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Hi Eliza!

Hi Roxana!
How are you dear?
Im fine, and you?
Well, thank you. Did you bring your homework, so we can do our
project?
Hmm. (Stau cu mainile la spate, imi ating fata)
Why do you stay with your hands behind your back? Are you
ashamed? And look at your eyes... you just touched your nose...
you forgot it home.
Yes, it is right. How do you know I forgot it? You could believe I
didnt make it.
Because you were ashamed, it is not a lie sign.
You know a lot of body language. I know also a few things. For
example happiness, this emotion is expressed very well by eyes,
their brilliance and brightness, plus smile, a special ingredient.
You seem happy now. But people can easy pass to anger,
expressed by mating eyebrows, madness eyes expression and lips
arched down.
Hmm, yes. But if you see an anger person, it is possible to
become afraid. When you are afraid of something or someone,
your eyebrows rise and separate, your mouth opens in O and
you tend to cover it with hand.
Pretty right, if you are sorry to see a fearful person, your
eyebrows approach and undulate up, the intensity can vary by
regret to tragedy.
I would try to make that person smile.
You have to recognize type of smiles. They are mischievous smile.
It is generally used by teenagers and people with hidden
intentions.(Zambesti rautacios). Like that. Smiling shyly is used by
young insecure. The smile of approval, he or she approves the
situation.

All those things about nonverbal language are amazing. This way
you know when someone is sad, angry, feel pain or guilty, he or
she is lying.
Thats true, if people tend to touch their nose, neck or hand, are
looking in other point, not at you, lie might be a possibility. But
you dont have to confuse shy people with liars.
This way you can keep away from you those persons.
By the way, why do you stay so far from me? Thats 14 feet, come
closer, that distances between us is public distance used for
public speaking, and we are friends dear.
(Face un pas catre mine)
It is not close enough, 4 to 12 feet is for social distance, for
interactions among acquaintances. A little bit closer.
(Mai face un pas catre mine)
Yes, thats great, 1, 5 to 4 feet is personal distance, for good
friends or family members.
You are the best. Give me a hug. Now you are in my intimate
space, less than 18 inches, but I am comfy with you.
This distance, named proximity range varies with culture.
Nonverbal language is transmitted through physiognomy, facial
expressions, gestures and posture.
Ah, I heard about paraverbal language, it is about signals
transmitted by the tone, volume and rhythm of voice.
Yes, you have to know all those things for an effective language,
now Ill give you some hints:
Communicate in a language easily understood
Use recap
Use open questions
Use constructive feedback
Listen to twice and speak once
Planning

1) Now we would like to do an interactive game with our classmates. First


of all we will choose 6 persons in here. I will say a number, the person
with that number on the teachers list, will come in front and say other
number, until they will be 6 in front of you.
They have to pick a note. There is wrote a facial expression, they have to
mimic. The other classmates have to recognize them. Lets start.

2) My friend drew some circles, and now you have to tell us, what space we
are talking about?

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