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Fetal Development
First Trimester:
18-22 Days (3 weeks): Heart begins to beat.
28 Days (4 weeks): Arms and legs are budding.
*Most women dont realize theyre pregnant until the baby is approximately 4 weeks (28 days).
42 Days (6 weeks): Skeleton is formed; brain coordinates movement of muscles and organs.
Brainwaves are detectable by 6 weeks and 2 days.
8 1/2 weeks: Eyelids and palms of hands are sensitive to touch.
9 weeks: Child will bend fingers around an object placed in the palm; thumb sucking occurs.
10 weeks: Body is sensitive to touch; child squints, swallows, puckers up brow, and frowns.
Unique fingerprints appear and fingerprints begin growing.
12 weeks: Child can kick, turn feet, curl and fan toes, make a fist, move thumbs, bend wrists, turn
head, open mouth, and press lips tightly together.
*Most abortions are performed before and during this time.
Second Trimester:
4 months: Movement in the womb can be felt by the mother.
5 months: Sleeping habits appear; a slammed door will provoke activity; child responds to
sounds in frequencies too high or low for adults to hear. The child can also feel pain.
6 months: Lungs produce surfactant, which is necessary for breathing. Babies born at this age
have survived.
Third Trimester:
7 months: Eyelids open and close, eyes look around; mothers voice is heard and recognized.
9 months: Child triggers labor and birth occurs. By this point, the brain has nearly all the
neurons it will ever have.
**Women can have abortions up to and through the 9th month of pregnancy in some states.
Sources and videos can be found at www.EHD.org and www.babycenter.com
*www.guttmacherorg **abolishabortion.com/basic-pro-life-info
Adoption
There may be times when a mother facing an unplanned pregnancy may feel completely
unequipped to parent her child. She may feel her only option is to kill her pre-born child. Pro-life
individuals touch lives by helping women place their baby or child for adoption. It is important
to show women on your school that adoption can be the answer to all of her fears.
When talking with parents who have fostered or adopted, no matter what circumstances were that
brought that child into their lives, be it genetics or adoption, they love that child dearly.
Some parents who have adopted have suffered under the scrutiny of strangers. Looks of confusion
when the skin of their child is a bit darker than their own, a blondie found among a family of red
heads, or a nose that doesnt quite look like Mom or Dads. Questions like, I know she isnt your
child, but is she, you know, yours? Of course she is! No matter how a child came into their family,
their union should be handled with compassion and love. Families that bring-up an adopted
child should be celebrated, not scrutinized.
Adoptees are some of the strongest people in the world. They not only have to push through the
emotional struggle of not knowing their birth parents, but they sometimes look so different from
their family that they must overcome the idea that complete strangers know that they came into
their family through adoption.
Most women who place their child for adoption faced an unplanned pregnancy and
may have considered aborting their pre-born children. Pro-lifers should rejoice with a
person who has been adoptedthat persons very life may have been saved because of adoption!
Today, 51% of abortions are performed on high school and college aged women, which means
that women in school across the country are facing unplanned pregnancies and need to hear the
message of adoption. Here are some ways you can take action in your school:
Invite a member of the adoption triad to speak (birthmother, parent, adoptee)
Promote/raise money for adoption ministries and advocacy groups
Watch and promote pro-adoption movies such as: Bella, Juno, Penny Serenade, Meet the
Robinsons, and August Rush
Promote adoption songs such as: Temporary Home by Carrie Underwood; Everything to Me by
Mark Shultz; and When Love Takes You In by Steven Curtis Chapman
Organize an adoption flyer campaign! (Sample flyers on the SFLA website!)
Contact SFLA about hosting Catelynn & Tyler, the birthparents on MTVs 16 & Pregnant
Chalk facts about adoptions on your school sidewalks
Volunteer with your local Pregnancy Help Center
*Go to http://highschool.studentsforlife.org/adoption-another-option/ for flyers and sources.
