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shadowed by a figure standing in the doorway. Mary is startled and looks up. Because of
the glare of the sun behind him she cant make out his face and she thinks it must be one
of her many male relatives in the village and shes about to greet him when the man
speaks to her in a voice she doesnt recognize, a voice that greets her by name and says,
Greetings, favored one! The Lord is with you!
What? Favored by whom? And who is this talking to me and what does he want?
As if he sensed her fear, the man says
Dont be afraid Mary...
How does he know my name, she wonders?
You have found favor with God.
What God asks of her
You have found favor with God.
There is a great bumper sticker that says, God loves you, but Im his favorite.
What could this mean, that Mary found favor with God? We think today, that means we
get some kind of special blessing - a surprise inheritance, a promotion, a new opportunity.
Something that will be good for us and bring us joy and excitement and security.
Thats not the plan for Mary.
Because the angel goes on:
Listen...and now you will become pregnant...and bear a son...and you will call
him by the name Jesus...and he (this son of yours, Mary) will be reign over
Israel forever and his kingdom will never end.
Well, what do you say to that? A moment of silence passes and Mary blurts out the first
question that naturally pops into her mind - I dont have a husband - how can this be?
Because she doesnt, Mary is engaged to Joseph and their wedding day was still a ways
off and they hadnt - you know - done it - but the angel says you will become pregnant
now, he tells her
The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will
overshadow you; therefore the child to be born will be holy; he will be called Son
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of God.
This was a hard, hard thing God asked of Mary
Mary, of all the young women in Israel, is chosen by God to bring the Son of God into the
world. Its hard to imagine what that would be like, to have the Almighty look down and
zero in on you and choose you for maybe the most important thing every asked of a
human being.
It was a glorious thing God asked, it was a wonderful thing...Mary later sings in the
Magnificat that all generations will call me blessed - and so we have - Mary was known
by the early church by the Greek term Theotokos - God-bearer - but it was also a very,
very hard thing God asked of Mary.
Shes an unmarried teenager in what anthropologists call and honor/shame culture. It
was not acceptable to become pregnant outside of marriage. It brought shame on the
whole family. Youve maybe heard of honor killings that still happen today - that if a
young woman brings dishonor on her family by getting caught having premarital sex and a male member of the family is honor-bound to kill her for it.
And she lives in a small town - you know how small towns are - everybody knows and
nobody forgets - they never let you forget - in the small town where I served my first
church there was a retired elementary school teacher and some of her now-grown students
were in the church - people now in their forties and fifties - and the retired teacher would
confide in me that so and so wasnt very bright growing up, that so and so was quite the
show-off then and now - no, they never let you forget.
And then theres the whole situation with her fianc Joseph. With this pregnancy, the
right thing to do for him would be to repudiate her and the best Mary could hope for is
a cloistered life in her parents house - with a child outside of marriage she could not
hope ever to be married - and the whispers and glares would follow her the rest of her
life.
But as well hear next week when we have a first-person sermon from Joseph - he gets a
visitation too and marries Mary and thats not easy either because when shes almost
ready to birth that baby they have to make the 70-mile trip on foot to Bethlehem and then
after the child is born paranoid King Herod hears of it from the wise men and they flee for
their lives to protect baby Jesus and become refugees in Egypt.
And then after they finally return to Nazareth, everyone knew they had to get married people could count months back then - and maybe there were rumors too, rumors that
were still found in late first-century rabbinical writings, that Jesus was the son of a
Roman soldier who had sex with young Mary.
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For those of us who feel disreputable, or disrespected or broken - well, we have a Savior
who went through the same thing. This is part of the miracle of Christmas - not only that
the Son of God became a real human being - but that he was born a human being of poor,
obscure and of dubious parentage. So we could have a Savior who comes right alongside
us and knows our pain and our struggles, knows what its like to be put down and
despised.
He came down, to raise us up
Jesus came all the way down to the lowest of us, to come alongside us, and take us by the
hand and raise us up.
The disciple John wrote a gospel and at the beginning of it he writes this:
To all who received (Jesus), who believed in his name, he gave power to become
children of God, who were born, not of blood or the will of the flesh or of the will
of man, but of God (John 1:12).
Please here this - Jesus came to save and heal broken, hurting people and make us Gods
children - not give us a long list of rules so we can work ever so hard at being good and
moral and upright boys and girls and somehow earn Gods approval like that of an
emotionally distant parent we could never please.
We too are Christ-bearers
But theres something more. In the hymn were going to sing after the sermon, O Little
Town of Bethlehem, theres a line that goes
Cast out our sin and enter in, be born in us today
Thats talking about God being born in us, too. We have a calling like Mary - to have the
presence of the living Christ grow within us, too.
Or in other words, if you are a follower of the Lord - youre kind of pregnant, too. With
the presence of Christ growing inside you.
Now...I bet you didnt expect to hear that today. Ive never really thought much about
what it would be like to be pregnant - a child growing inside - I mean, guys have no idea and growing a beer gut doesnt count.
Ive read that if men could get pregnant:
- Maternity leave would last two years - with full pay
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