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CR James | November 2, 2015

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ThisQ&Areportfeaturessomeanswerstocommonquestions.Andthey're
universalsothatanyguycanstartapplyingthese"tips"immediately.

Inthisreport,we'lltalkabout:

15ComplimentTactics
ThedifferencebetweenthetwoCsignals
Twogameplansformoresex(todobothatthesametime)

Enjoy!

WarmestRegards,
CRJames

HelloCR,

Onpage87ofSSUx(http://superpowermedia.com/ssuv2.html)you
mentionedaconceptcalled"buildinghersexualidentity".Whatexactlydo
youmeanbythat?

Thanks

Hey

Asfarasbuildinghersexualidentity,interestinglyenoughthisgoesbacktoaconvowe
hadbeforeabouthowaperson'sidentitydirectimpactsthatperson'sbehavior/action...

It'skindoflikewhensomeonehearsfrommultiplepeoplethatthey'refunny,wildand
crazyprettysoontheyendupbehavinglikethatevenmore.

Ifachildhearsmultipletimesthathe'ssmart,organized,"gettingbetteratXYZ"over
timeitpositivelyeffectshisbehavior.

Thereverseappliesaswell,likewiththeMonsterStudy(apsychologicalexperiment
donein1939)wherestutteringkidsendedupgettingmuchworse(anditdirectly
affectedtheirbehavior)asaresultofnegativereinforcement.

Withthatinmind,basicpositivereinforcementworkswondersinrelationshipsasaway
ofimprovinghersexualidentity.It'slikethereverseofthemonsterstudy,exceptyou're
graduallybringingoutasexualbeast(oraslightimprovementbareminimum).

Ithelpstoapproachitfromtwoangles:

A)Constantlysaythingstogethertofeelgoodaboutwhatsheiscapableof(asit
relatestosomesortofsexualimpactonyou).

Forexample:

Gettinghertobelieve(feel)likeshehastheabilitytoturnyouonprettyfast
Gettinghertobelieve(feel)likeshehastheabilitytoturnyouoninauniqueway
Gettinghertobelieve(feel)likeshehastheabilitytodriveyouwildduringsex

etc

B)Constantlysaythingstoimproveheridentity(howsheseesherself)

GettinghertobelievethatYOUBELIEVEthatsheissexualfun(thisisoneofthemain
reasonswhyyouwanttoavoid(1)complainingaboutsex(2)pressuringherintodoing
somethingsexuallythatshedoesn'twanttodoand(3)implyingthatsomethingis
wrongwithherlibido.Thingslikethismakeherfeellikeasexualfailure.

Tobringouthersexualbeast,dothetotalopposite(andcombineitwithother
strategies).

Ifyoucanpullitoff(ittakessomeskillandpatience)gethertobelievethatshehasa
"nymphoside"thatemerges.

Noteveryguycanconvinceawomanthatshe'sanymphoformanyreasons,butit's
muchmoreachievable(formostguys)toconvinceher(withskillandpatience)thatshe
hasa"nymphoside"thatwillcomeouteverynowandthen.

Intermsofexecution,thebesttimeto'makethesecomments'is(1)whensheisreally
turnedon,(2)duringsexor(3)immediatelyaftersex...

Thissameprocessworkswithnonsexualbeliefs.Forexample,ifyouwanthertohave
moreconfidenceinaparticulararea,youcanuse:

Positivereinforcement/Differenttypesofcompliments
Quotesfrombooks
Motivationalquotes

NotsureifImentionedthisinSSUx,butonceawoman'ssexualidentityisimproved(as
wellasheroverallconfidenceandsenseofwellbeing),you'llnoticeadramatic
increaseinsexualtensionsensitivity(meaningitdoesn'ttakeasmuchsexualtension
tacticstogetheraroused)...

CRJames

15SimpleComplimentTactics

Thebasicstructurecanbeusedtobuildtheconfidenceofyourchildren,afriend,family
member,etc.

Youcanusethese:
Forpositivereinforcement(ThereverseoftheMonsterStudy)
Tomakeyourladyforspecial/sexy/unique
Asatemplatesothatyou'reslightlybetteratacknowledgingthelittlethings
As"part"ofyoursexualtensionbuildinggameplan
Tobeabetterfriend/person(Inaworldfilledwith
haters/complainers/pessimists,italwaysfeelsgoodtoreceiveanice/real
complimentfromsomeone)
Toincreaseyourcharismapower(Putmore'good'intheuniverse.Getmore
back.)

