NOVEMBER 2015

I started attending the Tapestry Conference my senior year

of high school and I wanted to let you know that the session
on healing worked in my heart in huge ways. Tapestrys
ministry has brought healing to my parents home and will
always hold a huge place in my heart.
Conference Attendee

WHY ARE WE HERE?

IBC is a community that exists

because we believe Jesus Christ
transforms lives. We want to be fully
alive as followers of Jesus, and we
hope youll join us on this journey.

HOW DO WE DO THIS?
GROWING IN CHRIST At the
heart of our journey is the gospel of
Jesus. We trust Christ as our Savior
and find ourselves becoming more
like him as we deepen our relationship with him.
CONNECTING IN COMMUNITY

The way of following Jesus is not a

path we walk alone. The gospel story
draws us into a community of people
whose lives are being transformed
by Jesus.

JOINING THE MISSION Followers

of Jesus arent just saved, theyre also

sent. Believers become witnesses to
the grace of God as they take part in
his mission to rescue and redeem the
lost and broken.
For more about growing in Christ,
connecting in community, and joining the mission at IBC, please contact
info@irvingbible.org.
CONTACT IBC
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TAPESTRY CONFERENCE

In October, IBC hosted the

Tapestry Adoption and Foster
Care Conference with special
guest speaker Dr. Karyn
Purvis. The Back to Basicsthemed weekend welcomed
families, ministry workers,
and adoption professionals
seeking training and encouragement for the adoption/
foster care journey.

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THERES THIS THING AMONG CHRISTIANS WHERE WE WANT COMPLETE STORIES FROM
ONE ANOTHER. We want a beginning, a middle, and an end. Theres very little willingness to live in sus-

pension. Maybe this is because it doesnt line up with the Clifs-Notes way in which we usually talk about
God and the Bible. We have the whole story on speed-dial God makes the world, the world goes wrong,
the world is made right. Point A resolves to Point B. And then theres the personal, individual Gospel we
were broken, Jesus came to save us, and we are made right to live abundantly in him. Our faith is a narrative faith, a trajectory we revisit from beginning to end almost every time were together. Theres always a
beginning, a middle, and a conclusion.

So what happens when our personal stories get

stuck somewhere between point A and B, or
between B and C? Its awkward, but why? We love
suspended things. We love a musical chord thats
dissonant, hanging in the air, floating on a millisecond before its resolution washes over us. We adore
that moment of free-fall between acrobats, the
hitch of breathlessness when all could go wrong or
all could go right and its brilliantly unclear for only
a second until the expected yet thrilling catch
is made. We love the suspension in a speakers
voice when he pauses. Ever so subtly. To put emphasis on that one. Single. Word.
Suspension is brilliant.
Except when its the norm and not the nano-second.
Then it becomes grating and frightening, and it
makes for some awkward Christian conversations.
Its awkward to shrug your shoulders when your
friend cant seem to believe in Gods goodness anymore. Awkward when another friend bemoans the
endless dysfunction in her family. Awkward, even,
when I look in the mirror and see a very different
person than the one I thought Id encounter at this
stage of life.
When will my story line up nicely with the Bible
story, the Gospel-story? When will I be able to
stand up in front of a church gathering and share
my life in Point-A-to-B terms? And quickly I go
from asking when? to will I ever?

C HAT TE R FA C T I CON K EY
CULTURE

LANGUAGE

FOOD

LIFE

GENERAL

SCIENCE

GEOGRAPHY

TEXAS

HISTORY

TOMFOOLERY

In 2 Corinthians, the apostle Paul alludes to his

ever-fascinating thorn in the flesh, a messenger of Satan sent to torment him. He asked God
multiple times to remove it but to no avail. He
concludes its purpose is to keep him from being
conceited about the powerful revelations and
position he had received from God. I wonder how
that resolved itself in Pauls life. I wonder if he was
forever suspended over dark water or if he was
able to stand and proclaim victory over this thing
that interfered with a simpler trajectory.

Simon and Garfunkels

Bridge Over Troubled Water
has been covered by over 50
artists, including Elvis Presley.

The longest suspension bridge in the world is the

Akashi Kaiky Bridge, linking the city of Kobe on
the mainland of Honshu to Iwaya on Awaji Island,
in Japan. It crosses the busy Akashi Strait, a major
waterway that often experiences bad storms. In
1955, two ferries sank in the Strait, killing 168
people, a tragedy that prompted the Japanese government to begin plans for a massive, 2-mile long
suspension bridge. And like travelers on the bridge
today, I am also trying to learn to trust my own suspension. Not only to trust God Himself, but to trust
Suspension Itself. To see it as a way over troubled
waters, the dark nature of which only God knows.
Suspension might be inconvenient, long, confusing, painful and seemingly endless, but what about
the alternative? Piloting my little ship through
some other more sinister storm?
My story your story is a hard one to tell. We
had a beginning. That, at least, is certain. Were
somewhere in the middle, I think. Or maybe we
have to go and start a new beginning once or twice,
or every day, and the end of the story could be now
or nowhere in sight.
So are we willing to travel in suspension? To keep
moving forward over the unknown, on an equally
unknown trajectory? Can we hold dearly to the
sentiment expressed by Moses who led the Israelites on a windy road to the Promised Land?
Hear his confidence, placed unequivocally in God
instead of in predictability or a tidy plan:
In your unfailing love you will lead the people you
have redeemed. In your strength you will guide them
to your holy dwelling (Exodus 15:13).

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THE

MOUNTAIN-MOVER

heres a legend that says

when God commanded the
angels to spread out natural
resources throughout
the earth, they dropped the bulk of
that wealth into the heart of Africaspecifically, in the Democratic
Republic of Congo. The earth of D.R.
Congo births precious gems, vibrant
produce, and a plethora of other
items on which the worlds economy
thrives. But you wouldnt know it
by visiting.

While D.R. Congo boasts of being

the wealthiest country in the world
in natural resources, it also carries
with it the burden of more tragic
statistics. D.R. Congo is the poorest
country in the world, according to
GDP. The plentiful resources that
are harvested in D.R. Congo have
long benefited corrupt businessmen and politicians who profit at
the expense of the Congolese people.
While they have built extravagant
bank accounts, the people of D.R.
Congo are suffering from an endless
list of poverty-stricken conditions
starvation, poor medical care, and
lack of educational resources.

