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You might
wonder if this is the next new buzz word in
psychology or the next in activity... But no its not,
it is a time old tradition that possibly got lost when
we got busier and more distracted in life. So this
blog is about helping you to understand these
concepts, to explore and practise them and to
consider the option of living a more contemplative
life...
Welcome!
What is contemplation?
In the Merriam-Webster dictionary contemplation is defined as the act of
thoughtfully looking at something for a long time. They also explain that it
implies to be in deep reflective thought and the act of considering the
spiritual with attention. But possibly my favourite definition is: the act of
regarding steadily. This definition really summarises contemplation
perfectly when you think of the fact that contemplation is an act
something that you actually, wilfully do, in a way a meditative intent.
Then
the
regarding
part
that explains how
contemplation is at
the core an intent
to allow reflection
and
awareness.
And then finally the
steadily which so
beautifully
states
that contemplation
is done by being
grounded, but also
allows a deeply
groundedness
in
your life.
And who does not
want
that...
a
groundedness... a
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sense of being rooted and OK and in touch with who you are. The practice
on contemplation is more than just a daily meditative exercise but rather
the process of allowing you to deeply connect with yourself. In this process
you start to battle the obstacles inside of you rather than the external
demons, which in turn transcends the 20 minutes of contemplation and
flows to a more stable, connected and content life.
Contemplation and its separate entities: Silence; Stillness; Solitude and
Simplicity is in fact an invitation to get to know yourself intimately and to
start to life from a place where you deeply connect to your Higher Power
and your true self.
What is Silence, Stillness, Solitude and Simplicity?
Silence, Stillness and Solitude are
the individual components of an
inter-dependent process. These
elements combine to allow us a
deeper sense of peace and
gratitude as they are the
foundation
of
contemplative
practices and lifestyles. When we
practice these three elements,
they allow within us a space that
is both a resting place (in your
Higher Power, Divine Self or even
just in Peace), but also an
openness to deeper insight and acceptance. This then flows through to
your life in a way that enables simplicity and supports compassion.
Silence is all about our mind space and how we are so distracted by
internal and external noise that we do not hear what is. Practising silence
teaches us to listen to ourselves, others and to our Higher Powers. The
capacity to listen to what is, is our greatest asset when we need to discern
what is really truthful in our lives.
Stillness concerns our gut and our constant need to live from our gut, to
be instantly gratified and to always be rushed and busy. By allocating
stillness within ourselves we learn to engage properly with ourselves,
others and our Higher Power. This allows us to understand our defences
and reactions. Through stillness we can limit these instant reactions and
transform them into appropriate, internalised and compassionate
responses.
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We find contemplation in the Christian religion from the early wise desert
mothers and fathers and later in the
The contemplation posture
monasteries and even later in the
mystics and saints of the middle The contemplation posture is one of
ages. A very large influence in attention and intention! This means
contemplation comes from the East that you sit in a position that does
where various Buddhist traditions not entice you to fall asleep or lose
have initiated meditation practices focus.
and to this day is highly acclaimed for When you sit on a chair make sure
their
compassionate
and it is an upright chair with your back
contemplative way of life. Similarly supported in a straight position.
anecdotes and insights are found in Plant both feet firmly on the floor
the Zen and Tao religions. The daily and then slowly drop your chin a
Muslim prayers are a testimony to little to your chest.
how centering prayer and mantras You can also sit on the floor. Make
have kept Islamic believers grounded sure your hips are tilted slightly
in their faith. We even have modern forward to keep your spine upright.
day mystics like Mother Theresa and It helps to sit on a pillow or rolled
the 14th Dalai Lama that promoted up towel. Keep your back straight
the use of contemplative practices. an again drop your head to your
Contemplation is thus not new, heart. Make sure that in both
your
shoulders
are
unique or even exclusive, rather it is positions
relaxed. Meditation pillows, yoga
tried and tested, it is well practiced and appreciated. Most of all it is the
most inclusive practice regarding the self and other that you will find in
our universe.
The continuous of this collective wisdom lies in our willingness to
intentionally allow healing and growth from these practices.
