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In the name of Allah

This document is done by me  , nothing is

copied from the internet.
Thanks to Allah first for everything . I am glad
that I had a chance to meet such a nice people
and they really inspired me to write all this.

My appreciation to Dr. Amal Qutayshat who

helped me a lot and encouraged me to keep this
up.

May Allah bless us

Hope you find it interesting & helpful

.. the author ..

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A lot of people asked me that almost all the time why why why ,
so I replied them with this strong answer…
Why do Muslims have more than one wife?
To marry more than one wife is allowed under specific
circumstances if not followed ,the husband deserves Allah's
curse on him because he trespassed his right and so what he
thought to be a "bless" or an advantage , will be turned to be
accurse on him. There one specific rules mentioned in the holy
Qura'an restricting marrying more than wife they are:
1- Physical ability:
To be able to do sexual intercourse with his wives fairly without
neglecting one of them.
2- Financial ability:
He have to pay attention to the financial ability, (i.e.): In Islam
the husband is responsible of all his family needs including his-
wives & children's need-even if the wife is rich or having a job,
she isn't supposed to pay any expenses regarding to the living
expenses .if she want to help her husband it's up to her but it's
not obligatory, because it is her right that the husband pay all
the expenses from health-care, food, education...etc.

Poly marriage is legislated in Islam as a solution for problems

such as, when couples find out another alterative for avoiding
divorce. There are certain circumstances when marriage doesn't
work properly and couples find themselves to break up their
relationship. Islam abhors divorce and Islam gives a chance for
the couples to keep their family from being broken. The
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husband offers to his wife the alternative of staying with her

kids and take care of them but he will marry another wife. Thus,
they have a chance for their marriage continuity for the save of
the children. That means ,the couples will have a chance to
review their mistakes and correct them.

Second marriage is also considered as away of avoiding

illegal relationship((adultery)).in Islam relationship between
women and men is organized under the dignified rules of
marriage .If a married man find him self attracted to another
woman and felt that he is in love with her, Islam only accept
marriage as away to have any affair with woman where both
their dignity are highly appreciated neither shame nor disgrace
is brought on both of them ,because she will be the second wife
who have the same right of his first wife.

However, Islamic society until these days still degrade people

who have their affair outside marriage and look low on them
and considered as an outcast .such affairs, if available, will be
hidden and done in secret because they know that they are
violating their religion rules and considered as sinners.

Third, for certain cases with man who have an excessive sexual
nature and feel that one wife is not enough to fulfill his sexual
duties, he has the right to marry a second wife to fulfill his
desires within the lawful legislation of marriage.

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Here is Ronny's question , a 39 years old American guy, he likes

to read A lot and I mean it :)
Once he was reading Saudi Gazette newspaper which I hate it a
lot because of it's bad news that show our Saudi society in some
other fake way. anyway, he read about that Saudi teenager who
was flirting girls in the mall and Motaw'as as the newspaper
reported lashed him ….so he asked this Question.
Why Mota'was lashes people? even teenagers in 18years old?((
jail them but don’t hurt them))!!
This isn't the real situation for Mota'was. Their job not to lash
people. Their role to observe the public places: markets,
shopping centers and malls. They interfere only if they observe
any one who tries to violate the stability of the order or abuse
women by directing obscene words or actions to them. Under
such circumstances, they arrest him((even if he is 18years
old))and he will be taken to the center where he has to sign a
document declaring that he will never do such shameful act
again. If he repeated this action again after his signature of this
document, he will be exposed to the suitable punishment
according to the act he has committed .((by the way Mota'was
are only in K.S.A , which is the only Islamic state that practice
the Islamic law of guiding people by law, to avoid any shameful
act by the authority of law)).Other Islamic countries don't
interfere in these issues and let having security to the police .
Mota'was are only concerned with violation of moral codes not
with political or social disorder has another force which is
responsible of keeping it. Morals in Islam is something must
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be put in the TOP of priorities of any Islamic countries specially

in Saudi Arabia.

