The Art of Talking Dirty With Women

The Art Of Talking Dirty With Woman
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Contents
Quick Legal Stuff ................................................................................................. 2
Ground Rules of Talking Dirty ............................................................................ 5
Definition Talking Dirty....................................................................................... 5
Dirty Talk Dos .................................................................................................... 6
Read her an erotic story..................................................................................... 6
Swear................................................................................................................. 6
Speak in a different language............................................................................ 6
Dirty Talk donts .................................................................................................. 7
Don't mention family ........................................................................................ 7
Don't talk about other women ........................................................................... 7
Don't use clinical or childish terms................................................................... 7
Here is a Step By Step Procedure to help you talk Dirty to your Woman........... 8
Step One- Communication is the Key .............................................................. 8
Step 2 Her comfort level ................................................................................ 8
Step 3 Get out Your sexy Voice..................................................................... 8
Step 4 Check your Moods.............................................................................. 8
Step 5 Experiment Some More ...................................................................... 9
Step 6 Get Feedback....................................................................................... 9
Step-By-Step Plan of Talking Dirty in Bed. ...... Error! Bookmark not defined.
Definition Talking Dirty in Bed......................................................................... 10
Types of Dirty Talking and what you can use ................................................... 10
Soft-Core Dirty Talk ....................................................................................... 10
Hard-Core Dirty Talking................................................................................. 11
Dirty Talking Process......................................................................................... 12
6 Amazing Techniques of having mind blowing sex........ Error! Bookmark not
defined.
Definition............................................................................................................ 14
6 Tips to Amazing Sex you should try............................................................... 14

Break the Routine............................................................................................... 18
Step by step Procedure of what you need to do. ................................................ 19
5 Techniques to Arouse you Woman ................................................................. 22

Ground Rules of Talking Dirty

Talking dirty is the way to go when it comes spicing up your sex life or even
fulfilling your sexual fantasies , if you have not tried talking dirty before you
should be aware of certain dos and donts and ground rules of dirty talking.
Communication is very important in any relationship, dirty talking plays a very
important role in your sexual relationship and helps fulfil you sexual fantasies
and also make your woman go wild in bed. Many men are conservative when it
comes to dirty talking and are either stunned when his woman asks him to talk
dirty, therefore it is necessary for every man to practice talking dirty and always
be prepared.
Learning the ground rules of dirty talking will make you aware of what your
woman wants and what her fantasies are. If you are not well prepared you are
going to mess up an open invitation by your woman and she might have a
wrong impression about you.
Definition Talking Dirty

Dirty talking is an art form in itself which stimulates your sexual relationship,
drives you woman crazy in bed and also fulfils your sexual fantasies.
The basic principle of dirty talking is communicating effectively with your
woman about your sexual desires and fantasies and she does the same with you.
Communication is the key here because asking for a sexual fantasy can be
misunderstood by your woman that she is not good enough for you. So its
important you follow a procedure and enjoy your sexual experience

Dirty Talk Dos
Read her an erotic story

This is one of the most amazing ways to spend the hour. There are many good
erotic books and writers but it can be difficult finding a one she would like. A
good place to check is the erotic section of a womans magazines they usually
have good erotic and fantasy stories. Avoid choosing a mens magazine she can
be offended and might find it cheap. In reading to her, you can practice your
dirty voice and its also a fun way to spend time together, whether it leads to sex
or not.
Swear
Dirty words are used all over the world and are a part of our culture used as a
form of expression. This is the main reason swearing is an important aspect of
dirty talking in your bedroom. The bare-bones filth of the words spurs on the
rawness of the act you are performing. It can also bring out another side of us. If
your woman is sweet and polite by nature, expressing her dirty side in bed can
be a real buzz for both of you.
Speak in a different language