These needs are part of our human impulse reactions, but can become
extremely detrimental if we only allow them, the false self within us, to
surface. These false needs take us to a place where we are obsessed
Your focus will be relational towards yourself, others and the world
You will be more unflappable in the face of resistance
Your focus will be in the here and now
Your lifestyle will speak of contemplation and
compassion
You will be in wonder and awe about yourself, the world
and others
You will trustfully surrender to your higher power
You will release
You will be open
You will position yourself towards peace
You will be unoccupied with yourself, whilst
maintaining a good sense of self and selfnurturing
You will take responsibility
You will allow insight without fixing or rescuing others
You will be more aware of your own wounds and be compassionate
towards the hurt you carry.
simply allows you the spaces to access your true self through the
sparkling moments of the practice.
Try an experience...perhaps connecting to your wise self through
a visualisation
permit your heart, body, soul and mind to find safety and space in your
inner room.
breath
contemplation
(as
Body Scan
Sit or lie in a comfortable position
Gentle close your eyes and allow your body to settle in
Notice your body now as if from the outside consider, without changing or
judgement. Notice the position, the temperature and the tension.
Become aware of your toes, the balls of your feet, your insteps, your
heels.
Notice your calves, shins, thighs and hamstrings.
Notice your lower back, your middle back and your upper back.
Feel your neck, your shoulders and your arms. Notice all the way down to
your wrists and palm and fingertips.
Become aware of the tension and position of your stomach, then chest,
become aware now of your breathing.
Allow your awareness to move to your face, then to your skull and then
finally allow yourself to notice your current thoughts
Notice your internal organs, the flow of breath and the beating of your
heart.
Then connect to the emotions inside of you.
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Stay for a few moments in silence and compassionate curiosity about your
body
Then send energy, warmth and attention to the areas of tension and
stress, allow your body to move to a position of comfort and well being
Then slowly exhale and return to your present moment.
Examen
Sit in an intentional contemplative position
Gentle close your eyes or allow them to settle
Take a few moments to calm your body and to deepen your breath.
Then mindfully consider your day and the activities that you engaged in.
Now spend the next few minutes in complete stillness and contemplation
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Breath contemplation
Sit in an intentional contemplative position
Gentle close your eyes or allow them to settle
Take a few moments to calm your body and to deepen your breath.
Spend the next few minutes in complete silence, stillness and solitude
Allow this one word to know follow your breath, meditating on the word as
you inhale and meditating on the word as you exhale
Continue focusing on your breath and your word throughout your silent
practice
Then slowly exhale and return to your present moment
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Notes: Simply accept the first concept that pops up dont overanalyse or plan this.
Your word can be one word i.e. breathing in: hope, breathing out: hope or two words of
words with two syllables i.e. breathing in: hope, breathing out: -full for hopeful. If you are
practicing this contemplation as a conversation with your higher power you can change
your word into a request or desire, i.e. be my hope... or help me. You can also read
a poem, phrase or scripture and use a sentence or request from the reading as
your breath word or phrase. Some people like to change their breath word for
every practice, whilst other chooses to only have one in all their practices.
Centering prayer
Sit in an intentional contemplative position
Gentle close your eyes or allow them to settle
Take a few moments to calm your body and to deepen your breath.
Spend the next few minutes in complete silence, stillness and solitude
Allow a single word, image, phrase or movement to come to the fore that
you will use as your anchor during your practice
Now allow your body, mind and soul to enter complete silence, stillness
and solitude.
Whenever your attention shift or thoughts drift away from the
contemplative resting space, drop your anchor word and allow it to guide
you back to the silence
Follow this process of centering throughout your practice time
Then slowly exhale and return to your present moment
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Guided meditations:
Peaceful Ocean
Sit or lie in a comfortable position
Gentle close your eyes and do a quick body scan to relax your entire body
and to deepen your breath
Allow your mind to be still and open and then follow in your imagination
this visualisation:
Imagine that you are near the ocean, just before sunrise. You are perhaps
on the beach or sitting on a bench or hammock overlooking the ocean.
Picture the details of this calming space. The water is smooth, the day is
just-just turning lighter, the air is cool and pleasant and the palm trees are
gently swaying in the wind.
You smell the refreshing scent of the ocean and dig your feet deeper in to
the soft sand. The ocean is the bluest blue and you can see far out. It will
turn into a very pleasant day.
But around you everything is still calm and tranquil. Once in a while a
seagull sweeps down for a meal, but mostly it is just you and the tranquil
ocean.
You watch the waves as they gently roll into shore and then retreat again.
The waves are calm in the early morning and you can gently follow their
ebb and flow with your breath. Breathing in as they roll in and breathing
out as they flow back. A gently and calming rhythm.
