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Dear Andy
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Dear Andy,
My name is Kiyanna. You dont know me, and you
never will. This is because, well, you committed suicide. I am writing this because my teacher asked us to
write an essay discussing a topic from a book we read
entitled, ears o a i er. One of the topic choices was
to write a letter to a character from the book. I chose
to write my letter to you, the main character, who ultimately commits suicide near the end.
Here, in Nunavut, suicide seems to be a reoccurring issue. Many people especially young people are turning to it as a way out, even though it
is never the right answer. I have heard about many
people who have ended their lives this way, and it
hurts and saddens me to hear it. Your story made
me decide to focus my writing on this subject, as it is
a very important one to my community and to me.
I could start by asking you why you did it but I
already know why. The book started out with you
and a group of friends deciding to leave a basketball
game, which you won, and drink while driving your
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I delved further into your story, I sympathized reading about your problems, enthralled by the way you
dealt with them, and I found myself captivated by
your tale as I continued to read about your life and
the aftermath of a bad choice.
I cannot say I can fully comprehend the way you
chose to cope with the depression you felt; however,
I can see why at that point in your life it might
have felt like the only option. I know what its like
to feel really sad. I think all people feel that level of
sadness at some point in their lives, some more than
others. Your sadness was brought about by the death
of your best friend, Rob. You felt guilty because you
were the one driving the car, and you were drinking.
You felt an unexplainable amount of guilt, believing
it to be your fault Rob died.
Andy, I cant say it wasnt your fault. You, along
with the other boys, and even Rob himself, all share
some blame. It was your collective decision to drink
and drive, and it was your collective decision to get into
the car with an impaired driver. It was a stupid one but
it was a choice many teens make. Andy, it was partly
your fault but you were not entirely to blame. I wish
you could have realised that before you killed yourself.
I dont think Rob would have wanted you to die.
I know what a best friend is supposed to be, and nobody on earth should ever want their best friend to
kill themselves even if they blame their own on
death on them.
I never really got to know Rob that well, but
from what I can tell, he seems like he wouldnt have
blamed you. I think he would have realized that it
was all a terrible accident that you were just a
bunch of teenagers looking for a good time, and
found tragedy instead.
Andy, you seemed really afraid before you died.
You seemed afraid, sad, and angry. All these feelings together can cause people to do things theyll
probably regret, and its happening more and more
recently, especially here, in Nunavut.
even if I am to be hurt in some way, there are capable people who can help me, and save me from
whatever is ailing me. I try to make sure that every
meeting is ended on a good note, and that my final
words to somebody before saying goodbye is one
of kindness, and not one that will leave them with a
large hole in their heart should we not meet again.
I know that one day, everybody will die. I know
that everybody I love will eventually pass away
some much sooner than expected. This is why I will
make sure to tell my parents I love them before I go
to bed, and I will make sure to help my friends when
they need it. Its why I try my best to help those when
they are in need, and to lend a shoulder to cry on.
Its why I always try my best to smile for the people
I love, at least every once in a while, so they know
that I do enjoy being with them. It is why I will make
sure to make memories with them, and to make sure
they know how much I care about them, and wish
for their safety, and for them to be happy and full of
love for the rest of their lives.
Love is quite a strong force, Andy. It might sound
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