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MAYOR BOWSER on Tuesday ocially opened the LGBTQ Aairs oce at the Reeves Center.
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At the event, Chuck Bowers, Rick Newton-Treadway, Tim Hurley and Carlton
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campaign heats up and old stories are reignited, her performance at the Benghazi
hearings in 2013 shows that she is more
than capable of holding her own. But can
she overcome resistance on her left ank?
Like President Obama, Hillary is lucky in
her opponents. Rand Paul slams the Clinton
Foundation for taking money from countries
that oppress women, while he voted against
the Paycheck Fairness Act and the Violence
Against Woman Act and wants to criminalize
abortion. Marco Rubio called Hillary a leader from yesterday despite his own archaic
positions on Cuba, gays, and global warming. Mike Huckabee threatens re from
heaven and says Gods blessing will make
him president to stop Americas secular
theocracy, which is lucky for him because
the voters wont. Chris Christie and Scott
Walker trail Clinton in their home states.
Log Cabin Republicans responded to
Hillarys campaign launch by questioning
her LGBT record. Seriously? Unlike Mitt
Romney, whom they endorsed in 2012,
Hillary has a pro-gay record on which she
continues to build. As Secretary of State
she launched a global LGBT rights initiative. Last week she moved from a states
rights stance on marriage to endorse
What pragmatic liberals like me are calling for is not surrender on the part of progressives, but political maturity. Hillary is
far better than any GOP candidate. If she is
the Democratic nominee, those who dont
want to see a century of reforms decimated should give her their vote.
That is not the end of it. Just as we need to
press her now to address our concerns, we
will need to keep it up after she takes oce.
Iran is a good example. The more she panders to AIPAC, the more we need to press her
with the J Street alternative. If we dont want
another expensive and bloody war, we cannot leave her to her hawkish impulses. We
must convey to her that she will alienate liberals who decry more war if she panders to
conservatives who wont vote for her anyway.
Let us get over the fantasy of political candidates as saviors. LGBT advances are due
mainly to our own eorts, which we should
continue. As for Hillary, she should keep in
mind that voters have more choices besides
voting for the Democrat or the Republican:
they can stay home or vote for a third-party
candidate. Her ne rsum only earns her
consideration; she must still close the deal.
Copyright 2015 by Richard J. Rosendall.
All rights reserved.
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been cool to have Hillary sport some Daenerys Targaryen [I Googled it, calm down]
awesome Heidi blonde braids, but they
didnt go there.
You can imagine how hilarious it would
be if here I were able to pair up Hillarys opponents with GOT characters. In column
A: Ted Cruz, from the cold northern realm.
Rand Paul, strange lovechild of Ron Paul
and Ayn Rand. Chris Christie, once powerful ruler brought low by bridge trolls. Marco Rubio, bedeviled by a bottle of Poland
Springs water. Scott Walker, leader of the
blood-thirsty Teahaddists. Jeb Bush, closeted Latino, AKA Heb Arbusto. I will let you
GOT fans match up with column B.
Of course I will be following the one
GOT plot line I do know: Hillary attacked
by resentful, power-mad, poison-penned
Red Queen, Maureen Dowd.
Otherwise I will be spending my time on
strategies to get out the vote. Dire warnings dont seem to work. The Supreme
Court hangs in the balance! Climate
change is here and now! Government
will occupy your vagina! Heres one idea:
if you dont vote you forfeit your right to
watch Game of Thrones. NO VOTE: NO
GOT something like that.
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is can also be judged by Republican candidates falling all over themselves attacking her instead of each other trying to
prove how strong/vicious they would be
in a general election. The story in the New
York Times about Republicans speaking in New Hampshire has Hillary in the
headline on the front page and in the
continuation of the column. The attacks
notwithstanding by far the biggest reason
voters, other than Democrats who are
already supporting her in massive numbers, are talking about supporting Hillary in addition to her experience, stellar
record and intelligence are named Bush,
Rubio, Carson, Walker, Cruz Paul, Perry
and Fiorina, etc.
Hillarys campaign is just beginning and
there will likely be other Democrats entering the primary and that isnt a bad thing.
