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December 9, 2014
An Indian Giver, as we all know, is one who gives something and then
tries to take it back, a conduct most cultures would look at unfavourably.
Common decency dictates a certain finality in an act of giving. All religions
tell us that once given there is no taking back. Claims to the gift are
extinguished and attachments severed, when given. Even in the law, a gift
is irrevocable, save in a few exceptional circumstances. If noble is the giver,
so ignoble is the Indian giver.
of the agitation, even some missiles were thrown at the temple. Until the
day before, the mob had no such claims on this property. What then
happened was that Ven. Athuraliye Rathana openly withdrew his support
from the Government and joined the Opposition that day.
hours, the gift of political freedom was taken back from us.
But make no mistake; our democratic rights are not gifts from a generous
benefactor! These are inherent and unalienable rights that we are endowed
with as members of the human race. The freedom of expression, the right
to a fair trial and due process, the right to representation (this is
fundamentally violated when a member elected to a Parliament by one
party crosses over to another), the right to enjoy good governance, the
right to our personal dignity and so on are not gifts. We must not allow
anyone to play Indian giver here.
Now it has become culturally acceptable for an appointee to a public office
to be deeply beholden to the appointing authority. A person is not
appointed a judge because he is abjectly and humbly grateful to the
President for the appointment. He is appointed because he is suitable;
learned, honest, independent and decent.
A person is not appointed as an ambassador because he has done some
personal favours to a politician at a time when the man was down and out.
We have a right to expect that Sri Lankas ambassadors are appointed on
the basis that they are capable, sophisticated men who can hold their own
with other diplomats of the world. We ought to be proud of them, not blush
for their incompetence.
Partygoers funding the party
It is no secret that every day hundreds of persons are summoned to the
Temple Trees for meetings and then treated lavishly with food and drinks.
Some may argue that it is a gift, a free meal! In the grinding circumstances
of a poor society, our expectations are small. A free ride is exhilarating, a
free meal satisfying and some inane verbosity intellectually stimulating!
But if the partakers were to pause for a moment in their rush for
satisfaction, it may occur to them that all this generosity is paid for with
their own money. It is they who have made the party possible. The irony of
the partygoers funding the party and yet thanking the host may be lost on
them. So vulnerable is their situation, they may even fear the host turning
Indian giver!
Posted by Thavam