#1:Thedirectcompliment
Yourhairlooksnice.

#2:Thethirdpartycompliment
IwastalkingtoBob.Hesaidyourhairlooksnice.

#3:Thecomplimentmentionedtosomeoneelse
IwastalkingtoBobabouthowniceyourhairlooks.

#4:Thedeepstackingcompliment
Yourhairlooksnice.Ilikethenewcolor,howshinyitisandthestyle.

#5:Theperceptionimpactcompliment
Yourhairlooksnice.Itmakesyoulooksexy,confidentandclassy.

#6:Theimpactonyoucompliment
Yourhairlooksnice.It'ssosexy.Itmakesmewanttodonaughtythingstoyou.

#7:Thepastcompliment.
Ilikehowyourhairlookedlastmonth.

#8:Thedecisioncompliment.
Yourhairlooksnice.Itwassmarttogobacktoyouroldhairstylist.

#9:Thefuturevirtualcompliment.
Ifyougotyourhairdonelikethat,youwouldlooksmokinghotbecauseblahblahblah.

#10:Theobservationimpactcompliment
Therewerethreeguysatthetablebehinduscheckingoutyourhair.

#11:Thevalue(time/money/etc)compliment
Yourhairlooksamazing.Ican'tbelieveitonlycostyou$XXX.XXanditonlytookXhours
togetdone.

#12:Thescientificfactcompliment.
AccordingtoDr.Smartguy,90%ofmenpreferwomenwhosehaircolorisX.

#13:Thesuperiorpreferencecompliment
Yourhairlooksamazing.I'vealwayslovedwomenwhohairisX.Insteadofwomenwhose
hairisY.

#14:Thesuperioradvantagecompliment.
Yourhairlooksamazing.It'sgoingtohelpyouwithX.

#15:Thecomplementcompliment
Yourhairlooksamazing.Itgoesperfectlywithyoureyes.

HiCR

IfuckedupbybeingtheONEMOVEGUYandlaterrealizedthatIwaswrong.
SolastnightIwentbacktoreadyourreportsjusttoretracemystepsand
startalloveragain:

Gettingherhorny,55desires,3waystoincreasehersexdrive,the16anti
seductivetraits,7seductionmistakes.

IrealizedalsothatIamfrustratedalotthatIamnotgettingenoughsex
(LOL),thinkthatherlibido'sdeclining,amfrustratedandirritated....basically
IrealizethatIamdoingallthewrongthings...doingthestuffthatmostguys
do(7mistakes).

CR,couldyoupleaseshowmethefirststeporthingtodotoputmeonthe
rightpath.IknowI'vereadsomeofyourstuffbutattimesgetconfusedon
wheretostartofforwhattodoexactly.

IlovemywifeandwanttomakethingsrightandalsotochangehowIview
herandsex.

Iamnotgivingup....Iwillchangeandthingswillgetbetter

Stayamazing!

Hey"Jeff"

Ithappens.Atleastyou'reawarethatyouhadyour"onemoveguy"haton.lol.

Althoughsometimes'onemove'isallittakes

Intermsofa'better,higherlikelihoodmove'asyouprobablyrealize,it'sbettertodo
the'completeopposite'astheonemoveapproach

Inotherwords,insteadofdoing'onemove'withtheobjectiveofhavingsex

Doa'multistepsequence'withtheobjectiveofjustgettingherabitaffectionate(or
slightlymoreaffectionate).

Allsuccessisbasedontwosimplefactors:Yourmindset+Yourskills/strategies/tactics.

Dogreatatbothparts=Moresuccess(betterresults)

inalogicalway.

Sotheideaofdoingamultistepsequencewiththeobjectiveofjustgettingherabit
affectionateisanexampleof'mindsetadjustment'.

Ithelpsbigtime.

Butitdoesn'tmeanyourbrainisautomaticallyfloodedwithknowledgeandtacticsfor
beingeffectiveatgettingheraffectionate.

