by "Eye Contact"



explains that a person is
forbidden to marry unless they see each
other with their eyes. The Talmud does not
say "talk to each other" or kiss etc., but the
talmud says a person needs to "to see" with
ones eyes.
The Talmud Kidushin 41a

This is because ones eyes are the windows


to ones soul, and "eye contact" means that
your souls are communicating with each

other. Only by "eye contact" will you know


that this person is your soulmate and only
through your continual "eye contact" your
souls are communicating with each other.
5. Why There Are Difficulties Whilst "Soulmates" Are Coming Together? Created By
Blockages Of Other Peoples Negative Thoughts That Envelope A Person And
Block.

Sometimes there are difficulties whilst "soulmates" are trying to


come together, through blockages of of other peoples
negative thoughts that envelope a person to be blocked, the reason
is that the union of "soulmates" is VERY POWERFUL and many
people are jealous, hateful and spiteful with envy that one has
developed spiritually with a wonderful soulmate union of love,
even destructive and controlling "well meaning" parents can be
jealous and create negative blockages!
Negative Blockages -

-"kleepes" literally translated are "layers of hard shells".


Spiritually the word - "kleepes" is used in reference to
shells of negative energy that attach themselves to ones soul and
prevent "life energy" from DIVINE GOD and from Spirit world
coming into ones soul, these - "kleepes" are created by
negative emotions and thoughts such has hate, jealousy, deceit and
lies. These negative blockages are created by a person or by other
people who wish to block ones life.
"Blockages" are created by negative thought energy hence they are
easily cancelled-out through the power of prayer and speech, as
explained in the chapter Loss by "Transference".

Resisting "Change" Creates Blockages

When a person finally meets their soulmate, they will both be in a


transition period of inner change, until they come together as one
in physical sexual love. This is because both have been living a
"half life" without their soulmate and adapted to a dysfunctional
life whilst living alone. Therefore, some changes will be
necessary.
If either one resist these changes in their lives, through their
independant, selfish childish ways of thinking, or their stubborn
ego then this creates - "kleepes" negative blockages. Only
when they realise that each other is the "other half" of the other
and then decided to grow-up into mature selfless adults.
At that moment of inner decision they will both resist the need to
create blockages of moving forward by "holding onto" their past,
and then they will come together for a united wonderful future for
their soul which is ONE, and then there is no longer such thing as
2 people in a soulmate, they are simply ONE unit.
Other People Who Wish to "Control" And "Own" Your Soul Creates Blockages
The other blockage of is created from other peoples negative thoughts that
envelope a person to be blocked, the reason is that the union of "soulmates" is VERY
POWERFUL and many people are jealous, hateful and spiteful with envy that one has
developed spiritually and has a wonderful soulmate union of love, even destructive and
controlling parents can be jealous and create negative blockages!

Single people who feel that they are "into their career" or
"committed" to their job, profession or business and have no time
for loving relationships, may think they are making a good
decision themselves, however in reality they do not OWN their
own souls. They have "sold their souls to the devil", to their career
or to the love of "making money", as they are not in control of
their own lives and have given their soulful power away, this will

create the same blockage in their lives, and thwart their own
spiritual success in finding their true soulmate.
These negative blockages are dissolved by cancelling out through
prayer, power of speech and inner change, as explained in Loss by
"Transference", then the couple must learn to be 100% closed and be
spiritually protected to such negativity which is trying to challenge and
block their soulmate union.
Dissolve All Negative Blockages -
Light A Single Candle

6. Every Soulmate Couple Is A


" Small World".

Every soulmate couple is a " small world". The principle


of soulmates needing to protect themselves and live in their "own
world" refusing to "allow-in" any destructive or negative energies
into their relationship and having their own unique purpose and
mission in their lives is vital to the existence and survival of their
soulmate world.
Therefore, whenever a soulmate couple feels any form of
negativity in their loving relationship - light a single candle, and
embrace each other with love, as they are ONE, this unity
symbolized in ONE candle and connecting with the DIVINE
Spirit world will protect them and negate any negativity from
whomever and wherever it has come from.
When a soulmate couple are together they are protecting each
other from any external negative influences, in fact they are living
in their own " small world" and almost oblivious to any
negativity that exists or any negativity that they would have

sensed when they were single. Being together and living in their
own world, especially when unified as one unit in making sexual
love, creates spiritual and physical love energy which protects
from all negativity.
7. Everytime "Soulmates" Make Sexual Love They Create Spiritual Energy That Protects
Their Souls

There is a spiritual loving energy created by soulmates everytime


they "make love", which creates a spiritual protecting energy to
strengthen their bond, energize their lives and grow spiritually.
The act of making sexual love with ones soulmate unites the two
seperate physical bodies in the most natural way, the womans
body is lacking and the mans physical body has the missing piece
that unites the two bodies. Only through their loving arousal for
each other, through passion and love they unite in the act of sexual
love.
Everytime one makes sexual love this creates spiritual energy for
ones united soul, the same way that "making sexual love" brings
the potential for a child to be conceived, that is to say that "sexual
love" has the potential to bring a spirit soul down from spirit
world of souls into this physical world. Likewise everytime one
makes sexual love with ones soulmate this unites the physical and
spiritual union of their soul and creates a powerful spiritual
energy.
"Make A Wish"

Sefer Shinuyim explains that at the specific moment a man


orgasms, ejaculates sperm inside a woman, he has brought an
angelic and spiritual energy into this world.
The spiritual tradition at this specific moment is for a man to then
say "make a wish", although once they both become accustomed

to each other they he no longer needs to say it as the woman


knows, even so if a man feels a very special energy - he should
say "make a wish".
The spiritual energy of the angel created by the sexual love in the
soulmate union has the energy to help, guide, protect and bring
good fortune into their lives, but it needs the woman to receive the
blessing and for her to "make the wish".
It is a reward and thanks to the woman for her passion and love
that the man has the energy and desire to love, this is her unique
reward for her kindness, support and love for her soulmate man.
(This is spiritual reason that use of condom or "coming outside",
masturbating, or any other act other than a mans penis inside a
womans vagina making sexual love, creates a negative blockage
of energy upon the soul , as explained above and on the
page "Health & Diet".)
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We understand that this section on "Soulmates" is long and the


webpage Life of Love is very long, we wished to keep the original
from Sefer Shinuyim - Book of Changes and not split the pure
knowledge in different pages.
Nontheless we shall be inserting link to a separate webpage Sexual
Love and have made this separate webpage on "Prayers and How to find
ones soulmate" with knowledge from both Sefer Shinuyim and Sefer
Tikunim.
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Conclusion

The Hebrew word means GOOD - Gematria Numerical Value 17

The only true goodness comes when one is wholesome with love
of ones soulmate
is the most important chapter
as it is the KEY to living life in this world, connecting this
physical world to the eternal spiritual world with LOVE of GOD,
LOVE of Life and true LOVE of ones Soulmate.

Chapter 17 of Sefer Shinuyim is "Life of Love"

The Essence and source of ALL goodness in the world is LOVE.


The Power and Energy of LOVE eliminates all negativity,
blockages, death, sadness and evil. The Power and Energy of
LOVE creates energy from Eternal Spiritual world which heals
our souls and bodies in this physical world. Love is the key to
everything in this World and journey we call "Life".

The Purpose of Tests & Problems in Life


is to wake a person up physically and spiritually.


"Wakey Wakey You Sleepers from Your
Sleep!"
Reb Chaim Vital explains the reason why the verse repeats itself "wake-up wake-up"
twice and that is to indicate that a person needs to wake up physical and wake up
spiritually.
The first step is to acknowledge the truth that one is going around in circles and one
has been having problems in ones life, then decide that it must stop. It really is that
easy !
The whole reason for all tests and problems in life is to guide a person along the
correct pathway in life and to WAKE UP spiritually.
Reb Chaim Vital explains that even pain, illness and anguish that is destined for a
person, for example if one caused pain to someone in a prior lifetime then payment of
pain is due in this lifetime, even this can be stopped by simply breaking the cycle of
reincarnation. By using the 3 keys of reincarnation to break the cycle, then focus on

the 3 purposes a reincarnated soul came into this world and then break the cycle for
eternity.
Then break, annul and stop all pain and problems in ones life through living the
spiritually enlightened life of FORGIVENESS, COMPASSION and LOVE.

Having Problems in Life is a Sign !


As we explained in the 1st Key of Reincarnation - The Complainers, many souls have
been reincarnated to overcome the lesson of "COMPLAINING" against GO . These
are referred to as souls from the "wilderness" , complainers , whom
GOD punished by forcing them to wander around in circles in the wilderness for 40
years as a punishment for complaining. Until that whole generation of "complainers"
died, then the jewish people were allowed to enter the "promised land" of Israel .
This is a lesson for everyone, the punishment of feeling stagnated and wandering
around in circles in life, the feelings of never really accomplishing anything useful in
life, identifies to ones soul an urgent need to change - only one aspect of ones life :-

STOP COMPLAINING
This is the simple spiritual law for a successful & purposeful life of inner happiness &
peace

Simply Stop Complaining !


As we have explained of the page of "Health & Diet" from the Talmud Bruchos Daf
5a, "If something painful happens to you ... look and investigate carefully your
actions". Everything happens for a reason in life. If one has problems and pain, it is
happening for a reason. The main lesson that most people need to learn is to change
the attitude of mind, and STOP COMPLAINING ! Learning to be grateful and happy
for everything that happens in life.
Otherwise if one does NOT change, as the Tana Devei Eliyahu says , ,
... "" - "one who hates pain ...pain is doubled". This is simply
understood, as the whole purpose of pain and problems is to wake a person up
SPIRITUALLY. If one has not woken up, then more pain is sent to try a different way
to wake up .
Sefer Shinuyim - "book of change" explains this differently, the reason a person has
failures in life, is because of a disconnection with GOD, the Eternal Divine "lifegiving" loving creative energy of this whole universe.

The pain occurs in life quite simply because there is a disconnection with GOD. Once
the person has woken up to become loving instead of hateful, constructive instead of
destructive, spiritually awakened instead of like the living "dead" spiritually, then the
purpose of pain is fulfilled .

The Reason for Depression


The only reason for a "depression", is it that a person is using their mind and thoughts
to think dark, negative, fear and hatred thoughts, and thereby blocking and
disconnecting their souls spiritual essence of life energy from GOD - the ETERNAL
DIVINE source of ALL energy in the universe.
The purpose of "blockages" in our lives is to WAKE-UP our souls to CHANGE from
the wrong pathway to the correct pathway.
Once we have "woken up " spiritually , and we are working on changing our mind,
thoughts and our soul, then automatically the blockages are eliminated from our lives.
This is the Spiritual law of unblocking "blockages" .

The Prayer
Reb Chaim Vital explains in Sefer Gilgulim that the prayer to ask for tests and
problems to STOP in ones life is simple:"Ribbono Shel Olam , Almighty GOD, Eternal Divine Spiritual Creator
of the whole Universe, i am sorry that i have made mistakes in my life, i recognize
that i have been sleeping in my life, that i have continually been ignoring all the signs
that i have been given in my life to wake me up spiritually. I ignored the signs and
problems and so the problems became bigger and now have become overwhelming to
the point that i have now woken up.
Now that i am awake spiritually, and aware of all my foolish mistakes in this lifetime
and previous lifetimes i beg of you, please GOD stop the pain and anguish so that i
can lead a spiritually enlightened life of FORGIVNESS, COMPASSION & LOVE.
Please FORGIVE ME for all my mistakes in this lifetime and prior lifetimes. AMEN
"

Health & Diet

On this page we have three sections which will guide a person to change ones life by
changing an aspect of ones "health & diet" thereby bring a vitality, strength and
happiness into ones life.
#1. Understanding the Physical body as a reflection of ones soul
Explaining the direct relationship between the physical body and the spiritual soul of
a person . Understanding that the illness or pain in a persons body is a reflection of
the pain or damage in the soul .
In healing the soul , the physical body is cured . The recipe to perfect health is to
accept the signs the body is "giving" in pain, understand what the pain means and
thereby "work on" the relevant spiritual part of the souls attitude and character - will indeed heal the body .
In this section we shall teach that every part of the physical body corresponds to a
spiritual aspect of ones soul .
#2. Healing the body "naturally"
Explaining the natural and traditional cures for healing the body in accordance with
the Mishne Torah of the Rambam, and Hilchos Dayos - ( the RAMBAM Rabbi Moshe Ben Maimon was the personal physician of Saladin, the Egyptian ruler
- The Rambam called the knowledge of health "DAOS - " which means
"attitudes of mind and soul") and in accordance with teachings of Reb Chaim Vital
who was also a spiritual physician, ( a famous kabalist and disciple of the ARI ZAL
who taught people to identify the root cause of illnesses is in a persons soul, and by
healing the soul - the body automatically is healed ).
The medical profession in our generation is starting to become aware that there is a
need for a person to change their attitudes and thoughts before they can be healed
physically and completely .
In this section we give an index of "natural" cures for good health, hopefully after
reading this section you will no longer poison your body with medicines, for
example, a glass of Prune Juice is natures best and fastest laxative .
In our generation, many spiritual healers have also identified the spiritual causes of
"cancer", and by healing the soul this has healed the cancerous cells . This section
will teach the root causes of these illnesses, we shall also explain the meaning of
"hereditary" diseases, spiritual healing that needs to be done collectively as a family
unit . And understanding mental illnesses and depression as a spiritual blockage and
disconnection of the full energy of the soul .

#3. Spiritual laws on good health for our generation


Explaining and understanding spiritual laws regarding health and diet pertainable
especially in "our generation" . Including a section on "Women's health" - the sanctity
and purity of keeping the "menstrual period", and benefit both physically and
spiritually to good sexual behaviour . In this section we shall indicate areas that our
generation is neglecting compared with previous generations .
Also we shall explain in this section the special relationship of the "power of speech"
to a persons good health . Understanding the affects and how to use the maximum
potential of all the senses of the body sight, smell and touch as spiritual experiences
for the soul .
1. Understanding the Physical body is a Reflection of Ones Soul
...

Not even a pin prick can touch or harm a person, unless it is decreed upon in spirit
world.
The fundamental basis of understanding and ability to heal is to accept the principal
belief that absolutely NOTHING happens in this life by chance or accident. Every
single event that occurs in our lives happens for a reason, and in accordance with
spiritual law.
With this knowledge that EVERYTHING happens for a specific purpose and our soul
is on a journey through this physical life as a transition from the spirit world from
where we came to the spirit world we are going to, we start to live life a continuous
journey for our soul, and therefore there is NO SUCH thing as TERMINAL for
spiritually awakened. The expression terminal only exists to people who do not
believe in a soul hence do not believe there is a spiritual existence after this physical
life.
This makes the possibility to heal any illness, an intrinsic belief for anyone and
everyone, even someone suffering from a so called "terminal" illness by the medical
profession; spiritually awakened people throughout the whole world know that there
is no such thing as terminal!
Ask anyone who has been diagnosed with cancer, after the initial period of panic and
devastation, which is perfectly normal, (so don't think one is any less a person
because of these feelings of fear and panic). The next stage is to use ones strength of
determination, character and ones soul to LISTEN to ones inner spiritual belief that

every problem has a solution, and life is continuous as the soul is everlastingly
continuous, hence if it destiny one will be healed.
In our generation, we have all seen and know of thousands of people who have been
cured from cancer, because they became spiritually aware of their soul, recognizing
that the illness is just a physical sign to make them aware that their soul needs healing
. Thereby changing ones attitude to life, changing ones whole personality to
becoming genuinely loving, kind, calmer and accepting of life, with not even a single
hateful, bitter, resentful or jealous thought in ones body.
When we say spiritual aware - we must stress that we do not mean the person has
become a religious fanatic! As we all know almost all religions are man-made laws,
and have been the root cause of more death hatred and misery in the world than any
illness. What is meant by spiritually aware, applies to every human on our planet it is that one has connected with true spirituality, love of our CREATOR, love of
mankind, and love of every moment of life. LOVE gives life and vitality to live.
The Spiritual Law of the Physical Body Reflects the Soul
Everything that occurs in this world occurs in pairs, for example, every part of our
body comes in twos, and similarly every living entity in this world comes in a pair male and female. Likewise every action and happening that occurs in this world has
an exact identity in spirit world. If something happens here in our physical world then
there is a corresponding energy in the spiritual world.
This is the reason why earthquakes, floods, volcano eruptions on earth have been
symbolic of actual energies in spirit world. These are catastrophic signs that the
earth spirit world is not happy with our behaviour, it is a sign from heaven, a
time for each person and society to change.
Reading the Signs from Ones Physical body
The right side reflects logic, the left side reflects emotions, for example, if one has an
earache in the right ear, it means that one is not listening to logic and common-sense.
If one has an earache in the left ear, then one is not listening to ones emotions.
When a specific part of our body is not working, this is a sign that we are NOT using
that part of body properly, as it is supposed to be used. If one has broken ones right
leg, this means that ones logic was wrong and leading a person in the wrong
direction. If it was the left leg, then ones emotions are leading one in the wrong
direction.

The Book of Healing & Corrections Sefer Tikunim explains every part of ones
body and will be translated and published in English by ourselves during summer
2007, on the website www.tikunim.com.
The Major Cause of Ill Health
Spiritually, the major cause of ill health is when a person lives a life disconnected
spiritually; spiritually connected means being filled with a Godly spiritual loving
energy all the time, and recognizing the existences of a soul that is continually
connected to the eternal Divine spiritual world. Wherever there is Gods' love and
energy, there is life, hope, faith and true happiness.
2 Healing the Body "Naturally"
In recognizing that our body is a reflection of our spiritual soul, healing the body
naturally means, finding the root cause spiritually and healing the SOUL.
...
Guarding ones mouth and ones speech will protect ones soul from pain and
troubles. The inherent power of speech has the potential to bring life or death,
happiness or sadness, good health or ill health. The first stage of good health is to use
the power of ones speech wisely.

Changing ones regular habits begins the start of stomach - digestion illnesses

Talmud Nedarim 37b in the name of Shmuel


Food & Digestion

The beginning of all bodily illnesses begins with illnesses in the stomach - digestion
The famous Jewish rabbi known as Rambam in his book Hilchos Daos of
Mishne Torah advises the best way to remain healthy is to make sure that ones
complete digestive system is given a clear out once every 2 to 4 weeks .
It is accepted in the knowledgeable medical profession today, that in everyone's body
contains cancerous cells, one of purposes of the digestive system is to clear these

cells out of the body. The stomach - intestines, as food travels through the intestines,
the body absorbs the good energy of the food, whilst the cancerous cells all taken the
opposite way and out of the body in the faeces - excrement. If ones intestines are not
cleared regularly and fully flushed out, then these harmful cells remain trapped.
Doctors are now proving how right the RAMBAM is in advising a thorough regular
bodily cleansing clear-out!
Prune Juice - Natures Best Natural Laxative
Flushing ones system out completely using natures best natural laxative Prune Juice
is wonderfully refreshing and healing for everyone. A glass-full 200ml is normally
adequate, although for an average size person and for the first time clear-out should
take up to 400ml of prune juice, and between 3 and 6 hours it will rocket through
your body!
The feeling as this is happening is quite remarkable and almost magical, as in the
same way physically deadly cells are being cleared-out of the body, so too one feels a
spiritually refreshed and cleansed.
On the day of clearing ones system, drink water, no food, and allow ones digestive
system to have a rest. Try it and see, one actually feels amazingly refreshed, almost
like a new born baby. Then one should start food intake by having a glass of milk.
Milk - the Most Spiritually Energizing Drink
Milk is a product connected with the life cycle of reproduction; only after a cow has
given birth do the hormones and energy of the cow produce milk. Drinking milk
throughout all generations has been associated with receiving the energy of growth.
In the same way it has energy of physical growth it contains the energy of spiritual
growth. Hence all the references in the bible to a land flowing of milk and honey; a
sign of physical and spiritual, wealth, good health, happiness and prosperity.
Honey A Gift from All the Combined-Forces of "Nature"
A land flowing of milk and honey; honey is known as an exceedingly spiritual
food, this is because every part of creation has worked together to produce Honey.
Firstly the sun shines and rain waters the plants and flowers to grow. Then in the life
cycle of plants, they produce nectar, which attracts the bees to pollinate and
reproduce the plant by rubbing the pollen it has picked up from many plants it has
visited. This pollination provides the plant with the ability to reproduce seeds and
continue the cycle of life, whilst the bee takes the nectar and produces honey. The
making of HONEY by the nectar in the plants and the bees is considered a spiritual
gift to humans.

Tasting Honey and recognizing where it has come from, that all the collective
energies of different parts of creation, which have worked together to produce
HONEY, will give a person a very spiritual energy.
There are many other foods that should be eaten such as Apples; An apple a day keeps the doctor away, and ofcourse there are many good spiritual books with
explanations that should be read on this subject such as Sefer Refuah The Book of
Healing and Sefer Chidushim.
Cooking and preparing your food with LOVE
Better to eat food made by a automated machine than by a person with hateful energy,
food infected with hate is like a poisonous cancer to the body .The divine energy in
this world is LOVE, it is the creative energy. Every person should learn to cook with
love and enjoyment. Food and eating are the wonderful pleasures that we can enjoy
every day of our lives, so learn to LOVE cooking with love and feeding your soul.
The Strength & Power of Prayer to heal
The power of speech in prayer is the most powerful way to heal ones spiritual soul.
Every human has the spiritual potential to pray and have their prayers answered.
There is no distinction in religion or beliefs, in race or age. Every human who has the
power of speech, has the power to pray, and definitely have ones prayers answered
through the help of their own unique Guardian Angels whose sole purpose is to listen
to ones prayers and help.
Holding the Hand of a Sick Person
As we explained in the chapter on Palmistry, the energy of ones soul is contained in
the palms of ones hand. In shaking hands or holding hands, this enables transference
of energy between the souls. Hence spiritual healers always made a special point to
shake hands with sick people.
Try and see for yourself, when you go to hospital, old age home or to visit a friend /
family, who are sick at home, simply hold hands. The sick person will feel the
spiritual and physical energy transfer and actually start to feel healthier, simply by
holding hands.
The reason is simple, the healthy person is wholesome both physically and spiritually,
a sign that the soul is directly linked spiritually to spirit world. Whilst holding hands
the healthy person acts as a medium to bring down and channel spiritual energy to
heal the persons soul.

The written source for this spiritual law is the Talmud Bruchos page 5b as quoted by
Reb Chaim Vital in the book "ma'amori rashbi"

3 Sexual Good Health for Our Generation


In this section we shall indicate areas that our generation is neglecting compared with
previous generations, we believe to be primarily due to lack of education.
- "Making Love"
The traditional Hebrew term for making love is , meaning connection
and kissing. This is to stress that importance of good sexual behaviour following a
spiritual way of life is to connect ones body & soul together. Many people say, what
one does in bed is ones own choice; however, the wrong sexual behaviour does have
an affect on ones soul, conversely following the correct sexual way enhances a loving
relationship, making it long lasting and stable with a physical and spiritual vitality.
The levels of the soul contained in the physical body
1. Nefesh (Earthly soul) , the most physical of spiritual energy, opens and
connects through the sexual organs, a mans penis inside a womans vagina.
2. Ruach (Spirit of Soul through breathe) , the spiritual energy contained in the
breathe of life . Our speech is a reflection of our Spirit of Ruach. Kissing with ones
lips and mouth connects the two spirits of people.
3. Neshama (Pure Spiritual Soul) , all our minds higher thoughts and energies
we use with concentration . The heightened energized state of sexual orgasm connects
ones Neshama - soul at the highest level.
The spiritually correct way for "making love"
Simple ! A man on top of a woman facing each other, lying down in a bed, with his
erect penis inside a woman's vagina ONLY .

Connecting all levels of the soul; Whilst making love, moving in and out inside the
vagina, the man and the woman, kiss each other to connect the breath of life the
Ruach Spirit of the souls with their mouths, whilst their sexual organs are
connecting their bodies as a wholesome body. As both come to heightened energy of
orgasm then their souls Neshoma unites on the highest level possible physically
and spiritually, which is the recipe for making love and for bringing down a new
spirit soul of a child.
According to the ARI and Reb Chaim Vital, every time one makes love correctly an
angel is created, even if a child is not conceived, to enhance their lives spiritually and
physically successfully with good fortune.
Many people will tell, that they have amazing good fortune Mazal & success,
especially when they make love properly the night before. A sign that a person is
not acting correctly is that they have failure in their life, as a sign they are wasting
or destroying a creative energy from their destructive wasteful acts of sexual
behaviour.
Staying inside a woman and connecting sexually for as long as possible, both
physically and spiritually is the purpose of the act of making love. Staying inside and
moving slowly with LOVE, and NOT in a hurried state of aggression and panic, but
with good thoughts and self- control will connect the two souls together with a divine
creative love energy .
The Wrong Wasteful Ways Short circuits all the levels of the soul
The simple way to correct any wrong behaviour from the past is to STOP,
immediately stopping the wrong acts cleanses and heals the soul. In our generation,
there have been many instances of wrong behaviour, which all the spiritual teachers
find unbelievable. Therefore, we make mention of these wrongs and explain
spiritually the damage to the soul.
For a woman to touch a penis, with her hand or with her mouth will damage BOTH
their souls. As spiritually this act connects the Spirit breath of one person with the
Animal Nefesh of another, this lowers the level of the Spirit Ruach to a Animal
Nefesh.

For anyone to have "anal sex" like homosexuals, which the Talmud in Kiddushin 82a
(the text is reproduced above) explains that truly human spiritual souls will never
have, implying that anyone who acts homosexually is NOT a human soul. The very
next section of the Talmud talks about success in life, connecting the fact that when
one behaves morally and sexually correct one has true and lasting success.
The act of anal sex means, that the mans physical sexual organ representing the
souls energy of creation and life is connecting with the most destructive energy a
human can create - excrement, disgusting and vile deadly energy.
The act of "anal" activity connects the soul Nefesh directly with DEATH. Once a
person has been in direct contact with this death energy, their soul level of NEFESH
is dead and disconnected spiritually, and anyone they connect with, will kill with their
death energy. Accordingly, the biblical story of Sodom and Gomorra explains
that these cities were destroyed as it lacked any LIFE energy.
Coming outside to avoid pregnancy or wearing a condom or any other perversion
of women touching genitals of the man will corrupt and short circuit the soul.This is
because at the moment of heightened state of orgasm the soul is trying to make a
strong connection, if there is a blockage by way of condom, or the penis is removed
to disconnect, the spiritual energy of their souls have no way of connecting, so it
actually creates a destructive energy.
Similarly wasting seed in masturbation; this act brings ones soul to heightened
level of spiritual consciousness and orgasm, but has no one to connect the sexual
spiritual energy, and is wasted. The ARI and Reb Chaim Vital, quote the ZOHAR that
the destructive energy created in masturbation, causes a destructive energy (actually a
destructive angel is created) that hangs around a person for a whole day until sunset
the following day.
The Sefer Kav HaYosher - explains that a woman's body a certain times,
becomes hot and sexually aroused, and can even let themselves go - masturbate in
public places. According to Sefer Kav HaYosher, this releases a spiritual
energy but it also affects sensitive people in the vicinity. The book asks and pleads
with women to control themselves especially in public places.
Understanding that women have sexual needs and desires, more than men, as their
sexual desires are given by GOD in order to help continue the human race, desiring
children is a GOD-given natural gift for all normal women. This is the way that GOD
made and has blessed the woman's body, but asks women to restrain themselves in
public places, and use this excitable energy to either focus in praying, loving and
desiring their true soulmate or if women really need to let themselves go to release
their inner tension and masturbate, then only in private and never in public amongst
people .

The relationship, even if it is a destined soulmate can be ruined, by one act of sexual
degradation. Disease ...the name itself means DIS.... EASE, reflects that a person is
not at ease with themselves, their souls are not at peace and will never be a peace ... if
it is diseased. When the act of making love is done correctly it brings pleasure and
life energy to both the man and the woman.
As everyone is aware there are two ways of doing everything in life, the correct way
and incorrect way, making love with aggression and with an energy to satisfy an
animal instinct is NOT the correct way . Making love, out of a desire of peace, love,
dignity, serenity and a desire to connect ones souls together in unity is the absolute
correct way.
The highest form of creative activity of the human being is making love between a
man and a woman, which creates a spiritual energy that brings then closer to GOD
and Spirit world. The act of making love will leave ones soul feeling alive with
spiritual energy having just connected with GODLY loving energy.
The Women's body is a sacred temple of the cycle of life
The physical body of a woman is the symbol of creative life on earth. Together with
the man, a woman's body becomes the home of a growing baby / child during
pregnancy. The marvelous miracle of creation of a new born life, takes place in the
woman's body.
Menstruation - Women's Period
The cycle of life on earth, birth and death, occurs monthly within a women's body.
The potential to create life is a monthly potential. Once the opportunity is missed,
then a form of death occurs, in the form bleeding. It is known throughout the
world, that the just before the time of bleeding a woman becomes exceedingly
sensitive and emotional. This is her soul sensing this level of death which is about
to arrive. Depending on the attitude of mind of the woman, she will handle the period
in much the same way as handling a death.
Therefore according to both Jewish tradition and sacred Kabbalistic knowledge and
understanding, it is forbidden for men and women to have sexual relations whilst a
woman is bleeding during the monthly menstrual cycle, which normally lasts at
least 5 days .
The reason is simple, a woman represents LIFE, the reason for sexual relations is to
create life, whilst the menstruation - bleeding is occurring, this is symbolic of
DEATH. Therefore LIFE and DEATH must be kept separated. It is a fact of life, that
ALL marriage problems, arguments and break-downs in communication, occur
during this sensitive period of Menstruation.

Therefore spiritually and common sense decency, it is so important that both men and
women realize the period time must be treated with mutual respect for the cycle of
life. This is the reason why all Jewish spiritual laws and Kabbalistic traditions require
men and women to abstain from sexual relations during this bleeding period
The quality of ones loving relationship, quality of ones life both physically and
spiritually is enhanced when one keeps the sanctity and purity of abstinence of sexual
relations during the period. According to Reb Chaim Vital, the famous kabbalist, it is
also a blessing that ones children, especially the quality of the SOUL of ones children
is so much more pure and blessed with an intrinsic purity, when the parents keep
family purity. It is accepted that ones eye colour is a reflection of the quality and
purity of ones soul, and influenced by the purity of sexual relationship of ones
parents.
Keeping Your Hands Clean
Ones hands contain the energy of your soul, both imprinted on it in the form of lines,
but also in the energy of your hands is the energy of your soul. So be careful for
physical and spiritual cleanliness and good health to always keep ones hands clean.
Guard Your Eyes
Your eyes are the windows of your soul, so in the interest and good health of
protecting your soul BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU LOOK AT. Headaches are
"Spiritual Attacks" that one has been attacked through seeing something through ones
physical and spiritual eyes.
Respecting Your Feet
The feet represent the foundations of your physical body; there is a tremendously
strong spiritual energy in your feet. Acupuncturists and alternative medicine have
recognized the power of spiritual and nerve energy within a persons foot. There are
also spiritual lines on ones feet - just like the lines on ones hand.
The feet reflect the foundation of ones body and soul, take a look at your feet, what
condition are they in?
The remedy is simple; wash them at least TWICE a day in the morning and evening.
If one has dry skin, then use natural cocoa butter to rub into your feet. Give your feet
fresh air - never wear socks in bed (unless you're in really freezing conditions in the
North Pole or camping in Siberia!).
Make sure that you always have the most comfortable pair of shoes. Never wear a
pair of shoes because they "look good" to others, but hurt your feet! Such a silly
attitude - reflects ones character.

The 5 minute rule from Sefer Shinuyim


The Book of Changes Sefer Shinuyim explains that if you had just 5 minutes left to
live, what would you do in the last 5 minutes of life, and how would you like to be
remembered? Start behaving and treating ones body with dignity, sanctity as if you
have just 5 minutes to live, this will then stop a person from doing silly things and
living a wasteful futile life.
Once a person starts to cherish the gift of life as if every 5 mins are ones last 5 mins,
then ones whole body will start to feel better as ones soul will become at peace within
ones physical body with a peace of mind and good health.
Conclusion & FootNotes
NO SUCH thing as TERMINAL for spiritually awakened
This makes the possibility to heal any illness, an intrinsic belief of everyone, even
someone suffering from a so called "terminal" illness by the medical profession .
Spiritually awakened people throughout the whole world KNOW that there is NO
SUCH thing as TERMINAL !
Ask anyone who has been diagnosed with cancer, after the initial period of panic and
devastation, which is perfectly normal (so don't think one is any less a person because
of these feelings of fear and panic) . The next stage is to use ones strength of
determination, character and soul, and LISTEN to ones inner belief that every
problem has a solution, so one can be healed .
In our generation, we have all seen and know of thousands of people who have been
cured from cancer, because they became spiritually aware of their soul, recognizing
that the illness is just a physical sign to make them aware that their soul needs healing
. Thereby changing ones "attitude" to life, changing ones whole personality to
becoming genuinely loving, kind, with not a hateful, bitter, resentful or jealous
thought in ones body.
Fundamental Causes of Death
The Ethics of the Fathers - Pirkei Avos has basic teachings for reasons of "premature
death", simply based on the fact that it is the persons materialistic, negative and non
spiritual attitudes of mind that will cause a person to disconnect from the loving
creative energy of this world .
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15. Rabbi Joshua said: The evil eye, the evil desire and hatred of his fellow creatures,
are the causes for a person to be removed from the world
Pirkei avos chapter 2 - mishne 15
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21.Rabbi Eleazar ha-Kappar used to say: Jealousy, lustful desires for the wrong
person ( that is lust for someone who is NOT ones soulmate), and selfish ambition,
are the causes for a person to be removed from the world.
Pirkei avos chapter 4 - mishne 21
People whose whole focus on life is to gain wealth, materialism and control over
other people through intimidation and fear, are causing their own death, as these
energies are the antithesis - the complete opposite of life . Eventually the more power
these people gain through lower energies of hatred and fear , the further away they
move from GOD , thereby disconnecting from the creative and spiritual LOVE
energy that gives ones soul vitality .
The best way to START LIVING again and to HEAL ones life is to learn to LOVE
through unlocking doors by using the "Keys of GilGul" of LOVE, FORGIVENESS
& COMPASSION.
Reb Chaim Vital, the famous Jewish kabbalist who wrote the "Book of
Reincarnation" - "Sefer Gilgulim" amongst many books. Explains that the four
elements of nature come with its own specific energy and spiritual mission, to
overcome a certain aspect of our soul that needs refining.
Each of the 12 astrological Sun Signs comes into the category of the 4 elements of
nature:FIRE: Aries, Leo, Sagittarius .
EARTH: Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn .
AIR: Gemini, Libra, Aquarius
WATER: Cancer , Scorpio ,Pisces
The FIRE signs have a tendency to be exceedingly selfish and proud, their lesson in
life is therefore to become more considerate of others , kind and selfless . Also to
become more humble in their behaviour by learning consideration for other people
feelings and emotions .

The EARTH signs have a tendency to be lazy and depressed, their lesson in life is to
create activity and keep themselves busy . Additionally even when they are busy they
must make sure they have the right attitude, and think positive constructive thoughts ,
avoiding depressive , sad , negative or jealous thoughts .
The AIR signs have a tendency to talk too much and to tell lies, sometimes with their
sharp tongues can hurt and damage other people . They must learn to tell the truth and
communicate positive loving thoughts with other people , giving people constructive
encouragement and support with their words .
The WATER signs have a tendency to follow their animal instincts, instead of
thinking of the difference between right and wrong . They have a tendency for too
much and excessiveness in eating, drinking and sex . Therefore, they must learn to
control themselves and their animal instincts .
These are the foundations that need healing in ones soul . Once these fundamental
characteristics have been healed and corrected .
Rest & Sleep
SLEEPING DIRECTION, it is vitally important that a person gets a healthy and
peaceful sleep. The Rambam suggests that a person should have 8 hours sleep.
However, older people who naturally sleep less at night, should sleep for an hour in
the daytime, especially after a meal, when their body needs all its energy to digest the
food properly.
Mental health & Depression
In brief, mental illness, usually means the NEFESH part of the soul did not transcend
properly during conception. The basic advice is actually to give the person "natural
jobs to do , like gardening , farming , sowing seeds , feeding animals , living in nature
and connecting with "nature" - sadly society does the opposite and locks many of
these people indoors !
However in our generation there are programs in the states in the countryside where
these mentally ill children are connecting with farming and helps to enliven/reconnect
the NEFESH part of the their soul .
"Depression", usually means the ruach and neshoma, have been detached from the
body , suppressed / depressed to a point of disconnection, this we explained a little of
how to reconnect in the "THINKING positive " page, as this is exceedingly important
subject we shall make a separate page linked here .
" A single thought has the power

to change the whole world "

Sefer Shinuyim

THINKING POSITIVE
On this page we shall discuss 3 points :1. Understanding a "thought", its energy and connection with speech and action in
cycle of life and "the prayer cycle".
2. Positive thinking, using ones mind fully, explaining the difference between
thoughts of a thinking "adult" and habitual thoughts of a "child".
3. The most important aspect in learning to live a successful life is always to remain
POSITIVE about everything that happens . Understanding that "positive thinking" is
simply having the correct attitude, a mind and a life full of loving thoughts that
creates "life energy" . In this section we give 6 spiritual rules from "Sefer Shinuyim the book of change" to help everyone "get into" a positive successful cycle of a happy
and loving life .
Introduction
Every living person in this world thinks of 1000's of thoughts every day. Most of our
thoughts do not have any energy, purpose, strength, nor do they have any affects on
anyones lives whatsoever. However, when a person learns how to develop a focused
thought energy, then a person will be able to use the power of a single thought to
change ones life, and rectify any difficult or problematic situations in ones life.
It is ONLY the power of our thoughts that can change our lives. Once we learn how
to master and control our thoughts then we are able to be in control of our lives, and
then we are able to find our true successful and purposeful destiny for our souls
physical journey of life on earth.
1. What is a "thought" ?
A thought is the most pure of spiritual energy we can create in this physical world
with our physical mind, body and spiritual soul. Everything in this world that we
accomplish with our physical bodies and spiritual souls can be categorized into one of
3 groups :Thoughts, Spoken Words & Actions

A thought is the most spiritual of energy one can create with ones mind and soul. The
thought then has the potential to become a spoken word, if one decides to give the
thought physical energy. The thought also has the potential to become an action
directly or as a result of the spoken word.
THOUGHTS are SPIRITUAL, they are messages you send out and create from
within your soul, and messages that your soul receives from spirit world or from
other people that you are sensitive and intune with, thoughts are the spiritual
communication within ones soul to other peoples soul and to the eternal Divine
spiritual realms.
WORDS have the capacity to be both SPIRITUAL and PHYSICAL. Words start the
process of converting pure spiritual thought energy into a physical existence in this
world. Words express the physical result of actions with either approval or
disapproval, and act to continue the cycle of the thought process. Words are then used
to make changes if the action proved a failure or words are used positively to confirm
that the action was successful.
ACTIONS are PHYSICAL. They are a result of thoughts being converted into a
physical action, either directly from the thought or by way of spoken word.
Thoughts Connect Ones Mind & Soul Spiritually
Thoughts are the most spiritual entity that we can create in this physical world,
therefore, it is a thought from within our mind and soul that has the power to connect
our soul to the eternal DIVINE spiritual realms.
A thought energy is the spiritual energy that connects us with our Guardian Angels
and with anyone or any soul with whom our spiritual thought energy has the ability to
connect with, depending on the energy from within our soul and the energy of the
soul in "Spirit world" that wishes to help us.
Spiritual Law of Thoughts, Words & Actions
A thought cancels out a thought
A word cancels out a thought
An action cancels out a thought and a word .
Talmud Kiddushin 59b
These spiritual laws are easy and simple to understand. A "thought" energy - as it is
100% spiritual, has the least physical energy in this world therefore it can easily be
destroyed and cancelled out . "Thoughts" need to be guarded and protected that no

one should have access to ones thoughts, block or cancel them out, especially the
good intuitive ideas so many people have all the time.
The best way to make sure one is successful in life, is to make sure that ones thoughts
are guarded and protected from anyone. One should immediately - as soon as one
gets a good thought to do something - one should START the action IMMEDIATELY.
Even simply writing down on a piece of paper ones thoughts is also considered the
start of an "action" in converting spiritual "thought energy" into "physical energy"
actions that ensure success and prevent blockages.
Once the thought is converted into action, the only way it can be destroyed is by
another action to physically destroy it . Otherwise it is now protected by spiritual
laws .
The Prayer Cycle

The "prayer cycle" ( which in reality is the " creative life cycle " of all existence of
the highest level attainable by humans on earth ) explains the concepts of thoughts,
words and actions interrelating with each other. When actions or events happen in this
world that we do not like, we immediately express ourselves by complaining or
praying. If we choose to complain then these words are wasted.
If we choose to pray with positive thoughts and sensible reasoning, accepting the
reality of life, and desiring to know why "things went wrong ", then these words are
channeled to spirit world. Every prayer is heard and if we focus our words, thoughts
and even our tears this creates a spiritual energy to elevate our thoughts to spirit
world.
The spiritual energy, when the timing is right and only when we are ready; i add these
important words "when we are ready" - as one might pray for something - but until
one changes ones attitude - it will be blocked to happen . As we explained on the
page of ABILITY to CHANGE , there are spiritual rules we need to follow to allow
changes and prevent "blockages".

