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ANNIHILATION
METHOD
INTRODUGTION
l'm notgoingto tellyoutoo muchaboutmy
Thankyouall for readingandwatching.
background,
becauseit'sall in my book.What I will tell you is that I wentfrom the
world'sworstAFC to the world'sgreatestpickupartistin abouttwo years.And I believe
go aboutit right.
cando that...ifthey
thatanyonelistening
PART I
A lot of you haveheardof the AnnihilationMethod.I calledit the Annihilationl\ilethod
becauseI wantto builda newyou thatwill annihilateall competitors.
Thetwo biggest
clich6sof datingadviceare:
- Just be yourself...shouldbe yourbestself
And
-
Be confident...whichis impossible
withoutsuccess.Successbreedsconfidence.
going
We're
to learnhowto havesuccess.
.
.
.
.
.
LOOKS
Money
Intelligence
Personality
Character
Statusand Prestige
PART II
let'sdiscusshowto learn.
Beforewe get to the annihilation,
WhatSeparatesa ChumpFroma Champ?\/vhydo somepeoplelearnquicklywhile
otherslanguish?
1. Are you in thefieldor an internet
andseminarjunkie?
2. Smallchunkknowledge,
anddealwithchallenges
as theyarise.Workout
in
real
life
first,
and
then
in
head.
Not
the otherwav around.
Droblems
vour
incompetence
to unconscious
competence
3. Understanding
the unconscious
model.
4. Willingness
to go throughthe painperiodand leavethe comfortzone.
Schwarzenegger:
This lasttwo or threeor fourrepetitions,that'swhatmakesthe
musclesgrow. That'swhat dividesone frcm a championand one from not being
a champion.lf you can go throughthe pain period, you make it to be a champion.
lf you can't go throughit, forget it. And that's what most people lack: having the
guts- the guts to go in andjust say... "l don'tcare whathappens."I haveno fear
of faintingin the gym... I threw up many times when I was workingout. But it
doesn'tmafter,becauseit'sall wofthit.
usefulfromuselesslearning.
5. Separating
6. Willingto test ideasevenif theydon'tseemlogical.
7. Understanding
the principles
behindthe ideaswhentheyworkfor you.
8. Learningfrom mistakes,and knowingthat nothing'simpossible.Gettingrid of
limitingbeliefs.
9. Who do you blame?lt's neverher fault.lt's alwaysyours.Willingnessto examine
yourselfandtake criticismwithouttakingit personally.
10.Push it twentypercentfurtherthanyourknowledge..
.failuresare learning
lessons.
11.Lookat the questionsyou'reaskingto see if you'reon the rightcourse.Are they
helpingor aretheyneurotic?
12.Hangout with someonebetterthanyou. Earntheirtrustand mentorshipby being
promising
butnon-threatening.
13.lsyourratioof effortto resultsincreasing?
lf not,youmustexaminewhatyou're
doing,becauseyou'redoingit wrong.
PART III
To get better,you needa wingor a groupof wingswho you trust.And bothof you need
to be honestwith eachother.Tell eachotherthingsyourfriendsneverwould.lf you
and subjective,you will do
don'ttake it personallyand understandthat it's constructive
FIRSTIMPRESSION
of you,and
well.lt'simportant
to ask,whenpossible,
someone's
havethembe unafraidto be critical.Thefeedbackis important.
EXERCISE:
Question1: \/y'hvdo vou wantto learnthis?
EXERCISE:
1. Describehowyou appearto othersin a simplesentenceor two.
SAVEYOURANSWERS
TO QUESTIONS
THREEAND FOUR;REFERTO
T H E MO F T E N .U. .N T I LY O UB E C O M E T H E M .
ADAPTABILITY:
thisis wherehumorand intelligence
comein.(lt'swhy uptightguys
for peerapproval.
don'tget laid.)lt's her beingableto introduceyou to her friends/family
It'swhereadventurousness,
spontaneity,
independence,
risk{aking,and the abilityto
handlenew situations.Excitingto be around,in the moment.lt's beingableto be fun in
a club,mannered
withherfamily,anda totaljerkwithyourmalefriends.Quote:"The
soeciesthat doesnot adaDtis doomedto die."
