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Thereisaprizetothepersonwhocorrectlyanswersthis
question,WhatisaMan?Whenaskedwhattheywantina
guy,womensaysimply,"AMAN!"But,alas!,realmenare
becomingmoreandmorerarethesedays.Womenaretiredof
thesensativewimpswhohavenobackbones.Onewomeneven
wroteasongaboutthesubject,"Wherehaveallthecowboys
gone?"
SowhatisaMan?Howshouldheact?Decadesandcenturies
ago,thequestionwasnonsense.Buttodayinourfeminized
culture(thismaybemoreinAmericatheninothercountries),
mostofushavebeenraisedtobelievethatthereissomething
inherentlywrongwithbeingamanandactingthewayhowa
manshouldact.Nowondermalesdon'tknowhowtoact
aroundwomen!Nowonderwebsitesliketheseexist!
Indeed,Iembarkedonthismysterytofindouttheanswerto
thisquestion.Severalwomenwerebunchedupinagroup,
gossipingandyappingaboutcuteboys,fashion,relationships
i.e.nothing.Thisbehaviorextendstoallwomenofallcultures
(andalsodifferentanimalspecies.Cowsgrouptogetherand
mooandgnawongrassandtakenoticeofbullsbraveenough
toapproachthegroup).
Iapproach."Howareyou,ladies!!IamthePook."
Awomansqueals."Oh!It'saPook!"Theotherssquealin
unison.