When the time is right, the "spiritual help" transcends into our thoughts in the form of
intuitive "good ideas" and instinctive guidance . If the transcending of spiritual
energy is strong, it can transcend into other peoples thoughts influencing them to help
or even can actually cause events - "divine coincidences" - intervention to occur .
One can decide to immediately create an action from the thought energy - which
sometimes has stronger energy - as it converts the fullness of spiritual thought energy
straight into physical energy . Or it can take the route by being "talked about" first
and then put into action . If one suspects that the people one talks to, may object or
block ones good ideas then it is advisable to keep quiet and just get on with the action
.
The prayer cycle is just an example of the interconnection of thoughts words and
actions. If one thinks carefully - one can relate this to almost every situation in this
world. Eg, "when one falls in love", firstly one has a good feeling with intuitive good
and loving thoughts in ones mind that something good is going to happen in ones life,
then one starts to express ones thoughts in words of love and then actions of coming
together meeting physically with love.
It is important to note that only when one is in love with life and in love with the
world, happy and content, then one attracts truly good, happy and loving events. If
one chooses to complain and be miserable about life, then only sadness, depression
and loneliness ensue.
By choosing to change ones attitude to life then a life of love and happiness will
happen. Once one has chosen to live a life of love and happiness this automatically
puts a person in the "creative life cycle". Then "magically" good life energy and
vitality flow through a persons life.
Section 2 Positive Thinking
Positive thinking, using ones mind fully, explaining the difference between
thoughts of a thinking "adult" and habitual thoughts of a "child".
Each "thought" has a different level of energy, the level of thought energy and
concentration varies depending on the job and if this is a regular task or a new
challenge that needs special concentration.
The two types of thoughts - "child" & "adult"
Definitions of and
The basic level of thoughts are called " Mochin deKatnus" literally
translated as "brain cells of a child" . These are thoughts that have no intrinsic energy

to elevate themselves emotionally or spiritually. These thoughts come and go from


our mind without any feelings or "active concentration".
The higher level of thoughts are called " Mochin deGadlus" literally
translated as "brain cells of an adult". These thoughts embody themselves with energy
from the soul and therefore connect the physical with the spiritual within the body
and soul.
Images to "turn-on" the spiritual soul
The "child"-like thoughts, are thoughts that we have all the time, for example, we are
seeing with our eyes thousands of images everyday, most of which we forget from
our mind because the image we see has no spiritual or soulful or emotional energy
attached to it.
This does not mean that the image has no energy, this simply means that we have
switched off our "soul" emotion and sensitivity, so that we do not allow ourselves to
receive or connect spiritually with the image. We explain fully the power of images
on the page "Life of Peace of Mind".

This picture of sunset is in the sky everyday of the year, yet how many times do we
actually STOP, look up and think for 5 mins at the amazingly clear and beautiful stars
in the sky at night. If you spend just 5 mins just ONCE in your life looking at the
stars at night, enjoying a sunrise or sunset . Some people only really make the chance
to see and enjoy an amazing sunset on holiday on a warm beach without any of the
citylights ! But everyone in the whole world has the wonderful opportunity and
potential to absorb the energy of a sunset everyday of the year.
I assure you, that your soul will be touched and opened by the image, in that you are
receiving energy and giving an energy of the highest level associated with spiritual
"thought" energy. This is indeed the reason why the best time to pray is at sunrise and
sunset.
Ones feeling to Sunrise / Sunset identifies ones intrinsic character

According to Carl G Jung the Swiss psychologist, he defines the intrinsic character of
a person based on whether the person enjoys a sunrise ( implies a optimistic person
always looking for new opportunities), a sunset ( implies a very romantic loving
nature, a person who loves the journey of life), feels nothing at all ( implies someone
who is emotionally dead), or actually hates sunrise/sunset ( implies has a hateful and
violently destructive character).
Similarly as with every image that one sees, every moment of everyday, there is a
possibility and potential to allow ones soul to be touched and energized by the image
or we can choose to miss the opportunity to receive this daily good spiritual energy .

The intrinsic beauty of flowers is a gift from heaven. All spiritually minded people
and most women's souls are often much more sensitive and open to receive the
energy from flowers. Sadly some women and many men don't realize that the way to
open ones heart of love and emotion is through the beauty of flowers !
There is a very special energy in flowers in their colours and scent. The more spiritual
a person is and the more ones soul is open spiritually - the more one appreciates this.
This is the reason why women love good scents of perfume, as their heart emotions
and soul is opened with loving energy through the scents.
Once one understands the levels of thought energy and uses ones higher level of
"adult thought" energy, to energize ones soul from the images one sees, the more one
is learning to connect oneself spiritually. Thereby growing up from a child to an adult
and connecting ones soul spiritually to ones life in a physical body.
Connecting Spiritually
Cycle of Life's Spiritual Energy
Prayers are ALWAYS Answered
In transforming ones thoughts to becoming spiritually receptive, emotionally aware
and sensitive to the images and life's experiences, one has connected ones soul to the

Source of all life energy - GOD. At this stage in life, one will be overwhelmed with a
vitality of loving energy, everything becomes lovely and beautiful.
Its like arriving on another planet full of nice, kind, loving people, suddenly ones old
friends disconnect and new happy vibrant and sincerely honest loving people come
into ones life . This is the stage of change we called "mid life" crisis to Golden Age
on our page of CHANGE. Many people often wonder why they don't have
intrinsically good, sincere loving friends - the answer is simple - one needs to change
ones own spirituality and attitude, then one will glow with aliveness of true love
which will radiate a signal to other good like-minded people .
At this moment one is ready to PRAY and have ones PRAYERS answered, the
"prayer cycle" works as ones thoughts, actions and words are now connected
coherently and relating to each other in the cycle of life's spiritual loving creative
energy.
Focus & use the higher thought energies

In this section we have explained the awakening and concept of the "child" and
"adult" thought energies . It is well known that if one is not careful then even actions
like praying and religious acts/customs, that should be accompanied by the higher
thought energy, can be lowered to be useless acts, as they are not done with any
spiritual thought energy . Hence it is vitally important that one SWITCHES on ones
spiritual soul energy by learning to FOCUS ones thoughts into everything one does,
speaks and thinks .
SECTION 3
The most important aspect in learning to live a successful life is always to remain
POSITIVE about everything that happens . Understanding that "positive thinking" is
simply having the correct attitude, a mind and a life full of loving thoughts that
creates "life energy" .
Problems and difficult situations will keep on happening in our lives , but the way we
look at life with our "attitude" can change the whole perspective and reality of the
events that occur in our lives . A seemingly difficult problem could be the biggest
blessing in ones life . It is all a matter of the "right attitude"
A good day makes one forget a bad day
A bad day makes one forget a good day

Chapter 1 Tana Devei Eliyahu


This passage from "Tana Devei Eliyahu" explains that in the "prayer cycle" and
"cycle of life" , if one has a good positive happy thought this cancels out and helps
one forget completely the past negative thoughts .
This is because, the mind is critical and sharp, with a tendency to focus on what's
wrong, rather than appreciating what's right. ( This is especially true for reincarnated
souls from the " " the generation of souls of complaining jews that wandered
the wilderness and were refused to be allowed into the promised land, as they
complained against GOD for everything - See www.gilgulim.com , the lesson they
were supposed to learn was to see the GOOD in everything that happens ).
The mind only copes with one mood either happiness or sadness .
According to the famous scientist Albert Einstein in his theory of relativity of space:"TWO THINGS CANNOT OCCUPY THE SAME SPACE" .
A person is either happy or sad, it is impossible for a person to be happy and sad at
the same time ! The freewill choice gives us the opportunity to choose either to be
happy or sad .
This is the great choice of life to be creatively loving and constructive OR hatefully,
sad and destructive .
So simply choose a life of happiness and positive thoughts and by the spiritual law of
TANA DEVEI ELIYAHU and scientific Einstein, sadness cannot find any room and
gets forgotten from ones mind .
Once the focus is pointed, concentrating on and constantly aware to think of positive
and happy thoughts then all the negative thoughts are forgotten .
When one is in the positive creative happy and loving phase of living life, the
challenge is to stay POSITIVE, not allowing in any negative or destructive emotions
or people with negative emotions .
The 6 rules to help one stay POSITIVE
taken from Sefer Shinuyim :1. Prepare for a positive day the evening before and a have good nights sleep.

2. Think loving and happy thoughts . Use loving, constructive and positive words .
Be careful not to talk about or think about bad people or bad situations. Let go of the
"baggage" , difficulties and badness of the past . ( which includes de-brainwashing ) .
3. Focus on something you really LOVE to do, and have done in the past . Then reenergize your soul from the happy energy of that time in your life . Remind yourself
of something that happened to you in your life that was really funny, happy, amazing
and good .
4. Contemplate if you had 5 mins to live . What would you do ? Contemplate if you
died NOW, how would you be remembered ? What have you done worthwhile to
leave for the benefit of others, that people will remember you with gratitude and
love ?
Realize that you have more than 5 mins to live, thank GOD for the gift of life and use
your time actively, lovingly and constructively .
5. Do something creative, become a part of creation, eg paint, write, draw, sow seeds
for plants , gardening ...
6. Think of someone you loved and someone who loved you who has died . Bring
back the happy memories and connect spiritually with loving and happy feelings.
Rule 1:-
Talmud Avoda Zora 3b

1. Prepare for a positive day the evening before and a have good nights sleep.
In order to have a wonderful successful day it is vital that one prepares the evening
before. The spiritual law is that the night is the beginning of each day. Sunset of each
day is the beginning of the next day. How a person starts the day is how the
remainder of the day will be. So if you want a good day, make sure that you start the
preparations the preceding sunset.
...
"According to the beginning ... the remainder of the venture follows"

"According to the thoughts in the head ... the physical body follows"
In our "introduction" page we explained that the thoughts, words and actions at the
beginning sets the foundations, foretelling success depending on basis of truth and
honesty .
Likewise, each day of our life, is foretold by the events and foundations we set in the
preceding evening. It is well known, that if one has a healthy meal in the evening,
ones digestion and body enjoys the nourishment from the food, allowing the body to
absorb the energy from the food during the night. As a direct consequence one feels
good the following morning.
Normally we only recognize this fact, when something goes wrong ! for example,
eating an unhealthy or improperly cooked meal, our physical body reacts, either
sicking up or having the "runs!", feeling awful the following day.
This rule applies equally and more so, spiritually. Every thought, word and action in
the evening has a direct consequence to the way we feel and success in our lives the
following day. This is specially true if wastes time in the evenings and one watches
TV in the evening, seeing a sad, depressing, violent TV show or anything hateful will
affect a person the following day.
Therefore, be careful what one does in the evening, only think and talk loving, happy
and funny things. If one does want to watch TV or use internet ONLY watch
something funny, comedic and positively uplifting or spiritual. Don't watch the news
- as most news reported is depressing and sad ! Listen to romantic or classical music
will put a person in a pleasant mood.
Most importantly, spend some quality time, either writing a diary or talking to oneself
about ones objectives in life. Spend 20 mins before going to sleep praying. Think
about the past day and the next day, think positively, that tomorrow will be a lovely
day. If one is stuck in an unpleasant situation then repeat positively:GOD will make a way for me where there seems to be no way
Part of living in this world is to admit that a person cannot "work everything out" and
needs Divine help. Admitting this truth and saying " GOD will make a way for me
where there seems to be no way ", has an amazing affect on ones soul . And it works !
After preparing correctly for the next day and having a good nights sleep, one will
wake up refreshed and enlivened. We discuss on the page of "FENG SHUI" the
importance of sleeping in the correct direction.
"Getting in the back seat to drive a car"!

Imagine getting in the back seat to drive a car, you would first have to climb over the
seats with difficulty to get into the drivers seat.
Have you ever woken up in the morning and simply feel so drained and tired that it
takes an hour before you feel you have actually arrived inside your body !
During sleep, your soul essence leaves your body, by sleeping in the most
harmonious place and direction , your soul will arrive back in your body with peace
and ease. Please read more for best direction to sleep, on the page of "FENG SHUI".
The beginning of each week, month and year .
Similarly this spiritual rule of preparing applies at the beginning of every week and
every month, and every year. That is every week on Sunday, is one suffering a "hangover" from a late night on saturday night or is one up bright and early, enjoying the
peacefulness and freshness of Sundays. Whilst the remainder of the world is fast
asleep both physically and spiritually, the spiritually aware are enjoying and loving
the early sunday mornings .
Ofcourse in only one country in the whole world is Sunday the first full working day
of the week and that is Israel ! It is therefore no surprise to all spiritually aware
people, that Israelis and Jewish people all over the world - after keeping a spiritual
day of rest on the Shabbos-Saturday are one of the most alive and energized, creative
and innovative, scientifically advanced nations and groups of people in the world.
They are enjoying the aliveness, taking the freshness of energy of the first day of the
week - Sunday.
The beginning energy of each month actually begins with the NEW MOON . Please
see astrology websites like www.cainer.com/planets or www.hebcal.com which gives
the hebrew calendar based on 29 day lunar cycle, "day 1" is the new moon !
Similarly is the importance of the beginning of each year - the "BIRTHDAY" . The
events, ones thoughts and focus on ones birthday, sets energy and the mood for the
whole year . So, do something creatively kind and special on ones birthday instead of
having selfish thoughts, especially if you didn't get the presents you wanted !
Rule 2 : Think LOVING thoughts and use GOOD words
Rule 2. Think loving and happy thoughts. Use loving, constructive and positive
words. Be careful not to talk about or think about bad people or bad situations. Let go
of the "baggage" and badness of the past.

The recipe for a happy life:- " turn away from evil and do good "
"close one door and another door opens"
Before the future can begin, one needs to have closure on the past . I assure you that
as you close the door on one particular negative and energy draining situation, then
immediately your soul has the life vitality and energy to bring something exciting and
new in your life . ( This is especially true when one has finally de-brainwashed all the
old negative thoughts ) .
Most people i know, have missed opportunities in their life ONLY because they were
still holding onto their past . Once they "let go" of outdated and useless "baggage",
attitudes of mind , control-freak parents, bad friends etc ... then magically life opened
up new doors and amazing opportunities . The key is to "let go of the past" .
The key to open up the future of happiness, success and purposeful contentment in
life is to learn to LOVE life . Use one thoughts to think loving thoughts . This is not
easy, especially if one has lived a spiritually void and destructive life until now . The
solution is to talk to your mind with positive words .
Using the correct words
This means learning to talk differently. All aggressive, destructively critical and
spiritually void people talk without thinking. They are also exceedingly loud.
Whereas, people whom are spiritually aware always think about every single word
they say, they talk eloquently, calmly and softly spoken. Their speech is always
refined and softly spoken.
Good people always see goodness in everything, and always have a vocabulary of
lovely words . Using words like "tranquility" , "lovely" , "delightful" , "peaceful" ,
"harmony" , "excellent " etc etc ... For example, all their loved ones, friends and
children will have nicknames of affection like "Sweettie" , "Honey" ... If they adore
cats, they also give them names of affection like "Sweettie" , "Honey" ... A good
person always exudes an energy of love and kindness for everyone and everything,
and will always see the positive and goodness .
Change ones vocabulary and speech, to only use nice words . Never complaining or
using poor language or words that imply sadness or negativity, then after 30 days of
constantly being aware to CHANGE ones speech, this will change ones life positively
for the better .

Automatically, as one changes, all the people in ones life who are "negative and
depressing baggage", suddenly disappear . New helpful "positively minded",
trustworthy, kind and loving friends are attracted into ones life .
Rule 3 : Focus your thoughts on goodness and happiness
3. Focus on something you really LOVE to do, and have done in the past. Then
reenergise your soul from the happy energy of that time in your life. Remind yourself
of something that happened to you in your life that was really funny, happy, amazing
and good .
Using the principle A good day makes one forget a bad day from
Chapter 1 Tana Devei Eliyahu , then one MUST use ones mind to
concentrate in only having a happy day with happy thoughts.
The really happy moments in life
Every single person has had some really happy moments in their lives . Think
carefully, try and relive in ones memory those really happy occasions . There are a
few moments in everyone's life, that one laughed so much that one can never forget
those moments. Without these special moments, life would have been really
depressingly sad.
Concentrate ones thoughts on those really happy moments, laugh and giggle at the
thoughts and events that happened. Then keep thinking about those times throughout
the day, you will see after a few days of "thinking" and reliving the happiness. Then
one will start to feel an aliveness of happiness and laughable even loving situations
will start to come into ones life.
Everyone who is happy with life exudes a loving feeling, a special radiant glow of
aliveness. And where there is love and happiness, there is a potential basis of
contentment in life. With this sincere love of life comes a thanks and appreciation of
the gift of life. A happiness that starts to make one more magnetic for even more
happiness and good fortune.
It is a rule, that happy things happen to intrinsically happy people, sadness happens to
intrinsically sad people. I add the word "intrinsically" as some people fool others, by
pretending to believe in GOD and be happy, but "intrinsically" they are depressing,
negative, complaining and certainly don't really believe in GOD and a spirit world even if they say they do !
Laugh at the sad moments

There are some sad upsetting moments on ones life, that in hindsight, one can
transform themselves into exceedingly happy moments. For example, if one was
heartbroken by a divorce, and years later realized that had you remained married to
that wrong person, you would have missed out on an amazingly good and truly
destined love of your life. In hindsight a sad event turns out to be a happiness. This
can apply to many seemingly sad events in our lives, in which in hindsight one can
really have a good laugh about . thinking to oneself " thank GOD i was saved".
...
Everything that happens - happens for our good
Learning to focus on these events and transforming ones sad thoughts into happy
ones is a specially high level spiritually. As one has learnt to live on a "Godly level"
of acceptance that everything that happens in life - is ONLY for ones good.
Rule 4 : "The 5 mins to live" rule
4. Contemplate if you had 5 mins to live. What would you do? Contemplate if you
died NOW, how would you be remembered? What have you done worthwhile to
leave for the benefit of others, that people will remember you with gratitude and
love?
Realize that you have more than 5 mins to live, thank GOD for the gift of life and use
your time actively, lovingly and constructively.
If you had 24 hours to live .....
what would you do in the last 24 hours ?
If you are not doing that NOW - then you are failing GOD, your soul, and your life
on earth !!! Ofcourse being innately sensible . But it goes a step further ... what if you
had one week to live - what would you do? Or one year to live - what would you do ?
Or 5 years to live ? Where is the time factor that means something to you, that you
would actually STOP what you are doing NOW , and change ?
ONLY YOU - can answer this question!
An equally important question, if you could turn back the clock of time , and correct
a mistake you have made that you "think" has been irreversible . What would you
love to delete from your life and have a second chance ?
The biggest regret people have on their "death-bed" is either not telling their loved
ones they loved them, and not apologizing / making-the-peace with people they have
had arguments with . The only thing holding one back, is over-inflated ego and

stubborn pride . So think of the "5 mins rule" , sort out the problem now, apologize
and move on constructively with life, leave the baggage behind . According to Sefer
Gilgulim - the book of reincarnation by Reb Chaim Vital , the whole reason some
people reincarnate is to learn forgiveness and the lesson of unconditional LOVE !
The only reason why so many people waste so much of their lives is because they are
lazy and believe that will "take care" of life in the future . Instead, they exist in
futility, wasting days, weeks and years going round in cycles of depression and
sadness . If one would WAKE UP ! Utilizing every moment of life as the last 5 mins
of life, then ones lives would become inspiring, full of purpose and happiness.
Thank GOD - we have more than 5 mins to live
In the 5 mins rule is a blessing , that we should all appreciate that we actually have
the gift of life. Thank GOD we all have more than 5 mins to live, so let us all utilize
the time to our maximum potential, and make some good changes in our lives.
Rule 5: Become Part of Creation
5. Do something creative, become a part of creation, eg paint, write, draw, sow seeds
for plants , gardening etc.,
The main reason why people feel depressed, sad and worthless is because they are
selfish. They have not changed from the childhood stage of life, where a child "takes"
from life to grow, into an adult who knows how to "give" and "create" becoming a
part of creation.
Marriage and sexual intimacy is for the purpose of creating loving energy and having
children. An adult has transformed ones nature from a "taker" of energy, to a
"creator" and "giver" of loving and supportive energy. If, however the so called adult
chooses to be selfish and not want to have children, in the pursuit of a selfish
materialistic lifestyle this is a choice to die.
Depression is the first stage of death
Depression is a form of death; with such symptoms as hatred, self abuse, sadness,
selfishness, lies, deceit and jealousy. The only way for such people to survive is to
"drain" and "steal" energy from good people of the "honest group";however, the real
remedy is to choose to live and become part of creation.
Doing anything creative makes one part of life-cycle
This means for most youngsters a change in the concept of love relationships, getting
married and making love for the purpose of having children, instead of living a

selfish life of wasteful sexual energy, who use preventative measure such a pills and
condoms that block life entering their bodies. Without no doubt, these people are
causing their own death and depression. So changing for them, actually means
reflecting on their relationships to make love in order to have children and to create
loving energy.
"Join the Cycle of Giving & Creating"
"Gardening" - plant seeds, nurture plants
Simple - to be a part of creation means to plant seeds, nurture growing plants, even
even some simple action like watering plants is an act of creation. If you live in a city
apartment, get a flowering window box , buy a plant for your workplace - desk etc etc
... anything that is a living entity has life energy, being part of sustaining the life
energy makes you a part of creation.
Absolutely Anything Creative !
Included in "being part of creation", means any action that gives constructive life is
part of creative cycle. For example, think about the job you have, the job identifies
whom you are . If you are working in a factory producing cars that pollute the
atmosphere, destroying the ozone layer, and stealing good ideas from other car
manufacturers - this is probably symbolic of the type of life you are living . If
however, you are working at the Ben Uziel Science labs in Israel on the non polluting
hydrogen car, working on saving the planet from pollution, with new fresh innovative
and creative ideas - this too identifies ones character .
The description of ones job is an identity to ones souls character
If one works in a non productive job, living off the hard work of other people, then
one cannot expect the same soul fulfillment as someone whom is working in creative
production in the life cycle .
In our false materialistic society, people identify money with success and true
happiness. Yet most wealthy people suffer from depression and sadness with serious
drug or addiction problems. This is intrinsically because their job, is in the destructive
lifecycle instead of the constructive creative life cycle.
Everyone knows good people, whom wake-up during their mid-life crises and change
their lives dramatically. They simply listen to the signs, recognize the truth, that their
lives have been futile and deadly destructive, changing to live a purposefully
constructive life.
"Creativity" includes drawing, painting, calligraphy - writing, embroidery, knitting,
helping feed the homeless, any action that puts a person in the constructive creative

life cycle has the power to change ones soul. Therefore start to change ones daily
actions and choose to include doing something CREATIVE in ones spare time, and
this will change ones whole character .
Rule 6: Spiritual Creative Love
6. Think of someone you loved and someone who loved you who has died. Bring
back the happy memories and connect spiritually with loving and happy feelings.
In the same way that the thought energy is the most pure of spiritual energy we can
create in this physical world with our physical mind, body and spiritual soul. The
highest level of love energy is that of spiritual love. Connecting the physical body
and spiritual soul world.
The love of GOD, and our sincere thanks for the gift of life and with the connection
of our loved ones whom have passed over to spirit world and ourselves has an
immense power of love. And where there is love, there is life and happiness.
Thinking of the good times of a loved one
Simply think of the good memories, one has had with a loved one whom has died passed to spirit world. These memories will connect your soul to the energy of life
and of happiness. This does not necessarily mean that you are communicating with
the spirit souls, but the purpose is to open up the deep memories of happiness within
YOUR soul.
Our souls identity is made of of our experiences, both happy and sad. A depressed
person, by definition DEPRESSES all the goodness and happiness. So that all life
energy is depressed deep down and forgotten. Therefore a way to unlock oneself from
depression, is to bring to the surface of ones memory all the happiness of ones life.
By thinking of the happy memories of a loved one whom has passed to spirit world,
one is healing ones own soul. As it is almost impossible to think bad of someone
whom has died. This is because the cycle of hatred is broken by their death as
explained in GilGulim- Reincarnation.
The pure love and happiness of those memories will always work to restore out of
depression , as if bringing a person back to a starting point before being "sidetracked" into depression and negative thinking .
From our experience of helping many people - we know these 6 spiritual rules from
"Sefer Shinuyim" work . Try them and see - you will be astonishingly amazed at the
transformation of your life .

Concluding philosophy of life's journey


from Sefer Shinuyim
Let go of ones "old baggage" attitudes , move with the harmonic flow of life .
Learn to radiate a loving creative energy of spiritual aliveness .
Life is not about what has happened in the past, although it maybe first necessary to
clear ones past, especially if one is a reincarnated soul see www.gilgulim.com, but
once the past is cleared and one has done "teshuva" - rectified and apologized for any
mistakes, the past belongs on a different planet .
Life is not about one thinks may happen in the future .
Life is about enjoying the journey of daily creative and loving experiences .
There is no point in living is you cannot learn to enjoy the lovely journey of life .
Learn to enjoy every moment of life .
Then when you least expect it, something great comes along to change your life
making it even more purposeful, with an aliveness, vitality and a higher sense of
spiritual purpose in life . Something even greater will happen for you that you never
even planned . This is a divine spiritual blessing that is given to the truly transformed
and enlightened person .
The start of a new changed life pathway is, by living THIS moment in the present to
ones maximum potential . Then automatically the next moment will also be lived to
fullest potential, and then the remainder of ones life !
Will you be able to say in a few months time that this moment TODAY changed your
life, because you changed to THINKING POSTIVELY by using your mind and soul
to your maximum potential ?

Spiritual Rules of Reincarnation


According to Reb Chaim Vital in Sefer Gilgulim and Shaar Gilgulim there are many
aspects to reincarnation, however there are only a few basic rules of reincarnation
that apply to all souls in all generations.
(1) Every soul can have a maximum of 5 reincarnations as a human being, once one
has used up one's human lifetimes the only way to correct ones soul is reincarnating
as animals, fish, trees, or leaves.

(2) If one has caused another person to reincarnate because of argumentative


entanglements, jealousy or being any direct reason then one must reincarnate to allow
them to correct their soul. Hence the reincarnation will reproduce similar
circumstances as in prior lifetime, the only way to break the cycle is by complete
forgiveness and disconnection with love.
(3) Every soul will ultimately achieve a rectification of all the "3 keys of
reincarnation", whether in this life or in the next reincarnated life, the sooner one
corrects the sooner one's soul can elevate beyond an earthbound physical-only
stagnant cyclical state of "life and death".
(4) All reincarnated souls are given special "Guardian Angels", souls from ones
SoulGroup, and even good souls that can attach themselves to help a person as much
as possible to correct ones soul.
(5) All reincarnated souls will be guided to be in the right place at the right time to
ensure they face the reasons of reincarnation, no one can "run away" from ones souls
spiritual responsibilities.
(6) Only once a reincarnated soul has completed the tasks and purpose of
reincarnation can a person move-on in life; if one is stagnant and "stuck" in a
situation or a place it is a sign that one has NOT yet completed ones role in that place
and situation. One will keep "coming back" until it's resolved.
(7) The 5th Reincarnation maybe the most painful, but it is the most rewarding if one
succeeds in breaking the cycle of reincarnation.

(1) Everyone Has Maximum of 5


Reincarnations
Every soul can have a maximum of 5 reincarnations as a human being, once one has
used up one's 5 human lifetimes the only way to correct ones soul is reincarnating as
an animal, fish, tree, or even a leaf on a tree.
Reb Chaim Vital explains from the Torah, Jewish Reincarnation teaches a person has
maximum of 5 reincarnations as a human. Each reincarnation as a human is a
kindness from GOD to be able to refine and correct ones soul.

Genesis 45 verse 22 Joseph gives 5 changes of garments to Benjamin
indicative that a reincarnated soul has 5 incarnations according to Kabbalah

The Spiritual Meaning of the


The hebrew word means cycle, according to Sefer Shinuyim the word Gilgul for
reincarnation has a deeper spiritual meaning; as all hebrew words are known to be
encoded, they have a numerical value or gematria. The numerical gematria of is
72, this is the exact same number as the gematria for "kindness - Hesed - ":3
30
3
6
30
72 =
72 = Kindness
Teaching that it is a Divine kindness to our souls that we are given the opportunity to
reincarnate in order to rectify our past-life mistakes, the GIFT of Reincarnation is a
Kindness as 72 x 5 = 360, where 360 degrees represents a complete & whole cycle of
life; Jewish Reincarnation believes a person's soul has maximum of 5 Reincarnations,
each being a kindness from GOD to correct our damaged souls.

Reincarnating into an Animal


Reb Chaim Vital explains that if one has abused the power of speech during ones
lifetime then one will reincarnate as an animal, (different types of animals depending
on ones other actions in life) or as a leaf on a tree.
Gossip, Slander and Lies are all destructive and deadly, and as humans we
need to appreciate the gift of speech. For everyone who uses the power of speech
wisely and correctly then the sacred "keys of life" are entrusted with that person's
soul, who greater reward can one wish for when using the power of speech,
conversely what a pain and punishment for ones soul to reincarnate as an animal or a
leaf on a tree.
The reason Reb Chaim Vital gives an example of reincarnating as a leaf on a tree is
that since a person abused the power of "ruach-air" which is speech, a leaf is

constantly being beaten by the air in wind. Losing the power and energy of speech is
considered to be the worst form of reincarnation and it is trapped "living death".

(2) If One Has Caused Someone to


Reincarnate
If one has caused another person to reincarnate because of argumentative
entanglements, jealousy, hatred or in fact for being the reason causing someone else
to reincarnate then one must reincarnate to allow them to correct their soul, and for
you to learn to disconnect with them completely through forgiveness.
Such a forced reincarnation will reproduce similar circumstances as in prior lifetimes,
with the only way to break the cycle through disentanglement by complete
forgiveness and love.
If one has caused someone else to reincarnate then it is a sign that one has made
mistakes too, whether one transferred or took energy from them by transference in a
prior lifetime causing them to be full of hatred, jealousy, anger, bitterness or having
any negative thoughts towards you is a sign that you need to STOP the death and
destructive cycle. The easiest way to do this is to follow a purposeful spiritual
pathway of Love, Compassion and Forgiveness.
Reb Chaim Vital explains this spiritual rule of reincarnation from the very 1st
reincarnated soul (Seth or Sheis who was reincarnated soul of Abel); from the story
of Cain and Abel. Everyone will ask what did Abel do so wrong? GOD accepted
Abel's offering and instead of being humble, he boasted proudly to Cain, goading
him, teasing him until Cain became so angry and hateful that he killed Abel. See
"Torah Codes " for the source in hebrew and english of Cain & Abel in Genesis.

(3) Every Soul will Achieve a Rectification


The spiritual law is predestined and predetermined that every soul will ultimately
achieve a rectification of all the "3 keys of reincarnation", whether in this life or in
the next reincarnated life, therefore the sooner one corrects the sooner one's soul can
elevate beyond an earthbound physical-only stagnant cyclical state of "life and
death".
Eventually every soul will see everything clearly and rectified as we are all part of the
very same Oneness of GOD, there are no fragments in Eternity, we are all ONE.

The souls of hateful, angry and "death" are souls that want to separate themselves as
"special", the only way they can be different is by being bad. Whereas spiritually
enlightened souls don't want to be "special", they modestly and humbly see
themselves as an infinitely small spark of GOD.

(4) All Reincarnated Souls Are Given


"Help"
All reincarnated souls are given special "Guardian Angels", inner spiritual
"sensitivity" and souls from a SoulGroup to help a person as much as possible to
correct ones soul. All reincarnated souls have a special advantage in that they are
blessed with inner voice and spiritual gifts to ensure success in breaking the cycle of
death and reincarnation.
Together with this comes a responsibility to get-it-right, using these gifts to get
spiritual perfection and correct ones soul, eliminating all bad energies, and converting
every aspect of ones life to be loving, compassionate and forgiving.

(5) All Reincarnated Souls Will be Guided


All reincarnated souls will be and are always guided to be in the right place at the
right time to ensure they face the reasons of reincarnation, no one can "run away"
from ones souls spiritual responsibilities.
The Book of Jonah in the bible narrates that Jonah attempted to "Run Away" from his
destined destiny; events then happened to put him in the right place at the right time.
Until one wakes-up spiritually and corrects successfully ones purpose in
reincarnating one will be faced with uncomfortable situations and problems in ones
life.

(6) One Will Keep Coming Back Until it's


Resolved
Only once a reincarnated soul has completed the tasks and purpose of reincarnation
can a person move-on in life; if one is stagnant and "stuck" in a situation or a place it
is a sign that one has NOT yet completed ones role in that place and situation. One
will keep "coming back" until it's resolved.

The situations in ones life may not be exactly the same with the same people, but
until one corrects the facet of ones soul that needs correcting, a cycle of similar
events will keep happening until one BREAKS the cycle, that is until one breaks the
reason why these events keep repeating themselves in ones life.
Events which are specific to you, and only you, your own intuition and Guardian
Angels will tell you what needs to be broken to prevent an ongoing destructive cycles
in life.

(7) The 5th Reincarnation is Probably the


Most Painful & the Most Rewarding
The 5th Reincarnation maybe the most painful, but it is the most rewarding if one
succeeds in breaking the cycle of reincarnation.
Reb Chaim Vital explains that one knows that one has no choice to succeed or to fail;
which will mean either life or death, a person will push themselves to succeed.
Similarly in the 5th Reincarnation everyone will endure pain and suffering to such an
extent to "wake oneself up spiritually" ; then one will push oneself to the limit of
ones mind and thoughts to succeed in breaking the cycle of reincarnation and death,
becoming loving, compassionate and forgiving for everything and everyone so that
one can now detach oneself from this physical world for eternity and become at ONE
with GOD in the Eternal Divine Spiritual Realms.
This is the ultimate correction for ones soul to return to the spirit world with the
original souls of mankind Adam & Eve in the Eternal Spiritual Garden of
Eden. AMEN.

Freewill Choice " Two Pathways in


Life"

According to Reb Chaim Vital in Sefer Gilgulim, there are always two choices in
everything we do every moment of our lives, that's right, even though it seems there
are many choices, there are in fact ONLY two pathways at each major junction and
for every decision one makes in life.

"The Right Way OR The Wrong Way"

Many people often seek help at a time of trouble because they are in a state of
confusion. They claim, that they have many decisions and many choices to make. In
fact there are only two choices. One choice is the correct pathway and all the "other
choices" are the wrong pathway.
If a person is honest with themselves when they have "many choices" and need to
make a decision, they will find that all the options except ONE, will have something
in common. All "other options" except one are basically the same choice, just seem
slightly different, but intrinsically and most importantly spiritually to ones soul - they
are all the "same choice" !
This is an important spiritual fact as this now teaches us that our whole lives are
simply categorized into one of two pathways:- "the right way and the wrong way" or we may say they are BOTH right ways as they are both potentially destined for
ones life.

"Meetings with Destiny"


Reb Chaim Vital writes that even though according to the events of one's life and the
freewill choices one makes, one can indeed change ones life for the better or worse,
however there are some destined events and "meetings with destiny" that will occur
whatever decisions one makes in ones life. Whether one chooses the right way or
wrong way, one will have DATES-WITH-DESTINY.
One is guaranteed by spiritual laws of reincarnation to have specific meetings at
specific times, whatever one is doing and wherever one is in ones life, certain events
cannot be avoided.
They can be delayed or postponed, however ALL reincarnated souls are guaranteed
that they will NEVER miss the opportunities and these specific dates-with-destiny.

"Dates With Destiny"


The specific purpose of these dates-with-destiny is to ensure ALL reincarnated souls
that they are continually given "chances" to get-it-right in this reincarnated lifetime.
The feeling of traveling along the "journey of life" then suddenly having a date-withdestiny makes the "journey of life" very meaningful, pleasurable and enjoyable.
Returning and finding ones correct pathway is an amazing spiritual gift that comforts
each and everyone of us to feel that we are never alone in life.

In reflection and hindsight it makes all the pain worthwhile, as it gives a person that
"knowing" feeling that the pathway one is on is indeed the correct pathway. The past
was a destined mistake and now one has found oneself. This experience in itself is a
reason why our souls came to earth to correct ones soul and spiritual attitude to life.

Freewill Choice
There are certain aspects of ones life that can and do change according to ones
freewill choice in decision making, but the "wrong" decision can always be reversed
and one can and will always be able to find ones true destined pathway by undoing
the decision one made when one got "side-tracked" .
Reb Chaim Vital explains "freewill choice" from the Talmud on soulmates; "Destiny"
has predetermined the possibilities for ones life, but it is dependant on the pathway
one has chosen to take and according to ones actions and behaviour the type of
Soulmate one will get.
The Talmud in Sota 2a explains everyone gets the soulmate they deserve, if you feel
you are with the wrong person then maybe ones should look at ones own faults
instead of looking at ones soulmates faults. Don't waste your time trying to change
someone else, use the lesson in life to change oneself.

Accordingly when one reincarnates one may not necessarily get ones true destined
"soulmate" but someone whom is there to teach you lessons and enable corrections to
be made to your soul; your true Soulmate may not need to reincarnate and will be in
Spirit world guiding you to ensure you succeed in this life to correct the mistakes
your soul made in previous lifetimes.