Withthatinmind....afteryou'vedonethat,youwouldthendoanother'multistep
sequence'togethermoreaffectionateandsoon...andtheninitiateinavery
strategicway.

Withthatinmind,especiallyinarelationshipsituation,youwanttodothingsthat
makeitEASIERforhertogetturnedon.

Soit'salwaysbesttooperatewithtwogameplansatthesametime.

Here'saminichecklistforbothgameplans.

GamePlan#1:Sendingongoingsignals:
(Thesearethingsthatdon'talwaysincreaseaffection/sexualtensioninthe
moment,butastimegoeson,theysoftenherupandmakeiteasiertotrigger
arousal.)

(1)Makeherfeelgood(i.e.sexy/beautiful/confident/amazing/happy)+(2)Buildthe
valueofsex+(3)Buildyoursexualvalue+(4)RemoveAntiSeductiveBehaviors(if
necc.)

Theideaistostartwithdoingthingsinthosefourareasonanongoingbasis.

GamePlan#2:Gettingherinthemood

(5)Buildsexualtension(ST+ST+ST+ST+etc)+(6)InitiateSex

Gettingbacktodoinga'multistepsequence'withtheobjectiveofgettingher
affectionate(orslightlymoreaffectionate),each'ST'represents'onemove'.sothe
combinationofST'sisthe'multistepsequence'afteryou'vedonethatforawhile,you
wouldinitiatesexinastrategicway.

SoinyourcopyofSuperSeductionPower,therearealistof20STtactics.Youcoulddo
acombinationofthreeorfourofthosetactics(i.e.ST#1+ST#4+ST#7)justforthe
purposeoftryingtogetherabitmoreexcited&affectionate.

Note:ThereareotherreportsthatIcreatedthatarejustlistsofSTtactics.These
reportssupportthemindsetofnotbeingaonemoveguy.Ifyouputittothetest,the
multistepapproachalwayswins.It'slogic.It'ssimple.It'sbeyondwhat99.9%ofguys
aredoing.
http://superpowermedia.com/154ways.html
http://superpowermedia.com/53newways2015.html


WithGamePlan#2,thereisasecondpart(initiatingsex).Asfarashowtodothat,
here'sareportonmyblog(I'veneversentanemailoutforit.It'safreereportcalled
theScrewDriverMethodforinitiatingsexhttp://superpowermedia.com/blog/the
psychologicalscrewdriverinitiationmethod).

Thereareactuallymorefactorsthatimproveaguy'simpactonawoman,butthosesix
factorsshouldbetheFIRSTthingtofocuson,especiallyinrelationship.

Hopethathelps.

CRJames

CR,IhaveAttentiondeficithyperactivitydisorderorADD(ADHD).AsIgot
olderthinggotworseforme.

AnywaymywifeleftmejustasI'mworkingonabettertreatmentkeepme
morestable.WhatIwasdoingwasmakingmeBipolar.AnywaysIneedhelp
withtextingonlycontact.

WeareMormonandIalwayshadhardtimewithcommunicating.Ifyoucould
savethisfamilyIwouldbegratefulforalltime.

Hey"Kevin"

Thefirstthingthatyouneedtodoisthinkaboutyoursituation.Improvingyour
relationshipwithyourwifeisnodifferentthanaguywhogetsbackwithhergirlfriend

thatdumpedhimtwoweeksago.

Theonlywaytobesuccessfulistofocusontwobasicthings.

#1.Communicatethatyouhavechangedinsomeway.
#2.Makeaplan(toyourself)onhowyou'regoingtocreatebetterimpactonher.

Doingbothisveryimportant.

Andjustlikewithanything,itcomesdowntomindsetandskills.

I'veknownguyswerewillhellbentonlearningskillstogettheirwivestodesiresex
morefrequentlyanditwasn'ta"skilladjustment"thatendedupbeingthethingthat
workedforthem.Itwasa"mindsetadjustment"whichisashiftinthinking.

Forexample,readthisblogpost:
http://superpowermedia.com/blog/distinction1averageguysarequicktogiveup
whilesgguysare

That'sapostthatjusttalksabouthowaverageguysthinkonewaywhilesuccessbased
guysthinkanotherway.

Thepointis,ashiftinmindsetisoftenthereasonforachangeinawoman'sbehavior.
Andthat'sbecausewhenyoushiftyourmindset,youautomaticallymakedifferent
decisions.