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Oncetheladiescalmthemselvesafterbeinginthepresenceof
aPook,Iaskthem,"Ladies!Dotellme,whatdoyoudefineas
aMan?"
Withdevilishtongues,thewomenanswer:
"AManissomeonesensativetome."
"AManistheguywhowilltakecareofmyneeds."
"AManistheonethatisintunewithmyfeelings."
"AManisonewhodoesn'thaveanego."
"AManistheguywhowillsitandwatchchickflicksallday
withme."
"AManistheguywhowillgoshoppingwithme."
"AManistheguywhowillshareallhisfeelingswithme."
Sucharethecommonanswers!Themaleslistenandactualize
whatthewomensay.Theyareconstantlydeclared'sweet'and
'wonderful'and'nice',oh'sonice'.Mothersandolderwomen
areproudofthemandtellthem,"IfIwereyounger,Iwouldgo
foryou!"
PoorNiceGuy!Thewomenhisownageavoidhimlikethe
plagueandjumpforthejerks.TheNiceGuybecomesan
emotionaltampontobeusedanddiscarded.TheNiceGuy,
beingsoniceandsweet,listenstothewomanvomither
feelingsaboutmenandbleedherproblemsofherboyfriendon
him.Helistenswithbaitedhopewhenhehears,"Oh,whycan't
guysbelikeyou!Youlistenandunderstand."Thensheturns
aroundandgetsabusedbyanotherjerk!Theviciouscycle
repeatsagainandagain.
Whyarewomenactinginthisway?
Theyaresimplyactingaswomendo,asintheirnature.The
problemisnotwiththem,itiswithguys.Weareafraidto
embraceOURnature,thatofbeingaMan.Beinginaculture
thatseesManhoodaspredatoryandoppressiveanduncouth,
wecoveritupwithinourselves.Bydoingso,wehideour
sexuality.(Sexuality!DoImeanrockhardabsandrippling
muscles?Thatisnotwhatwomenfindsexy[it'sacontributing
factor,notthecore].AtypeofPERSONALITYiswhatwomen
arelookingfor.Someonetheycandependon[hasbackbone],
someonewhowillbesuccessful[hasambition],andsomeone
whoisdecisive[hascharge].Niceguyshavenobackbone
becausetheythinkwomenarefrailthingsthatwillbreakin
confrontationniceguysrevealnoambitionbecausetheyfear
beingseenasarroganttowomenniceguysareafraidtobe
decisiveforfearofbeingseenas'oppressive'.)
Twopolesofthoughtmendriftinto:theNiceGuyandtheJerk.
Bothblametheother.
"Youruinthewomenwithyourlackofcommitmentand
unappreciativenature,"saystheNiceGuy.
"Youspoilthewomenwithyourendlesslisteningearand
stupidcaringattitude,"repliestheJerk.
Thetwoendlesslywar.Thoseonthesidelineshavetheirown
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conclusions.Onesidesays,"TheJerkisthewaytogo.
Ceaselesssex!Evolutiondemandsit."Theothersidesays,
"TheNiceGuyisthewaytogo.Gloriousrelationship!Society
demandsit."
Butthetwostillargue.
"Youcausethewomentothinktheyareincontrol,"saysthe
Jerk.
"Ahh,butyoucausethewomentothinkallmenarescum,"
repliestheNiceGuy.
IstherenotanendtotheNiceGuyvs.Jerkdebate?Arethese
theonlychoices?
TheCycle
TheNiceGuyemerges.Heistenderizedandwantstoshoutin
everywoman'sear"Iwillnotabuseyou.Iamsweetandgood.
Basedonthataloneyoushoulddateme."WhentheNiceGuy
talkstothegirlonadate,*poof*,thedateturnsintoOprah.
"Oh,mylifehasbeenSOdownhillfromhere,"theNiceGuy
whines."Mylittlegirlycarwasslashed,Ifailedmyclasses,
butbecauseofyouthisdayhasbeensomuchbetter."Then
theNiceGuygoes,"Letmetellyoumylifestory.Mybirthwas
long,hard,andpainfulformymother..."Ourculturehas
becomesofeminizedthattheNiceGuythinksitisproperto
vomithisfeelingsandemotionsallovertheplace.(It'sgross!)
Women,rightfully,runforthehillswhentheyhearyour
declarationsoflove.
TheMetamorphosiscomes.TheNiceGuyeventuallyrealizes
whatalltheladieswant,becomesbitter,andchangeshimself
intoaJerk.Hisgoalnowistosleepwithasmanywomenas
possibleandfigureoutallthetricksandtacticstodoso.He
focusesoncalculationratherthennaturaljoy.Whenawoman
comes,hepullsoutachartofallthe'moves'and'tactics'with
arrowsandpatterns.Heunleasheshislaptop,accessesaLay
Guide,andreviewshisstrategy.Timepassesandoncewasfun
becomesmeaningless.
Backtobeingnice.HeseesitnowasturningonNiceGuyor
turningonJerk."Whycan'tIjustbemyself!?"hesoon
thundersatReality.
JustbeaMan!Thereisnoneedtoreprogramyourself.You
willhavetheinterestsyouhave,thehobbiesyouhave,the
bodyyouhave,butyoucaneasilybecomeaMAN.Itisall
simplyinthewayhowyouthinkandasyouthinkyoushall
become.ButwhatisMan?Shallwehavetheanswer?Hereit
is:
AManisaguywhoisnotscaredofhistestosterone!
AManfollowsthepassioninhislife.Passionofwomen?Of
coursenot.AManhasgoalsanddesiresthatgoesabovethat
ofchasingchicks.Afterchildhood,thereareTRUEwinnersand
losersinlife.AMandesirestobethewinner.AManWANTSto
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wininwhathedoes.Becauseofhispassion,aMancan
sometimescomeoffasarrogantandegotistical.Hedoesnot
apologizeforthisorforhisdesires.
"ItisyouractionsthatcausethedisgraceofMen,"saysthe
NiceGuy.
"Itisyours,"repliestheJerk.
No,gentlemen,thedisgraceofmenisinnotembracingyour
truenature:followingyourpassionand,thus,lovinglife.
Womenaretoenhanceyourlife,nottobeyourlife.Sotothe
NiceGuy,stopplacingyourhappinessongettingagirlfriend.
TotheJerk,quitwastingyourlifeonseduction.Don'tSPEND
yourtimechasinggirls,INVESTitbyputtingitintoyour
interestsanddesires,thusthewholeofyourlife.
Whenyoudothis,allofasuddenyouhavewhateverywoman
wants:Ambition,charge,decisiveness,backbone,kindness,
stableness,andconfidence.
IwantyoutoreadwhatawomenpostedaswhatSHEthought
wasagreatguy.(FocusonwhatIputinBOLD)
quote:

