The Catholic Origins of

Manliness

MICHAEL P. FOLEY

Christ's manliness transformed man's understanding of

manhood, and it is this transformation that, through the
development and mediation of the Catholic Church,
became a new Western ideal.
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In his fascinating book Manliness, Harvey Mansfield

identifies Achilles as a paragon of virility. He is right to do so, for the rash and rebellious,
boasting and body-dragging Homeric hero is not only an unforgettable Western archetype
but the quintessential he-man, the larger-than-life warrior that is sung in virtually all cultures
and climes.
We Christians should not forget Achilles, for he inversely reminds us of a paradox that
comes to light only when we compare such a man to the central figure of the New
Testament: sometimes, the one thing greater than the he-man's heroism is the decision to
reject it. Our Lord could have easily humiliated His foes the way Achilles did Hector, but He
chose instead to be humiliated by them, a move that took real courage. When Christians
call Christ the New Man (or Adam), they mean it in more ways than one.
Christ's manliness transformed man's understanding of manhood, and it is this
transformation that, through the development and mediation of the Catholic Church,

became a new Western ideal. This is obvious when we consider two areas typically
associated with manly life: chivalry and sports.
Chivalry
Chivalry began as an attempt by the Church to curb the anarchy and bloodshed of feudal
conflict in the Middle Ages, but it ended as something much more. The so-called Truce of
God limited violence by prohibiting, on pain of excommunication, armed engagement every
Thursday through Sunday and during the holy seasons of Advent and Lent. This pious
restraint was sharpened by the Crusades, which upheld a new code of knighthood aimed
not at personal glory (Achilles again) but the protection of the weak and oppressed. When
a knight was consecrated or "dubbed," the bishop prayed that he would become a defender
of "churches, widows, orphans, and all those serving God." This was obviously the
instantiation of an important biblical virtue (Judas Maccabeus, the Old Testament prototype
of the medieval knight, is described in II Maccabees 2:38 as providing for the widow and
orphan), as was the care extended to another group: women.

When St. Paul tells husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the
Church (Eph. 5:25), he is essentially telling them to put the welfare
of their spouses high above their own, even to the point of death.
Though the chivalrous regard for the welfare of women would later become subject to all
sorts of romantic distortions (hence the parodies of love-stricken knights in Chaucer and
Cervantes), even here there lies the kernel of a uniquely Christian insight. When St. Paul
tells husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the Church (Eph. 5:25), he is essentially
telling them to put the welfare of their spouses high above their own, even to the point of
death.
Today the concept of "ladies first" is more often than not condemned as quaint or
chauvinist, but when it is properly understood and practiced it reflects this Christ-like
conversion of male power and aggression to the selfless service of others. It presupposes
that if a Christian man is designed to rule, he is to exercise that rule paradoxically by
serving, just as Christ exercised his lordship paradoxically by humbly washing the feet of
his apostles (John 13:4-16). This insight is well-reflected in the famous medieval legend of
the Holy Grail as told by Chrtien de Troyes. When Perceval the knight is about to part
from his mother, her last words to him are: "Should you encounter, near or far, a lady in
need of aid, or a maiden in distress, make yourself ready to assist them if they ask for your
help, for it is the most honourable thing to do. He who fails to honour ladies finds his own
honour dead inside him."

Over time, several customs developed from this transfiguration of male honor. Simple
gestures such as opening doors or pulling out a chair for a lady bespeak a gentleman's
humble respect for women and a recognition of his responsibilities. Particularly noteworthy
in this regard is the practice of tipping one's hat to a lady. Given that a man's hat is a
traditional symbol of his rank and authority, the gesture is essentially a ritual
acknowledgment of the fact that his position is in some crucial respects ordered to the
service and regard of women.
Sports
It is generally not the function of a religion to create new forms of competition, yet the
Judeo-Christian proclamation of the sanctity of human life led to far-reaching changes in
the way that Westerners played games. After the Roman Empire embraced Christianity, a
successful war was waged against the old athletic festivals and gladiator games, all of
which were inherently tied to death cults, animal sacrifice, and even human sacrifice. But
the Church never opposed athletic competition per se, and so the field was cleared for new
and more wholesome forms of sport to emerge. Of course, this is not to say that the
games were more effete. The proto-Christian Duke in "The Knight's Tale" by Chaucer turns
a battle into a tournament in order to prevent the loss of life, but this does not stop bones
from being "bashed" and "bursts of blood in streams of sternest red" (l. 1752).

Jesus Christ the New Man gave us a counterintuitive yet ultimately

greater model of manhood, one that has the chutzpah to beat
down one's own vainglory for the greater glory of God and for the
sake of defending His most helpless creatures.
In some countries, Catholic life played a discernible role in shaping specific athletic tastes.
My favorite example is Switzerland's popular schtzenfeste. These shooting competitions
began as training exercises for marksmen who were to protect the procession of the
Blessed Sacrament on the Feast of Corpus Christi from violent Protestants! In the same
feisty vein is the humble sport of bowling, believed by some to have begun as a religious
ceremony held in the cloister of a church. As far back as the third or fourth century,
peasants may have placed their clubs (which, like the Irish shillelagh, they carried with
them at all times) at the end of a lane. The club was called a kegel in German and was
said to represent the heathen, to be toppled, we conjecture, by the rolling stone of the
Gospels. Over time the clubs developed into pins, but the association lingered: to this day,
a bowler is sometimes referred to as a kegler.
Finally, mention should be made of the motto of the modern Olympic games. Citius, Altius,
Fortius ("Faster, Higher, Stronger") was coined by Dominican friar Henri Didon, prior of
Albert-le-Grand College in Arceuil, France. A well-known educator with a penchant for

sports (he himself had won many a prize in his youth), Didon encouraged athletic
competition at his school as a way of building character. It was at a sports meeting in 1891
that he ended a speech to his pupils with the stirring admonition: Citius, fortius, altius. The
motto was eventually adopted by the father of the modern Olympics, Pierre de Coubertin,
with one exception. While Fr. Didon had placed the word fortius, or "stronger," in the
middle of the phrase to stress the moral significance of athletics, Coubertin ominously
changed the word order to stress the "freedom of excess," which he praised over and
against "the unnatural utopia of moderation."
Conclusion
Coubertin's misappropriation of Fr. Didon's motto is also fairly emblematic of the plight of
Christian manhood in the modern age, which is one of the reasons why we even need to
speak of the Catholic contribution to manliness as if it were something forgotten.
Nevertheless, the testimony of Our Lord shall not be effaced. Jesus Christ the New Man
gave us a counterintuitive yet ultimately greater model of manhood, one that has the
chutzpah to beat down one's own vainglory for the greater glory of God and for the sake of
defending His most helpless creatures. The result is a blend of solicitude, gentleness, and
toughness that makes Achilles' egotistical bravado look puerile. And for that we can be
profoundly grateful.