Professional Documents
Culture Documents
Stanhope and
Lancaster (2008) state, By using a systematic process, family problem areas are
identified and family strengths are emphasized as the building blocks for interventions
and to facilitate family resiliency (p. 567). The following paragraphs will describe a
typical family. The family consists of a mother, a father, a 10 year old daughter, and a
six year old son. The family chosen was interviewed individually and as a family.
This family consists of SM, CM, daughter EM, and son DM. The family lives in a three
bedroom brick house, with three entrances, nine steps to enter the front of their home,
8 steps to enter from the garage and four steps to enter the back door. The back yard
is fences with a four foot wood privacy fence. Their home is in a quiet neighborhood
with an elementary school across the street where DM attends. Mom can watch DM
play on the play ground at school from their back deck. Their daughter, EM, attends
middle school. The familys neighbors are all young couples with ten children ranging
from age four to thirteen. Their mortgage is $998.00/month. They have city water and
sewage. They gas heat, gas logs and a heat pump. Their house is kept clean and well
maintained since CM only works part-time at a local physicians office. CMs, part-time
position allows her to stay home when the children are ill or school is out. When you
walk in the front entrance it is a split level home. You can either go up six steps up to
the bedrooms or walk straight in to the main level or go down eight steps to the garage
and down eight steps to the basement. On the main level you enter the great room
which is carpeted floors and consists of a couch, love seat, and an oversized chair,
television and fire place. Connected to the great room is their dining room and kitchen
which have tiled floors. The dining room has a table that seats six, and a tall cabinet
containing dried and canned foods. The kitchen has a refrigerator, a dishwasher,
microwave, and lots of counter, and cabinet space. Out of the kitchen is the main
hallway which is tiled. Leading up the stairs to a full size bathroom and two bedrooms
on the right on the left is the master bedroom and bath. The hallway bathroom is
decorated in soft beige and red colors with simple wall hangings. The bedroom on the
left is the bedroom of CED, the 5 year old daughter, and the bedroom on the right is
the bedroom of LRD, the 3 year old son. Back down the stairs is the lower level. When
you first go downstairs you see and big open family room that has a couch and two
lazy boy recliners. The downstairs is all carpeted. To the immediate right is a second
full bathroom and next to that is the master bedroom. Opposite the master bedroom is
the fourth bedroom which was converted to a toy room for the children. The downstairs
is where the family spends most of their time. There is a big screen television and there
is a game station connected to the television. BAD has taken the time to child proof
their home using child safety locks on all cabinets, and electrical outlet covers. The
children have a lot of toys, and it seems they do not have a lot of storage, yet their
home is kept very tidy.
The family does not interact much with their neighbors or community. BADs family
lives in another state, and MLDs family lives in another town about an hour away. MLD
has a car that he drives to and from work, and BAD uses a van to take CED to school,
and to run errands. MLD smokes cigarettes, but he steps outside when doing so to
protect the children especially CED since she has asthma. He also does not smoke
routine in order to feel happier about herself, and states that this might make their sex
life as it was before.
When MLD was interviewed he stated that he is overwhelmed at work, and feels under
a lot of pressure to be the sole provider for the family. He also admitted that he wishes
he could come home and the house be tidy, but he usually is the one to clean when he
gets home from work. He is taking classes two nights a week, and mentioned that he
might take some time off school to work even more at work. MLD stated that his wifes
weight does not bother him, he just wants her to be healthier, and wishes she would
take the children out more often to get some fresh air and exercise. He hasnt noticed
any other problems with their relationship, but states he is scared of losing his wife with
her new diagnosis.
Family Structure/Functions
This family is the typical family that consists of a married couple and their children.
They have a five year old daughter and three year old son, and a 7 year old large dog.
BAD and MLD have the same expectations for their children in terms of importance of
education. They both expect them to complete high school and attend college. They
want them to do more with her life than they were able to do with theirs at this time.
The family does not attend church and when the topic of religion was brought up they
both wanted to change the subject matter.
Communication seems to be an issue within this family with BAD feeling secluded due
to her weight and MLD working long hours and overtime. BAD feels that MLD gets on
her a lot, and therefore has just about stopped communicating with MLD. BAD feels
that she is always trying to talk to MLD about their relationship but he doesnt want to
talk about it. MLD feels there is nothing wrong with their relationship and therefore
does not want to talk about it. He has stated that he does use sarcasm when talking
with BAD because he is uncomfortable talking about their relationship when he doesn't
feel anything is wrong. In times where decisions need to be made about the children or
their household, BAD and MLD make the decisions together after first talking about the
possible outcomes of each possible path.
Family Functions
According to Stanhope and Lancaster (2008) The two primary functions of families in
the twenty first century are relationship and health care functions (p. 555). This family
is having problems in their relationship between mother and father and also with their
health because BAD has been diagnosed with cancer, and CED has childhood
asthma.
Developmental Stages
The nurse will provide example of a well balanced, healthy meal plan for one week
along with recommended activities to begin an exercise routine.
Family interventions:
The family will use the Food Pyramid and education provided by the nurse to create a
grocery list before each shopping day, with only healthy food choices and food to
create well balanced meals.
The family must strictly adhere to the shopping list.
The family will begin to increase their activity levels, including CED and LRD in all
activities, making the activities fun for them.
The parents will only give CED and LRD sugary snacks, juice, soda, and chips
sparingly.
Evaluation:
After three weeks, I met with the family to assess for the needed changes to meet their
goal of a healthier lifestyle. BED and MLD were very open to the changes when it
came to their diet. The children however were not as open. They did not like several of
the healthy meals prepared, but after realizing what the children liked and disliked the
couple were able to come up with other healthy solutions. Upon looking through their
cabinets and refrigerator, very little canned foods and frozen meals were found. The
children are now drinking low fat milk and sugar free fruit juice. BAD and MLD have cut
back on drinking sodas and when they do they have switched to diet sodas instead.
BAD and MLD have bought several healthy cookbooks and have highlighted the meals
they would like to try. One of these books is a childrens cook book to help get the
children involved in the healthy meal planning. BAD and MLD have increased their
activity levels. BAD walks CED to school in the mornings, and walks with LRD in the
afternoon to pick of CED. The family has also worked out together with a game that
they play in the living room. MLD continues to work long hours and overtime frequently
to make ends meet financially, not allowing him to exercise as often with the family. He
stated that once BAD finds a job he will be able to cut back on his hours and maybe
join the local YMCA with the family.
Problem: Family process, interrupted, related to loss of income and poor
communication, as evidenced by tension among parents.
Nursing Interventions:
The nurse must assess the cause of the poor communication and educate them on the