"Qualifications"ofagreatguy"
1)Physical
Abitathleticsohe'sinshapeandagood
complexion(Ifhecanhelpit).Veryfocused,
intelligenteyeswhichpayattentiontowhoever
deservesit.Hairthatcanbetossled...anda
relaxed,buttidywardrobe.
2)Emotional
Hisattitudehasgottabemostlydeterministicand
levelheaded.Ifcrappystuffhappenstohim...he
shouldrollwiththepunchesandlearnfromit.If
heendsupdoingcrappystuffthenheshouldget
up,brushoffandbeabetterguythenexttime
round.
Hemustalsohavedeepconvictions:heshould
NEVERgiveuphisidealsormoralsforanything.
Iknowitsoundscheezy,buthemustbe
respectfultohismother(itreflects
character)...evenifsheiswitchylikesomemoms
thesedays.
Andofcourse:senseofhumor,artistic,andan
awesomeboyfriend.
3)Social
Agreatguyistheonewhooffersthegirlsachair,
opensdoorsetc.(Butisn'tatotalflirthejust
considersithisduty.)
Aguyshouldcleanuphislanguagearoundgirls.
Heshouldstandupforpeoplewhoarebeing
bashedinconversations.That'simportanttous
girlsb/cbackstabbingiscommonamongusand
weREALLYnoticewhensomebodyisn'tagossip.
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Aaaandmypersonalthingisthatheshouldbethe
guywho"could"bethecenterofattention...buthe
preferstohangoutwiththefewguysintheback
whoarehisgenuinefriends.
Phew...Ihopethishelpedabit.Physique:aslong
asit'swithintheusualboundsisprettymuch
unimportant.
Ifyouwanttogetareallygreatgirl...startworking
onyourcharacterandselfcontrol(notb/cit's
you,butb/cthosetwothingsareREALLY
uncommonthesedays)becauseagreatgirlisone
who'sbeenworkingonthatalreadyandshe'll
recognizeitinyou.
AManhascharacteranddeepconvictions.HehasPASSIONin
lifeaboutsomething.Itisthispassionthattransformshislife,
giveshimconfidence,andgiveshimjoy.ItisthisPASSION
thatwillgiveyouthatrightmindsetforyouhavegoalsand
dreamsthatgobeyondchicks.
Remember,ifyoucannotcommandrespect,youcannotattract
love.Ifyoucannotberespected,womenwillignoreyouand/or
abuseyou.
Onceuponatime,therewasalittleboywhowasscrawny,
criedeasily,andwasatotalwuss.Attheageoften,hisfather
lookeddownathimdisapprovingly."Youaresuchawimp!"he
scoldedathisson.Theboycriedbuteventuallydiscovered
whatwaswrongwithhim.Heworkedout,studied,andutilized
himself.Hewentaroundtheworldinthemostferocious
quests.Hebecamestrongandpowerful.Heenteredpolitics
andbecameanunstoppableforce.Hewouldbeshotwhen
givingaspeech,buthewouldpullhimselfbackuptocontinue
thespeech!
HewasPresidentTeddyRoosevelt,oneofthemoresignificant
charactersinAmerica.Ifthatlittlewimpyboycouldbecome
suchacharacter,anyonecanbeaMan.
Whatdoguystodaydo?Wetrytohideourstrengthand
expressour'femininity'.Takeanexampleofguys:earlyonin
arelationship,theywillshowhow'great'theyarebycooking
forthewoman!
AsAntiDumpsaid:
quote:

Realmenarenotavailable.Theyareclimbing
mountains.Theyareswimmingacrossrivers.What
areYOUdoing?Makingspagetti?!?!?!