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But theres an even darker statistic: Goma, D.R. Congo, is rated the
rape capital of the world. Among
the tribal religions is a belief that
when a woman is raped, it gives the
perpetrator supernatural strength as
a warrior in battle. Rebels have terrorized the country for years, making
it too dangerous for anyone to be
out after dark. The rebels stalk the
woods around cities and villages. But
women and children need to fetch
wood regularly to build fires in order
to cook, daily making the choice
between starving and potentially
being assaulted.
Trauma is not a tragedy that happens to an unfortunate few in D.R.
Congo. There is a harrowing story of
every life within its borders. No man,
woman, or child escapes the horrific
realities that permeate the country.
But D.R. Congo is not without hope.
D.R. Congo is full of amazing individuals intelligent, strong, humble,
and beautiful people. The harvest is
plentiful in D.R. Congo but the laborers are very few.
Congo was colonized by Belgium
in 1908. The country, not the wafe.

For one week this year, I had the

privilege of being a laborer myself.
Yet despite my background and passion, I was an unlikely candidate.
Since 2000, IBC has partnered with
ALARM (African Leadership and
Reconciliation Ministry). One of its
many vital and ongoing ministries is
the Trauma and Healing Conference,
an intensive week designed to radically help and heal victims of rape
and abuse. My background seemed
to fit perfectly: I had graduated from
DTSs Biblical Counseling program
in May 2014, and many of my practical experience hours were served
at a domestic violence outreach
center. Even my personal life seemed
to be preparation: during my first
year at DTS, I myself was in an abusive relationship.
Shortly after that relationship ended,
I started interning for Jodie Niznik,
IBCs Pastor to Women, in IBCs
Womens Ministry. Jodie invited
me to join a discipleship group she

was starting with several other

women leaders at IBC. It was in that
discipleship group that the Lord performed so much healing in my life
and heart. Those women were like
sisters, mothers, and grandmothers
to me. They loved on me through the
most painful parts of that breakup.
Near the end of the second year in
that group, two of the women (Barb
Haesecke and Lindsey Sobolik)
shared they were going on the D.R.
Congo trip. They talked about how
many of the women who attend have
experienced multiple types of abuse
and trauma a subject very close to
my heart. I was jealous of the opportunity to visit D.R. Congo, but I was
also in the throes of my last semester
at DTS. Not great timing for me to
leave the country. I knew I wanted
to go sometime, but that was not the
time. So when the announcements
came around this year, my heart was
stirred. But again it was bad timing.
My career wasnt taking off the way

I had hoped it would, and finances

were tight. Most concerning, however, were ongoing health issues
that would prevent me from getting
the necessary vaccines. Neither my
doctor nor my parents were thrilled
about the possibility of me leaving.
But God was persistent. He opened
the doors for me to get the medical
exemption I needed from my doctor.
He provided the funds through many
generous people some of whom
I have never met or even heard of.
And when he finally came down to
getting my visa approved, it was
seamless. Honestly, I had believed a
door would close somewhere along
the way and that God would teach
me some lesson about trusting him
even when things dont turn out the
way I hope. But to my great joy and
surprise, he opened every door.
The very first morning I walked into
the Trauma and Healing Conference
in Goma, Congo, there were already
many women seated and ready to
learn. I remember thinking, What
could I possibly teach them about
trauma that they havent already
experienced in graphic detail? Their
faces were hardened by years of carrying wounds. My stomach churned
as several girls as young as thirteen
funneled into the room to sit behind

The Trauma and Healing Conference serves girls as

young as 13. Penny (left) and Lauren (right).

Lauren with ALARM

D.R. Congo Director Marie Jeanne

my friend Penny and me. No, I

thought; they are too young.
For me, helping with the conference
was like getting to play Santa Clause,
but the joy on the faces of the women
far surpassed that of any child on
Christmas as each one received her
very first Bible. Raising them high
over their heads, the women sang
and shouted and cheered with praise.
Over the ensuing five days, the
hardened faces of the women melted
from skeptical to hopeful. As the
women sat and hungrily consumed
every lesson we shared, their resolve
to embark on a journey of healing
with God began to blossom. As a
counselor, I have sat in offices week
after week sharing the same infor-

mation with clients and have seen

only the slightest glimpse of progress. But God was doing something
miraculous among these particular
women. In what often takes weeks,
months, and years of therapeutic
work, the Lord was doing in the lives
of these women in five days right
before my eyes.
On one of the last days, I looked
out across a room full of beautiful
Congolese women and saw hope
and healing and freedom and joy. No,
not everything from their past was
resolved, healed, or forgotten, but
seeds had already taken root. And
I believe God intends for them to
become abundantly fruitful in their
families and villages.

The Lord moved mountains to get

me to Congo last April. But it was at
the end of the conference when the
Holy Spirit opened my eyes to see it
was not only for me that he moved
those mountains, but also because of
his matchless love for the women in
D.R. Congo. God loves them so dearly
that he moved many, many, many
hearts in the United States in order
to bring them truth, hope, healing,
and freedom. What a joy to witness.
Lauren Gilland once splashed
around in a trac circle fountain in
Paris while taxi drivers drove past,
yelling at her in foreign languages.
Lauren is a part-time Licensed Professional
Counselor-Intern at Innovation 360 and
freelance writer.

TUESDAY, DECEMBER 8, 6:30-9 P.M.

A winter night of wonder and warmth with a purpose. Rejoice invites you to
ring in the season of Christ-with-us while supporting African women in their
fight for recovery. Enjoy a myriad of desserts, breathtaking decorations, and a
worshipful Christmas service with artist Jenny Simmons.
A portion of ticket sales will benefit IBC partner ALARM and the Womens
Leadership Institute in D.R. Congo.
cost: $15

A Christmas Celebration for Women

register: Visit irvingbible.org/women or the kiosk

every Sunday in November.
kidzone: Register online by December 1.
questions: Email Amy at aaupperlee@irvingbible.org
Want to know more? See article, pg. 6.

