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On Healing Other Peoples Negativity

Some of the greatest *teachers* and *healers* in history have famously
been /murdered/presumably by negative people. Jesus and Socrates both
come to mind.
Presumably, these great teachers and healers did not *heal* these
negative people, despite being close enough to them to be /killed/ by them.
These negative people who would murder a great teacher or healer were,
presumably, *hurt* people. After all, as they say, Hurt people hurt
people.
Presumably, hurting people would include murdering great teachers or
healersinstead of being healed by them.
Hurting people does indeed cause *negativity*. Nevertheless, those hurt
(negative) people still have *free will*. For this reason, not only is
it impossible to /make/ a negative person *positive*, i.e. to /heal a
hurt person/, but it would be wrong to do so /unless you had that
persons consent/.
In real life, however, when a someone wants to (emotionally) heal a
negative person, the negative person is often only seeking to /take
and use/ some of that persons *positive energy* to /alleviate/ his or
her own suffering. In other words, the purpose of taking the positive
persons positive energy is only to /make the negative person feel
better temporarily/, not to heal them at all!
This is practically the definition of a *Narcissist*: /someone who takes
positive energy from another person in order NOT to heal themselves/.
This energetic (emotional) transfer *depletes* the other persons
positive energy, spreading the negativity to himself or herself. The
negative person now *expends* the newly-acquired positive energy like
fuel, while the positive person must *restore* it somehow.
This is *emotional vampirism* at work.
Human beings are indeed *pure positive energy* at our core, but the way
to heal negativity is not to douse it with positive energy, as in
dousing a fire with water. The way to heal a negative (hurt) person is
to /get rid of negativity/ through energetic (emotional) RELEASEand
/this is an inside job/.

This is how a negative persons /own/ pure positive energy can *come
forth */from the core/in place of the negativity that now has been
released like a champagne bottles cork.
Other people can help *facilitate* this inner process, /if/ (and /only/
if) the negative person is willing, but anyone who stays /too close/ to
a lot of negativity, for too long, is at risk of acquiring negativity
in the process. This is why teachers and healers must *replenish* their
own positive energy in various ways if they are to remain positive
themselves.
Its also why survivors of *Narcissistic abuse* frequently end up with
fleas to get rid of. These are negative qualities acquired from the
Narcissist, through the transfer of positive energy to him or her, in an
attempt to heal a negative (hurt) person. But the Narcissist is only
*pretending* to want to be healed, in order to /keep the positive energy
flowing freely/to the Narcissist.
Many people have *sacrificed* themselves trying to heal other peoples
negativity, literally for /nothing/except a lesson on this subject, if
theyre lucky. Then they learn that they can only heal themselves. And
then, guess what?
/They DO./
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Lynette d Arty-Cross <http://lynettedartycross.wordpress.com/> says:
April 12, 2016 at 11:38 pm
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Yes. Very true. The narcissist I was married to not
siphon my energy, he also hated the fact that I had
place. So, when he wasnt siphoning, he was running
to make me feel bad. It was a very awful period for
learned a lot from it.

only liked to
it in the first
me down, trying
me, but I

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I bet you did, Lynette!
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