AMan,
Doesnotgothroughlifewalkingoneggshells.
NiceGuysthink,"Doesshelikeme?HowdoIgethertolike
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me?"Goodguysthink,"ShouldIlikeher?ShouldIgofor
her?"TheGoodguydoesn'tthinkaboutthegirl'sinterestuntil
they'redating.TheGoodguylooksatallthegirlsandTAKES
whathewants.
Focusesonhisdreams.
No,thisdoesnotincludethechick.Youmusthavepassionfor
somethinginlife,somethingyouevenwanttodofortherest
ofyourlife.Yourromanticlifeisanechoofyourregularlife.
Doesnotapologizeforhistestosterone,forhisdesires.
"Oh,Iamsosorry,ladies!Iamafflictedwiththisdisease
knownasM.A.L.E.Itisnaturalformetoglanceatyou,your
ohsocurvaceousbody.Iamsoooosorry.Please,please
FORGIVEME!"
WouldaWOMANapologizeforherfeminineacts?Sowhy
shouldYOUapologizeforyourmasculinity?
Triestoalwayswininwhathedoes.(Afterchildhood,
therearerealwinnersandlosersinlife.)
Menbuildtowerswomenbuildwebs.Ifyouaren'tconstructing
yourtoweroraren'tevenplanningit,whyshouldshecasther
webatyou?Ifyouwantworthychicks,you,yourself,must
strivetobecomeworthy.
Hasdeepconvictionsthatallowshimtobeapossible
leader.
Thisiscrucialbecauseonedayyouwillbecometheleaderof
yourownhousehold.Yes,wetalkof50/50,ofeverythingbeing
equal,butNature'slawssurpassthatofHumans.Women
naturallysubmitandnurture,Mennaturallyleadandprovide.
Ifyouwereawoman,wouldYOUwantaNiceGuyinchargeof
yourhousehold?OrwouldyouwantAMAN?
Seekstosolveproblemsthentoplaceblame.
Ifthereisaproblem,yousolveit.Youdonotgo,"Oh,BOO
HOO!ThiswasbecauseofHIM."Awomannaturallywantsa
guywhodealswithproblems,notpassthemalong.(Wouldyou
wantthatinyourwoman?Ofcoursenot!)
Seesfailureasonlyatemporarysetbacktothe
inevitable.
Statistically,you'remorelikelytobeREJECTEDthentobe
ACCEPTED.Sohowdoyoubecomemoreandmoreaccepted
andhavelotsofgirls?Itiswhenyouincreaseyourtryingso
muchthattheacceptionratesatisfiesyouandyoudon'tnotice
therejections.
NapoleonHill'sbookinterviewingextremelysuccessfulpeople,
thesemenofdestinydidnotletfailuredestroythem.Indeed,
NapoleonconcludesthatDestinyputsoutthesetrialsand
failurestoTESTthemeniftheyareproperandFITfortheir
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roleinshapinghistory.
KnowswhereheisgoinginLife.
Trueseductionisn'tcalculationorpainfuldiscipline,itisthe
sameaswitheverythingthatmakesasuccess:APassionfor
Life.
Neverloseshispassion,forthatwouldbethedeathofhis
soul.
NiceGuysHATEbachelorhood.TheyHATE,HATE,HATEitsooo
much.Someevenwishfortheolddaysofarrangedmarriages
sotheywouldn'thavetoputupwithallthegames.
JerksLOVEbachelorhoodsomuchtheycan'tseeanythingelse
inlife.Whilewomenloveguysthatcangetwomen,jerksoffer
nothingworthwilelongtermwise.
Alas,thewomenalwaystrytochangetheJerkbutneverthe
NiceGuy.Why?BecauseaManisSTRENGTHandaJerk
displaysstrengthonsomelevel.NiceGuysneverdo.
Neverfeelshehastoprovehimselftoanyone.
Flowers,candy,poetryallcanbegoodadditionstoa
relationship,butsomanyniceguysusethemtoBUYthe
relationshipasiftheymustprovethemselves.Theyfloodwith
thepoorwomanwithgiftstoshowtheymeanit.
Soawaywiththeflowers,thosedeadplantsastokensof
affection.Awaywiththechoclate,thecandy,andsweets,those
sugarypursuitstopurchaselove.Awaywiththepoety,those
rottenversesofdeclarationsoflove.Awaywiththequestto
proveYOURSELFandletherproveHERSELFtoyouforYOUare
theDonJuan.
BeaMan!Andwithit,youwilladvanceinyourcareer,your
sociallife,andevenyourdealingswithwomen.Menarevery
rarethesedayssoifyoubecomeone,youwillbeinHIGH
demand.Yourcareerwillbecomebetteraspeoplelookatyou
asaleader.Lifewillredevelopbeforeyoureyesforyouwill
obtainthemostsinglequalitythatmen,nottrophyhusbands,
notniceguys,nottactifulplayers,butmenhaveamonopoly
on:Respect.
YOUaretheMAN!Forifyoudon'tSTANDforsomething,you
shallFALLforeverything!
IP:209.223.62.48

posted0415200104:23PM

Rico
MasterDonJuan

AbsolutelyLegendary!
IP:140.233.208.84

posted0415200105:31PM

JuanWannabe
MasterDonJuan

Sheerartpook!Brilliant!Iwasjustthinkingtheotherday

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abouthowimportantitistobepassionateaboutmylife.I
agreewitheverythingyou'vesaidandlearnedabit.Definitely
goingtoprintthatone!
IP:196.2.33.11

posted0415200109:14PM

rows1
MasterDonJuan

EXTREMELYwonderfulpieceofwriting!!!!
IP:24.30.29.99

posted0416200104:26AM

mikedarookie

DonJuan

pookyourpostsareradman.questionthough
arealmandosent"need"womenorevenget
caughtupinthewebofexcessivelythinking
aboutthem.nowhowdougetoverthat?
IP:207.54.167.154

posted0416200110:22PM

bong
DonJuan

Pook...youaremyF******idol.Greatpostkeep'em
comming!!!!!!
IP:63.82.237.231

posted0417200102:45AM

dYNAMICs
DonJuan

EXCELLENTDUDE.
OneoftheBESTthreadI'veeverread..
IP:137.132.3.7

posted0417200106:58PM

Survivor
MasterDonJuan

quote:

OriginallypostedbyPook:
Forifyoudon'tSTANDforsomething,youshall
FALLforeverything!
Howappropiatethatattheendofyourarticle,youquotedDr.
MartinLutherKingJr.,oneofthegreatestMENofthelast
century.
Congratulations,MasterDJPook,onanotherlegendarypost.
IP:24.4.254.211

posted0418200111:01PM

syncmaster
Moderator

Itdoesn'tsurprisemethatPookwouldwritesomethingofthis
calliber.Everysinglethinghehaswrittenhasbeendeadon
andalotofhisthingsshouldbeputintothehalloffame.
CongratstoyouagainPook.
ExcellentWork

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Adam...whosomedayaspirestobearealman.
IP:24.156.235.179

posted0419200102:51AM

ChrisFl
MasterDonJuan

Isthereatipintheresomewhere?
IP:24.164.41.10

posted0507200106:41AM

CHALENGEGUY
MasterDonJuan

ThisshouldbechapterIoftheDJBible.

