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Compassionate Listening
An Exploratory Sourcebook About Conflict
Transformation
Gene Knudsen Hoffman
Cynthia Monroe
Leah Green
Edited by and with an introduction by
Dennis Rivers
www.NewConversations.net
March 2012 Edition
TABLE OF CONTENTS
Introduction .........................
Dennis Rivers
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Session One
-- Compassion ..................
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Session Two
-- Hatred .....................
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Session Four
-- Forgiveness ..................
19
Session Five
-- Reconciliation .................
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Session Six
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Introduction
Gene Knudsen Hoffman (1919 - 2010) was a
remarkable woman, and this book is a report
from the growing edge of a movement she
pioneered, nurtured and mentored.
Forms of compassionate listening have
been practiced among Quakers and Buddhists
for centuries, and among psychotherapists for
decades. Gene was both a Quaker peace
activist and a pastoral counselor, and she
achieved two great things over the last thirty
years of her life. First, she took the practice of
compassionate listening out of the quiet
environs of the Quaker meeting house, out
from behind the closed doors of the therapy
session, and on to the stage of the worlds
greatest conflicts. Her many trips to Russia
and the Middle East made her a legend in the
peacemaking community.
Second, she
popularized compassionate listening in a
generous way that invites and encourages
other people to take up this practice, develop it
and apply it in new areas. This book is an
expression of that generosity. Available for
free around the world as an e-book, it includes
both her lesson plans for Compassionate
Listening Work-shops and reports from Leah
Green and Cynthia Monroe, two of her copioneers and creative colleagues.
Leah Green is Director of Mid East Citizen
Diplomacy and organizes Com-passionate
Listening delegations to Israel and Palestine.
Compassionate Listening embodies Gandhis
teaching that we must be the change we want
to see. By listening to all sides in a way that
acknowledges
everyones
pain,
these
delegations help the Israelis and Palestinians
grow toward listening to one anothers pain,
and hopes and dreams as well. Of course, there
are powerful forces on both sides seeking to
worsen the conflicts rather than heal the
wounds.
Only a practice grounded in
something like the Quaker belief in the light of
God residing in each person could keep alive
the vision of possible peace in the face of all
the violence and anguish into which the
Palestinians and Israelis have stumbled.
1
Compassionate Listening
A First Step Toward
Reconciliation
Gene Knudsen Hoffman
2
Listening to the
Children of Abraham
3
Compassionate Listening
in the Middle East
Leah Green
Children of Abraham
A documentary video produced by
Leah Green and Peter Hwoschinsky
4
Working for Reconciliation
Under the Northern Lights
5
Compassionate Listening
as Practiced in Alaska
Cynthia Monroe
Thomas Merton
1.
Perhaps everything terrible is, in its
deepest being, something that needs our love.
Does that go for any perpetrator or all -what do they need to do to deserve it?
(continued)
Mindfulness is the blood of our consciousness. It will improve the quality of our
consciousness.
SOMETHING.
7
An Enemy Is One
Whose Story We Have Not Heard
by
Gene Knudsen Hoffman
8
On Preventing Future Holocausts
by
Gene Knudsen Hoffman
9
Sources for Further Reading About
Compassionate Listening
10
Parting Words
Compassionate Listening
An Exploratory Sourcebook
About Conflict Transformation
Gene Knudsen Hoffman
Leah Green
Cynthia Monroe
Edited by and with an introduction by
Dennis Rivers