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Sadia Dehlvi
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dilbert
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Human Evolution
Human evolution has
two steps from being
somebody to being
nobody;and from being
nobody to being everybody.
This knowledge can bring
sharing and caring
throughout the world.
No kidding
Childless people rejoice! Having kids is over-rated. I didnt realise
that until this past Sunday when i accidentally Googled Sheetal
Mafatlals mom and CBSE results and read about all the stress
i had unwittingly avoided just by not reproducing. And if that
wasnt enough my own bff whatsapped to let me know that while
on holiday with her two bundles of joy one lost its cellphone and
the other lost its iPad. My friend, we can safely assume, has since lost her mind
but i still have mine. Know why? Yes! Its because i dont have kids.
Look, as a no-kid person i wouldnt make such a big deal of my lifestyle if all
you pro-kid people left us alone. But you guys wont. Every day millions of women
between the ages of 21and 45 have to listen to you tell us how amazing having kids
is and if we show any doubt in your conviction you quickly tell us that of all the
things in life you regret your kids are most certainly NOT one of them. Except my
bff of course who is now two digital devices down and regrets everything.
But coming back to my carefree life and me i am left with no choice but to
tom-tom the joys of not-motherhood because someone has to. Take
heart my childless comrades sure we dont get to celebrate Mothers
Day but then we dont have to celebrate Parents Day either, an event
that forces parents to tolerate not only the limitations of their own
childs talents but those of other peoples kids as well. As an aunt let me tell you
that sitting through bff s son perform his entire repertoire of animal sounds
over and over again is one thing, watching the child of the most irritating
parent on the PTA sing badly would be quite another.
But even so in 2016 it still feels like the only acceptable reason for childlessness is being single, in which case having a child would freak everyone out good
and proper, or being biologically unable to bear fruit. The idea that a woman
may choose to remain childless and have no regrets hasnt even crossed anyones mind. Possibly because they are figuring out what to do with a 65% in
Chemistry or searching for an iPhone. But i promise you i have no regrets. None.
I am a woman who doesnt have kids, doesnt want them and doesnt regret any
of it. Other peoples kids, like their high heels, are more fun anyway.
Modi In Iran
OF IDEAS
Uday Deb
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