It will allow the party to debate the issues
and give Hillary debate practice before
the general election. The nal platform
on which Hillary will run is a progressive
one and will call on the country to deal
with income inequality, climate change,
womens rights and the civil and human
rights of all, including the LGBT community. Hillary has said when the Supreme
Court says marriage equality is protected
by the Constitution she understands the
Almost exactly one year ago, gay Democrats in the District of Columbia found
themselves confronted with a problem.
Then-D.C. Council member Muriel
Bowser a well-known progressive
had just whopped former Mayor Vincent
Gray in the Democratic primary for mayor.
For LGBT Democrats, it would have been
a no brainer to vote for her except for
the fact that a gay person was running on
the independent ticket in the form of former D.C. Council member David Catania.
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AZARIAH KURLANTZICK
AGE: 17
RESIDENCE: Potomac, Md.
ID AS: queer/trans boy
CAME OUT: May 2011 as bi (in seventh
grade); summer 2012 as transgender,
just before ninth grade
AGE: 20
RESIDENCE: Maryland
ID AS: genderqueer/queer
CAME OUT: senior year of high school
CAROLYN KIDD
CARLY CARTER
AGE: 18
RESIDENCE: Herndon, Va.
ID AS: lesbian/queer
CAME OUT: March 26, 2014
1. What kind of reaction have you
received being out at school?
Not a huge one. People were surprised but
otherwise I didnt get a lot of response.
Occasionally, I hear a mean comment, but
usually people are really supportive.
2. How have your family, friends and
community reacted?
My friends are great! I could not have
picked better friends. Most of us are queer
actually, so that works out great. My mom
and dad are still adjusting. they have
overall been crazy supportive. Not a mean
word has ever come out of their mouths.
LC (LAUREN COLLINS)
AGE: 16
RESIDENCE: Herndon, Va.
ID AS: bisexual
CAME OUT: eighth grade
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KATIE BARACK
AGE: 19
RESIDENCE: McLean, Va.
ID AS: queer
CAME OUT: April 2013
1. What kind of reaction have you
received being out at school?
Ive been accepted by the community
as someone who could fall in love with
someone of any gender. However, I go to
a same-sex boarding school, so all of
my gender questioning has been pretty
private. Ive had to give a lot of advice to
underclassmen. I love the leadership role
and being the only out student has made
me nd an incredible community.
2. How have your family, friends and
community reacted?
My family is very supportive. While my
friends at school are supportive, my friends
from home in the Midwest can be very
ignorant and tend to make me feel other.
3. Have there been any benets/
downsides to being out?
I feel excluded often and school dances
are awkward. In my tux, Im called sharp
while all the other students in dresses are
called gorgeous.
4. Whats been the hardest or best part
of being out?
Ive found a community I would never
trade. I love nding other queer people.
Questioning my gender is something Ive
only recently come out about. It sucks that
my high school diploma probably wont
have the name I use on it. I wish I could use
the right pronouns and name, but Im at an
all-girls school. Ive had to work my ass o to
get us to be aware of transgender students
and the need for accommodating policies.
5. Did you go to Youth Pride last year?
No
6. What is the biggest misconception
LGBT Boomers and Gen Xers have about
LGBT Millennials?
Transgender people are viewed as outsiders
of the community by the older generation.
Cultural intersectionality is ignored.
LIA WARNER
AGE: 16
RESIDENCE: Chesapeake, Va.
ID AS: lesbian
CAME OUT: 14
1. What kind of reaction have you
received being out at school?
I was really lucky to be a member of a very
accepting track and cross-country team, so
in the locker room, I felt a lot safer than I
anticipated. But I still heard homophobic
slurs and comments elsewhere at school.
2. How have your family, friends and
community reacted?
My parents have been overwhelmingly
supportive as have my friends. Many
members of the community as well, but thats
not to say its been 100 percent positive.
3. Have there been any benets/
downsides to being out?
A benet would be, of course, the ability
to be myself and be true to my identity
with those I love. The downside, where I
live is overwhelmingly homophobic and
discriminatory.
4. Whats been the hardest or best part
of being out?
The hardest when people look at me in a
dierent and negative light. The best my
ability to be myself publicly and help others
in my GSA.
5. Did you go to Youth Pride last year?
No, I did not know about SMYAL or that
event. I did go to Hampton Roads Pride,
which was fabulous.
