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Abstract
The aim of this study is to investigate the act of apologizing used by males and
females students in order to find out whether there are similarities and
differences between them. The data are having 6 apology situations by using
questionnaires. To analyze the data from all responses, The respondents of
the study are students of English education consisting of 10 males and 10
females. The study reveals that in general, there is no significant difference
between males and females of students of English education in using apologizing
strategy.
Key word : Male, female, Apologizing
1.0 Introduction
To express apology is a common occurrence for people to do since in
their social interaction they cannot avoid for doing wrong. Trosborg (1995)
mentions many ways to express apology called apology strategies such
as by expressing regret, giving explanation, requesting for forgiveness,
the apologizer.
Leech (1983) views apologies as an attempt to redress an imbalance
between the speaker and the addressee created by the fact that the speaker
committed an insult against the addressee. According to him, it is not
enough to apologize; the apology needs to be successful in order for
the hearer to forgive the speaker, and thus reestablish the balance
(pp.104-105).
Owen (1983) limits the concept of apology. According to him apologies
are remedial moves that follow what he calls a "priming move" on the part
of the person who expects the apology, which is a move that triggers the
apology. He restricts the use of the term apology to only those utterances
that actually contain the explicit phrases Im sorry or I apologize and
variants of these. Such a definition would exclude from the start any
indirect ways of apologizing. Owens definition would apply only to
explicit apologies (pp, 62-63).
In the case of apologies, Owen (1983: 63) believes that the use of this
act is restricted in English to the utterances that involve the following:
1- Apology, apologies, or apologize,
2- Sorry,
3- I'm afraid + sentence pro-form.
According to Holmes (1995)
Apologies are:
Hearer-oriented face-supportive acts. Apologies have been seen as
negative politeness strategies aimed at remedying the effects of an offence
or a face-threatening act and restoring social harmony and equilibrium
(p184).
However, because apologies are not the only convivial acts, Trosborg
(1995) states that apology is designed to repair damage in social
interaction. She also adds that:
It coincides with social goal of maintaining harmony between speaker
and hearer. This act is face-saving for the hearer and functions to
diminish friction in interaction. For these
anticipated
that
speakers
would
not
reasons,
hesitate to
it
might
be
issue apologies.
However, as apologies are issued at the cost of the speaker, who often has
Speech
Acts
and
Politeness
The speech act theory is also closely related to the concept of
politeness. Early studies on politeness claim that this concept is universal
(Lakoff, 1973; Brown
& Levinson, 1987). According to Lakoff (1973) there are three main rules of
politeness, namely dont impose, give options, and make [the hearer] feel
good be friendly (p. 298). Lakoff (1990) defines politeness as a set of
"interpersonal relations" (p. 34) aimed at making communication smooth
through keeping the possibility of conflict and confrontation which are innate
in human communication, to the minimum.
Brown and Levinson politeness theory (1987) is the most common
approach. Brown and Levinson regard politeness as a universal phenomenon
found in every culture; such a claim is evidenced by their observation of
similarities in the linguistic strategies employed by speakers of different
languages i.e. different cultures. They propose that an individual's face
motivates strategies of politeness. Brown and Levinson (1987) define face as
the public self-image that every member wants to claim for himself (p. 61).
They distinguish between negative face and positive face. Positive face is the
desire to be liked and appreciated by others. Negative face is the desire not
to be imposed upon, disturbed. Brown & Levinson consider that face is
"something that is emotionally invested, and that can be lost, maintained, or
enhanced, and must be constantly attended to in interaction." (P.61).
both men and women use language to apologize to the same gender and ,also,
to each other).
The literature that deals with the gender effects on language
reveals two contradictory views. The first point of view claims that men
and women speak different languages due to the fact that they are members
of different cultures (Maltz and Borker 1982;Tannen 1990; Gray 1992).
However, the other theory claims that men and women behave in different
ways because this approach puts men as the ones who control and dominate a
conversation. Women then become the ones who are dominated (subordinate).
Furthermore, Maltz and Borker (1982) and Tannen (1990) present the
"difference" approach which is based on the theory of cultural differences
proposed by.
come
Health (asking the state of health) (e.g. Are you all right? I can
3.6 Instrument
The researcher used Questionaire Open ended.
4.0 Fingding and Discussion
4.1 Findings
As it was stated earlier that the aim of this paper was to
investigate the speech act realization used by male and female post
graduate students of English education in situations which required
apologies. The data were collected via Discourse Completion Test to
obtain apologetic responses. The responses from the respondents were
calculated and their frequencies were taken in order to make a
comparison between male and female. The analysis of situations in
which the distribution of the strategies is presented in a table for each
situation as follows:
Table1.
Frequency of the use of apologizing strategies by males and females in
situation 1
Strategie
IFID
REPR
BLAME
Males
N
6
2
1
%
60%
20%
10%
Females
N
5
2
1
%
50%
20%
10%
T
able 2.
