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Continued from page 61 policy, but only after the Pentagon and the American taxpayer, so I
completes its review process, and would be supportive of it.”
Pennsylvania, but couldn’t attend they certify that it won’t hurt our Murphy urged gay service
this year because of a schedul- national security,” Murphy said. members who are anticipating the
ing conflict. Instead, Murphy said “They’ve already testified that it end to “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” to be
his wife, Jenni Murphy, took part won’t, but still, I want to make sure patient just a short while longer.
and marched in a Pride parade that it works out right.” “I would first say thank you to
along with their children. Murphy said he’s “confident” them, and then I would tell them
“My wife Jenni was pushing in that Pentagon leaders would not to stand strong because this pol-
the stroller my three-and-a-half withhold certification of repeal icy is going to change at any
year-old daughter Maggie Murphy once the study is complete moment,” he said. “I hope that
and my six-month-old son Jack because both Defense Secretary they’re proud of what the
Murphy in the Gay Pride parade,” Robert Gates and Chairman of Congress is trying to do, not just
Patrick Murphy said. “It’s some- the Joint Chiefs of Staff Adm. for them, but for the national
thing that as a family we definitely Michael Mullen testified in favor security of our country.”
celebrate and are proud of where of open service in a February
we stand in the ledger of history.” congressional hearing.
But as supporters of repeal cele- “Adm. Mullen said himself that LT. DAN CHOI
brate, hurdles remain that could it’s a question of integrity — Reminding us what
obstruct the measure from making theirs as individuals and ours as activism looks like
its way to President Obama’s desk. an institution,” Murphy said. “And
Opponents of repeal — most they know that this is bad for By JOSHUA LYNSEN
notably Sen. John McCain (R- national security.” jlynsen@washblade.com
Ariz.) — have threatened to fili- Also of concern to many repeal
buster in the Senate the defense advocates is lack of non-discrimi- As a graduate of the U.S.
budget legislation to which the nation language in the measure Military Academy at West Point,
“Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” repeal is protecting gay, lesbian and bisexu- Army Lt. Dan Choi considers
attached. Obama himself may al service members. Such lan- himself a man of duty.
veto the defense bill if it contains guage was present in standalone That’s why Choi, who’s gay,
funding for an alternate engine versions of the repeal bill. feels so compelled to fight for Washington Blade photo by Michael Key
program he deems unnecessary Supporters have been push- LGBT civil rights. His most public
for a next-generation aircraft. ing Obama — upon his certifica- acts in recent months — speaking BETSY PURSELL
Moreover, the measure spells tion — to issue an executive against “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” and
out that repeal wouldn’t take effect order to protect LGBT service protesting outside the White House
until after the Pentagon completes members or to expand President — reflect the responsibility Choi after again handcuffing himself to BETSY PURSELL
its study on “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” at Truman’s order from 1948 to pro- feels he has regarding the next the White House fence. From educator to ‘gay for pay’
the end of the year and the presi- vide such protections. generation of gay Americans. “I believe it’s our duty as citi-
dent, defense secretary and chair- Murphy said he’d have to “There’s a lot of people who zens to hold our leaders By SARAH McKIBBEN
man of the Joint Chiefs of Staff cer- examine such a move from the judge their actions based on what’s accountable,” he said. “As a mili-
tify the U.S. military is ready. president, but said he generally possible now, what’s possible polit- tary officer, I take that duty all the Betsy Pursell thinks it’s a waste
Despite these obstacles, supports the idea. ically, what’s profitable, what is more seriously.” to live without purpose. She and her
Murphy said he’s “not going to “I’ll have to take a look at that easy, or what needs to be done to Undeterred by his arrests, Choi partner are parents to a set of twin
rest” until “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” and see where we’re moving,” he achieve a particular agenda,” he has continued to fight against tweens, and as she’ll attest, her
is “finally repealed.” said. “Of course, I think this poli- said. “And I understand where “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.” He recently unwavering love for her family —
“My amendment dismantles the cy hurts our national security they’re coming from.” completed a seven-day, water- and instinct to protect it — has been
But as LGBT activists and their only fast in protest of the law. Choi the cornerstone of her LGBT-relat-
allies work to improve tomorrow, said the fast was also done to ed work. As vice president of edu-
Choi said, it’s incumbent on them encourage President Obama to cation and outreach for the Human
to remember they’re fighting every “stop the firings” of gay, lesbian Rights Campaign and board chair
bit as much for the future. and bisexual soldiers. of the Sexual Minority Youth
“And that’s something that’s That the fast ended June 2 Assistance League, she grabs
lacking not only within our move- with no action from Obama every opportunity available to
ment, but within our community,” he might dishearten some people. improve the well being of the LGBT
said. “Responsibility toward the Not Choi. community, particularly its youth.
next generation of gay people.” “I know that a lot of the move- “I really have gotten to a point in
Choi, whose father is a ment and our community’s inter- my life where I deliberately do the
Southern Baptist minister, made ests, at least politically, have been things I do because I think they’re
headlines in March 2009 when based and formulated by those going to make a positive impact for
he came out on national televi- who come from that kind of a the world I live in, for my family,
sion. The revelation triggered a background where those metrics, and to a certain extent, for myself,”
military trial that ended in June if you will, are easily employed,” he she says during a phone interview
2009 with a recommendation for said. “And we’re quite fluent in that late one evening.
his discharge in accordance with kind of vernacular.” A longtime teacher and princi-
“Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.” Twelve But the Army National Guard pal of a Maryland private school,
months later, though, Choi said lieutenant said, “it would be limiting Pursell hasn’t always been an out-
he’s still waiting for the Pentagon our movement as well as our com- front community spokesperson. As
to complete the process. munity and ourselves” to judge suc- is the situation for many educators,
“They just don’t know what to cesses or failures so immediately she felt forced to separate her per-
do,” he said. “And we’ve been and in such limited terms. sonal and professional lives. After
waiting for a year.” “It relegates us to a small per- years of struggle, however, the
In the meantime, Choi has spective,” he said, “which is not stress finally took its toll and she
become one of the nation’s most befitting such a talented and left education for good.
visible LGBT civil rights activists. A vibrant community. “I was just at the point where I
frequent event speaker and rally “We do have to start broaden- couldn’t hide it anymore and I
participant, Choi was arrested in ing our ways of not only judging needed to be who I am,” she says.
Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key March after handcuffing himself in ourselves, but creating and build- Still, her commitment to improving
Lt. DAN CHOI uniform to the White House fence ing our movement. We need to achievement and outcomes for
in protest of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.” judge it in terms of what we con-
He was arrested a second time tribute to future generations.” Continues on page 64
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Continued from page 62 the best parts about the recent
win in D.C. was the high number
youth never went by the wayside. of African-American supporters
Her decision to live her dream and — both LGBT and straight —
be “gay for pay,” as she quips, ulti- who were active and visible in
mately led her to HRC. the fight. He thinks one of the
In the few years she’s been with keys to winning marriage equali-
the organization, Pursell’s work ty in other places is to include
has already left an indelible mark the African-American communi-
on the national queer landscape. ty, as well as local faith leaders.