Also lots of non-Muslims asked me this Question , all of us

know the answer and here it is …by the way, they used to make
fun of Muslim ladies "they don't know the reality of Hejab and
Niqab , they see us as Batman" lol
Why do women cover's their bodies from head to toe, while
they already wearing good clothes under their-Abayas-,and why
they hide their beauty that God gave them? It's wasting for time
& money!!
As I said earlier, morals should be guarded and there is one way
to ensure that moral order is to obey the Islamic rules that
organize the well order and moral aspect of human life. In
Islam, woman's dignity is asserted and one way to obtain it is to
protect her from any harm. One way to ensure that the dignity of
women is partly done by the woman her self. Women are asked
to wear respectful dresses that covers her beauty. The form of
the dress is varied in some countries, they wear ((Abaya))as"
long cloak" ,in other Islamic countries they wear jacket, shirts
and long-maxi-skirts. The style it self is not important, what
matters is that it should cover the whole body. In Saudi Arabia "
the whole body " but in other Islamic countries they cover the
whole body " except the face & hands " The reason why women
have to cover their beauty is that not to arise the desires of men
and then blaming them if they violate the moral rules.
In Islam the responsibility is moral for both men & women.
While men are asked not to abuse women in any way , women
on the other hand are asked to cover their beauty. Women are
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only allowed to uncover their veil and wear the personal dress
without veil only in the presence of their parents, brothers,
husband ,but other men are not allowed to see women in the
personal dress, they can only see them in the perfect Islamic
dress. Because women's body is not commodity or something of
a low degree. It is kept away from the eyes of intruders who
have no right to see any woman except their wives. It's not a
waste for money. Because I can buy address for a wedding party
in which most of my body appeared ,but I should not allowed
any foreign men to see me except my husband. Islam doesn't
prevent me to wear fashionable dresses, but Islam organize how
and where to wear them. I can wear any thing in front of women
in the party and because of that Islam prevented Muslims to
have parties were men & women are sitting in the same place.
The ladies are celebrating with the bride, and men are
celebrating with the bridegroom . At the end of the party the
groom takes his bride and leave to the hotel or to their home.
So, there is no waste of time or money. We can enjoy our time
with a great freedom when we are alone, away from men.

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My friend Vlada from Serbia asked me this one :)

What is the answer for people who believe that Islam and
Qura'an are made up and they are just a copy from the Bible and
Christianity?
As Muslims we believe in other religions . We don't deny other
religions, on the other hand we believe that Allah((God)) has
sent many prophets to inform his message to people among
them Jesus, Moses, Abram …etc.
Mohammad is the last messenger with the holy book Qura'an
the final divine message to humanity. We believe that all the
holy books old testament & Bible are from one source= Allah.
And Allah sent many books because people kept changing their
books . He sent Bible and when Christians changed and altered
their books and mixed them with monks speeches Allah sent
Prophet Mohammad to correct the things that they changed such
as trinity and their making of Prophet Jesus as a son of Allah-
God-not as a messenger. Thus the claim that Islam and the Holy
Qura'an are just copies from the Bible is not Thus the claim that
Islam and the Holy Qura'an are just copies from the Bible is not
valid .Because Qura'an came to correct these mistaken
informations. Islam is monotheism here the belief that no God
but Allah and Mohammad as well as other prophets or
messengers not considered in any way as sons of Allah. Allah
doesn't have a son or a wife. This is the main contradiction
between Islam & Christianity. Then , how can you consider

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Islam as a copy of Christianity with such a great

contradictions!!!

Again Ronny's question==he loves Pork although he know its

forbidden even for Christians .
Why Pork is banned in Islam?
Islam banned certain foods & drinks for all people because
Allah is the creator who has the ultimate knowledge. He knows
every thing, he know what is good for man's body and what is
harmful. Among things banned for all people are drinking
Alcohol & eating pork.
Allah told us that we shouldn't eat or drink them because of
their damaging influence on both human physical and
psychological nature. When Prophet Mohammad narrated what
Allah asked them to do, they immediately broke their jars that
they used to keep wine in , an immediate expression of
obedience & submission to Allah's order. Now after 1428 years-
after the Hijrah-, many scientific researches proved that both
Alcohol and pork are harmful to human being in both health and
mind. As Muslims, we don't questions the reason, why they are
banned!!!! simply because we know that Allah who creates us
guides us to our well-being and attempt to take us away from
any thing that harm us. This is something believed by all
Muslims in all over the world. I'm not saying that all Muslims
are good Muslims, some Muslims doesn't listen to Allah's orders
and still eat and drink banned things.