Speaksoftlyandcarryabigstickyouwillgofar.
Roosevelt
IP:24.200.138.90

posted0512200103:49AM

IntermediateDonJuaner
MasterDonJuan

Pook,you'reTheMantous.!
You'reasifourwarrior.
Congratulationsforsuchagoodpost
IP:161.142.100.85

posted0524200103:18AM

bashful
MasterDonJuan

Ilikethispostdontgetmewrong:
butheresaconsept:Howboutjustbeingyourself(thecrowd
hushes)
nownowpeople,itsjustaruleofthumb,beyourself,youwont
benervous.(thecrowdcoverstheirmouthsinastoundment)is
thataword?ohwell...thereasonwhyisayingthisiscauseyou
cantchangethewayyouare.Ifyournotallcockylikethese
guysinherearetryintogetyoutobelikethendontbecocky.
Itsfunnytomehowwhenigototheweightroomhowmany
guysareliftingnotjustforphysicalhealthbutbecausethey
wanttoimpressgirls.causeitwillsomehowgivethem
confidencetoapproachgirlscausetheyllfeelmorelike"THE
MAN".
ilaughatthem,meirunandliftonlyforphysicalhealth.not
soahotchickwilllikemeori'llfeelmorelike"aman"when
standingnexttotheohsofemininegirl.wannaknowwhy
guys???(everyonehasaconfusedlookontheirfacelol)
becauseihaveadckinmypants......(WOW!!!)..........yep,
prettykoolhuh?(thecrowdisnowcomingaroundtoseeing
whatimsaying)........yepihaveadck,andguesswhat?
shhhhhdonttellanyonebutihaveballstoo.(huuuuuhh??NO

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WAY!!!).....yepman....way.sooooooway.lolol
imnot"aman"causethewayiwalk,orhowilook.but
becauseiwasnaturallybornamale.becauseitake
responsiblityformyactions.
NowlookatthisguyPookheclaims"man"isallthismumbo
jumbocrapwhenallhe'sreallyexplaning(withtheexception
ofthetestoteronecomments)ishowtobeanoptomist.
soiguesshe'ssayingchicksarepesimist.tisktiskpook.so
theyneedanoptomisttomakethemfeelsecure.again,i
chuckleatyou.
amanisthis,amanisthat.AGAIN,ichuckleatyou.
"YOuarentamanif....."
AGAIN!!!!!ichuckleatyou.
sowhatyoursayingis,imnotaman,causeimintroverted
aroundgirls?becauseibecomeshy??huhPook????orbetter
yetHuhhhanyone.
imnot"aman"becauseigetdiscouraged?Itscalledbeing
human!!!EVERYONEGETSDISCOURAGEDATSOMETHING
EVERYNOWANDAGAIN.
imnotamancauseigetnervousaroundgirls?
shhhhhhheeettttthatslogical,theresalotonthelinewhenyou
wanttalktoagirlnomatterwhatyousaycauseonceyoustop
talkingtoherandleave.Youllsay,damnishouldasaidthis,i
shouldasaidthat.
FEMALESWANTDIFFERENTTHINGS:...drumbroll
please.........atdifferentstagesinlife.
rightnow,wereyoung,theylikethebadboytype.sorryguys
butusgentlemenareonthebackburnerfornowcausethey
figurewereboring.
BUT!inactualitytheirconfusingboringwith,stable,grounded,
ambitious,RESPONSIBLE!!!,intelligentblahblahblah.
usgentlemen(not"aman")areconsideredboringifwedont
popadrugordrinkalcoholtowealmostpukethengodriving.
wereconsideredboringifwecalltoseeiftheirokay.(what
thefccisupwiththat?youmayask)yourthinkin,sheismy
girlright?imsupposedtocareforher?...NOPE!!....treather
likeapeiceofcowdung,she'llloveyoulongtime.
reallyithinkiftheytestedit:justtakeayoungfemaleabout
ohletssay1524andtakeaguythatsa"badboy"letthem
spendonemonthtogether.howmuchyouwannabettheworse
hetreatsher,themorefrequentlyhe'llgethead???document
thatpleasemr.scientist"hmmmmyesveryinteresting,
interestingindeedhmmmmm"
ohyeaandyouralsoconsidered"boring"ifyoudontdrink
PERIOD.theysayyournot"wild"enough.Hmmmsodoesthat
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meanimnotwildeventhoughidontdrinkyetihadsexwitha
girlbehindthestairsinschoolonce(truestoryfolks!)ohwell,
ifimnotdoingshotsimnotkoolandfun.
ifidonthaveacarwithaloudsystemimboring.Ifimnot
hittinonothergirls,imboring.butifido"imachallenge"
whateverthefccthatmeans!!!!!
*********************************************
Bottomline:
Beyourselvesguys.Girlsaredumb!!!!!!idiotsifyouwill.they
dontknowwhattheylike.everynowandthen(veryrarely)
youllfindthathotlevelheadedgirlthattakesnoshtandlikes
tobetreatedlikeshessupposedto.Idontknowaboutyouall,
butthatsthekindilike.
fornowthough,justapproachgirlslikeyourself.Like"hey
pretty/stupidgirl.letstalk"youknowaswellasido,she's
dumbasfccshe'sdyingforsomeonetotreatherlikeawicked
stepchild.causemostlikelyshecomesfromabrokenhome
andshehatesherdadandshes"bestfriends"withhermom.
whenyoutalktoheraboutwhatever(iknowitsnoteasyto
thinkofthingstosay)justpickherapart.ifshehasalotof
friendsoopsexcuseme,associates,sheproblydoesntlike
herself.whichinturnmeans,shesgivinuptheassno
question.
ohyea,ifshesays"ohmeandmymomarelike
sisters/bestfriends"shesgivinuptheass.causehermomdidnt
raiseherright.
Nofatheraround!!!!?????Ohpleasesomeonestamp"fccme"
onherhead.causeshe'lldoanything,ifyoutalkherdownand
weallknowthatainttoohard.
ohyeaishouldbefinished:okay....badboy/"aman"fccallthat
beyourself....knowhowtopickgirlsapartbywhattheysay.
itseasytogetnumbers.
IP:63.26.238.148