** If someone you know is considering adoption, check out www.ichooseadoption.org.
Pre-born
Abortion facility
Abortionist
Commits abortions
Placed with an adoptive family
PRC or Pregnancy Resource Center
Abortion advocates
Abortion lobby
Abortion industry
These words are OUT
Unborn/fetus
Abortion clinic
Abortion doctor or abortion provider
Performs abortions
Given up for adoption
CPC or Crisis Pregnancy Center
Abortion rights
STEP 2: ORGANIZE A
GROUP
Now that youve read up a little on abortion, what should you do?
Start a pro-life student group at your school! You are a key part of winning the
pro-life fight in our nation. More than half of the women obtaining abortions
in America are college and high school aged women.You are on the front lines
of this battle, and you are fighting to protect these young women. By starting
a student group, you can begin to change the culture of your school. A student
group will outlast your years in high school and continue to educate other
students on abortion and save lives, even after you graduate!
Training Videos
Sick of all of this reading?
Check out these short Students for Life of America training videos on online. For more helpful
videos, visit www.youtube.com/user/studentsforlife
Educational Videos
Planned Parenthoods Business Cycle
http://www.plannedparenthoodproject.com
Inspiration:The Tide is Turning Video
http://highschool.studentsforlife.org/success-stories
Inspiration: Megan and Jessica Video
http://www.youtibe.com/watch?v=fkrB7Bb94
Training Videos
Plan Your Year Video and Guide
http://highschool.studentsforlife.org/plan-your-year
Recruiting New Members
http://highschool.studentsforlife.org/recruit-members
Running Effective Meetings
http://highschool.studentsforlife.org/have-more-effective-meetings
Examples of Discrimination
If you are facing any of the above situations, or you suspect you are being discriminated against,
contact Students for Life of American immediately at legalhelp@studentsforlife.org. We
have legal counsel readily available for students to ensure your first amendment rights at your
public school.
Discrimination can include:
Denying approval of your club on any grounds, including but not limited to:
Its too offensive
Its religious
It will disrupt the learning environment
Forcing your group to be a committee in a religious or conservative club instead of its own independent club.
Making your club undergo more approval requirements than other clubs.
Prohibiting your club to participate in the same activities as other clubs, including
Flyering
Tabling
Literature Distribution
Hosting speakers
Fundraising
Silent Day
Restricting you from accessing student activities
funds that are available to other student groups
Rapid Response
If you are experiencing discrimination, please follow the directions below:
Document EVERYTHING!
Keep logs of every conversation you have had with your school officials concerning your club.
Include the date, who was present, and the outcome of the meeting.
Keep any emails sent to you from your administration concerning your club
Photocopy all documents you turn into your administration.
Use a personal email address, not one provided by the school
Always attend meetings with your administration in pairs
You can take a fellow member or your advisor, but always have at least two people representing
your club in every meeting.
If you do not have someone to attend the meetings with you, reschedule.
Ask for the denial in writing
Whether it is for starting your club, hosting an event, or flyering, have the administration give you
their denial in writing. This can be a letter or an email.You can send them a letter or email asking
for permission once again and place a time constraint on the reply. For example:
Dear Mr. Smith,
I have recently inquired about starting a Students for Life club at Jones High School. After some research, I
believe it is well within my first amendment rights to start and facilitate a pro-life club at our public school.
Please, reply in writing to grant or deny our clubs ability to function as an official student group at Jones
High School by August 1st at 3pm. If no reply is given by this date, it will be considered a denial.Thank you
for your time.
Sincerely,
John Doe.
Remember, if you are experiencing discrimination from your public school officials,
contact Students for Life of America immediately at legalhelp@studentsforlife.org.
Events
As a new group, it is important to start engaging your school immediately. Don't wait! The purpose
of your club is to educate your peers and ultimately abolish abortion.You need to visible on at your
school from the get-go a start dialogues about abortion. Here are a few event ideas (listed in the
order we recommend for new groups to have them) that are simple and easy that will help your group
gain momentum:
Flyering campaign - post flyers around your school on a specific theme. For example, basic
abortion statistics, fetal development, or Planned Parenthood's' abortion business.Visit highschool.
studentforlife.org/flyers for pre-made, downloadable flyers you can use! Be sure to add your groups
contact information at the bottom!