I f you think English is the most romantic language on earth then you are
wrong. It is by no means the worst sounding, but something like French, Italian
or Portuguese sounds so much better. These languages sound different and the
words are elegant and a pleasure to hear. Speaking words of a foreign language
during sex can be really amazing. Keep in mind, however, that telling her you
cant wait to buy a new dishwasher in Spanish is not going help you in anyway -

- unless, of course, you have a thing for dishwashers. So, keep the topic sexy so
that you stay in the mood as well.
Dirty Talk donts
Don't mention family

Never talk about her family or your s this is strictly out of bounds, really, do
you want to be discussing the in-laws while you make love? Probably not.
Dont mention anything about her super-sexy younger sister either or she'll pull
the plug on the whole lovemaking shebang.
Don't talk about other women

Dont bring up the topic of other woman unless she specifically requests it,
otherwise it could make her feel very insecure. And insecurity is not a known
aphrodisiac. It is quite possible that your partner may want to hear you talking
filth about another woman. It may turn her on to know that other women want
you and that you want them. It comes back to the raw factor, which is useful in
many ways, but understandably, can be a bit much for some people. To be on
the safe side, just steer clear of the topic unless asked otherwise.
Don't use clinical or childish terms

Clinical terms will sweep the sexiness out of any passionate moment. Calling
your manhood an erect penis kills the moment with images of high school sex
education. At this point in time, it is of no use to either of you, unless youre
role playing, of course. This applies to all parts of the anatomy, with the
possible exception of the term "breasts. Immature terms can include things like
hooters or "jugs; theyre just not the sexiest word options.
Here is a Step By Step Procedure to help you talk Dirty to your Woman.
Step One- Communication is the Key
Remember communication is the key to having great sex and many couples still
ignore this step. The first thing you need to do before you want to introduce
dirty talking into your lovemaking process, Ask your woman in a casual
conversation that if you spoke filth into her ears when you made love to her
what would she do? Or have you spoken dirty before?
By asking these questions in a casual conversation you have definitely got her
thinking about it, she might even discuss the possibility of talking dirty during
sex with her girlfriends
Step 2 Her comfort level
If she is not comfortable with the idea of talking dirty, I suggest you drop it for
the time being and try asking her again later in a few weeks time, this does not
mean she hates Dirty talking its just that it is something new and she is not
ready, so be patient. 95% of the time woman agree and enjoy talking dirty, so if
she agrees then you are on your way.
Step 3 Get out Your sexy Voice
Now that you have got the green signal, speak to her in your sexiest voice that
can be low and deep squeaky or a breathy whisper or just your normal talking
voice, just play around and see what works. The benefits of using a sexy voice
is the next time youre on the phone with her and you speak in the same voice,
her mind will automatically associate that voice and hopefully excite her.
Step 4 Check your Moods
Make sure the both of you are in a mood, the best time to dirty talk is while
having sex. For dirty talk to work effectively dont skip the foreplay and
whisper a couple of phrases in her ears to test the waters and see how turned on
she gets. The best way to start talking dirty is by simply relaying what you are
doing at the time and how good it feels, dont go on and on about it can be a
turn off. Just try saying stuff like
It feels so good inside of you
I love how my ____ feels, when you do that
Step 5 Experiment Some More
Try to keep the subject matter of what you say varied; you do not have to sound
like a broken record. Once she is more comfortable talking dirty during sex you
can introduce role paying the next time, you will be surprised to see her
swearing at your.
Step 6 Get Feedback
This is an important step and you need to know if she like your dirty talk during
sex, do not discuss how good or bad you were during sex. Try asking her
casually while watching TV or while she is making dinner. Ask her what part of
the dirty talking she liked the best and tell her what you liked the best, keep the
conversation light hearted and fun.
Follow this step by step instructions use some variations see the mood and you
will gain more confidence.
Step-By-Step Action Plan of Talking Dirty in Bed.