Remember:
Each Reincarnation is a KINDNESS from
GOD
So don't be disgruntled or unhappy with your life, learn to see everything that
happens in your life happens for a good reason, if you have had some bad

relationships, even a bitter argumentative divorce then this too has been necessary to
heal the particular reincarnated aspect of ones soul.
Success in reincarnation isn't judged in the same way as materialistic success, but in
freeing ones mind and soul from the heaviness of negative energies and breaking the
cycle of death in reincarnation.
The easiest way to break the cycle of reincarnation is to forgive and even forgive &
"love" ones enemies, forgive and "let-go" of all the people whom have hurt you. They
have hurt you for reason, this lifetime is now the time to forgive them and let them go
forever.
You will free your own soul from the cycle of reincarnation when you forget and
forgive them, don't be stubborn - just let them go by forgiving them, this will enable
one to let any badness go and enable one to live the present life happily.
Holding onto arguments and being hateful only keeps a person locked in a cycle of
reincarnation. If you are in a difficult situation then you are in it to learn and rectify
your soul. When you have rectified your soul you will have found freedom for your
soul in breaking the cycle of reincarnation that is your true purpose in being
reincarnated into this life.

The Day of Death is Guaranteed for


Everyone !
One thing is guaranteed for everyone in the whole world is that we are all going to
die one day; one day we are all going to enter the Eternal Divine Spiritual realms,
whichever pathway we choose to take in life; every single permutation will end up
with the same result; at that moment we will either be free and happy to have had a
worthwhile life, rectifying all the reasons we came into this life, or have a life full of
a regrets of things we should never have done and mistakes we should never have
made.
Let us, learn from the Sefer Gilgulim and teachings of Reb Chaim Vital to enter the
Eternal Divine Spiritual realms well prepared and at ONE with GOD in peace and
love. AMEN !

Golus Neshoma - Side Tracked


When a person is in a state of "Side Tracked" in life, this means a person has lost
their sense of direction in life, and has followed a pathway that is not good nor

correct for ones soul, then this is known spiritually as losing ones Soul - "
Golus Neshoma" which literally means ones Soul (Neshoma) has gone into exile, the
result is that one's life has "gone off" ones destined course this is a form of death that
creates feelings of emptiness inside.

Reb Chaim Vital explains that the state of " Golus Neshoma"-"Side
Tracked", will give a person feelings of "weakness" and emptiness; the energy of
aliveness that one is accustomed to having is taken away from ones life when takes
the "side-track" in life.
This is a sign to indicate that one is taking the wrong pathway in ones life. It will
eventually lead to feelings of being tired, drained, depressed as ones "Soul Neshoma" has departed from ones physical existence. This actually reflects
physically too, as the person will loose their expression of love and life, becoming
resentful, hateful, bitter and dull.

The Meaning of Side Tracked


Our spiritual Soul (Neshoma) is a spiritual gift from GOD that differentiates
ourselves from animals, if a person abuses or misuses the gift of ones Soul
(Neshoma), then the gift is withdrawn from our existence.
The vitality of ones life-energy, ones accomplishments, ones motivational driving
life-giving energy is from the element of ones Soul (Neshoma) this provides a person
with that specific energy to live a purposeful life.
The Soul (Neshoma) is extremely sensitive and precious, to the extent that when a
person makes a wrong move for ones soul then the Soul cannot contain itself within
ones physical body, and elevates itself back into spirit world, (this is especially true
when one creates sins of the flesh or gossips to ruin someone else's life, ones
Neshoma cannot stay in ones body).

Reb Chaim Vital writes that the Soul (Neshoma) hovers over a person waiting for a
person to repent and come back to the right pathway.

The Correction for being Side


Tracked
" Coming Back"
Unlike other spiritual aspects of correction for ones soul, the correction for being
"side-tracked" and losing ones soul is to return coming back to the exact point
where one made the wrong turning.
This is irrespective of time and events that have occurred in ones life; if it is a case of
ones soul being exiled out of ones body then time is irrelevant; ones soul is waiting
for one to return to the point where one got "side-tracked".

Reincarnated Souls Need to " Come


Back"
Reincarnated souls as explained in the "introduction" are more sensitive souls than
other people, this is because they need the inbuilt feelings and emotions to succeed in
this reincarnated lifetime to ensure spiritual success for their soul in breaking the
cycle of reincarnation.
Therefore it is imperative that as soon as one senses and feels that one has "lost ones
soul" that one should IMMEDIATELY pray and refocus ones attention to coming
back along the correct pathway.

Golus Neshoma - Side Tracked


& Being Disconnected Spiritually
Reb Chaim Vital explains that there is an important difference between
Golus Neshoma - Side Tracked, and between being disconnected spiritually from
ones SoulGroup and " Yeneeka Milmaala" Sustenance for ones soul in the
fact that one can be 100% attached to ones SoulGroup and 100% receiving
sustenance for ones soul as one is in the right place with ONE EXCEPTION that one
has made a WRONG decision.

This wrong decision can have the potential to take one along a dead-end pathway, it
is up to the person to see and sense this from happening or if one is along that
pathway to STOP and return to ones correct pathway.

Disjointed Life
When a person is in a state of Golus Neshoma - Side Tracked, it will feel
like ones is living the life where it should be in some other place doing
something else but ones physical body is somewhere else, hence one is feels
disjointed and disconnected without ones Soul - Neshoma.

Wake Up before its Too Late!


Reb Chaim Vital explains that although the principle of "its never too late to change
ones ways"; in certain circumstances in life, if ones Neshoma Soul has left ones body
for such a long time then bringing it back into ones existence can be difficult.

" Histalkus Neshoma"


The Soul Leaving This Physical World
Completely
The term "Histalkus Neshoma" means that ones "Soul Neshoma" has departed ones
physical existence irreversibly and forever; this occurs for people who have made
irreversible actions that mean they will die and have caused their souls to have to
reincarnate for another lifetime. Such people may continue living to an old age, but
there Soul Neshoma is no longer with them, and hence they live a void and empty
purposeless existence.
when ones soul leaving completely this physical world is a form of
death as ones action have caused one to loose the spiritual gift of Neshoma Soul.
Only by changing ones ways and "coming back" to ones true destiny will ensure ones
soul returns. The longer a person leaves the time of "coming back" the more
difficult it could be.

The Cause of being Side Tracked


One of the biggest causes's for being Side Tracked is the loss of ones
spiritual soul by "transference" that is a powerful draining interaction with someone

who steals your life and soul. We explain the method of canceling out any loss of
ones soul be "transference" in that important chapter.

There is Always Hope !


Reb Chaim Vital reassures every reincarnated soul that provided one is still ALIVE in
this physical world there is ALWAYS HOPE. The gift of life provides each and
everyone of us with the ability to change our ways and rectify our souls every second
of every moment of our lives.

The Spiritual Understanding of


"Transference"
This chapter on "Transference Chaleepin" is probably the most important
chapter of Kabbalah spiritual knowledge written and explained in Sefer Gilgulim by
Reb Chaim Vital as it explains how each and every persons soul is continually in a
state of exchanging energy between everything and everyone in this physical world.
The understanding of the meaning of "Transference "is fundamental to explain
how a person constantly interacts, by understanding that Spiritual and Physical
Transference is an exchange of thought energy. One can learn to control ones
thought energy, thereby empowering one to be able to cancel-out any negative
energies and attract into ones life ONLY the positive and good.
Understanding and applying Transference to one's life will enable on to STOP
living other people's lives and problems, and will also stop one from absorbing and
putting-up with someone else's baggage and bad attitude, thereby enabling one to live
ones own truly destined life.
Using the gift of Transference one can prevent oneself from being attacked
spiritually from anything or anyone negative thereby constantly being able to
maintain a good inner spiritual energy, without being negatively influenced by
anything or anyone. Transference is the spiritual secret key of knowledge that
will open up the door to one's future, living one's destined wholesome life without
any negative interference, it defines the boundaries of ones life and soul.

The Biggest Spiritual Loss of Energy


Occurs Every Moment of Every Day
Through a
"Loss by Transference"
This explanation and understanding of the meaning of Transference and
understanding about other people's abilities to control and take-over your life, and
how to cancel them out in order for ones to live ones own destined pathway for ones
own unique soul.
If one's physical body isn't able to live one's destined life because one has allowed
oneself to be "occupied" by other peoples energies then one will have to reincarnate
again in order to live ones destined life; therefore it is VITALLY important to learn
and stop any loss by transference so that one can live ones destined life instead of
living someone else's, and thereby save oneself from the cycle of reincarnation.

"Loss by Transference" - Transference

In Physical and Spiritual laws there is a principle called "transference" - "


","Haleepin", (This term was understood fully and introduced into the modern
day Medical profession by Professor Dr Carl Jung in Psychology). In simple terms,
when you go into a shop and buy an apple you give the money in one hand and
receive an apple. You have made a transfer, exchanging your money energy for the
shops physical item "apple". Which when you eat the apple, its energy will make you
feel good, alive and happy with yourself and the world. You may then meet someone
and because you feel happy, will also make them feel happy and take away some of
their sad feeling. The whole of society and mankind is continually acting in a web of
transference and interaction of energy.
Have you ever, suddenly, found your mood change from being all loving and
peaceful, and out-of-character you become angry? The explanation is simple, by
"transference", someone you have just connected with, (it could even be the car
infront or behind you in a traffic jam, or someone in the street who has so much inner
frustration, anger or depression etc), has swapped, dumped and transferred their
negative thoughts and emotional energy in an act of "transference" - exchanged for
your loving, energizing and positive energy.

Spiritual and Physical Transference


"An exchange of thought energy"
On this page we shall teach you the spiritual laws of "transference" and how to
prevent a "LOSS of your souls energy by transference". This page should be read in
conjunction with "Closure"page as this will teach a person how to have spiritual
closure from "freeloaders", users and abusers, especially relevant for Sensitive souls
who are susceptible to having energy stolen from them by "transference".
The individual sections of "transference" we shall teach:1. The basic understanding of "transference" - the concept of "exchange" of thought
energy for physical energy as taught from the Talmud.
2. The Spiritual laws of "transference"- "".
3. Using the spiritual laws to STOP a "loss by transference", understanding that spirit
entities can occupy a persons physical body and how to prevent any spirit entity from
occupying one's physical body other than one's own soul.
4. Negating and canceling any "transference" energy that has already occurred in the
past. Stopping the draining cycle of losing energy by transference.
5. - Understanding "blocks" caused from other people created by the
energy of "transference".
6. Protecting oneself from losing "transference" energy in the future.
7. The concept of " " - "evil eye" understanding and protecting oneself from
being "hurt" by others evil thoughts. And the concept of spiritual power of a persons
soul by "transference" in photographs.

1. - Transference
The basic understanding of "transference" - the concept of "exchange" of thought
energy for physical energy as taught from the Talmud.The sources in the Talmud
Mesechta Kiddushin daf 28a and Mesechta Temurah.

Valid "Transactions"

The Talmud explains the concept of validity of different types of transactions, when
exactly a transaction takes place and when a person actually acquires ownership of
articles one has bought.
When a person buys anything in a shop, exchanging money for the item, lifting the
item up and walking out of the shop constitutes a valid purchase. If a person takes the
item without paying then the ownership of the item remains with the shopkeeper and
that is theft.
The validity of any transaction is final and irreversible, the "deal is done" when and
this is the important point - that is to complete a sale, to make a final and valid
transaction is that NEITHER SIDE can REVERSE or CANCEL the validity of the
exchange.

-"Umdena"-"Assumptions"
In every type of transaction, there are automatic assumptions, that society makes in
their "minds" regarding validity of transactions. That is to say, even if one does NOT
have a written agreement everytime one goes shopping, there are assumptions
everyone makes in their minds and thoughts.
For example, if one buys something that is lacking or faulty, then one can return the
item to the shop. Many goods have written guarantees or stores have 14 day or 30 day
money-back offers. However, even without such written "offers", one can still return
items if it's assumed in everyone's MIND that the item is not as expected, which
invokes the collective assumption of society and in everyone's mind to invalidate
such a transaction. (This applies especially in our generation, when so many items are
packaged and one doesn't always see inside!).
This important concept of -"Umdena"-"Assumptions", is that it is an unwritten
agreement in everyone's MIND and THOUGHTS, can invalidate the transaction.
Conversely this concept of assumed agreement in everyone's mind can and does
validate a transaction, whereby one CANNOT go back on the exchange. Like buying
a house or car, clothes etc., once completion of transaction is made one cannot go
back, just because one doesn't like the purchase!

The exchange of "transference"


The talmud explains that the exchange of "transference", is where one side exchanges
something physical for a "THOUGHT". The Talmud discusses this "transference"
thought and "transference" speech transactions in the section dealing with marriage,

love and emotions of marriage, and in the section of holy spiritual priests making
offerings and switching sanctified holy objects with their thoughts.
The Talmud teaches that exchanges and transactions of THOUGHTS and
EMOTIONS is NOT valid. This is because in this physical world a transaction only
has validity between TWO physical OBJECTS that CANNOT be returned or
cancelled out.
This is the spiritual reason why it is forbidden for anyone to charge money for
knowledge, information and thoughts. The Talmud teaches that teachers may receive
a nominal payment as a compensation for their time spent teaching. But it is 100%
clear that teachers must NOT charge for spiritual knowledge as this is in the same
category as "transference" transactions.

"Thought transactions" can be invalidated


and therefore "transference" energies
can be easily cancelled out
In the transaction of "transference" one side has exchanged "THOUGHT" energies
and as explained on our page of "thinking positive", a "thought" energy can be
cancelled out by the people originally involved in the transaction AND also be
someone else's thoughts and energies this invalidates the transaction AND most
importantly can be cancelled out by ONE SIDE without the other person knowing.
Spiritual law of thoughts, words & actions see "thinking positive" page
A thought cancels out a thought
A word cancels out a thought
An action cancels out a thought and a word
Talmud Kiddushin 59b

2. The Spiritual laws of "transference"

(a) Anyone anywhere in this physical world and in spiritual world of souls, can have
transference energy with anyone who is "open" to receive the transference energy
from that persons mind and soul. The energy of "transference" thought energy is open
and available to everyone everywhere whom is "open" to receive this energy.
(b) Anyone can cancel out the "energy" of transference that is in their mind. A
persons mind and soul is given the power to erase and nullify the energy of
transference thought energy.
As we explained the "Spiritual law of thoughts, words & actions" see "Thinking
positive" page.
A thought cancels out a thought
A word cancels out a thought
An action cancels out a thought and a word .
Talmud Kiddushin 59b
(c) A person is given the power to be "open" and "closed" to control the flow of
thought transference energy into their mind and soul.
If a person does not know about or is unaware of the continual interaction of
transference energies with their mind, thoughts and soul, then automatically they
leave themselves "open", which allows and "lets-in" negative thoughts, freeloaders
and trash which will drain by "transference" - stealing their souls good life energy.
This draining will cause a persons soul to block "life energy" as the soul recognizes
and senses that it is being drained. This physical and spiritual souls life energy is
known as - Yeneeka Milmaala. Once a person learns self-control in
selecting only the good transference energies then this blockage will be taken away,
then the life energy and vitality are allowed to flow into ones life. Please read the
page on Closure, as one needs to learn when to be "open" and "closed".

3. Using the spiritual laws


to STOP a "loss by transference".
From the spiritual laws of "transference" above and from the "Spiritual law of
thoughts, words & actions" see "thinking positive" from Talmud
Kiddushin 59b :-

A thought cancels out a thought


A word cancels out a thought
Since transference energy is 100% thoughts and spiritual , one can simply cancel out
the loss of ones souls energy by using the power of speech:-

SIMPLY SAY

"I cancel out any transference made by evil people that has taken
energy from my soul, that takes energy from my soul or that will
take energy from my soul"


"I refuse to allow anyone or anything evil drain my soul by
transference, or take any energy from my soul by transference,
which includes their negative or destructive thoughts or words
against me"
"I release the need for interaction with draining people and situations, my soul has
been awakened by these bad experiences, i am grateful for the difficulties as signs to
wake-up my soul. Now that i am spiritually awakened, please take away these
draining situations out of my life, they no longer have any purpose in my life"
"I cancel out any transference of energy out of my soul with anyone who has nothing
to do with my life, my destiny or my soul"
"Similarly, i apologize for having taken anyone's souls energy by transference that
has nothing to do with my life, my soul or my destiny and which has used to block
my destiny, i no longer want this energy and want it returned to the persons soul i
have taken it from, it is NOT mine!"
This is so simple, once a person realizes that one is constantly losing energy by
transference, (and this thereby is causing a blockage in the flow of life energy in ones
soul as explained above), learnt how to be control this loss by being "Closed" to
draining and "freeloaders", then one can simply AFFIRM and say the above two
phrases and this cancels out any loss by transference.

This even helps for the highest form of transference whereby some freeloader
earthbound soul occupies ones body ( the concept of earthbound souls is explained on
the "RESCUE WORK" page).

"Canceling out" with "words" ALWAYS


works !
If one does not feel anything after "canceling out" with the power of your speech by
saying the above even once, there are 3 possible reasons:(1) One is not using ones mind to focus ones thoughts and coordinate ones speech
with ones thoughts, that means one must think honestly about the strength of the
power of speech. After all, if one has lost energy from ones soul caused by others
talking about you, it is 100% assured that you have the power of your speech to
control your life and soul, through the power of your speech. YOU have been blessed
with the gift of speech so use it to CANCEL out the loss by transference.
(2) One does not believe the spiritual law of canceling out by the power of speech.
Good news - even if one does "not believe", it still works ! However small the
change, each time a person cancels out by using the power of speech, it has an effect,
this is the reason why "shouting" and "screaming" works so well, as it uses ones full
strength of the power of ones speech.
(3) Then the last reason, it doesn't seem to work, after saying the "canceling out"
phrase above, is because one is still holding onto bitterness and resentment to that
person who has hurt you. One must LET GO of them and the thoughts of hurt, simply
recognizes they were part of your life in the past and NOW they are NO longer part
of your life for your future - Have 100% "closure" , and thank GOD they are now out
of your life forever !

Directional "Canceling Out"


When deceitful and rotten people have told lies, gossiped and slandered a good
person, it is so easy to cancel out the energy of their words. Since they are liars, their
prayers are NOT answered by the good angels in the pure Spirit world, therefore the
injured honest person can cancel the power of their deceitful words anytime.
"Directional canceling out" means that one uses the exact words and false allegations
that people have and are using against you, affirm that these are lies and then negate
and cancel-out their power and destructive energy.

For example; If a man/woman was accused falsely of cheating on his/her spouse with
another person, then one should say, "people have accused me of cheating on my
wife/husband with another woman/man, as GOD is my witness, this is a lie, i have
never cheated on my wife/husband, and therefore i wish to cancel out the energy and
power of these lies". Indeed, it seems such a person should gladly divorce such a
deceitful spouse as he/she does not have any spiritual good behavior, especially if
he/she can tell such awful lies in public. Once one has disconnected and had closure
after the divorce, there will still be gossipers and slanderers, one can "cancel out" the
power and energy of these liars by simply keep affirming that they are liars, and their
words have no energy or power.
If a person does NOT cancel out the negative energy of these evil people, then their
energy gets stronger creating blockages in the good persons life, which will come to a
peak, at the peak where the energy becomes unbearable, the good person either
collapses under the pressure OR learns the spiritual laws to cancel out "loss by
transference" and actually starts to stand up for themselves by canceling out all the
lies told over so many years, as they are good people with good spiritual guardian
angels, and they have been a victim of other peoples lies, they will WIN, once all the
negative energy is cleared they will start to have all the goodness in their lives
restored to them.
The first step is to write down all the sources of damage of lies that have occurred in
ones life, and cancel each of them out by affirming they are liars and as GOD is your
witness, you are truthful.
Normally those people who accuse others do not believe in GOD or spirit world, and
usually accuse other people of things they have done wrong themselves. So simply
affirm their false allegations, admit these are lies and then cancel their power.
Likewise repeating a few times actually helps to cancel out the energy of all the other
gossipers who have repeated the liars lie. None of them have any power to hurt you
anymore.

Use the power of speech to cancel the


energy of their words, as Hashem - GOD is
your witness.
1. Affirm the words of the lie, use the exact words that the liars have deceitfully used;
2 Confirm that as GOD is your witness that this is a lie; 3. Cancel out the energy of
the lie, by confirming that these words are lies and this is the truth.

"Cancel Out" but DO NOT hold onto any


bitterness or hatred for the deceitful liars
It is important that one does this, without feeling any hatred or negative emotions for
them whom have lied, in fact if one does this in a manner that one feels sorry for the
eternal pain their souls will endure in spirit world, then within the "canceling out"
process one is actually praying that their soul should repent and apologize for the
destruction they have caused.
This is exactly how Joseph forgave his 10 brothers who sold him as a slave, and how
King David cancelled out the deceit and lies of King Saul, who tried to kill him.
(Once David had cancelled out King Saul's energy of his lies, destruction and deceit,
Saul actually committed suicide, and David became 2nd King of Israel).

The highest form of "transference" someone else's soul occupies your body
The commentators and and The Shach and Taz on the
Shulchan Aruch - "The code of Jewish laws", all ask the obvious question:In the daily blessings in the morning prayers why do we need to repeat these three
blessings everyday of our life, surely saying them once in ones life is enough?

, ,

These 3 blessings give thanks to GOD that we are "not a slave" , "not a woman" ,
"not a " . Surely thanking GOD once in our lives is enough? and surely its obvious

that a man is not a woman? and a jewish person is not a non-jew? Why is it necessary
to state the obvious affirmation every single day in the morning when one wakes up ?
The Famous Spiritual Rabbis and commentators and and The Shach
and Taz on the Shulchan Aruch, answer that whilst a person is sleeping,
and soul elevates itself to spiritual plane, an "earthbound soul" could occupy ones
body, and when one arrives back in ones body, there is a struggle for control over
your body, as ones soul did not enter ones body completely properly because there is
an occupying soul in a persons body in an act of transference. This act of transference
can happen in spiritually sensitive people who don't like or don't feel comfortable
being on earth

The solution - make a truthful affirmation


The solution is to make a truthful affirmations of who you are and whom your body
belongs to and through the power of speech you can "throw out" the freeloading spirit
entity.

Truthful Affirmations
Simply by using the power of truthful speech, will ensure that you do not loose any
energy from your soul by "transference". Which in turn will ensure that your life
energy and vitality remains "alive" with a continual flow of - Yeneeka
Milmaala. The key is to use the power of speech with truthful statements and
affirmations.
One should begin "truthful affirmations" by saying what a person is not, for example
a jewish single woman living in USA should affirm, "i am not a man", "i am not a
Muslim", " i am not married", "i have not yet found my soulmate", " i am not living
in israel", i have no children", etc and then continue to affirm "i am trying to change
everyday", "i am canceling out, by my speech any words or thoughts that anyone
anywhere has against me, i want to cancel out any negative energy that is blocking
success in my life, so that i can find my true destined loving soulmate, to have a
purposeful and fulfilling life" etc.,
Once a person starts making truthful affirmations as they "talk to themselves", one
will find each individual will flow with their own specific affirmations, of their own
personal identity and then affirm to cancel out any blockages in their lives caused by
other peoples negative thoughts and words. Once a person has done this, one feels
lightened and enlivened as each word a person speaks ACTUALLY works to cancel
out any negativity !

Thankfully there is a special spiritual law that prevents this being used against good
people, as those people who abuse the power of speech, deceive and lie, have no
chance to dissolve the energy of transference, as this ability is only given to those
with truthful guardian angels, as discussed in the paragraph of "two types" of people
on the page of Spirit & Guidance.

4. Negating and canceling any


"transference" energy that has already
occurred in the past. Stopping the draining
cycle of losing energy by transference.
Simply follow the same spiritual law as above, and use the power of speech to cancel
out ALL the loses of "transference" that one has been so open and given away ones
energy in the past, which once a person cancels out the power given away by
transference thought energy, then all the blockages in ones life will be taken away.
SIMPLY SAY :-


"I cancel out any transference of energy made by evil people that has taken energy
from my soul, that takes energy from my soul or that will take energy from my soul"


"I refuse to allow anyone or anything evil drain my soul by transference, or take any
energy from my soul by transference, which includes their negative or destructive
thoughts or words against me"


"All blockages in my life should now go away from my soul"

"Let the past go"- Hold no grudges


Remember it is important NEVER to hold any grudge or blame to anyone for your
mistakes. It is YOUR fault you interacted with the wrong and draining type of person.
Its not their fault, they are simply acting the only way they know. However, now that

you have found the solution and learnt the reason why you have been so drained by
losing your souls good energy in an act of "transference". It is up to YOU to have
Closure from the past and learn to Protect your mind and soul, especially if you are a
Sensitive soul .

5. - Understanding "blocks"
caused from other people created by the
energy of "transference".
As we explained on the page Blocking Success, once transference has occurred, a
person has given away part of their souls energy to someone else. This other person
now has the power to Block Success as they have your energy as we saw in the
"Transference" destructive cycle as explained on the "Debrainwashing page" :-

The solution is simple !


Use the power of speech to cancel out all the acts of transference, think back to all the
times you were open and gave away your souls energy in an act of transference.
Remember the rule that there are two type of people in this world, the "honest and
creative group" and the "deceitful destructive group" as explained in the page of
Spirit & Guidance. Every person interacts and is connected in this world, if the
person you are connecting with makes you feel alive and creatively constructive then
this is a good connection. If the connection is draining and destructive one MUST
have Closure. They maybe even be good people but they have NO PLACE in your
life, if one feels drained when interacting with them.

Ones soul energy comes back from "the


ether"
Once one has learnt Closure and prayed to have ones life energy that has been lost by
transference returned to your soul. One will start to feel alive with spiritual vitality
and enlightenment . However, part of the Closure process is one MUST "let-go" and
forgive those people who have been draining you, and NEVER expect them to return
energy to you and NEVER expect them to apologize to you. Have closure from them
and move on.

The "ether", that is the DIVINE universal energy will give you the spiritual energy ,
replenish, enliven you and more that compensate your losses. Once and only once
you have deep-down had closure and opened the flow of unblocked life energy
- Yeneeka Milmaala . Your soul will only unblock this once truthfully and
intrinsically EVERYTHING has been done by you to correct your past mistakes and
your spirit mind and soul in 100% sure you will not make the mistakes again.
The English saying expression pertaining to life's opportunities "one door opens
ONLY when the other door is firmly closed", and "what goes around - eventually
comes around", refers to the cycle of universal DIVINE energy.

6. Protecting oneself from losing


"transference" energy in the future.
Once a person has been enlightened to the concepts of "loss of ones souls energy by
transference", with this "key" of knowledge from Sefer Gilgulim by Reb Chaim Vital,
one will automatically learn to be aware of every interaction that one makes, sensing
the energizing actions and draining actions. Making empowered and correct freewill
decisions to only interact with constructive creative people and situations, never
allowing oneself to be "open" to be drained by freeloaders in an act of transference.
It's very similar to learning to talk, once one has learnt how to talk it is very difficult
to forget ! After a while it becomes "second-nature" to a child and one speaks even
without thinking. Similarly, once one has learnt to control ones thoughts, cancelingout "loss by transference" by using the power of ones speech, it becomes easy to
retain ones unique soul energy and unblock the flow of life vitality to ones soul,
which is needed for you and the good people you co-create with, so that your soul can
succeed to its maximum potential in this physical life !
By learning the lessons in the chapter on Closure and Protection, once the past and
present is cleared by the use of speech in "canceling-out" the draining acts of
transference, ensures that ones soul has accomplished a significant cleansing which it
came to earth-school to learn.

7. The concept of " " - "evil eye"


The concept of " " - "evil eye" is simply understood as a person has been
"open" spiritually to allow another person steal energy by "transference" which is in
fact your souls energy and this is thereby able to BLOCK your life.

Simply learn to stop "losing your souls energy by transference", by being so "open"
to destructive energies. learn Closure and Protection and then no one can affect your
life with the energy you have "given them" to hurt you with !
Those people whom have changed completely, healed the past and become loving
and compassionate souls connected in the committed service of GOD, have learnt to
focus and continually cleanse their mind and soul from any negative and destructive
thoughts.
Once a person has arrived at this level " " - "evil eye" created by other peoples
negative thoughts can never affect their soul . In the transition period as a person is
learning and transforming one simply needs to learn Closure and continually
cleansing and canceling out other peoples acts of transference draining thought
energies.

A note for Modern Day - Photographs


When anyone looks at photographs, each image makes an impression on a persons
mind and thoughts, if a person is emotionally aroused by the image in the photograph
this has a stronger affect on a persons soul. If the photograph gives a person a vitality
and aliveness then an act of creative transference takes place. If however the
photograph leaves a person feeling drained then a destructive act of transference has
occurred.
If the photograph is of a person, then the persons image and soul is engraved on that
photo and if one is "open" and unaware, then evil people can use the photograph in an
act of transference energy and "drain" or "hurt" a person.
As this "damage" occurs as a thought energy, simply by using the power of speech
cancels out any "transference" loss energies and solves the problem. Simply say, "I
refuse to allow anyone or anything evil drain my soul by transference which includes
negative or destructive thoughts or words against me or any photos that have been
taken of me by anyone anywhere".

Conclusion
Once a person has been enlightened to the concepts of "loss of ones souls energy by
transference", with this "key" of knowledge from Sefer Gilgulim by Reb Chaim Vital
one will automatically learn to be aware of every interaction that one makes, sensing
the energizing actions and draining actions and making wise decisions to connect
only with creative life energy.

As anyone anywhere in this physical world and in spiritual world of souls, can have
transference energy with anyone who is "open" to receive the transference energy
from that persons mind and soul.
This basic concept of "transference" thought-energy makes it comprehendible how so
many Sensitive souls have the gift of spirit communication with the spirit world. As a
continual and open channel of "transference and thoughts" are connecting the souls in
this Physical world with Spirit world of souls.
"Spiritual Protection" - .
The Sefer Shinuyim "The book of changes", teaches the importance of "Spiritual
Protection" " Shmira" of ones soul. When a person understands that ones mind
and thoughts control the flow of energy of life and every interaction that occurs in a
persons life in the physical and spiritual world is controlled by each persons mind,
thoughts and soul, it is therefore imperative we understand the spiritual laws of
"protection" in order to protect ourselves both physically and spiritually.
Understanding that when a person is 100% protected spiritually, then a person is
automatically protected physically, as all energies both positive and negative START
with the THOUGHTS in ones mind. Everything that happens to us in our lives is
allowed to happen by the thoughts we produce in our mind, by changing and
controlling ones thoughts, this enables and changes everything that happens in ones
life ones.
On this page we shall explain all the following concepts:#1. Understanding and identifying the difference between the 2 types of people in this
world, the "DEAD" and "ALIVE".
#2. Learning how to have physical and spiritual "closure" from the draining
freeloaders and "dead" energies, thereby only connecting with love and "life"
energies.
#3. Understanding how to "block" other peoples negative thoughts against you, and
how to be so closed that one actually "bounces back" their negative thoughts and
words against you to themselves like a "mirror".
#4. Learning how to use the power of prayer to ask and receive protection from ones
guardian angels.
#5. Learning how to always remain connected with life energy, even when one is in
bad company of "dead" people or in deadly draining places.

#6. Understanding the concept that this physical world is a challenge to a good
persons soul, as "bad" people, liars and cheats seem to succeed, honest and good
people seem to be "cheated", taken advantage of and abused.
#7. Learning how to eliminate all freeloaders, evil people and draining situations
from ones life and how to protect ones soul from any interaction with evil people by
learning to protect ones mind and thoughts, understanding that once a person has
succeeded spiritually in ones mind and thoughts, then physically the "freeloader
nuisance" will dissappear. Understanding that "mind battles", are simply someone
elses desires and thoughts having a power over your thoughts and forcing you to
make actions, once a person learns to protect ones mind and thoughts it becomes easy
to "win mind battles".

1. Understanding and identifying the difference between the 2 types of people in this
world:The "DEAD" and "ALIVE".
As we explained on the page "Spiritual Guidance", there are 2 types of people in this
world:The Honest & The Deceitful
The first and most wonderful category is the HONEST group, which basically means
when you are nice to them they are nice in return , when you are horrible to them they
are horrible in return . When you ask them a question, you are given the honest
answer in return. The intrinsic goodness of this group, will always make you feel
alive and happy. When you hear something good has happend to anyone of this
group, you too - feel the happiness. Conversely when something bad happends you
feel their sorrow and pain. The honest group person, will always find ways to be nice
and compliment, saying nice constructive words, looking for the goodness in people,
and they will always exude, radiate love and happiness, even in the face of adversity .
They will always find ways to create loving energy and NEVER "steal" energy from
others by hateful, negative or destructive thoughts, words or actions.
The other group of people in this world are the DECEITFUL (liars) people, which
basically means when you are nice to them they are horrible in return , when you are
horrible to them they are nice in return . When you ask them a question, you are
given lies and deceit in return. The intrinsic deceit and twistedness of this group, will
always make you feel drained and sad.

These 2 groups of people, have the inate qualities of either being positively
energising OR depressingly draining. When you meet a person, if they make you feel
alive and energise you, this is indicative they are ALIVE, if however a person makes
you feel "drained" and depressed then this is indicative they are DEAD. Similarly,
every place and action a person performs either makes them feel alive, as they are
doing something creatively purposeful with love, or makes them feel tired, drained
and depressed, which is indicative that they are doing something destructive or
hateful, the opposite to the purpose of life.
Defining and categorising everything into "life" and "death", is intrinsically vital so
that we can remain energised with the good life-giving creative energy of GOD
which is LOVE.

Who is "Alive" & Who is "Dead" ?



"Good souls when they die are in fact alive"

"Bad souls when they are alive are in fact dead"
The Talmud Sanhedrin , explains that the Righteous and good people when
they are physically dead are in fact alive, ( ) , whilst the
wicked people when they seem to be alive are in fact dead, (
).
In this spiritual understanding, this explains that there are indeed really draining
"freeloaders" and horrible people in this world, who are so full of hatred, death &
destruction, who simply steal energy from good people by intimidation, bullying and
violence, "Transference" or even by sexual arousal/teasing which steals energy in the
same destructive way from a persons soul spiritually, as the sexual arousal causes
people to act, as logical "common sense" would tell them not to act, but sexual
arousal "makes a person" do things they would not do, if they were thinking with
their mind instead of the "animalistic" physical body !
These people and places that drain a person, are in fact "DEAD", they may look as
though they are alive, but in the eyes of GOD and spirit world, they are DEAD.
Whenever one has a "bad feeling" about someone or somewhere, this is indicative
that one is Sensitive and ones soul is indicating a DEAD energy, so KEEP away !

Conversely when a person has good energising feelings, these are indicative of LIFE
energy. Learn to analyse honestly how one feels about everyone and everything, then
contemplate what people, places and actions make a person feel ALIVE. Almost
everyone loves to see flowers, trees, green countryside, fruit trees and the purity of
"Nature" created by sunlight, fresh air, water and GOD !
What is the meaning of "DEAD" souls ?
The concept of "DEAD" souls is expanded on in "Sefer Shinuyim"- the Book of
Change, and we shall explain this soon on a separate page linked here. In brief, as
explained in 5 levels of the soul page by Reb Chaim Vital, the concept that every
object even a stone has a soul, so even the "dead" person has a soul, it simply is a
"dark" soul, with no "life" energy. Having no energy of LOVE, this "dead" and "dark"
soul feeds its soul with energy by stealing from good people and from creating
hatred, fear, jealousy and negative emotions, hence it is considered by the enlightened
and spiritual world to be "dead".

2. Learning how to have physical and spiritual "closure" from the draining
freeloaders and "dead" energies, thereby only connecting with love and "life"
energies.
By categorising everyone and everything in ones life to either LIFE or DEATH. This
registers on ones mind to only connect with LIFE, after all what type of ungrateful
stupid person would "commit suicide" ?
In the same way, if a person regards every destructive act of "waste" as an act of
DEATH, then a person automatically will RUN AWAY from death and such
destructive acts. This is human instinct of survival, however as complex individuals
with a mind more intricate than a computer, our mind needs to receive our
instructions to be CLOSED to acts of death, by our "self-definitions" to each act,
event and person in our lives. (i use the term "self-definitions", as a connection of life
for you maybe a connection of death for someone else, as its your desitiny and not
their destiny).
Define every act :Is it an act LIFE or DEATH?
Does it make you feel ALIVE and energised
or DEAD, drained and depressed ?

Once defined by YOU and ONLY YOU, then it becomes easy to have Closure, as we
know that this small "key" of spiritual knowledge has the power to change a persons
life, in just knowing that connections with the wrong people in ones life can block,
drain and cause death spiritually and ultimately physically.
Start with ones thoughts, define everything into LIFE and DEATH, as human survival
will always connect with LIFE, which once invoked will reflect in ones actions. This
will automatically motivate a person into actions of LIFE, which in turn will unblock
ones stagnated "dead" life, as one has disconnected from all the DEAD energies in
ones life. The more disconnections one makes from DEAD activities the more
energised and ALIVE one will feel.

3. Understanding how to "block" other peoples negative thoughts against you, and
how to be so closed that one actually "bounces back" their negative thoughts and
words against you to themselves like a "mirror".
Whilst a person is changing and disconnecting from the draining "freeloaders" that
have been taking advantage of and abusing ones life, one may feel "attacked" by
them, either by their words or negative thoughts, therefore it is imperative that one
learns how to protect ones soul from such people.
The reason these "freeloaders" feel threatened by your action of "Closure" is that they
feel the withdrawal of energy from their lives. They have continually been using a
pattern of taking good from you and giving you nothing in return, and now that they
feel you "closing" off to them, they feel resentful, hateful, bitter and will try even
more destructive tactics to steal energy from you.
Firstly we need to understand the interaction of good people with the "DEAD" type
of bad person. The fundamental principle is that they are full of opposites, when you
are GOOD to a bad person, they are horrible in return. Therefore, conversely applies,
when you are BAD to a BAD person, they respect you and are GOOD to you in
return !
This is learnt from the greatest of spiritual leaders like Moses, and Joseph, whose
brothers sold him as a slave, and from King David who had to run away and hide
amongst the philistines as King Saul and the jewish army wanted to kill him, as he
spoke the truth.
"Why do you repay me with bad for the good i have done?"

Genesis (yalkut shimoni) chapter 43


They repay my good with evil
and Slander me when i pursue what is good
Tehillim - Psalms of King David, chapter 38 verse 20/21.
It is simply a spiritual fact of life that bad people treat good people badly !
"Being CLOSED"
Creates a Spiritual Protective Shield which acts as a "Mirror" to reflect their badness
back to them !
By having closure from such deceitful and "twisted" people, automatically the cycle
of you giving them "life" energy for them to destroy into death energy, will STOP !
When one is 100% closed to them, then they will not be able to interact with you or
your soul.
The first thing that happens is they accuse you of all the things that is wrong with
them, as you are closed, your soul acts like a protective shield, and they MIRROR
back to themselves exactly what they are ! This is always the case especially in our
modern day society of "divorces", where the good side is often falsely accused by the
rotten side.
The best advice in such divorces or relationship break-ups is to be 100% closed and
DONT interact with such a person, when a good person is 100% CLOSED and
refuses to even comment on false allegations then the rotten person will actually
accuse the good of everything that they themselves have done wrong ! As spiritually
they are mirroring themselves! To such a degree that they are so full of hatred and
destruction, that they end up self-destroying their own lives, hence block and can
never find LOVE, LIFE or the Spiritual way of life with the energy, peace of mind
and blessings of GOD.
Simply get rid of such DEAD and deceitful people out of ones life, and look forward
to new life with good kind loving and honest people in ones life. This is simply part
of the pathway of life, to learn from the bad in order to disconnect with them, and
only connect with the good.

