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pain, do whats necessary to heal your wounds, and get on with your
life. 99% of the time the second darts are a lot worse than the first
ones, because we keep throwing them long after the first dart has
vanished, for example by obsessing for months over an ended
relationship or worrying about test results.
Life throws enough darts at you as is, so stop throwing more at
yourself, okay?
solution.
You simply have to tame your sense of self by not identifying
with so many things. Every time you put the word I or my in a
sentence with something, you make its fate your own. Since everything
in the world eventually comes to an end, over-identifying with things
ultimately makes you feel like you face loss a lot and can thus make
you depressed.
For example, if you have a ton of clothes, electronic devices and
material possessions, youll say my laptop, my sweater, my TV
and my remote control helicopter a lot. No matter which of these
breaks next, youll feel the pain of the first dart, so the more you have,
the more darts are likely to come flying your way.
Imagine taking a weekend to unclutter and ending up with 30% less
than you had before. Thats a lot of less Is and mys in your
vocabulary and therefore, will help you moderate your sense of self.
Note: A personal exercise I like to do is when I step out on the street, I
look up to the roof of the highest building I can see, then imagine
seeing myself from up there and slowly zooming out and out and out
until Im in space (like with Google Maps). Always shows me that Im
just a teeny tiny part of this great thing called the universe.
example). Some readers might find that this section contains too much
scientific information, such as naming the relevant parts of the brain
and explaining their functions, but I appreciated it because of the
authority and depth this approach added. Chapter two adroitly and
accessibly explains how humans came to have emotions, focusing on
how we came experience suffering, and warns of the perils of
disappointment that can arise from chasing carrots and avoiding sticks.
Chapter three introduces the interesting idea of first and second darts.
First darts are the (often unavoidable) episodes of emotional suffering
that we experience as a direct result of being caused pain (physical or
psychological) by something in our environment. Second darts are the
ones we throw at ourselves as we consciously respond to first darts,
such as getting angry at the person who accidentally spilt your coffee.
Being angry at someone else is throwing a dart at yourself because
being angry is an unpleasant experience (no matter who or what the
target of the anger is). Hanson explains the concepts of first and
second darts so that he can point out that a lot of our suffering comes
from second darts and that, since we throw those at ourselves, we
could substantially reduce our own suffering if we stopped doing this.
Part two of Buddha's Brain is on the causes of happiness and is where
the general standard begins to slip; the research gets sloppier and the
contradictions more constant as the four chapters progress (more on
these short-coming later). Chapter four espouses the benefits of
'letting in the good' being fully aware of all the good things that
happen to us every day and mentally embracing them so as to
strengthen the neural networks that support happiness. Chapter five
encourages readers to practice going to their mental sanctuary so as
to relax and feel safe. Hanson argues that seeking sanctuary in this
way will reduce our over-reaction to threats, thereby lowering our
stress levels and enabling our positive peaceful emotions (which stress
hormone repress) to flourish. The research is still quite good up to this
point
(particularly
the
discussion
of
the
autonomic
and
parasympathetic nervous systems) and another great practical
exercise appears (on page 89). Chapter six explains the virtues of
feeling mentally strong, including having the strength to see your
intentions through. A passage in chapter six also attempts to argue
why this advice does not contradict the earlier suggestion not to chase
carrots and the recommendations of the subsequent chapter. Chapter
seven explains and endorses the state of equanimity having a calm
and even mind that can acknowledge and engage with passing
thoughts and emotions, while not get attached to them and not being
rocked by them in any way. Chapter seven is certainly a disappointing
end to this section on happiness; it contains hardly any supporting
research and presents a fairly unappealing vision of happiness (at least
to my Western eyes).
compassionate to others while also being assertive. The fact that being
assertive and compassionate at the same time is much more easily
said than done is (unintentionally) highlighted by an example Hanson
gives of how he would achieve this tricky balancing act; Hanson follows
a compassionate understanding sentence with "but" and then his
opinion. Anyone with knowledge of counseling knows that following a
compassionate statement with 'but' and a contradicting statement
undoes all of the good work that the compassionate statement might
have achieved. Another obvious conflict is in chapter ten, where the
notion of karmic rebirth (if we live morally, then we come back as
something better in the next life and vice versa) is used to justify why
we don't have to be angry at or punish those who have wronged us.
Most Western readers will find the idea of karmic rebirth to be a 'nice'
but implausible one and so would think the right thing to do would be
assertive and stand up for yourself against those who maliciously harm
you.
The second major problem I have with this book is the haphazard
way that research is used. The first section of the book, and a few
other subsections, contain lots of relevant research. Unfortunately,
though, most of the book contains claims that are not fully supported
by the reference given or, more commonly, are not supported by
research at all (in some cases this even occurs when relevant research
has been conducted). Of the many authoritatively stated but
unsupported claims, one example is on page 187, where Hanson
claims that you can quieten your mind (the random thoughts that pop
into your head) by using "the power of prefrontal intention". The claim
is not explained, let alone supported by the results of any kind of test.
In the same chapter Hanson presents the speculative theory of another
researcher as if it were an uncontroversial fact that "the brain will
sometimes start to hallucinate imagery just to have new information to
process" (179 my emphasis added). Finally, an example of Hanson
not citing research for his claims despite that research being readily
available can be found in chapter four; Hanson claims that actively
thinking about the good things that happened to you each day can
help you become happier, but doesn't refer to research by positive
psychologist Martin Seligman and his colleagues that provides fairly
rigorous support for this claim. This sloppy application of research
would normally be forgiven in a self-help book, but this particular book
claims to be using the latest in science to inform practical methods for
becoming happier, rather than relying on speculation and persuasive
language.
On the whole, this book adds some credibility to the claim that certain
meditative practices can make us happier and also provides some
useful exercises for addressing specific problems we might have.