The programs she administers col- “I was happy to play a role in
lectively protect families, promote that,” said Crawford.
workplace and religious equality Since February, Crawford has
and encourage youth to advocate been in New York, working as the
on their own behalf. Keeping edu- director of new media at
cation at the forefront of her mis- Freedom to Marry, where he is in
sion, she helped oversee the charge of the national organiza-
implementation of the “Welcoming tion’s online presence. He organ-
Schools” pilot program in several izes everything from the website
districts across the country. The ini- to a Facebook page and Twitter
tiative, which she’s especially account. He also works to figure
proud of, provides schools with K-5 out ways to use social network-
curriculum that promotes accept- ing, blogging, online videos and
ance for all kinds of families while other emerging media to
also addressing gender stereotyp- advance marriage equality.
ing and name-calling. Crawford uses these media
Locally, Pursell has used her outlets to get different organiza-
position as board chair of SMYAL tions, including grassroots and
to help turn around the organiza- national groups, working togeth-
tion that’s dedicated exclusively to er to get a “diversity of tactics Washington Blade photo by Michael Key
LGBT youth. A welcoming place and strategies.”
for the city’s queer kids since the A major part of that effort is using DEACON MACCUBBIN
early 1980s, SMYAL was formed Freedom to Marry’s “Roadmap to
during the onset of the AIDS epi- Victory,” which includes three major
demic and subsequently attracted steps: win more states, build a Crawford is the managing edi- Crawford served as communi- decades, and the community cen-
more young men to its services majority and advance federally. tor of dc.bilerico.com and a cations director at Energy Action ter-like ambience he created in his
than women. Determined to Activists often have many fac- member of the editorial team for Coalition, a coalition of youth and store, have been credited with
change that, Pursell made engag- tors that motivate and inspire them bilerico.com. He also blogs at student organizations working on helping countless people under-
ing young women a top priority for to do their work, and Crawford is no Huffington Post. a clean energy movement. He stand and accept their sexual ori-
the nonprofit. She tells the Blade exception. He fights because he Crawford has served as was also the online director for entation and become involved in
that, “while we still do direct serv- wants sexual orientation to not be a associate field director at the Citizens for Responsibility and the LGBT rights movement.
ice, counseling, and HIV education factor in a person’s success. Human Rights Campaign, spe- Ethics in Washington. But Maccubbin attributes his
and testing, we have moved to “I want young LGBT people to cializing in working with state In addition, he was awarded the own inspiration in becoming an
more of an empowerment model effectively rule the world,” said and local advocacy groups to Gay & Lesbian Activists Alliance out gay man active in changing
that emphasizes leadership and Crawford. advance legislation. Distinguished Service Award. society’s attitudes toward gays to
self-advocacy.” Crawford said he makes it a straight friend in the 1960s.
As the interview winds down, back to D.C. as often as possible “He was my very, very best
the conversation is suddenly and intends to be part of the friend in the world,” Maccubbin
interrupted by one of Pursell’s Pride parade this year. says. “And I started feeling guilty
daughters. An exchange of whis- about not telling him who and
pering is heard before she what I was.”
patiently says, “Honey, it’ll have DEACON MACCUBBIN After building up the courage,
to wait.” The moment is priceless. Organizer of D.C.’s first Maccubbin says he blurted out,
It’s the perfect reminder of why Pride celebration “It’s a little hard to talk about but
Pursell directs every ounce of I feel like I’m lying to you by not
energy into advocating on behalf By LOU CHIBBARO JR. telling you about it, so I’m just
of youth and families. She works lchibbaro@washblade.com going to tell you. I’m gay, I’m a
hard and deliberately to protect homosexual.”
what’s closest to her heart. Deacon Maccubbin is best As Maccubbin recalls it, the
known for his role as the founder friend laughed and said, “Shit, is
and owner of D.C.’s Lambda Rising that all you were worrying about? I
MICHAEL CRAWFORD Bookstore, which played a key role knew it all along. I don’t give a fuck.”
Master of marriage in the development of the local “The thing that made an
messaging LGBT community for 35 years. impression on me is that he
He also has the distinction of meant more to me than anybody
By JULIETTE EBNER being the initiator and organizer in the world right then,” says
of the city’s first annual LGBT Maccubbin. “And if he didn’t care,
After helping to win same-sex pride celebration in 1975. then I didn’t care who did. So I
marriage in D.C., Michael Held as a block party on proceeded to tell everybody.”
Crawford is a person the LGBT the street near Dupont Circle His near universal coming out
community can be proud of. where the first Lambda Rising in the late 1960s played a role in
Crawford first moved to D.C. to store was located, the event his decision to get involved in
help organize the 2000 Millennium became the forerunner to the politics, including the anti-
March on Washington for LGBT Capital Pride festival set to take Vietnam War movement. His
Equal Rights. place June 13 on Pennsylvania says his first involvement in gay
He co-founded and co- Washington Blade photo by Michael Key Avenue near the U.S. Capitol. rights came in 1970, shortly after
chaired D.C. for Marriage, a MICHAEL CRAWFORD The LGBT books and periodi- he moved to D.C. from his home-
grassroots organization. cals that Maccubbin provided for
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Continued from page 64 longtime domestic partner, Jim other week on Thursday — is
Bennett, decided to close the mostly lesbian but bi and
town of Norfolk, Va., when he store for good last January. straight women hang out there
started going to meetings of the Maccubbin, who wanted to too, McAllister says. Men are
Gay Liberation Front. retire, says he and Bennett welcome — she’s even experi-
A short time after that, remain active in LGBT endeav- menting with a Wednesday
Maccubbin opened Earthworks, ors. Capital Pride organizers rec- night men’s night for gay guys.
an upscale “paraphernalia” shop ognized Maccubbin as a Pride It’s for anyone comfortable in
that specialized in, among other Hero this year. an upscale, mostly female
things, water pipes and candles. environment. Of the roughly
Located just off Dupont Circle at 350 to 400 patrons who visit
1724 20th St., N.W., the shop LINDA McALLISTER the space on an average week-
enabled Maccubbin to secure Making a political statement end, McAllister guesses about
space in the same building to while having fun 60 percent are black. A crusted
open Lambda Rising in 1974. tilapia dish is the most popular
“In ’72, I had gone to New By JOEY DiGUGLIELMO menu item. A peachy martini
York for Gay Pride Day and I jdiguglielmo@washblade.com called Tie Me To the Bedpost is
came across, totally by accident, the most popular drink.
the Oscar Wilde Memorial Linda McAllister, like many “When I decided to move for-
Bookshop,” he says. The tiny entrepreneurs, sensed a need that ward, quite frankly, I did have
shop was one of the nation’s first inspired her to go into business. people say, ‘Oh, women are
gay bookstores. Lace, a mostly lesbian bar/restau- fickle, they don’t come out
“I thought this is really cool,” rant, in D.C.’s Woodbridge/ much.’ But I moved forward from
he says. “Someday Washington Brookland neighborhood (2214 the perspective that if that’s the
should have a store like this — Rhode Island Ave., N.E.), case, I want more than anec-
not thinking that I should do it, opened in 2008 and is equal dotal information. I still believe
but just that it should happen.” parts political statement and that over time, women will make
So in 1974, when space business, McAllister says. a clear statement that we
became available in the build- “I would go to major cities and deserve to have a space that
ing where Earthworks was notice that women often did not caters to our needs.” Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key
located, Maccubbin decided to have an identified space or McAllister is a social worker
take the plunge and open a women were provided a space by day. She still works full-time in DANA BEYER
D.C. gay bookstore. on certain days of the week or a her field but would eventually like
“I didn’t have any idea whether space that was inconsistent,” the to make running Lace — with
it would work or not,” he says. 48-year-old North Carolina sister bars in other cities — her something.’ It took a few days, past five years, so too has the
“But it did work, and it worked native says. “Women really have main work. The double duty has but that really sunk in.” political environment.