6. What is the biggest misconception
LGBT Boomers and Gen Xers have about
LGBT Millennials?
They believe this is a phase or that were
somehow a mistake.
RICO JONES
AGE: 15
RESIDENCE: none given
ID AS: bisexual
CAME OUT: This year
1. What kind of reaction have you
received being out at school?
Mixed happiness from some who were
proud of me, but also a lot of bullying most
of the time. Ive been called a lot of names
and picked on by many others.
2. How have your family, friends and
community reacted?
My friends were all by my side and have
wished me happiness and the best of luck.
3. Have there been any benets/
downsides to being out?
Benets: happy to have found myself in so
many ways, love and freedom. Downsides:
bullying.
4. Whats been the hardest or best part
of being out?
Bullying and the feeling that people think
because youre gay, you think you deserve
special rights or treatment.
AUTUMN SMITH
AGE: 18
RESIDENCE: D.C.
ID AS: male
CAME OUT: 2013
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ERIKA JOHNSON
AGE: 18
RESIDENCE: Clinton, Md.
ID AS: lesbian
CAME OUT: ninth grade
1. What kind of reaction have you
received being out at school?
I received a pretty positive reaction from
my friends and teachers. A lot of my friends
were shocked and surprised but very
supportive.
JASON ADLE
AGE: 16
RESIDENCE: Gaithersburg, Md.
ID AS: gay
CAME OUT: 2010-ish
SASHA JARVIS
AGE: 18
RESIDENCE: Derwood, Md.
ID AS: bisexual
CAME OUT: ninth grade
1. What kind of reaction have you received being out at school?
Neutral
6. What is the biggest misconception LGBT Boomers and Gen Xers have about LGBT
Millennials?
I think the biggest misconception is that were all just following trends.
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SELVI ULUSAN
AGE: 16
RESIDENCE: Bethesda, Md.
ID AS: queer/bi
CAME OUT: June 20, 2013
1. What kind of reaction have you
received being out at school?
Surprise mostly. I dont think everyone
knows quite yet actually. I dont tell
everyone I meet automatically but if
anyone asks, I tell them the truth.
2. How have your family, friends and
community reacted?
My friends were very supportive. My family
kind of already saw it coming but my little
sister was great. So nice!
3. Have there been any benets/
downsides to being out?
Benets: I am who I am and people
knowing doesnt change that, but they
just know a little bit more about me.
Downsides: there was a lot of are you
sure? or just weirded out reactions. Some
people just didnt believe me, but thats not
my problem.
4. Whats been the hardest or best part
of being out?
Hardest: That I feel like I have to keep
coming out every time I tell someone else.
Best is letting people know a little more of
who I am.
5. Did you go to Youth Pride last year?
I have been to the Capital Pride parade
and festival the last two years, but not
Youth Pride. The rst year I went to Pride,
it was amazing. I met a girl who made all
of my unanswered questions about myself
incredibly clear.
6. What is the biggest misconception
LGBT Boomers and Gen Xers have about
LGBT Millennials?
That its just a choice or just how you feel
and that you can only be attracted to one
gender.
EBONY REMPSON
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TEMITAYO WOLFF
AGE: 18
RESIDENCE: D.C.
ID AS: queer girl (panromantic, grey-asexual)
CAME OUT: beginning of 11th grade/end of 2013
1. What kind of reaction have you received being out at school?
Within a specic community, Ive received so much love and support. My friend group is super
gay. I havent received much open hostility. Some people have a lot of questions.
2. How have your family, friends and community reacted?
My mom wishes I would stop saying words like pansexual, which she never heard. I think she
accepts my identity even though it doesnt make sense to her. My dad is also a little confused but
he is supportive of my identity, activism and presentation. I have a much younger sister and I think
coming out has made her more accepting and socially aware.
3. Have there been any benets/downsides to being out?
Ive been really lucky to experience more benets than downsides when I came out. Coming out
provided me with a community of really supportive queer friends online and in D.C. The main
downside is tension with my mother.
4. Whats been the hardest or best part of being out?
The best my queer-platonic partner and my girlfriend.
5. Did you go to Youth Pride last year?
I did attend and had a lot of fun. I appreciate Youth Pride as a space that doesnt have alcohol
and nearly as many people as Capital Pride. However a lot of my friends were consistently
misgendered both by peers and by adults who were running the programs, which was
disappointing that an event that is supposed to be safe for trans people makes assumptions
about peoples gender and reinforces that non-existent binary.