Having a plan on how to talk dirty is definitely going to put you in a different
playing field with your woman. If you try to talk dirty to your woman without
knowing what she likes and dislikes you will just make her very uncomfortable
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Study your woman closely see what arouses her ask he in a general
conversation what she would like you do in bed and give her exactly that.
Trying to surprise your woman with dirty talk in bed is a bad idea especially if
you have not done it before and if you are not sure if she is ready for it. So
always be prepared avoid surprises unless and until she is really comfortable
with talking dirty in bed.
Follow a spontaneous set pattern mentioned in this book and you are going to
drive your woman crazy in bed. One small mistake can turn her off and you
wont be able to enjoy the moment.
Definition Talking Dirty in Bed

Following a Plan when talking dirty in bed is essential especially when you new
to it, because, this will help you arouse you woman to the right intensity for
some mind-blowing sex and fulfil your sexual fantasies.
Dirty talking in your bedroom works on an important principal of studying your
woman and her sexual needs. Everything you do should be done respectfully
and in control. Dont talk to her in a way that she feels disrespected or taken for
granted.
Types of Dirty Talking and what you can use

Soft-Core Dirty Talk
Although we all refer to bedroom talk as dirty talk amid sex, there are two
levels to it: The soft and the hard. If your woman likes to call your penis sexy
names other than the same old four letter word, by all means think of different
ways to say what she like to hear.
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The following are only a few examples of what she may want to hear:
1- Do you want me to slide my throbbing member into your sweet portal? (After
she answers yes) How would you like it?
2- The thought of you wrapping your hot mouth around my pulsating rod drives
me crazy.
3- I love when you spread your thighs for me; open up and let me devour your
juices.
Of course, with time you will come up with many creative words to replace
vagina, penis, fellatio, cunnilingus, and the like. Never let her get away with yes
and no replies. Ask her specifically what she wants from you, what she
imagines you doing, and how she imagines you going about it. As well, some
women might find this kind of talk sappy. So listen to the language she uses and
if she gets graphic, then move on to...
Hard-Core Dirty Talking
It is known to many of us that many couples when during the act of lovemaking
are known to yell out the kinkiest, if not nastiest phrases known to man. So you
can get nasty and fill in all of the following gaps with some of the most vulgar
language you can think of.
If you want to scream and yell or get close to her ear and whisper it lightly,
that's up to you. But for the sake of giving you ideas, here are a few things you
could say in the heat of the moment (not for the faint of heart):
1- I want to [fill in verb] you with my hard [fill in noun] until you [fill in verb]
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all over me.

2- I want you to suck my stiff [fill in noun] while I suck on your throbbing [fill
in noun].
3- (Put her up against the wall and put your hand up her skirt) do you like it
when I stick my finger inside your wet [fill in noun]? I've been waiting all day
to bend you over and [fill in verb] you deep and hard.
Dirty Talking Process

Step 1 Slow and Steady
I strongly suggest that you start slowly, its better to be safe than sorry, in the
beginning use tame lingo such as Ive been waiting to get inside you the whole
day see how it goes and step it up a notch to the cruder lingo in time. With
woman you can never generalise and assume that she means when she refers to
naughty language.
Step 2 Let her Dominate
Try assuming a different role in the bedroom let her be the dominant partner
you submit to her, this will give you more clues as to what she means when she
dirty talks and what her sexual fantasies are. You want directions and she is the
only one who knows the route.
Step 3 Be Respectful
Always be respectful to your woman and make it known to her that you are just
living a fantasy with her, and you dont really mean she is a bitch or whatever
you called her during lovemaking.
Step 4 What happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom
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Whatever happens in the bedroom should stay in the bedroom do not swear at
her in public or make lude remarks when having dinner unless she asks you to
do so.