very well. And three years later, been marginalized in this way, so taken a toll. Spending so much By 2006, the successful eye “Before, it wasn’t about my
we needed more space and for me it was almost a political time on Lace was a contributing surgeon and native New Yorker being a physician and a surgeon,
moved around the corner to S statement that women should factor in the end of a two-year had set her sights on the what I could bring to Annapolis,
Street. And then in ’84, we ran have equal opportunity to have a relationship she was in until a Maryland statehouse. With no ini- my integrity, my life experience,
out of room in that space and had place that’s consistent, to talk, few months ago. tial name recognition and zero raising children. It was, ‘Oooo,
to move to where we finally were have a great time, have great “My ex and I are very cordial endorsements, she came within she had a sex change.’ At this
— Connecticut Avenue.” food and not just on odd days.” and she’s wonderful,” McAllister 1,100 votes of winning a delegate point, I think I’m enough of a
After more than 35 years in Lace — open every Friday says. “Unfortunately a relation- seat from Maryland’s 18th District, political player here that that’s
business, Maccubbin and his through Sunday and every ship didn’t quite fit in with every- which would have made her the really muted. People don’t speak
thing I have going on.” first openly transgender candidate of me amongst my peers that
McAllister calls Lace her in American history to win election way in local and state politics. So
contribution to the local LGBT to a state legislature. Though she I think it’s very different.”
community. lost, her campaign impressed Beyer has also won respect
“To go with your girlfriend and many, including Montgomery and support from the LGBT
celebrate in a primarily straight County Councilwoman Duchy political establishment, including
environment, you often feel Trachtenberg, who called Beyer the Gill Foundation and the Gay
slightly uncomfortable if you the day after her loss to commend and Lesbian Victory Fund, which
want to kiss or something. Those her for a great campaign and offer sent her to Harvard University
affectionate moments. Women her a job as a senior adviser. two years ago for the Senior
feel very comfortable here and It took Beyer less than a day Executive Leadership Program
I’m just extraordinarily pleased to to decide she would run for and is endorsing her run.
be able to provide that.” office again, and this fall she “I do feel a responsibility to
will try a second time to make the national LGBT community.
history. After four years learn- I’m the first really credible [trans-
DANA BEYER ing the ins and outs of county gender] candidate. I need to give
Making history in Maryland government, she believes she it 100 percent.”
is a much stronger candidate But at the same time, she
By NICK NAPOLITANO now and even says that losing says, “I can do more to advance
in 2006 was probably the best the trans agenda and the LGBT
Dana Beyer can clearly recall thing that could have hap- agenda simply by going to work
the moment she transitioned pened to her. every day and doing my job.”
from private citizen to activist “When I ran before, I knew I Though quick to point out that
and political candidate. It was in could make a contribution just she is the same person now that
the days following President because of my well of knowl- she was before gender reassign-
George W. Bush’s 2004 re-elec- edge and experience as a ment, in all the ways that truly
tion and Beyer was feeling angry physician and a surgeon, but I matter, the parent of two does
and disgusted. didn’t know how the system credit her transition with provid-
“I was complaining, and think- worked. Now I know very well ing the strength and drive to
ing out loud about moving to how it works. I know what needs serve her community.
Washington Blade photo by Michael Key Canada,” Beyer admitted. “My to get done in order to achieve a “I took care of myself so now I
LINDA McALLISTER girlfriend at the time said, ‘why particular goal.” can take care of others.”
don’t you just stop whining about And just as Beyer has
this. Stop complaining and do changed and grown over the Continues on page 66
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Continued from page 65 rights, no one with any knowledge ing the city’s HIV/AIDS services.
of the City Council considers him “We now have the best epi-
DAVID CATANIA a one-issue lawmaker confined demiology data in the nation,” he
Out — and outspoken — only to gay issues. says. “We are the most aggres-
advocate on City Council Since he burst on the political sive in testing and treatment. And
scene in 1997, when he won an recently, as you’ve reported,
By LOU CHIBBARO JR. upset victory for his at-large we’ve started to see dramatic
lchibbaro@washblade.com Council seat, Catania has tena- improvements in our confronta-
ciously pushed for city govern- tion with this epidemic. And I’m
David Catania, a member of ment reform on a number of proud of that.”
the D.C. City Council since 1997, fronts. Since becoming chair of And while he acknowledges
has an immediate answer to the the Council’s Committee on that much of the media attention
question of what motivated him Health in 2005, health care has has focused on his efforts to
as a gay man to take on the been among his top priorities. push for marriage equality for
cause of LGBT equality, includ- In a series of highly publicized gays and lesbians, he says his
ing his role in introducing the oversight hearings, Catania is “real passion” has been health
city’s same-sex marriage law. credited with systematically prod- care. He notes that as a result of
“There’s an easy answer to ding the Department of Health a number of health insurance
that,” he says. “I represent all of under the administrations of for- related reforms and policies he
the people of the District of mer Mayor Anthony Williams and has championed in the Council
Columbia as an at-large member. Mayor Adrian Fenty to overhaul over the past five years, D.C. now
And as a result, I represent the the long trouble-plagued HIV/AIDS leads the nation with the lowest
LGBT community just as I repre- Administration. rate of children who lack health
sent every other community.” He credits Williams for start- insurance coverage. The city
He adds, “Just as I endeavor to ing the ball rolling and Fenty with also has the second lowest rate
extend human rights and protect putting in place a “top notch” of uninsured in health care for
human rights of other residents, I director of the AIDS administra- the overall city population.
obviously have worked to do the tion, Dr. Shannon Hader. Along And with both same-sex
same for a community that I’m a the way, City Hall insiders say marriage and health care
part of. It’s part of my responsibility Catania kept them all on their being his top priorities, Catania Photo courtesy of Wright
to represent everyone.” toes, holding more than 20 hear- points out another fact that
D.C. government observers ings in which he cajoled and makes him proud. CHELY WRIGHT
and gay activists agree that, while sometimes reprimanded upper “The states that have the
virtually everyone recognizes and middle level managers to highest rates of [health] insur-
Catania as an advocate for LGBT push harder for results in improv- ance are coincidently the states music — living a lie that drove I had a birth defect or that I was
that have marriage equality,” he her to consider suicide in 2006. possessed by the Devil,” she said.
says. “Isn’t that interesting? It Wright had her biggest hit in “I spun my mind around all day
goes in this order. The states 1999 with “Single White Female,” long trying to figure out what was
with the highest rates of insured which went to No. 1; made wrong with me. Then, I had that
are the District, Massachusetts, People’s list of Most Beautiful preacher standing there telling me
Connecticut, Vermont and Iowa.” people in 2001, and dated fellow what was wrong with me and that I
Each of those jurisdictions has country singer Brad Paisley. In was going to hell. I was being told
legalized same-sex marriage. her People interview, she that I would never fit in anywhere.”
On the marriage bill, Catania described how she decided to She added, “The most com-
says that while it is among his come out when making her new pelling things that I have been
proudest endeavors on the album, “Lifted Off the Ground.” told by the LGBT community is,
Council, the credit must be shared Wright also has a new memoir, ‘Thank you for coming out and
with his Council colleagues and “Like Me,” and has spent the days for talking about your relation-
the LGBT activists who worked on since the People story hit news- ship with God.’ My faith defines
the issues for decades. stands in a whirlwind of interviews, me more than anything else.”