Therearehundredsoflittle(andbig)shiftsinmindsetaguycanmake.

Forexample,aguycouldstartwitharulewherehefocusesmoreongivingheragood
experienceintherelationship.

It'sseemssimpleandbasiconthesurface,butastimegoeson,he'sgoingtobeless
likelytomakeherfeelobligatedtoputupwithhisstuff.

Mostpeoplearenotmotivatedwith'puttingupwithotherpeople's
stuff/issues/problems'.

Ibrokeupwithagirlyearsago(thatIcaredabout)becauseshejustassumedthatI
wouldbeokaywith"puttingupwithcertainissues"thatIdidn'tlike.

It'soneofthosethingsweremanypeopleunderstandthathumanslovepleasure&
humansdon'tlikepain/stress,yettheytrytojustifyorfind'reallygoodreasons'why
someoneelseshould"putupwithcertainissues".

Inmanycases,themanandwomanarecompromising.Nooneisperfect.Youcan't
changethepast.Youcan'tinstantlyfixmistakes.However,youcanalwaysdecideto
notletpastdecisionshauntyouandmakebetterdecisionsforyourselfandothersin
thefuture.

Basedonyouranswers(andprobablyafewthingsyoudidn'tgetachancetomention)

(A)I'msureshefellinlovewithyoubasedon"pleasurebased"thingsi.e.spoilingher
andhavinggoodtimestogether.

and(B)I'msureshedecidedtomoveonbasedon"notwantingtoputupwithcertain
thingsanymore"

Soanytimeyou'reattemptingtogetawomanbackand/or"revivethepassion",it's
importanttoknowtherearetwolayersofmessagesthatareALWAYSbeingsentatthe
sametime.

MessageLayer#1:TheContentLayerThisistheactualmessage.

MessageLayer#2:TheContextLayerThisisthetheme.

Soforexampleifaguyistryingtogetbackwithawoman.Andshelefthimbecausehe
drinkstoomuchhecouldcallher10timesperdaysaying,"Idon'tthinkmydrinkingis
thatbigofadeal"

ThisisaclassicexampleofaguytryingtogetthewomantoACCEPTPAIN.

WhichisnotthesameasgettingthewomantoseethatfuturebeingfilledWITH
PLEASURE.

Gettingbacktoaparticularexgirlfriend.Thiswoman(whilewewereongreatterms
andmadlyinlove)toldmeonedaythatshe'sthinkingaboutmovinginwithher
"brother"(whoactuallywasn'tabloodrelative.Hewasactuallyagoodfriendwho
happenedtobeanexboyfriendthatshewasonceinlovewithandhadsexwith).
Longstoryshort,Ikindatoldher,I'mnotexcitedabouthermovinginwithherquote
unquote"brother".Shesaidyoudon'tunderstandit'snotlikethatblahblahblahwe're
justgoingtoberoommates.Youcanmeethim.Ithinkyou'lllikehimblahblahblah.
Andinsomanywords,Isaidifyoumoveinwithyourquoteunquote"brother",it's
over.Sheendedupmovinginanywayanditwasover.Shecalledaweeklaterandher
"salespitch"(togetmeback)hadthestructureof"tryingtogetmetoacceptthepain"
insteadofafuturefilledwithpleasure.

Inotherwords,shewastryingtogetmetobeOKwiththesituation.Insteadof
understandmypreferences(whichImadecrystalclear).Whatwouldhavebeencloser

toa"pleasurestructure"wouldbesomesortof"pitchtogetmeback"involvingher
movingout,apologizingandsoon.

Soanytimesomeoneismakingadirectpitchtogetawomanback(orevenasilent
commitmenttohimselftobeabetterlover,betterpartner,etc)he'seither(#1)
makingitaruletoprovidemorepleasure(makeherhappy,makeherfeelsexy,make
herfeelmoreconfident,makeherfeelmoreinspiredaboutfollowingadream,etc)or
(#2)tryingtogethertoacceptbullshit/pain/stress.

It'sbetterifhe'sdoingmoreof#1than#2.

Thentherearetwolayersofcommunicationthatshouldbeconsidered.

Layer#1:Thecontentlayer.

