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PAPER
ENGLISH DEBATE

THAT WE SHOULD MAKE DIVORCE EASIER

Lecturer :

Samsul Arifin, S.Pd.

Created by :

Tiara Nur Hidayana

(3D / 12321127)

Mega Ayu Prameswati (3D / 12321114)

Innaka Annisa Putri

(3D / 12321119)

PENDIDIKAN BAHASA INGGRIS

FAKULTAS PENDIDIKAN BAHASA DAN SENI
IKIP PGRI MADIUN
TAHUN AKADEMIK 2013 / 2014

THAT WE SHOULD MAKE DIVORCE EASIER

Well, Good Morning everyone.
We know that the motion today that we should make divorce easier. We as the affirmative team agree
with this motion. What case here? Ladies and gentlemen, today, marriage is the unification of two persons in
a formal ties through civil records and is also enshrined in the presence of God in accordance with the
approved religion both parties. There is a problem in marriage is a common reason for divorce filed by the
husband and wife. The reason often put forward when both spouses or one of them felt the inaccuracies in the
intractable marriage so as to encourage them to consider divorce.
Now, before we start our major points of analysis, I will give you clarity to the running of the debate
by providing a view of definition. Divorce is a divorce between a husband and wife living as a result of their
failure to carry out the role of each bond. In this case the divorce seen as the end of a marriage instability
where spouses live apart and then officially recognized by applicable law. Divorce is the dissolution of the
family because one or both partners decide to leave each other so that they cease to perform his duty as a
husband and wife.
In Indonesia, the government should make divorce easier, and we limit our motion today that this
should make divorce easier.
Today, Im Tiara as 1st speaker, I will be talking about all major points and evidence.
Mega, as 2nd speaker, will be talking about rebuttal, recap 1st speaker, and arguments.
Innaka, as 3rd speaker, will rebut and sum up our team case.
So, Im as 1st speaker of positive side the house absolutely agree with the motion today that we should
make divorce easier. Why?

ARGUMENT

I would like to argue first point is positive impact on a person's life, as well as the general public :
1) Loss of opportunity for husband and wife to do good deeds in the face of a variety of patient problems
households will bring goodness in the world and the hereafter.
2) Destruction of households that have been built next to her husband and family members split. Like a
woman who outlines thread that has been spun into a strong scattered back.
3) Various feelings of anxiety and fear that arises when the husband overrides interested in getting married
again. In fact, it is possible he will find it difficult to raise capital to get married. Not infrequently,
parents are concerned for their daughter to marry her after his divorce with first wife. Until finally he
remain single forever.
4) The return of the women who had been divorced home to their parents or guardians, and even to other
people's houses. This will certainly be a mental burden for them and the trustees. Therefore, settling at
home parents or guardians after her husband divorced, not the same as when it was a girl before
marriage. It is understood one thing very rnyang women.
5) Very few chances for men to marry women who have been widowed after her husband divorced. Not
impossible, after the divorce, she remains a widow, not married. Of course this brings a wide range of
damage and distress for the woman of his life.

6) If you find that a divorced woman has children, then the problem becomes increasingly worse.
Therefore, it is not uncommon that children living together in the house of the guardian of women will
experience a wide range of problems in interacting with the children of the woman's relatives or legal
guardian.
7) Not infrequently the father took the child from her mother by force, until the mother never again be able
to see it, especially if the father of the children is a hard-tempered, must part with her son would be very
painful.
8) Increasing distance from the father of her children. It could be due to the children lived with their mother
or due to his work with a new wife not normally pay attention to their children while living with a
stepmother. Finally the father reap huge sin for wasting her.
9) Unattended caused children away from their fathers and mothers to educate their difficulties alone. This
would plunge them hanging out with friends who are a bad temper. Moreover, at times full of slander
and deceit, it is not uncommon displaced children is falling into the valley adultery, nor taking drugs, so
that eventually they become social pariahs. Surely this is not desired by any parent who still have the
common sense and honor, because it would tarnish their disgrace.
10) The number of divorce cases in the community will deter many young men and women to get married,
because of their fear of failure and a tempest in a household, which eventually gave birth to a traumatic
attitude. Of course this will bring great danger to society when they (the youths) were forced to channel
the biological necessity to things forbidden, such as free sex, gay, lesbian and other sexual deviations.
Our 2 point is Psychological development of children of divorce :
a) Meaning of Families for Children
For children a family is very important . The family as a place of refuge , gain affection . The role of
the family is very important to a child's development in the coming times , both psychologically and
physically . Families without children will feel alone , there is no place to take shelter .
b) Due to Divorce Child Psychological Conditions
Period when divorce occurs is a critical period for children , especially the relationship with parents
who do not live together . Feelings stirred within inner children . At this time the child also should
begin to adapt to the new changes in his life . The things that are usually perceived by the child when
the parents are divorced :

Feeling Insecure ( insecurity).

