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HACER AHORA:
Read the two brief articles below and answer the questions that follow.
The Meaning of Family
Rebecca M. Cuevas De Caissie
Through all my travels thus far one of the things that seems to stand out to me the most
is the difference in perspective of Hispanic on family as opposed to other cultures.
Family in the Hispanic Culture is the center of our existence. We have a strong sense of
self that really is derived from our family and we embrace that. Within the Hispanic
Culture life's events are a time of family. We celebrate and suffer as a family. Children
are not looked upon as a burden that needs thinking and sacrifice to have. They are
looked upon as a blessing and something to be sought after and cherished. The same is
to be said of elders. They are like precious gems that everyone loves and adores as
opposed to someone who weighs down society and have little value. There is always
time for family, which in the Hispanic Culture may be said to be the true heartbeat of
who we really are.
What does it mean to come from a Hispanic Family? To know that from the day we are
born until the day we return to the womb as it were, we are treasured and valued. That
all the days of our life we belong and have meaning. To know that you are not burdening
your children as you age but that taking care of you gives them the same pleasure that
you found in taking care of them. To know that your head will always be lain in the
bosom of family and never in the hard cold embrace of strangers. To know that all the
days of your life will be filled with the pleasure and laughter that true love can only
bring. To look around you at the familiar faces and find peace and acceptance no matter
what the losses you face or the riches you gain. To know that along the path of life, each
step was anticipated, desired, accepted and shared. Yes it may be true that we do not
appear to be as individual and ambitious as those around us. Yes it is true also that we
may seem simple and easy going. What it also means is that deep in our inner most
being, we have embraced and come to peace through the knowledge that in family we
always have a place. That is our strength and the main reason why even though we have
colonized, for lack of a better term, other societies, we have never lost our culture. It is
the reason why we prosper against the odds that face us. It is the very reason why we
have the ability to come to a land with not but a shirt on our backs and find a way to
make a place that resembles home. It is because we remember the faces of our family.
We remember the ways of our family. We stay together as a family and help one another
to remember who we are. We are Hispanics, living amongst those who do not yet
understand who we are, but we do, thanks to our family.
QUESTIONS:
1. How important does the author feel family is to Hispanic culture?
2. How does the idea of family in Hispanic culture compare to your own idea of family?
Profa. Harcrow Ballou SHS Spring 2009. Spanish II Midterm Family
Album Project. Day 1
3. Do you think that having a strong sense of family is a good thing? Or is family more of
a burden than it is a support system?
I remember being in grade school and learning about family structures. Mine was like the
nuclear family in the textbook picture -- a mom, dad, brother and sister.
Grandparents are raising grandchildren. Aunts and uncles take in nieces and nephews.
Single women are raising children on their own, and so are single men.
I was talking to some of my friends about the definition of "family." A lot of them said the
same thing: a family is a group of people who love one another.
Almost all of them said they consider their friends as family members.
Church congregations call each other brothers and sisters. That's a family, too.
A family isn't having a dad at the head of the table with an apron-wearing mom taking a
meatloaf out of the oven as two kids finish their homework. It could be a grandfather
walking his grandkids from school or a friend driving a single mom-to-be to the hospital
to give birth.
A family is love.
QUESTIONS:
4. What is the “traditional” view of a nuclear family?
6. What does family mean to you? Do you agree that family is love? Or is family
something else?
Profa. Harcrow Ballou SHS Spring 2009. Spanish II Midterm Family
Album Project. Day 1
Concept of Family
According to the article, how does the Hispanic community view family?
How do you think the community of which you belong (Ballou or otherwise) views family?
To what view is your family most similar? (to the “Hispanic” culture view of family, to the
Ballou community’s view of family, to the “traditional” view of a nuclear family)
4. If you are on task this week in class and receive at least 80% for classwork,
behavior and participation what will your reward be?
8. How many of “the favorites” do you have to write about your family members?
9. How many family members must you profile in your Family Album?
13. If you meet all the requirements, will you get a 100?
14. Where can you find resources if you do not know the answer to a questions
for your Family Album? (List all 5)