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Ahhhhhh, Indian people-Hindu- believe in Cows but not God,

kept asking me this question :S

Give a scientific theory that Allah is exist-logical explanation

for that-?
As Muslims we believe that Allah is exist deep down in our
hearts, we don’t need any scientific proof to believe so.But
concerning your question the ultimate evidence of the existence
of Allah is the highly organized order universe in which
everything goes according to a system. Even human body
contains many secrets which tells that there is a great power that
organize every thing. So those who deny the existence of God
are mistaken because every thing around you tells that Allah is
there. There are many things that couldn't seen but we feel their
power. For example: the wind. Our sense as human being can't
see it but we feel it's power when the tree move. Human mind it
self is another evidence of Allah existence. We don't see the
difference between stupid & intelligent person mind, but every
one's action denotes his degree of intelligence. So, if we don't
see Allah that doesn't mean that Allah is not exist. Another
evidence that Qura'an is the word of Allah, is that Qura'an
contains many information christen, scientific , geographic , that
recently some of them discovered though Qura'an was sent
many years ago by Prophet Mohammad who was illiterate. How
could a person who doesn't know even how to read to report
incidents about events happened decades before him and
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predicts the happening of some events. After his death( which

really happened as he described), unless if this Prophet

was told these informations from Allah Almighty. For example

there are many verses from the Holy Qura'an that science
discovered recently but they were told by the illiterate prophet,
(e.g.): the stage of the parental existence stage of the baby
during pregnancy, the creation of the skies and the seas. Many
informations about human body it self, advices for humans to
eat certain food & to avoid others. All these informations which
were mentioned in the Qura'an are logical evidences that it is
impossible to consider a man such as Prophet Mohammad who
was illiterate to copy them from other sources. God's choice of
Prophet Mohammad as illiterate is a means by which Allah
wants to tell people not to suspect the message that Prophet
Mohammad has been chosen to report to people.

For Christians:::

What is the different between God and Jesus?

There is a big different between God & Christ. In Islam Allah is
the creator and sent many messengers and Prophet to guide
people to the correct way. The good of man's creation is to
worship Allah and to glorify him. Jesus (Issa in Arabic) is one
of the prophets whom Allah has sent to people to inform his
message to people. In Islam, Jesus is a miracle in his creation,
he is the word of Allah for Mary bore him by an order from
Allah ((Be)) and pregnancy took place without any sexual act.
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Just a word from Allah. He is not Allah's Son ,as Christians

says, he is a miracle of Allah's ability to create anything the

way he like. Islam came to correct the falsification regarding the

Christians claims regarding Jesus that he is God's son and the
crucifixion. In Islam, we deny that Jesus is crucified or hanged.
We are informed in a complete verse in the Holy Qura'an that
Allah doesn't have any wife or son & that Jesus is his prophet"
not a son". When people wanted to kill him, we believe that
Allah interferes and protect him from their harm. He brings him
up to the sky and only he will be back. When the world is about
to reach it's end , when chaos and disorder dominate the whole
universe. It's then "In Islam" that Allah will send Jesus again to
life to bring back stability and disorder. After that he will die
like the other prophets who preceded him. I advice you to read
the translated copy of the Holy Qura'an when Allah mentioned
many verses correcting the falsification among people regarding
Jesus. This is one of major different between Islam &
Christianity .

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The End of all the Questions

What do you think ??

If you have any non-Muslim friends you can copy all these
questions and ask him/her to read
Just treat people in a very good way to show that Islam
is a good religion and in this way you are serving YOUR
ISLAM

May Allah bliss us and shower us with His forgiveness and

Blessings
& always make Dua'a for me ^_^

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