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But how about the times we have actually taken time to relax, and be
happy and fulfilled with our simple and complex life moments?
Probably not as easy to list…
However you define it, life has been full of storms most of us have
had to successfully navigate through lately. I just learned, for
example, that I need a cane at age 50 to continue to successfully
adapting to a lifelong physical disability known as Cerebral Palsy.
Relaxation Techniques
An important lesson to learn is that the stress response happens
naturally — we don’t consciously turn it on or off. And that’s a good
thing, because it helps us get things done.
When you are ready, count backward from 10 to 1 and open your
eyes.
Most people find that it does. Here’s why: Your mind doesn’t
necessarily know the difference between the actual experience and
your memory of it — so your body responds in the same way.
The Power of Suggestion:
Try this: For the next 30 seconds, don’t think of an elephant. Think
of anything else, but don’t think about an elephant.
In the previous exercise, you called to mind your favorite place and
doing something you enjoy. You followed a suggestion. You can
use this to help you take a shortcut to relaxing. Here’s how:
Deep Breathing:
Changing how you breathe can help you relax, and increase your
energy and regulate your emotional state
• Holding your breath, or shallow breathing (mostly from
your chest), triggers the stress response.
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• Breathing from your diaphragm (diaphragmatic or
abdominal breathing) turns off the stress response and engages
the relaxation response.
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That’s why deep breathing is an effective tool all by itself. You can
also pair it with other techniques to help you relax ever further.
– Headaches
– Backaches
– Neck and Shoulder Pain
– Illnesses
By paying attention to your body and posture, you can tell whether
you have extra tension in your body. Ask yourself:
To find out, this method can help you pinpoint areas of stress in
your body. Here’s how:
Pinpoint stress ― here’s how:
• Sit in a comfortable upright position with your back
straight
but not rigid.
• Close your eyes and practice deep breathing.
and
neck muscles. Squeeze your forehead, eyes, lips and neck muscles for
few seconds, then completely release as you exhale.
• Move down your body by clenching your shoulder and arm
Meditation:
With both types of meditation, you need to train your mind. If your
mind begins to wander, you must coax it back to the focus of your
meditation. And although meditation can help nearly everyone, it is
important to understand some basic elements to choose the form
that works best for you.
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easy to repeat.
• Focus on your breathing. Feel your abdomen expand and
Yoga:
There are many different types of yoga, but all share basic elements
— rhythmic breathing, meditation and stretching postures (called
asanas). The most common form of yoga is hatha yoga — a series
of gentle movements that can be tailored to your abilities.
Mindfulness Meditation
Please remember, as I finally did, that life is more than just stress and
anxiety. These responses can dominate us if we are not careful. By
using such relaxation techniques, you’ll find your life much more
fulfilling and you’ll be even more successful. It will, then, be less
about your daily stress balancing act and more about total life
fulfillment.
I look forward to talking with you again next week. Take care my
friends…