Layer#2:Thecontextlayer

Intermsofthecontentlayer(Layer#1),gettingbacktomyexample,therereallyisa
differencebetweenashittywayofconvincingyourboyfriendthatyoumovinginwith
yourexisn'tabigdeal.

IfIreallythoughtaboutit.

MessageA:"ListenCR,youdon'thaveanythingtoworryaboutHoney!Iknowyoutold
menottomoveinwithmybrother.Imadehimpromisetotrytohavesexwithme
becauseheknowshowtogetmewetandhorny.Andalthoughhelaughedandrefused
toagree,I'msureherespectsthefactthatIcareaboutyou."

MessageB:"ListenCR,youdon'thaveanythingtoworryaboutHoney!He'sina
relationship.I'mnotattractedtohim.Weonlyhadsexonceanditwashorrible.Just
recentlyhecameoutoftheclosetandhe'sactuallyinarelationshipwithareallynice
guyblahblahblah."

WecanagreethatMessageBismoreeffective,butwhocares?Thatdoesn'tmeanit
changesthecontext.

Whenguysstruggletogetbackwithawoman,it'softenbecausethereare710things
thatheneedstodo,buthecan'tevengetpastthedifferencebetween"content
message"and"contextmessage".

Someguys(andwomen)actuallyconvincethemselvesthatiftheycansomehowbeA+
perfectlyeffectiveatacontentmessage,thentheotherpersonwillchangetheirmind.

Itdoesn'tworklikethatinmostcases.


Iknowaguywhowentonadate(dinner)withhisexgirlfriendandthenwentbackto
herplaceandspentthenight.Heneverhadsexwithher.Hebackedout.Thenwent
backtohisgirlfriendandtoldhereverything.Idon'tknowifheexpectedhertogive
himagoldstarfornotscrewingtheex,butshebrokeupwithhim.

Basedonthesituation,Istronglybelievedthathehadachanceatgettingherback.But
insteadofagameplanthatstartedwitha"Igetit.Ishouldn'thavewentonadate"
approach,hespentalotofenergyon"what'sthebigdealwithgoingoverherhouse"
whilegettingupsetwithherforassumingthattheyhadsexwhentheydidn't.

It'sanothercaseofnotknowingthedifferencebetweencontentbasedargumentanda
contextualbasedargument.

It'sanothercaseofnotknowingthedifferencebetweentryingtoconvinceawomanto
putupwithsomethingandunderstandingthatawomanlikespleasure(i.e.thepleasure
associatedwithknowingthatherboyfriendisloyalorthepleasurewithknowingthat
herboyfriendcanfullyunderstandwhenhisactionsupsether).

InyourotheremailyousaidshehasbeenverypatientwithyourADHDissues,butshe
doesn'tlikeyourangerandputtingdownherfamilyandgettingupsetwithherfornot
keepingacleanhouse.

Inmanyrelationships,themanandwomanare(onsomelevel)puttingupwith
something.

Andsincethere'snotasuchthingasaperfectrelationship,that'snotalwaysabigdeal.

Butitbecomesabigdealwhenthereisn'tenough'momentsofpleasures'.

Withallofthatinmind,onceyoustartwiththeassumptionthatthere'snoguarantee
thatshe'lltakeyouback,itforcesyoutomakesureyoustacktheoddsinyourfavorin
termsofpleasure.

Themindsetof:

WhatcanIdoforher(thatprovidespleasure)thatnootherguycando?
WhatcombinationoftraitsdoIhave(thatprovidesherwithpleasure)thatisrarein
mostguys?
WhataresomethingsIcandothatwillreducethepain/stressthatI'mcurrently
causingher?
Whataresomewaysofimpactingher(i.e.makinghermoreattractedtome,
triggeringsexualdesire,otherformsofimpact)thatwilloutweighthecurrentshort
term(orlongterm)stressI'vebeengivingher?

WhatcanIsay(ordoforher)thatwillgethertoseehowtakingmebackisthesame
as"enteringintoarelationship"withanewandamazingguy?

Themaintheme(contextlayer)shouldbe:"I'vechangedinsomeway"or"Ihadan
epiphanyandInowapproachlifedifferentlyblahblahblah"orsomethinglikethat

Onabasiclevel,youwanthertofeelasthoughifshetakesyouback,thingswillbe
betterinmanyways(andthenmakingastrongcommitmenttoyourselftoliveuptoit).

