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tone and use of particular words. It also appears in how we act, and in
particular regarding other people. The reverse is also true, of course, and
attitude of others also affects their behavior.
Behavior affects others' attitudes
When something is done or physical signals are sent to you, then it has an
effect on your attitude. If an individual acts in an aggressive way towards, this
will be interpreted in a certain way. Attitude is subsequently affected by this,
either because an individual is persuaded by arguments or because you react
to what you may perceive as unreasonable behavior by me.
And again, the reverse is true. Your behavior affects my attitudes as I interpret,
rightly or wrongly, what you do or signal.
Thus a circle is created. I act, which affects your attitude, which affects your
behavior, which affects my attitude, which affects my actions.
So what?
This is one of the circular behavioral patterns whereby we get stuck in
subconscious loops. Recognizing it is the first step to addressing it.
To change the behavior of others, first watch your own attitude and how it
affects your behavior. Then notice how your behavior affects other people. You
can break the unconscious loop by noticing how the behavior of others makes
you feel and refusing to let it affect your attitude without first censoring this
process.