4. Learning how to use the power of prayer to ask and receive protection from ones
guardian angels.

As we explained above, everything is classified as either life or death, the connection


a person has spiritually to the energy of life - GOD - is life-giving. As we explained
fully on the "Guardian Angels" page, the stronger our connection with our "Guardian
Angels" and with Divine Spiritual energy, the more energised and ALIVE our soul
will feel. When a person realises that ones prayers and being listened to, this gives a
person the power of confidence in prayer.
Simply PRAY and ask for protection

& Light a Candle


Spiritually, praying whilst lighting a candle has tremendous spiritual energy. Each
person will have their own feeling as they light a candle, as one lights a candle whilst
praying, the Guardian Angels feel ones desire for a need for protection and guidance.
The reassuring feelings one gets at the moment of prayer, makes a person certain that
spiritually one will be guided and protected. This will help you to pray in knowing
and feeling reassured by the spiritual peaceful energy. (As we explained fully on the
"Ability to Change" page)
Light a candle anytime
Whenever you feel the need for some extra special spiritual help or for "thanks" for
help that has been given, or even to pray for the future, for a world of peace, love and
spiritual growth - light a candle ! ( For your information, whilst i am typing these web
pages, i always light a candle for help and guidance).
Visiting cemetaries is actually energising!
Understanding the principle " " - "Good souls when they
die are in fact alive", and understanding the concept of Guardian Angels that
accompany a person always, this is the reason why visiting the graves of good people
is actually energising and life giving, as this connects a person spiritually to the soul
of the righteous person, and their continued life giving energy is wanting to help,
guide and protect with a LIFE GIVING energy.
" Shmira" - "Protection"
for people who have just died
According to jewish tradition, when the final transition of a person soul from this
physical world into spiritual world at death has occured, the soul needs prayers of
protection. The power of our prayers is so great that we light candles and say prayers

from the moment of death until the person is buried, this is known as " Shmira"
- "protection".
Reading and repeating the Psalm 121 3 times, is known as the prayer for "protection"
" Shmira".

5. Learning how to always remain connected with life energy, even when one is in
bad company of spiritually "dead" people or in deadly draining places.
With the spiritual understanding, that everything that exists in our lives, starts as a
THOUGHT in our mind and soul. It is therefore 100% VITAL to our protection that
we keep our mind "awake", avoiding the "grey sickness" - that "half alive-half dead"
feeling as discussed on the Motivation page. By staying mentally alert and controlling
ones thoughts, one actually can develope the strength of mind power to be open and
closed to anything and everything.
The strength of an individual is always judged on the strength of the mind, thoughts
and ability to stay FOCUSED on ones objectives and goals.
Prepare ones mind and thoughts with good energising images
Before any venture is undertaken in life, the success is always predetermined by the
good preparations and planning. Similarly, before a person does anything, one needs
to prepare ones mind and thoughts properly.

Firstly be determined to be "closed" to any dead or draining energies, ( remember


from the Closure page the best way to be 100% closed spiritually is to have a
clenched fist, it always works, from Palmistry page we have learnt that the power of
ones soul is reflected in the energy of ones hand. Being aware that ones hands have
such a strength and power, be careful where you place your hands and keep them
pure and clean ! This is the reason why the best communicators and public speakers
always use their hands to strengthen the power of their spoken words.
Learn to guard your soul by guarding your eyes

The famous Reb Simcha Zissel ( known as the Alter of Kelm a disciple of Reb
Yisroel Salanter, the father of the Mussar movement in 19th Century Europe) and
who then became the teacher of the Chofetz Chaim emphasized the importance of
being so careful of the images of what one sees with ones eyes, , and
started a practice of making people aware of guarding their eyes, especially as he saw
that the generation became vulnerable spiritiually to "modernisation". How much
more so - today !!!
Therefore the only spiritual law we need to recognise is the need is for a ,
to learn to guard our soul by guarding our eyes, and protecting of eyes from seeing
the wrong images. The power of vision has the energy to influence and bring a person
a "Life of Peace of Mind".
Secondly focus in ones mind ones life objectives and aims, thirdly and MOST
importantly, keep 3 images of life energy in ones mind.
Focus on 3 "life-energising" images
pertainable to YOU in your mind
Prepare your mind, by having at the forefront of your mind, 3 good images that YOU
can focus on, that always bring YOU life energy, they can be of beautiful places you
have visited, the image of someone you love, or a lovely experience you had been
lucky to have had in your life. As explained on the "happiness" page, everyone has at
least 8 exceedingly happy moments in their lives at least one every 7 years, these are
"gifts" in order to help everyone have an energised life. By focusing on these
moments and images of happiness with laughter, excitement and good energy, a
person will radiate an energy of happiness and aliveness.
Conversely, have you ever noticed that "losers", sad and depressed people, always
seem to think and talk about depressing subjects. If a person thinks death and is
depressed then their life will continue to be death and depressed. When a person
thinks and focuses on LIFE and HAPPINESS , then a person will attract LIFE and
happiness.
Feeling ALIVE even amongst the "DEAD"
When a person holds these happy images of LIFE, LOVE and creative constructive
experiences in ones mind, and one is 100% closed to any negativity, then even
amongst DEAD and depressed people, one will feel alive. As one is not interacting
with their energies and is living connected with LIFE energy in ones mind. When
ones mind and thoughts are connected with LIFE - one has LIFE .

The wiser a person becomes in life, one realises the power of ones mind which
creates a world of inner peace love and happiness, that then influences the physical
world, whereas ignorant people in younger years allow the outside world to affect the
state of their mind. They are too open to negatively draining influences ! By learning
control of ones mind and thoughts, one has received the "key of life" to inner "peace
of mind".

6. Understanding the concept that this physical world is a challenge to a good persons
soul.
In this physical world it seems that this physical world is a challenge to a good
persons soul, as "bad" people, liars and cheats seem to succeed, honest and good
people seem to be "cheated", taken advantage of and abused.
Anyone who has lived and seen many people, will tell you that the "bad" people
never succeed in the long term, they look as though they have success in the short
term, but they NEVER ever have the peace of mind, love and compassion, the good
sincere character that comes with true kindness and a comapssionate spiritual way of
life.
As we all know many "wealthy" people who have a selfish materialistic life and yet
they have no quality of life, being on medications for nerves and heart conditions !
They have family troubles caused by materialistic greed and jealousies.
It is remarkable that NO ONE is really jealous of a financially poor man or woman
who is wise, compassionate and spiritually loving person ! How topsy-turvy our
culture has become ! As true wealth and happiness should be measured by the
strength of ones good character and spiritual wealth within ones mind and soul ! ( as
we explain on the Money page, this is a blessing that people cannot see the spiritual
wealth as they would really try and steal this true wealth !)
This world will always seem to be a challenge to the good, and some things in life
will seem to be "unfair" and yet everything that happens is for the good and has a
perfect reason ! The Good will always prevail and succeed in the end !

7. "Physical" versus "Spiritual"


This page on "protection" has emphasised that ones thoughts and mind controls
everything that occurs in ones life. By learning closure thereby eliminates all
freeloaders, evil people and draining situations from ones life. Then categorising

everything into LIFE or DEATH starts the thought process to protect ones soul from
any interaction with evil people by learning to protect ones mind and thoughts from
"death" and negative people and negative emotions, then physically the "freeloader
nuisances" dissappear.
Once a person understands that there is a continual "mind battle" occuring to gain
control over ones mind and thoughts, one becomes more determined to win - this is
the battle of "Physical" versus "Spiritual".
Most people who "dont think" for themselves, being easily brainwashed and living a
life like aimlessly wandering sheep, are simply living with someone elses desires and
thoughts, who have a power and control over their thoughts to channel one to make
actions.
Like the famous "pavlov dog" experiments, where the scientist got the dogs to act
when he gave them a sign, like people who watch TV at certain times, when the TV
companies put the programs on, to prevent people using the evenings after work,
usefully and productively, instead they create a false addiction to get people to sit
down and watch TV - what a waste of a life !
Once a person learns to understand the inherent power within ones mind and
thoughts, it becomes easy to "win mind battles" as one is ON GUARD to protect the
most precious gift we have all been blessed with by GOD - our mind, thoughts and
soul !
The Secret "Key" of "Protection"
This "key" to protection is YOU ! Your control over your mind and thoughts.
Whoever manages to place the images that affect your emotional responses in your
mind, has the influence over your mind and soul.
If YOU are the one in control, and you are able to be CLOSED to negative influences
then you have the power to PROTECT yourself with the power of prayer, guardian
angels and the spiritual strength of your soul.
If one gives away the power to allow other people and influences have control over
your actions, then you are "throwing" away your life energy and opportunities for
success, and losing so much life energy by Transference.
This exercise of "taking" control of ones mind takes time, but the first step is to
recognise these spiritual facts of life, then one can succeed with ones life, instead of
listening or being "brainwashed" by the TV, media, and other "deadly" destructive
and hateful people such as religious fanatic groups !

The sign for you to know who is good or not is, ANYONE who is hateful and
destructive CANNOT be loving, compassionate and spiritual ! Use the power of your
mind and soul to think positive, loving and constructive thoughts of life. Focus of the
happy events of ones life, learn to smile and THANK GOD for the gift of life.
GOD has blessed you with your unique soul, using it wisely will make YOU feel
fulfilled as one is fulfilling ones purpose of service to GOD and Spirit World.

How to have "closure" ... ""


The purpose of learning how to have "closure" from certain situations, is in order that
we learn how to take control of our thoughts and actions. Most people for 90% of the
time are living "other peoples" lives . We are all doing things that either other people
expect us to do, force us to do, or if we are in a state of "neutral", open to any kind of
influence and "brainwashing", then we are living life like an aimlessly wandering
sheep. Most people for only 60 mins every day actually have control of their mind
and thoughts. The most successful creative, individualistic, good people, retain focus
of their mind and thoughts for all the time they are awake.
The lesson to learn "closure" is to take control of ones soul, that is to learn to have
complete control over ones mind and thoughts. Only allowing in thoughts and
influences that will help to create a purposeful loving life in completing the purpose
ones soul came to earth.
All sensitive souls and most people are continually losing focus of their lives and
getting side-tracked by loss through "transference", that is they are continually
interacting with people who are "stealing" their energy, pulling on their souls to "get
carried along" with someone else's wishes and desires, hence this causes "blockages"
and blocks success by transference in their lives.
Until it comes - that moment in a persons life ( usually "mid-life crisis" as discussed
on the "stages of change" page) when one wakes up and recognizes that one has been
living "other peoples" lives and fulfilling their wishes. At this time one usually needs
to learn "CLOSURE" from all the negatively draining influences of their past, in
order to take control and sort out ones own life, to enable a successful transformation
of ones character.
By learning control of ones mind, learning the way ones body and soul is constantly
interacting, transferring and "draining" energy from ones soul this will enable a
person to have closure and clearance of the negative influences, "other peoples
baggage" and even the past mistakes from this lifetime and previous lifetimes.

After having closure, a spiritual release of negative emotions and "other peoples
trash", will happen automatically. One will then start to LIVE a vibrant lively, loving,
creative life of ones own personal destiny of ones soul. Instead of being drained by
collective mistakes of other people. This page of "CLOSURE" is probably the most
important first step in clearing the past and is taken entirely from Sefer HaNefesh and Sefer Shinuyim - Book of Change .

"Closure"
On this page we shall explain the following points:
#1. The 3 types of people : the good, bad and "in-between" easily influenced,
explaining why we attract into our lives difficult people and abusively draining
situations, and conversely show how we use this same method to attract in good
situations.
#2. The physical senses: sight, smell, touch, taste, hear, speech and how to have
complete "closure" physically.
#3. The 14 physical entry and exit points of "spiritual energy" into and out of ones
body and soul, being aware of the specific energies of each of these places in ones
body enables and empowers a person to control the "leakages" and draining, hence
using ones physical body to gain the first step in a spiritual closure.
#4. Learning to coordinate and "THINK" specific thoughts of "closure" in ones mind,
in order to complete the closure of emotional attachments to the draining situation,
simultaneously to making the physical gestures of "closure".
#5. The Final act of "closure" as taught from King Solomon in Proverbs and
explained in Sefer Shinuyim "the book of changes".

1. The 3 groups of people


"The Good"
This group of people have learnt to be in control of their mind and thoughts, they
interact, transfer energy and create loving energy with other good people. They have
a motivation of selfless service and desire to make this world a better place.
Their only desire is to do good, be kind, loving, compassionate and they exude an
energy that influences others to be good by example. They NEVER force their

opinions upon anyone. A true good spiritual leader radiates a glow of loving kindness
and happiness that impresses other people to want to emulate their kind and soft
spoken nature.
"The Bad"
This group of people are rotten and evil, their souls have been corrupted and their
intentions are focused to destroy as many peoples lives as possible. They use force,
aggression, anger, money, sex and other forms of intimidation to influence others.
They force themselves and their attitudes upon others, they could even be "religious"
rabbis, "brainwashed" fanatics, clics, cults and groups of people that only look after
"their own kind". Spiritually no-one has the right to interfere with anyone else's life,
especially with silly man-made laws which have nothing to do with the spirituality of
true service and belief in GOD.
This "bad" group may use money, the love of money and wealth to corrupt peoples
lives, and even think that they "own" other peoples lives forcing them to become
corrupt too! For example, in the legal profession today, which is full of deceit and
lies, in court they lie regularly, to protect their clients. As everyone knows in every
legal debate there are 3 sides to every case, the 2 peoples sides and the truth! Many
good, idealistic young lawyers are often corrupted by their piers and employers to lie,
falling into the trap of legitimizing their lies and deceit!
In our generation, the "bad" group regularly use emotional fears of not being "good
enough" and use the "sexual desire" of lust to influence people, into doing things or
buying things they do not need to make their lives any better, or simply encouraging
wasteful acts of self destruction.
Inherently this group of "bad" people focus their thoughts on stealing energy from the
next group of "non thinking" and "in-between" people, who are easily influenced.
The "in-between" & easily influenced
The "in-between" group, the "easily influenced" who oscillate from being really good
to bad. Depending on where they are and what they are doing, and with whom they
are connected with, will influence their mind and actions to either be good or bad.
They are simply not in control of what they allow into their mind and soul, and are
easily led astray like aimlessly wandering sheep.
This page is written for the "in between" group. Once a person becomes aware of
how they are losing so much of their souls energy by "transference", in that they
"allow in" the "trash" into their mind in exchange for the good energy of their soul,

once they recognize the sources of draining energy, they will find it easy to have
"closure".
Learning control and being careful of the minds interactions of thought energy will
inevitably transform the person into a really good individual person with a purposeful
loving, happy and creative constructive life, of ones own independent destiny, hence
will stop one from being carried along with "other peoples" lives.
Who are your friends ?
...
A mirror reflects a man's face, but what he is really like is shown by the kind of
friends he chooses. [Proverbs 27:19]
DON'T RUN WITH THE WRONG CROWD. Proverbs Chapter 27 Verse 19 "A
mirror reflects a man's face, but what he is really like is shown by the kind of friends
he chooses."
As in water (that means as in a mirror) a face reflects a face (you see your own face
in the water) so the heart of man to man. In other words, just as we see ourselves in
the water, we associate with people whose hearts and attitudes and spirits reflect our
own. That's just another way of saying, birds of a feather flock together. Whoever is
in your life, is there as a reflection of you and your character.
If one has untrustworthy and dishonest friends or acquaintances, this reflects
something about oneself ! They are there as reflections of ones inner character. Once
a person changes then those difficult people or abusively draining situations will
disappear.
Whatever "faults" you find in others
are simply a reflection of YOUR faults !
...
"The thing one criticizes and finds fault in others, is the exact thing one needs to
correct oneself" (Talmud Kiddushin)
Usually those people who are always complaining about their lives and criticizing
other people are the ones with the worst characters. As we learnt on the "THANK
YOU" page, there are indicative signs indicating a "bad persons" life and a
"complaining character", just like the generation of complaining jews forced to
wander in circles for 40 years in the wilderness for being so ungrateful to GOD and
Moshe.

It is always remarkable that the most creative, sincere, kind, good and honest people
always get falsely criticized and accused by "empty" noise making people ! And yet
these good people will never reply to any criticism, as they know that the people
criticizing and trying to destructively negate their goodness are simply reflecting all
the qualities wrong with themselves.
Very often during divorces, scandals or arguments over money, there will always be
one side who lies and the other side who keeps quiet, and does not stoop to even
answer the false allegations. As everyone knows the saying from the Talmud "Empty
vessels makes most noise" and "The thing one criticizes and finds fault in others, is
the exact thing one needs to correct oneself".
The people making the false allegations are simply reflecting their own bad character.
But are trying to accuse the other side in an attempt to divert the energy from
themselves by "giving away" their bad character by "transference" to the innocent
and good. The lesson in "closure" and refusal to loose ones soul identity and energy
by "transference", will ensure one succeeds to retain ones integrity, honesty, and
goodness of ones soul even when falsely accused by rotten people.
As we shall learn on this page, and on "Life of Compassion" one will develop a
character, not to criticize other people. There is no need to talk about, slander or
criticize anyone destructively, this is not the purpose of your life or your soul. You are
here in this world to perfect your soul and your own character.
By "getting involved" and finding faults in others, only wastes and diverts ones souls
energy, which creates more sadness, blocks and Depression. "Getting involved"
causes blockages in ones life, and only leads to a bad connections with the wrong sort
of people, creating links which causes continual "loss by transference".
Why do other people disturb and bother you ?
There are 3 reasons why a person is "disturbed", annoyed and agitated by other
people:Firstly, these people are reflecting something that is wrong with you. Therefore you
are seeing yourself in them and this disturbs you ! The solution is simple, identify to
yourself the real reason why they disturb you and how this reflects your character,
then CHANGE YOURSELF. Once YOU change, they will stop bothering you and
the situation will automatically go away and will stop bothering you.
Secondly, in acts of loss by "transference" energy, you maybe living someone else's
life, because of your continual "open" interaction of your mind and soul to their
influences, this bothers you so much, because you feel someone else is continually

living your life and even "stealing" your life and destiny, and hence you feel you
don't have a "life of your own".
The solution is simply to learn to cancel out loss by "transference", protect oneself
from being "open" to draining influences and stop "getting involved" in other peoples
business and lives that have nothing to do with you, your destiny or your life. (And
then learn "closure" in ones mind, soul, and stop the leakages of your good spiritual
energy from the 14 spiritual sensitive points in your body, as we teach later on this
page).
By understanding and acknowledging that "its their problem", "its someone else's
life" and has nothing to do with you, helps one disconnect "mentally" with these
wrong associations and draining links which are blocking your life.
Thirdly, a person is disturbed and irritated because someone has told them the truth of
the flaws in their character. Usually, when people see others who are arrogant and
"wrong" they don't bother interacting or wasting anytime or effort on arguing with
them, they simply ignore and have closure from such "draining" type of people.
Nonetheless from time to time, it becomes necessary to actually verbalize to the
indignant and arrogant person their "bad" attitude. They immediately resent this as
no-one has ever stood up to these "bullies", and they then proceed with a lifelong
campaign of hate, destruction and even violence to try and destroy the good persons
life.
On this page we shall explain the lessons of "closure", that it is simply not worth the
wasted effort to "get involved" with such horrible people. On the page of Protection
and Sensitive souls we explain how to avoid these people and never to allow them to
disturb you peace of mind, your inner peace in your soul or your LOVE of GOD
which brings you peace, tranquility and happiness in your life that these lesser "bad"
people have become jealous of your good soul and spiritual good fortune.

"Don't Connect with Wicked People and Don't be Jealous of Cheats and Liars"
One major reason why we stay attached in our mind and thoughts is because of our
negative emotions of hatred, bitterness, resentment and jealousy. The ideal "closure"
is to learn to "let go" of the situation and take the "i don't care attitude", neither love
nor hate, the simple " it doesn't bother me" attitude, with no emotional energy
whatsoever, neither love nor hate, always works for closure !!!

Every connection a person has in this life is a reflection of their own character, if one
feels uneasy inside and not at peace with oneself with the liaisons one has, then this is
a sign one needs to learn to CHANGE oneself.

2. The physical senses: sight, smell, touch, taste, hear, speech, and how to have
complete "closure" physically.
As we explained on the "Health & Diet" page, the physical body is simply a
reflection of ones soul. By understanding the physical body we can explain the mind
and soul. We introduce the concept of "closure" from a purely physical understanding
before we explain in section 3 the interaction and concepts of physical & spiritual
closure.
Our physical body is constantly interacting and transferring energy with everything
and everyone. We have senses that receive the energy and either feel energized or
drained.
If we like and enjoy the energy we send a subconscious message to our mind and soul
to stay "OPEN" to continue receiving such energies. However, if we dislike or feel
drained by such energies we send a message to be "CLOSED" to such energies.
The
Senses
Sight
Smell
Touch
Taste
Hearing
Speech

Open

Closure

Open eyes
Inhale through ones
nose
Touch
Open ones mouth
Listen
Talk and
communicate

Close eyes, turn your eyes away, no eye contact


Pinch ones nose and don't breath in !
Don't touch or connect, even run away !
Close ones mouth
Don't listen, place your fingers in your ears and ignore them !
Keep "Shtum"! Don't talk, don't even waste ones breath of life and
energy talking to someone draining !

From the simplified chart above, one will have more energy in gaining closure if one
VERBALSISES displeasure and a need for closure. For example, if dislikes a food
one eats and says "UGH - this is disgusting!" a stronger message is received to ones
mind and soul for closure. If one is physically sick from that food, (especially
children), then one will never eat that food again !
Similarly, if one enters someone's house which is smelly, even if one holds ones nose
and gets out quickly, the impression made on ones mind is NEVER to go back !

Likewise if one dislikes the way someone looks, or sees something disgusting, one
will always never make eye-contact with that person or ugliness. This is human
nature, only to be open to something that pleases the mind. (As we have explained in
the "brainwashing cycle" page). These are all instincts which our physical body
learns at a young age, however, some emotions, situations that need to have closure,
especially if one has abusive parents, these remain engrained in ones mind, until they
are dealt with in a "minds clearance" and spiritual closure, usually much later on in
life, during a contemplative mid-life crisis!

3. The physical entry and exit points of "Spiritual Energy" into and out of ones body
and soul.
Our physical body has 14 specific and exceedingly sensitive parts that need the
utmost of care and protection in order to ensure good physical health and spiritual
strength. These 14 points are points of entry and exit of both physical and spiritual
energies from our body.
Naturally all parts of our body are open and sensitive, all over our skin there are
millions of small holes/pores that allow a flow of interaction and transference of
energy with the physical and spiritual world. The country, city, house and room where
our physical body is has an affect and interacts energies with our soul. This does so
by receiving and emitting energy from our soul through these 14 sensitive points.
These main entry and exit points are the 14 "super sensitive" points that need our
utmost attention . They also continually need our mind and thoughts to control the
energy flow at these crucial points, otherwise we will find ourselves being "open" and
"drained" inexplicably. By focusing and mastering the flow of energy at these 14
points, we will find ourselves strengthened and considerably more in "control" of our
mind, spirit soul and then able to follow our own "destined pathway" of spiritual
fulfillment, instead of being drained by other freeloaders who are stealing our souls
energy from these points.
The 14 "super sensitive" spiritual and physical "entry and exit" points.

1. Right Eye

2. Left Eye

3. Right Ear

4. Left Ear

5. Right Nostril

6. Left Nostril

7. Mouth
8. "Belly Button"
9. Sexual Organ

10. Anus

11. Right Hand

12. Left Hand

13. Right Foot

14. Left Foot

In this section we shall explain how to be open and closed at each of these 14
spiritually sensitive points. In the book Sefer HaNefesh "The book of the Soul" by
Reb Shem Tov Ibn Yosef Falaq'ira, he explains that most people act instinctively to
have "Closure" at these spiritually sensitive points just like a child. However, as a
person grows and develops a higher level of spiritual awareness and sensitivity it now
becomes necessary to THINK before putting into action a "CLOSURE" at these 14
specific points.
The Right and the Left
The RIGHT hand side of our physical body reflects LOGIC, FACTS and ACTUAL
PHYSICAL REALITY.
The LEFT hand side of our physical body reflects EMOTIONS, MIND, THOUGHT,
DESIRES and the FUTURE which we would like to happen.
These facts are important to know when understanding the following 14 spiritually
sensitive points in our body. We also suggest that as you read the explanations below
you try doing some physical exercises yourself, like standing on your right foot and
then stand on your left foot, clenching your right fist and then clenching your left fist
and then clench both fists, close the right nostril close the left nostril and then close
both nostrils , etc., and actually feel the difference yourself. As we shall explain in the
separate paragraphs below. The purpose of explaining these very important "closure"
techniques is so that a person rises their spiritual awareness that ones body is a
reflection of ones soul, and must therefore be treated and guarded with dignity and
respect.

1. Right Eye & 2. Left Eye


The eyes are the windows into your soul, everything your eyes see makes an
impression upon your soul. Most images carry very little energy, the images that
carry the most energy of those images that have emotions and emotional energy of
love or hate attached to them.
CLOSURE :- Keeping ones eyes closed ! However that is not always practical ! The
best CLOSURE technique with ones eyes is to always LOOK DOWN , NEVER
MAKE EYE CONTACT and keep ones eyelids as closed as possible so that one
views with as little eye energy as possible.
OPEN:- Opening ones eyes WIDE and making EYE CONTACT without blinking
and with a smiling and "open" face sends a maximum energy of openness. When one
wants to convey an open energy with ones eyes, one does not even need to speak, if
and ONLY IF one is THINKING happy, positive and loving thoughts. As one is
happy within ones soul this is emitted in the energy and glow in ones eyes.
It is ofcourse much easier for spiritually enlightened people with light coloured eyes that is green and blue eyes to emit a strong soulful energy with their eyes as they are
usually much more open characters than people with dark brown or black eyes - as
explained on our page on Health & Diet.
The strongest contact and connection a person can make without touching another
person is through EYE CONTACT. So learn to control the images one sees and the
energy of ones soul that one emits by learning to control one eyes and eyelids. In the
table below we give a few examples of the movement of ones eyes and the energy
and signal that it emits to other people.

An open wide stare, indicates complete openness and 100% concentration of


mind and thoughts.
A continual slow blinking, indicates a lack of interest and almost about to
fall asleep !
A wink with the right eye, indicates the person is closing the right eye of
logic and leaving open the left eye of emotions . A romantic sign of love,
friendship and emotional attachment.

A very fast blinking eye, indicates either a silly and jovial nature or someone
who wants to have closure from a situation, doesn't like what they see and
keeps checking quickly to see if the image has gone away!

Only blinking occasionally yet a quick blink, indicates full concentration on


a subject, the occasional quick blink indicates a pause in absorbing and
thinking about the image, but not wanting to loose focus.
A stare with a long blink, indicates a person who is in control with their
mind and thoughts, they are bored and unhappy with what they see, their
eyes give the impression they are thinking of something else, somewhere
else in their mind, the long blink shows disapproval at the image and a wish
it would go away!

The best way to THINK and connect spiritually CLOSE ONES EYES
The physical eyes connect our soul to the physical world through the images it sees.
For example if we look at the News items, especially tragic news which makes us
feel open and emotional, we actually feel as if we are there. Hence the reason why so
many people naturally and instinctively CLOSE THEIR EYES, when they need to
concentrate their thoughts.
For people who suffer from lack of concentration it has an unbelievable affect if they
CLOSE THEIR EYES for 3 MINUTES. Try it now and see, STOP everything you
are doing and close your eyes even for 10 seconds whilst sitting infront of the
computer ! wow ! see and feel the difference ! When one reopens ones eyes,
automatically one feels recharged, more alert and alive.
In the same way a person closes their eyes to go to sleep for a recharge or energy,
many people find a similar recharge of their souls energy, if they close their eyes for 5
mins during the daytime. This helps to settle and calm ones mind, thoughts and soul,
ensuring that one can think and remain focused on ones purpose in life and not "get
involved" with other peoples business and interaction of draining energies.
It is well accepted that when one prays with ones eyes closed it has a very strong
affect, as this closes out the physical world and helps one to connect spiritually.
Likewise public speakers and musicians often close their eyes to concentrate their full
soulful energy, helping them to remain focused and undisturbed by other peoples
energies in the audience. The reason why so many children and people are nervous

infront of large audiences is they sense and are "open" to some peoples critical and
destructive energies who are willing them to fail, the solution is simple - no eye
contact, and be as "closed" as possible, even close ones eyes if one can.
It is written that on a sunny day, a person feels stronger, this is because the sunshine
is bright and one needs to close ones eyelids and squint to see, this has the affect of
limiting the energy of ones soul being emitted hence a person feels more "closed".
Whereas in the dark or at nighttime when a person needs to open ones eyes wider to
see, then a person is emitting more soulful energy and is more "open" spiritually.

3. Right Ear & 4. Left Ear


Ones EARS are always open. It takes a special action with ones hands and fingers to
CLOSE ones ears to stop interacting, emitting and receiving energy. Listening to very
loud noises disturbs and unsettles the peace and serenity of ones soul, hearing abuse,
gossip, slander, deceit and lies all have an unsettling and disturbing affect on ones
soul. The only way to BLOCK and be "closed" to noises, peoples abusive words and
speech is to cover ones ears with ones hands, or use ones fingers to close the little
flap in front of ones ear hole.

Although seemingly the ear does not look like it emits any energy, it is continually
receiving every single noise wherever we are, it is constantly connected with ones
soul with a special sensitivity to EVERYTHING one hears and occurs wherever one
is situated. It has the power to change ones mood from bad to good and conversely
according to the sounds one hears at each moment.
Hence the tradition of singing when praying (this was specially true in the 1st and
2nd temples when the Levites sung every psalm and prayer) as the melodic songs
have a greater affect on ones soul. Similarly as we explain on the chapter of
Happiness, the power of singing and even humming to oneself has a positive affect to
cancel out any depression and negative emotions.
When one needs 100% "closure" from external influences always cover ones ears and
hum a tune keeping ones mouth closed, ( if one can't cover ones ears then at least
hum a tune!). This has the effect of resonating ones own soul and magnifying ones

own good energy over the negative outside influences that one can hear. Most young
children instinctively do this, when they don't want to listen to anyone - they cover
their ears and hum and tune ! Try this and you will feel a self confidence and strength
of ones soul over and above the external noises!
This method of "closure" was introduced again in jewish life in the time of the
Spanish persecution of Sefardic jews in 1492 and in Chassidic communities of
Poland and Russia during 1800's & 1900's, especially by Lubavitch Rebbes and the
most Famous Rebbe Nachman of Breslov. During the noisy pogroms, he always
covered his ears and hummed a song, this enabled him to remain spiritually closed to
any fears and hatred, hence protecting his soul. (as we explain on the Protection
chapter).
"Cover ones ears and let
the Angels hear ones prayers"
When one closes ones ears, the strength of ones soul is now contained, there are no
leakages! Try whispering, talking or humming a tune when one has ones fingers
closing ones ear holes, one feels the full strength of ones voice and even feels, as
though spiritually ones angels are listening ! This is because, ones soul is "closed" to
the outside physical world, and therefore open spiritually. Try praying whilst closing
and covering ones ears, say a few words in prayer and feel the difference.

5. Right Nostril & 6. Left Nostril


The breath of life and air that we need to survive in this world enters and exits our
physical body through our nose, which is constantly OPEN. Only when the air is so
contaminated. polluted or smelly then we take our fingers to "pinch" our nose close.
Otherwise it remains open.
According to Kabbala the RUACH "Spirit of Life", our souls energy and that energy
of spirit souls that attach themselves to our souls enters through the breath of life.
Therefore, if one ever feels overwhelmed by negative feelings or discomfort, even
spiritual "panic" attacks, then simply TAKE DEEP BREATHES through ones nose.
In fact a person should daily take deep breathes during the day, this helps to exhale
any negative or stressful emotions and always helps to return a state of "peace of
mind" and calmness to ones soul. Try it now take 3 deep breathes through ones nose
and feel the difference, breathe in all the way and then hold the breathe and then let
go of all the negative feelings. This deep breathing acts to cleanse and invigorate the
body, exhaling the negative and stale air from ones lungs and body. Try deep

breathing before one goes to sleep, this will aid a peaceful nights sleep and as one
wakes up in the morning to invigorate the body.
If one finds it difficult to take deep breathes or one has blocked nose, this is a
physical sign that one needs to learn to "unblock" ones emotions within ones spirit
soul. The more stressed a person is, the more difficult it is to take deep breathes, so
take it slowly at first and one will feel better the more one learns to breathe deeply,
restoring calmness to ones body and soul. Once a person can take deep breaths easily
reflects they have reached a state of peace within their soul, and no longer hold onto
any stress or negative emotions !

7. Mouth
In this section teaching spiritual "closure", the mouth is the most important part of
ones physical body that distinguishes us from animals. The power of speech, the self
expression of our individuality of each persons soul. Our ability to control our
speech, the words we say, the way we say them and the loudness, quietness and tone
of our speech identifies the mood and spiritual energy of our soul.
A very powerful person often feels no need to shout, in fact the more truly powerful
spiritual person often speaks soft-spoken and very quietly, with a tremendous dignity
and respect of value of every word they say. Those people who shout and are loud
often carry no true energy, so no one really listens to them as their words have no
energy from their soul, as they are weak spiritually. (We explained on the page of
spirit & guidance the power of ones soul and speech reflects ones soul, ones ability to
connect to ones guardian angels and have ones prayers answered).
Sefer Shinuyim, "the Book of Changes", in the introduction explains the hebrew
word for TEETH and CHANGE comes from the same word , the importance of
this is to make a person aware, if a person really wants to change then they should
CHANGE THE WAY THEY SPEAK.
Since the energy of ones soul enters and exits through ones mouth in the form of
speech, if a person wishes to be 100% closed with ones mouth then one should keep
ones mouth closed, and clench ones mouth firmly closed by clenching ones teeth
together. The more firmly one holds, keeps and uses all the facial muscles to keep
ones mouth closed, indicates to your body and soul that you want "closure" and no
spiritual or physical draining will now occur through your mouth.
In fact if you are sitting in the peace and quiet on your own, try closing your mouth
and using all your facial muscles to keep your teeth firmly closed, one actually feels
the strength of closure. It really works!

8. Belly Button
This is the knot in ones skin that was originally the umbilical cord, the connection
between an unborn baby and the mother in the womb. This point is the source of
nourishment of energy that we all received in our mothers womb. At birth the cord is
cut and tied to become the "belly button". This area is considered spiritually to
always be a source of energy entering and leaving ones body and soul.
CLOSURE:- usually this area is clothed and covered, if one places ones hand over
ones "belly button" or folds ones arms then this sensitive point becomes closed, and
ones spiritual soul is closed and is not being drained at this point. (Children when
they feel ill, tired or weak instinctively cover their "belly button", having come
recently from the womb they remember and recognize that the source of their souls
energy exits and enters in this place).
It should be noted that in today's"modern fashion", some women expose their "belly
button", this is actually exposing their soul to be drained of any positive energy by
any negative energy, especially energy of "sexual desire" from men who are not
giving them energy but actually taking energy from these women - no wonder some
women feel so drained, tired and have headaches - their souls energy is being drained
from them ! Simple solution is ONLY expose ones belly button to ones soulmate
when making LOVE and no one else !

9. Sexual Organ
Naturally this is different for the male and female. However both have the same
values in common, in that they are both "opened" by an emotional sexual arousal.
This is partly due to the natural, normal and basic "animal instinct" of a male being
attracted to and desiring a female, and a female desiring to be loved and made
wholesome by a male. This is also due to a spiritual connection of two people
"connecting" and "energizing" each other as they both have what the other is lacking.
The need to connect sexually in order to make each other whole, as they are indeed 2
halves of a whole is perfectly normal and natural, as they connect sexually both are
opening themselves to each others soul, and allowing a creative transfer of loving
soulful energy.
However, if they are not each others "soulmates", then this sexual union allows one to
take from the other persons life, soul and destiny, this is especially common with
"loose" women who "sleep around" taking energy from different men, and end up
being totally confused having lost their original identity, as their soul is now a

mixture of several competing souls energies, as they have taken a soulful "identity"
from the men they have been with. This is also true with some men taking from
women's energy, but usually men are much more open and "giving" in sexual
relations than women.
We shall explain the concept of sexual motivational energy at length on the page of
Motivation, that the energy of life on earth is motivated by love and a desire to be
part of creation, the "driving" energy and force of motivation for people to live in this
world is a desire to LOVE and be LOVE, which creates a life giving energy. This
energy is instilled in most people, through the emotions and "sexual" feelings/arousal
of sexual energy.
The sexual organ is directly influenced by the visions one sees with ones eyes, hence
physical and spiritual "CLOSURE" of ones "sexual organ" means controlling ones
EYES and the images it sees, together with controlling ones THOUGHTS not to be
aroused sexually by anyone other than ones soulmate. That is to send a clear message
to ones mind - that one only wants to be aroused be ones soulmate when making love
and NO ONE ELSE.
If a person has become aroused sexually, then they have allowed their soul to be
influenced and an exchange of energy has taken place, as this arousal energy is
"thought energy" it is in the same group as loss by "Transference". If a man or
woman has aroused another person then part of their souls energy is taken by that
person they have aroused.
If this "thought" energy is transferred into a lewd act of wasted sexual energy, and the
object of "fantasy" was not "closed" or aware that they were arousing other people
sexually then they will find themselves inexplicably drained or spiritually "attacked"
by such energies.
We explain the importance of this fully on the Protection page, as the main loss of
energy from a persons soul, especially a loss by "Transference is made when a person
is "open" through sexual arousal of their sexual organ.
The simple solution is to remain as focused and closed as possible, being 100%
careful of the images a person sees which will ensure that a person is not "opened" up
by sexual desires. When a person realizes that they "waste" so much of their souls
energy through acts of "wasted" sexual arousal then a person guards this facet even
more preciously, and in turn one has the positive energy to have wholesome and
regular sexual love-making with ones husband/wife.
If one is not in a relationship, then ones soul becomes ready when one stops wasting
sexual energy from the soul through "acts" of waste, its a simple formula, ones soul
responds to ones actions, when a person stop wasting the souls life energy, a block is

taken away and the life energy of ones destiny that is contained within a persons soul
has the energy and focus to find ones loving perfect soulmate.

10. Anus
The Anus is the place where only faeces is excreted. The most vile, disgusting, smelly
and poisonous excrement the body can produce exits the body here. It is vital to ones
health to keep this "anus" clean by washing regularly. The anus is naturally kept
100% closed except at this moment when waste energy exits.
There is a very important point that, just after one has been to the toilet, and cleared
oneself of this negative waste and sewage. Ones body is actually at a state of its
purest and holiest spiritually.
After one has got rid of this poisonous waste, usually in the morning after a good
nights sleep, one feels very relieved and very "clear- headed", this is because
spiritually ones soul feels clear and pure, having rid itself of this negative waste. This
is indeed the ideal time to pray and think spiritually, it is said in the talmud Bava
Metzia that the greater the person is spiritually the longer they wait to have breakfast
in the morning, as their body feels most spiritual and sensitive after an evacuation of
the bowels, before starts eating in the morning and one puts food into the digestive
system.

11. Right Hand & 12. Left Hand


Please see our "Palmistry" page for an introduction and explanation of the spiritual
strength, power, knowledge and how the destiny of our souls journey in this physical
life is contained within the lines on ones hand.
CLOSURE of ones hand, and a refusal to allow any energy to be wasted or stolen
from ones soul is simply in keeping a firmly closed clenched fist. As ones hands are
also exposed in touching, it is imperative that one always washes ones hands to keep
them clean with a sense of respect and purity for ones soul. When a person washes
and cleanses ones hands it is actually cleansing and washing ones soul.