Mostpeoplerarelydothis,butithelps(intermsofincreasingyourchances)tospenda
lotoftimethinkingabouthowyouwillbebetter+howyouwillactuallychange.

Becauseyoudon'tjustwanthertotakeyouback,youwantherto"takeyouback+feel
asthoughshemadeagreatdecisionlateron".

Andbytheway,don'tappealtoherbasedoncommonfactors.

Someguyswanttogetbacktogetherwomanpurelyforthekids,butthat'snotHER
REASONforwantingtostayinarelationship.

It'sawasteoftimetosaythingslike"letsbeafamilyagain"blahblahblah."letsget
togetherforthekids"

Eventhoughitcouldbeastrongreasonwhenshefeelsgoodabouttherelationship.For
example,she'smentionedonseveraloccasionshowshegrewupwithoutafatherinthe
houseandit'simportantforhertostaytogetherforthesakeofthekids,ifshe'sata
pointwhereshe'sendedtherelationshiporsheisconsideringit,thereasonsarealready
outweighingthat.

That'swhyit'spointless.

Andnotonlythat,wheneveraguymakesreasonstogetbacktogetherthatarebased
onthingsthataretotallydifferentfromherreasonforsplittingup,itmakesthings100x
worse.

It'skindofliketheguywhospentthenightoverhisexgirlfriend'shouse.Ifhespends
allofhisenergyconvincingherthathedidn'thavesex(eventhoughit'sveryimportant
forhertohaveaboyfriendwhodoesn'tsleepwithotherwomen),makingTHATCASE
whenshe'ssplittingforatotallydifferentreasonmakesthings100xworse.

Soevenifshecaresaboutstayingtogetherforthekids,orhavingaloyalpartner,if
somethingelseistheCOREREASON,theargumenthastobestrongonaContextual
Level+ContentLevel.

Screwoneofthemup(alongwitheverythingelsethatImentioned)andtheoddsof
gettingbackgodowntremendously!

SoIwanttomentionthat(eventhoughyoudidn'tsayyou'vesaidthattoher),because
it'soneofthecommonmistakesthatmakethingsworse.

Soasarule,youALWAYSwanttostartwith(#1)acommentaboutchangethat(#2)
setsthestageinastrongway.

Forexample:"I'vebeendoingalotofthinkingandithitme.Youare100%rightwith
everythingyou'vesaid.I'vebeenreplayingwhatyou'vesaidoverandoveragaininmy
mind.AndIhadahugeawakeningblahblahblahIspentsomuchtimetryingtogetyou
back,Ididn'tspendenoughtimethinkingabouthowIcanbeabetterpartnertoyou.
I'vebeendoingalotofreadingandthinking.AndIrealizejusthowvaluableyouare.I'm
notsureifyou'llevertakemebackblahblahblahIreallyhopethatyou'llconsiderit.
Eitherway,you'vemademeabetterperson."

Youtechnicallydon'tknowwhatyou'renextmoveshouldbeuntilyou'vesetthefirst
setofmessages(viatextorwhatever)basedonthesituationandsoon.

Youwanttostartwithmessagesthathavethattheme.

It'sabetter"pitch/message"tosaysomethingthatimplies:lifewillbemorepleasurable
withmeinyourlifethantosaysomethingthatimplies:

"Takemeback.Andkeepputtingupwithmyissues"
"Takemeback.Wehavekids.Keepputtingupwithmyissues"
"Takemeback.KeepputtingupwithmyissuesbecauseadoctorjustrevealedwhyI'm
angrywithyouallofthetime"
"Takemeback.Keepputtingupwithmyissues.Idon'tplantodoanything
new/differenttodramaticallyoutweighthings.
"Takemeback.KeepputtingupwithmyissuesbecauseIputupwithyourissues,too.

Thisishowthetypical95%ofguysthink.
Thisishowaverageguysthink.

Ihopethathelps

Forthemostpart,youwanttogethertofocusontheideathatyou'vechanged.

Youmightnotneedtodoanythingfancyorpsychologicallyadvanced.

