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the Marital Adjustment test indicating greater marital discord). The PS also was
significantly correlated with observations of parenting behavior.
PRIMARY REFERENCE Arnold, D. S., O'Leary, S. G., Wolff, L. S., and Acker, M. M. (1993).
The Parenting Scale: A measure of dysfunctional parenting in discipline situations,
Psychological Assessment, 5, 137-144. Instrument reprinted with permission of Dr.
O'Leary.
AVAILABILITY Susan G. O'Leary, David S. Arnold, Lisa S. Wolff, and Maureen M. Acker,
Psychology Department, State University of New York at Stonybrook, Stonybrook,
NY,11794.
At one time or another, all children misbehave or do things that could be harmful, that
are "wrong," or that parents don't like.
Examples include: hitting someone
forgetting homework
having a tantrum
running into the street
whining
not picking up toys
refusing to go to bed
arguing back
throwing food
lying wanting a cookie before dinner
coming home late 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8.
Parents have many different ways or styles of dealing w ith these types of problems.
Below are items that describe some styles of parenting. For each item, fill in the circle
that best describes your style of parenting during the past two months with the child
indicated above.
When my ch ild misbehaves ..
I do something right away 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 Before I do something about a problem. I give
my child several reminders or warnings. 7 6 5 4 3
When I'm upset or under stress .. I am picky and on my child's back. 7 6 5 4 3 When I
tell my child not to do something . .. I say very little. 2 3 4 5 When my child pesters me .
I can ignore the the pestering. 2 3 4 5
When my child misbehaves. I usually get into a long argument with my child. 7 6 5 4 3 I
threaten to do things that. I am sure I can carry out. 2 3 4 5 I am the kind of parent
that .. sets limits on what my child is allowed to do. 2 3 4 5 6 7 2 2 6 7 6 7 2 6 7 6 7 I do
something about it later I use only one reminder or warning. I am no more picky than
usual. I say a lot. I can't ignore the pestering. I don't get into an argument. I know I won't
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