Frequency of the use of apologizing categories by males and females in
situation 2
Strategie
IFID
REPR
BLAME
Males
N
4
2
1
%
40%
20%
10%
Females
N
2
3
0
%
20%
30%
0
to be
careful?) was only employed by males (10%) while none of females used
these categories.
T
able 3.
Frequency of the use of apologizing categories by males and females in
situation 3.
Strategie
IFID
REPR
BLAME
Males
N
1
2
1
%
10%
20%
10%
Females
N
0
2
1
%
0
20%
10
Situation 1 was about being late. The table 1 above reveals that the most
common category used by both males and female is IFID (e.g Im sorry, I
got a traffic jam) only one male used it (10%). The second place was
occupied by REPR (e.g It is my mistake) was same for both genders (20%).
The second place was occupied by BLAME (e.g if you get up must on time )
was only employed by females (10%) and employed by males (10%)
while none of females used these categories.
T
able 4.
Frequency of the use of apologizing categories by males and females in
situation 4.
Strategie
IFID
REPR
IFID + RESP
Males
N
2
0
1
%
20%
0
10%
Females
N
3
1
1
%
30%
10%
10%
Males
N
6
%
60%
Females
N
6
%
60%
IFID + BLAME 1
10%
0
0
EXPL + IFID
1
10%
0
0
Situation 5 was about personal insult. Table 5 explains that all
respondents used IFID and its combination regarded this situation. IFID and
EXPL (e.g Sorry, I didnt mean to be like that. Its misunderstanding)
preference was higher used by males (60%) and females (60%). Categories
of IFID + BLAME (e.g. Sorry, oh come on. Dont be too sentimental)
used by 10% of male. ( I didnt mean to insult you. Please dont get me
wrong) were used individually by males (10%) while EXPL + IFID.
T
able 6.
Frequency of the use of apologizing categories by males and females in
situation 6.
Strategie
IFID
IFID + EXPL
EXPL + IFID
Males
N
3
6
0
%
30%
60%
0
Females
N
2
1
0
%
20%
10%
0
situation #1, #2, #3, #5, and #6 both gender used IFID categories with high
percentage. The data shows that in situation, #5, and #6 both gender almost had
high similar percentage for the use of IFID + EXPL categories. Generally
they had similar tendency in using IFID + EXPL categories in those
situations. Both gender used the categories in order to lessen their guilty of
the offence so they mostly used explanation to tell the situation they faced at
the time. In term of the usage of single IFID category, both gender also used it
in situations #1, #3, #4, and #6.
1999;1059) IFIDs are the categories which are the most conventionalized and
routinized, being as it were in the center of the speech act category of
apologizing and representing verbal routines.
The next category mostly used by both gender was REPR (an offer of
repair or
compensation for the damage)
Though in general they had similar tendency in using the REPR category, but
the appearance was not the same frequency in each of the situation. For
instance, in situation #2 males used the category more than females. It is line
with what Holmes (1995) states regarded to situation #2 describing about
Dropping friends motorcycle that males were concerned by inconvenience
which cost another person money, and offences which result in damaging
anothers possession. Thus, males preferred to use REPR category as a
form of responsibility to pay the damage e.g. Brother sorry Im not deliberate
drop your motocycle.
It is contrast with situation #4 describing about spilling over the softdrink
toward an elderly ladys blouse in which females used REPR more frequent
than males. Females response regarded this situation was that they mostly
used REPR (an offer of repair or compensation for the damage) e.g. Oh, Im
so sorry.let me help you to clean it up.
genders used the categories in order to lessen their guilty of the offence
so that they mostly used explanation to tell the situation they faced at
the time.
(2) For some extents, females tended to use EXL! (expressing surprise).
It might happen
because females are more expressive
than males.
(3)
3. Examining apology using oral responses which will bring into focus
supra segmental factors like tone.
4. Comparing other types of speech acts that might cause misunderstanding
or present the speaker as impolite like requesting.
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Appendix
Discourse Completion
Test
Read these shorts descriptions of each situation; write the responses in the spaces
provided.
1. What will you do if you spiil drinking water of someone ?
Male : sorry i am not deliberate spiil your grinking water, because of that done put
you water in aniplace.
Female : sister i am sorry i am not deliberate spiil your drinking water, i can buy
another one.
2. What will you do if you dropping motoecycle of someone.?
Male : sorry brother i am not deliberate to droppe your motorcycle.
Female : sorry sister i am not deliberate to droppe motorcycle, i will repair your
motorcycle.
3. What will you do if you come late?
Male : Im sorry, I got a traffic jam
Female : it is my mistake
4. What will you do spilling over the softdrink toward an elderly ladys blouse
Male : Sorry, the floor is slippery
Female : Im sorry . Ill take tissues for cleaning it
5. What will you do if you insult someone feeling ?
Male : I didnt mean to insult you. Please dont get me wrong
Female : Sorry, oh come on. Dont be too sentimental
6. What will you do about stepping out on someones foot
Male : I do apologize brother, I didnt mean to. Im in a hurry
Female : i am sorry.