Focusondoingthatmoresothattryingtoconvincehertotakeyouback.itmayeven
helptorefertoyouroldselfas"OldKevin"andtalkaboutyournewselfasbeing"New

Kevin"asawayofcreatingapsychologicalseparationbetweenhowyouwillbehavein
thefutureandhowyou'lltreatherdifferentlyinthefuture.

MuchSuccess!

CRJames

Linksmentionedinthisreport

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Monster_Study
http://superpowermedia.com/ssuv2.html
http://superseductionpower.com/
http://superpowermedia.com/blog/distinction1averageguysarequicktogiveup
whilesgguysare
http://superpowermedia.com/blog/thepsychologicalscrewdriverinitiationmethod
http://superpowermedia.com/154ways.html
http://superpowermedia.com/53newways2015.html

Mostrecentreports

http://superpowermedia.com/The33Strategies.html
http://superpowermedia.com/subvoid.html
http://superpowermedia.com/supersuppliments100.html

KeyPointsinreport

15SimpleComplimentTactics

#1:Thedirectcompliment
Yourhairlooksnice.

#2:Thethirdpartycompliment
IwastalkingtoBob.Hesaidyourhairlooksnice.

#3:Thecomplimentmentionedtosomeoneelse
IwastalkingtoBobabouthowniceyourhairlooks.


#4:Thedeepstackingcompliment
Yourhairlooksnice.Ilikethenewcolor,howshinyitisandthestyle.

#5:Theperceptionimpactcompliment
Yourhairlooksnice.Itmakesyoulooksexy,confidentandclassy.

#6:Theimpactonyoucompliment
Yourhairlooksnice.It'ssosexy.Itmakesmewanttodonaughtythingstoyou.

#7:Thepastcompliment.
Ilikehowyourhairlookedlastmonth.

#8:Thedecisioncompliment.
Yourhairlooksnice.Itwassmarttogobacktoyouroldhairstylist.

#9:Thefuturevirtualcompliment.
Ifyougotyourhairdonelikethat,youwouldlooksmokinghotbecauseblahblah
blah.

#10:Theobservationimpactcompliment
Therewerethreeguysatthetablebehinduscheckingoutyourhair.

#11:Thevalue(time/money/etc)compliment
Yourhairlooksamazing.Ican'tbelieveitonlycostyou$XXX.XXanditonlytookX
hourstogetdone.

#12:Thescientificfactcompliment.
AccordingtoDr.Smartguy,90%ofmenpreferwomenwhosehaircolorisX.

#13:Thesuperiorpreferencecompliment
Yourhairlooksamazing.I'vealwayslovedwomenwhohairisX.Insteadofwomen
whosehairisY.

#14:Thesuperioradvantagecompliment.
Yourhairlooksamazing.It'sgoingtohelpyouwithX.

#15:Thecomplementcompliment
Yourhairlooksamazing.Itgoesperfectlywithyoureyes.

Twogameplansallguysshouldapply

GamePlan#1:Sendingongoingsignals:

(1)Makeherfeelgood(i.e.sexy/beautiful/confident/amazing/happy)+(2)Buildthe
valueofsex+(3)Buildyoursexualvalue+(4)RemoveAntiSeductiveBehaviors(if
necc.)

GamePlan#2:Gettingherinthemood

(5)Buildsexualtension(ST+ST+ST+ST+etc)+(6)InitiateSex

Thetwolayersofcommunication

Layer#1:Thecontentlayer(theactualmessage)
Layer#2:Thecontextlayer(howitrelatestothesituation)

Examples:

Thesituation:Lisawasnervousaboutgoingtoanewhairstylist.(Bobisherboyfriend.)

Bob:"Yourhairlooksnice.Ilikethenewcolor,howshinyitisandthestyle."
Contentscore:A+
Contextscore:A+
Overall:A+

Result:Shehugshimandsays"Thanks!!"

Thesituation:Karenwasnervousaboutgoingtoanewhairstylist.(Craigisacreepy
dudeshenevermetbefore.)

Craigjumpsoutofthebushesandsays

Craig:"Yourhairlooksnice.Ilikethenewcolor,howshinyitisandthestyle."
Contentscore:A+
Contextscore:F
Overall:F

Result:Sheflashesanervoussmilewhilegrippingontohertaserguninherpurse.

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