BIS9

ANTI-BULLYING
POLICY
(To be read in conjunction with the
Behaviour Policy)

Autumn Term 2015

Principles and Values

The ethos of our school fosters high expectations of outstanding behaviour and we
will consistently challenge any behaviour that falls below this. We believe that all
students have the right to enjoy an education free from fear and distress. At BIS we
do not tolerate bullying. Through this policy we intend to set out guidelines and
procedures to achieve this important objective.
Aims and Objectives of this Policy
The aim of this policy is to try and prevent and deal with any behaviour deemed as
bullying. The implementation of this policy will create an ethos where bullying is
regarded as unacceptable so that a safe and secure environment is created for
everyone to learn and work in. All members of the school have a responsibility to
recognise bullying when it occurs and take appropriate action in accordance with
the school policy. This will happen in the following ways:

All teaching and non-teaching staff, pupils and parents will have an
understanding of what bullying is.

All teaching and non-teaching staff will know what the school policy is on
bullying and will consistently and swiftly follow it when bullying is reported.

All pupils and parents will know what the school policy is on bullying and what
they can do if bullying occurs.

Pupils and parents will be assured that they will be supported when bullying
is reported.

Whole school initiatives (staff training, celebration assemblies etc) and

proactive teaching strategies (PHSE [Personal, Health & Social Education]
lessons, circle time etc) will be used throughout the school to reduce the
opportunities for bullying to occur.

A positive, caring ethos will be created within the school environment where
everyone can work, play and express themselves, free from the fear of being
bullied.

What Is Bullying?

Bullying is unacceptable behaviour used by an individual or group, usually repeated

over time, that intentionally hurts another individual or group either physically or
emotionally. In other words, bullying at BIS9 is considered to be unacceptable
behaviour which occurs Several Times On Purpose (STOP).
Bullying can be short term or continuous over long periods of time.
Bullying can be:

Emotional

being unfriendly, excluding, tormenting (e.g. hiding books,

threatening gestures)

Physical

pushing, kicking, biting, hitting, punching or any use of violence

Racial

racial taunts, graffiti, gestures

Sexual

unwanted physical contact or sexually abusive comments

Homophobic

because of, or focussing on the issue of sexuality Direct or

indirect

Verbal

name-calling, sarcasm, spreading rumours, teasing

Cyber bullying

All areas of internet ,such as email and internet chat Twitter,

Facebook misuse

Bullying is not:
It is important to understand that bullying is not the odd occasion of falling out with
friends, name calling, arguments or when the occasional trick or joke is played on
someone. It is bullying if it is done several times on purpose (STOP). Children
sometimes fall out or say things because they are upset. When occasional problems
of this kind arise it is not classed as bullying. It is an important part of childrens
development to learn how to deal with friendship breakdowns, the odd name calling
or childish prank. We all have to learn how to deal with these situations and develop
social skills to repair relationships.
Why is it Important to Respond to Bullying?
Bullying hurts. No one deserves to be a victim of bullying. Bullying has the potential
to damage the mental health of a victim. Everybody has the right to be treated with
respect. Pupils who are bullying need to learn different ways of behaving.
Signs and Symptoms

For Parents and Staff A child may indicate by signs or behaviour that he or she is
being bullied. Adults should be aware of these possible signs and that they should
investigate if a child:

changes their usual routine

is unwilling to go to school (school phobic)
becomes withdrawn anxious, or lacking in confidence
cries themselves to sleep at night or has nightmares
feels ill in the morning
begins to do make less effort with school work than previously
comes home with clothes torn or books damaged
has possessions which are damaged or " go missing"
has unexplained cuts or bruises
becomes aggressive, disruptive or unreasonable
is bullying other children or siblings
stops eating
is frightened to say what's wrong
gives improbable excuses for any of the above
is afraid to use the internet or mobile phone
is nervous and jumpy when a cyber message is received
lack of eye contact
becoming short tempered
change in attitude to people at home.
be frightened of getting on the school bus

These signs and behaviours could indicate other social, emotional and/or mental
health problems.

What can you do if you are being bullied?

Wherever you are in school, you have the right to feel safe. Nobody has the right to
make you feel unhappy. If someone is bullying you, it is important to remember that
it is not your fault and there are people who can help you.
The children were all asked this question and we have included some of their
strategies in the list below:

Try not to let the bully know that he/she is making you feel upset.
Try to ignore them.
Be assertive stand up to them, look at them directly in the eye, tell them to
stop and mean it.
Stay in a group; bullies usually pick on individuals.
Get away as quickly as you can.

Tell someone you can trust it can be a teacher, a teaching assistant, a

midday supervisor, a parent, a friend, a brother, a sister or a relative.
If you are scared, ask a friend to go with you when you tell someone.
When you tell an adult about the bullying give them as many facts as you can
(What? Who? Where? When? Why? How?).
Keep on speaking out until someone listens and helps you.
Never be afraid to do something about it and quick.
Dont suffer in silence.
Dont blame yourself for what is happening.

What can you do if you see someone else being bullied?

Ignoring bullying is cowardly and unfair to the victim. Staying silent means the bully
has won and gives them more power. There are ways you can help without putting
yourself in danger. The children have also discussed this question in class and some
of the strategies they suggested are listed below:

Dont smile or laugh at the situation.

Dont rush over and take the bully on yourself.
Dont be made to join in.
If safe to do so, encourage the bully to stop bullying.
If you can, let the bully know you do not like his or her behaviour.
Shout for help.
Let the victim(s) know that you are going to get help.
Tell a member of staff as soon as you can.
Try and befriend the person being bullied.
Encourage the person to talk to someone and get help.
Ask someone you trust about what to do.
If you dont feel you can talk to someone about it, write it down and post it in
the Worry box.
Call a helpline for some advice.

What can staff members do when they see/hear of bullying?

All members of staff, teaching and non-teaching, should deal with any incident of
suspected or observed bullying by:

talking to the pupil and giving reassurance

taking action appropriate action using sanctions in line with the behavior
policy

in serious instances producing a written statement of what has happened and

the action taken

reporting any serious or recurring incidents to their line manager on the SMT
What can parents do if their child complains of bullying?

If you become aware of or become concerned that your child is being bullied:
encourage him/her to talk about the problem
reassure him/her of your support
listen calmly and do not overreact
attempt to find out when and where the bullying takes place. Is there a
pattern?

contact the class teacher to discuss the problem

work with the class teacher to support your child within or outside school

Outcomes
All known/reported incidences of bullying will be investigated by the class teacher or
by a member of the SMT. Parents of the perpetrator may also be questioned about
the incident or about any concerns that they may be having.
The school behaviour policy will be followed for sanctions to the child.
The child displaying unacceptable behaviour, may also be asked to genuinely
apologise (as appropriate to the childs age and level of understanding). A parent
may also be informed about their childs behaviour and a request that the parents
support the school with any sanctions that it takes. Wherever possible, the pupils
will be reconciled.