“I want to be very clear that from Oprah to Larry King, The country music industry is
while I was privileged to ultimate- She performed at the Gay & considered conservative, so many
ly author the measure that Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation LGBT advocates have praised
brought marriage equality to the Media Awards on June 5, and is Wright for bravery in coming out.
city, there are individuals too scheduled to serve as grand marshal “It was a result of my finally
numerous to mention that have of Michigan Pride on June 12 and submitting to God. In my new
had a hand in this victory for more headline Capital Pride in Washington, book, ‘Like Me,’ I detail the tip-
than four decades,” he says. D.C. on June 13. ping point for me was getting on
“So I want to put it in per- She is also headlining Chicago my knees the day after I had a
spective. This is a win for the Pride and recently joined the board gun in my mouth about to kill
entire LGBT community and our of Faith in America, a nonprofit group myself. I prayed, ‘Dear God, give
allies. And it is a result of that works to end “religion-based big- me a moment’s peace. We’ve
decades of work.” otry” against LGBT people. been doin’ it my way for 36 years.
“Chely’s decision is creating an Now, I’m ready to do it your way.
opportunity for the voices of Show me the way.’
CHELY WRIGHT acceptance and equality to be “His answer was, ‘OK, You’re
Making music and no heard and history has shown that going to stand up and tell your
longer ‘in hiding’ those voices reflect the true hearts truth.’ … Not only do we damage
and minds of most Americans,” ourselves when we hide, but we
By SHANNON HAMES says FIA founder Mitchell Gold. wreak havoc on those around us.
In an interview, Wright talked I detached from my family and it
Last month, for the first time in about growing up closeted in rural confused them. I tried to have
the history of country music, an Kansas and her assertion that it’s relationships with men that hurt
established country singer came possible to be gay and a Christian. them. It’s a no-win situation.
out. In the May 17 issue of “I knew that I was different, but People get hurt when you lie.”
Washington Blade photo by Michael Key People magazine, Chely Wright from the minute that I realized Visit washingtonblade.com for
DAVID CATANIA discussed how she knew she what the difference in me was, I the rest of our interview with Wright.
was gay by age 9, but thought went into hiding. It was an unde-
she had to hide it to succeed in fined prison without bars. I thought Continues on page 68
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Continued from page 66 Woody and her wife, Andrea Woody’s especially concerned
Macko, have been together five about elderly gays and lesbians
IMANI WOODY years. They wed five years ago in who are forced back into the closet
Empowering the a religious ceremony and plan to when they need end-of-life care.
disenfranchised have a legal marriage this year. “I’ve gone to nursing homes to
Woody got started in LGBT do research and they say, ‘Oh, well
By JOEY DiGUGLIELMO activism work years ago through a we don’t have any LGBT resi-
jdiguglielmo@washblade.com Social Security course at dents.’ So you know what that
Whitman-Walker that educated means. Nobody felt comfortable to
Sometimes it’s hard for Imani lawyers about the need to get the come out because of course there
Woody to believe how far things have hearings of AIDS patients sched- are gay people there. Gays are
come. The native Washingtonian uled before they died. She’s now at everywhere. So what are the barri-
who grew up the daughter of a AARP co-chairing an LGBT ers to health care? We need to
Pentacostal minister remembers a employee resource group called educate churches, Meals on
segregated District where blacks the AARP Prism Network and Wheels, whatever resources there
weren’t allowed at the lunch counter along the way she has volunteered are for the larger community to be
at the Hecht Company. for the Mautner Project, PFLAG, sensitive. I see how vulnerable my
And though she remembers support groups at Whitman- very frail father is now and how
playing house and doctor with her Walker and more. She’s currently dependent he is so he kind of lets
childhood girlfriends and always working on a doctoral program me be in charge. I certainly don’t
choosing another girl to be her through Minnesota’s Cappella want to have to go back in the clos-
playtime “spouse,” gay and lesbian University in which she’s studying et when I get to that age.”
issues wouldn’t emerge on her the combined effects of aging Is Pride still important? Woody
personal radar until well into adult- among black gays and lesbians. doesn’t hesitate to say yes.
hood, after two marriages to men. “LGBT work is really where my “It’s still important the way
“I always say I was married twice passion is,” she says. “I’ve always Black History Month is still
before I got it right,” Woody says with been an advocate for the disen- important,” she says. “It’s impor-
a laugh. “It started with a light kiss. franchised, people with disabili- tant that we have a space to cel-
This woman and I, we were just ties, African Americans, women’s ebrate. It would be great if it were
friends, but we just kind of sponta- issues. I did my master’s thesis on celebrated every day. We can’t
neously kissed and things started women in a transitional housing forget people who couldn’t come
connecting. It really opened my mind project. Empowering folks is what out, who were stoned and got
up that this was a possibility. If I could I do. You don’t give them the fish. electro shock therapy for being Washington Blade photo by Michael Key
grow up now, oh my God, are you You teach them how to fish and gay. Some of that still happens.
kidding me? But when I was growing they will do it. People don’t realize Pride is a celebration of who we IMANI WOODY
up it wasn’t even a possibility.” how powerful they are.” are and who we may become.”
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PRIDEAGENDA
Heroic distinction is ‘very humbling’
Capital Pride honors It’s an exercise requiring equal
parts precision and empathy.
a 32-year-old government con-
tracting specialist during the day,
Community Church, where she is
now an ordained minister and mem-
leaders of many faiths, races,
ethnicities, and sexual orienta-
locals working to Next year’s “Creating Change” Destiny will be married on Aug. ber of the MCC Board of Elders. tions,” they declared in a state-
conference — February 2-6 in 28 in D.C. to her beloved, Rudy She leads the MCC Conference for ment full of eloquent yet simple
help others Minneapolis — is expected to draw Benavides. With her theme song African-American Leaders and has profundity: “We now join our voic-
2,000-3,000 people, she says. The by Diana DeGarmo of “I Believe” also worked as executive director es again to speak a faithful word
By DAVID J. HOFFMAN year after that she will bring the and her special motto of “defy of the Philadelphia Mayor’s for freedom and equality.”
conference to Baltimore. gravity,” Destiny has been doing Commission on Sexual Minorities “We declare that our faith calls
This year’s Capital Pride For Alvarado, the Capital drag for seven years in D.C. and previously as chaplain for an for us to affirm marriage equality
Heroes include four individuals Pride Hero award is “a big honor Born in Albuquerque, Legg AIDS hospice and as board presi- for loving same-sex couples,”
and two organizations. (For a ... I had to take a step back, and entered the Army and then com- dent for the Northern Virginia AIDS because “where love is present,
profile of Pride’s “super hero” receiving it takes me back to age pleted his undergraduate educa- Ministry. She also helped to found God is also present,” and “it is
Deacon Maccubbin, see our 15 to my very first Pride event, tion with a bachelor’s in health the National Coalition of Black holy and good.”
Agenda cover feature starting on and now it’s 15 years later, and I care management from Southern Lesbians and Gays. These clergy fought the “bat-
page 61). Meet the rest of Pride’s know the significance of Pride, Illinois University in 2005. In D.C., On March 9, she and her partner tle of Jericho” in D.C. and the
heroes below. and it’s very humbling.” he has been the featured enter- of many years, Rev. Candy Holmes, walls came tumbling down.
tainer at Freddie’s Beach Bar for were married along with two other
MARTA ALVARADO DESTINY B. CHILDS six years and also a member of couples in the first ceremony under DC FOR MARRIAGE
Latina and LGBT rights advocate How many ways are there to the Ladies of Illusion at Ziegfeld’s. D.C.’s new same-sex marriage law. A program of the DC Center,
Marta Alvarado leads the annual be dazzled by Destiny B. Childs? this group of local residents
“Creating Change” conference, an Her list of titles as female REV. ELDER DARLENE DC CLERGY UNITED FOR became activists pushing politi-
important contribution to advancing impersonator and lady-illusionist GARNER MARRIAGE EQUALITY cally every inch of the way to win
the cause of LGBT rights. are legendary, including her Garner, the mother of four, This diverse group of more votes on the D.C. Council in favor
Alvarado, whose National Gay newest title of Miss Capital Pride grandmother of seven and great- than 200 “affirming and welcom- of this historic step. And the
and Lesbian Task Force job title of 2010, the award she just won in grandmother of three, is a warrior ing” clergy, representing religious organization continues its impor-
program coordinator for move- a June 4 competition with seven of the spirit. She was born in institutions in every ward of the tant work today, for example in
ment building barely hints at the other contestants at Town Columbus, Ohio but after her District, pushed back with robust offering legal updates for D.C.