SOLUTION:
Travel.Culturalknowledge.
Exposure
to newthingsand unfamiliar
situations.
STRENGTH:
Definednotas physical
strength,
butthe abilityto protecther.Thjsis done
traditionally
througheithermoneyor muscle,butthroughdecisiveness,
non-wussiness,
usefulpractical
knowledge,
an abilityto "takecareof things,"
takingcharge,
assertiveness,
livingin your own reality,and the abilityto makeher feel safe.Also moral
strengthand values(goodor bad but strong)that makeher feel safetyand comfort.
Loyalty.
SOLUTION:Becomeself-correcting
in your responsepatterns.
You are constantlybeingtestedfor your abilityto do this for a chick.So here'sa small
checklist:
'1. Makedecisions.
Don'task herwhatshewants,thoughit'sokayto findouther
preferences.
2. Don'tchangeyouropinionbasedon whatshethinksin orderto pleaseheror get
rapport.lt's onlyokayto changethemif she persuadesyou logically.
3. Knowyourenvironment.
Knowhowto getplaces,whatto do,what'scool.
4. Be an effectivecommunicator,
ableto get others(waiters,door-people,
taxi
drivers)to respond.
5 . Be seenas the leaderof a groupand othermen.
6 . Haverules.
7 . StoMelling:aboutprotectinga girlfriendfrom a threatcauseit'syour nature,
aboutejectingsomeonefromyour lifefor an infractionbecauseyou havea "zero
policy."
tolerance
8 . In situations
wherepeopleareconfused
or indecisive,
takecharge.
L Nottoleratingbad behaviorfrom her or lettingher manipulateher likeshe does
connecting,
havinga qualitythat
El\i]OTIONAL
CONNECTION:
Chemistry,
emotional
makesherfeelemotionally
excitedandfocusedaroundyou.Findingyourselflaughing
Canalsoincludeemotional
together
or sayingthingsat the sametime.Commonalities.
qualities
havinga tenderside.Confessing
likebeingcompassionate,
caring,sensitivity,
mutualdeepsecretsyou'venevertold anyonebefore.
story,NLP,"metoo"tactics,lettingher
SOLUTION:Style'sEV,vulnerability
Drotecr
whichis highstatusbehavior(cockyfunny,nonSELF-WORTH:
Confldence,
neediness).Not beingafraidto take up spacein the worldor someoneelse'stime."l
just benchpressedthe world."Senseof worthiness.Lackof desperation.
Having
opinionsand stickingto them,evenif theyconflictwith hers,but at the sametime not
beingafraidto admityou'rewrongif you are.
SOLUTION:Success.Affirmations.
Self-correcting
bodylanguageand frame
control.
EXERCISE:
1. Rankyourselfin pointson LasVegas.
YOURSELF'
NOTE:KEEPTHISAND,AS YOUGETlN THEFIELDAND IMPROVE
RE-MTE YOURSELFEVERYMONTH.
PART IV
WHATYOU DO
Simplemodel:
'
.
.
.
OPen
Demonstrate
Value
Createan EmotionalConnection
Createa PhysicalConnection
Fullmodel:
PARTONE:GETTINGINTOTHEGROUP
STEPONE
OPENER
Do imDrovised
or cannedooener
Rootthe ODener
Giveyourselfa time constraint("1can onlystayfor a minutebecausel'm with my friends
overthere")
Bodylanguageas if you'reaboutto leave
(energylevelequalto or
Conveypersonality,
smile,but don'tbe over-enthusiastic
higherthanthe group)
STEPTWO (youcan alsofractionateopenerto do this)
BREAKINTOTHEIRWORLD
Conveyactivedisinterest
Bestfriendtest
Makeperceptiveor teasingcommentsaboutthem
Insertchallenges
PARTTWOiMAKINGTHEI\4WANTTO KEEPYOU
STEPTHREE
DEMONSTRATE
VALUE
gimmick,
Use
magic,psychicroutine,
humor,game,whatever
STEPFOUR
CALIBRATION
WEIGHPOINT
Takeaway
Option1:
or falsetakeaway
Option2: Jointhe group,mid-storyor routine,but againgiveyourselftime constraint
Option3: Stayin group
Option4: Pawnfor anothergroup
PART THREETCONNECTING
WITHHER
STEPFOUR
BUILDMPPORT
lsolateit possible,physicallyor verbally
Qualify
ElicitValues
FindCommonalities
LetHerShare
STEPFIVE
CLOSE
OPTIONONE:#close
OPTIONTWO:lsolatetarget,phaseshifvseduce,and *close
OPTIONTHREE:Instantdate.Stayin group(or returnto group)so that you end the
nightwith them.Takegroupelsewhere.Try to get to target'shouse,or get her to your
house
PART V
Whenand How You Do lt
Thisis Calibration,
butskewedin the"it'salwayson"direction
whatto do next,
It'saboutreadingthedynamicof thegroupor thewomenandknowing
even if it'ssomethingI'veneverdonebefore.
