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Membahagikan masa dengan anak-anak

2. Tunjukkan contoh yang baik untuk anak
3. Bersikap adil
4. Memberikan didikan agama dan moral
5. Mengawasi perlakuan dan memantau kegiatan anak-anak
6. Setiap ahli keluarga saling menghormati antara satu sama lain

Good evening and thank you for coming in such great numbers.
You have children, I have children.
Good Parents Make Themselves Available
In our busy world, no one can be available to their children 24-7, by any means. Instead, good
parents make time each day to focus solely on their children, without distractions from
television, computers or phones. Dedicated quality time opens the lines of communication,
which is especially important as tweens face potentially heavy issues like bullying, anxiety and
mood changes.

Good Parents Demonstrate Warmth

A hallmark of the best parenting style, called authoritative parenting, involves showing warmth.
Warmth is demonstrated through positive facial expressions, patient actions and affectionate
speech. Being warm does not mean agreeing with everything your child does or says. Rather, it
means consistently showing emotional affection toward the child as a person even when
disciplining him for inappropriate actions.

Good Parents Set Clear Boundaries

While it may be tempting to be friends with your child first and foremost, good parents respect
that there is a parent-child hierarchy. Children thrive when there is structure in their lives, and
rules help create that structure. Therefore, supportive parents set up clear rules and consequences
and follow through on discipline when boundaries are crossed. Doing so helps kids learn
responsibility. During the tween years, good parents often allow children to be part of the
decision making process about what constitutes reasonable rules and punishments.

Thank you for your attention

Good morning everyone. I am honored to be with you today to share my view on parenting. Im
going to share my opinions on the difficulties of being parents today, how to raise a kid with allrounded personality; what the top priority of childrens life should be and finally, my own
experience as a child.

It is very difficult to be parents today. Not only do we need to make both physical and mental
effort as in raising our children, but we also need to make important decisions that will affect the
future development of our children. The most difficult part lies in we live in an even-changing
society and knowledge based economy. We and our children must be able to adapt to changes.
The traditional type of parenting may no longer be suitable for us to follow or serve as a
reference. Thus, it is of course important for us, parents to explore and tailor make the most
suitable type of parenting for our children.

To explore the most suitable type of parenting for our children, we must ask and think about
what the top priority of children life should be. In my opinion, the top priority is to develop an
open mind to things, and hence, be able to find what one likes to do. We should guide our
children on the right path instead of forcing our children to join various extra curriculum
activities. We should let them choose what they want to do instead of spoon-feeding them. In
short, we should let our children to pursue his or her interest if he/ she is able to find it. If he/ she
is not able to find it at the moment, be patient and support your children to do so. It will be just a
matter of time when they find it. So there is nothing to worry at all.

We all parents wish to raise our kid with all-rounded personality. How can we achieve this goal?
For sure, that there are various methods to achieve the same goal. Yet, I believe there is
something that we parents must do. We should inculcate our children with the right values. For
example, one should uphold our integrity and respect others. And freedom and choice come hand
in hand. We should also widen our childrens horizon by encouraging them to join both physical
and aesthetic development activities. They should at the same time, be given a suitable degree of
autonomy in their childhood. Thus, development their own interest, spark their creativity and
socialize with one another.

I would like to share my part experience as a child with you. My parents gave a relatively high
degree of autonomy to me. Besides, teaching me French, they let me alone to pursuit my own
interest. My parents were not college educated and there are little books in our home only. My
parents didnt steer. I was free to do whatever want I was drawn to astronomy after I realized
there were questions that I could not find the answer from anywhere or anybody. In short, the
curiosity-driven approach to learning makes me who Im today. Im glad about that and I would
like to thank my parents.

Lastly, I would like to share a good phrase with all of you. Attitude decides your altitude. Yes,
attitude decides your altitude. Thank you. Best wishes to you and your children.

A very good afternoon to the principal of SMK Taman Desa, teachers and my dearly
beloved friends.

If parents want their child to do what is right, I think that they need to set an example by also
doing what is right. Children should be taught how to be responsible, caring, hardworking and
patient from watching and learning these traits from their parents.
Making time and traditions for your family is another part of being a good parent. True, many
parents do have to work a lot to provide their family with the things they need. Spoiling children
does not mean parents don't need to show love and spend quality time with their kids. Parents
should invest time, not money into their children. Children shouldn't have to ask if they are
important to their parents to know. They should just know. The time a parent puts into their
family and the traditions they have will always be there.

Parents should respect their child's interests and get involved in their life. They should participate
in activities that they all can enjoy. Parents should try out new things that their child likes.
Unconditional Love is the key to being a good parent. Parents need to love their children no
matter what. If a child doubts a parent's love for them, the parent is not being a good one. Even
when a child is disappointing,

REFERENCE
Chaplin, Lan Nguyen and John, Deborah Roedder. Interpersonal influences on adolescent materialism: A new look at the role of parents and peers.
Journal of Consumer Behavior. 2010. 20: 176-184.