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c. Why do some put off communicating about serious issues / matters? What
happens when this happens?
d. What are some basic differences between men and women while
communicating?
e. What are the things that can change in a marriage over time that requires
continual communication?
COMMUNICATION BASICS
a. Make time for communication.Look carefully at your life and see how you spend
your time together. We really do have time, however we may lack the commitment.(
Ephesians 5:15-16) Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise,
making the best use of time, because the days are evil.
b. Learn to listen. We must control our emotions and not become defensive. ( James
1:19-21) Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to
anger; for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God. Therefore
put away all filthiness and rampant wickedness and receive with meekness the
implanted word, which is able to save your souls.
c. Practice the basics of love.If you use their faults as a weapon against another or if
you cannot control your tongue with others, then people will not be open to
you.Women can make a terrible mistake here in how they openly talk about their
husband.Husband also need to show that they are trustworthy.
I Corinthians 13:4-7 Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not
arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it
does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things,
believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
Proverbs 11:12-13 Whoever belittles his neighbor lacks sense,but a man of
understanding remains silent. Whoever goes about slandering reveals secrets, but
he who trustworthy in spirit keeps a thing covered.
Proverbs 13:16 In everything the prudent acts with knowledge, but a fool flaunts
his folly.
d. We must follow God's order of leadership. Here we show faith in God. Why should
husbands humble and listen to their wives? God is your head and a witness to your
actions.
I Corinthians 11:3 But I want you to understand that the head of every man is
Christ, the head of the wife is her husband, and the head of Christ is God.
Ephesians 5:22-23 Wives, submit to your husbands, as to the Lord. For the
husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body,
and is himself its Savior.
Malachi 2:14 But you say, " Why does he not ?" Because the Lord was witness
between you and the wife of your youth, to whom you have been faithless, though
she is your companion and your wife by covenant.