lf a womancomesup to you in the bar,rubsyour chest,and saysyou'recute,whatdo
youdo?An opinionopenerwillboreher;a DHVis unnecessary.
Yougo rightto the last
step.lt's okayto openwiththat if that'swhereshe'sat in her process.
Whenyou get goodat the routinesin the abovestep,you can notworryaboutyou're
sayingand startwatchingyour bodylanguageand attitudeand how it affectsthem.
Experiment
with standingtoo closeto a womanand seeinghowshe reacts;too far
on at heror at an angle.
away.leaningin,notleaningin.Lookingstraight
All thesethingswill affecther behavior.
Yourpositivebodylanguageshouldbe a rewardfor HERgoodbehavior.
Now unlikethe stepsabove,mostof the calibrationwe'regoingto learnin the field.
However,hereare a few exercisesto startthinkingabout.
To me, calibrationis the key to everything.However,it can alsobe a trap.If you overcalibrate,you worrytoo muchand respondto smallsignsthat don'tmatter.So go in with
the attitudethat "it'salwayson" and "eveMhingshe doesis an ioi,"yet at the sametime
be consciousto oive her whatshe needs.
First,you'rebasicallylookingfor threeresponses:
.
.
.
(through
Showdisinterest
wordsor bodylanguage)
Negandtease
DHVsomeoneelse
lf she needsmoreattraction:
.
.
.
.
Push-pull
plotline
Jealousy
Becomethesourceof hervalidation
Arousaltalk
lf she needstrust:
.
.
.
.
Listenand be interested
Positive
bodylanguage
SincerelOls/SOls
Qualification
Style'sEV
Time constraint
SocialProof
Win over herfriends
You goal is to do what it takesto get the greenlight.However,if you stayat a green
lightto long,it can turnyellow.So you needto figureout what'sat the nextintersection.
So the realsecondgoal of calibrationis: Figuringout whereshe'sat in the processand
whereshe needsto be takennext.
Whatpersonality
type she is?
Doesshe havehighor low self-esteem?
Howsexuallyopenor reservedshe is?
Whather self-imageis?
Whatshe doesfor work?
ls shean older/young
sibling,closeto mom/dad?
ls shea physical,
kinesthetic,
or intellectual
type?
Whatare herneeds?
Whereis shein lifeandwhatis shelookingfor?
PART VI
Okay,let'sget downto the fun stuff.
with
EXERCISE:
Beforeyou readthis,writedownwhatyou say to starta conversation
a womanyou'vejust seenacrossa room?
JealousGirlfriend
80,sDogs
DentalFloss
Two-PartKissODener
CologneOpener
FiveOceans
Spells
SteDhanieRoss
SisterNora
GirlFiSht
Part Vll
After the opener:
1. Rockas if you'reaboutto leave.
2. Ask as an afterthought
"Howdo you all knoweachother"(credit:Mystery)to
determine
the relationshiDs.
fishinglinetheory
3. Discuss
4. Hookthemwith an observation
that leadsto a DHV,lVD,etc.
5. lf they are seated,sit downbut with atime constraint.lfthey are standingand
you'rein an outsideposition,
lockin.
6. DHV if necessaryto hookset
7. Oversellyourfriendsto makewing entrance/merging
easier.