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Stay on the beach and in this tranquil state. Admire the day as dawn
changes into sunrise and the day is filled with beautiful light and new
hope.
When you are ready to return, inhale a deep breath and exhale any
residual tension, carrying this image of the ocean and a beautiful start of a
day with you throughout your day.
Hold the prayer beads gently in your hands and finger each bead between
your forefinger and your thumb as you repeat your mantra or prayer.
Your original marker will indicate when you have completed the prayer
cycle
Spend the next few minutes in complete silence, stillness and solitude
Before you gently open your eyes and return to the present moment.
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Examples of mantras:
Ohm | I am unique and special | I can trust |I let go and release...
You can even use familiar prayers or popular quotes...be the change you want
to see in the world...
Meditative reading
Before you start your practice decide on a poem, text or scripture of 2 3
sentences that resonates with you and that you would like to use in your reading
Read the text the first time allowing the words to simply flow over you
without necessarily picking anything out. Spend a few minutes in silence
contemplating this reading
Read the text the second time allowing a word, phrase or image from the
text to come to the fore. Spend a few minutes in silence contemplating
this phrase or image.
Read the text the third time and then complete the sentence: What I hear
in the text is... Spend a few minutes in silence contemplating this
Read the text the fourth time and then complete the sentence: What I
would like or need is... Spend a few minutes in silence contemplating this
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Read the text the final time and then simply allow it to wash over you
again.
Spend the next few minutes processing and internalising the text and then
spend another few minutes in complete silence and stillness.
When you are ready open your eyes and return to the present moment.
James Hillman
Rumi
On responsibility...
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On begining...
Michelle Obama
Morning pages
Make sure you are comfortably seated and take a moment to connect to
your breath and your body
Put your pen to the paper and start to write in long and unending
sentences whatever enters your stream of consciousness
Write endlessly for the next three pages or 15 minutes
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Sit back and take a deep breath before becoming aware of any insights
and messages that have become clear through your writing.
Remember: Write down anything that enters your thoughts and do not worry
about your style of writing or about the perfect words. Allow yourself to simply
put pen to paper to facilitate the process of becoming aware of your current
ideas and emotional state.
Other than a journal morning pages are not to go back to and read again as the
activity is only a means to a clear mind, you therefore do not have to hold
onto your writings.
Repeat this exercise regularly for increased clarity and
open start to the day
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Labyrinths
A labyrinth is a walking meditation that leads you to uncover what lies within
you, therefore a journey within. See the list for labyrinths below...
Stand on the outside of the labyrinth and take two deep breaths to calm
your body and clear your head.
You can start by setting an intention or simply allowing an open space for
awarenesss to surface. As you enter the labyrinth be mindful of either
intention
Walk towards the centre very slowly and with full mindfulness
Whilst walking in focus on your intention or allow your mind and soul to be
simply focused on the sensory experience of the walk.
Once you have reached the centre stand for a moment in receptivity and
openness... allow clarity, awareness or inner wisdom to arise within you
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Walk out whilst contemplating this awareness, celebrating the new ideas
and looking forward to the integration of these wisdoms
As you step out of the labyrinth spend a moment in gratitude towards
yourself and the world
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Cape Town, Oude Molen Eco Village: 7-circuit Classical; Lulu Erasmus,
lulucapetown@yahoo.com, 021 447 4294, 082 453 9795.
Hout Bay, Earth Temple: 2 x 7-circuit Classical; by appointment only, +27 (21)
790 1366.
Oudtshoorn, Jamstreet Farm: San Vitale Labyrinth with wine bottles; Danie du
Plessis, danie@jamstreet.co.za, 082 510 0516.
Oudtshoorn, Le Petit Karoo Range: 7-circuit Classical; Florence Chanel,
chanel@lepetitkaroo.za.net, 073 457 3932.
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Other activities...
Other activities to consider as part of your silent practice...
Acknowledgements: Various experiences and inputs have been considered in the compilation of
this workshop guide. A special acknowledgement with regards to both content and insight to Chris
and Phileena Heuertz, founders of the Gravity Centre.
Resources
www.gravitycentre.com
Active Meditations for contemplative Prayer Thomas Keeting
Mystic Soul Teresa B Pasquale
Live in a better way The holiness the Dalai Lama
Pilgrimage of the soul Phileena Heuertz
www.labyrinthsociety.org
www.rainbow-labyrinths.co.za
www. zentangle.com