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A Decree to Ordain and Promulgate a Code Recognizing the System of Filipino Muslim Laws,
Codifying Muslim Personal Laws, and Providing for its Administration and for Other Purposes
[Muslim Personal Laws], Presidential Decree No. 1083, art. 16, 1
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A Decree to Ordain and Promulgate a Code Recognizing the System of Filipino Muslim Laws,
Codifying Muslim Personal Laws, and Providing for its Administration and for Other Purposes
[Muslim Personal Laws], Presidential Decree No. 1083, art. 16, 3
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The Muslim Personal Laws allows divorce and multiple marriages. Said law provides seven
grounds for divorce. 5
It also provides that provisions of the Revised Penal Code relative to the crime of bigamy shall
not apply to a person married in accordance with the provisions of the Muslim Law.6 Hence, the
Muslim Laws allows multiple marriages.
With these, the way the Muslims view marriage is not exactly the same as how the Catholic
Church, even our Family Code, does. It means that what the Catholic Churches and the State are
trying to protect in marriages, specifically divorce, is not a risk in a similar way in Muslim
marriages.
However it is to note that according to the Council on Foreign Relations, some Muslims who
follow a conservative interpretation of sharia argue that Islam permits child marriage as the
Quran specifies that girls can be married upon reaching maturity, which conservative scholars
define as puberty. However, there is debate within Islam about at what age a girl reaches
maturity. Many Muslim communities and Islamic scholars agree with the internationally
recognized age of maturity, eighteen. Moreover, many Muslims argue against child marriage
because Islam mandates that men and women should choose their partners freely, and children
are unable to do so. 7
Essential Requisites of Marriage
According to Presidential Decree 1083, the following are the essential requisites of marriage:
Article 15. Essential Requisites - No marriage contract shall be perfected unless the following
essential requisites are complied with:
a. Legal capacity of the contracting parties
b. Mutual consent of the parties freely given
c. Offer (ijab) and acceptable (qabul) duly witnessed by at least two competent persons after
the proper guardian in marriage (wali) has given his consent; and
The first two requisites are the same as the essential requisites in the 1988 Family Code of the
Philippines. The last two requisites however are unique to Muslim marriages. These two
requisites show especially that not only are the couples the one deciding to enter into marriage
but also their families.
Lowering Age of Marriage
A UNESCO report examining laws on children's rights and education in 158 countries revealed
that minimum ages for marriage vary between seven and 18 years, with no legal minimum in as
many as 37 countries. Forty-four states provide a lower limit for girls than for boys.
But even in countries with legal minimum ages of marriage, early marriage still prevails as it is
condoned by religious and customary laws and practice. The UNICEF report states it is hard to
assess the prevalence of early marriages as so many are unregistered and unofficial. Very little
country data exist regarding marriages under the age of 14, even less regarding those below age
10. But it says there are grounds for believing that the practice is under-reported in areas where it
is known to occur, especially for children under 14 who are virtually invisible in standard data
recording.9
Campaign Against Early Marriage in Muslim Countries and Communities: The Problem with
Early Marriage available at http://www.sistersinislam.org.my/news.php?item.674.41 (last
accessed October 19, 2016).
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Campaign Against Early Marriage in Muslim Countries and Communities: The Problem with
Early Marriage available at http://www.sistersinislam.org.my/news.php?item.674.41 (last
accessed October 19, 2016).
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Mohammad Afzal, Lee L. Bean and Itiazuddin Husain, Muslim Marriages: Age, Mehr, and
Social Status, 12 The Pakistan Development Review 1, 48-61 (1973).
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traditional Istikhara. If the answer comes 'good', then even if the boy or girl is the biggest sinner
or ill-mannered person, the parents will welcome him/her into the family with open arms.
The opposite has also been seen that if the boy or girl is an upright, virtuous, and pious believer,
but the Istikhara comes out 'bad' then they are automatically rejected with no chance to go
forward.
The Istikhara is a method that has been taught and approved by our Prophet (S) and Ahlul Bait
(as), however, there are many preconditions and steps that must be followed before we rush to
the Quran or Tasbih.13
Dowry Among Muslims
Marriage of children is an important social duty of parents. There is an exchange of gifts between
two families. It has become an established custom in India for many centuries. Traditionally, rich
and well-to-do families not only gave the bride as a gift at the time of marriage but also
accompanied her with small gifts in cash and/or ornaments. These gifts were not called dowry in
those days as they were presented after the marriage and as a mark of affection and love. As long
as dowry was voluntary, it was not a financial burden.14
Dowry and Dower in Muslim Marriage
Marriages are preferred among close kins i.e. both parallel and cross cousins and that too within
the same territory. This kind of marriage is known as marriage in the relations or x Rishte ki
Shad /' whereas marriage among the non kins but within the same caste is known by Biradari ki
Shadi. The parents of both boy and girl prefer to marry in those families who are financially
strong so as to get more dowry and dower respectively. If boy's family is economically strong the
girls parents can demand heavy amount of dower. Similarly if girl's parents are strong, more
dowry can be demanded or given to boy's family. Thus it can be said that economically strong
families are expected to give heavy amount of dowry and dower.15
The Religion of Al-Islam and Marriage by Al-Fath Al-Mubin Publications available at https://
www.al-islam.org/religion-al-islam-and-marriage/preconditions-aqd-marriage#1-looking-otherparty-marriage (last accessed October 19, 2016)
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Nehal Ashraf Economic and Political Weekly, Dowry among Muslims in Bihar, 32 Political
Weekly 52, 3310-3311, (1988).
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Ragini Sahay and Regini Sahay, Dowry and Dower in Muslim Marriage : A study among
Muslim Telis of Delhi, 26 Indian Anthropologist 1, (June, 1996), 47-52
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UNFPA Hails New Fatwa on Early Marriage, Gender and Youth, UNFPA Philippines,
available at http://www.unfpa.org.ph/index.php/news/268-unfpa-hails-new-fatwa-on-earlymarriage-gender-and-youth (last accessed October 19, 2016)
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Ana Santos, [DASH of SAS] Muslim religious leaders affirm 'sublime status' of women,
Rappler, November 30, 2015, available at http://www.rappler.com/views/imho/114347-dash-sasmuslim-religious-leaders-women (last accessed October 19, 2016)
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Divorce Rates
The Republic of Maldives which officially describes itself as 100 percent Muslim, is believed to
have the highest divorce rate in the world, at 10.97 divorces per 1,000 population in 2004. This is
in comparison than 4 per 1,000 for Guam, Belarus, Russia, and the United States, the countries
with the next four highest divorce rates in the same year. Also, most of the divorces are from the
early age marriages.18
Kotlikoff, J. and S. Burns, The Coming Generational Storm: What you Know about Americas
Economic Future, 2005
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