L Don'tjumpthroughhoops,passshittests
Wing rules:
1.
2.
3.
4.
5.
6.
7.
8.
9.
PEBBLES/Role-Playing/Push-Pull
oe
u l le n o u g yh e t .
I c a n 'tte l ly o u . . . l d o n ' t k n o w yw
You'refired.
Noteto self:do notdatethisgirl.
You guysareawesome.
You'rejusl liketheView.(Whenthey'regivingopinions
on an oDener.)
5. Aftershe sayswhereshe'sfromor wentto school,ask,"Doyou knowSarah"?
(Addif youwant"thin,blackhair,oliveskin")Then,aftershestruggles
to think,
sayyoujustmadeit up.
6. That'sit.We'rebreaking
up.You cankeepthedog.
7. I wantto takethat partof you rightthere(a pinchof fat, an eyelid,whatever)and
putit on rice,andeat it.
L Wait untilthey say somethingthat can be perceivedas a negativetraitabout
them,andthensay,as youpretendlikeyou'rewritingon yourhand,"Noteto self:
Do notdatethisgirl."
9. Her: I haveto tellyousomething...
You: You'repregnant
10.Whenshe mentionsa townshe'sfrom or a movieshe lovesor a televisionshow
or whatever,say,"Neverheardof it." Saidreallystraightand dry,with eye
contact.Then,afrerpausingfor a few sections,breakintoa smilelettingher
knowyou'rekidding.
11.Hiringfor doublethesalarytease
12.Thisrelationship
is notworkingout.
13.Hey,ljust flirta lot;I don'tputout.
'14.Use
shockintriguehookslike"l havea confession
to make"(l needto go the
gay)
bathroom/
| needanotherdrinldl'm
15.Let'stakethisslow...I don'twantto gethurt
16.Checkthisgirlout.She'samazing,
andso brightandfunny.Wouldyoubelieve
she'sneverhad a boyfriend?
17.Getengaged,
thenbreakup.Etc.
18.Tellher you'releavingherforaricholderwomanwhowillpayallyourbillsand
take careof you.
"We'retalkingguytalkhere.Couldyou leaveus alone
19.Do MINITAKEAWAYS.
pull
for a moment."
Then
herback."Waitrightthere.lvlyfriendswantme.""l'm
talkingto yourfriendrightnow.Geez."Don'tbe afraidto turn your backon her,
and KNOWthatshewon'tgo away.
20.Okay,youghlshavetakenup enoughofmytime.I haveotherpeopleto keep
company.
21.Whenshe'stalking,say"whatever."
Or drylysay,"Andyourpointis..."
point
you
22.Put her on a
systemwhere
subtractand add points.Startchargingher
moneyforthingsandkeepa tab.
1.
2.
3.
4.
EXERCISE:
STOPI
Stopwatchingthe DVDSand goingthroughthe workbookRIGHTNOW.
Go outtonight,or as soonas possible,
and PRACTICE
THEOPENERS
AND
APPROACH
STRATEGIES
aboveBEFOREcontinuing.
Usethis pageto writedownyour:
FieldReports
StickingPoints
Questions
Thereare only 375 of you. lf there is a demandfor it, we will create an Annihilation
Methodforum ONLY FOR YOU,so that we can all discussyour lessong expenences,
and thoughts,and give you feedbackas you wotk through this course.
PART VIII
You'velearnedhowto chasewomen,now it'stimeto learnhowto get themchasing
you.
Pebbles
Negs
LASVEGASattitude
DHVS
Challenges
Push-Pull
Hardcore
Disqualification
Cat StringTheory
MakeHERfeellikesheis winningYOUover
Keepa runninglist of linesand responses
Learnhowto push-puliwith BodyLanguage
Examples:
1 . Makea positive
SOItypecomment,
thenwithdraw
with"l don'tknowyouwell
enoughthough"or "toobadyou'renotmy type"or "butI don'tthinkI cantrust
you"or anyof the pebblesbelow.