6. What is the biggest misconception LGBT Boomers and Gen Xers have about LGBT
Millennials?
I think older folks feel like we are undermining a lot of the work they did with our own activism.
When we use social media as a platform for advocacy, they think we are being lazy or
unproductive. When we reclaim queer as a self-identier, they think we are disrespecting their
struggle to eliminate the use of that word. When we advocate for lesser-known identities like
asexuality, pansexuality and non-binary genders, they think we are just making up new words and
new forms of oppression when they fought so hard just for basic recognition of the L, G, B and T. I
think older LGBTQ folks need to recognize that queer young people of color exist.
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AGE: 20
RESIDENCE: D.C.
ID AS: queer
CAME OUT: 2009
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MAYA PARKER
AGE: 20
RESIDENCE: D.C.
ID AS: bisexual
CAME OUT: freshman year of high school
1. What kind of reaction have you
received being out at school?
I wasnt accepted at rst as I was one of the
rst in my high school to come out. I got
made fun of mainly by the boys. I gured
they were jealous. It somehow was an
inspiration to the other girls in the school
as they began to come out as well.
2. How have your family, friends and
community reacted?
My family pretty much thought of it as a
phase. I guess they have swept it under
the rug. My friends didnt like it too well.
They started acting uncomfortable around
me and not wanting to get dressed in
front of me. People heard bisexual and
gured I was looking at every woman that
would walk past me. My community didnt
react much as Im more on the feminine
side. Ive only really gotten reaction by
my community if I was seen with a more
dominant female.
3. Have there been any benets/
downsides to being out?
I actually get to be myself. It gives me a sort
of condence where I can walk outside with
my head high without feeling like I have a
dark secret.
4. Whats been the hardest or best part
of being out?
People thinking youre playing both sides
of the fence. Its hard to get a woman to
understand that youre serious about her
when she knows you like men and with
men, they cant seem to get the thought of
two women and themselves out of their
heads.
5. Did you go to Youth Pride last year?
No
6. What is the biggest misconception
LGBT Boomers and Gen Xers have about
LGBT Millennials?
A misconception I believe older LGBT
people have about LGBT millennials is
that we dont carry ourselves properly
that we may be a little to open about our
preference. I see it as us wanting it to be
put out into society where its like you either
accept me or you dont.
CHANCERAMIREZ
AGE: 18
RESIDENCE: Arlington, Va.
SHANTEL JORDAN
AGE: 17
RESIDENCE: Arlington, Va.
ID AS: queer/trans
CAME OUT: 2013
1. What kind of reaction have you
received being out at school?
My close friends were very supportive.
Some other students didnt understand and
made some pretty harsh comments.
2. How have your family, friends and
community reacted?
Family was mixed they were upset at
rst, but are now mostly supportive.
3. Have there been any benets/
downsides to being out?
The big benet is being able to be myself.
Its very refreshing not to have to hide.
JAMES ROSENSTEIN
AGE: 15
RESIDENCE: Arlington, Va.
ID AS: queer
CAME OUT: 2014
GAVIN CALVIN
AGE: 16
RESIDENCE: Clarksburg, Md.
ID AS: transgender
CAME OUT: 8th grade
1. What kind of reaction have you
received being out at school?
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Breanna Walton is just starting to stick a toe into broader LGBT waters.
The 16-year-old sophomore at Edmund Burke School is involved with
SSASI (Students Supporting All Sexualities and Identities), a small GayStraight Alliance there, and is excited about going to Youth Pride in Dupont
Circle on May 2. It will be her rst time. And in February she joined the new
GenOUT Chorus, a youth choir that launched out of the Gay Mens Chorus of
Washingtons youth outreach program.
The young singers, who range in age from 12-18, will debut May 15-16 at the
GMCW Born This Way concert (details at gmcw.org). The group, which meets
monthly for rehearsal, will sing pop songs and show tunes such as Beautiful
City from Godspell, Christina Aguileras Beautiful, We Shall Overcome
and more, some on their own and others with the Gay Mens Chorus. Walton,
who just recently came out to her family but has been out at school for a
while, says so far its been a wonderful experience.