array of skills she brings to getting Danceboutique to kick off divorce in 1973 she moved to D.C. fortitude and biblical testimony residents on creating legal pro-
all those cantankerous ducks in a Capital Pride’s schedule. As to take a job as an administrative against the dogmatic naysayers tections for “families of choice”
row for five days of intensive such, she will preside over the assistant at the World Bank. from the homophobic corners of brought together under the new
movement-building, which she parade on Saturday evening and Raised in the National Baptist religious life. marriage law. See more informa-
calls “the largest gathering of the festival on Sunday. Church, in 1976 she joined the still “We are the District of tion on their ongoing work at
LGBT people and their allies.” Also known as Richard Legg, relatively new Metropolitan Columbia clergy and religious www.dcformarriage.org.
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Asbury United
Methodist Church
“The Blessing of the Animals”
“Under the Tent”
Saturday June 12, 2010 • 11:00 Am - 1:30 PM
(Rain date June 26, 2010)
The Triangle Park between 11th & 12th St., NW
Washington, DC 20001
*Animals must be either on a leash or in a cage in order not to be
harmful to people or other pets per National Park Service.
Questions call 202.628.0009
Saturday, June 12
CAPITAL TRANS PRIDE at Madison Thursday, June 17
Hotel, 1177 15th St., N.W. from 9 a.m. to METRO TEEN AIDS 17TH ANNUAL
3 p.m. Visit capitalpride.org to register. AUCTION – EAT, DRINK, BID at 3301
Suggested $10 donation. Massachusetts Ave., N.W. at 6:30 p.m.
2010 CAPITAL PRIDE PARADE: You Tickets are $125 and can be ordered at
Ain’t Seen Nothing Yet! from Dupont to metroteenaids.org/auction
Thomas Circle. Step-off at 6:30 p.m. Visit
capitalpride.org for more information.
PUCKER UP at Lace, 2214 Rhode Island Wednesday, June 23
Ave., N.E., at 9 p.m. $10 cover, 21+ VOLUNTEER APPRECIATION RECEPTION
“Sex as God Intended: A Reflection on at The Madison, 15th and M Sts., N.W.
Human Sexuality as Play” Lecture and from 7-9 p.m.
Book Signing at Dignity Center, 721
8th St., S.E. from 10-11:30 a.m, produced
by Dignity/Washington. Saturday, June 26
VOLUPALOOZA VIII at Whole Foods, PETS-DC 17TH ANNUAL PRIDE OF
1440 P St., N.W., from 11 a.m. to 4 p.m., pro- PETS FUN DOG SHOW on Dupont
duced by Burgundy Crescent Volunteers Circle at 3 p.m.
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Baltimore prepares for Pride 10 Art Museum Drive, Baltimore, from 7-11 p.m. Visit balti-
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SATURDAY, JUNE 19
Charm City celebrates assorted performers and acts.
Hosting these acts will be
more visible youth presence at
Pride is a priority of the GLCCB
HIGH HEEL RACE ON CHARLES AND EAGER STS., at 3:45
p.m. Baltimore Pride weekend officially kicks off with a High Heel
next weekend Baltimore personalities Tatiyanna as it begins engaging with the Race up Charles Street. Bring your own or borrow a pair! No pre-
Voche and Shawna Alexander. youth to expand its programming.” registration required.
By STEVE CHARING Headliners scheduled to appear There will also be a poetry PARADE ON CHARLES ST., between Center and Chase
BALTIMORE OUTLoud are: Debby Holiday, Ariel Aparicio slam and a DJ/ dance tent. Streets, at 4 p.m.
and Electrik Red. There will also On Sunday, June 20, the festivi-
Baltimore Pride’s celebration on be live performances by Odd Girl ties move to Druid Hill Park for the BLOCK PARTY ON CHARLES AND EAGER STREETS, from 6-
June 19-20, will mark 35 years of Out, Silver Phoenix Dance Pride Festival. The family-friendly 10 p.m. After the parade, Baltimore Pride’s Block Party is a night-
honoring the diversity of the LGBT Troupe, Charm City Boys, Jada Sunday-in-the-park event begins at club without walls, and this year’s party is going to be Diva-licious
community. The annual celebration Givenchy, Marlowe Rainbow, 11 a.m. and runs until 6 p.m. Booths when headliners Electrik Red and Debby Holiday take the stage.
is a program of the Gay, Lesbian, Gilded Lily Burlesque, DJ India, from a plethora of LGBT or LGBT- It’s four hours of singers, dancers, bands and drag. More than 75
Bisexual, and Transgender Les Femmes, Danielle Revlon, friendly organizations and mer- vendors will line the streets of Mt. Vernon.
Community Center of Baltimore Bmore Mpowerment, and others. chants as well as booths from elect-
and Central Maryland (GLCCB). The famous Block Party officially ed officials (and those who are seek- YOUTH EMPOWERMENT FREE BALL on Morton and Chase
The main events take place over kicks off at 6 p.m., in which thou- ing to be), city agencies, health and Streets lot from 6-9 p.m.
a two-day period beginning on sands of celebrants jam Charles religious organizations are situated
Saturday, June 19 at 3:45 p.m. with and Eager Streets checking out the along the winding paths of the festi- POETRY SLAM AT TOLERATE SOCIAL DEVIANCE TENT from
the zany High Heel race at Charles vendors, food concessions, bever- val site. There are an ample number 6-7 p.m.
and Eager streets. Then the annual age booths and more. The party of food and beverage concessions,
parade starts at Center and Chase lasts throughout the evening and an area designated for kids, a volley- STOLI DJ/DANCE TENT ON CATHEDRAL AND EAGER STS.
Streets and proceeds up Charles then some. Around 10 p.m. many, if ball court and, of course, two stages Adjacent to City Café
Street beginning at 4 p.m. Hundreds not most, continue the celebration for entertainment that continues
of marchers representing dozens of by patronizing the area bars. throughout the day. SUNDAY, JUNE 20
LGBT or LGBT-friendly organiza- “This year we are proud to A wide array of entertainers is PRIDE FESTIVAL IN DRUID HILL PARK from 11 a.m. to 6 p.m.
tions and businesses, politicians and have for the Block Party the scheduled to appear. The Main Stage
assorted groups participate while Project Health Youth Zone and will be hosted by Pandora Boxx of Dance Company,Tom Goss, Mama’s 2010), Danielle Revlon, Phoenix
crowds along both sides of the route Bmore Mpowerment presenting “RuPaul’s Drag Race.” Performers Black Sheep and more. Bloomingdale, Coco Blackwell and
cheer and wave. the 3rd Annual Rainbow Royale include: Charm City Kitty Club, The drag stage will be co-host- others. Pandora Boxx will be the
From 5 p.m. on, the intersec- Free Ball for Youth [6-9 p.m., Baltimore Men’s Chorus, Reina ed by Tia Chambers, Shawnna special guest performer.
tion of Charles and Eager will be Morton Street between Eager Williams, The Pushovers, Steven Alexander and Lady Lisa and will
the focus of entertainment as a and Chase],” Pride coordinator Gellman, Batala DC Afro-Brazilian include performances by: Onyx Visit baltimorepride.com for
large stage will be the venue for Andrew Ansel said. “Having a Percussion Band, SilverPhoenix Revlon (Miss Gay Maryland more information.