Keepher reelingwith a constantstreamof "go away...comehere"commentsand
gestures
PART IX
FASHION
CONSULTATION
Get a woman,a trustworthystoresaleslady,a wing,a PUAteacher,or SoME
TRUSTED
SOURCEFORFASHION
to critiqueandaidyou in thefollowing
categories:
Style
Fashion
Clothing
Hair
Grooming
Optional
MaleMakeup
PART X
Now...theREALLYfunstuff...
DHVSAND IVDS
youjust
Introduce
themin a non-needy
way.Notto impress
them.lt'ssomething
learnedand you wantto practice,for example.Or teaseit and makethemask/beg.
IVD#1: BestFriendTest
Style: Okay,I haveto ask: how longhaveyou guysknowneachotherfor? (lf you think
they'resistersask,Are you guyssistersor bestfriends?)
HBs: blahblah
Style: See, I knewthat.
HBs: Howcouldyouknowthat?
Style:l'llshowyou.In fact,l'llgiveyouthe bestfriendtest.
HBs: (theyalwaysget excitedhere-theylovetestsfor somefuckingreason)
Style:Okay...(pretend
likeI'maboutto aska seriousquestion-you're
hooked,right,so
youknowthey'realreadyhooked)...do
you bothusethesameshampoot
HBs: (lookat eachother,and then opentheirmouthsto answer)
Style: Okay,the answerdoesn'tmatter.You alreadypassed.
HBst 22?2???.
Style: See,if you weren'tcloseto eachother,you'dkeepeye contactwith me as you
answered.But if two peoplehavea connection,
theylookat eachotherfirst.Kindof like
you'redoingrightnow.
HBs: giggle(Thisis wherethe seductionnewbiesyoujust met see you makingtwo
laughandthinkyou'rea PUAGod,LOL)
strangers
Style: See,you don'tevenneedto say anythingto eachother.lt's likeyoujust
communicate
telepathically.
Then,thereare a millionplacesto go from here:Oftenthey'lljustopenup and start
tellingyou abouthowthey met.(Nowyou'reREALLYin.) lf one lookedat the otherone
first,thenyou say that she is submissiveand the otheris dominantin the friendship.
(Canbe a greatneg.)lf theywantmore,I get personalhereand ask,"Hasone of you
ever kissedsomeonethe otherpersondated?"Theyfuckinglovethis one - but don't
makeit yourfirstquestion.
You canalsousethetelepathy
lineto launchintoa mindreading/cold-reading
routineif you do that.You'llfigurethe restof this out as you do it in
thefield.
IVD#2: Cs vs Us
This one is basedon a truestory,froma womanI met. But don'tpresentit as if YOU
believeit. Presentit as if it'ssomecrazystoryyou heard.
Style:Smileagainfor me.
HB: um,okay.
Style(to wing):See,she'sa U.
HBt 2???
Style: I dateda girlwho wantedto be a pop star.And she had a theorythat peoplewith
U-shapedsmileswereperceivedas unfriendly.
And peoplewith C-shapedsmileswere
perceivedas friendly.
HB: So what'sa U then?
Style: A U is whenyourteethgo straightbackin your mouth(canadd "kindof likea
horse"if she'sa SHB).A C is whenthere'sa big rowof pearlywhitesin the front.And to
my ex, it was morethan a theory.She actuallygot her teethsurgicallyreshapedfrom a
UtoaC.
HB: Noway.
Style:And shehadme go lookat pictures
of likeChristina
Aguilera,
whois a U, and
BritneySpears,who is a C. Lookat thecoverof Us or anymagazine,
andyou'llseethat
it's alwaysa C smileon the cover.
Fromhere,me andthe targetstartinspectingthe teethof randomstrangerslookingfor
the perfectC or U. lt'sfun. This nextsectionisn'tpartof the lVD, butthis is the restof
the routineif you wantit:
Style: lt's crazyhowmanyplasticsurgeriestheyhavefor celebsnow.She had her eye
makeupandherlipstick
tattooed
on,andwhenshechangedherhaircolor,she hadher
(lf the HB seemsopen-minded,
lips re-tattooed.
