Overcome Approach Hesitation: Seduction Enigma Hypnosis

By Seventy Seven

Copyright Viral Success Limited 2014

www.SeductionEnigma.com

Please be advised that is eBook is ONLY the companion document that

accompanies the hypnosis audio download of the same name. You should not have
been charged anything more than 99 cents for this download.

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The single biggest thing that is going to prevent you hooking up with hot women is
approach hesitation. There is literally nothing worse you can do as a part of your
game. Even if you wander up to a girl and churn out the same boring opening lines that
all the average Joes use there is still a small chance she will take pity on you and
encourage you to continue. The only thing you can do that will absolutely guarantee
failure for you is to not make the approach at all.
If you have wimped out of approaching a hot woman, then this book is for you. No more
worrying about things like:
What if she is married?
What if she just stares at me like I am a freak?
What if I stumble?
What if she tells me to fuck off?
What if is she is here with her boyfriend and he comes around the corner just
as I start talking?
What if she cant speak English?
Master pickup artist and dating coach Seventy Seven shows you how to break out of this
limiting pattern and uses powerful hypnosis to give you instant confidence to approach
any woman you desire.

Approach Hesitation

Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered
to help me make the big choices in life.
Almost everything--all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or
failure--these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly
important.
Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of
thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to
follow your heart.
No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don't want to die to get
there. And yet, death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it, and
that is how it should be, because death is very likely the single best invention of life.
It's life's change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new., Steve Jobs

00.01: You see a hot woman in the supermarket.

00.02: You desperately want to approach her.
00.03: You decide you are going to go for it.
00.04: An opening line pops into your mind.
00.05: You start towards her.
00.06: Your heart rate increases rapidly
00.07: You start to think about what could go wrong
00.08: Panic and anxiety overtakes you.
00.09: Instead of approaching her, you walk past her.
00.10: BANG - The window of opportunity has gone.

The single biggest thing that is going to prevent you hooking up with hot women is
approach hesitation. There is literally nothing worse you can do as a part of your
game. Even if you wander up to a girl and churn out the same boring opening lines that
all the average Joes use there is still a small chance she will take pity on you and
encourage you to continue. The only thing you can do that will absolutely guarantee
failure for you is to not make the approach at all.
I am not here to bust your balls about this because it was my biggest problem when I
started out on this path. I am an intelligent guy and part of that package comes with the
annoying predisposition to overthink most situations. That supermarket timeline that I
just played out for you happened to me dozens of times before I broke the cycle of
behavior that was causing it.
I would see a hot girl and begin my approach and then as I got closer to her I would
think any of the following:
What if she is married?
What if she just stares at me like I am a freak?
What if I stumble?
What if she tells me to fuck off?
What if is she is here with her boyfriend and he comes around the corner just
as I start talking?
What if she cant speak English?
Seriously the list could fill a book on its own. I would abort the approach and then
spend five minutes self-talking myself back into the mindset to have another go.
Realistically by this point I had already blown it, the woman had seen me and I was
probably not acting normal - like all the rest of the shoppers. I was almost certainly
demonstrating indicators of nervousness or anxiety. At best she might be thinking I was

a shoplifter or something, the second approach would be all the more difficult as a
result. Thankfully, the second, third and fourth approaches were normally all aborted
too.
So firstly dont beat yourself up, this is perfectly natural and virtually all guys
experience it. What makes you different is you are prepared to work though it and
strengthen an area of your game that is currently weak. Let me give you even more good
news, this problem of approach hesitation is a bit like the four-minute mile.
According to legend, experts said for years that the human body was simply not capable
of a 4-minute mile. It wasnt just dangerous; it was impossible. Countless runners had
tried for over a thousand years to break the barrier, even tying bulls behind them to
increase the incentive to do the impossible.
In the 1940s, the mile record was pushed to 4:01, where it stood for nine years, as
runners struggled with the idea that, just maybe, the experts had it right. Perhaps the
human body had reached its limit. Then on 6th May 1954, Roger Bannister ran the
measured mile in 3:59.04.
With the following twelve months, twenty-four other men completed the mile in under
four minutes.
This is what is going to happen to you, once you realize that there is nothing to fear from
the approach you will find it easy to repeat the process over and over again.
So lets look again at that list of objections and see what is behind the fear, starting
with: What if she is married?
If she has been married for more than a few years the chances are very good that she
doesnt get complimented anywhere near the amount she would like and often she wont
have any sort of romance in her life. Even if she has no intention of giving you her