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6 Amazing Techniques of having mind blowing sex

Sex is the main motivation in any relationship; you cannot just survive by
loving each other. In todays busy and stressful world just having normal sex is
not good enough.
Have a great sex life can have more benefits than one, its considered a good
stress reliever and also decreases aging. Unfortunately many people do not have
a great sex life because they dont make an effort to do so.
If everyone just followed these 5 tips from this chapter they will not only have a
great sex live but also fulfil their wildest fantasies.
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These 5 Amazing techniques are going to teach you how to keep your woman
and yourself hot for some time to come. Also it will help you to have some of
the most passionate sex ever.
These techniques work on a simple basic principal of experimenting and doing
things differently. It is not always easy to maintain a good sex life and balance it
with your personal and work life; it takes some time and effort to reap the
rewards of good sex.
Having good sex doesnt mean sitting for hours and hours and frolicking, it can
be simply sitting and doing something a little different just for a change.
6 Tips to Amazing Sex you should try

1. Do it in a new Place.
Having sex in a new place is definitely going to be exciting, there are
millions of places you can have sex other than your bed, try driving down
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to a place where it will be a bit risky, try a public place but it should not
have a lot of people. Or move to a different room in your house and try
doing it when the others are in the house or try doing it in someone elses
home, you can try whatever tickles your fantasy and make it exciting for
both of you.
2. Use a Cock Ring.
Once you get an erection the cock ring slows down the blood flow and
your erection will last longer. A hard cock stimulates a womans insides
and she enjoys it. Cock rings are not very expensive and are a pretty good
looking male sex toy to have. Cock rings help you maintain your pace
without faltering for better sex.
3. Try different Positions
You probably know a few positions that bring her to an orgasm and that
is great, but you need to try different positions, new positions need a
reasonably high level of arousal time in your lover, so take your time and
strike a new pose.
If you have read the Kamasutra you will be aware that there is no limit to
the number of ways you can have sex so use your imagination, Try this
out the next time you will be amazed to see what happens by simple
changing the location example Try doing it on the washing machine or a
bean bag, or a table etc.
4. Dirty Talking
Dirty talking during sex has been used for centuries and will continued to
be used, because it has something other sex plays dont have, it has
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words. Our brains are our biggest sexual apparatus as soon as we hear
something sexy the brain receives the signal and we fell emotions, start
imagining and there is a rush of blood to the right places in our body.
For good sex start out with neutral Dirty talk topics such as
How you feel inside her
How you are enjoying the act and what you would like to do with her
next
Dont get carried away dirty talking can be daunting at first if you are not
used to verbalizing during sex, but you just have to practice.
5. Play a Game
Get out a pack of cards and play strip poker. This may seem like
something you have done in college, but adult strip poker is a good way
to get your woman naked. Once you both are naked or almost naked, you
can start the fun part. A lose means the other person (i.e. winner) gets to
choose what action is performed on them by the loser. Keep a time limit
of 1 minute on the said action, this means you are playing a prolonged
game of seduction.
After a while you both will want to be the winner and loser. The best part
of playing a game is you would end up asking for something in a certain
way that you have not done before, it may be a little filthy but will
definitely lead to great sex.
6. Tell Her Your Fantasies

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As I said earlier communication is the key in any relationship, so try

telling her your fantasies, because this can be a very conducive form of
sex play. This will also help you know each other a little more. Keep it
light in the beginning you dont want to throw her in the deep end with
fantasies about people you both know or a real fetish youre not sure
about. Fantasies can be used in the form of a game for better sex. Try to
keep it sexy and exciting.

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How to make you Good and decent Girlfriend Wild and Naughty
You will be surprised to see how good girls can be wild and naughty if you
know how to lead her there. But this has to be done at the right place and time
or it will backfire.
Good girls also have naughty fantasies but are shy to speak about it, but once
you get them in the zone you will be surprised to see what they want and also
what they are willing to do. If you dont lead her to speak about her fantasies
she might never do it on her own and you will never know her sexual desires
and what drive her crazy.
Woman crave being naughty in bed but are shy and scared to do so. Its
important you communicate with her and lead her to reveal her fantasies.
Remember your girlfriend could be into some pretty wild stuff but she might be
worried that youll think she is a pervert. And you might have the desire to try
some new things but fear she might think you are a weird.
So the key is effective communication, the next time you are spending a
intimate moment with her, dont be shy to ask her if she has any fantasies and
thought of doing different stuff (mentioned below). But before you do that you
need to follow the following steps first.
Break the Routine