Position of Hands to be "Focused and Closed"

This is the best way for Prayers, Spiritual Learning, be able to focus ones thoughts
and energies, and being 100% closed to outside influences. As this contains ones
energies of ones soul for oneself, not allowing any space for any negative energy.
As we have learnt that our hands our the external connection between the physical
world and our spiritual soul, hence by closing ones fists, closes ones soul. Or clasping
both hands together also closes ones soul to bad influences. (For those who
understand the Aramaic Gemorra Talmud , please see the source of the Segula of
being closed to bad influences with ones hands on this special web page . )
Praying Hands

Praying with hands as in this picture above was stopped in Europe in the 15th
Century after the christian crusaders had murdered jewish communities on their way
to the Holy Land . The European Rabbis felt that praying with hands as in picture
above would be copying the accepted "christian" way of prayers. Nonetheless the
oriental and sefardic communities of the Moslem / arab countries continued to pray
with their hands.
"Talking with ones hands"
When a person talks, the "body language" as one speaks indicates to the listening
person, the degree of sincerity and soulful power of emotion of their words. "Talking

with ones hands" indicates to the listener that one is emotional, honest and wants to
let the other person "feel" the power of the words in their soul.
Try some exercise talking to yourself whilst making movements with your hands,
showing the palms of your hands, turning them sideways, upside down, and even try
talking with a clenched fist. You will see for yourself that each movement of ones
hands coupled with ones speech has its own specific meaning. As one becomes more
spiritually aware of the power of ones soul within ones hands, one will learn that one
can communicate ideas and soulful thoughts to others using the movement of ones
hands.
The best way to convey that one is CLOSED is to talk with a CLENCHED CLOSED
FIST. The best way to convey that one is OPEN is to talk with an OPEN hand ,
SHOWING THE PALMS of ones hand.

13. Right Foot & 14. Left Foot


The foundation and connection of our physical body to the physical earth is through
our feet.
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"A living person carries itself" Talmud Shabbos 94a ( see )
Everyone is aware that a dead person weighs more than a live person. The Talmud,
Rashi and the Maharsha, explain that the soul of a person within the physical body
lifts the body from the earth. A depressed persons body, who has disconnected
themselves spiritually from any emotions of LOVE, happiness or belief in GOD,
feels heavier than a happy contented and spiritually enlightened person.
A sensitive person always has an inner feeling when they simply "know" and "feel"
that everything is going to be fine, this feeling is based on the fact that they feel their
soul within their body lifting and energizing their body into action with a "lightness"
that only comes when a person is connected spiritually.
This feeling is felt most significantly in ones feet, the way and manner a person walks
indicates the energy of ones soul in ones physical body. If one ever steps carefully
over a fragile floor, one knows that one cannot put ones full weight or connection
with the floor, and yet when one walks or even runs in to countryside in a field or in
the garden one firmly and solidly connects one feet with the ground below. The floor
we walk on with our feet directly relates to the energy our feet connects with the
earth. The more solid we are connected the stronger our physical and spiritual

connection our soul in making to this place, the lighter we walk the less connection
we are choosing to make.
Middle Eastern traditions of washing ones feet
From creation through to the time of Abraham and in every generation, there has been
a spiritual importance of cleansing and washing ones feet before prayer . In our
generation especially in a "western cultured" society, the basic spiritual laws are
forgotten and many peoples feet are in awful condition . Certainly NOT a "pretty"
sight to look at, even worse for the odour !
The feet reflects the foundation of ones body and soul
and ones ability to connect both spiritually and physically to this earth.
Take a look at your feet - what condition are they in ?
The remedy is simple, wash them at least TWICE a day in the morning and evening .
If one has dry skin, then use natural cocoa butter to rub into your feet . Give your feet
fresh air - never wear socks in bed ( unless you're in really freezing conditions in the
north pole or camping in Siberia ! ) .
Make sure that you always have the most comfortable pair of shoes. Never wear a
pair of shoes because they "look good" to others, but hurt ones feet ! Such a silly
attitude - reflects ones character .
"CLOSURE" in order to not allow any spiritual energy to be drained from ones feet,
simply keep ones feet washed, cleansed and covered, wear shoes with a solid and
firm soul, and think on the way one walks and is connecting ones feet to the ground
and "mother earth".
There is a spiritual "cleansing " to help people connect their physical body to their
spiritual soul and to earth and the place where one is living and that is to JUMP up
and down, with all ones weight. Or even if one is sitting to stamp ones feet on the
ground ! The feet is the furthest part of ones body from ones head, which contains
ones thoughts from ones soul, and yet by connecting these two extreme parts of our
body helps one to find wholesomeness and continuous connection between the
physical and spiritual worlds.
Summary table
The
Sensitive
Points

Method of "Closure" and prevent draining of spiritual and physical energy

Close eyes, look down, make no eye contact, "squint", opening the eyelids as little
as possible , use the multi faceted "expressions" of ones eyes, eye muscles and
eyelids movements to express ones feelings and opinions of either happiness or
Right & Left
displeasure. Communicating ones thoughts through the energy of ones eyes is
Eyes
almost "telepathy", the highest form of physical communication a person can have
in this world. Learn to control and guard ones eyes from loosing energy of ones
soul.
Covering ones ears , closes the outside draining noises, and helps a person
Right & Left
concentrate all ones souls energy inwards. Ones prayers are heard even more
Ears
intensely when covering ones ears and closing ones eyes .
Usually left open unless one "pinches" ones nostrils close and breathes through ones
Right & Left
mouth. Taking deep breathes through ones nostrils relieves any tension and stress of
Nostrils
negative emotions in spirit of ones soul and in ones body.
Keep ones mouth firmly "closed" , Use ALL ones facial muscles to close as tightly
Mouth
as possible ones mouth and keep ones teeth tight and firmly locked together.
"Belly
Keep covered and place ones hands or folded arms over the belly button area.
Button"
Avoid being aroused for anyone other than ones spouse/soulmate, channel ones
Sexual
thoughts of "sexual" love and arousal for one soulmate and NO ONE else, by
Organ
avoiding eye contact and thoughts of "fantasy" and desires.
Keep healthy and allow regular bowel evacuation, always keep washed and
Anus
cleansed.
"Clenched" fist or "clasp" hands together ensure "closure" of ones souls energy.
Right & Left Learn to "talk with ones hands" to express the emotional intensity of ones soul.
Hands
Using the power of ones soul in ones hands to convey energy and thoughts directly
from ones soul.
Keep ones feet washed. cleansed and free of "rotten" or dead skin. The feet are the
Right & Left foundation and connection of ones physical body to this earth, how one walks
Feet
reflects ones souls willingness to be on earth, and fulfill ones mission of life on
earth.

The 7 purely spiritual points in our body


These points have no physical "opening" points, but they are centers and sources of
physical and spiritual energy. These are the points of significant activity, which
connects our physical body and spiritual soul . (Known amongst "non jewish "
literature as chakras energy points)

1. The Crown On Top of Ones Head


2. The 3rd Eye - The Spiritual Eye
3. The Voice Box in ones Throat
4. The Heart
5. The Solar Plexus - the area just behind
the belley button in the centre of ones
digestive stomach.
6. The Root - Base of the Spine
7. The Sexual Organ
We explain these points fully on the page of "Spiritual Protection", we shall briefly
explain how to have "closure" and be "open" spiritually at these sensitive points in
the table below, and explain "closure" of the Spiritual 3rd Eye.
The spiritual
centres of
energy

Method of being "open" spiritually

Awareness that the DIVINE spiritual


1. The Crown
presence rests at the crown of ones
On Top of Ones
head, and is always receiving spiritual
Head
energy and "thoughts"

Method of "Closure" to prevent


draining of spiritual energy

Cover ones head, or simply place ones


hand ontop of ones head and pray for
protection and closure that no
destructive or negative thoughts be
allowed to get into your mind and soul.
Pray that ones good guardian angels
protect ones "crown".

Whenever a person is happy and "open"


Place ones hand over the place of the
with a sense of Spiritual aliveness with
Spiritual 3rd eye, focus ones thoughts
a TRUST and LOVE of GOD and
in prayer to ask for the 3rd eye to be
LOVE of people, the spiritual 3rd eye is
2. The 3rd Eye closed and protected especially from
then opened, seeing and sensing
The Spiritual
earthbound spirit souls, other peoples
everything. Especially when a person
Eye
negative thoughts and destructive
gets very excited or aroused
energies. Refusing in ones thoughts to
emotionally the 3rd eye opens even
allow any energy to be taken from ones
more to allow a flow of spiritual energy
soul through the 3rd eye.
into and out of ones soul.
3. The Voice
Speaking or singing with emotions,
Keep quiet, keep ones mouth closed,

Box in ones
Throat

thoughts opens this place spiritually,


men have more power in this area than
women, hence the reason why their
words have more force and power.

dont hum or sing to oneself, say


nothing, and cover with ones throat
with ones hands closes all energy from
this point
The "heart" is usually always open, to
either good emotions or negative
emotions. When one has hateful and
destructive emotions, simply CLOSE
ones mind and thoughts by
FOCUSING ones thoughts on LOVE
and compassion.

4. The Heart

For those people who have a "closed


Feeling emotional, whether happiness
heart" and feel no emotions neither
or sadness, anger or love, sexual arousal
good nor bad are in fact called the
or hateful aggression opens the heart
"living DEAD". Every living being on
emotions, even healthy exercise,
earth whom is connected spiritually,
walking or running makes a persons
having a vitality of life with a sense of
heart "beat faster" and "opens" ones
aliveness, always have their "heart"
heart to spiritual energy.
emotions open.
If a person is not emotional ly alive in
their heart then they are in an
"emergency state of deep depression"
or near death, and lack any motivation
to live. Time to change a "wake up" get ones heart beating fast and start to
experience and live life !

5. The Solar
Plexus - the area
around the belly
button, the
centre of ones
digestive
system.
6. The Root Base of the
Spine

Feeling excitement of anticipation,


opens this spiritual sense. This is the
first place to sense something NEW
about to happen, whether good or bad,
if one has "good or bad feelings" in this
area fortells the feelings of anticipation.
The spine contains the flow of energy
from ones brain to the whole of ones
body. The Root of the Spine contains
the energy connecting ones soul, mind
to the nerves of in ones feet, hence ones
foundations and connections to this
physical earth. It also contains the

When feelings of anticipation are


uncomfortable , simply place ones
hands over the "Belly button and fold
ones arms, refusing to allow any
transference of energy into ones soul.
Being "closed" in this area and
preventing a life flow can indeed be
done by bending the curvature of ones
back. Walking with ones eyes down,
head facing the ground and back
curved in "humility" helps to keep one

energy to connect as a flow of creative


life energy to ones sexual organs.
This is usually open, however for
lethargically lazy people that are
lacking "lifes energy", who sit
"slouched" in the wrong type of chair,
are indeed blocking the flow of life
energy.
Simply learn to sit up or stand up
straight, so that one spine allows a
comfortable flow of energy from ones
head to the base of ones spine.

"closed".

When people feel dizzy, Dr's advise,


sitting down placing ones head
between ones knees, (which bends ones
back) and relax, after a few minutes
one then feels "closed" and stops
panicking or feeling drained as one has
become "closed"

To become closed one can also place


ones hands firmly at the base of ones
back and STRETCH ones back and
When one feels "tired" or depressed,
spine, even lean backwards - this will
place ones hands firmly at the base of
automatically bring an openess and
ones back and try STRETCHING ones
flow of life energy to this area. THEN
back and spine, even lean backwards PRAY, verbalise and focus ones
this will automatically bring an openess
thoughts on having "closure" to any
and flow of life energy to this area.
draining or negative feelings, whilst
remaining open and connected to the
This is the natural position of a man
when making love, (ontop of a woman), life flowing physical and spiritual
has his back stretched which allows a energy.
natural life giving energy to flow
through his body.

7. The Sexual
Organ

This area of energy is opened, when a


person sees and connects their thoughts
with an object of natural lustful desire.
This is perfectly normal for every adult
man and woman to be attracted to each
other sexually. The challenge of life is
to channel this sexual energy to ones
soulmate ONLY at the appropriate time
for a desire to create life and flow of
creative loving energy.

If one is NOT with ones soulmate then


a person needs "closure" to quell ones
desire.
The sexual organ is completely
controlled by ones mind and thoughts.
To have "closure" one must simply
relay the message to ones mind, soul
and thoughts "that now is NOT the
appropriate time or person", and that
one is saving the energy and emotions
for a truly loving creative relationship
ONLY with ones destined soulmate.

The 3rd Eye - The Spiritual Eye


Please read our webpage we called Space Cleansing and Clearing - "Feng Shui" , and
the page "Rescue work" which explains how the Spiritual 3rd eye senses, receives
and emits SPIRITUAL energy.
The concept of the Spiritual 3rd eye .
Images of our THIRD eye appear everywhere, even on a keyring ! The Spiritual 3rd
Eye is actually positioned between ones physical eyes and slightly above the
eyebrows in the centre.

Even on a one dollar bill from the USA - a "3rd eye" on top of the pyramid,
whilst there is a star of David on the other side ontop of the eagle, interesting?

THE THIRD EYE

Your eyes are the windows of your soul, whatever you see through your physical eyes
makes an impression upon you, it affects your judgement and probably all your
decisions are made on the basis of what you see .
As i explained in the article on re-incarnation from Reb Chaim Vital that our soul
transcends into our physical body at various stages of our life . Once we have arrived
at the level where our Third Eye is opened, although we may not see anything
physically , we nontheless are SEEING things spiritually . The 3rd eye is known
according to kabbala to be in between ones normal eyes , as the picture above .
Your Physical eyes see but your 3rd eye senses spirit and all the spiritual energy
Ever had the feeling when you look at something, it feels great or appauling, these
senses are from your spiritual 3rd eye on a spiritual level. Hence, being careful what
you are facing and looking at is exceedingly important, as your spiritual soul is
looking through your third eye . That is why in Jewish law (and in many religions
such as muslem according to the Koran) it is forbidden to read any holy books in a
place where obscenities and filth can be seen, even if you turn your eyes away - this
does not help, as your THIRD EYE sees and senses everything .
ALWAYS BE AWARE THAT YOUR THIRD EYE SEES AND SENSE
EVERYTHING ....
Closure and Protection of ones Spiritual 3rd Eye

To have Spiritual "Closure" of ones 3rd Eye, simply place ones hand over the place of
the Spiritual 3rd eye, focus ones thoughts in prayer to ask for the 3rd eye to be closed
and protected especially from earthbound spirit souls, other peoples negative thoughts
and destructive energies. Refusing in ones mind and thoughts, to allow any energy to
be taken from ones soul through the 3rd eye. It is well known that many spiritually
senstive Rabbis when in public, need to protect their 3rd eye, as in the Photo above of
the famous Bobover Rebbe.
Headaches are "Spiritual Attacks"

Please see our Health page regarding Migraine attacks for sensitive souls

4. Learning to coordinate and "THINK" specific thoughts of "closure" in ones mind,


simultaneously to making the physical gestures of "closure".
Simultaneously to making the physical movements to have "closure" one needs to
focus ones thoughts to have a mental "closure" on the situation. This is simply done
with 3 thoughts, assess and accept that the situation is no longer acceptable, verbalise
a desire to have "closure" and "detach" oneself emotionally.
(a) Assess honestly the situation, and DECIDE that the situation is
UNACCEPTABLE and now has become unneccessary to remain in ones life. This
decision must be taken honestly to ascertain the fact with the underlining questions :"DO I NEED THIS SITUATION FOR THE SPIRITUAL GROWTH AND
DEVELOPEMENT OF MY SOUL?" - "NO" - "THEREFORE I AM NOW
LETTING GO", and say to oneself "I release the need for this situation to be in my
life, it is draining me spiritually and therefore abusing my soul, i am now having
closure on this situation"
Be focused in ones mind that this "draining" situation is no longer needed in ones
life, as one has changed, learnt the lessons. This situation was part of ones past and
not going to be part of ones future.

(b) Verbalise:- once a situation has become "unacceptable" and one needs "closure"
use the power of speech to admit honestly that one no longer wants this situation in
ones life. By verbalising and praying that there is no longer a need for this "draining"
situation, one is affirming that one is starting the process of "releasing" any
connections.
Affirmations such as "I am ready to walk away and let go of anything to do with this
draining situation", "being connected to this situation is dangerous for my soul, i am
wishing to save my life and soul by detaching myself from this abusive situation" , "i
am being as closed as possible physically and spiritually to this draining person or
situation", " this situation has nothing to do with me ", "this situation is not my
destiny, my soul does not belong here ", etc., within a short time of affirming, ones
soul starts to let go of all the energy of attachment, and as doors close other doors
open.

Therefore, when one prays and say " i want closure from this draining situation,
which is wrong for my soul" and one says this with a clenched closed fist and closed
eyes, one will find a tremendously good energy in successfully having "closure".
Often, when a person is in the "wrong" situation for their soul, one feels agitated that
one has no personal power or control over ones life. This is because there is an
overlapping and attachment one has made to "connect" unnecessarily to other people.
The easiest way to STOP this connection is to learn "closure".
Affirm to oneself - "I no longer wish to connect with other peoples lives who have
nothing to do with me, i am therefore no longer going to interfere with their lives or
destiny, therefore they have no right or permission to interfere with my life and
destiny".
When a person realises that one is really in control, and by having closure and
REFUSING TO INTERFERE and GET INVOLVED with other peoples lives, this
will STOP them from interfering and getting involved with ones life. The loss of ones
souls energy to other people by "transference",automatically stops and one has
managed to unblock ones destiny by "closure".
Remember, that if someone is interfering unnecessarily in your life, this is a sign that
you are interfering in someone elses life unnecessarily, learn "closure" by detaching
oneself from other people, refuse to "get involved", take the "i dont care attitude" ,
"its nothing to do with me, my life and my destiny" and automatically these
unnecessary irritable events and people dissappear "magically" from ones life. They
simply stop bothering you as you have succeeded to develope your spirituality and
changed !

(c) Learn to detach oneself mentally and emotionally from the draining and
unacceptable situation, learn to take the "i don't care" attitude, learn forgiveness and
"let go" which helps to sever all links. If one retains any kind of emotion, especially
hate, jealousy and any negative emotions, these feelings CONNECT and BIND a
person to the situation even stronger.
Many people make a mistake in "running away" from difficult situations, in an escape
of avoidance to "confront and deal with" the underlying spiritual lessons and
problems the situation has presented t ones soul. These people will probably continue
such a pattern in life, until the STOP running away and deal with the emotional issues
in their mind and soul. Once one clears the negative emotions and detaches ones
mind and thoughts completely from the abusively draining situation or person, one
will feel enlightened in ones soul and free to live with any negative emotions.

Learn to detach oneself by taking the "i dont care" attitude, wishing the other people
one is trying to detach from all the good luck in the world, but desiring not to "get
involved" in their lives no longer, this means a person needs to develope the "closure"
and a sense of "no emotions" at all towards the person or situation.
In our generation many divorced people wonder why they cannot find love after
having a failed relationship, that is because they have not "divorced" themselves
emotionally in their mind, they still hold hatred, bitterness and resentment towards
their ex -lovers, ex -husband/wife.
It is always wise to take the "i dont care whatever happens to them!" - attitude of
mind, accepting the failed and wrongful relationship was simply not ones destiny. If
one does not "let go" emotionally one becomes rigid, cold, unloving, very bitter and
hateful in life, closing any emotions of LOVE. If one closes emotions of LOVE, then
one is detaching oneself from the creative life energy of this world GOD whom is
LOVE.
This principle applies to everyone whom is seeking a loving life, as one cannot be a
spiritual person with a creative life energy of LOVE and attached to GOD, if one has
any hatred emotions, hatred is indeed DEATH . So learn to be loving and
compassionate and ones life will be full of love and peace of mind.

The Secret "Key" to Succeed in "Closure"


After learning about "Destiny" and loss by "transference", one then gets a firm belief
and understanding that one has ones own life and destiny to fulfill, instead of being
"carried along" like sheep in a flock, with "other peoples" lives. Most people only
"wake-up" to this fact during the midlifecrisis, when they honestly analyse "where
did they go wrong?", "what signs in their life did they not listen to?" and "how can
they get themselves on their true life destined pathway?".
Once a person understands 100% that it is wrong to interact or take someone elses
life and destiny, then one becomes more committed to finding ones own purpose and
destiny in life. The secret "key" to succeed in gaining "closure" is simply to
acknowledge to GOD and Spirit world HONESTLY, that one is no longer wishing to
live "someone" elses life. Then automatically, the doorway of knowledge is opened,
spiritual guidance is given and "magically" Divine coincedences open closed doors,
once and only once a person has had "closure" on the wrongful past !

5. The Final Act of "closure" as taught from King Solomon in Proverbs and explained
in Sefer Shinuyim ("the book of changes").
As we explained in the page Loss by "Transference" everyone is interacting and
continually exchanging and creating energy through the connections with other
people. With good people we associate with, we create a life energy through love and
compassion, through the "negative" connections our souls feel drained.
Whenever two people interact, they exchange energy, in every transaction their is an
agreed transfer of energy. The reason why thought energy of "Transference" is not a
valid transaction is that one side can cancel out the energy ny cancelling out the
thought energy that occured in the past.
There is a specific transaction that also connects people spiritually and that is in a
"gift". Where one person gives a physical object and the recipient is giving nothing
physical in return at that moment. This is either for 2 reasons, the gift is a "thank you"
gift for something that has happend in the past, and the giver felt obliged to give a
gift out of appreciation and wishing to cancel out any "debt" of energy. Or a person is
giving a gift for a future favour they are planning to make. In either case, the energy
of the gift either connects these two people for the future or disconnects from the
past.
" " - "One of hates gifts - will live"
Proverbs Chapter 15 verse 27
The reason King Solomon made this spiritual statement is to WARN everyone to be
careful with whom they have connections, and to be very cautious in accepting gifts.
Especially if they dont know what is going to be requested of them in the future, in
accepting a gift now in return for a favour that will be hard to refuse in the future.
The Secret "Key" to Succeed in
a Final Act of "Closure"
Sefer Shinuyim - The book of Changes teaches that when a person wants to finalise a
divorce or conclude a transaction of any kind, or a disconnection of any kind, as a
final act - a payment of money or a physical object is given.
"Paying to disconnect and get someone out of your life"
In connecting / disconnecting with someone by a present, this must be a present that
they will definately want, as they must become immediately attached and not throw
the gift away. Therefore a present of money is the best gift to enable a disconnection

and closure, as every materialistic non-spiritual person loves money - cash. If the
giver has thoughts that they are giving the money to the person in order to
DISCONNECT completely from them, then they will actually succeed in
"CLOSURE" completely.
This is provided the person does not return the gift or money, but as we know most
selfish or greedy materialistic people will never return money !
This is very significant in the act of "divorce" that the man gives the woman money
to get her out of his life, if the man resents giving money or if the woman has been
manipulatively deceitful in the divorce, then this "disconnection" money will act to
keep them "connected", until they learn spiritually to "let go" and have "closure".
Similarly if a person has given "presents" to boyfriend/girlfriend, this energy of the
"presents" will keep them connected, so in order to "move on" and have "closure" give the presents back, return the energy or throw the gifts away.
Even if they move onto new relationships, so long as they have "money" that
connects their past relationship then this energy will connect the recipient to the old
relationship. Full and final "closure" means complete disconnection with a gift of
money with the spiritual thoughts of final "closure" ALWAYS works in accordance
with the spiritual laws of transference of energy.
Pray for their soul - The highest form of "disconnection"and forgiveness.
A higher level of "closure" and disconnection as we shall teach on the page of Life of
Compassion is to pray for those people who have done one "injustice, damage and
hurt", by praying sincerely for their soul, that they should find a spiritually loving
pathway in life, instead of having a selfish destructive life, which is only causing hurt
to others and to their own soul, is actually GIVING them the best gift of all. This
prayer of compassion together with forgiveness for the hurt and damage of the past,
helps ones soul to be disengaged from any unnecessary draining attachment to their
soul.
When all the doors of the past are closed then...

The Doorway of Enlightement Opens


For a Loving and Compassionate Spiritual Life.
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"The Pathway to enlightenment"
This page is part of our new second section called "THE PATHWAY" taken from
Sefer Shinuyim - Book of Change and Sefer Tikunim - The book of Corrections, this
section explains with a small key of knowledge, one will have the ability to transform
and change ones thoughts and heal ones soul. This is the reason every person came to
this earth - to CHANGE.
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Sefer Hanesh by Reb Shem Tov Ben Yosef Falaq'ira
The specific knowledge on this page with respect to the "senses" and closure has been
taken from the famous 13th century book Sefer HaNefesh - - a Kabbala
book by Reb Shem Tov Ibn Yosef Falaq'ira.
Sefer HaNefesh - is a book by Reb Shem Tov Ibn Yosef Falaq'ira ( lived in
the area of French Spanish border in 13th century, please see here for full history and
explanation of alll his writings in English ) . One of the most profilic Sefardic
spiritual writers, see here for more of his seforim available online . The book explains
clearly the relationship between the soul, the levels of energy within the soul , and the
direct relationship with every part of our body . Especially focusing on the bodily
senses of sight, sound, touch, taste, smell and how these directly affect the level of

soul known as "Nefesh" . The book continues to explain the level of "RUACH" - "the
breathe of life" - spirit through the power of speech, relating the power of speech and
physical bodily senses together to bring healing to the SOUL .

"Who are You ? Your Personal Identity"


In understanding whom you are and the identity of whom you may have been in past
lives, Reb Chaim Vital explains that one first needs to inspect whether or not ones "Soul
- Neshoma" is actually within your physical existence. Only if one has ones "SoulNeshoma" attached to ones physical existence then one has individuality and identity.
However, if one has been so influenced by everything and everyone, then more-thanlikely one is void of ones Neshoma Soul and only has ones Nefesh Soul. If that is the
case then one is simply a mixed-up package made up of the total sum of ones
experiences in ones life, all the influences that have overlapped and smothered ones
inner true identity, which act to push away ones "Soul-Neshoma" individuality.
At this point or at any point in ones life when one feels one has "lost" ones identity a
person needs to "wake up" and stop being influenced to be someone else or live someone
else's life.
Most of the influences that have been allowed unwittingly into ones life occur through a
continual interaction with everything and everyone in ones life. This negative and
positive interaction is known as "Transference".
We continue to be made up of a total sum of all our experiences and influences from
others until we say NO MORE ! Only when we STOP allowing everything and anything
to affect our lives, and when we cancel out all of "other peoples transference" of their
opinions and desires on our mind and thoughts, then and only then will we be able to
live the life we were destined to live, and our true identity of our "Soul-Neshoma" will
reside within ourselves.

Finding Out Whom You Really Are ?


In finding out whom you really are, one needs to reflect honestly on one's life; Have you
done anything special and unique that ONLY YOU could have done ? Or have you just
"copied" someone else's identity? Done something that others have done or could have
done? Or have you done "nothing" special with your life that has identified you as being
unique and different from other people?
It is ONLY the unique aspects that ONLY you could have done with your life that no-one
else can do that identifies whom you really are.

For example, if one works during the day, in a mundane job that anyone could do,
without any personality or making any difference to anyone's life by your charisma or
personality, and then one sits and watches TV all evening then one is totally missing out
on life.
However, if one works and infuses and happy attitude into peoples lives as you connect
with them in your work, that only you can do, to the extent that when you take a day off
work, people actually miss your presence, and in the evenings one is helping others in a
way that only you can help, then one is living an individual life. One has inner identity
of ones Soul - Neshoma.
Reb Chaim Vital that when one starts to live in full spiritual awareness with the fullness
of ones mind, thoughts and Soul-Neshoma, and as one corrects all the aspects of
reincarnation, then as one has passed the lessons of life, and elevated ones soul, it will be
revealed to you, your inner identity of whom you were from a past life. However, it will
ONLY be revealed when it is right for you to know.

Unveiling the Truth of Your Identity of a


Past Life
?
...
Shmos Exodus Chapter 33 Verse 18 & 23
The Torah explains that Moses asked GOD, "Please GOD show me your ways and
reasons why You do things?" GOD answered that "you can see me and my ways in
hindsight, but never when confronted with a situation".
Our souls are born into this physical life in order to learn, develope and change. The
lessons are needed to learn a belief in GOD, trust in GOD and a belief in a DIVINE
spiritual world of souls and a rectification of reincarnation are unique for every person.
The lessons need to be learnt through challenges of life, only through intense and
emotional challenges do we learn to develope our mind and soul. These lessons cannot
be taught from books, they are emotional "life experiences" that we all need to learn and
experience within our own unique minds and souls.
The Spiritual guarantee from GOD, is that we will always see the DIVINE intervention
in our lives, after the event - in hindsight. The lesson of life is - to TRUST in GOD especially when we go through difficulties and remain reticent, (reticent means keep

"shtum" - quiet, don't use any "complaining" words as the least said in difficult situations
the better!) and believe that everything is going to be alright. "Trust in GOD, do good
deeds and everything will turn out for the good".
Once a person has experienced the lessons of life, elevated oneself spiritually becoming
enlightened then one will be given the spiritual knowledge of the identity of ones soul.

Our Past life is Engrained On Our Soul


Reb Chaim Vital writes that everything from our past life/lives is deeply engrained
within our soul, all the memories, names and places, even the words we expressed in
past lives are deeply engrained within our soul.
By cleansing ones soul from all negative influences, by healing all the keys of
reincarnation then one is able to sense ones clearly.
Reb Chaim Vital explains that all reincarnated souls from an early age have specific
memories of keywords and places that are very strong within ones soul. These words, in
whatever language, keep surfacing until the moment when in this life one connects with
the past-life experience or place. These references act as signposts along ones life.
Nontheless Reb Chaim Vital warns that some people misunderstand some words, for
example if they lived at the of King David and Bathsheva or Kind Solomon and Queen
of Sheeba, then a person may have these names very strongly embedded in their souls
because they were the most famous and talked about characters of that generation, but it
DOES NOT mean that the person was one of these famous people.
Hence when people try to regress into past-life, Reb Chaim Vital explains that all the
words they come up with are words they used in that lifetime; as it is today, very few
people actually say the words of their own name everyday, hence one should be careful
when uncovering the past-life, and be careful not to be deceived by ones own
imagination.

Uncovering the Secrets of Ones Past Life


Reb Chaim Vital guarentees in his book Sefer Gilgulim, that once a person has
successfully elevated ones soul to be spiritually enlightened then one will be informed of
all the secrets of ones past life. Hence, people like Reb Chaim Vital in Sefer Gilgulim
was able to see and know the identity of everyones soul.

In understanding whom you are and your identity, one needs to understand that all of us
are made up of the total sum of our experiences in our lives, all the influences that have
overlapped our inner true identity; most of which have been allowed unwittingly into
ones life through a continual interaction with everything and everyone in ones life. This
negative and positive interaction is known as TRANSFERENCE, and is vitally
important to understand before one can ascertain to start to learn "who you really are".

The Spiritual Understanding of


"Transference"
This chapter on "Transference Chaleepin" is probably the most important chapter
of Kabbalah spiritual knowledge written and explained in Sefer Gilgulim by Reb Chaim
Vital as it explains how each and every persons soul is continually in a state of
exchanging energy between everything and everyone in this physical world.
The understanding of the meaning of "Transference "is fundamental to explain
how a person constantly interacts, by understanding that Spiritual and Physical
Transference is an exchange of thought energy. One can learn to control ones
thought energy, thereby empowering one to be able to cancel-out any negative energies
and attract into ones life ONLY the positive and good.
Understanding and applying Transference to one's life will enable on to STOP
living other people's lives and problems, and will also stop one from absorbing and
putting-up with someone else's baggage and bad attitude, thereby enabling one to live
ones own truly destined life.
Using the gift of Transference one can prevent oneself from being attacked
spiritually from anything or anyone negative thereby constantly being able to maintain a
good inner spiritual energy, without being negatively influenced by anything or anyone.
Transference is the spiritual secret key of knowledge that will open up the door to
one's future, living one's destined wholesome life without any negative interference, it
defines the boundaries of ones life and soul.

The Biggest Spiritual Loss of Energy


Occurs Every Moment of Every Day
Through a
"Loss by Transference"

This explanation and understanding of the meaning of Transference and


understanding about other people's abilities to control and take-over your life, and how
to cancel them out in order for ones to live ones own destined pathway for ones own
unique soul.
If one's physical body isn't able to live one's destined life because one has allowed
oneself to be "occupied" by other peoples energies then one will have to reincarnate
again in order to live ones destined life; therefore it is VITALLY important to learn and
stop any loss by transference so that one can live ones destined life instead of living
someone else's, and thereby save oneself from the cycle of reincarnation.

"Loss by Transference" - Transference


In Physical and Spiritual laws there is a principle called "transference" - "
","Haleepin", (This term was understood fully and introduced into the modern day
Medical profession by Professor Dr Carl Jung in Psychology). In simple terms, when
you go into a shop and buy an apple you give the money in one hand and receive an
apple. You have made a transfer, exchanging your money energy for the shops physical
item "apple". Which when you eat the apple, its energy will make you feel good, alive
and happy with yourself and the world. You may then meet someone and because you
feel happy, will also make them feel happy and take away some of their sad feeling. The
whole of society and mankind is continually acting in a web of transference and
interaction of energy.
Have you ever, suddenly, found your mood change from being all loving and peaceful,
and out-of-character you become angry? The explanation is simple, by "transference",
someone you have just connected with, (it could even be the car infront or behind you in
a traffic jam, or someone in the street who has so much inner frustration, anger or
depression etc), has swapped, dumped and transferred their negative thoughts and
emotional energy in an act of "transference" - exchanged for your loving, energizing and
positive energy.

Spiritual and Physical Transference


"An exchange of thought energy"
On this page we shall teach you the spiritual laws of "transference" and how to prevent a
"LOSS of your souls energy by transference". This page should be read in conjunction
with "Closure"page as this will teach a person how to have spiritual closure from
"freeloaders", users and abusers, especially relevant for Sensitive souls who are
susceptible to having energy stolen from them by "transference".

The individual sections of "transference" we shall teach:1. The basic understanding of "transference" - the concept of "exchange" of thought
energy for physical energy as taught from the Talmud.
2. The Spiritual laws of "transference"- "".
3. Using the spiritual laws to STOP a "loss by transference", understanding that spirit
entities can occupy a persons physical body and how to prevent any spirit entity from
occupying one's physical body other than one's own soul.
4. Negating and canceling any "transference" energy that has already occurred in the
past. Stopping the draining cycle of losing energy by transference.
5. - Understanding "blocks" caused from other people created by the energy
of "transference".
6. Protecting oneself from losing "transference" energy in the future.
7. The concept of " " - "evil eye" understanding and protecting oneself from being
"hurt" by others evil thoughts. And the concept of spiritual power of a persons soul by
"transference" in photographs.

1. - Transference
The basic understanding of "transference" - the concept of "exchange" of thought energy
for physical energy as taught from the Talmud.The sources in the Talmud Mesechta
Kiddushin daf 28a and Mesechta Temurah.

Valid "Transactions"
The Talmud explains the concept of validity of different types of transactions, when
exactly a transaction takes place and when a person actually acquires ownership of
articles one has bought.
When a person buys anything in a shop, exchanging money for the item, lifting the item
up and walking out of the shop constitutes a valid purchase. If a person takes the item
without paying then the ownership of the item remains with the shopkeeper and that is
theft.
The validity of any transaction is final and irreversible, the "deal is done" when and this
is the important point - that is to complete a sale, to make a final and valid transaction is
that NEITHER SIDE can REVERSE or CANCEL the validity of the exchange.

-"Umdena"-"Assumptions"
In every type of transaction, there are automatic assumptions, that society makes in their
"minds" regarding validity of transactions. That is to say, even if one does NOT have a
written agreement everytime one goes shopping, there are assumptions everyone makes
in their minds and thoughts.
For example, if one buys something that is lacking or faulty, then one can return the item
to the shop. Many goods have written guarantees or stores have 14 day or 30 day moneyback offers. However, even without such written "offers", one can still return items if its
assumed in everyone's MIND that the item is not as expected, which invokes the
collective assumption of society and in everyone's mind to invalidate such a transaction.
(This applies especially in our generation, when so many items are packaged and one
doesn't always see inside!).
This important concept of -"Umdena"-"Assumptions", is that it is an unwritten
agreement in everyone's MIND and THOUGHTS, can invalidate the transaction.
Conversely this concept of assumed agreement in everyone's mind can and does validate
a transaction, whereby one CANNOT go back on the exchange. Like buying a house or
car, clothes etc., once completion of transaction is made one cannot go back, just
because one doesn't like the purchase!

The exchange of "transference"


The talmud explains that the exchange of "transference", is where one side exchanges
something physical for a "THOUGHT". The Talmud discusses this "transference"
thought and "transference" speech transactions in the section dealing with marriage, love
and emotions of marriage, and in the section of holy spiritual priests making offerings
and switching sanctified holy objects with their thoughts.
The Talmud teaches that exchanges and transactions of THOUGHTS and EMOTIONS is
NOT valid. This is because in this physical world a transaction only has validity between
TWO physical OBJECTS that CANNOT be returned or cancelled out.
This is the spiritual reason why it is forbidden for anyone to charge money for
knowledge, information and thoughts. The Talmud teaches that teachers may receive a
nominal payment as a compensation for their time spent teaching. But it is 100% clear
that teachers must NOT charge for spiritual knowledge as this is in the same category as
"transference" transactions.

"Thought transactions" can be invalidated

and therefore "transference" energies


can be easily cancelled out
In the transaction of "transference" one side has exchanged "THOUGHT" energies and
as explained on our page of "thinking positive", a "thought" energy can be cancelled out
by the people originally involved in the transaction AND also be someone else's thoughts
and energies this invalidates the transaction AND most importantly can be cancelled out
by ONE SIDE without the other person knowing.
Spiritual law of thoughts, words & actions see "thinking positive" page
A thought cancels out a thought
A word cancels out a thought
An action cancels out a thought and a word
Talmud Kiddushin 59b

2. The Spiritual laws of "transference"


(a) Anyone anywhere in this physical world and in spiritual world of souls, can have
transference energy with anyone who is "open" to receive the transference energy from
that persons mind and soul. The energy of "transference" thought energy is open and
available to everyone everywhere whom is "open" to receive this energy.
(b) Anyone can cancel out the "energy" of transference that is in their mind. A persons
mind and soul is given the power to erase and nullify the energy of transference thought
energy.
As we explained the "Spiritual law of thoughts, words & actions" see "Thinking
positive" page.
A thought cancels out a thought
A word cancels out a thought
An action cancels out a thought and a word .
Talmud Kiddushin 59b

(c) A person is given the power to be "open" and "closed" to control the flow of thought
transference energy into their mind and soul.
If a person does not know about or is unaware of the continual interaction of
transference energies with their mind, thoughts and soul, then automatically they leave
themselves "open", which allows and "lets-in" negative thoughts, freeloaders and trash
which will drain by "transference" - stealing their souls good life energy.
This draining will cause a persons soul to block "life energy" as the soul recognises and
senses that it is being drained. This physical and spiritual souls life energy is known as
- Yeneeka Milmaala. Once a person learns self-control in selecting only the
good transference energies then this blockage will be taken away, then the life energy
and vitality are allowed to flow into ones life. Please read the page on Closure, as one
needs to learn when to be "open" and "closed".