Its great to have a place to feel safe and relate to other people in a good
way, Walton says. It also helps the kids and teens who may not be out
yet, to be more comfortable knowing there are other people with similar
experiences. It helps to hear other peoples perspectives and take those
lessons and apply them at your own school.
Walton is one of about 12 in the chorus. She sings tenor and says the
group is mostly comprised, so far, of girls. Thea Kano, the Gay Mens Chorus
conductor, directs and chorus members help with GenOUT rehearsals. Walton
heard the full mens chorus for the rst time last month.
I really enjoyed it, she says. Im extremely excited to sing with them.
Walton was born in Washington and lives in Southwest. She enjoys
swimming, playing clarinet, ultimate Frisbee, reading, swimming and listening
to music in her free time.
BREANNA WALTON
How long have you been out and who
was the hardest person to tell?
About a year and a half.My brother was
the hardest person to come out to.
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World Book Day is at various locations in
Dupont Circle from 11 a.m.-5 p.m. on Saturday.
Programs include a book fair, book
drive and book exchange. There will be
childrens activities such as arts and crafts
from 11:30 a.m.-3 p.m. and a childrens
book exchange. Food will be provided by
Pepe Food Truck and will be served from
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MURDER BALLAD
THRU MAY 10. STUDIO THEATRE.
202-332-3300. studiotheatre.org.
Staged cabaret-style in Stage 4 with full bar service before the performance,
Murder Ballad is an explosive rock musical that puts the audience in the middle
of its action for a full immersive experience.
SHEILA E.
APR 30. HOWARD THEATRE.
202-803-2899. thehowardtheatre.com.
Join Rob Kapilow as he unravels and explores some of the great musical
masterpieces of Stephen Sondheim featuring some of the Broadway legends
most well-known songs including Send in the Clowns, Too Many Mornings,
Finishing the Hat, and Not Getting Married Today.
THEATRE
Soon. Thru Apr 26. Signature Theatre.
703-820-9771. signature-theatre.org.
Lights Rise On Grace. Thru Apr 26.
Woolly Mammoth. 202-393-3939.
woollymammoth.net.
Uncle Vanya. Thru May 3. Round
House Theatre. 240-644-1100.
roundhousetheatre.org.
Carousel. Thru May 10. Olney Theatre.
301-924-3400. olneytheatre.org.
Mariela in the Desert. Thru May 10.
GALA Hispanic Theatre. 202-234-7174.
galatheatre.org.
Shear Madness. Thru Dec 31. Kennedy
Center. 800-444-1324. shearmadness.com.
Swing Time - The Musical. Thru Jun
27. Navy Memorial. 202-737-2300.
swingtimethemusical.com.
The Fire and The Rain. Thru May 24.
Constellation Theatre Company.
202-204-7741. constellationtheatre.org.
One Destiny. Thru May 16. Freedoms
Song: Abraham Lincoln and the Civil
War. Thru May 20. Fords Theatre.
800-982-2787. fords.org.
Very Still & Hard to See. Thru May 10.
Rorschach Theatre. Atlas. 202-399-7993.
rorschachtheatre.com.
On Approval. Thru May 17. Washington
Stage Guild. Undercroft Theatre.
240-582-0050. stageguild.org.
Fox On The Fairway. Apr 24-May 9.
Reston Community Players. CenterStage.
703-476-4500. restonplayers.org.
DANCE
Rennie Harris RHAW. Apr 25-Apr 26.
Dance Place. 202-269-1600.
danceplace.org.
Tappenstance. Apr 25-Apr 26. JOMDC
Friendship Heights. 202-520-3692.
joyofmotion.org.
Umoves. Thru Apr 26. Clarice Smith.
301-405-2787.
claricesmithcenter.umd.edu.
La Sylphide. Apr 25-Apr 26. Virginia
Ballet Company and School. Ernst
Community Cultural Center.
703-249-8227.
virginiaballetcompany.org.
MUSIC
MUSEUMS
National Gallery of Art. Piero di
Cosimo. Thru May 3. Peter Paul Rubens.
Thru Jul 5. nga.gov.
Folger Shakespeare Library. Ships,
Clocks, & Stars: The Quest for Longitude.
Thru Aug 23. folger.edu.