There are over 200 ethnic

groups in the Democratic
Republic of Congo.

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Theres more to celebrate around IBC this Christmas season. Heres why.

A WINTER NIGHT OF WONDER AND WARMTH WITH A PURPOSE.

Rejoice takes the place of the Christmas Dinner this year as a way to reimagine how to better serve
the women of D.R. Congo while keeping all the joy, delight, and wonder of the traditional IBC event.
Chatter caught up with IBC staffer Amy Aupperlee (Women at IBC Events Director) and volunteer
coordinator Nichole Bentley to find out more about what it will look like and why its evolving.

CHATTER Thanks for chatting with us, Amy and Nichole! This is an

stations where they can make something tangible that will immediately
impact someone around the world.And to top it all off, let me leave you
with three of my favorite words: holiday coffee bar.

NICHOLE BENTLEY Beauty, conversation, entertainment and food are

at the heart of Rejoice! Some things will be familiar bustling conversation, an amazing concert, ALARM with its beautiful beadwork and
bags, abundant and pretty holiday decorations and plenty of delectable
food. And, there will be lots to explore, specifically the three distinct
areas Peace, Love and Joy that will extend out from the center of
Town Square. Each area will feature a number of decorated lounges,
decadent holiday desserts, a unique entertainment vignette and an
engaging activity. Its my hope that women will take the time to explore
Peace, Love and Joy to have the full Rejoice experience before we take
in the amazing music of Jenny Simmons.

CHAT Youve mentioned to us that Rejoice is intended to be more acces-

exciting development! Can you paint a picture of the new event? What
will it look like? Feel like?

AMY AUPPERLEE We prayed long and hard about what the new event

would be called, and Rejoice quickly moved to the top, because we are
rejoicing about the birth of Jesus Christ and celebrating how his birth
made a way for us. And while conversation and yummy desserts sound
like fun, we are also giving our women an opportunity to share their joy
with others around the world by inviting them to participate in activity

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sible to women at IBC. What do you mean by that?

AA We want all women to feel welcomed to this event, and we want

them all to come! We have lowered the ticket price and removed assigned tables so that everyone has a place at all times.This is a very
inclusive event, and we wanted to make sure that all women knew they
had a place here.

And for those women who have been coming with their group for years
or if ladies want to invite coworkers or friends who dont go to IBC we
want to encourage groups to meet up beforehand and go out to dinner!
Afterward, they can all come togetherto Rejoice for desserts and fabulous entertainment.
NB A lower ticket price makes it affordable for more women. And
making it the norm to purchase a single ticket removes the need to

Throughout its life, the average

couch will host 782 visitors.

coordinate a complete table of 8-10 or find replacements when life

happens. We want women to feel free to simply take in the season, have
margin and remove one more to do in a season that can become overrun with to dos.

creative-types to come and fellowship while they build centerpieces

for the tall, free-standing tables and large round tables that will be set
up during the event. And, of course, we still need women the day of the
event to help with finishing touches.

CHAT Tell us more about how the new format increases the benefit to

AA Just between us, Im really hoping someone creates an outdoor-feel-

ALARMs initiatives in D.R. Congo.

ing lounge with twinkle lights, evergreen and Christmas porch pillows!

AA In the past, the benefit to the women in D.R. Congo was an unknown

CHAT Tell us about the special entertainment for the evening

Jenny Simmons.

factor, because it all depended on how well IBC women liked the rae
prizes. (Before this year, only proceeds from the rae went directly to
D.R. Congo.) But this year, a portion of the ticket price will go straight to
the Womens Leadership Training Institute in D.R. Congo.
NB We all know from our grocery bills that prices have increased over
the past 10 years, and the same was true for the dinner event even
though we kept ticket prices the same. So, weve been able to reduce
tickets prices AND have more margin.
CHAT For those women who love this season of decorating and putting

together beautifully crafted tables, what are some new ways they can
be involved?

NB We know how important creativity is for many women as they

worship and celebrate this time of year, which is why I am so excited to
introduce the Rejoice Lounges! Think of them as a small room in your
home to decorate top to bottom. The lounges will be staged with IBC
furniture of the decorators choosing, and the rest is up to her creative
juices. These areas can be decorated by individuals, teams, small groups,
Bible study tables or by a group of friends. For those who want to contribute their creativity on a smaller scale, we will set aside two days for

Nichole and Amy

NB A long-standing part of the evening that we did not even consider

changing is capping it all off with entertainment. Jenny Simmons (of
Addison Road acclaim) will be delighting us with her beautiful voice. If
you attended Womens Bible Study on October 6, you enjoyed a little
sneak peek!
CHAT What is the most exciting thing to you about this new chapter in

the womens Christmas event?

AA Im plenty partial to my people, and I love my people, but as I get to

know more and more women here at our church, my life gets richer. And
better. And those women teach me more and more about Jesus. I love
that this year, I wont have to stay at just one table with my friends. I am
excited about the opportunity to connect with more people and build
relationships. I am excited that we will have places all over the Town
Square to connect with not only the women in our church, but women
around the world. I am excited that this is an event for all women the
women of IBC coming together to celebrate the birth of Christ, and in
turn, making a difference in the lives of women on the other side of the
world. Needless to say, I am excited that so many women are connecting in so many different ways. In Christ, we are all the same; we are all
united by him, and this event is an opportunity to celebrate that unity in
a very special way.

NB The most exciting thing for me are the many ways the women of
IBC will have to be the hands and feet of Jesus at the event. There will
be many opportunities to serve and care for others at Rejoice without
spending a dime. My personal favorite is the station where our women
will be able to write notes of encouragement to the Congolese women
who attend the Womens Leadership Training Institute. I cant think of
a better way to celebrate Jesus birth!
CHAT That sounds like magic. Thanks for sharing your hearts with us,
Amy and Nichole. Save Chatter a spot on the couch.