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SOCIALAGENDA
Pride in memory of Bill Miles, a committee
Friday, June 11 member of both Capital Pride and Cherry
“RUPAUL’S DRAG RACE” stars Morgan who recently passed away.
Michaels, Tatianna, and Sahara Davenport THENEWGAY.NET & ALT.DC.PRIDE
perform in the drag show and on the main present: Anniething Goes with special
stage featuring a live performance by THE guest DJ Lady Miss Kier (of Deee-Lite)
LADIES OF TOWN and X-FACTION at and DJ vAnniety kills aka miss
Town Danceboutique, 2009 8th St. N.W. lesbanAnnie (LipstickInDC). U Street
Doors open at 9 p.m. $2 drinks from 9-10 Music Hall, 1115 U St. N.W. Doors open
p.m. Drag show starts at 10:30 p.m. Upstairs at 6 p.m., 18 and over. Tickets available at
music by Wess; downstairs music and video ticketalternative.com/Events/11419.aspx
by BacK2bACk. $10 from 10-11 p.m. and $15 Capital Pride presents the POST-
after 11 p.m. 18 and over. FESTIVAL PARTY at Cobalt, 1639 R St.,
SIREN LAUNCH PARTY (A summer N.W. Featuring music from DJ Drew G
adventure back to APEX!) Join Mikey from NYC. $5 cover, doors open at 6:30
Adolphson (SHIFT) and Aaron Riggins p.m. Proceeds benefit Capital Pride.
(HHHH & WTF), as they team up for a sum-
mer adventure back to Apex, 1415 22nd St.
N.W. Doors open at 10 p.m., 18 and over. Monday, June 14
HOMO/SONIC: ALT.DC.PRIDE edition at the COUNTRY WESTERN DANCE LESSONS at
Black Cat, 1811 14th St. N.W. D.C.’s diverse, Remingtons, 639 Pennsylvania Ave., S.E.
coed, trans-inclusive, straight-friendly alterna- (½ block West of Eastern Market Metro) from
tive queer dance party. This time being pre- 8:30 p.m.-9:30 p.m., $5 per person, per les-
sented by Alt.DC.Pride; homo/sonic with a son (dance class participants should wear
mix of indie, electro, pop, retro, disco and so boots or shoes with leather soles.)
much more. Doors open at 9:30 p.m.
MAD HATTER’S UNDERLAND at
Cobalt, 1639 R St. N.W. DJ Drew G will Tuesday, June 15
put you under his spell with amazing new DRAG BINGO at Nellie’s Sports Bar, 900
remixes as well as your favorites. Join U St., N.W., hosted by Shi-Queeta Lee,
Cobalt’s Mad Hatter, Joey Salinas, when every Tuesday starting at 8 p.m. Free to play.
he takes the stage with some familiar
Wonderland faces. 10 p.m., 21 and over.
“SWEAT” CAPITAL PRIDE 2010 OFFICIAL Wednesday, June 16
FRIDAY NIGHT MEN’S PARTY at Each Wednesday at the Green Lantern is
Ziegfeld’s/Secrets, 1824 Half St. S.W., 9 POZ WEDNESDAY. Starting at 8 p.m.,
p.m.-3 a.m. Featuring DJ Jason Royce, porn POZ mixers provide a supportive atmos-
star Ricky Sinz live on stage and 30 all-nude phere for those who are HIV positive and
male dancers hosted by Miss Latroya those who want to help eradicate the stig-
Nichole. Also the very special “Glee” inspired ma surrounding HIV. The Green Lantern is
Photo courtesy of Cox
Ladies of Illusion shows in Ziegfeld’s at 11 located at 1335 Green Court N.W.
p.m. and 1 a.m. featuring Miss Gay America Legendary DJ CHRIS COX spins at Town this weekend. GENERAL PROGRAM WEDNESDAYS
2010 CoCo Montrese. Doors open at 9 p.m. 7-8:30 p.m., $12. Vajroyogini Buddhist
$10 before 10:30 p.m., $13 after. 21 and over. stairs music by Wess. $10 from 10-11 “PUCKER UP!” at Lace, 2214 Rhode Island Center 1803 Connecticut Ave., N.W., 2nd
FRIDAY NIGHT EREV SHABBAT SERVICES, p.m. and $15 after 11 p.m. 21 and over. Ave., N.E. 10 p.m.-3 a.m. Free until 11 p.m. floor. How can we learn to love without
8:30 p.m.-10 p.m., Washington, D.C. Jewish CAPITAL PRIDE & BYT PRESENT: with flier or Facebook RSVP. 21 and over. pain? Through these teachings, we will
Community Center, 1529 16th St. Friday “HOMO ERECTUS — THE EVOLUTION learn to enjoy our relationships and in turn
Night Services are followed by an Oneg OF PRIDE” at the Washington Hilton, 1919 benefit others. For more information visit
Social. Please use the Q Street entrance. Connecticut Ave., N.W. Tickets are $25 in the Sunday, June 13 meditation-dc.org or contact us at 202-
pre-sale, but will be more at the door. Get WILD CHERRY, the “After-Festival” 986-2257 or info@meditation-dc.org.
your tickets at dcpride-fb.eventbrite.com/. Party/Tea Dance, 6 p.m. at the Donovan
Saturday, June 12 The lineup: Shea Van Horn (MIXTAPE, House, 1155 14th St., N.W. Tickets $7.
Town Danceboutique, 2009 8th St. N.W., RAW), Natty Boom (Anthology of Booty), Music will be supplied by Chicago DJ Thursday, June 17
special guest DJ Chris Cox. Also featuring Matt Bailer (MIXTAPE, Peach Pit), Steve Henderson and D.C.’s DJ Jason ACTIVE DUTY THURSDAY at Motley
the Ladies of Town and X-Faction. Doors Junebullet (She.Rex, First Ladies DC Horswill. Special live performance by NYC Bar above EFN Lounge, 1318 9th St.
open at 9 p.m., $2 drinks from 9-10 p.m. Collective), DJ MAJR (SHIFT) and more. club diva Vanessa Conde at 10 p.m. Half N.W., $3, 9-11 p.m. First drink is free with
Drag show starts at 10:30 p.m.; down- CAPITAL PRIDE WOMEN’S EVENT the proceeds will be donated to Capital a military ID.
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FITNESSAGENDA
Finding balance: 6 dimensions of wellness
agreement that: the rest will exist and life will be and opening the mind. One’s intel-
Falling short in Wellness is a conscious, self- more demanding and unstable. lectual being is about continued
one area of life directed and evolving process of The six dimensions of well- learning, problem solving, process-
achieving full potential ness are: physical, emotional, ing and creativity. Intellectual well-
can impact the rest Wellness is multi-dimensional spiritual, intellectual, environ- ness involves connecting with oth-
and holistic, encompassing lifestyle, mental and social. They are dis- ers on a cerebral level.