3. Using the spiritual laws


to STOP a "loss by transference".
From the spiritual laws of "transference" above and from the "Spiritual law of thoughts,
words & actions" see "thinking positive" from Talmud Kiddushin
59b : A thought cancels out a thought
A word cancels out a thought
Since transference energy is 100% thoughts and spiritual , one can simply cancel out the
loss of ones souls energy by using the power of speech:-

SIMPLY SAY

"I cancel out any transference made by evil people that has taken energy from my soul, that takes
energy from my soul or that will take energy from my soul"


"I refuse to allow anyone or anything evil drain my soul by transference, or take any energy from
my soul by transference, which includes their negative or destructive thoughts or words against me"

"I release the need for interaction with draining people and situations, my soul has been
awakened by these bad experiences, i am grateful for the difficulties as signs to wake-up
my soul. Now that i am spiritually awakened, please take away these draining situations
out of my life, they no longer have any purpose in my life"
"I cancel out any transference of energy out of my soul with anyone who has nothing to
do with my life, my destiny or my soul"
"Similarly, i apologize for having taken anyone's souls energy by transference that has
nothing to do with my life, my soul or my destiny and which has used to block my
destiny, i no longer want this energy and want it returned to the persons soul i have taken
it from, it is NOT mine!"
This is so simple, once a person realizes that one is constantly losing energy by
transference, (and this thereby is causing a blockage in the flow of life energy in ones
soul as explained above), learnt how to be control this loss by being "Closed" to draining
and "freeloaders", then one can simply AFFIRM and say the above two phrases and this
cancels out any loss by transference.
This even helps for the highest form of transference whereby some freeloader
earthbound soul occupies ones body ( the concept of earthbound souls is explained on
the "RESCUE WORK" page).

"Canceling out" with "words" ALWAYS


works !
If one does not feel anything after "canceling out" with the power of your speech by
saying the above even once, there are 3 possible reasons:(1) One is not using ones mind to focus ones thoughts and coordinate ones speech with
ones thoughts, that means one must think honestly about the strength of the power of
speech. After all, if one has lost energy from ones soul caused by others talking about
you, it is 100% assured that you have the power of your speech to control your life and
soul, through the power of your speech. YOU have been blessed with the gift of speech
so use it to CANCEL out the loss by transference.
(2) One does not believe the spiritual law of canceling out by the power of speech. Good
news - even if one does "not believe", it still works ! However small the change, each
time a person cancels out by using the power of speech, it has an effect, this is the reason
why "shouting" and "screaming" works so well, as it uses ones full strength of the power
of ones speech.
(3) Then the last reason, it doesn't seem to work, after saying the "canceling out" phrase
above, is because one is still holding onto bitterness and resentment to that person who

has hurt you. One must LET GO of them and the thoughts of hurt, simply recognises
they were part of your life in the past and NOW they are NO longer part of your life for
your future - Have 100% "closure" , and thank GOD they are now out of your life
forever !

Directional "Canceling Out"


When deceitful and rotten people have told lies, gossiped and slandered a good person, it
is so easy to cancel out the energy of their words. Since they are liars, their prayers are
NOT answered by the good angels in the pure Spirit world, therefore the injured honest
person can cancel the power of their deceitful words anytime.
Directional canceling out means that one uses the exact words and false allegations that
they have used against you, admit that these are lies and cancel their power and negative
energy.
for example; If a man/woman was accused falsely of cheating on his/her spouse with
another person, then one should say, "people have accused me of cheating on my
wife/husband with another woman/man, as GOD is my witness, this is a lie, i have never
cheated on my wife/husband, and therefore i wish to cancel out the energy and power of
these lies". Indeed, it seems such a person should gladly divorce such a deceitful spouse
as he/she does not have any spiritual good behavior, especially if he/she can tell such
awful lies in public. Once one has disconnected and had closure after the divorce, there
will still be gossipers and slanderers, one can "cancel out" the power and energy of these
liars by simply keep affirming that they are liars, and their words have no energy or
power.
If a person does NOT cancel out the negative energy of these evil people, then their
energy gets stronger creating blockages in the good persons life, which will come to a
peak, at the peak where the energy becomes unbearable, the good person either collapses
under the pressure OR learns the spiritual laws to cancel out "loss by transference" and
actually starts to stand up for themselves by canceling out all the lies told over so many
years, as they are good people with good spiritual guardian angels, and they have been a
victim of other peoples lies, they will WIN, once all the negative energy is cleared they
will start to have all the goodness in their lives restored to them.
The first step is to write down all the sources of damage of lies that have occurred in
ones life, and cancel each of them out by affirming they are liars and as GOD is your
witness, you are truthful.
Normally those people who accuse others do not believe in GOD or spirit world, and
usually accuse other people of things they have done wrong themselves. So simply
affirm their false allegations, admit these are lies and then cancel their power. Likewise

repeating a few times actually helps to cancel out the energy of all the other gossipers
who have repeated the liars lie. None of them have any power to hurt you anymore.

Use the power of speech to cancel the


energy of their words, as Hashem - GOD is
your witness.
1. Affirm the words of the lie, use the exact words that the liars have deceitfully used; 2
Confirm that as GOD is your witness that this is a lie; 3. Cancel out the energy of the lie,
by confirming that these words are lies and this is the truth.

"Cancel Out" but DO NOT hold onto any


bitterness or hatred for the deceitful liars
It is important that one does this, without feeling any hatred or negative emotions for
them whom have lied, in fact if one does this in a manner that one feels sorry for the
eternal pain their souls will endure in spirit world, then within the "canceling out"
process one is actually praying that their soul should repent and apologize for the
destruction they have caused.
This is exactly how Joseph forgave his 10 brothers who sold him as a slave, and how
King David cancelled out the deceit and lies of King Saul, who tried to kill him. (Once
David had cancelled out King Saul's energy of his lies, destruction and deceit, Saul
actually committed suicide, and David became 2nd King of Israel).

The highest form of "transference" someone else's soul occupies your body
The commentators and and The Shach and Taz on the
Shulchan Aruch - "The code of Jewish laws", all ask the obvious question:In the daily blessings in the morning prayers why do we need to repeat these three
blessings everyday of our life, surely saying them once in ones life is enough?

, ,

These 3 blessings give thanks to GOD that we are "not a slave" , "not a woman" , "not a
" . Surely thanking GOD once in our lives is enough? and surely its obvious that a man
is not a woman? and a jewish person is not a non-jew? Why is it necessary to state the
obvious affirmation every single day in the morning when one wakes up ?
The Famous Spiritual Rabbis and commentators and and The Shach
and Taz on the Shulchan Aruch, answer that whilst a person is sleeping, and
soul elevates itself to spiritual plane, an "earthbound soul" could occupy ones body, and
when one arrives back in ones body, there is a struggle for control over your body, as
ones soul did not enter ones body completely properly because there is an occupying
soul in a persons body in an act of transference. This act of transference can happen in
spiritually sensitive people who don't like or don't feel comfortable being on earth

The solution - make a truthful affirmation


The solution is to make a truthful affirmations of who you are and whom your body
belongs to and through the power of speech you can "throw out" the freeloading spirit
entity.

Truthful Affirmations
Simply by using the power of truthful speech, will ensure that you do not loose any
energy from your soul by "transference". Which in turn will ensure that your life energy
and vitality remains "alive" with a continual flow of - Yeneeka Milmaala.
The key is to use the power of speech with truthful statements and affirmations.
One should begin "truthful affirmations" by saying what a person is not, for example a
jewish single woman living in USA should affirm, "i am not a man", "i am not a
Muslim", " i am not married", "i have not yet found my soulmate", " i am not living in
israel", i have no children", etc and then continue to affirm "i am trying to change
everyday", "i am canceling out, by my speech any words or thoughts that anyone

anywhere has against me, i want to cancel out any negative energy that is blocking
success in my life, so that i can find my true destined loving soulmate, to have a
purposeful and fulfilling life" etc.,
Once a person starts making truthful affirmations as they "talk to themselves", one will
find each individual will flow with their own specific affirmations, of their own personal
identity and then affirm to cancel out any blockages in their lives caused by other
peoples negative thoughts and words. Once a person has done this, one feels lightened
and enlivened as each word a person speaks ACTUALLY works to cancel out any
negativity !
Thankfully there is a special spiritual law that prevents this being used against good
people, as those people who abuse the power of speech, deceive and lie, have no chance
to dissolve the energy of transference, as this ability is only given to those with truthful
guardian angels, as discussed in the paragraph of "two types" of people on the page of
Spirit & Guidance.

4. Negating and canceling any


"transference" energy that has already
occurred in the past. Stopping the draining
cycle of losing energy by transference.
Simply follow the same spiritual law as above, and use the power of speech to cancel out
ALL the loses of "transference" that one has been so open and given away ones energy
in the past, which once a person cancels out the power given away by transference
thought energy, then all the blockages in ones life will be taken away. SIMPLY SAY :-


"I cancel out any transference of energy made by evil people that has taken energy from
my soul, that takes energy from my soul or that will take energy from my soul"


"I refuse to allow anyone or anything evil drain my soul by transference, or take any
energy from my soul by transference, which includes their negative or destructive
thoughts or words against me"

"All blockages in my life should now go away from my soul"

"Let the past go"- Hold no grudges


Remember it is important NEVER to hold any grudge or blame to anyone for your
mistakes. It is YOUR fault you interacted with the wrong and draining type of person. Its
not their fault, they are simply acting the only way they know. However, now that you
have found the solution and learnt the reason why you have been so drained by losing
your souls good energy in an act of "transference". It is up to YOU to have Closure from
the past and learn to Protect your mind and soul, especially if you are a Sensitive soul .

5. - Understanding "blocks"
caused from other people created by the
energy of "transference".
As we explained on the page Blocking Success, once transference has occurred, a person
has given away part of their souls energy to someone else. This other person now has the
power to Block Success as they have your energy as we saw in the "Transference"
destructive cycle as explained on the "Debrainwashing page" :-

The solution is simple !


Use the power of speech to cancel out all the acts of transference, think back to all the
times you were open and gave away your souls energy in an act of transference.
Remember the rule that there are two type os people in this world, the "honest and
creative group" and the "deceitful destructive group" as explained in the page of Spirit &
Guidance. Every person interacts and is connected in this world, if the person you are
connecting with makes you feel alive and creatively constructive then this is a good
connection. If the connection is draining and destructive one MUST have Closure . They
maybe even be good people but they have NO PLACE in your life, if one feels drained
when interacting with them.

Ones soul energy comes back from "the


ether"
Once one has learnt Closure and prayed to have ones life energy that has been lost by
transference returned to your soul. One will start to feel alive with spiritual vitality and
enlightenment . However, part of the Closure process is one MUST "let-go" and forgive

those people who have been draining you, and NEVER expect them to return energy to
you and NEVER expect them to apologize to you. Have closure from them and move on.
The "ether", that is the DIVINE universal energy will give you the spiritual energy ,
replenish, enliven you and more that compensate your losses. Once and only once you
have deep-down had closure and opened the flow of unblocked life energy Yeneeka Milmaala . Your soul will only unblock this once truthfully and intrinsically
EVERYTHING has been done by you to correct your past mistakes and your spirit mind
and soul in 100% sure you will not make the mistakes again.
The English saying expression pertaining to life's opportunities "one door opens ONLY
when the other door is firmly closed", and "what goes around - eventually comes
around", refers to the cycle of universal DIVINE energy.

6. Protecting oneself from losing


"transference" energy in the future.
Once a person has been enlightened to the concepts of "loss of ones souls energy by
transference", with this "key" of knowledge from Sefer Gilgulim by Reb Chaim Vital,
one will automatically learn to be aware of every interaction that one makes, sensing the
energizing actions and draining actions. Making empowered and correct freewill
decisions to only interact with constructive creative people and situations. and never
allowing oneself to be "open" to be drained by freeloaders in an act of transference.
It's very similar to learning to talk, once one has learnt how to talk it is very difficult to
forget ! After a while it becomes "second-nature" to a child and one speaks even without
thinking. Similarly, once one has learnt to control ones thoughts, canceling-out"loss by
transference" by using the power of ones speech, it becomes easy to retain ones unique
soul energy and unblock the flow of life vitality to ones soul, which is needed for you
and the good people you co-create with, so that your soul can succeed to its maximum
potential in this physical life !
By learning the lessons in the chapter on Closure and Protection, once the past and
present is cleared by the use of speech in "canceling-out" the draining acts of
transference, ensures that ones soul has accomplished a significant cleansing which it
came to earth-school to learn.

7. The concept of " " - "evil eye"


The concept of " " - "evil eye" is simply understood as a person has been "open"
spiritually to allow another person steal energy by "transference" which is in fact your
souls energy and this is thereby able to BLOCK your life.

Simply learn to stop "losing your souls energy by transference", by being so "open" to
destructive energies. learn Closure and Protection and then no one can affect your life
with the energy you have "given them" to hurt you with !
Those people whom have changed completely, healed the past and become loving and
compassionate souls connected in the committed service of GOD, have learnt to focus
and continually cleanse their mind and soul from any negative and destructive thoughts.
Once a person has arrived at this level " " - "evil eye" created by other peoples
negative thoughts can never affect their soul . In the transition period as a person is
learning and transforming one simply needs to learn Closure and continually cleansing
and canceling out other peoples acts of transference draining thought energies.

A note for Modern Day - Photographs


When anyone looks at photographs, each image makes an impression on a persons mind
and thoughts, if a person is emotionally aroused by the image in the photograph this has
a stronger affect on a persons soul. If the photograph gives a person a vitality and
aliveness then an act of creative transference takes place. If however the photograph
leaves a person feeling drained then a destructive act of transference has occurred.
If the photograph is of a person, then the persons image and soul is engraved on that
photo and if one is "open" and unaware, then evil people can use the photograph in an
act of transference energy and "drain" or "hurt" a person.
As this "damage" occurs as a thought energy, simply by using the power of speech
cancels out any "transference" loss energies and solves the problem. Simply say, "I
refuse to allow anyone or anything evil drain my soul by transference which includes
negative or destructive thoughts or words against me or any photos that have been taken
of me by anyone anywhere".

Conclusion
Once a person has been enlightened to the concepts of "loss of ones souls energy by
transference", with this "key" of knowledge from Sefer Gilgulim by Reb Chaim Vital
one will automatically learn to be aware of every interaction that one makes, sensing the
energizing actions and draining actions and making wise decisions to connect only with
creative life energy.
As anyone anywhere in this physical world and in spiritual world of souls, can have
transference energy with anyone who is "open" to receive the transference energy from
that persons mind and soul.

This basic concept of "transference" thought-energy makes it comprehendible how so


many Sensitive souls have the gift of spirit communication with the spirit world. As a
continual and open channel of "transference and thoughts" are connecting the souls in
this Physical world with Spirit world of souls.

The Gift of Sensitivity for


"Sensitive Souls"
The 7 aspects to understand "sensitivity" from the chapter of "Sensitive Souls", from
Sefer Shinuyim "The book of changes", teaches the importance of knowing what
"being sensitive" means and how to handle this special "spiritual gift" :#1. Everyones soul has chosen the specific level of "sensitivity" one needs during life
and for each stage of change during ones life.
#2. Sensitive souls are "OLD" souls reincarnating, the gift of "sensitivity" is a
"spiritual gift" that one has earned in previous lifetimes, and provides a person with
"special" protection during this life.
#3. Sensitive souls feel "unsettled" in this physical world.
#4. Sensitive souls feel isolated and lonely.
#5. Sensitive souls take time to adjust to life on earth, once they learn the spiritual
rules of controlling their "sensitivity" they then have wonderfully productive
fulfilling and happy lives.
#6. Success for sensitive souls comes as soon as they make the right connections
spiritually, and keep "closed" to lower souls who are dangerous "freeloaders and
parasites" trying to steal good life energy, by bringing them down to their level and
ruin their souls !
#7. Sensitive souls need to keep connected to "LIFE" and "LOVE" and disconnect
from "DEATH" and "HATE", one needs to learn when to be "open" and "closed", so
they can control the energy flow in ones soul through the gift of sensitivity of ones
mind and thoughts.
Introduction
All humans more or less have the same physical characteristics, however the
individuality of each person is identified by the way one THINKS. Ones thoughts and
in particular the gift of SENSITIVITY gives a person the "extra special" Divine help,
to accomplish ones purpose and achieve success in life.

The more "sensitive" a person is, the greater ones potential and ability to succeed.
This is provided one understands the gift of being "sensitive", learning and knowing
when to "open" and "close" the sensitivity, controlling the flow of energy that is given
to a sensitive person by learning to use ones MIND power, and using ones unique
gifts that are contained within the blessing of "sensitivity" correctly, this page will
explain this "gift" of sensitivity.

1. Every person has chosen the specific level of "Sensitivity" one needs during life
and for each stage of change during ones life.
Our soul chooses to be "sensitive" before we are born during our childhood, in order
to maximise our potential in this life, and to make 100% certain that we succeed in
"getting it right" by listening to our sensitive feelings, thereby correcting all the
mistakes we have made in previous lifetimes and learn the lessons we wanted to learn
in this life.
The Divine purpose in making a person "sensitive" is in order to ensure that we
follow the correct pathway in life. If a child is told NOT to touch a hot oven and then
touches the oven and gets a "burn", this childs sensitivity is teaching the child NEVER touch burning hot ovens! During childhood our physical senses, parents and
teachers teach us and guide us along a safe pathway for our survival in life.
As we develope during childhood and adulthood, there are unique experiences
applicable to each individual, the ONLY guide we have is the gift of "sensitivity".
When a person uses and "listens" to the sensitivity correctly, and IGNORES all the
people who are giving them bad advice then one can have great success.
Many refer to the "sensitivity" as a strong spiritual connection with ones guardian
angels who are protecting and guiding the individual. However a person perceives
"sensitivity" - it is a gift that is given to each individual in different measures, to help
one make the right decisions and follow the right pathway for each persons
individualistic life.
Everyone is "sensitive" whilst
one is "growing up" or "changing"
Every human-being and animal has a basic sensitivity, that enables them to grow-up
and survive in this world. During life-changing moments in ones life, especially
"mid-life-crisis" moments, divorce or death of a loved one, or any kind of "loss", a
persons soul and mind is made to be "open" and more "sensitive", this is in order that

a person learns and listens to their "sensitivity" in order to make the necessary good
changes in their lives.
Often changes occur just after someone who loves you dies, spiritually this is because
their soul in spirit world WANTS to help you and is trying to guide you along the
correct pathway in life, hence the extra-sensitivity is a GIFT from their soul to you to help YOU.
Many people misconstrue super-senstitive as "bad feelings" that are "attacking" a
person, this is incorrect, there is something that needs changing and these sensitive
feelings are there to help a person to change, so "work" with and dont fight against
these feelings.
Many adults, try to suppress their "uncomfortable" feelings, but in fact these sensitive
emotions are trying to teach a person to CHANGE, and guide a person AWAY from
their current life to a NEW pathway. If the person chooses to ignore and suppress
these feelings, then it often gets worse, until the physical body and soul decides it is
an emergency and a "big sign" is needed to change a person.
Once a person has learnt the lesson
there is no need for "sensitivity"
Once a person has learnt the lesson that they are being guided by their "sensitivity",
then there is no need for the "uncomfortable feelings". If, however a person does not
listen and change, then the uncomfortable feelings persist until a person changes. In
the section of our website called "The Pathway to Enlightenment", outlines the 26
different aspects that a person may need to change to unblock ones life and feel
wholesome.

2. All "sensitive souls" are


wise "OLD" souls reincarnating.
All "Sensitive souls" are "OLD" souls reincarnating, the gift of "sensitivity" is a
"spiritual gift" that one has earned in previous lifetimes, and provides a person with
"special" protection during this life.
Sensitivity is an indication that a person is an OLD soul, the more sensitive a person
is indicative that their soul is very OLD.
In addition to the usual gift of sensitivity of a child, an "old" soul that is returning to
earth to live life again is blessed with the gift of extra special "sensitivity".

"Super Sensitivity"
Most people come to earth to learn the basic lessons of "" , that is:- to have
children, learn to create a life of love, and survival. "OLD" souls have lived and
fulfilled these basic lessons in a previous life, these souls have come to earth for a
specific purpose. A unique role applicable to them, and with a collective purpose to
humanity.
These "old souls" also known as "teachers", are blessed with a "super sensitivity" in
order that they may succeed, this sensitivity gives them special "Protection" to keep
away from "freeloaders", jealous, hateful and "nuisance" people. This gift
"sensitivity" keeps one focused, not being diverted by materialism or mundane
physical pleasures. This makes sensitive people feel very uneasy and uncomfortable
doing anything their soul considers "useless" to the purpose they came to earth to
fulfill.

3. Sensitive souls feel "unsettled"


in this physical world
Sensitive souls feel they do not belong in this physical world, they feel
uncomfortable, unsettled and find it difficult to adjust to this physical world. This is
because they still have deep emotions and memories of previous lifetimes embedded
in their soul. The "older" the soul and further back in history were they have
originated from the more unsettled they will feel in this life.
In the understanding that "sensitive souls" are reincarnated souls, this means that they
have lived many years ago in a different place and certainly very much "differently"
than our modern generation. If you imagine how an african who lives without
electricity would cope if they suddenly woke up in Manhattan New York during "rush
hour" !!! Conversely if we woke up in a world without computers, electricity or
running water !!! Now think how a wise old soul who lived 2000 years ago would
manage if they would be born in our generation !
It would take a lot of time to "climatize" to this physical world, whilst still trying to
remain focused on the specific purpose of their reincarnated life, without being side
tracked, distracted or diverted by "modern lifes tempatations" or bad advice from
non-spiritual distractions.
All sensitive souls feel "unsettled" in this physical world, as their souls have spent
more time in the truthful open "spiritual" world, than they have done in this physical
world which contains a lot of "deceit". Naturally these "old senstitive souls" feel

more at home in the spiritual world, however once and ONLY when these souls start
to connect with other "old souls" and start to accomplish the purpose they came to
earth to fulfill, then they will feel at peace with themselves.
Until that time comes, these "sensitive souls" simply need to learn how to be
"Closed" (both physically and spiritually in ones mind and thoughts) to external
draining influences that cause the soul a loss by "Transference" with interaction with
"freeloaders" who give them "bad feelings".
(What are "freeloaders"? - As we explained on the RESCUE souls page, "freeloaders"
are earthbound souls after they have died, however, as we in the next paragraphs,
there are bad people who still alive and are called "freeloaders", freeloaders look as
though they are physically alive - but their souls inside are "DEAD", they have no
connection with creative loving life energy, as they are full of hatred, fear and
destruction, such people are annoying as they have ruined their own lives and their
aim and desire is to destroy and ruin other peoples lives.)

4. Sensitive souls feel isolated and lonely


"Sensitive souls" as they are "old souls" usually feel isolated and alienated from most
people of their generation. Even in large crowds of people, they find very few people
with whom they can really "connect" with. This is especially important for parents
and "sensitive" children to realise, that if a sensitive child doesn't integrate well at
school, with children of their own age, it is NOT a sign that there is something
"wrong" with the child, to the contrary - it is simply the child has the soul of old
reincarnated wise person who has nothing in common with other children.
Once such a sensitive child realises, the power of his/her soul, then this child should
be channeled to learn to use their sensitivity at a young age to try and identify what
their skills are from previous lifetimes. This is the reason why religious jewish
children learn hebrew at a young age of 5, "hebrew" is the reconnection with the
mother-tongue of jewish souls, which reconnects the childs soul and brings them
"alive". All "jewish" souls have an immediate ability to the hebrew language, it
comes very easily to true jewish souls, as it is embedded within the souls memory.
Once this door to the soul is opened, this easily allows the mind to be opened to all
knowledge and spiritual energy.
All "sensitive children" have a gift
Likewise, all "sensitive children" will find something that they are very gifted and
learn very quickly, it maybe a language like hebrew or french, a science such as
astronomy, astrology or maths, knowledge of the bible, history, (old books which

remind them of the past lives), or artistic drawing or creative writing abilities or
playing a musical instrument etc.,
It is the duty of good responsible parents to try and help their sensitive children
"unlock" their past, and find these gifts. This will instantaneously bring their soul
"alive" and help guide their soul to their correct pathway. Once they are connected
with their purpose the feelings of isolation and alienation dissapate, as the doorway in
their soul is opened and now they will start to connect with good people, who are all
part of their destiny.

5. Sensitive souls take time to adjust


Sensitive souls take time to adjust to life on earth, once one learns the spiritual rules
of controlling "sensitivity" one will have wonderfully productive fulfilling and happy
lives.
These simple rules are (1) to be aware and understand the concept of the soul, (2)
understand that there is a "bigger" picture of life in this physical world and spiritual
world than we see with our eyes, (3) understand that everything that happens in a
persons life is controlled by ones mind and thoughts, learn to use ones mind
effectively and think for oneself, (4) learn how to keep "Closed" to freeloaders and
not allow oneself to be side-tracked or easily influenced by the wrong people, (5)
understand that ones mood is susceptable to "change" by external influences, so
ensure that one does not lose ones energy in a loss by "transference", (6) keep
focused that one has been blessed and one has a specific role in life to accomplish
with ones gifts.
Once a person recognises these facts and lives with the understanding that they have
a specific and unique purpose, which is part of a divinely planned and destined
pathway, then "sensitive" souls gain a self confidence (without being "proud and
arrogant"), then always have wonderful purposeful enlightened lives, in spite of
having "setbacks" in early life, that are usually caused by freeloaders taking
advantage and abusing the goodness of sensitive people.
Sensitive souls take longer than most people to adjust to this physical world, they
may mature later than most people, and "late developing" is perfectly normal.
According to the Talmud, sensitive souls usually only marry and "find loving
soulmate" after the age of 30 or even 40 like the famous Rabbi Akiva who married at
40. Until this age they need the freedom to use their minds to learn and develope their
spiritual gifts, being married with children would "disturb" their souls pathway, so
inherently they are "late-developers". This is perfectly normal, hence it is vital that
"sensitive souls" NEVER to compare themselves to other people !

6. Success for sensitive souls as soon as one makes the right connections spiritually
As with all reincarnated souls success and a sense of "life energy" and vitality ONLY
comes when one makes the right connections with the right destined people and
places. The gift of super sensitivity gives a person the intuitive "feeling" that a
particular place, people and events in ones life are 100% correct, even if "other"
people think you are wrong. It is up to you to trust your spiritual guidance and have
confidence in your feelings of sensitivity instead of listening to other people.
This spiritual guarentee for "sensitive souls" is this KEY to life, once the correct
connections are made, then "magically" good things happen for the person, as signs
that this is the correct course in life, coupled with a sense of knowing that this new
pathway is the right destined pathway. Until the correct pathway is taken - then there
will be blockages, depression and failures, all these are signs of guidance to ensure
that one feels unsettled and "not at peace" until one is one the right pathway.
Ofcourse one has the freewill choice to "Block Success" or even if one tells the
wrong people, these "destructive people" can cancel out the potential, until one learns
Closure from these people and STOP being drained in any loss by "Transference".
Only YOU can feel what you are feeling, and instinctively and spiritually your soul
will know what to do ! Even if one resists changes, life will stagnate or "go round" in
circles until one gets it right !

7. Keeping connected to LIFE


and disconnect from DEATH
Sensitive souls need to keep connected to "LIFE" and "LOVE" and disconnect from
"DEATH" and "HATE", they need to learn when to be "open" and "closed", so they
can control the energy flow in their soul through their sensitivity.
Who is "Alive" & Who is "Dead" ?

"Good souls when they die are in fact alive"

"Bad souls when they are alive are in fact dead"
Defining and categorising everything into "life" and "death", is intrinsically vital so
that we can remain energised with the good life-giving creative energy of GOD

which is LOVE. We explain this further on the page of Protection . This is the reason
why spiritually sensitive people visit the gravesites of good people and peaceful
spiritual cemetaries and famous rabbis whose souls are ALIVE and continue to help
from spirit world.
Everyone and especially sensitive souls are constantly interacting and sensing
everything around them, it is vital that we connect only "life" and "love" energy. If a
person senses or feels drained this is a sign that the person, place or energy of ones
activity is "dead" energy. KEEP CLOSED and GET AWAY from such DEAD energy.
Flowers, plants anything that grows in nature is "life energy"
For our modern generation living and working in concrete jungles of large cities, we
have distanced ourselves from "life energy", nontheless having flowers, plants,
anything that grows on ones office desk or in ones apartment, will connect one with
life energy. Hence the reason to give sick people flowers to bring a "life energy" and
energise their souls. Similarly every friday jewish people traditionally buy flowers for
their homes to energise with a life energy.
Think of something "alive" & beautiful

The best advice for "sensitive souls" is to keep connected with visions of life energy,
fields in the green countryside, orchards of fruit and vineyards, gardens of flowers, all
images of natures beauty, that one can hold in ones mind and thoughts that represents
life giving energy, will always energise sensitive souls with "life energy" even when
one is amongst spiritually "dead" people.
On the page of "Protection" we explain how to use ones mind to generate energy of
"life-giving" images to protect oneself even whilst one is in the physical company of
"dead" people and places. This is especially important for sensitive people, who feel
drained very quickly amongst "draining" people and places. This is the reason why so
many people listen to music whilst working or driving in the cities to "compensate"
for the draining energy in city life!
Conclusion

As with all the chapters from Sefer Shinuyim - Book of Changes once a person is
aware of the problems and explanations, it makes it very easy to change and handle
each of the aspects in ones life and soul.
Understanding the spiritual gift of "being sensitive", is a gift which many people
would love to have such a gift, although for a sensitive person it feels like a "curse"
sometimes! Until one learns how to handle this precious gift, then it becomes a
pleasure to have such a good refined gift of sensitivity.
"Sensitive souls" use thought energy more than other people as they are more
"spiritual" than "physical", this makes one feel like everything is always intensely
"magnified", which can "blow" out of proportion any negative emotions. The secret is
to learn to "control" ones mind and channel the energy creatively and lovingly with
one thoughts and emotions.
As we noted on the "PALMISTRY" page, "sensitive" people have many lines on the
palms of the hands, as an indication of the spiritual energies that are potentially
contained within their soul, just another sign that everything happens for a reason of a
DIVINE destined plan.

RESCUE WORK
Firstly, let me explain the spiritual term "rescue" - .

Rescue work in spiritual terms, is the name given to the process of transition of a
persons soul over to spirit world once the soul has departed from the physical body.
Once a person has completed their journey in a physical body, death occurs, this
simply means the SOUL leaves the physical body - entering the realm of spiritual
vibration.
Initially the soul is disorientated and hovers in an "earthbound state", known in
hebrew term is "dreizach arin" in Olam hasohu - , known as wandering the
ether, the ethereal plane, or astral plane, needing and searching for loving energy, or
for someone spiritually sensitive to communicate with . And whom will give them
unconditional love to feed their soul with vitality .
After the initial period of a few hours after death, the soul then usually panics,
especially of those souls whom had no idea a spirit world exists or of those very
religious people whom believed they would be whisked away to heaven .

The purpose of "rescuers" is to communicate with the earthbound soul and elevate the
soul onwards to the spirit world . Everything creative and every transformation in this
world is done through love and loving energy .
A soul originally enters this world through the heightened state of sexual LOVE
energy of its parents, and similarly needs a strong spiritual LOVE energy to take it
onward toward the divine light of spirit world, especially if the person died in a state
of sadness, fear and depression that they had a futile life !
A rescuer is usually a very refined, strong and sensitive soul who is intune with
eternal Divine Spirit World through their Spirit guides, helpers and Guardian angels,
and is therefore able to sense the dead persons soul hovering in this earthbound state
through their refined and opened 3rd spiritual eye.
A spiritual rescuer will talk to the soul, calm the panic feeling, and ask their guardian
angels, spiritual guides and helpers, to take the soul on towards the Divine light. The
earthbound souls, need our love and prayers of love to give their soul enough energy
to elevate their soul to the Spirit world.
Normally there is someone who cries tears of love for the passed one, and there are
the persons own guardian angels waiting to take the person over to spirit world. If
however there is no-one, for example due to accidental premature death or the person
lived a vacant spiritual life and disconnected even with their own guardian angels or
simply stubbornly does not believe in GOD or spirit world - in their confusion - they
are fighting their souls progression onto spirit realms and remain earthbound .
The soul will wander earthplane until it finds a spiritual psychically aware person
whom they will make contact with, some souls can remain static and earthbound for
many years. (If you have seen the well researched film "GHOST" about an
earthbound soul and a medium you will understand this clearer).
Chapter 5 of Sefer "kavhayosher" ; our original handwritten book is
reproduced in the picture below explains that the whole physical world is indeed full
of lost and troubled earthbound souls, and the greatest act of kindness is for
spiritually sensitive people to "RESCUE" these souls and take them over to the Spirit
world through the power of prayer.

METHOD OF RESCUE WORK


Rescuers will send loving thoughts out to the lost soul and generate the love to help
the soul over to spirit world, through their own group of spirit guides and helpers .
Sometimes you may even feel the need to light a single candle as the soul is elevated
to spirit world .
Usually, a rescuer closes their physical eyes and concentrates on their third eye,
seeing colours is accepted and usual for rescuers . Firstly , you will see a small and
intense circle of green colour usually with a black centre, if, however you see any
other colour, you will have to pray & wait for and concentrate more loving energy to
arrive at the green colour . Once you see this green colour, you are ready to bless this
soul and ask this earthbound spirit to go with your guardian angels towards the divine
white light of spirit world .
Then you will see the tunnel of white light coming closer, towards you, the green
colour and any other colours will disappear and only PURE WHITE light will be
infront, you will feel the peace and serenity, and nothing can harm you, (although you
should be doing this is a quiet and peaceful place in your home without distractions).
Once the earthbound soul has departed then suddenly all the white light will
disappear, and you will feel the soul has left, there will be no more panic or heavy
feeling around you.
Then usually you will see the normal healing pink blue or purple colours that you
usually see. You will then need a re-charge time alone, as is known "as a clearance
day" where your soul replenishes, and the earthbound's remnants of heaviness are
dissipated, usually opening the doors and windows, and allowing in fresh air is
sufficient.

For those people who suffer from migraine attacks they should read the Health page
regarding Migraine attacks for sensitive souls , which explains the reason for some
people getting migraine attacks with aura colours during rescue work of earthbound
evil spirit souls.
A different level of RESCUE WORK
It maybe that you do not see colours, but instead you just have a very strong feeling
of someone's earthbound spirit presence, in which case, in exactly the same way talk
to the person, as if they are really there, tell them to believe in afterlife, ask them to
be calm, trusting that life has purpose and continuity, and in the process of life, now
is the time they must go towards the divine white light of spirit world.
Light a candle for their soul, bless them and wish them well, if you wish - ask your
spirit guides and helpers to take them along their way into spirit world towards the
light. Always light a candle if you sense any panic-type feelings, most people find
that lighting a candle always helps to calm the earthbound soul.
"Tikun haGilgul"
www.tikunim.com explains the need to pray for the soul and elevating the soul
through prayers by lighting 3 candles and reciting the "Tikun HaGilgul". This is the
traditional jewish way of elevating souls towards the Eternal Divine light of Spiritual
World of Souls as taught by Sefer Tikunim.
Spiritual Development
There are two schools of thought, one is that this work is left only for elderly and
learned people. The other is the way i have been taught - and that is:- IF GOD HAS
GIVEN YOU THE GIFT OF VISION OF YOUR THIRD EYE - THEN USE IT.
If you have been blessed with these gifts, at whatever age and situation you are in,
then there must be be a divinely ordained reason. It may not always initially be
obvious why you have been chosen with such sensitive spiritual gifts, but if you have
- it's a blessing and gift which you continually need to work on, with the support of
your spirit guides. So do not close the flow of life energy through your soul by
closing yourself off to these gifts. Maybe the only reason you are alive is to be a
service to GOD and spirit world.
A blessing of seeing colours
Ofcourse, and i certainly hope that as you have been blessed with the gift of seeing
colours, that you are extremely careful whom you talk to about these matters . As a

wicked and horrible lower vibration person in this world can damage and hurt your
soul - if you are open to them .
REMEMBER the story of Joseph in the bible, when his own brothers the 10 sons of
Jacob, tried to kill him and sold him as a slave to Egypt . According to Reb Chaim
Vital in his book "Shaar Kavanos" , it was not just jealousy of the coat of many
colours, but it was because everyone knew that Joseph could see with his THIRD
EYE the colours of spirit world, and they were jealous of this gift . The reference to
his THIRD eye is in the verse:
And that was why Jacob gave joseph the coat of many colours as a sign that he could
see the spirit colours .
Opening of the Third Eye
At the beginning of your opening up of your third eye, you may even be doing
"spiritual rescue work" - without knowing it. Nonetheless as you learn, and in life
generally, when your soul needs to learn it will find the right teachers, the fact that
you are reading this article is in itself a sign - and is probably just clarifying what you
already sense and know .
The rescue work can be extremely draining, and sometimes overwhelming. And
sometimes you may think you are going out of your mind, but just keep steadfast,
focused on this work and the gift you have been blessed with. Stay level-headed and
TRUST IN GOD AND SPIRIT WORLD. If you need help just ask GOD, your
spiritual guides and helpers .
KATYA & Uziel
According to Raziel HaMalach the soul group called "UZIEL" is always available to
help rescue souls over to spirit world, simply say the word "UZIEL" and you will feel
the spiritual presence and energy. There is a word of warning, if you call UZIEL to
help, and use the energy selfishly or dishonestly it will have adverse affect on you.
UZIEL is the group of spirit souls designated for helping with spiritual rescue work.
According to Sefer Shinuyim the soul group called "KATYA" is also always available
to help rescue souls over to spirit world, simply say the word "KATYA" 3 times and
you will feel the spiritual presence of rescue work souls and their energy elevating
your aura. The word KATYA means the "GROUP OF GOD" is the group of
spirit souls designated for helping with the GODLY spiritual rescue work.

A spiritual rescue worker, in essence is acting as a medium, as one has developed


your soul to provide a transfer of love and life energy from GOD. However, if the
earthbound had no belief in GOD, and was vacant of all LOVE energy, then by
TRANSFERENCE, they may have taken a good deal of your stored energy. Now you
simply ask for the flow of LOVE to continue to flow through you and re-charge the
energy depleted by the earthbound soul.
In some ways you may experience the draining effect, as if someone has died, from a
living person. This might be because your THIRD EYE, is seeing their soul, and
maybe aware that they are void of any life energy. In which case be closed to them
and avoid people like that at all costs. These are known as "freeloaders" - living life
at the expense of others.
Transference
In Spirit law there is a principle called "transference", this term was introduced by
Professor Dr Carl Jung in Psychology. In simple terms, when you go into a shop and
buy an apple you give the money in one hand and receive an apple . You have made a
transfer, exchanging your money energy for the shops apple energy . Which when
you eat the apple energy will make you feel good, alive and happy with yourself and
the world . You may then meet someone and because you feel happy, will also make
them feel happy and take away some of their sad feeling. The whole of society and
mankind is acting in a web of transference and interaction of energy .
Similarly, have you ever - suddenly found your mood change from being all loving
and peaceful, and out-of-character you become angry ? The explanation is simple, by
transference, someone you have just connected with, (it could even be the car in front
or behind you in a traffic jam, or someone in the street who has so much frustration
anger or depression), has swapped and transferred their anger energy for your love
energy .
This is especially true when you walk in the street in or a environment where you do
not belong, as the energy conflicts with your soul's level . There maybe lots of people
jealous of your good looks or your exuding confidence, love and peace that you
represent . If you are not closed spiritually when entering such areas, and therefore in
the same way you maybe mugged by thieves in bad neighbourhoods, in spiritually
unsuitable places for your soul, you are similarly stolen from .
The energy of planet earth is LOVE energy, so the depletion of energy is to take from
your reservoir of LOVE. Ofcourse, because you are person full of life and love, you
know how to replenish your reservoir of love of life from life itself. Unfortunately
many people don't know, and go around stealing others energy, especially heavy reincarnated souls full of hate and death energies who keep getting it wrong !