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Passing the Peace

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Peace begins
with a smile.
Mother Teresa

Everyone remembers his or her first kiss. For

some it was smooth and flawless, but for most of us

it was extremely awkward. My first encounter was
in the sixth grade with Monica Ramos. I just remember how nervous I was, not knowing what to do with
this newfound desire to be close to someone elses
face. I had seen it done on TV and I was grossed out
many times by walking into the kitchen and catching my parents engaged in a sloppy wet one, but I
never thought I would have to do it. Insecure and
uncomfortable doesnt even come close to explaining how I felt at that moment. I was like a fish out of
water. Do I open my mouth, or do I purse my lips?
Do I come 50% and let her come 50%? Or is it
60/40, and where is Hitch when you need him?
As it turns out, as far as I can remember, my
first kiss went fine. The Kiss is an interesting phenomenon. It has the obvious
romantic component to it but it can have
a platonic or spiritual significance as well.
For instance, if you grew up in the ancient
Mediterranean part of the world, youd be
quite comfortable greeting someone by
kissing them on one or both cheeks. And to
reject such a gesture could be quite offensive
because this is how people showed kindness
and respect to those in their midst.
The Kiss had such a strong cultural influence in
the Middle East that it eventually became a part
of Christian worship. Five times in the New Testament, the church is encouraged to Greet one
another with a Holy Kiss. This greeting stuck with
the church into the third century where it became
known as The Passing of the Peace. This part of
the liturgy usually happened right before the Lords
Table when the congregation turns to one another
and says, May the peace of Christ be with you,
which elicits the response: and also with you.
This element evolved over the ages, like many
pieces of liturgy. Where it was once commonplace
to Pass the Peace with a kiss, as a simple handshake
became the norm as Christianity moved West.

to the Table. Jesus gives us an example in Matthew

chapter 5: So when you are offering your gift at the
alterfirst be reconciled to your brother or sister and
then come offer your gift. And Timothy echoes this
charge when he encourages us to, confess our sins
to one another. When we turn to our neighbor and
offer peace, we are saying aloud that we have been
reconciled to God through the death of his son and
we are therefore also reconciled with one another.
At IBC, weve reconnected with this beautiful piece
of liturgy in our worship on Sundays. We recognize
that we live in a culture that is driven by media,
advertising and technology. As a result, we find
ourselves fighting a self-centered, consumerist
approach to worship. Passing the Peace helps us
remember that we are not alone, but rather a community of people on a journey together. Yes, sometimes it can feel as awkward as that first kiss, but its
important for us whenever we gather, to look at each
other and acknowledge that we are in the game with
other human beings.
South Africans have a word for this called Abuntu,
which is a person that has a proper self-assurance
knowing that he or she belongs in a greater whole.
So lets get comfortable with the awkwardness and
proclaim the Peace of Christ that has been freely
given to us all by our Creator and Lord. May we not
be consumers of spirituality but rather participants
in Gods story.
May the Peace of Christ be with you.
Jason Elwell will never kiss and tell.
Jason is IBCs worship pastor.

Traditions
The season of Advent is special at IBC.
Along with Passing the Peace, here
are some other elements integral to
Advent at IBC and the worship experience in general.
Advent Candles
Three purple and one rose-colored candle circling the white
Christ candle, reflecting the
themes of expectation, preparation, rejoicing, and anticipation.
Passing the Peace
A sacred moment of connection
at the beginning of the service,
affirming the gathered body
of Christ.
Prayers of the People
A time of corporate prayer
for those in need and those
celebrating Gods provision.
Change for Benevolence fund
All loose change given during IBC
services directly benefits IBCs
benevolence fund. This is a yearround tradition.
Darkness
Services during Advent are darker
than normal IBC worship experiences. This signifies the darkness
of our world as it awaits the light
of the coming Savior.
Singing
O Come, O Come Emmanuel
The gathered IBC family sings
this historic Advent hymn
regularly during the season to
express our longing for Christwith-us.

In ancient liturgy, the peace was more than just the

traditional greeting to which weve grown accustomed in the evangelical church. It was not merely
a break in the service for small talk, but rather a
point where each member of the congregation had
a similar and equal task to that of the minister. It is
a profound moment when we proclaim the peace
that has been made available to us through Christs
death and resurrection on the Cross. This gesture
of mutual acceptance is rooted in humility, knowing
that we all approach God on an equal plain.

Altar
A place of personal response at
the close of each message. Some
people choose to light candles
red, signifying new faith in
Christ, or amber, signifying
Gods presence and work in
the individuals life.

Its not a coincidence, then, that in some liturgies

the Peace falls right before communion. To Pass
the Peace serves as a reminder that there is inventory that needs to be done in our lives before we go

A real kiss quickens

your pulse to 100 beats
a minute.

Advent
at IBC:

Hitch star Will Smith

was raised Baptist.

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JOY

MERCY STREET INTERN SARAH STEINMANN GOT MORE THAN SHE BARGAINED FOR THIS SUMMER.

Margaret Hunt Hill Bridge

photo Patrick Feller

Last Christmas break, I sat across from a trusted

friend and confessed my concerns and dreams for
the upcoming summer. How could God use me, just as
I am? Where could I best invest my time with the gifts
Ive been given? She bravely looked me in the eyes and
declared, Sarah, I dont know Gods plan for you, but
if you take a step by faith and its not the right one, hell
close that door. Trust him, and walk forward.
A few days later, I applied for Mercy Streets summer internship program.
If theres one lesson Ive learned in college, its that oftentimes you have to take
the first step and walk bravely (or not-so-bravely) down the path ahead. This
summer, my path took me to the streets of West Dallas specifically, to Mercy
Street, a non-profit affiliated with IBC that hopes to be used by God to spark
Christ-honoring community restoration by engaging in mutually-transforming relationships with the future leaders of West Dallas.
Thats a mouthful, for sure. To understand how I connected with that mission,
lets backtrack a little: Ive attended IBC for the last nine years, since I was in fifth
grade, and have been hugely impacted by its incredible teaching and leadership.
A diehard Aggie, Im now in my second year as a management major in the business school, and Ive also been captivated by the great Good News of the Gospel.
This past summer, I joined Mercy Streets internship program from June
2-August 10 as a college intern, which simply means I was one of seven life
coaches for the 30 high school students from West Dallas whom Mercy Street
mentors as part of its high school internship program. These students are
intentionally discipled to grow in Christ while being taught valuable business
skills. It was with these students that I walked, hiked, stumbled, and ran.
And Mercy Street does just that: it walks with people. With Mercy Streets
internship program, all college interns live with Mercy Streets staff, and all
staff members live in West Dallas (or close by). Mercy Streets staff gets down
in the nitty gritty of life in West Dallas; they get personal, welcome people into
their homes, and tenaciously walk hand-in-hand not ahead of the people
they love. And let me tell you: the people they love are absolutely incredible
workmanships of God.
I saw that clearly, not only in West Dallas, but with the whole crew of Mercy
Street high school and college
interns as we embarked on
our bonding trip through the
mountains of Colorado for a
week of backpacking in July. For
a city girl, Colorado was one of
those experiences I was glad
I had, but never want to have
Sarah takes a rest
again. Living in the woods for
with Mercy Street
mentee Rodayisha.
seven days, sharing one roll