Host an Apologetics Training - Ask your Regional Coordinator or a local pro-life leader to come
and teach your group dialoguing skills. It is crucial that your members are comfortable talking to other
students about abortion and they feel prepared to answer the hard questions.
When Does Life Begin?Display - Use a bulletin board, hang a large sheet of paper in a high
traffic area of your hallway, or set up a display during lunch. Draw a line representing fetal development
and fill in descriptions of the baby's growth in the appropriate places. Have a member standing with
the display between classes and during the lunch period. Ask students to put a post-it note by the
stage where they think life begins. Based on their answer, your members can start a dialogue about
the humanity of the pre-born.You can also request SFLAs new Fetal Development Topic Cards to
distribute during this display!
Prayer Vigil/Memorial Service at Local Abortion Facility - Pick a date and time that is
convenient for majority of your members. Drive to the nearest abortion facility and spend a set about
of time in prayer or silent reflection. Use inclusive language so that all members, regardless of religious
affiliations, can participate.
Cupcakes and Trivia - Let's face it, everyone loves cupcakes! Set up a table during the lunch period
and provide free cupcakes to everyone who can answers a question about abortion correctly. Be sure
to have a sign-up sheet and information about your club at the table as well.
Chalking - Ask your school for permission or find public sidewalks and write life-affirming messages
on them! This is a fun and creative way to get students active! Be sure to write contact information
for your local pregnancy center or post-abortive recovery counseling centers.
Volunteer at Your Local Pregnancy Resource Center - Call your local Pregnancy Resource
Center and ask if you can bring a group of students by for a volunteer day. This can include yard work,
office duties, or babysitting!
For more advanced groups, host events like a Cemetery of the Innocents, movie night,
baby shower, diaper drive, and a day of silence! Be sure to attend your local SFLA
Regional Leadership Summit and National Students for Life Conference!
Fundraising 101
Does the idea of fundraising frighten you?
If you answered Yes, thats ok and trust us --- you are not alone. The important thing to remember
is that fundraising isnt nearly as daunting as it seems and truly is a key part of your work to abolish
abortion. You arent begging people for money.You are giving them the opportunity to
work alongside you in the greatest human rights struggle our world has ever known.
There is no sure-fire blueprint to fundraising that says, If you do A, B, and C, then you will raise
$XXX. As mentioned in the SFLA Advanced Strategy Handbook, there are plenty of ways you
can engage in fundraising. Regardless of the type of fundraising you choose to do, the most important
thing you can do is understand and appreciate your donor.
Understanding Donors and Building a Relationship
One thing that makes should make fundraising easier for you is the fact that you arent raising money
for yourself but for an important mission --- to abolish abortion in our lifetime. And, unless your
donor or prospective donor is a family member, the cause is more than likely what is going to get
you that donation.
The good news is that people who care about ending abortion are usually pretty passionate, so its
not too difficult to convince them/sell them on why your group needs money. However, your success
or failure all comes down to how well you make the ask. And how well you make the ask
ultimately comes from how well you know and understand the particular donor you are asking. For
example, asking your school for funding is going to be a lot different than speaking at a church and
asking members to donate.
Everyone you meet is a potential donor. Have a short 1 minute sales pitch that you can
give to anyone who is interested in your group and mission. In this sales pitch, you should be able
to clearly state why your group is needed at your school (majority of abortions are committed on
women your age, the abortion industry targets this generation, etc), what you are trying to do (be
sure to note one success you have had - a peer who converted to pro-life, baby saved, etc), what you
have planned for the upcoming year, and how supporters can help.You need to show that you are
organized/have a plan and can be trusted with money. In addition, you should also have a business
card or something else that you can give to people with basic information about your group and
how to contact you.