Similarly, if you have been drained by a spiritually "vacant" person, having closure
from them, will make you feel great and restore your vitality. Whereas they will
become very resentful and hateful of you as they saw you as their source of energy;
don't worry - it's "their problem", they will have to learn to stop abusing good people
and stealing energy. see full explanation of principles of "transference".
BEING CLOSED
When you don't want to look at someone, you simply close your eyes, or look down.
Similarly, spiritually when you choose to be closed, you are simply switching off you
inner "radio" tuner, and not allowing in any vibrations to enter your soul. This can be
done simply by being occupied with something that takes your full concentration or
focusing on actually not allowing in anyone's thoughts to affect you .
Don't forget spiritually, you don't have to be in the same place, town, city or country
to sense a spiritual connection. It is based on the energy level of your soul.
Just focus on the fact that you have a precious soul inside you, and your job is to
protect it from negative outside influences. In the same way you would not connect
with infectious people with a deadly disease, don't allow yourself to connect your
soul with theirs.
Olam Hasohu -
The Earthbound plane - known also as the ASTRAL plane
Is there a spirit world where the departed "souls" reside?
What happens when one dies?
Materialists, atheists and skeptics could argue that there is nothing left when we die.
They believe erroneously that life is a purely biological process. For them, when the
body dies, everything stops and that is the end of the personality.
For some, there is a vague uncertain something beyond the physical death. However,
there are those who have no doubt that there is a life after the physical death. For
them, there is a spirit world. - Olam Haba
When someone dies, it brings home the reality that one day we will all die.
Ones physical body houses the spirit - soul . The body is like a garment we put on
while we are alive and we discard it when we die, just like we discard our clothes.

Our soul is attached to life force of GOD, known as the spark of GOD within each of
us. This life force permeates the physical, the astral, the mental, the spiritual and all
levels of our soul.
When death draws close, the soul of a person gradually withdraws itself from the
Physical body , and enters the ASTRAL plane - Olam HaSohu this is not OLAM
HABA - the pure spirit world , but rather an in between world . The words
OLAM HASOHU - literally mean a world of nothingness, not being
physical or purely spiritual.
The spirits in the in-between-world can remain there for a very long time. Until they
learn and accept within their soul, a belief in GOD and in spirit world.
The Olam HaSohu - the astral world is a place where beings reside
when they are not in the physical. The physical world is a place where the same types
of beings reside when they are not in the astral. The astral world is a complex place
full of subtle entrapments just like the situations here in this physical world. In one
sense it is far more deceptive than the physical dimension, in much the same way as
our dreams are deceptive.
No one is wiser just because they are from the astral plane of spirit world. So do not
let those from this plane of spirit world dictate to you. This is especially true when
visiting mediums or clairvoyants who tell you they are contacting spirit world, when
in actual fact they are receiving communication from spirits in the Olam HaSohu
astral plane.
Hence the Torah - the bible telling us it is forbidden to contact the DEAD from the
Olam HaSohu - astral plane, as they can be untruthful and misleading as
people in this world can be! There are mischievous entities just like in the physical
world. Some will put on an air and impersonate a wise sage, even a learned Rabbi, a
deceased relative or a good friend, and will try to fool you or manipulate your life.
In the Olam HaSohu - astral plane, one soon learns that everything is
based on thoughts. Thus, the astral beings can use their thoughts for good or evil.
They can delude themselves by creating thought forms which appear to be real and
continue to live in that illusion until the bubble breaks or until they become bored and
restless. Or they can utilize their thought forms to help people they damaged during
their life, and hence release themselves from punishment and move on to the eternal
Divine Spiritual realms of Olam Habo.
Many of us know many stories of people who died and within a few days, weeks or
months of them dying their children, relatives or friends, had a change in fortune, or
found their true loving soulmate. It had been blocked whilst they were alive by their
negative thoughts, however in their transitional state of Olam HaSohu, in the astral

plane they recognize the error of their lives, and rectify anything they can correct for
the good. Once rectified their spirit is at peace and can elevate itself out of the
earthbound astral plane and move to the eternal Divine spiritual realms.
"WOMEN and the OLAM HASOHU"
Females are more sensitive to illusionary and deceitful energies from the Olam
Hasohu realms, far more than in males; this is learnt from the way that Eve was
deceived by the snake and caused Adam to sin.
Bad Advice from Self proclaimed Mediums/Clairvoyants/Rabbis
Just like in this physical world, there are also cheats in the astral world who give false
information about religion and spirituality. These earthbound souls use the
materialistic and selfish pyschics, mediums and clairvoyants to fool people into a
false belief. This is the reason why many people who go to clairvoyants often find
they get a mixture of good advice and bad advice, but they will always never get
100% truth from a "fortune teller" who takes money for a "reading", and will always
be left more confused and messed-up that had the not gone for a "reading". This is
because these "mediums" are using earthbound souls.
"Earthbound souls" failed there mission in life whilst they were alive, and hence
remain earthbound, their soul intention is to cause other people to fail in their purpose
in life. Such souls use bad souls to cause the same type of bad result. Hence there are
those in this physical dimension who support and spread the same type of false
information to lead people astray and to sidetrack the true searchers of spiritual truth .
There are evil earthbound souls in the astral as well as in the physical dimension are
there to trap others with their lies. Thus, it is very difficult to break out of this tightly
woven scam unless you do some serious thinking yourself instead of swallowing
everything you are being told. This applies to brainwashing religions, some Rabbis
and Rebbes who have become corrupt, materialistic and over fill themselves with
physical pleasures.
My Rebbe always taught me to trust a thin looking, poorly dressed and modest Rabbi;
much more than a fat well-fed rabbi who lives in an expensive house, driving
expensive car and taking a huge salary, going on expensive holiday etc etc ...
"freeloading" from the community he is supposed to serve for no personal material
gain !
The identifying question to see the sincerity of mediums, clairvoyants and even
Rabbis, is to ask, would they still want to serve their communities IF THEY DID
NOT GET PAID, and would they do there work completely incognito? I have never
heard of a medium who gives anyone a "reading" for free ? have you ?

Do they do Spiritual Rescue work where there is no reward nor physical benefit ? as
we all have known some bad rabbis / ministers who refuse to work on their days'
off... ask yourself .."is there a day-off from serving GOD ? "
Our Lucky Generation
The generations since Reb Chaim Vital (about 400 years ago) who wrote sefer
gilgulim have become more aware, through the writing and printing of this spiritual
knowledge.
Hence being warned about these entities fore-arms and protects a person. In our
lifetime we hope that enough people will become enlightened idealistically, and help
bring about purity of all the spiritual realms so that when we do leave this physical
world there will be no more "stopovers" in Olam Hasohu - Astral plane and we can
all go straight HOME to pure OLAM HABO - to GOD .
May you, when your appointed time comes, be amongst the fortunate ones to leave
this world at your destined time, having successfully accomplished your mission in
this life and go straight over to OLAM HABO - to the Eternal Divine Spiritual
Realms of GOD.

"The Three Keys of Reincarnation"

"The Keys " & "The Gates "


Reb Chaim Vital explains all the aspects and facets of Reincarnation in terms of "Keys"
& "Gates", understanding that unlocking the secrets to ones past life, and unblocking the
spiritual blocks to ones soul is like opening a locked GATE. The KEY to unlock the
GATE is wisdom and knowledge, the KEY is a single thought in ones mind and soul.

To open an enormous door, you only need a tiny key. To solve a baffling mystery, you
only need a small clue. It may seem as if something vast and daunting is preventing you
from making progress, naturally enough, you are contemplating big moves.
Yet all you really require is a little piece of information. A word or two from the right
person. An idea from the right part of your own imagination. An insight from the right
section of the library. A seemingly trivial discovery is about to make a very big
difference. These pieces of knowledge are known as the KEYS of Reincarnation.

"The Three Keys of Reincarnation"


Reb Chaim Vital explains that all of mankind, that is EVERYONE of us, every single
reincarnated soul in the whole world, are here to correct ALL 3 KEYS of Reincarnation.
For some who have easily overcome these aspects in previous lives, they will be able to
easily overcome them again in this life; for those who failed in previous lifetimes it will
be vitally important that one succeeds in overcoming these 3 aspects in this lifetime
otherwise one will not be able to live the life one' soul is truly destined to live with
aliveness, happiness and peace of mind with ones true loving Soulmate with the
spirituality of Adam & Eve in the Garden of Eden.
Reb Chaim Vital explains that these "3 Keys of Reincarnation" affect every person born
in this physical life and have always been affecting ALL of Humanity since Adam & Eve
sinned, by correcting these 3 aspects one is actually "going back" in time in the world,
undoing the mistakes of past generation and returning to utopia to the time as far back as
Adam & Eve in the Garden of Eden, the ultimate correction of ones soul.
Each of these 3 aspects need to be healed in the reverse order they occurred in the world
(we explain what "reverse order" means below) to make the perfect spiritual correction
for ones soul, then one will will be perfectly ready to be spiritually enlightened with
ones true Soulmate to the level of Adam & Eve as they were enlightened in the Garden
of Eden.
1. The Complainers; these are people who are never happy nor satisfied with
life, people who never appreciate or say "thank you", nor show any gratitude for
anything. Complainers are naturally "greedy" and always desire something that is not
theirs, because they are never content with that which they have and feel the need to take
from other people.
2. The Atheists; people who deny the existence of GOD, deny an existence a
Eternal Divine Creator of the Universe, deny the existence of an afterlife and deny the
existence of a spiritual Soul.

3. The Wasteful; people whom are wasteful with the gift of life are indeed selfdestroying themselves and destroying their own souls. Such destructive people are often
so draining, negative and destructive that they desire to destroy other peoples lives too.

1st Key of Reincarnation - The Complainers


1. The Complainers; a complainer is someone who is never happy nor satisfied
with life, people who never appreciate nor say "thank you", nor show any gratitude for
anything. Complainers are naturally "greedy" and always desire something that is not
theirs, because they are never content with that which they have and feel the need to take
from other people.
"Complainers" usually reflect characters of greedy and selfish "takers" in a manner of
children that are incapable of looking after themselves. They have not learnt to "growup", hence they continue to take from others without giving or creating.

The Way to Correct


The 1st Key of Reincarnation
The way to correct the 1st Key of Reincarnation is of "Complaining &
Ingratitude" is to say "THANK YOU" to everyone and for everything one has in ones
life.
Everyone in the world has this inherent character, we have all complained about
something or someone in our life; the secret of the 1st Key of Reincarnation is to STOP
COMPLAINING, learn to see the goodness in everyone and everything.
Naturally some people mature earlier than others, to the extent that good children are
less selfish than many adults, that's simply because this facet has already been healed in
previous lifetimes, and the last remnant of "complaining" in their soul is eradicated at an
early age.
Reb Chaim Vital writes that unfortunately Jewish souls that are reincarnated from the
generation of Jewish people who wandered the wilderness have the most difficult
reincarnation; and for them this 1st Key of Reincarnation is the ONLY challenge and
correction of their whole lives, once they STOP complaining and sincerely show
gratitude for everything in their lives, they will be blessed to enter the equivalent to the
"Promised Land" in their lives today, otherwise their lives will keep going around and
around in circles until they STOP COMPLAINING.

Overlapping in this category is GOSSIPING, as people who complain naturally tend to


GOSSIP, talk about, lie, slander and abuse the power of speech, therefore to rectify this
1st Key of Reincarnation one should learn to correct the power of ones speech.

The Origins of the Complainers


Origins of The 1st Key of Reincarnation
The origins of the name and title of the 1st Key of Reincarnation comes from
the Generation of the Jewish people who wandered the wilderness for 40 years. The
whole generation that had been slaves in Egypt, had been freed by GOD and Moses with
miracle after miracle, and still had an inherent ingratitude and unappreciation for what
had happened in their lives that they COMPLAINED against GOD.
The extent of their ingratitude was to attempt to kill Moses the one whom led them out
of slavery, they even wanted to return to the slavery life they had in Egypt.
Each time they complained, GOD did create miracles to keep them quiet and to see if
they would eventually learn to appreciate GOD, such as feeding them with "Manna from
Heaven" everyday, however when complained about the "Promised Land" they erred in
the biggest mistake of their lives, together with serving the Golden Calf (which was like
a declaration that the Golden Calf had made miracle for them and NOT GOD), the
Eternal Divine GOD said "ENOUGH was ENOUGH", and their souls were condemned
to learn the lesson of gratitude and appreciation for eternity.
ONLY when ones soul has learnt the lesson of gratitude and appreciation will one feel
the 1st door of reincarnation open.
Reb Chaim Vital explains that everyone should THANK GOD for everything one has
every moment of everyday of ones life to always keep the GATEWAY open. Every
morning when we awake there are blessings and prayers to THANK GOD for the gift of
life.
The need to continually say THANK YOU is vitally important especially if one feels
sad, depressed and has a lack of vitality, which are signs that the flow of spiritual lifeenergy into ones soul is thwarted and blocked. The 1st Key of Reincarnation needs to be
used, quite simply the way to OPEN UP the gate of to say "THANK YOU" and
appreciate everything one has.
We explain the importance and necessity of Saying "THANK YOU" on HeavensRegister
website.

Quoted from Sefer Shaar Gilgulim Hakdoma 22


Reb Chaim Vital explains in the text above that if one doesn't break the 1st Key of
Reincarnation after 5 reincarnations then a person , will be reincarnated into an
animal that is unable to speak or even worse into an inanimate object, like a tree or a
leaf.
Therefore we all need to be aware of the consequences of abusing our power of speech,
we all have a responsibility to use the power of speech wisely using it to ALWAYS say
THANK YOU GOD for everything we have in our lives.

2nd Key of Reincarnation - The NonBelievers


2. The Atheists; people who deny the existence of GOD, deny an existence a
Eternal Divine Creator of the Universe, deny the existence of an afterlife and deny the
existence of a spiritual Soul.
This 2nd Key of reincarnation to believe in GOD applies to everyone in the whole
world. As we grow up, it is only our individual personal experiences, inner feelings and
belief system that will guide us to either believe or not believe in GOD.
Reb Chaim Vital explains that there are different understanding and levels in "Belief of
GOD" . The ( Ribbono Shel Olam), is the Master and Creator of the whole
Universe and of an infinite Eternal Divine Spiritual world of souls.
As a person matures and grows in wisdom and experiences ones perception of GOD
comes closer to the truth; as a child we imagined GOD as a man with a long saintly
white beard, as we mature we know GOD has no image nor structure as we could
possibly perceive with a limited physical capabilities, instead we all eventually see the
truth that GOD is EVERYTHING.
EVERYTHING we see in the whole universe is GOD, we are all actually just a part of
the Oneness of GOD. All the planets, stars in the sky, the infinite space in the Universe

and to the smallest of cells in our body are part of the same Oneness of GOD. We are all
connected because we are all part of GOD. GOD is EVERYTHING.

The Way to Correct


The 2nd Key of Reincarnation
Time and concentrated spiritual thinking enable us to correct the 2nd Key of
Reincarnation; as we experience life and mature we open up the locked door; we start to
perceive the Eternal Infinite Divine Creator of the Universe, we open up spiritually to
sense our inner soul, we sense our Guardian Angels and believe in the eternal Divine
spiritual realms of souls.
Usually when someone we love dies and passes to Spirit world are perception of GOD
and of Spirituality changes, these emotions and inner feelings are developed for
everyone uniquely as one senses that their spiritual soul still continues its existence.
The way to correct the 2nd Key of Reincarnation is to "think" spiritually, understand
sincerely the spirituality of life, the existence of a soul, the existence of afterlife and
most importantly the existence of GOD - The ( Ribbono Shel Olam), the
Master and Creator of the whole Universe and of an infinite Eternal Divine Spiritual
world of souls.


Lift up your eyes towards the heavens, and look - "Who created these stars & Planets" ?
Take a moment to look at the Stars, the Moon and sky at night, then think "who created
these?" Contemplate the vastness of infinite space in our amazing Universe, it is almost
impossible to think of the greatness of the ( Ribbono Shel Olam), the Master

and Creator of the whole Universe, as it really is amazingly infinite. The vastness we see
is just a small aspect of GOD - so how on earth can we deny the existence of GOD ?

The Origins of the Non Believers


The 2nd Key of Reincarnation
After the generation of the flood in the time of Noah, when the whole world except Noah
and his family perished, the people in the following generations (see Genesis chapter 11)
began to question the existence of GOD, they denied the existence of GOD and
demanded "real" proof that GOD existed. Therefore they built a tower so tall in the sky
to try and reach the heavens above, and "find" GOD, as they built higher and higher they
saw nothing and started to convince themselves that there is NO GOD, in their eyes
GOD doesn't exist, spirit world doesn't exist and nothing spiritual exists.
They believed that if one couldn't see something or have physical proof then it doesn't
exist. They were completely earthly and non-spiritual. They were known as
"denying the existence of GOD and of Spiritual World of Souls".

ACCEPT there is a GOD !


Reincarnated souls that fail to break the 2nd Key of Reincarnation will continue to
reincarnate with the challenge and inner struggle of belief versus non-belief until they
ACCEPT there is a GOD. Once they accept without any arguments nor debate nor
questioning, but simply ACCEPT the fact that there is a GOD and an Eternal DIVINE
spiritual realm of souls then the 2nd gate is opened.
Reb Chaim Vital explains that if one fails to use ones freewill choice to BELIEVE in
GOD after 5 reincarnations then ones soul will be reincarnated into a stone or a rock,
which exists forever, trapped and locked with no life energy.
Reb Chaim Vital explains that when Volcanoes erupt and the heat of hell spews forth its
molten lava, such liquid lava when it cools forms rocks, such rocks are of reincarnated
souls of non-believers. Ofcourse these explanations should ideally be read in depth in the
Sefer Gilgulim & Shaar Gilgulim Hakdoma 22 & 25.

3rd Key of Reincarnation


The Wasteful & Self Destructive

3. The Wasteful; people whom are wasteful with the gift of life are indeed selfdestroying themselves and destroying their own souls. Such destructive people are often
so draining, negative and destructive that they desire to destroy other peoples lives too.
This 3rd Key of Reincarnation is probably the most challenging and difficult aspect of
reincarnation, and yet the most rewarding as once one has overcome this 3rd Gate of
Reincarnation, success means that ones soul has arrived at the level of Adam & Eve in
the Garden of Eden.
At this stage everything in ones life will be perfect, one will have an inner peace, one
will be with and merit ones true helpful Soulmate, living in the right place for ones soul,
fulfilling ones true purpose in life and living with complete spiritual enlightenment.

The Meaning of 3rd Key of Reincarnation



The Wasteful & Self Destructive
Reb Chaim Vital explains that the 3rd Key of Reincarnation , the "Wasteful &
Self Destructive " refers to the waste of anything and everything. He writes that
if one is a wasteful person in one aspect of ones life then one is probably wasteful in
many other aspects, the challenge of the 3rd Key of Reincarnation is NOT to waste
anything.
Reb Chaim Vital explains the wasteful and self-destructive aspect specifically refers to
sexual waste, anyone who masturbates and wastes sexual energy is blocking their own
life. The 3rd gate is kept closed to all those who waste sexual energy.
The purpose of sexual energy is to make love with ones true loving soulmate ones
wife/husband, it is NOT permitted to be wasted. The flow of sexual energy and seed is
when a man and woman are connected together in the ONLY ONE correct way, that is a
man on top of a woman facing each other, lying down in a bed, with his erect penis
inside a woman's vagina. We explain the fullness and reasons according to Reb Chaim
Vital on correct sexual behaviour in the section of "Sexual Health".
ONLY when a person understands the value of ones soul, and refuses to waste sexual
energy, hence refuses to waste anything in life then one has overcome the 3rd Key of
Reincarnation, and has reached the level of pure spiritual enlightenment.

The Way to Correct the


3rd Key of Reincarnation


The biggest challenge for everyone is to overcome the senseless wasteful urges of life
energy and waste of time. Reb Chaim Vital writes if one wishes to overcome this
challenge one should start with any part of ones life; wherever one is either wasting time
or wasting energy, recognize this and STOP WASTING.
Wasting is SELF DESTRUCTIVE as it creates a blockage in ones life, it takes a gift of
life energy that one is blessed with and destroys this energy. When a person wastes
anything a person is declaring that they don't want something to be given to them as they
will only squander and waste.
Reb Chaim Vital states that the biggest waste of all mankind is the "waste of time";
people are wasting the gift of life. Start by using ones time wisely, then use everything
one has in ones life wisely, thereby sending one's soul the message that one is NO longer
wasting life. Then magically one's life will start to change, the 3rd Key of Reincarnation
is now corrected.
The Way to Correct the , self destructive and wasteful nature is
to value the importance of getting this 3rd aspect of Reincarnation corrected in ones life.
This is the secret to getting everything one truly needs in ones life, it will bring great
blessing, a feeling of perfection, cleanliness, purity with a radiant spiritual inner peace.
Then one will be blessed to be with and merit ones true helpful Soulmate, living in the
right place for ones soul, fulfilling ones true purpose in life and living with complete
spiritual enlightenment - this is the 3rd Key of Reincarnation.

The Origins of the the


The 3rd Key of Reincarnation
The generation of the flood who were promiscuous, wasted their sexual energy, wasted
everything they had in life, wasted the gift of life and squandered the time they had on
earth. As quoted in Genesis Chapter 6. Their wastefulness lead them to arrogance that
there was no punishment for their attitude or bad behaviour. They had the arrogance to
believe they could do whatever they wanted and would never get punished. This instilled
a sense of lawlessness, hence people felt threatened, murder and theft was prevalent in
their society. Hence they self-destroyed themselves. Our duty is to correct this fatal
mistake, stop wasting and stop self-destroying ourselves.

The 3 Keys 1, 2 and 3

We ALL Need to Correct these 3 Aspects



Ecclesiastes - Kohelles 7 verse 20
Reb Chaim Vital explains and emphasizes that everyone in every generation, we have all
sinned in these 3 aspects that is why we have been born and reincarnated in this physical
life in order to correct our mistakes from previous lifetimes; we all need to regret what
we have done in this lifetime and previous lifetimes in these 3 aspects.
Then we need to eradicate completely these bad aspects, refine, elevate and correct our
souls for all of eternity in all of these 3 aspects, to raise our spirituality to the level of
"Adam & Eve in the Garden of Eden" before they sinned, and therefore never need to
reincarnate to correct these 3 fundamental keys of reincarnation.

The Reverse Order


Reb Chaim Vital explains that ach of these 3 aspects need to be healed in the reverse
order they occurred in the world, as we are trying to roll-back time to the utopia and
perfection of Adam & Eve in the Garden of Eden. This is the ultimate correction and
cleansing of our souls, the purpose that our souls reincarnated to earth.

The Reward for Correcting


The 3 Keys of Reincarnation
One will be blessed to be with and merit ones true helpful Soulmate, living in the right
place for ones soul, fulfilling ones true purpose in life and living with complete spiritual
enlightenment - this is the 3rd Key of Reincarnation. One will have broken the cycle of
Reincarnation and prepared ones soul for a life in the spiritual world.
May GOD - The ( Ribbono Shel Olam), the Master and Creator of the whole
Universe and of an infinite Eternal Divine Spiritual world of souls give each and
everyone on earth the strength and ability to open the 3 gates of Reincarnation with the 3
keys of reincarnation. Amen .

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"The Keys of Life"


Reb Chaim Vital explains that unlike the "3 keys of reincarnation" which focus on
cleansing ones soul from past-life mistakes, "The Keys of Life" enable everyone to do
everything they want to in this life.
"The Keys of Life" are entrusted with spiritually enlightened souls who have arrived at
the spiritual soul level of "Chaya" and "Yechida"; as the Eternal Divine Creator of the
Universe knows that these spiritually enlightened people, referred to as "Guardians of
Mankind" will use these keys wisely and selflessly.

" Behind the Veil"


Reb Chaim Vital explains that the state of spirituality when one has fully corrected ones
soul, and that there is no longer a single thought of hatred, anger or "death" energy in
ones soul, then one has elevated ones soul so high that one is above this physical world,
it's deception and materialistic values, that one only sees everything clearly from a
spiritual perspective. This elevation of ones soul is known has being able to see "
Behind the Veil", like rising above the clouds in a plane, once the plane has passed
through the clouds one can suddenly see clearly.
When a person can see clearly from a spiritual perspective, a person is able to
understand the meaning of life and the reasons why things happen. Understanding and
accepting that everything has a DIVINE plan in order to rectify souls.

The Keys of Life means Every Prayer is


Answered
Reb Chaim Vital explains that every person whom has arrived at this spiritual level is
able to have EVERY prayer answered, this is the meaning of having the "Keys of Life".
The power of speech is the most special gift that humans are given; silly people waste
the power of speech in talking nonsense, gossip, lies and frivolous conversations, this is
a waste of life; hence for such people they find it very difficult to have their prayers
answered as they keep themselves stuck.
Spiritually enlightened souls are careful with every word they speak, as they "know" that
the key to having ones prayers answered is to be careful with the power of speech.
Having and being in possession of the keys of life is dependant on one's speech. Use it
wisely, properly, constructively and spiritually then one will have all of ones prayers
answered. Abuse the power of speech and one will find ones spirituality drop below "the
clouds of the veil", finding it difficult to pray.

Be Careful with ones power of SPEECH


....
"One who speaks gossip (even if its true) against another loses their right to his/her
destined place in spirit world" (In Talmud Sanhedrin page 90a).
The Prophet Elijah in Tana Devei Eliyahu teaches us that gossiping and telling lies, ruins
and corrupts a persons soul, to the extent that disruptive and blocking Angels are given
to the person, to block their lives. This is a direct consequence that the person has abused
the power of his/her speech through lies, deceit slander and gossiping, then a persons
prayers are not answered.
Together with Reb Chaim Vitals teachings in later generations this emphasis on "power
of speech" became are the main focus of the teachings of the Chofetz Chaim and Rabbi
Segal.
The remedy is simply, be wise and careful with the power of one's speech. Then one will
rise to the spiritual level to have all of ones prayers answered.

"The Keys of Life"

Everyone whom has the "The Keys of Life" instinctively knows to when to use the
power of prayer, naturally one will not interfere with or change certain aspects of
"destiny"; however if one feels that the lessons have been learnt by the person, or that a
person doesn't need to learn certain difficult lessons that one who has the "Keys of Life"
can make things happen "magically" that can take away pain and suffering.
The undertaking by the beneficiary must be to have the same end-result as they would
have had, had they gone through the pain and suffering, then one is not considered to be
interferring with destiny.
In certain circumstance one can change destiny, provided this has an end result of
making this world a more spiritually enlightened place and the souls in it have become
more elevated spiritually.
This is truly considered to be using the "Keys of Life" wisely with the blessing of GOD.

"DIVINE Success"
The secret for DIVINE success and good fortune is to live a purposeful, selfless life in
service of GOD as explained in Book of Psalms Chapter 1 :





May it be the will of GOD that we all elevate our souls to be entrusted with the

Keys of Life
Learning to Say "Thank You"
Unblocking ones life by saying Thank You
GOD
The continuous flow of lifes energy is dependant on the recognition and saying the
simple words THANK YOU. By saying thank you for anything and everything that

is in ones life, is a sign of appreciation to the "benefactor", that one has received the
energy of life and wishes to continue the flow.
It is the best way to release any awkward situation and difficulties one has, by genuinely
coming to the level of appreciation for everything in ones life is the best way to show
one is now ready to move on to the next stage of life. Likewise the best way to stay
attached to a situation, person or place is by complaining.
By giving thanks for every situation and seeing the good in everything, this will reflect
spiritually in ones soul is now learning and progressing forward in life.

The First Impression


What are the first words and questions new acquaintance asks you? How did you react to
your first encounter with that new person in your life? These aspects identifies the
character of the person and of your relationship with them. Either they will be a giver,
taker, user or abuser, honest or deceitful, constructive or destructive, happy or sad,
good or bad or someone your can create life energy with.
When one meets someone new, the first words they ever say, identifies their character to
you. Whatever the first impression is to you, this is engrained in your mind and soul.
Likewise, your first impression to others has the same affect.
Each person is identified by the words they use. People whom you meet, if the first
question they ask you is work / business related, this is a reflection on their character that
is what THEY are concerned with - materialism . If a person asks you about your health,
welfare or something of importance then they are genuinely concerned for you, this
reflects their kindness. If they are using negative words and complaining - then RUN
AWAY from them, they are bad! If they are using positive constructive, loving and kind
words - they are good!
The First Date; when dating, the questions people ask you are more important than the
answers. The questions the date is asking are the primary concerns the person has. Do
they continually want to know your financial status, career, job and materialistic ideals,
or are they concerned with the charitable/voluntary work you do to help others?

Identify them - Are they Constructive or


Destructive?
The world needs all kinds of people, and maybe a person feels good amongst
materialistic and the shallow minded people whom live for the animalistic pleasures of
today, and not thinking for a single moment in anything spiritual, that is their problem

and their chosen stage of life, just beware that they dont influence you and dont you
join such a shallow group of people.
For those people who are seeking and searching for a purposefully enlivened life on an
enlightened pathway, then it is of vital importance to identify the characters of people
one meets as soon as possible; attaching with the good and appreciative, running away &
having closure from the troubled and complaining type.

Going Around in Circles is a Punishment


for Complaining
The Spiritual concept that going around in circles in life is a punishment for
complaining, as the rule if one doesn't stop complaining then life will give a person
reasons to complain applies. Learning to break the cycle by STOP complaining, learning
to appreciate life and give THANKS!
The Book of Reincarnation Sefer Gilgulim explains that all souls that have been
reincarnated are here to learn the lesson to appreciate the goodness of life, and to
overcome the urge of COMPLAINING against GOD for the life one has. The reason a
person has the life one has, is in order to learn the lesson of appreciation, as it could
always be far worse!
In Sefer Gilgulim, the Book of Reincarnation, these complaining souls are referred to as
souls from the wilderness - complainers , whom GOD punished by
letting them wander around in circles in the wilderness for 40 years as a punishment for
complaining. This is a lesson for everyone, the punishment of feeling stagnated and
wandering around in circles in life, without really accomplishing anything, identifies to
ones soul an urgent need to change - only one aspect of ones life :-

STOP COMPLAINING
This is the simple spiritual law for a successful & purposeful life of inner happiness &
peace by simply Stop complaining. Learning to be grateful and happy for everything
that happens in life is one of the most important lessons in life for spiritual progress.

...
One who complains about problems then
the problems are doubled

If one does NOT change, the Book Tana Devei Eliyahu says, one who
complains about problems then the problems are doubled. The whole purpose of pain
and problems is to wake a person up SPIRITUALLY. If one has not woken up, then
more pain is sent to try and wake up the person in a different way.
The real reason a person has failures in life, is to make one aware that one has a
disconnection with GOD, or one is denying existence that a spiritual afterlife, as the
eternal DIVINE spirit world is the only source of life-giving loving creative energy of
this world, if one is truly connected one will feel at peace with oneself and with
everything in ones life.
The reason pain occurs in life, is due to some level of a disconnection with GOD. Once
the person has woken up to become loving instead of hateful, constructive instead of
destructive, spiritually awakened instead of like the living dead spiritually,
appreciative of life instead of complaining, then the purpose of pain is fulfilled and the
painful lesson will be taken away.
Start thinking in terms of seeing the good in people and seeing the good in everything
that happens in ones life. Look for reasons to give compliments, using kind and loving
words, then one will feel attached to the unity of the world instead of being lonely selfish
and detached.
When a person starts to see the good in everything that happens in life, then only good
can happen, even if other people see it as bad luck, a spiritually aware person - always
sees and feels the goodness in everything that happens.

Learning to be Appreciative and Say


THANK YOU GOD!
God's abundant life giving energy is a flow - like a river. In the universal spirit law of
flow of energy, energy MUST continue flowing, wherever there is a stagnation or
blockage, inevitably means death.
One of the greatest gifts given to every living entity on this planet is the inherent feeling
desire and emotion to want to give to others. When parents give love, help, support, food
and clothing to their children they are overwhelmed by a sense of purpose in life. The
more generous, kind and loving - the more energy and good fortune flows through and is
attracted into ones life.
In exact proportion as you give thanks, joy and love - you will receive joy and sincere
love, this is a spiritual law of reciprocity. Joy and true love increase in ones life as you
give it, and diminishes as you try to keep it for the selfish self.



In the way a person behaves to others, so the person is treated by others, or as the
famous saying what goes around - comes around, if you are kind and generous to
others, then life will be kind and generous to you, if one cheats and deceives others then
one will be deceived.

The Spiritual Law of Continuity of Flow


The spiritual law of continuity of flow of love and energy means that whatever you give
to one person, never expect it back from them, the flow of love, energy and good fortune
will come from somewhere else, just like a flowing river. A flow of nature means giving
in one place and receiving from another.

Just Learn to say THANK YOU


Say Thank You for anything and everything in your life. Just say the words Thank
you GOD a hundred times now and see for yourself, thats right open your mouth and
say the words loudly Thank you GOD; as you hear yourself say the words Thank you
GOD you will immediately feel much better, like it has opened up a magical door
inside your head and dont be surprised if something good happens very shortly!
These words have an affect on ones soul, and they do take away negative blockages from
ones life. Just say the words Thank you GOD even if you dont mean it, as soon you
will find reasons that you really do mean it!
Begin to appreciate what you have and even whisper the words to yourself
THANK YOU ! THANK YOU ! THANK YOU ! THANK YOU GOD !
Once a person has broken the cycle of complaining and bad attitude of mind, learnt to
appreciate and give thanks for even the smallest of thing in life, one will feel reborn.
With this new attitude to life, one will find that there will be so many wonderful
changes, which will make ones life feel purposeful with an inner spiritual glow of
happiness and peace of mind.

Footprints by an Anonymous Author


One night a man had a dream. He dreamed he was walking along the beach with the
Lord. Across the sky flashed scenes from his life. For each scene, he noticed two sets of
footprints in the sand; one belonging to him and the other to the Lord.

When the last scene of his life flashed before him, he looked back at the footprints in the
sand. He noticed that many times along the path of his life there was only one set of
footprints. He also noticed that it happened at the very lowest and saddest times in his
life.
This really bothered him and he questioned the Lord about it. "Lord, you said that once I
decided to follow you, you'd walk with me all the way. But I have noticed that during the
most troublesome times in my life, there is only one set of footprints. I don't understand
why when I needed you most you would leave me."
The Lord replied, "My precious child, I Love you and would never leave you. During
your times of trial and suffering, when you see only one set of footprints, it was then that
I carried you."
Appreciating the Divine Help
Everyone has experienced difficulties and continues to face challenges everyday,
however, once one adapts a spiritual attitude to life, learning to accept difficulties as tests
of ones character, learning the lessons of ones circumstances and appreciating the gift of
life, then anything else that is beyond a persons abilities to solve one can always ask in
prayer from GOD and ones Guardian Angels to help.
A Candle - the Spiritual Light of Hope
Whenever one needs to feel the energy of the eternal Divine spiritual world, simply light
a candle a pray, ask GOD to make a way where there seems to be no way and always
remember to thank GOD and ones Guardian Angles for everything that has happened
each and every day. Then miracle shall follow miracle and wonders shall never cease,
Amen.

Footnotes to "Thank You GOD"


From Sefer Shinuyim - The Book of Changes, the Rebbe Quotes from the "Hagada of
Pesach" - , Where the 4 different sons are discussed as 4 different characters
of life .
..." a wise man-what does he say ?"
..." a wicked man-what does he say ?"
Each of the characters are identified by the words they use . People whom you meet, if
the first question they ask you is work / business related, this is a reflection on their
character that is what THEY are concerned with - materialism. If a person asks your
health welfare and are concerned for you, this reflects their kindness. If they are using

negative words and complaining - then RUN AWAY from the them ! they are bad ! If
they are using positive constructive, loving and kind words - they are good !

SIMPLY SAY
THANK YOU !!!!!!!

THANK YOU !!!!!!


THANK YOU !!!!!!!

THANK YOU GOD !!!


I guarantee you that, as you start to appreciate and say thank you for what you have in
life, then by law of nature more good things will start to come your way ...
Once a person has BROKEN completely the cycle of complaining, learnt to appreciate
and give THANKS for even the smallest of thing in life, one's life will feel reborn. With
so many wonderful changes, making life purposeful with an inner spiritual glow of
happiness and peace of mind .
"The way to have prayers answered"

According to Reb Chaim Vital and his teacher the famous Ari Zal, if we wish to have our
prayers answered then we should spend our time in prayer THANKING GOD for the
gift of life, thanking GOD for everything that has happened in our lives, then all our
prayers will be answered as understood from the following story:I dreamt that I went to Heaven and an angel was showing me around. We walked sideby-side inside a large workroom filled with angels. My angel guide stopped in front of
the first section and said, "This is the Receiving Section. Here, all petitions to GOD said
in prayer are received."
I looked around in this area, and it was terribly busy with so many angels sorting out
petitions written on voluminous paper sheets and scraps from people all over the world.
Then we moved on down a long corridor until we reached the second section.
The angel then said to me, "This is the Packaging and Delivery Section. Here, the graces
and blessings the people asked for are processed and delivered to the living persons who
asked for them."

I noticed again how busy it was there. There were many angels working hard at that
station, since so many blessings had been requested and were being packaged for
delivery to Earth.
Finally at the farthest end of the long corridor we stopped at the door of a very small
station. To my great surprise, only one angel was seated there, idly doing nothing. "This
is the Acknowledgment Section," my angel friend quietly admitted to me. He seemed
embarrassed. "How is it that? There's no work going on here?" I asked.
"So sad," the angel sighed. "After people receive the blessings that they asked for, very
few send back acknowledgments; however everyone who sends in a "THANK YOU"
their name is signed in a special book that gets them priority treatment next time they
pray and ask GOD for help".
Lord, make me an instrument of your peace!
Where there is hatred, let me bring love;
Where there is injury, let me bring forgiveness;
Where there is discord, let me bring harmony;
Where there is falsehood, let me bring truth;
Where there is doubt, let me bring faith;
Where there is despair, let me bring hope;
Where there is darkness, let me bring light;
Where there is sadness, let me bring joy.
LORD, grant that I may not seek so much
To be consoled as to console;
To be understood as to understand;
To be loved as to love.
Because it is in giving that we receive,
It is in forgetting ourselves that we find others,
It is in forgiving that we are forgiven,
And it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.
Then miracle shall follow miracle and wonders never cease . Amen

Preparing for the Next Life


"One who sows with tears will reap with happiness"
Psalms 126

"If You Sow then You Shall Reap"


Reb Chaim Vital explains that the whole purpose of learning and understanding
reincarnation, is in order to correct ones soul, and prepare ones soul for the onward
spiritual journey into eternity.
Reb Chaim Vital explains that the verse in Psalms referring to sowing with tears, is
referring tears of happiness when one has been forgiven and when one forgives others,
the ultimate correction of reincarnation, as there is no greater spiritual happiness than
breaking the negative cycle of death, hatred, anger and reincarnation.
Breaking the cycle of life and death, sets ones soul free spiritually, hence ones soul can
now elevate from the physical world peacefully with spiritual enlightenment, becoming
at ONE with GOD.
The state of ONENESS can be attained whilst one is still living and hence death is a
mere small painless transition into the spirit world, as ones soul is already at ONE with
GOD in this physical world, one has no fears as one has accomplished everything one
came to do in this physical world.