Dallas is the birthplace

of both the Slurpee and
the microchip.

Dove Creek, Colorado

is the Pinto Bean
capital of the world.

of toilet paper with everyone, and

waking up to a frozen white world
every morning was hard, but good.
Through the trip, and the hours of
hiking, I gained a key insight: its in
the walking, trodding, suffering, and
laughing with people that we can
plant the roots of deep relationships
and make life-transforming connections that cant be generated any
other way.

First, I was taken aback by the real,

inner beauty of my students, people
like Marqreshea, a freshman high
school student who loves her family
deeply and serves with the best heart
Ive known. And there were others,
like Shena, a rockstar basketball player who is driven, whose work ethic amazes
me, who carries herself with a quiet confidence I want to emulate. Then theres
Destiny, a friend full of joy who inspires others, as well as Rodayisha, Kalia,
Kasie, Demondre, Tyrin, John, Donavan the list goes on for thirty students.

I had expected to be confronted this summer with the brokenness of inner city
life that can run rampant and create undeniable hurt in concentrated areas.
And yes, I witnessed that pain-filled reality. But what I didnt expect to see so
clearly was my own sin and my new appreciation for Gods mercy. (Yes, the
name Mercy Street was for me, too!) Certainly, I met kids with quick-firing,
disrespectful tongues, but I was also broken in seeing how quickly my own
identity can rely on the fickle opinions of others and how swiftly frustration
can rise in my heart. I didnt plan on rediscovering my own need for redemption and that glorious, beautiful knowing that I am redeemed through Christ.
I didnt plan on seeing shalom, peace, grace everywhere. I didnt expect to
laugh so hard, to witness first-hand the pictures of renewal snapshots of
how God is working, moving, breathing, restoring.
If I were sitting across from a trusted friend right now, I would encourage her
to take that first step in being a Mercy Street mentor. Sure, it will take bravery
and tenacity, I would say. But if you take that step of faith and walk forward,
God will go with you. Who knows? He can use you to rebuild hope, to paint a
more-hopeful future for a West Dallas boy or girl. And in the process, you can
rediscover the joy of your own salvation.
Of that unexpected joy, Im walking proof.
Sarah Steinmann admits she suffers from GPS dependency; without it, shes
lost! You can always count on her for a ride, but to get there on time, you should
always count on Siri.
Sarah is a sophomore business management major at Texas A&M.

Mercy Street ministers to the community of West Dallas primarily

through mentoring students 4th grade through high school. It also connects
with the community through Bible study, sports teams, leadership building
and much more. If you would like to be involved in this ministry or would
like more information, contact Jen at mercystreet@irvingbible.org.

Jean Beliveau took the longest walk

around the world, completing 46,600
miles across 64 countries over 11 years.

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Each Christmas, IBC sets out to bless its Partners,

Missionaries and Global Family with practical
resources and timely encouragement.
Want to help out? Heres how.
Local Partner Instructions

Partner
Pines
December 613 at IBC

1.
2.
3.
4.
5.

Choose one or more of the ornaments on a tree.

Give your name and phone # to the table host.
Purchase your gift.
Attach the ornament securely to the gift.
Return it to the table host the next week (by December 13).

Global Partner Instructions

1. Choose one or more of the ornaments on a tree.

2. Write a check or talk with Table Host on how to donate funds on the spot.
3. Sign up for newsletters and updates from that partner or other partners.

Missionary & Global Family Instructions

(Starts Advent Sunday, Nov 29 Dec 13)

1. Visit the Global Family table and read through prayer letters from our
Global Family and Missionaries. Take one home to pray for that individual.
If you dont know which to select, talk with the Table Host to learn more.
2. Write a note of encouragement to a missionary family.
3. Leave your note to be mailed with the Table Host.
Questions? Contact Lauren or Tricia at mission@irvingbible.org

Have A Peek at the Partners

THANKSGIVING
AT IBC
Each November, we take time out to remember all the ways God
has provided for us over the past year. We also remember those
in our community who may say thanks but dont have the
means to prepare a big meal in celebration.

Join IBC again this year as we provide 1,500 bags of food for
families in our community. You can drop a filled bag off at IBC,
deliver the bags directly to our ministry partners, and even tour
partner facilities to become aware of all they do for those in need.

Chatter | 12

The first decorated Christmas trees

were adorned with apples, white candy
canes and pastries. Yes. PASTRIES.

IBC HAS 8 LOCAL PARTNERS.

IBC HAS 11 GLOBAL PARTNERS & IS INVOLVED IN 20 COUNTRIES.

New Friends New Life Provides holistic support to women leaving the
sex industry and their children.

Targeted Aquaponic Growth Partners with orphanages, schools, and

churches to reduce malnutrition through aquaponic systems.

Mercy Street A holistic West Dallas ministry to students and their families. Provides mentoring, Bible study, sports teams, leadership building and
more. See article, pg. 10.

ALARM Equips African leaders with the skills and knowledge needed to
transform their communities. See article, pg. 4.