posted0525200105:08AM

Lexomatic
MasterDonJuan

IseemtobefindingyourannoyinglittlepostseverywhereIgo
today,bashful.Andalas,onceagainyou'vemissedthepoint
completely.Stophidinginyourlittleintravertedshellandlook
atwhatisbeingsaidhere(andthereandthereand....)
Womenlikemenwhoexhibitacertainsenseofmasculinity,
menwhohaveselfworth,confidenceinwhattheydo,andthe
couragetodowhattheythinkisright,irrespectiveofthe
opinionsofothers.Butdon'tassumethatthismeansthatall
'men'arethesame.Thetraitsofbeingamansitoveryour
personality,andthatiswhatbeingyourselfmeans.
No,notallwomenarethesame,theyhavepersonalitytoo.
Butoverthatsitsabasicsetoftraitsthattheyhavethatisall
aboutbeingawoman.Andoddlyenough,theysitaroundand

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talkabouthowtoattracttheguythatwillfirethemup
physicallyandemotionally.Theyevenhaveownwebsites
wheretheytalkabouttheirproblemswithattractingmen.They
are'woman'andweare'man'.
So,bashful,ifyoulikewomenandwanttospendtimewith
themandwantthemtowanttospendtimewithyou,start
focusingonyourfearsratherthanattackingthem.Allthis
angerinyouwontchangetheworldtoyourwayofthinking.
YouarenotMohamedandthemountainaintcomingtoyou,my
friend.
I'moffnowtotalktosexywomeninhotpants,somethingI
couldntdo12monthsago.It'snotalwayseasy,butthereward
attheendiswellworthit!
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posted0527200102:40AM

hukachur_kakov
DonJuan

hehewellilikethewaypookwriteshisposts...heremindsme
oftheInspirationalSpeakercharacterplayedbyChrisFarley
onSaturdayNiteLiveLOL.Goodstuffman
onethingthatiwasthinkingboutwhilereadingtheresponses
andpook'spost...aMALEhasFrankandBeans,butithinka
Manismoreofastateofmind/attitudethatcomeswiththose
franksandbeans ...
whichdependingonhowyouinterpretthatcouldrelatetothe
beinganoptimist/pessimestthingthatdudeabovewastalking
about...
my.02
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posted0527200103:20AM

bashful
MasterDonJuan

Sohuk,oranyoneelse.itsoundstomelikeyoursayingthat
allwomenarepesimist.
AndaMANthinkspositive.
letsforgetallthistalkaboutbeingaman,andjusttrytobe
ourselves.quittryingtoliveuptoastandard.
IP:63.26.238.207

posted0527200107:39PM

Sgt.Ray
MasterDonJuan

Classic,Pook!
Wellwritten.Infact,Icopiedseverallinesintomynotebook.I
thinkthisbelongsinthearticlessection,whereeveryaspiring
androokieDJ(likeme)cango.