The Day of Death is Guarenteed for


Everyone !
One thing is guarenteed for everyone in the whole world is that we are all going to die
one day, one day we are all going to enter the Eternal Divine Spiritual realms, whichever
pathway we choose to take in life; every single permutation will end up with the same
result.
At that moment we will either be free and happy to have had a worthwile life, rectifying
all the reasons we came into this life, or have a pain and anguish with a life full of a
regrets of things we should never have done and mistakes we should never have made.
Let us, learn from the Sefer Gilgulim and teachings of Reb Chaim Vital to enter the
Eternal Divine Spiritual realms well prepared and at ONE with GOD in peace and love,
to be at ONE with GOD knowing that we have successfully broken the cycle of death
and reincarnation forever.

A Life of Harmonious Oneness with


GOD
A Life of Harmonious Oneness
The Highest Level of Spiritual Enlightenment is this Physical World is in
The State of Oneness with the Creator of the Universe
The highest spiritual goal for our soul to attain in this physical life is to arrive at the
highest level possible, that is a harmonious state of Oneness with GOD.
When one becomes so close to the source and essence of the Eternal Divine Creator of
the Universe one looses all personal individuality, ego, physical desires and identity - at
that moment one becomes at "One" with GOD.
It is instinctively natural for every human being to strive for a goal in life; whatever and
whomsoever we are in this physical life we are always seeking to improve our lives with
goals, aims and ambitions. The most spiritually minded people are often the most
ambitious as their souls are yearning and striving to attain something so special that it is
"almost" impossible but not quite impossible.

The Perfect State of Unity with GOD


This perfect state of Oneness , is complete Unity with GOD and is only attainable
for short periods of time each day in this physical life; this state is not possible for 24
hours a day, everyday.
That is because this state of Unity Oneness , practically means that one is no longer
physically alive in this physical world, one loses all individuality, personal identity, with
no need for anything physical whatsoever, one is completely 100% spiritual.
This state of Oneness is ofcourse savoured for the moment when a person's soul leaves
this physical world and goes to the Eternal Light of the Spirit World at death, however
highly enlightened spiritual souls can attain this feeling of "Oneness" and level of
spirituality whilst still alive in this world each and every day.

"Shema Yisroel Adonai Eloheinu Adonai


Echad"
Each and everyday twice a day, in the morning and evening prayers, we cover our eyes
with our right hand, (to block out this physical world), and say this prayer declaring our
desire to be at "One with GOD". At this moment we are praying to be elevated
spiritually to be AT ONE with GOD.
With just one moment of "Oneness with GOD" in the morning and evening ones soul
will be energized to live life.

Entering the Spiritual Garden


Sefer Shinuyim the Book of Changes explains that everyone can attain this level of
Oneness with GOD which is referred in Kabbalah to entering the Garden of Secrets Pardes.
This level is attained when one has cleansed ones soul, mastered all the positive aspects
of ones soul, become a selfless servant and spiritual inspirational teacher,one has
brought down from spirit realms a surge of spiritual energy in creating significant change
or "miracles" and bringing healing and changes to people who need help; at this level of
spirituality of one's soul, one is at total peace and is ready to be at "One with GOD".
Ones soul is invited and drawn into the spiritual garden where one attains Oneness
, complete Unity with GOD.
As with every spiritual gift, this is a gift that ones soul is given and one is invited to be at
One , complete Unity with GOD, this is not something that one pushes oneself into
like a gate-crasher.
Those people who try to push their way into the Garden of Secrets - Pardes will
only find their Garden of Secrets - Pardes is a false garden orchestrated and
manipulated by the souls in the earthbound state of .
Nonetheless there are certain signs that one is arriving at the state of Oneness in one
spiritual pathway to enlightenment and that is one is full of love and compassion for all
of humanity.
Preparations for

Oneness with GOD


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"To be Fair in Justice, Show Loving Kindness and Follow the Hidden Pathway with
GOD" - Book of Micah Chapter 6 verses 7&8. Micah means to explain that to be "At
One with GOD" one must be absolutely fair with everyone with an acceptance and
understanding that everyone is created by GOD; learn to show loving and compassionate
kindness to everyone, and follow in the ways of GOD by being incognito.

"Being Incognito "


Following the ways of GOD and being incognito in this physical world, is probably the
hardest aspect, as it means that one is practically living a double life; being one person
outwardly on the surface but inwardly being a very deep thinking, very spiritual, very
prayerful, doing so much goodness and kindness that no one will ever know about what
one has done nor attribute it to you; to the extent that no one will ever thank or praise
you for anything, nor do you benefit from nor want nor need to benefit from anything
one has done as the only reason one does anything is for ones soul to come closer to
GOD. That's exactly what is meant by the prophet in the book of Micah in "Being
Incognito " .
All the natural beauty in this world in the trees, flowers and plants is all created by GOD
and yet none of the creations have a label saying "made by GOD"; the Sky, Land and
Seas, the Sun, Moon, Planets and Stars in this infinite Universe are all created by GOD
and not only is GOD given no thanks nor credit by most people, but there exists a
multitude of people who deny the existence of GOD and believe everything in the
Universe just "happened" to be there !
Even so, GOD and all spiritually enlightened souls don't argue, forsake nor disconnect
with such lost souls, one simply learns to have love and compassion that their souls
should find the spiritual truth whilst alive instead of having to wait until one leaves this
physical life to see the truth.

There is no competition !
Part of becoming spiritually enlightened is to recognize that their is no competition with
each other in life, everyone can and will succeed in attaining spiritual enlightenement
individually and collectively, no group of people or organization has the perfect right
word, all the ways of all kinds of people are correct for each way in life, we are all
connected to each other and we all have our own unique pathway for the spark of
Godliness called "a soul" within us to be able to achieve spiritual enlightenment.

Recognizing that each person has their own pathway in life is part of becoming at One
with GOD, being tolerant and accepting of everyone of the creations of GOD in this
world.

Ultimate Peace in Oneness


The state of Oneness brings an ultimate peace and tranquility, ones soul is
connected with the Eternal Divine Creator of the Universe, and ones soul will feel the
inner peace and calmness. One can physically be in a painful situation or in noisy
surroundings, however nothing can distract ones mind and thoughts as one is numb to
the outside physical world, by being 100% connected to GOD.
This state means that nothing nor anyone can disturb nor unsettle ones inner peace.
Hence one has found as promised by GOD in Genesis a utopia - GAN EDEN - a garden
of EDEN in this physical world.
May it be the will of GOD that we all find the true spiritual pathway of enlightenment
shining and radiating like the stars in the heavens above with perfect peace and harmony
to do the will of GOD, bringing all our generation closer to the time when we will all
enjoy spiritual Oneness with GOD eternally in this physical world and in the realms of
spiritual world. Amen .



"The wise people shall shine as the brightness of the sky; and they shall turn the
multitudes of many people to righteousness, just like each star in the sky shines for ever
and ever"
Book of Daniel 12 verse 3

Miracles & Healing

A "Miracle" is simply an extraordinary "change" in ones life; A Miracle contains a vast amount of
spiritual and physical energy that creates a "change". The changes that occur as a result of a
"Miracle" are usually so incredibly amazing that one always associates "Miracles" with Spiritual
Divine Intervention in ones life.
The chapter on "Miracles & Healing" from Sefer Shinuyim - the Book of Changes, explains
the concepts and realities of amazing and magnificent changes called "Miracles" in our lives.

Introduction - The 2 Categories of Miracles


A "miracle" is simply an amazingly large amount of energy, that has the power to change anything
and everything, there are 2 categories of "miraculous" energy:-

(1) The first category of "miraculous" energy is one is created by a blockage being taken away; like
releasing the walls of a dam that has been blocking the flow of water.

(2) The second category of "miraculous" energy is created through a surge of spiritual energy by
being in a certain place, or at a certain destined time in ones life, or by being blessed with a surge of
spiritual energy from a special person or spiritual act, or simply as a act of Divine intervention in
ones life as gift to your soul by GOD.

Both categories of "miracles" have the power to change a persons life and circumstances far beyond
what a person can do by themselves. Hence both are seen as energies of "Divine Intervention" or
"Miracles".
(1) Miracles Created by Unblocking Energy
(1) The first category of "miraculous" energy is one that is created by a blockage being taken away
and permanently removed; like releasing the walls of a dam that has been blocking the flow of
water.

Are You Waiting for a Miracle?


Are you waiting for a miracle? Most people want to sit and do nothing until suddenly something
from outside creates a "miraculous" energy of motivation, ambition and a desire to be courageous to

make life changes. What do we call this strategy? We call it waiting for a miracle. It is not the best
plan for life - You dont wait for a miracle - You must make the miracle !
This first category of "miracle" ONLY happens when a person makes an effort to WANT to remove
a blockage, without really wanting or needing - it will not happen.
The miraculous surge of energy in ones life will ONLY occur when one wants to remove the
blockage, then an amazingly abundant energy that has always been destined for ones soul will
create a miracle to happen in ones life.
Such a "miracle" is initiated and started by a person in making the first move.

As the Talmud explains; "Start making a change by opening an opening the size of a
needle and GOD will make the opening the opening the size of a hallway entrance",
meaning that a person must make some action, however small to indicate that they want
the blockage to be removed, and that one is "fed-up" with the situation and wants
blockage removed with a desire for permanent change.
The only reason why "miracles" don't happen in our lives is because we don't really want
them. If we really wanted a miracle - then a miracle would happen. Many people prefer
to suffer in silence, inner pain and anguish that create a change. Until ofcourse it
becomes an emergency and then one really needs a "miracle"; then too the miracle will
happen and one will have the surge or energy; but why wait until then ?
If a "blocking" situation exists in ones life that one is unhappy about, it is time to ask
oneself the following 5 questions to create a miracle:1. Is this blockage a sign ? if one is on the wrong pathway doing the wrong thing for
ones soul then stagnation and blockages exist. As explained in the chapters blocking
Success, no money and wrong desires of something that's"not yours" creates
blockages in ones life that are there as "signs" to guide a person.
2. Is this blockage a test or punishment ? Simply apologize to GOD for making mistakes,
say "GOD - I am so so sorry - i have made so many silly mistakes in my life, please
forgive me and take this problem and blockage away from my life".
3. Is the blockage created by someone else's"stealing a part of your life and soul", such a
"stealing" is the act of "transference" to cancel out a blockage caused by someone else
simply say "I wish to cancel out any transference of energy made by evil people that has
taken energy from my soul, that takes energy from my soul or that will take energy from
my soul" (as fully explained on Loss by "Transference").
4. Is the blockage created by ones own inner illness, sadness and depression ? Learn
inner happiness, peace of mind and show an eagerness to live life with a love of life.

5. Is this blockage a blockage that has always existed in ones life ? Then this is a
blockage carried over from previous lifetimes; solving the mystery and puzzle of this
blockage is known as pompon Tikun HaGilgul - Correction of Reincarnation.
This is the hardest blockage to release, but once it is broken then one is guaranteed with
a miraculous surge of energy as one has broken the dam holding back and blocking
energy into ones soul.
The way to unblock such a blockage is to pray for Divine guidance to remove the
blockage of life, and try to understand oneself, why one has a blockage in a part of ones
life. It is usually because one is continuing to behave the same way as one did in a
previous life that needs changing !

Wake Up to Reality
"Wake-up,Wake-up from your sleep" - All the above reasons for blockages have the same end
purpose - that is to WAKE a person up; Miracles can only happen for people whom are awake and
living in the reality of the present moment.

All Problems - One Prescription - WAKE


UP!
The 1st step in creating "Miracles" is to be aware and AWAKE; only when one stops dreaming
through life, facing reality then a miracle starts happening; many things that you used to do that
simply waste time, waste energy and avoid truly living life - disappear. Your body becomes more
relaxed and more spiritually attuned.
When your body and mind are at peace, there is a bridge created, they are no longer running in two
different directions - there is harmony and accord, now one can become aware of ones true feelings,
emotions and moods. Once one is awakened miracles start to happen, this is not something one
does, it is merely a reward and gift for one whom has created inner and exterior harmony and is
awakened spiritually.

the Hebrew for "Sin" Means to "Miss"


the original hebrew word to "sin" means to "miss"; it doesn't mean to commit something
wrong, it simply means to "miss", to be absent, to do something without being present - this is the
only sin.
Missing life, thinking you will catch up with this very unique present moment somewhere in the
future is a joke - in fact you are NOT going to catch it at all you have missed the opportunities of
this present; this creates a tension in your mind as you don't really know what the time is now nor
what you are actually doing in this very present moment.
Ok maybe you do what you are doing - you are sitting reading this page on the internet ;-)), but
generally we as humans keep loosing time, missing the opportunities of the present moment during

the day as we dither our ways through life. This constant tension between oscillating between past
and future, is creating one to constantly miss the present - this is inner mayhem !
When you feel you have missed - simply come back to reality in the present; leave the past missed
chances and opportunities; and start to make a change NOW by living in the present.
We all "miss" many times, it is taken for granted; but the true key for creating change is to wake-up
and live in the present. Only when a person is living in the real reality of the present can changes
occur.
Stop dreaming , become more alert ! When dreams disappear - all miseries disappear and then one
can be ready for big changes in ones life - MIRACLES do happen !
As soon as one lives in the present moment of time, one stops worrying about the future, one stops
pondering on the past and one faces real reality of ones present. If this is not one needs or wants nor
is it good for you in your life, then stop pretending it will get better, stop thinking of how it used to
be in the past, and ACT now to make a change in the here-and-now present moment.
If there is a blockage then ACT NOW to remove this blockage. How much longer are you going to
put up with feeling depressed or sad about life? As soon as you ACT NOW - then magically by
DIVINE intervention of the spiritual law of change, things will happen to bring miraculous energy
into your life to enable you to succeed.

Miracles Happen Quickly



"A Divine Miracle can come from GOD as quick as a blink of an eyelid"
As soon as you start to face reality in the present, recognizing the need to remove a blockage in
ones life and change, then miracles really do happen very quickly; by removing the blockage allows
sudden changes due to an influx surge of physical and spiritual energy that enables changes of
physical circumstances.
However, such a miraculous energy flow can be blocked, if you cling to the past and you think of it
as a treasure then your mind will want to live it again and again. Your future cannot be anything but
your modified version of the past just maybe a little more refined and decorated, so you MUST let
go of the past in order to allow changes to occur for your future and truly allow miraculous changes
to occur.
We have all lived many times, we are all very old souls, but we are repeating the same patterns
again and again, like staying blocked, depressed, worrying about silly things and complaining about
life; the only changes comes when we STOP living in the past and STOP living in the past patterns
of many lifetimes.
Start by living in the present, live right here and now; the more you live in the present, the more you
will accomplish from this moment onwards in your life.

Sudden Changes

One thing is for certain - when one takes away any blockage from within ones life and soul a
change occurs; the bigger the blockage and the harder it has been to take away will reflect in the
bigger the surge of miraculous energy in ones life. Once one has success in taking away the
blockage for eternity - the bigger the sudden change - the bigger the miracle.
This first type of Miraculous change is really a change that puts a person back onto ones true
destined pathway; the blockage in energy in ones life has finally been taken away, thereby creating
the flow of all the energy that one should have received over many years.
We have all heard of many people who as soon as they divorce, suddenly have good fortune, the
blockage was created by being with the wrong person. Likewise middle aged people whose
dominating and destructive parents block their pathway, very often as soon as the blocking parent
dies the children start to live a fulfilled and happy life. Some children don't even get married until
their parents die, as their parents energy can create such a blockage over their children's lives. The
undoing of such heavy blockages truly makes a miracle in their lives, when the blockage
disappears.

(2) Miracles - Real Divine Intervention


The second category of "miraculous" energy is created through a surge of spiritual energy by being
in a certain place, or by connecting with someone spiritually important to you at a certain destined
time in ones life, or by being blessed with a surge of spiritual energy from a special person or by a
spiritual act or experience or spiritual healing, or simply as a act of Divine intervention in ones life
as a gift to your soul by GOD.

Everyday can be "A Truly Magical Day And it will be a Truly Magical Day!"
if ONLY One Believes it will be !
Ofcourse we all know negative people who never believe in "Magic or Miracles", those
type of people who claim to be down-to-earth and logically minded, will in fact always
be very much down-to-earth for eternity. Their souls unable to grow spiritually as they
don't believe in anything, continually reincarnating and still refusing to believe in GOD
and a world of spiritual souls. Part and parcel of living life is to change, learning to
"believe"; the highest energy of "belief" is "Belief in GOD"; however for everyone to
live a wholesome life one must "believe"; otherwise one will become a very depressed,
sad and lonely person.
"Not believing" is denying that anything is possible; in our lives as spiritual souls living
in a physical body we must BELIVE that everything and anything is possible. We are
mere humans living in a very small space, whereas the Eternal Divine Creator of the
whole Universe lives for eternity and is INFINITE, anything can happen.

"A Divine Miracle can come from GOD as quick as a blink of an eyelid"
The more spiritually enlightened our souls become - the more we believe that
everything and anything is possible, however illogical this may seem; Spiritually
Enlightened people just "know" with an instinctive and optimistic positive thought
energy that anything is possible, changes can occur in a blink of an eyelid. "GOD will
always make a way where there seems to be no way".
The difference between Pure Spiritual Miracles and Dark Magic

Be Pure with GOD


Is a reference in the Torah with a warning against using any form of dark magic; dark
magic means that one uses and forces things to happen that are not destined to happen,
for personal physical benefit in this physical world or for destructive evil purpose.
"Miracles" from the pure spiritual world are always used to put a person back on their
true destined pathway for their soul in this world; or to heal or fix a problematic situation
in ones life for the benefit of ones soul, "miracles" are never for the sake of physical
circumstances in this physical world only. Pure spiritual world creates miraculous surges
of tremendous energy to heal and change for the sake of spiritual growth for eternity.
Hence the the Sefer Milchemos Hashem explains that people who use
"kabbalah" to improve their selfish physical and materialistic lives in this world are
abusing a spiritual gift from GOD, and eventually their souls will have to pay for the
misuse of manipulating magic and miracles.
The question one should always ask oneself when asking for a "miracle" and "change" in
ones life:- "Is this miracle that i am asking for of physical world benefit or is it for the
spiritual benefit of my soul and many other peoples souls?" and would this request for a
miracle be something one would genuinely ask to happen for someone else's life or is it
something that only you want to happen for yourself ?
Now that one knows the spiritual rule for asking for a "Miracle" that it is for the sake of
ones soul, now we shall explain how to find miraculous energy and make a miracle as
taught from Sefer Shinuyim the Book of Changes.

How to Find this Miraculous Energy ?


Now that one is "open" to believe in the possibility of "miracles" happening, how does
one find this miraculous energy? where does one go to find the tremendous surge of
positive energy to enable amazing changes to occur in ones life ? What are the keys to
open the doors to make miracles?

Remember the key to understanding how to make a "miracle" happen is to know that a
"miracle" is simply a powerful surge of very strong spiritual energy that allows a large
flow of positive energy into ones life to enable an amazing "change" to happen.
Therefore the keys to making "miracles" are to know where, how and what to do to bring
a "surge" of spiritual energy into ones life :-

1. The 1st Step is to Cry



"All the heavenly gates are closed except for the gates of tears"
That's right - the first step to opening up the heavenly gates for a miracle us to CRY !!! It works - if
you really want a change, be honest with yourself and admit the regret in your life for the mistakes
you have made and CRY for help !!

Your eyes are the windows of your soul


Your eyes are the windows of your soul, they are your souls window to see in this physical world,
everything your soul sees is seen through your physical eyes, and when you cry this touches, opens
and cleanses your soul. Crying indicates to spirit world that you are unhappy and need help. Most
people hold themselves back from crying and hence their problems become seemingly
insurmountable, even for those people CRYING works to open up the spiritual connection to ask for
a miracle and request a surge of spiritual energy to enable a change in ones life.
Once one has had a good cry, one will feel a release of negative blocking energy, in fact after a good
cry, one often has an instinctive feeling to laugh and giggle; this is a sign that spirit world of healing
angels is already coming close to strengthen you, by bringing an inner calmness into your life, as
the basis to start to make miracles is complete calmness, trust in GOD and acceptance that
everything is going to be alright according to a Eternal DIVINE destined plan.

How Long to Cry?


Many people have asked, how long should one cry for ? and how long should one pray
for? The answer is simple, cry and pray for as long as it takes to have ones prayers

answered. Pound away, knock on the Heavenly gates, repeat ones prayers a million times
and cry as many tears as one has inside.
It may take a few minutes, a few hours, a few days or a few weeks, but one thing is
100% guarenteed that ones prayers will be answered and good changes will start
occuring in ones life, the bigger ones problems and the bigger the blockage in ones life,
the more help one needs then the longer the prayers and the more tears one will need.
GOD doesn't want us to be unhappy or sad; just like a baby cries to get attention and
help, so too we cry when we need help, our tears and prayers are not from sadness nor
depression, but out of sincerity to remove blockages in our lives that have been caused
by ourselves, our souls from a previous life or simple happen to be in our life to
challenge us, testing us to see if we will turn to GOD for Divine spiritual help to rescue
us from our troubles.

2. The Healing Angels & Spiritual Healing


The 2nd Stage in enabling a "miracle" to happen, is to be at peace with oneself. After
one has cried "Healing Angels" will come close to bring one a peace of mind and an
inner calmness to reassure you that everything is going to be alright. At this stage one
should take deep breathes in and out; as one breathes out - feel the badness and pain
leaving ones physical body and soul.
The purpose of "Healing Angels" and "Spiritual Healing" is to bring a complete
calmness to ones mind, body and soul; only when a person is completely at peace with
themselves can a person accept the reality of ones life, by accepting the reality of what is
happening and what has happened in ones life then one (& ONLY then) is ready for a
change and a miracle.
During this stage of preparation for a tremendous surge of energy into ones life to create
a change and miracle, one should recognize that one has a spiritual healing within the
energy of ones HANDS; by understanding the power of ones soul in the palms of ones
hands as explained in www.yadpalmistry.com, one will feel very much reassured that
everything really will be alright. Have faith and trust that everything is going to be
alright.
Usually most people when they get to this stage of inner peace and calmness, feel so
good that they forget they really need a miracle or they feel there is no longer an urgency
for any dramatic changes or a miracle.
If genuinely that is the truth - then this is as far as most people go in creating a
"miracle"; however this could be an illusion and maybe one is fooling oneself until the
next time when it may become an "emergency" for a miracle to happen.

So think carefully at this stage and ask yourself honestly - do you want to continue to
really change your life or are you now at peace with yourself and accept your life the
way it is ?

3.The Pathway to Really Big Changes


Once one has decided with complete inner peace and calmness that one is ready and one
still really needs big changes and miracles in ones life; one should be aware that one is
going to cross a line of "no return".
The reason why most people don't make real changes with their lives is because they are
not courageous nor trusting enough in life; people who live with inner fears of past
failures are preventing themselves from moving forward; these fears all belong to the
past, when a person takes a jump into the future one must not look backwards nor wish
to live in the past - be courageous and jump into the future; trust in GOD and in Spiritual
world that you will be supported, guided and protected.
The biggest encouragement for a parachutist when he/she makes the jump is to see other
people are jumping and surviving, likewise in life, the biggest encouragement we get is
when we hear true stories from people who have been brave and had the miraculous
strength to make changes, experience phenomenal miracles and transform their lives
magically with a special gift of "Divine Intervention".

The biggest transformations and changes that can occur in everyone's life, only really
happen when one gets to a point of being totally fed-up with ones existing life; to the
point where one feels one has nothing-to-loose by jumping into a new life and into a new
future.

This 3rd stage of the Miracle and big change is the stage of "take-off", getting to the
point of no-return; just like an aeroplane, once the thrust of energy is generated in the
engines, the brakes released, the plane is now beyond the point of "no-return"; similarly
one must firmly be at this stage of "no-return" when one is needing a miracle or asking
for a big change to occur in ones life.

4. Starting the Flow of Energy of Change


and Miracles
This stage now starts the irreversible stage of drawing upon the Universal Divine
Spiritual energy to attract a tremendous strength of energy into your soul. Remember,
one must from henceforth be persistent, continue praying and building the spiritual
energy up within ones soul.
Don't go to sleep (well ofcourse one needs to go to sleep every night, what i mean is
don't take a sleep in the day or go to bed early), don't take a rest or a break, don't get
distracted - this is an emergency in ones life to have a miracle - so keep focused and
don't stop until one feels the changes happening, until the moment of "take-off" in ones
life.
Light 3 white candles to start a flow of spiritual energy to change ones life; according to
Sefer Tikunim this invites a strong pure spiritual connection with ones Guardian Angels.
This is the reason why we all light candles when visiting the graves of special spiritual
souls, Rabbis and Rebbes, such as the Shotzer Rebbe in his will who asks people to light
3 candles when they come to pray at his grave on friday is to create a spiritual
connection for a flow of spiritual energy to help ones soul make the changes one needs
to make. The stronger the connection the bigger the flow of energy.

Strengthen Oneself Spiritually EveryDay


Light candles and keep praying to ones "Guardian Angels" for help every single day
until one has made a break-through and changes start happening in your life. Just be
persistent and continue every moment of every day until a change happens.
According to Sefer Shinuyim - the Book of Changes, it normally takes 7 days, possibly
30 days, in some cases where there is a weakness in ones soul created from previous
lifetimes it can take 12 months - but NEVER longer than 12 months - provided one
keeps focused and prays persistently everyday.

Collect a group of spiritual souls to help you

The best chance you have in succeeding to create a Divine miracle with an enormous
surge of strong spiritual and physical energy is to rally all the spiritual souls in spiritual
world that you know to help you, the more people one knows in spirit world the more
help one can ask them to help you with, and the stronger the energy.

Just One Soul has the Key


The Book of Changes Sefer Shinuyim teaches that it is just ONE soul in Spirit World
that has the key to open the door for a DIVINE spiritual energy to flow into your life;
only you will instinctively "know" exactly who that soul is.
The only way to find this soul whom is your spiritual key, is to think of every single
person you know that is in spirit world, start with close family members, grandparents
even great- grandparents, then with anyone you can think of.
Suddenly you will feel an "aliveness" of spiritual energy as soon as you have found the
spiritual person whom has the key to open the door, the thought energy is enough to
make you feel "alive", this is the key for a spiritual miracle to happen in your life and it
will save you from your sorrow and troubles.
As explained in "Guardian Angels" page this specific soul that has the key to open the
gates of flowing spiritual energy is known as ones GateKeeper .

5. Signs and Answers


There is no question that as soon as one
prays, one will start to see signs, answers
and solutions to ones problems. It maybe in
the form of a phonecall or conversation with
someone from the past or with someone
new, or one will suddenly have the intuitive
thoughts to know what to do or where to go.

Making the Right Spiritual Connections


As soon as one sees and feels the spiritual energy of "aliveness" with a certain
connection it is now your duty to strengthen the connection, by making the strengthening
the right connections that make you feel "alive" this acts as an indication to you to
follow this pathway, this will then guide you to make the right decisions to be in the
right place at the right time with the right people.
This spiritual strengthening of nutritional energy from spiritual world is known as
Yeneeka MilMaala. This energy is the key to living life in this world and for your
spiritual soul's life for eternity. The more one stays connected the stronger one will
become and thereby create the enormous flow of abundant energy in your life that will
enable you to make changes you need in your life.

6. Miracles are possible; impossibilities are


never possible; but never give up on
something surprising happening !
In expecting and producing a miracle, there will be moments when a person may feel
that nothing is working, nothing is going right and nothing is happening; this maybe
because a person is asking for a miracle for one specific really impossible thing to
happen; when in fact GOD and Spirit world can see clearly that you need something far
more important.
The Key is to TRUST in GOD and TRUST that GOD and the Spirit world know what's
good for you; be open to everything and all kinds of signs; don't be adamantly focused
on one specific thing to happen; impossibilities may never happen but one thing is for
100% certain, the moment you connect spiritually and open up the allow-in an
abundance of spiritual energy then one will find direction in ones life.

"Expect the Unexpected Surprises"


From the moment one connects spiritually one can now "Expect the Unexpected
Surprises" - life will become more exciting, enjoyable and happy as one feels GOD and
the eternal Divine Spiritual World of souls are looking after you with sincerity and love.

7. Never Give Up - Live in Hope of a


Miracle !

Whatever situation a person finds themselves in; however desperate and painful - even if
one is before the moment of death as the talmud says "even if a sword is about to cut
ones head off - never give up hope!"



This means that one should reflect on the bigger picture of life, that our existence in this
physical world is just a short journey for our soul; when the purpose of our life is
complete then it is time for us to accept that we must leave this world. There is no point
of being afraid or fearful; physical death - passing over to spirit world is something
guarenteed for everyone; the difference is for us to learn not be frightened.
By accepting this true essence of life one sees everything in a different perspective; one
is no longer afraid of death or pain as one know this physical life is just a journey; with
this feelings one magically starts to feel "alive" and then remarkably one arrives at the
ultimate spiritual stage of "Oneness" with GOD - with a constant feelings of living in
hope.
Please always trust that "GOD will always make a way where there seems to be no
way". Everything we go through in life has a purpose for the benefit for our soul and for
our spiritual growth. Once we have learnt the lessons of overcoming fear and living in
hope then a flow of spiritiual energy really does create changes and miracles in our lives.
May each and everyone have an abundance of spiritual energy in ones life to create all
the miracles one needs to improve ones spiritual soul and the spiritual essensce of the
whole world. Amen !

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"The wise people shall shine as the
brightness of the sky; and they shall turn the
multitudes of many people to righteousness,

just like each star in the sky shines for ever


and ever"
Book of Daniel 12 verse 3
"Its NOT yours!"
The chapter in Sefer Shinuyim called " " - "don't desire that which belongs to
someone else", explains the spiritual importance of the 10th Commandment from the
"Ten Commandments" that were inscribed on stone and given to Moses (Moshe
Rabeinu) at Mount Sinai.

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"Thou shalt not desire thy neighbours house, thou shalt not desire thy neighbours wife,
nor his manservant, nor his maidservant, nor his ox, nor his ass, nor any thing that is thy
neighbours." ( Shmos Exodus chapter 20 verse 13)

The meaning of "Desire" -


The 10th Commandment, teaches a person not to DESIRE something that belongs to
someone else. The spiritual law teaches that the wrong emotional thoughts of DESIRE
create energies within ones soul, that can have effects that mislead, divert and block a
person from their true "DESTINY".
The essence of "DESIRE" is a powerful emotional and thought energy in wanting to live
someone else's life, in other words a person is trying to steal by " transference" someone

else's life and destiny. The "DESIRE" thoughts, not only block a persons soul but also
cause unhealthy disruption in the other persons life one is trying to steal, especially if
they are not closed or protected spiritually.
Strong emotional "Desires"
indicates a Strong Soul

Everything we do in this life is motivated by our emotions and desires. Before we do


anything, the foundation of the decision of whether or not we do it, is based on our
emotions and desires.
The power and strength of "desire" feelings and emotions, directly reflects the power,
strength of ones soul and most importantly the ability to succeed. The reason most
people fail in life is that they take a non-committal attitude of "half-heartedness", their
"heart" is not committed emotionally to their actions.
Only the very emotionally committed person will have success. A commitment to
anything comes from focusing ones thoughts, and motivating oneself by activating ones
emotions to "feel" alive with a desire for success.
All emotions carry energy, whether they be destructive emotions such as hatred,
jealousy, selfish greed, fears of poverty, humiliation, embarrassment, fight for survival
OR whether they be constructive emotions such as compassion, desires to be kind,
desires to fulfill ones purposeful soulful aims and ambitions in selfless service to GOD
and humanity, creative, or the most powerful and life-giving creative emotion on this
planet - LOVE.

The most powerful aspect of a persons mind


and spirit soul is the strength of "DESIRE"
The strength of ones emotions and desires will provide one with the power to connect
and achieve ones desires. The first step in acquiring anything is a desire, this thought of
desire is then translated into speech and action to acquire the object of ones "desires".
Bad people use their emotions - "desires" of greed to steal or steal energy by
"transference" from sensitive people who are "open" and whom allow these bullies and
intimidators to steal their souls energy. (Our page on Closure, Protection and Sensitive
souls will teach how to live in the real world and not allow anyone to steal energy from
ones soul).
The person with the stronger "desires" will always succeed, even if those "desires" are
not good and destructive! In such a case if in the short term it seems that the hateful and
destructive energy is winning, this is because they survive by stealing life-energy from
the good people.

Eventually when all the good people have closure and identify the source of negative
and draining energy as "bad", then they will fail and the good, loving, kind and
compassionate will always win. This is simply spiritual law and the reason is that the
creative God-given energy of life and vitality on earth is LOVE, and LOVE is life, hate
is death.

- Souls life Energy


The "desire" of LOVE has the strongest strength on earth. This desire is the key, the
motivational and emotional energy that provides ones soul with vitality.
Our spiritual souls life energy is known as - Yeneeka Milmaala, this is a
souls spiritual nourishment of vitality which energizes the physical body, with this
energy one has life, without it - death. Hence, if one is depressed, on the wrong pathway,
or has blockages, then the - Yeneeka Milmaala, is blocked.

Blockages caused by wrong "DESIRES"



On the "Destiny" page we explained that every person has a destined business, home
and loving soulmate. If one does not have any of these aspects then this is considered a
major blockage and needs to be understood. ( as we explained on the previous pages
Blocking Success, Fear of Success and No Money).
The other main reason for a major blockage in ones life's"destiny" is the fact that one has
either lost ones soul energy by "transference" (in which case - it is returned quickly as
explained on the page Loss by "transference"). OR ones souls energy is blocked due to
"WRONG DESIRES" and therefore is LOST or DIVERTED due the fact one is "giving
away" or wasting energy on someone or something that is NOT ones destiny.
Where are your thoughts?

Your soul is connected to the place and people where your thoughts are, which is
connected, motivated and energized by your deepest emotions, especially to whom you
love and where your desires are aroused.
Whether love or hate, positive or negative emotions, this energy and connection of ones
thoughts, makes a connection of attachment. If that attachment is your destiny - then this
creates a life vitality and energizing spiritual energy of even more - Yeneeka
Milmaala, as ones soul on a higher level recognizes this as ones destiny. If however, this
is "NOT YOUR DESTINY", it will give a person a thrill of excitement like a petulant

child doing something mischievously naughty BUT one will feel drained and eventually
blocked.
Reading the Signposts

Life always offers signposts and indications, if this is ones destiny - a blessing of success
accompanies the connection, if one is stealing or taking from someone else then a loss,
damage, accidents or pain will be incurred. These blockages are not punishments nor are
they caused by anyone but YOUR own soul. Your soul blocks your life's energy WHEN
and ONLY WHEN you are on the wrong pathway.
Everyone has their own solution to their own problems, think honestly and carefully, and
ask GOD and spirit world and your guardian angels for guidance , and one will be led
to the correct pathway for you.
"Correctional" school of life

In the same way, thieves go to prison or "correctional" facilities to learn the lesson that
they should NOT take anything that belongs to someone else, life and ones experiences
are here to teach this lesson too !
If one has had a mid-life crisis and recognizes truthfully that one has made so many
mistakes by living a false lifestyle, this may even be a spouse and career that is simply
not the true destiny of ones soul. Then "life's" experiences will create the necessary,
(even if tremendously painful), experiences of losing everything that is wrong in ones
life, in order to put a person on the correct pathway.
Getting a new life

Once a person is truthful in recognizing the signs that their soul had no vitality as it had
been blocked due to the fact that they had the "wrong" life and the "wrong destiny".
Once a person releases and lets go of the "wrong", ones prayers are answered and one
can then receive the energy and vitality for the correct pathway.
The new life will come when and ONLY when deep down in ones soul, one has
truthfully changed and let go of the past mistakes and stops the wrong urges of "desire".
Your soul wanted you
to make mistakes to learn

In the Book of Reincarnation - Sefer Gilgulim by Reb Chaim Vital teaches that our soul
intentionally puts us in difficult and "wrong" situations to teach us this lesson of the 10th
Commandment - "NOT to desire that which belongs to someone else".
Once we have accepted this truth and learnt the lesson, our soul will feel enlightened,
releasing any draining blockages and giving us our TRUE destiny, with our true

soulmate, destined home and destined purpose in life with a glow of physical and
spiritual vitality.
Having "Desires" for something that is not your destiny - "wastes away" your souls energy.

"Stop wasting energy in desiring something that's not yours!" This is such a silly waste
of ones souls energy. Our soul energy is given to us to help us fulfill with excitement and
vitality our individual purpose in life, if we are diverting and giving that energy away,
we are damaging our own soul.
This is especially true in a marriage with ones true soulmate:- "how can a person have
wasteful fantasies thinking of other men or women?" These thoughts, especially if they
are aroused sexual energy are draining a persons soul, and will act as destructive and
"blocking energy" even if one is with ones true soulmate.
Marriage problems - a "blockage"

The Sefer Tikunim - the book of corrections, explains the reason that even the perfect
soulmate relationships have marriage problems (even to the extent of divorce) is that the
couple do not consider the fact that they are each a half of a whole unit.
A man and woman together form a unit, each is a half of one whole. If either of the
couple think emotionally and (God forbid sexually) about another person then this acts
to break even a destined soulmate, as the other persons soul senses this and acts to
BLOCK, as explained in above .
The other half in the soulmate acts to preserve the collective unit of the souls energy and
blocks the energy - Yeneeka Milmaala, whilst the other half is diverting
emotional and sexual energy elsewhere. (If one partner has indeed been unfaithful
physically sexually and not just "thought energy", then the complete closure and divorce
is necessary).
In the case where a soulmate couple have neglected each other in wasting "thought
energy" of desires, then Sefer Tikunim - the book of corrections, explains the solution is
simple, the one who has diverted his/her sexual thought energy elsewhere to someone
else, needs to recognize this is wrong and STOP immediately. They both need to
understand that they are a single UNIT, if one half is in pain the other feels the pain.
Then the "other half" needs to learn the lesson of forgiveness and open up the blockage
they blocked whilst the other was unfaithful in their thoughts, which has caused a
"coldness" in their marriage. Sefer Gilgulim explains that the "injured" husband/ wife
may have caused the original problem by being selfish or unloving in the relationship.
Hence both reincarnated to learn the lesson.
Single person looking for their soulmate - unblock the blockage of "desire"

From the chapter " " in Sefer Shinuyim, we add a special point for our
generation. With respect to arousing desires for popstars, actors, actresses etc, this
emotional connection of "desire" for someone whom is NOT a persons destiny, will only
detract from ones soul energy and act to BLOCK one from ever meeting ones true
soulmate.
Simply STOP desiring and wasting ones thoughts of fantasy on someone whom is not
ones destiny, then focus ones energy and prayers spiritually on unblocking ones life
vitality - Yeneeka Milmaala, to welcome in good fortune that is ones
destiny.
This is one of the reasons why so many spiritually sensitive people, spiritual teachers
and Rebbes do not have Television, as the images one sees entices a person to DESIRE
and WANT with emotions, something or someone that is not their destiny, creating a
blockage to life and destiny.
"Sefer Shinuyim - the book of Changes" always suggests to anyone trying to change, to
try for 30 days to do without anything that one feels one is addicted to, which is abusive
and arouses emotions of desire. (And that includes in our generation, watching TV,
alcohol addictions, smoking cigarettes and even excessive unhealthy eating especially of
chocolate ice- cream!).
Conclusion for "Its Not Yours"

This teaches us the power that ones emotional thoughts can cause such damage, hence
the importance of the 10th Commandment - NEVER DESIRE anything that is NOT
YOURS.
The most significant influences in our lives that make an impression on our souls, are the
influences that arouse the emotions. Focus and control ones mind and thoughts energy in
allowing oneself, to ONLY be emotional aroused for everything purposeful and
spiritually fulfilling that is in alignment for ones souls pathway and destiny.