By KEVIN M. NORRIS mental and spiritual well-being cussed in greater detail below. Environmental: Surrounding
and the environment Physical: Maintaining a sound yourself with a healthy work and liv-
Wellness and living a healthy Wellness is positive and substantial body through regular ing environment free of hazards
life have evolved to represent affirming exercise, proper nutrition, sleep- and focused on conservation of all
more than being physically fit. No The definition of wellness, long ing well and avoiding harmful natural resources and the role we
longer is it enough to make it to the used by the National Wellness habits. Maintaining a consistent play in bettering the environment.
gym and sweat. Today, being Institute, is consistent with these well-rounded exercise program Environmental wellness is about
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healthy and alive involves a more tenets. “Wellness is an active process is crucial to physical wellness. respecting nature and your sur-
complex and systematic approach Achieving balance in your life involves through which people become Emotional: Being in touch with roundings and in gaining personal
that integrates states of physical, more than just physical fitness. aware of, and make choices toward, your emotional presence and fulfillment from our surroundings.
mental and spiritual well-being. a more successful existence.” being aware and comfortable with Social: Social wellness is about
Many health experts believe in Dr. Hettler states in his It is the integration of the six your own thoughts and feelings. relating, interacting and communi-
a theory of wellness that evolved hypothesis that in order to lead a interactive dimensions that con- Emotional wellness relies on being cating well with others. Social well-
from several crucial areas of vital, fulfilling, well rounded and tinually influence and balance able to express one’s thoughts and ness is also about being comfort-
healthiness that compliment one balanced life, certain lifestyle each other and create overall sensations and to be able to able in your own skin to be able to
another to provide a well bal- dimensions need to be met. wellness. Each dimension forms absorb those of others. contribute and engage in a healthy
anced, vital and prosperous life. When one or more dimensions is a piece of a lifestyle pie; without Spiritual: Having a sense that life living environment. Including peo-
A well-regarded and concise the- missing or falls short, the imbal- one piece, there is a void, a is meaningful and has a purpose ple in all aspects of our
ory of wellness and lifestyle ance sets off an effect that missing link that imbalances the and that we are guided in our jour- lives is tantamount to
improvement was developed in throws off the entire equilibrium remainder of the dimensions. ney. Spiritual wellness is about social wellness.
1977 by Dr. Bill Hettler, co-founder and poise to one’s life. Life becomes askew when a embracing the meta-physical and
of the National Wellness Institute. The National Wellness Institute, piece of that pie is missing; the reaching beyond the physical realm
Kevin M. Norris is a
Dr. Hettler theorized and developed along with the help of leaders in remaining fundamentals of well- of existence and experiences. health and fitness columnist
a wellness paradigm that integrates health and wellness, shared many ness will be missing something Intellectual: Being able to for DC Agenda and owner
of Mind Your Own Body,
six dimensions of wellness that interpretations and models of crucial. Some believe that if engage in lively interaction with the LLC. Personal Training.
could be used as a guideline for wellness. Through this discus- one’s life is not focused on all six world around you. The intellect is Reach him at
attaining a whole and complete life. sion, there appears to be general dimensions, dissension among about flexing the mind’s muscle kevinmnorris@aol.com.
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THEATERAGENDA
Elizabeth Ashley is back — deal with it!
Actress recalls storied Warren’s Profession,” the story of ‘Mrs. Warren’s Profession’ “Tennessee was around all
a former prostitute turned Through July 11 the time,” she recalls. “We were
career, work with madam who tries unsuccessfully Shakespeare Theatre doing his original version of the
to shield her priggish daughter Company play. He’d come to rehearsal car-
Broadway legends from mama’s rather disreputable Sidney Harmon Hall rying Brioni bags overflowing
occupation. Another STC vet, 610 F St., N.W. with papers. He’d pull out an old
By PATRICK FOLLIARD Keith Baxter directs. $20-$82 draft and say, ‘Let’s try it this way
“Around the time of Hurricane 202-547-1122 today and see how that goes.’”
Actress Elizabeth Ashley and Katrina, Michael [Kahn] first shakespearetheatre.org Ashley continues, “I’ve been
Michael Kahn, the gay artistic approached me about playing in the show rackets for over 50
director of Washington’s Mrs. Warren, but we couldn’t sense of humor and are of the years. Twice I have retired for
Shakespeare Theatre Company schedule it,” recounts actress same approximate vintage, long periods of time. I’m not a fan
(STC), share a long, loving and Elizabeth Ashley during a recent although he might be a little older.” of civilization. Now and then I
fruitful history beginning in 1974 interview in STC’s Capitol Hill A Louisiana native, Ashley took need to get far away from New
when he directed her in a revival rehearsal space. “Then, more Broadway by storm while still an York with my dog and my books
of Tennessee Williams’ “Cat on a recently, he asked me to step in for ingénue, winning a Tony in 1962 and cleanse myself from the
Hot Tin Roof.” The production my dear friend Dixie who was then for her role in “Take Her, She’s negativity of the profession. But
Photo courtesy of Ashley
played on Broadway, among very ill. When somebody’s under Mine.” Through the decades, she I’m also not rich so eventually I
other places, and triumphed. the gun like that, you don’t dick Elizabeth Ashley stars in ‘MRS. has proved to be an enduring, need to return to work and acting
Over the years, Ashley has come around, so naturally I agreed.” WARREN’S PROFESSION’ at inimitable presence on stage, on stage is what I do best and
to D.C. to guest star at Kahn’s “The play and the part have the STC. screen and TV. She’s worked with enjoy most.”
theater: First in 1998 for turned out to be much more inter- most of the greats including Next up, Ashley returns to New
Williams’ “Sweet Bird of Youth” esting than I first thought,” adds Washington theater — namely Tennessee Williams, whom she York to take on the role of “Mother”
(Ashley considers her Princess Ashley in her unmistakably Kahn — or ‘The Mighty Kahn,’ as first met when her “favorite ex-hus- in gay playwright Edward Albee’s
Kosmonopolis possibly the best smoky voice. “It’s not so much she likes to call him. “He’s a tyrant, band,” James Farentino, was play- new work “Me, Myself & I” at
work she’s ever done) and again about prostitution, but more of an and I love tyrants,” says Ashley. ing one of the beach boys in the Playwrights Horizons.
in 2002 to play cold-blooded attack on capitalism and the class “There’s no democracy in art nor late gay playwright’s “The Night of “It’s Albee being zany,” hints
Regina Giddens in Lillian system. Of course, I love the poli- should there be. He demands an the Iguana” on Broadway. Ashley. “I tend to see my charac-
Hellman’s “The Little Foxes.” tics of it. I’m a total heretic, as enormous amount from me and Later, Ashley became further ter as Pebbles [from the
And now, Ashley returns. This you’ve probably guessed.” takes me out of my comfort zone. acquainted with Williams while “Flintstones”] grown up and
time stepping in for the late Dixie Ashley, 70, draws deeply on a While he’s not directing this pro- preparing for the part of “Cat’s” ruined. That’s how I see her and
Carter in STC’s production of long, skinny cigarette and explains duction, I know he feels I’m right for sexually defiant Maggie with that’s all I’ll say. There you go,
George Bernard Shaw’s “Mrs. what she most likes about the part. Plus we share a similar Kahn in Connecticut. deal with it!”
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TRAVELAGENDA
Get out of town
Summer packs recession was worse — to show
that LGBT travelers weren’t cutting
plenty of options back on travel as much as their het-
erosexual counterparts even then.
for LGBT travelers Asked about airline travel for
summer 2009, 62 percent of
By LAURA DOUGLAS-BROWN LGBT survey respondents said
Special from Georgia Voice their travel plans would stay the
same or increase, compared to
After a long, miserable winter, only 36 percent of heterosexuals.
many LGBT Washingtonians are Overall travel budgets showed
ready to hit the road — or the run- similar trends: 58 percent of
way, or the cruise ship — as the LGBT respondents said they
summer travel season heats up. would spend the same amount
“Travel remains a very impor- or more, compared to 49 percent
tant need for gay people,” says of heterosexuals.