When you do find new potential donors or receive a gift from a new donor, put them
into some kind of list. Excel (or a similar spreadsheet program) works the best so you can keep
track of donor contact information, notes about how they became involved with your group, and
donation history.You should note every interaction you have with a donor or donor prospect.
Fundraising 101
One Simple Way to Fundraise: A Calling Campaign
Every member of your group should start by collecting the names, phone numbers,
e-mail addresses and mailing addresses of family and friends. A good place to start is with
your parents Christmas card list. Enter all that information into a spreadsheet and then add two
more columns. In the first additional column, write what you think that person could give to your
group. Double that projection for the second column.
Take time each day over a 3-4 week period to call a few people on your list to ask for a
donation. Write a simple script that you can follow. The purpose of these calls is to ask for money,
so be careful to not get sidetracked too much.
Start by explaining what your group does, why you are important in your school, and
your up-coming event that you need help funding. Then ask for them to donate in the amount
of your doubled projection for that person. Then stop talking! Dont say anything until the person
you just asked responds. If they say Yes, great. Get their information (how would they like to give
- via mail or credit card right away) and move on to your next call. If he or she is unable to make
that donation, ask if they would be able to contribute your original projection. If they say Yes, great.
Get their information and move on. If he or she is unable to do that, thank them for their time and
say you will call again later. Maybe the next time you do a fundraising campaign, they will be able to
donate.
Be prepared to take someones credit card information, so they can donate online right away.
SFLA can set up a free online donation page for your group, just email us at info@studentsforlife.org.
Or have a follow-up package ready to send to the persons home with a thank you letter
and self-addressed, stamped return envelope -reminding them of your call and their pledge to give
$XXX.You want to make things as easy as possible for people to donate.
Record the results of each phone call in your spreadsheet. For example, if someone tells you he
cant donate because his dog is sick (or whatever reason), write that down. Next time you call, ask
him how his dog is. This will help build that personal relationship with the donor. It may also be
helpful for each group member to send their pledge totals every night to your group
treasurer or fundraiser leader, so he or she can keep track of the campaign totals and
continue to motivate the group - showing what you all are accomplishing together.
Be sure to follow up in the same fundraising cycle with people who dont answer or cant give you
an answer the first time you call, but dont call people again who have told you flat-out that they are
unable to donate.
Repeat this process with your whole group 3 or 4 times each year. This may be intimidating
at first, but it truly is the most effective way for your group to fundraise. The more you practice, the
better and more comfortable you will become.
Fundraising 101
Following-Up and Staying in Touch
Following up with donors, those who have pledged to donate, and potential donors is
crucial in building your relationship and increasing your chances of future donations.
If you meet someone at an event and get their information, send them an e-mail this next day just
to say it was nice to meet them. If a person pledges to donate during your calling campaign, make
sure to get the follow-up packet in the mail in the next day. When someone donates to your
group, make sure that you thank them within a few days of receiving the donation. The size of the
gift and your relationship with that donor should dictate whether your follow up is a phone call,
handwritten note, or e-mail thank you.
Add all donors to an e-mail list and send them regular updates, so they can see the
impact your group is making with their investment.
Conclusion
Students for Life of America can help you fundraise by providing sample fundraising letters, calling
campaign scripts, setting up an online donation page for your group, and general advice. Please
dont hesitate to contact us at anytime by e-mailing info@studentsforlife.org.
Topic Cards
(Samples of each card can be found in this Activism Kit.)
We have cards for all the tough topics, and the best part is that you can request any number of them
to hand out at your events, counter demonstrations, use for tabling, etc. Simply e-mail SFLA at
info@studentsforlife.org to order as many as you need!
Order an Event-in-a-Box!
Each month during the school year, SFLA releases a new box for the month, along with resources (flyers, event and speaker suggestions, talking points, and other marketing materials) that your group can
download and use at your school. The monthly boxes are announced in an easy-to-access blogpost
at highschool.studentsforlife.org and all of the school years boxes are posted at highschool.studentsforlife.org/event-in-a-box.