Before you try anything new in your sex life with your woman to get the
naughtiness out in her its important you break your normal day to day routine.
If you both watch TV everyday for 3 hours, try breaking the routine by going
for ice cream, if it is cold outside try playing cards instead. By breaking the
daily routine it will leave you both open to fresh thoughts.
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Nobody wants to do the same thing week after week it will get very boring.
Breaking the routine will help you both keep an open mind and body, so when it
comes to trying new things in your sex life you both are more open to it.
Here are a few points you need to consider before we get on to the procedure.
1. Take it slow, first just try speaking to her about her fantasies, sometimes
it takes a girl days before she actually is ready to do it.
2. If any one of you or both of you have had a stressful day, then dont
suggest any energetic activity, because you wont have the energy to do
it.
3. Trying new thing is good but dont get her out of her comfort zone and
make her do something she is not comfortable doing, this can be
damaging.
4. Make sure that the atmosphere around you is conducive to the new and
interesting things you are going to try.
5. Do make an effort with your appearance; if you want your woman to try
something new make sure youre well groomed. She should not feel that
she is the only one having to make all the effort.
Step by step Procedure of what you need to do.

1. Play a Dress Up Game
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I am not talking just of the sexy red and black frillies here. I am talking of
proper sexy fantasy costumes of maid or nurse outfit, male or female
stripper outfit, policeman or fireman uniform. In fact ask her to pick up a
fantasy character she would like to see you in and you do the same with
her. This will not only spice up the sex but also help you understand each
others fantasy.
2. Try out Light Bondage

Bondage does not have to be with whips chains and a mask. Light
bondage can just be a power game. I tie you up so I have the power, you
tie me up and you have the power. This can be simple as knotting her
panties around her wrist with the bed post so she is at your mercy.
Sheets and under ware do well, you dont need handcuffs and ropes but
these are always nice to make a suggestive gift. Keep the ties firm but not
too tight that it becomes uncomfortable.
3. Going to a strip club together.

This is a brave thing for many woman to do, but today wonderful
modern woman are ready to try new things. So your woman might just be
delighted to come to a strip club, of course this is not with your drooling
and horny mates, it should only be you and her.
Most of the woman admire other womans hot body and also wish that
they could dance like that. Yes woman envy woman and it is an arousing
experience for females to watch other females being sexy. You just need

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to keep you hands to yourself and make sure you pay sufficient attention
to her like a gentleman.
4. Video Recording the Act

You can make your own dirty sex tape; it is a very sexy way to spend
intimate time with your lover watching it. This is not easy and it takes a
lot of trust faith and courage.
So if she agrees make sure you dont abuse her trust and faith in you.
That means dont show your mates, dont sell it on the internet or speak
about it to anyone unless you have permission to do so.

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5 Arousal techniques every Man Should Know

If you want to engage your woman in some mind numbing sex you will need to
arouse her to get out the animal in her. Now some woman wants their man to
slam them against the wall and rip their under ware off. Others may just like it
softer with a soft kiss on her neck and then as you slowly inch down towards
her thighs, you basically need to figure out what your woman wants.
5 Techniques to Arouse you Woman
1. Kiss and lick her Thighs and back

I have said this many times and I will say it again, you will be able to
arouse your woman a million times more if you simply head to her
sexualised parts.
A great move here is spreading her legs and using your tongue to inch
your way up slowly so long as you dont touch her vagina. This way she
will ache if not beg you to touch it.
2. Erotic Movies
We all know that men a visual, but we are under the wrong impression
that woman arent. The next time you are heading to the shower, tell your
woman you want to show her something and put on an erotic movie.
Let her watch it while youre in the washroom, by the time you get out
chances are she will be waiting with her legs open with her hands
between them.
3. Give her a call

