Men are in charge of women, as Allah has made one of
them superior to the other. and then goes on to say .the women from whom you fear disobedience, (at first) advise them and (then) do not cohabit with them, and (lastly) beat them How can someone inferior have equal rights? Doesnt the very fact of being superior confer that person with a few more privileges and rights than the person claimed to be inferior? Can we then say that the superior is equal to the inferior? Dr. Naik conveniently fails to mention this verse since that would totally contradict and consequently nullify his statement about the equality of men and women in Islam. Can Dr. Naik show me a similar verse in the Quranwhich instructs women to beat or admonish their husbands for disobedience or for improper conduct ? And men are equal to women?
Verse 2:228 has this to say about divorced
women
Divorced women shall wait concerning themselves for
three monthly periods. Nor is it lawful for them to hide what Allah Hath created in their wombs, if they have faith in Allah and the Last Day. And their husbands have the better right to take them back in that period, if they wish for reconciliation. And women shall have rights similar to the rights against them, according to what is equitable; but men have a degree (of advantage) over them. And Allah is Exalted in Power, Wise. Now how does this verse figure in the gender equality equation when husbands have the right to take their wives back and men have a degree of advantage over women? According to Sunni custom, men have the right to divorce their wives by uttering Talaq 3 times and in most Islamic societies men have a much easier task in initiating divorce than women. All verses in the Quran pertaining to divorce are implicitly or explicitly addressed to men and gives them a clear advantage in such matters. And Yes, Allah is Merciful and Just !!
According to Sharia law, daughters are allotted only half
the inheritance of sons (Verse4:11). Allah commands you concerning your children; the sons share is equal to that of two daughters. The Quran decrees that a womans testimony in court, at least in financial matters, is worth half that of a mans (Verse 2:282)...then if two men are not available, one man and two women from those you would prefer to be witnesses, so that if one of them forgets, the other can remind her. Narrated Abu Said Al-Khudri: The Prophet said, Isnt the witness of a woman equal to half of that of a man? The women said, Yes. He said, This is because of the deficiency of a womans mind. Women in majority of Islamic societies cannot lead a mixed congregration in prayer (Salat) and prayer rooms for men and women are separate in most mosques. Under Sharia, or Muslim law, compensation for the murder of a woman is half the going rate for men (remember verse 2:178 does not speak about compensation but retribution). Although a cultural aspect, most Islamic societies prohibit Muslim women from marrying non-muslims but. Muslim men do not have such stringent rules to follow. According to muslim scholars and sharia law, muslim women are not allowed to travel without a male escort (mahram) and their movement is generally restricted. And can we still say that men and women are equal in Islam? In Islam ONLY men can have multiple spouses but not women. The following points enumerate the reasons why polyandry is prohibited in Islam: 1. If a man has more than one wife, the parents of the children born of such marriages can easily be identified. The father as well as the mother
can easily be identified. In case of a woman
marrying more than one husband, only the mother of the children born of such marriages will be identified and not the father. Islam gives tremendous importance to the identification of both parents, mother and father. Psychologists tell us that children who do not know their parents, especially their father undergo severe mental trauma and disturbances. Often they have an unhappy childhood. It is for this reason that the children of prostitutes do not have a healthy childhood. If a child born of such wedlock is admitted in school, and when the mother is asked the name of the father, she would have to give two or more names! I am aware that recent advances in science have made it possible for both the mother and father to be identified with the help of genetic testing. Thus this point which was applicable for the past may not be applicable for the present. 2. Man is more polygamous compared to a woman.
by
nature
as
Men maybe more promiscuous by nature, however I
havent come across any biologically conclusive evidence to suggest that men are more polygamous/promiscuous than women. But does that mean we should allow men to do what they please and keep women under bounds. What sort of fairness would that be? Applying that same logic, we can say that since men are physically stronger than women, men should be allowed to use more physically hardhanded and abusive tactics to resolve conflicts with women. Would that make it right? Such sexist statements show clearly the hidden agenda and prejudices of Islamic scholars who propagate such methods. 3. Biologically, it is easier for a man to perform his duties as a husband despite having several wives. A woman, in a similar position, having several husbands, will not find it possible to perform her duties as a wife. A woman undergoes several psychological and behavioral changes due to different phases of the menstrual cycle. Men are also more capable physically and financially to provide for more wives and children. That is a baseless remark with no scientific proof or precedence. In an age when we see increasing number of women in the leadership positions in politics, science/technology, industry and education women who manage their duties as well as men or better such narrow-minded biased opinions are a reflection of the bigotry and brainwashing of fundamentalist Islamic scholars who refuse to concede their positions in the face of overwhelming evidence to the contrary. These are claims made with only one goal to keep women subjugated and subservient to men. According to financial times a site in UK (posted February 20, 2015 6:57 pm). The number of women with an income of more than 1m a year in the UK is growing three times faster than the number of male million-earners.Gary Robins, a director at Radius Equity, said: Its very encouraging to see the number of top earning women expanding so quickly. The fact that this is for both higher rate taxpayers and those with an income of 1m highlights the growing success of all UK businesswomen, not just the elite. However, there is a long way to go to close what remains a significant gender divide when it comes to wealth creation. 4. A woman who has more than one husband will have several sexual partners at the same time and has a high chance of acquiring venereal or sexually transmitted diseases which can also be transmitted back to her husband even if all of them have no extra-marital sex. This is not the
case in a man having more than one wife, and
none of them having extra-marital sex. What?! He cant be serious can he. Its just moronic logic and I am sure this was not the reason for prohibiting polyandry in 7th century Arabia, when such diseases were hardly known. Even though women may be more prone to certain types of STDs, that doesnt mean men are immune to STDs. How is high chance and low chance of getting a disease any justification for indulging in multiple sexual partners? What are probabilities and statistics have to do with justification for an act ? Can we say that since men are more prone to developing liver cancer, men should not be allowed to eat fatty or sugary food? Just
making nonsense claims using fallacious logic to justify
or prohibit an act is a sign of bigotry or even quackery. 5. There are more women than men. Hence man can have more wives. World sex ratio of women to men as updated by the UN Department of Economic and Social Affairs last March 2015 is actually 98. 33% which actually translates that there are more men than women. (statistictimes) Philippine population as of today 2;47PM (countrymeter) 51 775 195 Male while there are only 51 468 955 Females... There are 306 240 more males than females.