I continuewiththe following:) And do
you wantto hearthe grossestthing?Oneday I noticedthat she hadtwo rounddotson
her upperthighs.Sheworkedout two hoursa day and was super-flt,but evidentlyshe
got lipotoo. But here'swhat'scrazy.Becauseshe usedto work as an exoticdancer,
she got the fat injectedintoher labiaso that she alwayslookedaroused.(l REALLYsay
thisto HBs...and
thenI smile,say"goodbye"
as if l'm embarrassed,
andstartto jokingly
teave.)
ThenI throwin thisjoke,withcreditgoingto Nightlightg:
ShewasfromLA,andyou
haveto be carefulwith them.Wheneveryou go out with girlsin LA,everythingcan be
reallyfake. Fakehair(pointto your hair),fakeeyes(pointto eyes),fake nose(pointto
nose),faketeeth(pointto teeth),fake breasts(cupyour breasts).You haveto take
themto the doctorfirstto find out whichpartsare real...Theyput her througha
machine,
andyougeta print-out
at theend."
IVD#3: NameMnemonics
HB: What'syourname?
Style: I'm Style.
HB: l'mJanet.Thisis Donna.And that'sTony.
Style:Okay.......Janet...
Donna...Tony.
You know,I usedto be reallybadwithnames.
HBs:Omigod,I'mso badwithnames.
Style:Butyou don'thaveto be anymore.
Here,l'llshowyou in two seconds.
All I do
whenl'm introduced
to you is makea picturein my head.So if you'reJanet,I picture
you with the headof JanetfromThree'sCompany.No offense.And for Donna,I just
picturelikethe dawn,andthesun risingoveryourhead.AndforTony,I seeyouon
the frontof a box of FrostedFlakes.Here,l'll showyou.
Now,in the olddays,I'd havethemmemorize
my wholename:First,Middle,and Last.
But it cameoff as too gimmick-y.Now,I grabmy wing,or a strangerin the club (like
anothergirl I wantto meet)and teachthemhowto memorizehis/herFirst,Middle,and
Lastname.Learnaboutmnemonics
if youdon'tknowthis.Butfor it to work,youMUST
havethemreallySEEthe picturein theirminds.lt alsobecomes
funtestingthemlater
in the Sargeto see if they still remember.
IVD#4:EyeAccessingCues
Up=visual- invented/remembered
Side= auditory- invented/remembered
Down = kinesthetic/talking
to self
=
(rare1
v;"r"1
StraightAhead
Seguewayintothe following(demonstrated
on the DVDS)...
The Two LyingGames
'l - Eye-accessing
cues
2 - Interrogation
NOTE:DO NOTREADTHEFOLLOWING
IVDUNTILYOUHAVESEENlT
DEMONSTRATED
ON THEDVDS.
IVD#5: BirthdayGuessing
This is the codefor part I of the BlackMirrorTechniquedemonstrated
on the DVDS.
Knepper
handbook,
Completely
Cold.A
Part ll can be foundin the very short Kenton
powerfuldouble-whammy,
so powerfulin factthat you'llneverhaveto DHVagain
afreMard.
'1.I
2. So/Go
3. Try
4. Wi
5. Would/Could
6. Please
7. Quickly/Perhaps
8. Now
9. Alright
10. 0/1o-Okay
lf psychicmissesa cue,say,"You're a hard person to read."
lf wing messesup a cue,say "delete" to erasewhatwas just said.
IVD#6: TheCube
Quickreferenceto the Styleversion:
Horse= seli-image
Ladder= ambitions
in life
=
Flowers closefriendsand lovedones
Horseidealman
Storm= problemsin your lifeand the way you let themeffectyou.
(seeperformance
on DVD)
and furtherinstructions
PART XI
PLAYFULGAMES
.
NapkinTearing
The FiveQuestionsGame
MouseRace
Dogjaw
TheAmazingDollarBillMiracle
ToasUMilk
Riddles
Fuck,lvlarry,Kill
DrinkBalancing
on Thumbs
P e n1 5C l u b
CHANGERIDDLE:Havepenny,nickel,anddimein yourhand.Ben'smother
hadthreechildren:the first one was penny,the secondone was Nicholas,and
thethirdone is?
Breakpencilwithdollar
EXERCISE:
STOP!
Stopwatchingthe DVDSand goingthroughthe workbookRIGHTNOW.