number or cheating on her husband I am willing to bet a significant wager that you will
have made her day, week or even month! You will most likely get the biggest smile you
have ever seen and even if you dont get the outcome you set out for, you will walk
away feeling great.
A few weeks ago I was collecting a takeaway from a Greek restaurant. The woman
behind the counter had the most stunning blue eyes and cheeky smile I have ever seen.
Even in the silly uniform she had been made to wear you could see she was jaw
droppingly beautiful. I started talking to her, gently negging about her uniform. She fairly
quickly told me she was married, but I carried on. My style of approach didnt change
because wasnt attached to any specific outcome. I didnt really care whether I got her
number or not my approach mentality was that of having fun, talking to a hot woman.
As I was leaving I called her over to me and I said Let me ask you something, every
morning when you wake up in your comfy bed, does your husband wake up next to you,
look at you and say WOW?
She frowned and said No, he is never romantic with me, perhaps I picked the wrong
man. Then she asked me for my name and we shook hands across the counter.
I dont chase married women as a matter of personal policy but in that last sentence she
gave me three positive indicators on interests. She basically told me that she is unhappy
in her marriage, she asked my name and she initiated physical contact. These are all
huge things for a woman to do. They might appear subtle but they are the equivalent of a
guy walking up to a girl and openly asking her for a date.
So what if she is married, the best that can happen is that you leave with her number and
the worse that can happen is you make her day. This is a bullshit reason not to approach,
so lets not spend any more time on it and move onto the next objection.
What if she just stares at me like I am freak?

Well you are not a freak so thats her problem. But seriously I have never
experienced this. Normally if you say something, the other person is virtually compelled
to say something by his or her own social programming. If they are enjoying your
approach they will want to encourage you to continue if they want you to go away,
telling you so is far more efficient then just standing there like a dummy.
I am not going to spend any longer on this one because it really NEVER happens.
What if I stumble?
The biggest thing that is likely to make you stumble is thinking What if I stumble. It
creates a self-fulfilling prophecy. You almost give yourself pick up Tourettes! Once
you get your self-talk in a more positive position and when you start seeing this as fun
rather than torture you wont need to worry about this.
If you do stumble I would make a joke about it or quickly rework your opener on the fly.
Let me give you an example from many years ago when I did just that. I was planning to
walk up to a woman and ask her opinion on something, I cant remember what it was
now but I know that as I started to speak I stumbled over the first word. Rather than take
another stab at it, I decided to acknowledge the reality of the situation and beat her to
the judgment that I must be nervous (which is never cool).
Instead of going for the line I had planned, I switched to say Hey, look I just want to
say that we have a bit of a problem you and I. Instead of thinking wow this guys a
nervous wreck she instead was forced to worry and little about what I meant. She of
course asked why and I said I am trying to get my shopping done before I have to go
meet my friends for lunch and you are really distracting me. I have hardly got anything
and I have to go in a minute.

Once she realized that there wasnt really a problem and I was in fact hitting on her she
smiled broadly. The false time constraint meant that I could get her number within three
minutes and get out of there.
If you stumble, think on your feet and either slide to another opener or make a joke of it.
Joking about your failings is another sign of confidence and it might just be enough for
you to rescue your position in her mind. But the absolute worse case here is that you
walk away without the number but with a valuable lesson on what damages the
approach in the bank.
What if she tells me to fuck off?
If a woman tells you to fuck off just because you approached her I am 99.9% certain that
you are not the cause of her bad mood. You have no idea what has just happened in her
life. She might have been stopped for speeding on the way over, her boyfriend might
have just dumped her, a family member might have died that morning or she might have
just been fired. The list of possibilities is endless but dont take it personally, it is
highly unlikely that she is mad at you specifically.
Opinions vary on this and some MPUAs will insist that you battle on and turn her
rejection around. I think you have to judge each case as it comes, I quite often just take
the higher ground and say something like Jeez, I was only trying to have fun with you. It
seems like you are the sort of person that would just bring me down anyway. Have a
nice day if you can, before walking away.
Again, I know some will disagree with my stance on this but I am not so tunnel visioned
about getting the girl that I want to expend massive amounts of energy on an uphill
climb. There are three billion women in the world, seriously why would I kill myself
trying to cheer this grumpy fucker up?
Abusive shut downs are another thing that dont happen very often in the day game in