Do not desired or rejected by the parent who left.

Angry Sad and lonely .

Lost , feeling alone , self-blame themselves as the cause of divorced parents.

These feelings can lead to the child , having grown into a fear of failure and fear of close relationships
with others . Some indicators that a child has to adapt is : Be aware and understand that her parents are no
longer together and no longer fantasize unity of both parents , to accept the loss , not angry at the parents and
do not blame yourself , be himself .

EVIDENCE
It is undeniable fact that an estimated 80 % say the problems are about the largest family law divorce

law, and in fact the courts for every day of receiving a stack of divorce lawsuit. Whereas Eastern culture we
should be men - sacred - right meaning of a marriage , but the facts say otherwise. Every year chart divorce
cases continues to rise and of course more and more victims from the consequences of divorce itself, who are
victims of divorce? Is not no children of their own. However , divorce is present in the midst of life uninvited
and unwanted . Divorce is a process in which the couple had previously trying to defend it, but perhaps the
best way is a "divorce". Sometimes divorce should happen to avoid domestic violence (domestic violence),
for the protection of children who are toddlers, for the future of their children, or even to have a child. When
the divorce should take place by these reasons, it is not a wise and prudent decision.
In London, the high prevalence of divorce has prompted the department store Debenhams , to launch
"divorce registry" for friends to buy gifts for the newly separated couple - similar to a bridal registry service
for new and expecting parents. Elsewhere in the UK, in the exhibition offer divorce counseling and
mediation services for separating couples, ceremony organizers have begun adding non - religious encourage
a peaceful separation.

LINK BACK
Therefore, why we as affirmative team absolutely agree with the motion that we should censor the

internet.
Today, marriage is the unification of two persons in a formal ties through civil records and is also
enshrined in the presence of God in accordance with the approved religion both parties. There is a problem in
marriage is a common reason for divorce filed by the husband and wife. The reason often put forward when
both spouses or one of them felt the inaccuracies in the intractable marriage so as to encourage them to
consider divorce.
like our 1st speaker spoke to you about argument:
1) Loss of opportunity for husband and wife to do good deeds in the face of a variety of patient problems
households will bring goodness in the world and the hereafter.
2) Destruction of households that have been built next to her husband and family members split. Like a
woman who outlines thread that has been spun into a strong scattered back.
She also spoke about :
It is undeniable fact that an estimated 80 % say the problems are about the largest family law
divorce law, and in fact the courts for every day of receiving a stack of divorce lawsuit. Whereas
Eastern culture we should be men - sacred - right meaning of a marriage , but the facts say otherwise.
Then, our 2nd speaker told you that,
1) Various feelings of anxiety and fear that arises when the husband overrides interested in getting
married again. In fact, it is possible he will find it difficult to raise capital to get married.
2) The return of the women who had been divorced home to their parents or guardians, and even to other
people's houses.
3) Very few chances for men to marry women who have been widowed after her husband divorced.

4) If you find that a divorced woman has children, then the problem becomes increasingly worse.
5) Not infrequently the father took the child from her mother by force, until the mother never again be
able to see it, especially if the father of the children is a hard-tempered, must part with her son would
be very painful.
6) Increasing distance from the father of her children.
7) Unattended caused children away from their fathers and mothers to educate their difficulties alone.
8) The number of divorce cases in the community will deter many young men and women to get
married, because of their fear of failure and a tempest in a household, which eventually gave birth to a
traumatic attitude.
She also said that:
However , divorce is present in the midst of life uninvited and unwanted . Divorce is a process in which
the couple had previously trying to defend it, but perhaps the best way is a "divorce". Sometimes divorce
should happen to avoid domestic violence (domestic violence), for the protection of children who are
toddlers, for the future of their children, or even to have a child. When the divorce should take place by these
reasons, it is not a wise and prudent decision. In London, the high prevalence of divorce has prompted the
department store Debenhams , to launch "divorce registry" for friends to buy gifts for the newly separated
couple - similar to a bridal registry service for new and expecting parents. Elsewhere in the UK, in the
exhibition offer divorce counseling and mediation services for separating couples, ceremony organizers have
begun adding non - religious encourage a peaceful separation.
So, Ladies and Gentlemen, in conclusion our team, we look that by the fact the previous description,
it can be said that we should make divorce easier. Divorce is a divorce between a husband and wife living as
a result of their failure to carry out the role of each bond. In this case the divorce seen as the end of a
marriage instability where spouses live apart and then officially recognized by applicable law. Divorce is the
dissolution of the family because one or both partners decide to leave each other so that they cease to perform
his duty as a husband and wife.