Mercy House A residential home for single, pregnant women. Provides

physical and spiritual support through pregnancy and up to 6 months after.
The Main Place Provides free, new clothing to homeless teens in Irving.
The Gatehouse A supportive living community for women and their
children in crisis.
Family Promise Provides for the immediate needs of homeless families
through local church hosts.
SchoolWorks Supports teachers and at-risk students in our local schools
through the Half Hour Hero reading & lunch buddy program.
Laundry Love Provides once-a-month laundry assistance to the patrons
of Amigo Laundromat.

Hosean International Ministries Empowers Haitians with the Gospel

through education, life skill coaching, and economic growth.
LEADLiberia Trains and sustains the pastors of Liberia.
My Refuge House A safe home in the Philippines for survivors of commercial sexual exploitation and abuse.
Water is Basic Empowers South Sudan in the fight for clean water.
Kutch Ministry An IBC ministry working among the Kutchi people in
South Asia and East Africa.
Radio South Sudan Builds and supports a network of Christian radio
stations in South Sudan.
Workers Together with God Serves Honduras through education,
physical, and spiritual healthcare.
SEEK Partners International A seminary and Bible translation
ministry in Northern India.
Harvest Metanoia Arad A church in Romania dedicated to unique
community outreach programs.
For security reasons, our Missionaries and Global Family are not listed here. We
encourage you to visit the designated tables during Partner Pines to learn more.
Think you know IBCs partners? See this months Idle Chatter for Where In the
World? a partner photo guessing game. Page 19.

HERES HOW IT WORKS

Provide a meal for a family in need:
1. Grab a bag in Town Square Nov. 1 or 8, and fill it with items listed.
2. Return filled bag to the baptismal at IBC no later than November 15.
3. Deliver bags to our partners.
Various dates and times are available.
This is a great ministry opportunity for your whole family!
Info & Sign Up irvingbible.org/thanksgivingmeals
For questions or help with delivery sign-up,
contact Shannon at smiller@irvingbible.org.

The Aztecs were

probably the first to
develop aquaponics.

Last year IBC donated 850 bags of food to those in need.

Since 2008, Water is Basic has drilled

500 wells, providing clean water for
10% of South Sudans population.

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UPC O M I N G

November

December

NOVEMBER 1

NOVEMBER 15

DECEMBER 6

Debby Wade at Marriage 9 a.m.

Thanksgiving Meals Due

Small Groups Registration

Join Marriage at IBC and Debby Wade for an open,

See ad, pg. 1213.

See ad, pg. 17.

NOVEMBER 19

DECEMBER 8

safe, and Christ-honoring discussion of sex in marriage. Visit irvingbible.org/marriage.

The Table 10:45 a.m.

A relaxed, safe environment to discuss doubts and
questions about Christianity. irvingbible.org/thetable.

Recovery Eatin Meetin

Rejoice

See ad, pg. 16.

See ad, pg. 5.

Thanksgiving Meals Begins

See ad, pgs. 1213.

Membership 10:45 a.m.

NOVEMBER 26

Join us for week one of the membership class where

you will hear from the elders. More info at irving-

Thanksgiving Day Breakfast

bible.org/propel.

See info below.

Save the Date

JANUARY 24, 10:45 A.M.
Shop Talk with Mary Flo Ridley
Join Parenting at IBC for How to Talk to Your Kids

NOVEMBER 5

NOVEMBER 29

Fashioned For Freedom 7 p.m.

Advent Kick-Off

A fashion show benefitting IBC partner My Refuge

See info below.

about Sex.

House. Tickets at fashionedforfreedom.eventbrite.com.

Partner Pines Begins

See ad, pgs. 1213.

NOVEMBER 8
Membership 10:45 a.m.
Join us for week two of the membership class where
you share your faith story. More info at irvingbible.
org/propel.

In His Image Connect Night: Bowling!

6:308 p.m.
Join In His Image small group for adults with special
needs for a night of fun and connection. For more
info email Shannon at smiller@irvingbible.org

Thanksgiving Breakfast

November 26, 8 10:30 a.m. The Commons

If youre alone at Thanksgiving this year, or just want to get your
people together with the IBC family, join us a for a great meal as
we celebrate Gods goodness together.
Contact Rod or Karen with questions at smithfourtx@msn.com
or (972) 221-1372.

NOVEMBER 14
Writers Workshop
Class will meet offsite this month. Please visit bettygroezinger.com for more info.

Registration Open for SingleParent Christmas Mall

Register at irvingbible.org/singleparents under the
Kids Night Out section. Email Marsha at mtribbett@irvingbible.org with questions.

Chatter | 14

REMINDER

Advent Kickoff November 29

Join the IBC Family for festive fun as we ring in the season
following each service in Town Square.
Live Music
Family-friendly activities
Refreshments (cookies and beverages)
Visit irvingbible.org/advent for more info.

ON G OI N G

MEALS

BIBLE COMMUNITIES

MARRIAGE

STUDENTS

Middle/High School and College

SUNDAY
COMMUNITY MEALS

Synergy
9 a.m. The Alcove
All Welcome

Marriage at IBC
Contact bmassey@irvingbible.org.

Middle School Sundays

Sundays 10:30 a.m.12:15 p.m.
The Commons

6 p.m. Town Square

High School Sundays

Sundays, 6:458 p.m.
Student Ministries area

11/1

Pizza, breadsticks, salad bar

11/8

Fajita Madness, chips and

salsa, salad bar

Groups on Sunday

The Tree
9 a.m. West D
20s & 30s, married & young families
Crossroads
10:45 a.m. West C
Couples & Families late 20s to 40s
Journey
10:45 a.m. The Alcove
All Welcome
On Track
10:45 a.m. Conference Room
Single Parents
Thrive
10:45 a.m. West D
Singles in their 30s & 40s
Renew
10:45 a.m. Training Center
All Welcome
Legacy Builders
6:45 p.m. West A All Welcome

CHILDREN

Infants Through 5th Grade

Childrens Sunday Services

9 a.m., 10:45 a.m., 5 p.m.
Elementary Midweek
Begins September 9, 6:308:30 p.m.
Kids connect with friends and
explore Gods word through small
groups, food, fun! Visit irvingbible.
org/elementarymidweek.