Kennedy Center. Dustin Yellin:
Psychogeographies. Thru May 6.
800-444-1324. kennedy-center.org.
National Archives. Spirited Republic:
Alcohol in American History. Thru Jan 10.
202-357-5000. archivesfoundation.org.
Kreeger Museum. Flemish
Expressionism. Thru May 15.
202-337-3050. kreegermuseum.org.
Museum of Women in the Arts. Doris
Lee. Thru May 8. 202-783-5000.
nmwa.org.
District Architecture Center. reVISION.
Thru Jun 13. 202-347-9403. aiadac.com.
Fords Theatre. Silent Witnesses:
Artifacts of the Lincoln Assassination.
Thru May 25. 202-347-4833. fords.org.
National Geographic. Monster Fish: In
Search of the Last River Giants. Thru Oct
11. 202-857-7000. nglive.org.
GALLERIES
Strathmore. If the Shoe Fits. Thru May
31. 301-581-5100. strathmore.org.
DCCAH. Duke Ellington School of the Arts
Student Exhibition. Thru May 10.
202-724-5613. dcarts.dc.gov.
The Art League Gallery. Bits & Pieces.
Thru May 4. 703-683-1780.
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HIPS hosts a benet happy hour at Bar
Pilar (1833 14th St., N.W.) today from 5-8
p.m. Admission is $10 for a wristband
that gives access to exclusive HIPS drink
specials and small plates. All proceeds
benet HIPSs new Center for Health
and Achievement that will open in the
summer. For more details, visit facebook.
com/ilovehips.
TODAY
Arlington Gay and Lesbian Alliance
(AGLA) presents the fth annual Miss Gay
Arlington Pageant at Freddies Beach Bar
and Restaurant (555 23rd St., Arlington,
Va.) tonight at 8 p.m. Current Miss Gay
Arlington, Coco B. Colby, will make her
nal performance and the title holder and
a new Miss Gay Arlington will be crowned.
Admission is $10. For more information,
visit facebook.com/arlingtonlgbt.
Rock and Roll Hotel (1353 H St., N.E.)
hosts a bear happy hour today from
5-10 p.m. There is no cover charge. Drink
specials include $6 Ketel One drinks, $4
rail drinks, $3 pints and $1 o everything
else. DJs of The NeedlExchange will
play music. For more details, visit
rockandrollhoteldc.com.
Green Lantern (1335 Green Ct., N.W.)
hosts Boom Neon, a black light dance
party, tonight at 10 p.m. Guests should
wear underwear or other clothing that
is blacklight reactive. DJ David Merrill will
play music for the night. Drink specials
are all night and will include $4 Bud
and Bud Light, $4 Fireball shots and $5
Smirno. Cover is $5. There will be a
free coat check. For more details, visit
greenlanterndc.com.
Ladies First Entertainment hosts
a champagne launch party for its new
monthly ladies party at Bachelors Mill
(1104 8th St., S.E.) tonight from 10 p.m.-3
a.m. The theme is camouage. The new
monthly parties will be the last Friday of
each month. For more information, visit
bachelorsmill.com.
SATURDAY, APRIL 25
Burgundy Crescent, a gay volunteer
organization, volunteers for Food and
Friends (219 Riggs Rd., N.E.) today from
8-10 a.m. Volunteers will chop vegetables
and pack groceries. To volunteer, email
jonathan@burgundycrescent.org.
For
more details, visit burgundycrescent.org.
Universal Gear (1919 14th St., N.W.)
hosts its 22nd anniversary party today
from 2-6 p.m. There will be live music,
drinks and fashion models. There will also
be a sale with 15 percent o all full-priced
merchandise. For more information, visit
facebook.com/like.universalgear.
CTRL
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its
three-year
anniversary with its anniversary party
Wigs and Mustachio at Town (2009 8th
St., N.W) tonight at 11 p.m. DJ Adam
Koussari-Amin, DJ Devon Trotter and DJ
Je Prior will play music for the night. For
more information, visit towndc.com.
Blackbird, a lm that tells the story
of an African-American choir boy who
comes out in his small Baptist town, is
playing at multiple theaters in the area
TUESDAY, APRIL 28
Bachelors Mill has half-price drinks all
night long from 5 p.m.-2 a.m.tonight. They
also have pool, video gaming systems and
cards. Admission is free. For more details,
visit bachelorsmill.com.