Bob Witeck, CEO of Witeck- “We are driven by destination
Combs Communications, which and event travel too, whether we
studies LGBT consumers. Even are talking about gay sporting
the economy isn’t enough to events or gay parties,” Witeck notes.
keep gay travelers housebound In other words, gay travel is
this time of year, he notes. often motivated not only by places
“What we keep finding over to visit, but by the desire to meet
and over again is that gay people up with LGBT people from around
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202-296-0505 event schedule. The Phase opened in 1970 and remains Baltimore, MD 21201 410-539-4993
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In Dupont Circle area; popular with men, but FAB LOUNGE regular special events, including Jell-O a mixed crowd but remains gay-friendly. In business for more than 50 years,
check schedule regularly for other events. 1805 Connecticut Ave., NW wrestling, ’80s theme nights and more. Leon’s is the oldest gay bar in
Washington, DC 20009 Check web site for details. BALTIMORE EAGLE Baltimore and among the oldest in
BACHELOR’S MILL 202-797-1122 2002 N. Charles St. the country. Friendly bar with jukebox
1104 8th St., SE thefablounge.com QUEER PULP Baltimore, MD 21218 gets especially busy on Sunday nights.
Washington, DC 20003 In Dupont Circle area; popular with men @ BLACK SQUIRREL 410-82-EAGLE Tyson Place is a restaurant bar
202-544-1931 but hosts regular women’s events. 2427 18th St., NW Longtime Levi/leather bar not far located behind Leon’s with a
Longtime bar popular with African- Washington DC 20009 from Mount Vernon offers friendly bar, separate entrance.
American men in Capitol Hill area. FIREPLACE Alternative party for queer people billiards, outdoor patio, videos and a
2161 P St., NW featuring disco house, electro, indie pop, full store for your leather needs. PORT IN A STORM
BANANA CAFÉ Washington, DC 20037 dance and industrial every Friday night. Mostly men, but welcoming to women. 4330 E. Lombard St.
500 8th St., SE 202-293-1293 Baltimore, MD 21224
Washington, DC 20003 In Dupont Circle area; neighborhood bar REMINGTONS CLUB PHOENIX 410-534-0014
202-543-5906 popular with men. 639 Pennsylvania Ave., SE 1 W. Biddle St. Friendly neighborhood lesbian bar gets
bananacafedc.com Washington, DC 20003 Baltimore, MD 21201 especially popular when the Ravens
Popular Capitol Hill area restaurant and GREEN LANTERN 202-543-3113 410-837-3906 play. Features billiards, music and more.
bar (Eastern Market Metro) for both men 1335 Green Court, NW remingtonswdc.com Mount Vernon-area downstairs bar
and women. Features Cuban, Mexican Washington, DC 20005 twitter.com/remingtonsWDC attracts men and women; friendly service. QUEST
and Puerto Rican cuisine. greenlanterndc.com Popular country/Western nightclub in 3607 Fleet St.
twitter.com/greenlanterndc Capitol Hill neighborhood with more than DRINKERY Baltimore, MD 21224
BLOWOFF Friendly bar for men hosts regular happy 6,000 square feet of space for dancing 205 W. Read St. 410-563-2617
815 V St., NW hours and special events, including and billiards. One half block west of Baltimore, MD 21201 Neighborhood bar in Highlandtown
Washington, DC 20001 karaoke and shirtless drink special Eastern Market Metro. 410-225-3100 area is popular with men and women
blowoff.us nights. Check web site for details. Another of Baltimore’s friendly neighbor- and offers billiards.
Created by musicians Bob Mould and McPherson Square Metro. TOWN hood bars in Mount Vernon featuring
Richard Morel, Blowoff is an occasional DANCEBOUTIQUE billiards, jukebox and welcoming service. SAPPHOS
dance event popular with men. Events are JR.’S 2009 8th St., NW 1001 N. Charles St.
held in clubs around the country; D.C.’s 1519 17th St., NW Washington, DC 20001 GALLERY Baltimore, MD 21201
Blowoff parties are held at the 9:30 club Washington, DC 20036 202-234-TOWN 1735 Maryland Ave. 410-752-7133
in the popular U Street corridor. 202-328-0090 towndc.com Baltimore, MD 21201 centralstationpub.com
jrswdc.com Dance club and bar popular with men 410-539-6965 Part of the Grand Central complex,
COBALT Longtime friendly Dupont Circle area and women, features regular drag per- Longtime bar and restaurant popular Sappho’s attracts a lesbian crowd
1639 R St., NW bar popular with men; videos, regular formances. U Street Metro. with African-American clientele. and offers comfy couches, outdoor
Washington, DC 20009 special events. patio and more in its second
202-462-6569 ULTRABAR GRAND CENTRAL floor location.
cobaltdc.com LACE 911 F St., NW 1001 N. Charles St.
In Dupont Circle area; part of complex 2214 Rhode Island Ave., NE Washington, DC 20004 Baltimore, MD 21201
of LGBT businesses at this address,
including Level One restaurant on
Washington, DC 20018
202-832-3888
ultrabardc.com
twitter.com/UltraBar
410-752-7133
centralstationpub.com
northern va
street level and 30 Degrees bar. lacedc.com Large dance club with gay-friendly Large entertainment complex featuring FREDDIE’S
Every night is ladies night at Lace; events and vibe located downtown near friendly pub, lesbian bar Sappho’s upstairs BEACH BAR
CREW CLUB features regular special events for women Metro Center. and a dance club on the first floor. 555 23rd St. South
1321 14th St., NW in Brookland neighborhood. Check web Arlington, VA 22202
Washington, DC 20005 site for details on happy hour specials. WHERE THE GIRLS GO HIPPO 703-685-0555
202-319-1333 wherethegirlsgo.com 1 W. Eager St. Freddie Lutz’s Virginia establishment
crewclub.net LARRY’S LOUNGE Queer women's events in the D.C. area. Baltimore, MD 21201 includes a restaurant and friendly bar,
Men’s 24-hour gym in Logan Circle area, 1836 18th St., NW Check web site for latest info. 410-547-0069 regular specials and is popular with
featuring steam rooms, lounges, Washington, DC 20009 clubhippo.com men and women. Crystal City Metro.
private dressing rooms and more. 202-483-1483 ZIEGFELD’S/ Large club popular with men and women
Dupont Circle area bar and restaurant SECRETS featuring billiards, top DJs/dancing, karaoke,
DC EAGLE
639 New York Ave., NW
popular with both men and women. 1824 Half St., SW
Washington, DC 20024
videos and more. Opened in 1972, Hippo’s
motto is “where everyone is welcome.”
laurel, md
Washington, DC 20001 MIXTAPE 202-863-0670 PW’S
202-347-6025 Different locations secretsdc.com JAY’S ON READ 9855 N. Washington Blvd.
dceagle.com mixtapedc.com Featuring all-nude male dancers 225 W. Read St. Laurel, MD 20723
The popular Levi/leather bar’s origins date twitter.com/MIXTAPEdc Wednesdays-Sundays, drag perform- Baltimore, MD 21201 301-498-8202
to the 1960s. Features billiards, regular Alternative dance party for queer men and ances, large dance floor and many reg- 410-225-0188 pwssportsbar.com
tournaments and other special events. women featuring electro, alt-pop, indie ular special events, contests and more. Piano bar attracts a mostly male Restaurant and bar is popular with gay
Located near the convention center, two rock, house, disco and New Wave. Check Large parking lot available; located in crowd, though welcoming to women and lesbian sports fans and is known
blocks north of Gallery Place Metro. web site for 2010 schedule of events. Buzzard’s Point warehouse district. and straight patrons. for its superb burgers.
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