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If you want to arouse her and create some excitement even before your
meet her. Call her up during the day and fill her in on what you have been
thinking of, what you dreamt about or what you want to do with her that
night. This will excite her and will begin the foreplay.
4. Use Blindfolds
Try blindfolding her if you want to drive her to the depths of her sexual
excitement. When you seal her sense of sight the other senses get
heightened, she might just become bolder in her actions and sounds
because she cant see.
5. Dress Well
Always dress and smell well, you dont have to put a three piece suite
every day, just dress up smart and carry yourself with confidence this will
arouse her vision, which will serve to arouse the rest of her.
Remember there are many techniques of arousing your woman, this

usually happens in the minds. Sometimes a nice wet kiss will arouse her
so keep trying different things and see what turns her on the most.

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20 Phrases to Talk Dirty in Bed

1. You look really sexy when you do that...
2. I'm dripping wet and gagging for you
3. You make me so horny
4. This is going to be the filthiest night of your life
5. It drives me wild when you look at me like that
6. I'm gonna lick you until you scream
7. I'm naked and I'm touching myself...
8. Fuck me now!
9. I want you to touch me here...
10. You can have me any way you want
11. Put your big, hard cock in my mouth
12. You taste so good
13. I'm your sex slave for the evening
14. Tie me up and touch me slowly
15. Get the camera!
16. Fuck me like a porn star
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17. Pound me into oblivion

18. I want to rub my pussy all over your face
19. Spray your juice all over my tits
20. No-one has ever made me come as hard as you
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Quick Legal Stuff

Talking Dirty With Woman

Talking Dirty With Woman

6 Tips to Amazing Sex you should try............................................................... 14

Talking Dirty With Woman What Woman Crave Of

Talking Dirty With Woman

Ground Rules of Talking Dirty

Definition Talking Dirty

Talking Dirty With Woman What Woman Crave Of

Talking Dirty With Woman

Dirty Talk Dos

Read her an erotic story

Speak in a different language

Talking Dirty With Woman What Woman Crave Of

Talking Dirty With Woman

Dirty Talk donts

Don't mention family

Don't talk about other women

Don't use clinical or childish terms

Talking Dirty With Woman

Talking Dirty With Woman

Step-By-Step Action Plan of Talking Dirty in Bed.

Talking Dirty With Woman

Definition Talking Dirty in Bed

Types of Dirty Talking and what you can use

Talking Dirty With Woman

Talking Dirty With Woman

all over me.

Dirty Talking Process

Talking Dirty With Woman

Talking Dirty With Woman What Woman Crave Of

Talking Dirty With Woman

6 Amazing Techniques of having mind blowing sex

6 Tips to Amazing Sex you should try

Talking Dirty With Woman

Talking Dirty With Woman

Talking Dirty With Woman What Woman Crave Of

Talking Dirty With Woman

As I said earlier communication is the key in any relationship, so try

Talking Dirty With Woman What Woman Crave Of

Talking Dirty With Woman

Break the Routine

Talking Dirty With Woman

Step by step Procedure of what you need to do.

Talking Dirty With Woman

2. Try out Light Bondage

3. Going to a strip club together.

Talking Dirty With Woman What Woman Crave Of

Talking Dirty With Woman

4. Video Recording the Act

Talking Dirty With Woman What Woman Crave Of

Talking Dirty With Woman

5 Arousal techniques every Man Should Know

5 Techniques to Arouse you Woman

1. Kiss and lick her Thighs and back

3. Give her a call

Talking Dirty With Woman

Remember there are many techniques of arousing your woman, this

Talking Dirty With Woman What Woman Crave Of

Talking Dirty With Woman

20 Phrases to Talk Dirty in Bed