Malls and supermarkets for example. Perhaps it is a bit more common in nightclubs,
but where it happens dont take it personally, it is NEVER about you.
What if she is here with her boyfriend and he comes around the corner just as I
start talking?
If you are approaching a woman in a Mall or other public location the very worst that
can happen here is the guy tells you to fuck off. However, the chances are good it wont
get to that point. The woman is unlikely to want a scene and will act to protect you just
as much as her boyfriend. She will probably tell you as quickly as she can that her
boyfriend is nearby. The most you will normally see is an exchange of words between
them as the guy asks his girl who was that guy talking to you?
I guess you can quickly water down the approach to one of friendliness rather than a
serious approach. You can even sometimes talk to them both as a couple and act like a
friendly guy. This is how the girl will describe you and her boyfriend will often be a
little more suspicious and say I think he was hitting on you, but you have created
enough ambiguity to diffuse the situation. However, all that said, life is too short to
always engineer a happy ending for everyone. Sometimes, there is no harm in just
aborting and moving on to the next girl. Why waste time trying to smooth out a situation
that is of no lasting value to you?
Again this is a rare situation, the boyfriends of hot women, know they are with a female
of value and like to keep them close. You most often know well before the approach if
there is another alpha around the scene.
What if she cant speak English?
This may or may not even be an issue to you. I live in a country where I dont speak the
native language and so often when I approach the woman is communicating in their
second language of English. Rarely I will approach and they will respond with a

confused expression and a few sentences of Greek, that I dont understand. If they
genuinely dont understand English then they have no idea what you said anyway so
why are you worrying about this? You could have been asking where the toilets are or
how to get to the car park it doesnt matter.
In short This is not a valid reason to not approach a woman.
Approach Anxiety is a natural response of your body to a stressful situation. When we
are in environments of anxiety our brain releases a chemical called cortisol. This is a
preprogrammed response dating back to when we were at daily risk of being eaten by
some predator. It causes the release of adrenaline which gives us the speed and ability
to either fight our way out of danger or run quickly to avoid a confrontation. When you
approach a woman, you are unlikely to decide that fight is the best response to the
stressful situation you are in, and so essentially you have a whole load of chemicals in
your body trying to persuade you to run.
So how to we fix this?
Battling again chemicals is a civil war you cannot hope to win. If I offered you a million
dollars to try and stay awake while I injected you with general anesthetic, do you think
you have any chance of winning the bet?
Of course not, the only true way to fix this situation is to ensure that you take action
BEFORE the chemicals get to work. The Seduction Enigma rule is you MUST approach
within seven seconds of seeing the woman. If you leave it any longer than this you have
made everything three thousands times harder for yourself and the chances of you
closing the deal are slim. I am deadly serious about this and if you come for one to one
training with me I will count you down, you MUST make the approach within seven
seconds.
Count it out now so you are aware of how much time this give you.

APPROACH

This might sound scary and daunting, but dont worry we are going to use the hypnosis
section of this book (available as a separate download) to erode the erroneous beliefs
you currently have that this activity is in any way scary or difficult to achieve.
The hypnosis track will get you approaching much quicker and more consistently than
you ever have before and then the evidence demonstrated by your success will push you
further forward until this is no longer an issue at all.

Hypnosis Instructions

Please be advised that is eBook is ONLY the companion document that

accompanies the hypnosis audio download of the same name. You should not have
been charged anything more than 99 cents for this download.
When you play track three of the audio download you will hear a powerful hypnosisreprogramming track. It is important that you listen in a quiet, darkened room with
headphones on. Please ensure you are not disturbed and due to the induction of trance
ensure you never listen while driving or operating machinery.
To get the maximum benefit from the process, it is important that we ensure we fully
understand what hypnosis is, or more importantly what it is not. Hypnosis is not black
magic, a party trick nor a piece of theatre. It is a naturally occurring process of the brain
that has unfortunately attracted some seriously bad press over recent years; some might
say even OJ Simpson has had better press than hypnosis! Thankfully, for over two
thousand years it was documented and practiced with a great deal of respect. How
bizarre that this long studied and amazing action of the human mind was essentially
defamed by a man in a bar trying to convince girls to remove their clothes.
The traditional stage hypnotist is considered by most right thinking hypnotherapists and
psychologists as a blundering incompetent dabbling in something they don't truly
understand. If they did understand the amazing process they are playing with, I would
suggest they would find something more productive to do with it than make a person
believe they are a little fluffy duck called Roger!
A common misconception about hypnosis is that it is sleep. Although a hypnotized
person appears to be sleeping, they are actually quite alert. Hypnosis is very difficult to
describe, as nobody actually knows what is going on inside the mind of a subject. What
we do know is that while in the trance state, the subject becomes very suggestible. A

