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Fear is a fact of life, and those who have learned to conquer their fear are the ones who go far.
As the Mark Twain quote says, courage is the resistance of fear, not the absence of fear. The only thing that will
reduce your fear is to face it, and in doing so you build courage and confidence, and you will realize that the
monsters youve created are not real.
You may also realize that your biggest obstacle isnt your English, but the fact that you are paralyzed by fear and
have never learned how to face it.
Fear is a fact of life, not just for English, but for everything. For example, job interviews, tests, meetings,
presentations, talking to a pretty girl, or guy. You must learn to face it.
Life Begins at the end of your comfort zone. Neale Donald Walsch
So what can you do to leave your comfort zone and find the courage to open your mouth and speak English?
Really, whats the worst that can happen?
And what positive things could and will happen if you find the courage to open it again and again?
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Effective learners know that you have to apply what you learn to your life and create authentic experiences with
the language. They also know that the best way to do this is to make it fun, practical, and above all, convenient.
The more you get accustomed to using English in your daily life, the easier it will be to find the courage to
conquer your fear of speaking. The problem with traditional methods is that learners focus way too much on
grammar, and ignore the experience of English.
What are these English For Life Strategies? We talk a lot more about them in 5 Ways to Make English a Fun
Part of Your Daily Life, but a few of these are: watching TV & movies, listening to music you enjoy, listening to
podcasts that teach English, and meeting people in person and online.
When you start having daily contact with English in your life
(English For Life), several things will happen:
1. Your automatic reaction of fear when you dont understand something will relax and you will feel calm
even if you dont understand everything.
2. Every other aspect of your learning process will get easier because you will gradually get used to the
sounds and rhythms of the language.
3. You will become a lot more enthusiastic about your learning process because you will be doing things
you enjoy in authentic learning situations.
4. Learning grammar will get a lot easier because it will be complemented by authentic learning
experiences
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You may not be able to get fluent in the entire English language in a few days or weeks, but you sure can learn
how to communicate confidently and fluently with your greetings and goodbyes.
With a great repertoire of greetings like, Whats up? Whats going on? How have you been? Whats
good? you are able to connect with people in a natural and friendly way, which is great for your confidence.
And by mastering a small group of dynamic goodbyes like take care, have a good one, it was nice to see
you, have a nice day/week/trip, and later, you end every conversation on a positive note.
This is one of the most dynamic and fun parts of the language, it immediately gives you the tools connect with
almost anybody, and with just a handful of phrases, you can start and end every conversation with dignity,
confidence, and even fluency.
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If your mind is a muscle, then meditation is a way to take it to the gym. The
stronger your control of your mind becomes, the more youre able to consciously control what your mind
focuses on and how it processes new information. Strengthening your mind in this way has repercussions on
every aspect of your life: your emotional health and self esteem, your work performance, your discipline, your
relationships, your ability to communicate well, your overall happiness, your stress levels, and your physical
health as well.
From Mark Mansons Meditation: Why You Should Do It
As we explored in How Meditation Can Improve Your English (and Your Life), meditation will help your selfesteem, your emotional health, and give you the courage to open your mouth in the face of fear.
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Most importantly for your English, it will improve your concentration, which will naturally improve your memory
and give you the psychological tools to speak better.
JuanPablo Carrera
"if you know how to say goodbye to a person in a relaxed and confident
way, you will leave every conversation with a sense of dignity - It can't
more true. I felt really related to that. thanks a lot for this amazing job.
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so thank all teacher from lanuga English i so happy today and English
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