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conversely males were with women younger. In addition, those that had
divorced tended to marry someone on average 5 years younger.
Although these pieces of evidence suggest innate preferences for signals of
fertility critiques have argued that this is in fact due to social power.
According to this the reason men always seek younger females is because
they are easier to control and the reason that women seek older men with
resources is traditionally women have been the lower earner and therefore
need these qualities in a male. However, this has also been criticized by
Kendrick who said it does not explain why teenage boys are attracted to
women on average 5 years older than themselves. This again would be better
explain by Darwins theory of sexual selection as they are more likely to be
responding to signs of fertility rather than power and control
Supporting evidence is also shown from Clark and Hatfield who got
experimenters to approach males and females on a college campus. They
asked various college students if they would have sex, go back to their
apartment or go on a date with the experimenter. This found that the 50%
females would go on a date, but none would go back to their apartment or
have sex. Where as 50% of males would go on a date, 69% would go back to
the apartment, and 75% would have sex. The fact that only 50% of women
said they would go on a date shows that they wish for the security and
financial support a man could provide, not just his sperm. They would want
commitment not just casual sex. With 75% of males stating that they would
have sex shows that they want to impregnate her then move on. An issue
with this study is that there would be individual differences, as some
participants may not have taken the study seriously, or they may not have
found the experimenter attractive and so may have said no due to this. This
study shows that men aim to make more offspring but women just want
commitment and security. The answers may not be representative as the
study is historically biased due to it being carried out in 1989. Sex now occurs
more casually and is now accepted a lot more.
As you can see the theory and evidence suggests a strong gender alpha bias.
This is because it suggests that all males are concerned with partaking in
casual sex whereas women are not as it presents no adaptive benefits and
women are much choosier. This is clearly not true as it ignores that fact that
without willing females men would be unable to partake in such behaviours.
Greiling and Buss suggest that short term mating can also be beneficial for
woman as it helps them to seek out the strongest genes, gain a variety of
genes and also possibly leave a poor quality long term mate. Furthermore,
evidence via self-reports has also suggested that 14% of the population are
the result of an extra-marital affair (Baker and Bellis). The theory clearly
needs to be extended to fully account for the short term sexual behaviour of
women.
An further issue with sexual selection is that its reductionist, as it is stating
that everyones choice in mate is based on innate factors. There could be
other factors, which could cause someone to like their partner, as it is not all
down to appearance and wealth. Similarly it is heterosexual bias, as it does
not take into account homosexual couples. This would be a weakness, as it
does not provide an explanation for people to be in a relationship with the
same sex person. This also would not offer a reason for people who are
infertile, or couples who do not want to have children. This theory suggests
you are only in the relationship to find the best possible partner, to parent
your children.
This theory is also deterministic as it suggests that all men and women are
going to cheat on their partner at some point in the relationship. Not all
couples cheat on each other so this would not be true. This theory also offers
an excuse for people to cheat on their partner. According to this, we would
mate with someone who is physically attractive. However, this ignores the
role of free will. Rather there are other possible factors for choosing a mate,
such as personality. The social learning theory has a major role in shaping
human reproductive behaviour as the media, for instance, portrays males as
sexually promiscuous, and so it is likely that this behaviour is imitated.