subject's attention, while they are going into trance, is narrowed down gradually.
Many areas of normal communication are removed one by one. Starting with sight, a
person is asked to close his eyes and concentrate. Other senses are then removed from
the equation; some people even lose complete feeling of their body. That may sound
frightening, but it is accomplished in a slow, pleasant way, rather than suddenly turning
off of a switch.
You enter a world of hyper relaxation and at the same time hyper awareness. As you
might expect, as you remove certain senses the remaining ones become more acute to
compensate. Often people who have been under hypnosis will come around and claim
it did not work. When you enquire as to why they believe hypnosis did not occur, they
make statements such as I could hear everything, I could even hear the cars going
past the window! This is all part of the misconception that hypnosis is sleep, and that
during trance you are unconscious, when in actual fact you are hyper conscious.
I am telling you about hypnosis not because I want you to take to the stage, but because I
want you to understand the truly amazing power of the subconscious mind. A person in
hypnosis is highly suggestible. The hypnotist has direct access to the person's
subconscious without having to go through the conscious mind. This is how they can
convince a six foot tall, 250 lb man he is a light gentle ballet dancer and have him
pirouetting his way around the stage.
Hypnosis is so natural, that you do it dozens of times a day without even realizing it.
Have you ever driven home at the end of your working day and arrived home with no
memory of the journey? Hypnosis just paid you a visit, your brain was using the
opportunity of this familiar and fairly simple task to filter and file information in your
brain.
You may notice yourself at work blankly staring at the computer screen in a deep
peaceful daydream. This happens due to the vast amount of information constantly

entering your brain, every few hours your mind must pause, just a little to filter and file
all the information you have learned. Placing the information in the correct storage areas
of the brain.
You can learn as much as you want about being a seduction expert but you will only do
so at a conscious level. If there is a program buried in your subconscious mind that
makes you scared of approaching women, then you are going to struggle to achieve the
levels of success you desire. All problems in life are the result of bad programs running
deep in the subconscious area of our brain. During the hypnosis track I talk directly to
the part of your brain that you cannot consciously access. I do this because I know that
the conscious mind is a guard dog. The sort of animal the mail man must first distract
before he opens the gate and creeps up the path to post the mail through the letterbox,
after doing so he sneaks back out, hopefully without being noticed. During this book I
have been directly talking to your guard dog, you can choose to accept what I am saying,
or dismiss it. During hypnosis you do not have that problem; all suggestions are
accepted without judgment because the words are directed to the subconscious, which is
incapable of questioning a command.
What to expect:
Dont lie there waiting for something magical to happen, dont expect or demand
anything, you will also need to be prepared to catch your ego trying to pull you out of
the moment. Its fine when it does, if you find your mind wandering just notice what has
happened, smile and refocus on the now. Relax and let the music and my words drift
over you. There is nothing that you can do wrong, free yourself of that concern and let
go of all expectation.
There is one phrase that I use repeatedly in the hypnosis track that I want to explain to
you, so it doesnt catch you off guard. You will hear me say the following statements:
I am sorry

Please forgive me
Thank you
I love you
These phrases are the four corners of a form of meditation called hooponopono. Yes, I
agree it sounds like complete bullshit, new age mumbo jumbo. But for whatever reason
it works, and more powerfully than anything I have ever tried in my life. Sure, I could
have left it out of the recording to preserve some semblance of street cred but I would
rather give you the most effective solution, even if it turns a few people off. I know that
for the guys that just shrug and take it as it is they will see amazing and profound
results.
If all this talk of a mystical Hawaiian healing method has awoken your inner hippy then
read on and I will explain more about the origins of this strange but highly effective
meditation technique. However, if you dont care where it came from and want to get
one with redesigning your subconscious thoughts to attract more hot women than you
ever thought possible, then simply skip to the next track and begin the hypnosis session.