Human Rights Campaign will hold
a rally in support of the plaintis for
the marriage equality case Obergefell v.
Hodges at the United States Supreme
Court building (1 1st St., N.E.) today from
9 a.m.-noon. For more information, visit
action.hrc.org.
WEDNESDAY, APRIL 29
MONDAY, APRIL 27
THURSDAY, APRIL 30
MONIQUE and JULIAN WALKER in a scene from Blackbird. It opens today in the region.
SUNDAY, APRIL 26
Where the Girls Go presents a Ladies
Tea Dance at Dodge City D.C. (917 U St.,
N.W.) today from 3-8 p.m. DJ Vanniety
Kills will provide music. Drink specials will
be $3 Miller High Life, $5 vodka lemonade
and $5 rail drinks. Sausages will also be
served including vegetarian options.
For more details, visit facebook.com/
wherethegirlsgo.
Nellies Sports Bar (900 U St., N.W.) hosts a
drag brunch today with one show at 10:30
a.m. and another at 12:30 p.m. For more
information, visit nelliessportsbar.com.
Perrys (1811 Columbia Rd., N.W.) hosts
its weekly Sunday Drag Brunch today
from 10 a.m.-3 p.m. The cost is $24.95
for an all-you-can-eat buet. For more
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I am almost always the one who
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it doesnt happen. Because I like having
sex, I dont let it go too long. But if I didnt
initiate, I think wed have sex twice a year.
Joe and I are about the same age (mid-30s)
and have been together three years. When I
do initiate, the sex is good and he seems to
enjoy it, so its not like his libido is fading.
Ive brought this up to him but havent
gotten anywhere. No surprise, he sees the
situation dierently. He claims he initiates
more frequently than I give him credit for.
He also says that because I want sex more
than he does, I always beat him to the
punch by initiating so often.
In fairness, when we have sex I like
being more the top and being the initiator
is a part of this role. But I want to feel like
Joe really wants to have sex with me, not
just that he is happy to go along with it
when I start something.
Lately Im getting resentful. I raised this
issue with him, he knows its important to
me and nothing has changed. I decided to
just wait till he initiates, to prove a point,
but now I am totally focusing on this issue
and getting mad. I brought up couples
therapy and he said no. He thinks were
doing ne. Any pointers?
MICHAEL REPLIES:
Its tough not to get what you want
from your partner, but everyone who
is coupled faces this at points. Now you
must gure out what you want to do.
Is this a deal-breaker issue? Do you
want to end the relationship if Joe doesnt
start initiating more? As you contemplate
your answer, please consider more than
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Dearth of opportunities in
region remain in some sports
By KEVIN MAJOROS
About 40 local LGBT sports teams and
clubs gathered for the annual Team D.C.
SportsFest. The event, held April 9, is an
opportunity for the teams to recruit new
athletes and a chance for members to mingle.
Washington is home to one of the
largest LGBT sports communities in the
world, but there are still a few major
sports missing from the local oerings.
Last summer at the 2014 Cleveland/Akron
Gay Games, Team D.C. sent athletes in close
to 25 sports and medaled in 18 of those
sports. Wrestling, ice hockey and diving are
just a few of the sports that had no local
representation. There was one local athlete
in the wrestling oshoot sport of grappling.
While ice hockey and wrestling
are denitely more popular in the
Midwestern and northern United States,
diving is contested all across the country.
The LGBT masters divers who compete
nationally are spread out in various cities
and train with straight teams.
New York City and Paris are home to
the largest LGBT diving communities
in the world. Croft Vaughn is the head
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and he was recruited in 2010 to launch its
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Vaughn says its hard to have an LGBT
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metropolitan area, but not impossible.
Most of the masters divers are former
competitors who want to stay active in
the community and train to keep their
form and technique, Vaughn says. The
inexperienced divers who come in are
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Competitions available for the LGBT diving
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Gay & Lesbian Aquatics Championships, the
Gay Games, the World OutGames and the
EuroGames. Most of the LGBT divers also
compete in straight competitions.
In the platform portion of the sport,
USA Diving has set rules as precautionary
measures for the masters divers who hit
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