Growing Together

Pre-Marriage Mentoring
Visit irvingbible.org/marriage.

MEN

Community and Resources

First Watch
Fridays, 6:22 a.m. The Commons
FIT series
Contact Nat at npugh@irvingbible.org.

High School Midweek

Wednesdays, 68:30 p.m.
Join us for Bible study and community.
See website for location and schedule

First Watch Replay

Tuesdays, 6:30 p.m.
Training Center
Contact brianarrington1@yahoo.com.

Middle School, The W

Wednesdays, 6:30 p.m.
Next Gen Area
Join us for a time of friendships and
teaching.

First Watch Xtra

Wednesday, 6:30 a.m.
Training Center
Contact bcope@huntoil.com.

Visit irvingbible.org/men.

WOMEN

MISSION

Womens Fall Bible Study

Tuesdays, 9:30 a.m. or 6:30 p.m.
The Commons
Join us as we study Proverbs.

Prayer Meeting
2nd and 4th Wednesdays
6:45-8 p.m. The Chapel

Visit irvingbible.org/women.

Laundry Love
First Saturday of the month
9 a.m.12 p.m.
Contact laundrylove@irvingbible.org.

2435 KINWEST

New Friends New Life

Serve dinner to women healing
from sexual exploitation (every third
Wednesday). Contact Christine at
newfriendsnewlife@irvingbible.org.

IBC Choir Kicks Off 9/9

Wednesdays, 78:30 p.m.
IBC Worship Center
Contact Crystal at
celwell@irvingbible.org.

Local and Global

HOPE & HEALING

Community Care

Abortion Recovery Counseling

Contact Kym at (972) 560-4632 or
kyeichner@irvingbible.org.
Recovery at IBC
Thursdays, 6:308:30 p.m.
West Wing Youth Lounge
A group for hurts, habits, and
hangups. irvingbible.org/recovery.

IBC College Ministry

Sundays, 3:30 p.m.
The Commons Annex
Contact college@irvingbible.org.

SINGLE PARENT

Community and Resources

Sit with us on Sunday!

9 a.m. service, lowest right-hand
section, Rows 5 & 6, facing the stage.
Visit irvingbible.org/singleparents.

Community and Resources

Wednesday Nights at IBC

ESL: English as a Second Language

Wednesdays, 6:308:30 p.m.
Haven B, C, D
Citizenship Class
Wednesdays, 6:308:30 p.m.
IBC Conference Room
IBC Career Transition Ministry
Wednesdays, 6:308:30 p.m.

Meals are $3 per person or $10

max./family.

11/15 All American burgers or

brats, salad bar
11/22 Giant baked potatoes, chili,
all the fixins, salad bar
11/29 No meal.
Happy Thanksgiving!
If youd like to serve on a Sunday
night meal team, contact Pat
OReilly at (214) 289-6176 or sundaynightmeal@irvingbible.org.

WEDNESDAY
MIDWEEK MEALS
56:20 P.M.
Cost is $3/meal or $10 max./
family. PB&J sandwiches are
also available.
11/4

Baked chicken quarters,

green beans, fries,
dessert. Hosted by Bob
Downeys Team.

11/11 Baked potatoes with all

the fixins, salad, dessert.
Hosted by Lavern
Howells team.
11/18 Lasagna, bread sticks,
salad, dessert. Hosted by
Mike Gwartneys team.
11/25 No meal.
Happy Thanksgiving!
Changes to the menu may be made
depending on food cost, availability,
and Bob Downeys whim.
If youd like to serve on a Wednesday night meal team, please email
bdowney@irvingbible.org.

Microsoft Computer Skills

Wednesdays, 6:308:30 p.m.
The Training Center

Living Grace Group

For those with mental illness. Contact
Heath at heathmurry@yahoo.com.

SPECIAL NEEDS

Family Grace Group

For families/caregivers of those with
mental illness. Contact Buzz Moody
at myrabuzz@gmail.com.

Small Group for Moms

Sundays, 910:15 a.m.

MonFri

9 a.m.8 p.m.

In His Image Bible Study

Sundays, 6:307:45 p.m

Saturday

11 a.m.5 p.m.

Sunday

7 a.m.7 p.m.

NAMI Family-to-Family Class

Contact Joey at joey@netbreezeinc.com
or Debra at eumoore@yahoo.com.
Stephen Ministry at IBC
One-on-one ministry for hurting
people. Contact stephenministry@
irvingbible.org or call (972) 560-4636.

Small Group for Parents

Wednesdays, 6:308 p.m.

Spousal Abuse Recovery

Contact kyeichner@irvingbible.org.

Community & Care

SonShine Pals and Room

Care during Sunday ministry.

Contact specialneeds@irvingbible.org.

Visit 2435kinwest.org.

CUPPA HOURS

Single-Parent Service Project:

Saturday, November 7, 2015

The Alcove
Girls: 9:30-11:30 a.m. Boys: 13 p.m.
For kids in single-parent families
A morning of fun, service, and free breakfast!
Includes:
A devotional on sharing & giving to others
Time/supplies to decorate and fill shoeboxes
Christmas card making
Group photo for pics in Christmas cards
Register with Marsha at mtribbett@irvingbible.org
or (972) 560-4653.

Recovery
November 19, 6:30 p.m. Next Gen Area
If youve ever considered checking out IBCs Recovery
group but have never taken the next step, the Eatin
Meetin is a great way to start. Recovery is for those
struggling with hurts, habits, and hang-ups, and follows
a Christ-Centered 12-step program.
More info: irvingbible.org/recovery

Feeling lost
in the crowd?
Sermon-based small groups are a great way
to connect at IBC this winter.

SMALL GROUPS AT IBC exist to cultivate deep relationships that advance the kingdom of God in dark places dark places in our world, in our relationships, and in our
hearts. Groups meet weekly in homes in to eat, pray, and learn. The curriculum, based
on each weeks Sunday sermon, invites members to dig deeper into Scripture and share
viewpoints and life experiences. Group sessions run 10 weeks.
Session begins January 3 (register at irvingbible.org/smallgroups before December 6).
Questions? Contact Katie at kgeurin@irvingbible.org.

