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if a judge has to decide it, no one will like the decision most likely" Pisarra advises.
"Fight only for the things that are worth fighting for. School choices, vacations, and
parenting time are worth the fight. Things like food choices, unless there's a known
medical issue like diabetes or food allergies, are not worth the fight." Save your energy
and good will with your ex and the courts for those things that do matter.
Rule #9: From time to time, review the arrangement and adjust as
needed.
Just as your kids will grow and change over time, so should your custody arrangement.
"Many parents find it helpful to review a custody agreement from time to time to assess
how it is working for their children and to make adjustments, particularly as children
grow and circumstances change," says Dr. Pedro-Carroll. You and your ex may change
too. Says Wasser: "If you are hoping to eventually get to an equal time share
arrangement but have not historically spent as much time parenting, gradual increases
are recommended."
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