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V RANGANATHAN

NLP Master Practitioner

Motivational Speaker Trainer

CONFIDENT ASSERTIVE COMMUNICATION


In todays highly competitive environ its not just enough to be good at
something. We have to be really good at communicating our abilities to
others as well.
While some of the methods of communicating this ability may be
inanimate web site, email, c v, or letter of recommendation- the really
crucial channel is live and human: how we talk to each other.
The crux of selling ourselves is not only what we communicate but how
we communicate as well.
How effective are we in our communication with those concerned with our
life or the situation we are in? The answer to this question is the indicator
of our success in life.
In fact the quality of our life is the quality of
our communication.
In order for communication to be effective one primary requisite is
our confidence in our ability.
The dictionary meaning of confidence is:
The belief that you can manage successfully.
What is belief anyway?
Belief is simply a thought taken to be true by the individual
So the crux of confident assertive communication is building positive self beliefs - the belief in ones ability to perform, excel,
communicate, succeed & shine.
Belief brings relief

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V RANGANATHAN

NLP Master Practitioner

Motivational Speaker Trainer

ALL GREAT LEADERS ARE POWERFUL COMMUNICATORS


All great leaders are powerful communicators. Their power to
communicate comes from a sense of mission and self worth. They have a
purpose to work for and persistence to get going against odds.

What are the ways to develop a positive self belief like a leader?
The first requisite is a positive self concept.

SELF CONCEPT
SELF CONFIDENCE
SELF IMAGE
SELF ESTEEM

SELF CONFIDENCE IS THE BELIEF IN ONES ABILITY.


SELF IMAGE IS ONES IMPRESSION ABOUT ONESELF.
SELF ESTEEM IS ONES OWN REPUTATION ABOUT ONESELF.
These three qualities are inter-related. Any change in one of these affects
or effects the other two.
So a positive self concept is the first pre-requisite for effective
communication.
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V RANGANATHAN

NLP Master Practitioner

Motivational Speaker Trainer

WAYS to develop POSITIVE ASSERTIVE COMMUNICATION


1. Self Acceptance
2. Appreciating ones uniqueness
3. Stop comparing with others
4. Belief in ones ability
5. Being curious to learn & grow
6. Having an aim in life
7. Overcoming fear of failure
8. Learning from failure.
9. Respecting others
10.Positive attitude
SIX POWERS of CONFIDENT LIVING
1) POWER OF BELIEF
2) POWER OF RESPONSIBILITY
3) POWER OF FOCUS
4) POWER OF COMMITMENT
5) POWER OF ACTION
6) POWER OF ACHIEVEMENT

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vranganathan@vrnlp.com

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