HOW DO I GIVE?
My Time, Talents & Skills

HOW DO I GET
CONNECTED AT IBC?

Family Promise Day Center Volunteers

The FP Day Center is where the adults go to develop a plan for housing and jobs while their kids are
in school. If you could give a few hours a week or a
month to spend helping at the Day Center, contact
Merlyn at (469) 586-5374, or ma-n-me@msn.com.

Were glad you asked. Here are the steps to take for
having your questions answered, guring out the
IBC story, and, if youre feeling ready, plugging in.

Laptops Needed
2435 Kinwest has a new Microsoft Computer Skills
class. In order to best serve the community, they
need 5-10 laptops. Donated laptops must have
Microsoft Office installed. Contact Shannon at
2435kinwest@irvingbible.org.

Start

Main Place Donations

IBC Partner, The Main Place, needs NEW pillows
and towels of all sizes; pillowcases/sheets; girls
deodorant; nylon loofahs; manicure sets; cotton
balls; q-tips. Drop off all new donations in the box
marked The Main Place in IBCs Donation Center.
Contact Pam at themainplace@irvingbible.org.

JOIN IN WORSHIP
So you found the address, a place to park, and a breath
mint on the way in. Good work! If youre reading this,
youve probably already taken the first step attending a
worship service. This is the first and most important place
to start, so keep coming. Become a regular. Make sure to
fill out a Newcomer Card. Tell us a little about yourself and
let us know how we can engage with you. Somebody will
reach out to you this week. Visit irvingbible.org/connect.

Main Place Volunteers

If you have skills with electrical, plumbing,
construction. HVAC, etc the Main Place in Irving
could use some maintenance help. Contact Pam
at themainplace@irvingbible.org.
Meal Team Volunteers
IBC makes meals available both Sunday and
Wednesday nights. These fun teams could use
some additional volunteers to serve together. For
Sundays, contact sundaynightmeal@irvingbible.org.
For Wednesdays, contact bdowney@irvingbible.org.
Medical Professionals Needed
Our weekly medical clinic needs professional health
care providers (MD, PA, FNP) to provide treatment
for our patients. Volunteers serve on a rotating
basis and do not need to serve every week. Contact
Charles at cpierce@2435clinic.org.
Mentor Kids in Single-Parent Families
Men and women are needed for gender-specific
mentoring of children from single-parent families.
Contact Marsha at mtribbett@irvingbible.org.

CHECK OUT THE NEWCOMER GATHERING

So youre kicking the IBC tires? Good! Were so glad youre
here. The Newcomer Gathering is a great opportunity to
meet church leadership, learn what IBC is all about, and
connect with other newbies in a fun, relaxed environment.
Next Newcomer Gathering: January 2016

SIGN UP FOR PROPEL

All right! Youre feeling the IBC vibe and want to see where
you might get involved. Propel is a 4-week class that explores
the IBC calling and culture, and how your unique personality
and passions fit in. Meet many of our pastors and directors of
ministries at IBC. Next Propel: February 2016

Thanksgiving Meals
Provide a meal to an Irving family this season.
Get your bag and meal list in Town Square
starting November 1. More info at
irvingbible.org/thanksgivingmeals. See pg. 12

JOIN A COMMUNITY
Youre firing on all cylinders but something is missing. And
that something is a someone, or a group of someones.
Enter sermon-based Small Groups, Womens Bible Study,
First Watch, and more. We encourage you to find a group
and connect authentically with others. See ad pg. 17.
Visit irvingbible.org/adults.

Visitor Follow-Up Team

(Rex Greenstreet Ministry)
We are looking for a volunteer to make calls or
send welcome emails (or both) to new visitors from
IBC. Training and coaching will be provided.
Contact Sherri at ssharp@irvingbible.org.

My Resources
Online Giving Option
If you would find it more convenient to donate to
the ministries of Irving Bible Church online, visit
irvingbible.org/give.

FIND A PLACE TO SERVE

Youve come a long way since that first breath mint. Youve
been busy worshipping, learning, relating, and committing.
And its at this point that you might start looking around
at all the people who help create those events ushers,
greeters, meal team members, table hosts, small group
leaders, and the like. Your next step now is to join them!
Consider your passions, talents and spiritual gifts and then
ask about a place to serve. Visit irvingbible.org/serve.

FOR MORE INFO, VISIT IRVINGBIBLE.ORG/CONNECT OR LOOK

FOR THE NEWCOMER GUIDES AT THE INFORMATION DESK.

Chatter | 18

Merlyn is a fictional DC Comics

supervillain (archenemy of Green
Arrow), and current director of IBC's
ministry to seniors.

ANSWER KEY

Chatter | 19

A) Targeted Aquaponic Growth.

TAGs mission is to install
AP systems in orphanages and
schools in developing coun tries to alleviate the effects of
poverty and hunger.
(tag2grow.org)

C) Hosean International
Ministries. HIM is a ministry by
Haitians, for Haitians. Its goal:
to transform lives by pointing
people to Jesus Christ through
education, life skills training,
and economic growth.
(hosean.org)

B) The Main Place.

TMP is a store without a
cash register, providing
clothing, accessories and
styling consultations for
homeless teens in Irving.
(themainplaceirving.org)

1
C) Normas Jeans
B) The Main Place

A) Standing in The Gap

C) Hosean International
Ministries
B) Race for the Cure

A) Water is Basic
C) Aqua Net
B) Aladdins Market

A) Targeted
Aquaponic Growth

Maybe youve noticed: IBC has a lot of local and global partners. Some are
big. Some are small. Some help orphans get clean water. Some help moms do
laundry. The thing they all have in common? Cool photography. Can you guess
where these shots were taken?

WHERE IN THE WORLD?

A Ray-Ban -less Chatter squints against the

Colorado sun with the Borman family high in
the Rockies at Hoosier Pass.

Chatteryou CAN take it with you. Send us

your Chatter photos on location, and you may
see yourself in an upcoming issue. Email us
at chatter@irvingbible.org.