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By Jill Hamilton JUN 1, 2016

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Anal sex is a lot like sushi: A few decades ago, the average person might not have taken
part in either regularly. Who could've predicted the meteoric rise of the booty, or the spicy
tuna roll for that matter? (OK, anal sex is also not at all like sushi in practically every other
way, but that is not our concern today.)
Whether you're new to it or whether it's been on the menu for ages, here are some
positions to try, arranged from most entry-level vanilla to more advanced undertakings.
But do remember the Anal Safety Rules that you (*sigh*) never learned in school: Use
buckets of lube and a condom, no switching from back hole to front hole, and if anything
hurts, have him stop, so you can relax and figure out whether you want to proceed. And if
you don't even want to give it a go in the first place, of course that's perfectly fine. Viva
consent!

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THE BEGINNER'S BEND


Get in a spooning position but curl up into
more of a ball. The whole loving/protected
feeling of inner spoondom will help you
relax, plus if you need further comfort, you
are conveniently already in the fetal
position. Have him talk you through it, go
slowly and all that, but what's actually going
to make this work for you is the buzzy
vibrator you're gonna put between your legs.
If the vibrator does its job and it will
you will realize anal is not something you
"should try once" but can actually feel pretty
incredible.
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BOTTOMS UP

Lie on your stomach, putting a pillow under your pelvis for comfort and easier access. Have him rub

your back, your legs, and your bum until you're feeling fine. If he starts with a drizzle of lube down your
crack and some gently probing and well-lubed fingers, it will help you feel 87 percent more enthusiastic
about him going all in. And by all means, slip a hand or vibrator between your legs to give yourself the

kind of stimulation you (and pretty much every other woman on the planet) probably need to come. The
more of us who 'fess up to this basic biological fact, the better it will be for all of us.
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THE STANDING SLOW SLIDE


Anal is not the kind of sex that makes for a
good quickie (oh, hell no), but you can give
it that kind of must-have-you-now passion
with a standing pose. Push a chair against a
wall and put a leg on the seat (or arm,
depending on height). Brace yourself on the
wall and have him enter from behind,
thrusting slowly in and up. Toss your head
back, arch your back and feel all romance
novel-y or as romance novel-y as one can
feel mid-anal.
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THE EROTIC EXAMINATION


Try some role-play to get the butt sex
happening. Get onto a sturdy table (a bed
works too) and lie on your back, bending
your knees and grasping onto your ankles (if
you do yoga, it's Happy Baby Pose). This
open, vulnerable position lends itself to all
kinds of scenarios: Spa visit with a masseuse
who turns you on so much you beg for a
happy ending? Alien abduction with
requisite anal probe? Don't worry if your
idea seems crazy or weird it's fantasy,
that's kind of the point. P.S. It works best if
he takes his sweet time
examining/massaging/assessing you. Helps
everyone relax, and delayed gratification
always makes things hotter.
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DOUBLE TROUBLE
Double penetration, simultaneously being
penetrated in front and back, generally
requires two penises, their accompanying
two men, and long tedious conversations
about boundaries. But you can skip all that
by switching out dude no. 2 with an
agreeable dildo, either vibrating or not.
Facing his feet, mount your partner, taking
as long as you need to take him in from
behind. Once everything seems good back
there, slide your dildo/vibrator into your vaj
and start rocking up and down. If you want
to go for the trifecta, rub your clit at the
same time and try not to die of sheer
pleasure.
Jill Hamilton writes the blog In Bed
With Married Women. Follow her
onTwitter.
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