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posted0528200106:02PM

med176
DonJuan

HellofareplyBashful...takesabravepersontocritiqueatrue
donjuanlikepook!
Iprettymuchagreewithallthatyouhavesaid,butyoumust
understandthatbeingamanISverymuchastateofmind.You
seemtobereferingtothealltocommonproblemofthinking
tomuchaboutbeingman,ratherthanbecomingone.Iagree
withyoutotally....butIthinkabalancebetweenthetwowould
beaperfectcombination.Onemusthaveamentalimageof
whattobecomeandthenstrivetobecomejustthat.Thisisa
naturalstateofmindandtomuchthoughtalwaysfcksitup.
Don'tlettheseoversesitiveassholessaythatyourannoying
either.Theretheonesthathavetheproblem...justkeep
speakin'yourmind.
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posted0617200111:39PM

LesPaul
DonJuan

bashful...howwoulduknowallthisifyourshyaroundwomen.
Youcontradictedyourselfman.immeanyouobviouslyknow
thetypetobegetting*****,andthetypethatdoesn't(That'd
beyou),butyoustillsaytobeyourself..Ijustdon't****ing
getit.Look,checkitout:Youkindahalftostepoutside
yourselfman,andsee****forwhatitreallyis.Thatyouare
thrownintothis****edupplacecalledearthwitheveryone
else.It'syouagainsttheworldbaby!!andI'llsayanother
thing:Amandon'tgivea****aboutanytrendsorwhatthe
****ingmediasays.Arealmandoesn'tbuyintocheap
advertisementsandgimmicksandsureashelldoesn'tfollow
whatthe****everybodyelseisdoingAnd,inallhonesty,he
couldcareless.Arealmancannotbecatoragorizedsocially,
causeweaintevenonthatlevel..weaintgottimeforthat
****..shiiiit..
IP:64.12.105.159

posted0703200103:50PM

manikato
DonJuan

HastobethebestarticleIhavereadonthistopic.Welldone
pook.Thesoonerthemajorityofwannabemenreadthis
articleandbegintoworkonit,thesoonerwillalloursocieties
turnaroundfromdrugs,violence,crime,includingcrime
againstwomen.Societieswillbecomemorepeaceful,safeand
constructiveasthemenwithinitbegintoactualizewhatbeing
amanmeanstothem.
Menneedtohaveapassionforcreativityaloveoflifeandall
thethingsthatmakelifebetterforthemselvesandothers.
Realmenhavelearnttorecognizetheirirrationaland
unreasonableangerandtodealwithitappropriately.Thisdoes
notmeanthattheydonotgetangryandactinaneffective
mannerwhenthatisreasonable.
'Jerks'aresadistic,theyenjoyhurtingwomenandultimately
themselveswhethertheyrealizethisornot.'Goodguys'are

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masochistic,theyenjoybeinghurtbywomenandpassively
hurtingthemagainwhethertheyknowthisornot.Asyoucan
see,bothtypesofguysarereallyoneandthesamedepending
ontheirpredominantattitudeandbeliefsonwhatbeingaman
is.
Thecommondenominatorisanger,andinthiscontextanger
againstwomen.Thisisusuallyinresponsetoawoman's
rejectionorcriticism,overneedinessorovercontrol.The
averageguyblamesitallonthewomanforCAUSINGhis
anger.ButthisissheerBULLSH!!,becauseweallcanchoose
howwereacttoanybodyinanysituation.Itisalsoawoman's
perogativetoactinanywayshechooses.Ifsheactsbadly,a
realmanwillunderstandandactappropriatelynotangrily.
Pookiscorrectwhenhesaysarealmanmustfocusonhimself
andhispassionsfirst.Outofthiswillariseasenseofself
masteryandselfactualizationwhichwilljustradiateoutof
him.Allunreasonableangerwillhavegoneandhewillbea
chickmagnet.Ofcoursehemayalreadyhavehisoneand
only,butthatwillnotstopotherwomenfromadmiringhim.If
awomandoesnotrespondfavourablytohiscourteous
attentionsthenthatisherloss.
Realmenmakepeace(andlove)notwar.Theydonothurt
othersorthemselvesinanywayfortodothatistobefalseto
theidealsofaleader.
Yet,apartfromaveryfortunatevastminorityofmenwho
seemtohavethiswisdomfromtheirlateteenageyears,for
mostofusothers,wecannothopetoappreciatethiswisdom
untilour30'sand40'sifatall.Andthenonlyaftersuffering
throughmanyfu#%ups,hurtingourselvesandothers.Wejust
gothroughthesamebasiccycles,onlyafewdetailsare
different.
BashfulmademanygoodpointsWemustlearntoapplythis
wisdomtoourownspecificpersonality,preferencesand
situation.Anditissohardtoworkouttheformulawhenwe
areinthemiddleofalltheSH!!
Sotheansweris:1)identifyalltheareasofSH!!inourlives.
2)LeavetheSH!!behindandhaveabreakfromit,whateverit
is,and3)applytheprinciplesespousedbyPooktoyourown
situationand4)workbloodyhardonyourselvestoachieve
changeand5)don'tevergonearthatSH!!againwithyour
previousattitude.
Cos'Manikatoknows!
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posted0703200104:35PM

Neophyte
MasterDonJuan

Manikato,yepPookisrightallalong.
Ididn'tsawyouoftenhere?New?ifso,welcome!Wedefinitly
neednewspiritonthisforum.