Hooponopono Revealed
Ah, my fellow hippy welcome!
Hooponopono is the ancient Hawaiian spiritual process of acceptance, forgiveness and
gratitude. Rosario Montenegro offers one of the most concise stories of how Dr Hew
Len brought this amazing tradition into popular modern culture around the world.
More than thirty years ago, in Hawaii, at the Hawaii State Hospital, there was a special
ward, a clinic for the mentally ill criminals. People who had committed extremely
serious crimes were assigned there either because they had a very deep mental disorder
or because they needed to be checked to see if they were sane enough to stand trial.

They had committed murder, rape, kidnapping or other such crimes. According to a
nurse that worked there in those years, the place was so bleak that not even the paint
could stick to the walls; everything was decaying, terrifying and repulsive. No day
would pass without a patient-inmate attacking another inmate or a member of the staff.
The people working there were so frightened that they would walk close to the walls if
they saw an inmate coming their way in a corridor, even though they were all shackled,
all the time. The inmates would never be brought outside to get fresh air because of their
relentlessly threatening attitude. The scarcity of staff was a chronic occurrence. Nurses,
wardens, and employees would prefer to be on sick-leave most of the time in order not
to confront such a depressive and dangerous environment.
One day, a newly appointed clinical psychologist, a Dr. Stanley Hew Len, arrived at the
ward. The nurses rolled their eyes, bracing themselves for one more guy that was going
to bug them with new theories and proposals to fix the horrid situation, who would walk
away as soon as things became unpleasant, around a month later, usually. However, this
new doctor wouldnt do anything like that. Actually, he didnt seem to be doing anything
in particular, except just coming in and always being cheerful and smiling, in a very
natural, relaxed way. He wasnt even particularly early in arriving every morning. From
time to time he would ask for the files of the inmates.
He never tried to see them personally, though. Apparently he just sat in an office, looked
at their files, and to members of the staff who showed an interest he would tell them
about a weird thing called Hooponopono. Little by little things started to change in the
hospital. One day somebody would try again to paint those walls and they actually
stayed painted, making the environment more palatable. The gardens started being taken
care of, some tennis courts were repaired and some prisoners that up until then would
never be allowed to go outside started playing tennis with the staff. Other prisoners
would be allowed out of their shackles, or would receive less heavy pharmacological
drugs. More and more obtained permission to go outside, unshackled, without causing
trouble to the hospitals employees.

In the end, the atmosphere changed so much that the staff was not on sick leave any
more. Actually, more people than were needed were working there. Prisoners gradually
started to be released. Dr. Hew Len worked there close to four years. In the end, there
remained only a couple of inmates that were eventually relocated elsewhere, and the
clinic for the mentally insane criminals had to close.
Simply put, Hooponopono is based on the knowledge that anything that happens to you
or that you perceive, the entire world where you live is your own creation and thus, it is
entirely your responsibility.
Your boss is a tyrant? Its your responsibility.
You are lacking confidence around women, its your responsibility.
There are wars and you feel bad because you are a good person, a pacifist?
The war is your responsibility.
You see that children around the world are hungry and malnourished if not
starving? Their want is your responsibility.
No exceptions. Literally, the world is your world, it is your creation. As Dr. Hew Len
points out: didnt you notice that whenever you experience a problem, you are there?
Its your responsibility, doesnt mean its your fault, it means that you are responsible
for healing yourself in order to heal whatever or whoever it is that appears to you as a
problem.
It might sound crazy, or just plain metaphorical, that the world is your creation. But if
you look carefully, you will realize that whatever you call the world and perceive as the
world is your world, it is the projection of your own mind.
If you go to a party you can see how in the same place, with the same light, the same
people, the same food, drink, music and atmosphere, some will enjoy themselves while

others will be bored, some will be overenthusiastic and some depressed, some will be
talkative and others will be silent.
The out there for every one of them seems the same, but if one were to connect their
brains to machines, immediately it would show how different areas of the brain would
come alive, how different perceptions there are from one person to the next. So even if
they apparently share it, the out there is not the same for them, let alone their inner
world, their emotions.
If you are ready to make some powerful and dramatic changes in your subconscious
programming then go get yourself ready to listen to the hypnosis audio track.
Listen everyday for 21 days and watch what happens!

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