Go outtonight,
or as soonas possible,
and PRACTICE
DHVSaboveBEFORE
continuing.
Usethis pageto writedownyour:
FieldReports
StickingPoints
Questions
Onceyou'vesuccessfully
demonstrated
twoDHVsandgenerated
interestor attraction
fromthem,thencontinue
onto thefinalpartofthe program.
PART XII
REMINDER:
Rulesof Learning:
. Nottakingit personally
. Chasingoncetheygetone lC..
. Winningoverthe obstacle- evenactuallyattractingher.
. Beingtoo afraidto walk away
. Expectinga reaction;beingneedywith routines.
. Understand
the structureand you'llneverrun out ofthingsto say
. Takeit lessseriously,havefun, blowit for the hell of it
PART XIII
Rapport,Qualifyingand Emotionalconnection
.
Style'sEV
"Namethreethingsaboutyourself
thatwouldmakemewantto getto knowyou
better...and
noneof themcanbe aboutyourlooks."
N.4ystery's
26,000daysroutine.
Commonalities,
then bondoveryou two beingthe onlyonesin townwho feelthat
way
OpenLoops
100percentperfectgirl
FORRAPPORT
AND EARLYON
QUESTIONS
1. lf my friendswere comingto dinner,whatwouldyou cookto impressthem?
2. lf you couldwakeup tomorrowwith one thingchangedaboutyour life,what
wouldit be?
3. lf you couldchangeonethingaboutyourselfphysically,whatwouldit be?
4. lf you hadto eitherhavesex with the mostrepulsivepersonon the planet(likefat
bastardtimesten),or die,whichwouldyou choose?
5. lf rightnow, you weretold that you had one hourleftto live,whatwouldyou do?
6. lf therewas a thingyou couldchangein the world,whatwouldit be?
7. What'sthe mostmeaningfulcomplimentyou haveevergot before?
EXERCISE:
\Mat areYOURstandards?
Whatareyoulookingfor?ScreenherBEFOREshe
screensyou.
1. Writedownthe kindofwomanyou'relookingfor, then screenthemfor that.Both
positive
values(positive
energy,ableto get alongwithanyone,adventurous,
spontaneous,
can livefor herselfwithoutworryingaboutpeerapproval)and negative
passiveaggressive)
values(drama,possessive,
needy,lowselfesteem,flakiness,
PART XIV
CLOSES
.
Readinglols
Kinoescalation
Righthand/left
hand
The EvolutionPhaseShiftKissRoutine
"Youdon'tknowhowhardit is.."
GoodKisser1-10
lnstantDates
PART XV
SECRETS
TO MASTERY:
As I progressedthroughthe Game,I constantlywrotedownmy goalsand sticking
points.I wrotedownwhatlwas goodat,whatlwas badat, andwhatI neededto learn.
I referredto thesenotesconstantly.
- Organization
Intelligence
So:
yourthoughts
Organize
andprogress.
Writedowna routine,step by step.
Writedownstickingpoints.
Writedowngoals.
Determinewhatmakesyou happy?
Checkyourselfmonthlyon the LASVEGASscale
Writedownyour ownstoriesand routinesthat makeyou interesting.
lgnorecriticismfromold friendsand familymemberswho don'twantyou to
change.
Makethe notesyou tookon who you wantedto be a yearfrom nowyour new
mantrauntilyou becomethat person.
Remember,from above,that one of the secretsto life is notto take it personally.
Becomeself-correcting.
Whenyou catchyourselfslippingbackintoold habits,
whichyou will,just recognizeit and stopit. No needto beatyourselfup.
Whenyou get yourfirstsuccesses,don'tget lazy.This is whenyou muststart
workingharderto internalizewhatyou did right
And here'sthe key questionthat helpedme determinewhat I was doingrightand
wrong:
Afteryou makeoutwith or sleepwith a woman,ask her,"Whendid you first realizeyou
wereattractedto me?"(Askin a playfulway that assumesthe sale,not in a needyway.)
you need.
Youwillgetallthe FEEDBACK
The answersmay surpriseyou.
yourBESTSELF.
Goodluckbecoming