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Cya,
Neo
IP:212.239.169.13

posted0703200105:01PM

CHALENGEGUY
MasterDonJuan

Whoa...theabyssalgapbetweenthatpostandwhati'mused
toreadlately(ie:"yesterdayshesaid"couldyougivemethe
salt".Whatdoesitmean?,whatdoIdo?,pleasehelpme...")
EversinceBashfulpostedhisfirstthreadthisforum....It'sall
downhillfromthere.
Iguessthegoldenageisgone,forgood.

Speaksoftlyandcarryabigstickyouwillgofar.
Roosevelt
"DidIhearthephrase"shealreadyhasabf"?CauseifIdid,
don'tmindpostingathreadinthisforum.MOVEON!RUN!RUN
FORYOULIFE!RUNLIKEYOUNEVERRANBEFORE!
AAAAHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!"
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posted0703200111:48PM

Fanny
DonJuan

Ifeellikesaluting,clapping,shouting,throwingconfetti!!!
malestalkingaboutbeingmen!Whatcouldbebetter?Yes,that
iswhatwewomanwant.AndoneotherthingIaddtoyourlist,
nobility.Afewofyourpointstouchedit,butIthoughtitneeded
alittlemoreattention.Standingupforwhatyoubelive(and
belivingsomethingworthwile)andbeingthekindofperson
whobelivesthatanythingworthdoing,isworthdoingwell.I
wishallmen,andwomen,wouldstriveforsuchpersonality
traits.
FromaWoman
IP:64.111.112.211

Survivor
MasterDonJuan

posted0704200104:18PM

quote:

OriginallypostedbyFanny:
Ifeellikesaluting,clapping,shouting,throwing
confetti!!!malestalkingaboutbeingmen!What
couldbebetter?Yes,thatiswhatwewoman
want.AndoneotherthingIaddtoyourlist,
nobility.Afewofyourpointstouchedit,butI
thoughtitneededalittlemoreattention.
Standingupforwhatyoubelive(andbeliving
somethingworthwile)andbeingthekindof
personwhobelivesthatanythingworthdoing,
isworthdoingwell.Iwishallmen,andwomen,
wouldstriveforsuchpersonalitytraits.
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FromaWoman
GoodtoseethatyoulikePook'spost,Fanny.
Welcometooursite.Itsrarethatwehavefemalesguests.So,
pleasepostagain.Femaleperpectivesareveryrarearound
hereandrightnowmorethanever,wedesperatelyneedthem.
Pleasestayandcontinuetopostyourquestionsandopinions.
ThisisaplacewhereyouWILLbeappreciated.
Sincerely,
Survivor
IP:24.4.254.211

posted0706200111:48PM

AlphaMan
DonJuan

Thisarticlewasreallyenlightening.Iamcurrentlysweet
talkingmyouldgirlfriend'sbestfriendandthankstosomeof
thehelpthesearticleshavegivenIthinkI'msucceeding.From
allI'vereadbasicallytowinoverawomenyouhavetobe
goodatanalyzingthings.Likethisarticlesaidyoucantbea
jerkoraniceguy.Ithinkyouhavetobebothandknowwhen
tobewhich.Followyourwomen'smoodsandfindoutwhatshe
likes.Thenseehowsshesfeelingandfigureoutwhethertobe
quietorbeatalker.Beniceorplayhardtoget.ButNO
MATTERWHATALWAYSALWAYSBECONFIDENT.Nomatter
whatthesituationisconfidenceisnecessary.Youjustneedto
knowhowtoshowit.Standandsitwithgoodposture.
Sometimesbequietbutstandwithacoolcalmconfidence.
Othertimesjokeandtellstorys.Andneverbeoverconfident.
I'veseenthatallwomenwontloveamanwhofeelsmorefor
himselfthantheythinkhecouldfeelforthem.Sobasicallybe
yourselfwithconfidenceandselfrestraint.Thosearethe2
biggestthingsinwinningawomenandbecomingaman.That
andkeepreadingtheDonJuannewsletters.Thanksto
everyonewhoswrotethesehelpfularticles.
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