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MALAY
CHINESE
INDIAN
BIRTH
MALAY
CHINESE
INDIAN
PRE NATAL
Malay
Lenggang Perut
Chinese Indian
rituals of avoidance
and rituals of
protection
Godh bharai
-Eating tofu and lettuce can help make a male child .Finding out the sex of the baby prior to
birth is considered bad luck.
Its believed that if a pregnant woman eats food thats not properly cut or mashed, her child
will have a careless disposition. Or if she eats light colored foods, the baby will be fairskinned.
Many believe it is unlucky to throw a baby shower for an unborn baby.
Chinese women will often drink a strong herbal potion to ease the strain of labor. Custom
dictates that women not fear the laboring process, since birth is considered a womens career
to the ancient Chinese.
BIRTH
MALAY
Cukur Jambul
CHINESE
The Chinese Zodiac
The Babys Name
INDIAN
Jatakarma (child birth)
Namakarana (naming a
child)
Annaprasana (giving the
child solid food)
Mundan (shaving the
head)
Upanayana (sacred
thread ceremony)
In a traditional cukur jambul, the baby's hair is tonsured and then ultimately buried in
the ground. The closest family members are always invited to witness the event.
Usually, prayers are recited or sung (also known as marhaban or berzanji).
Everything in-between depends largely on family tradition and regional customs.
INDIAN : JATAKARMA
The jatakarma ceremony welcomes the baby into the world. The father places a small
amount of ghee and honey on the baby's tongue and whispers the name of God in
his ear. During this Sanskar, the father feeds honey to the baby and pierces the
baby's ear. This ear piercing is supposed to enhance the memory of the child
.Brahmins chant Mantras for a healthy, long life of the child. This Sanskar is restricted
to the family level.
INDIAN : NAMAKARANA
In Namakarana ceremony the child is given a name.Nama literally means 'name' and
karana means 'to make, to effect'. All the activities in the world are carried on the
basis of name. Every parent has the duty to give a nice name to the child, which
reminds the child of some goal or objective in the life. It is very important to select a
nice name for the child; the name should be meaningful which fulfills all the desires of
the child. Whenever the child hears the name he will remember the meaning and
purpose hidden in it and will be inspired by its meaning.Distribution of sweets to
everybody. Afterwards a feast is usually arranged.
INDIAN : MUNDAN
Mundan Vidhi is performed to carry out the first hair cut of the baby. If it is carried
out as per the Vedic Method it removes any deficiencies developed in the child
before birth.It is also said that the shaving of the hair stimulates proper growth of the
brain and nerves. During this vidhi all the hair of the baby are removed and the
baby's head is cleanly shaven.Hair collected during the hair cut are kept inbetween
two puris ( fried indian bread ) and then offered to holy waters like Ganges, Yamuna
or any other holy water bed.
MARRIAGE
MALAY
CHINESE
INDIAN
PRE WEDDING
Malay
The investigation
(merisik)
The engagement
(meminang)
The hantaran or the
sending of gifts and
part of the amount of
money (wang belanja)
for expenses
Chinese
Request for marrying
the bride
Request for Bride and
Grooms Birth Dates
Formal Gifts for the
Bride's Family
Select the Wedding
date
Set up the Bridal Bed
Indian
Engagement
Mehdi
For this ceremony one or more representatives (wakil) of the young mans family will
pay a friendly visit to the family of the young woman whom they have in mind as his
potential bride.
A hint will be given to her parents regarding the purpose of the visit, and their
reaction will be assessed.
Following the visit both sides can begin to think more seriously about the possibility or
otherwise of the union. It is possible that no progress may take place, and the young
mans parents or representatives will then look for another possible candidate.
(b) The amount of money to be paid by the young man for expenses ( wang belanja).
(c) Details regarding the gift (hantaran) items.
(d) The date and time for the actual wedding ceremony and feast.
Details regarding the penalty should one of the parties break the agreement for the
marriage.
MALAY : DOWRY
Matchmaker
Negotiation
between the
two families
As to the dowry of the Jia Zhuang, the brides family is expected to bring these
items to the grooms home:
Mirror
Comb
Ang Pows for any unmarried siblings and the grooms parents
Grooms pants
Face basin
Ruler
Spittoon
The engagement
ceremony is basically a
brief ritual wherein the
couple exchanges gold
rings
This is followed by
exchange of gifts
between the families like
sweets, dry fruits etc. this
is followed by either a
lunch or dinner party.
A havan is also
performed at times.
INDIAN : MEHDI
According to the ritual, the bride does not step out of the house after this ceremony.
Mehndi ceremony is essentially organized by the family of the bride and is usually a
private affair which takes place in the presence of friends, relatives and family
members.
During the ceremony, turmeric paste is applied on bride's face, feet and hands. After
this, the Mehndi application begins. For applying Mehndi to the bride, a skilled
Mehndi expert is called. He applies Mehndi on bride's hands, arms, feet and legs.
Traditionally, the Mehndi applied to the bride was obtained by drying the leaves of
the Henna plant.
According to popular belief, the darker the color of the Mehndi, the more her
husband will love her. As a tradition, the bride is not allowed to work in her marital
house till the time her Mehndi does not fade away. This ceremony is primarily a
women function, which takes place amidst musical beats of Dholak, with women
singing traditional songs for a prosperous marital life of the bride.
Arabic Mehndi
Tattoo Mehndi
Crystal Mehndi
Rajasthani Mehndi
INDIAN
Akad
nikah
Majlis
Berinai
Bersanding
CHINESE
MALAY
WEDDING
Var Mala
Mandap
Reception
MALAY : BERSANDING
The hari langsung, literally the day of completion , which also involves the bersanding or
ceremonial seating on the dias, is considered the high point of a Malay wedding.
The bridegroom is not allowed to enter the brides house before the bride sends him a
prepared betel leaf known as sirih latlat or sirih genggam. This is a sign that the bride now
awaits the arrival of the bridegroom. The bridegroom walks slowly towards the house of the
bride, his party is led by womenfolk. This is the ceremony of berarak, or walking in procession.
Behind them come the group of musicians beating various types of drums, especially the handheld kompang, as well as bearers of decorative flowers (bunga manggar).
In Johor, the bridegroom need to give some money knows as tol to the grooms relatives
before he can sit on the dias.
The arriving party take their seats in a special area of the house for the martial arts ( pencak
silat) performance which is held as a sign of welcome and paying respects to the bridegroom
as the king for the day. Then both the bride and the bridegroom are invited for the
bersanding ceremony
a piece of raw pork leg which is mum's reward for bringing up the bride,
at least four or more, even number of tangerines or oranges for good fortune,
some dried magnolia petals called pak hup to wish for hundred years of closeness
and happiness in the marriage.
Menu :
roast sucking pig (virginity)
fish (plentiful)
alcohol (celebration)
7-up (seven happiness)
Reception parties are laid with sumptuous food to treat the guests a little
more. It is accompanied by good music and ambience to add to the zing.