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Introduction.
Congratulations on your Purchase of "The Cure." You are about to
begin an exciting journey in Personal-Development that is nothing
like you've ever experienced.
The techniques listed in this book are a collection of knowledge that
have come from years of research in some of the greatest works in
psychology, dating, even (strangely) science and business available.
The techniques for personal development in this book have been
tested, tried and proven true in studies all around the world.
No matter who you are, you're going to notice significant
improvements in your overall skill. These techniques can be applied if
you're just starting to learn about this subject, or if you've been
studying it for years.
Some books suggest "It takes a lot of hard work to become successful
with women," "there are no Magic Pills," some even say it takes 10
years of practice to become good with women! The truth is none of
that has to be true if you focus on the right things. Any good
psychologist will tell you that it takes 21-30 days to form a new habit.
By applying these techniques you'll see serious improvements
immediately, and by day 21 you will have formed new, productive
habits. The beauty of this is that there's no end to the amount of
success you'll receive from following the ideas in this guide.
The difference between this book and others is that the emphasis
will not be on actions and words; it will be on developing you at the
core. No matter where you are, it will teach you to become an Alpha

Male/Leader rather than having you act like one. Once you do some
simple work on your core personality, your actions and words will fall
into place, and women will be naturally attracted to you. In other
words, it will make what once seemed hard flawlessly easy.
Table of Contents
Introduction ...................................................................
........................................................................ 6
Every man can be successful.....................................................
............................................................. 8
What makes this book unique ....................................................
........................................................... 9
This book is scientific ........................................................
................................................................... 11
About the Author ...............................................................
.................................................................. 12
What will this book do for you..................................................
........................................................... 15
So, what's the difference between men who are successful with women and men who
aren t?...... 15
Before we go any further........................................................
............................................................. 18
Think Positive!.................................................................
..................................................................... 19
The Subconscious Mind. .........................................................
............................................................. 20
So how are some men naturally successful with women?............................
...................................... 29
Deeper into the mind............................................................
............................................................... 31
The Magic Key to women. ..........................................................
...................................................... 34
What are beliefs? ..............................................................
................................................................... 37
Repetition is key...............................................................
.................................................................... 38
Killing doubt. .................................................................
....................................................................... 39
The Importance of Focus. .......................................................
............................................................. 39
Four types of women. ...........................................................
............................................................... 41
The three types of men..........................................................
.............................................................. 44
How to get from Nice Guy to Alpha...............................................
...................................................... 46
Alpha Male Attitudes: ..........................................................
................................................................ 47
Myths about women...............................................................
............................................................. 56
Facts about women...............................................................
............................................................... 57
How to get women in bed as quickly as possible. ................................
............................................... 58
When you can't escalate physically in one sitting... ...........................
................................................. 61
Threesomes......................................................................
.................................................................... 62

Girls with boyfriends...........................................................

................................................................. 63
Always maintain control of yourself. ...........................................
........................................................ 63
If you have serious emotional trouble or negative beliefs ......................
............................................ 64
Don't let the outside world affect you, effect the outside world................
........................................ 67
What is confidence?.............................................................
................................................................ 68
The human emotional scale.......................................................
.......................................................... 68
The 3 Selves....................................................................
...................................................................... 72
Brainwaves .....................................................................
...................................................................... 75
Self-Hypnosis...................................................................
..................................................................... 76
The Easiest Key for Changing the Self-Image.....................................
.................................................. 78
Time Line Therapy...............................................................
................................................................. 79
Beyond the mind.................................................................
................................................................. 80
How to be awesome in bed. ......................................................
.......................................................... 86
The Female Erogenous Zones .....................................................
......................................................... 86
Basic Sexual Positions .........................................................
................................................................. 93
Some Stuff About Relationships. ................................................
......................................................... 94
In conclusion. .................................................................
...................................................................... 95

Every man can be successful.

This book has been written with the sincere hope that you'll never
need another book on dating again. This book will work just as well
for someone who s just starting out as it will for someone who s
been studying dating for years. It is meant to be read slowly and all
the information taken in and internalized. You are being given some
of the greatest information ever put on paper, so take it all in, take
notes if you want, write down ideas that flash into your head, any
aha moments, because if you don t, they may be lost forever. Don t
just read this book, live it. Think about how to apply these ideas to
your own life and just enjoy the information.
There are some people actually believe they were born to fail. The
fact is every man has the ability to be successful with women. In fact,
that's what nature intended for you. This is why you had such a
strong desire to pick up this book. Some people actually believe that
their personality is just who they are and there's nothing they can
do to change it. Don t be one of these people. They re going
nowhere. Make the decision to stop thinking "I am how I am, and
that's just how I am" and start believing the truth: "I am however I
choose to be."

So if you can be however you want to be, why is some of this stuff so
hard to learn? Well, the simple reason is, most people who are
successful cannot verbalize why they are, and the authors who can
are only scratching the surface of why they re really successful.
Most books on this subject will tell you which actions they took and
what words they said. Truth is: words, actions, and body language
are just very small pieces of the puzzle. This book will fill in all the
details, blanks and questions so you ll never wonder how anyone did
anything again. By using these concepts there's no reason that you
can't start improving everything in your life now. It doesn't matter if

you're Brad Pitt, Mr. Pick-Up Artist himself, or if you ve never had any
success with women. It doesn t matter if you re bald, skinny,
consider yourself to be physically unattractive, don't have 2 dimes to
rub together, or have struck out with every woman you've ever liked,
you can make drastic improvements. Right now, completely let go of
the past and start deciding your future. Not when you finish this
book, not when you finish this sentence, do it right now, and start to
figure out the way you want to be with women.
What makes this book unique?
I've read almost every book available on this subject, and while
there's some good advice in these books, most of them focused on
the author's personal experiences of what worked for him. The
problem is what works for one guy, doesn't necessarily work for the
next guy.
If a method works for one person, it is a hypothesis. If a method
works for many people, it is a theory. If a method works for everyone
who applies it, it is scientific fact. This book focuses on methods that
have been proven to work for everybody, and when you apply them,
no matter where you are, it will be impossible for you not to see
results. While I do provide personal insight, I will try to keep a
scientific basis as much as possible.
This book will focus on you and your core personality. Other books
on the subject focus on techniques, busting a woman's chops, what
you have to do, body language you have to use, whether or not you
should buy her a drink, how often to blink, etc, etc, etc. Good lord.
That's way too much stuff for most people to remember. Again, I m
not knocking other authors on the subject, but I promise I will not

make you memorize any patterns, stories, pick-up lines, or ways to

hypnotize women. Any pick-up line, story, or pattern is completely
ineffective if it's not coming from a guy who doesn't have some key
things straight. The systems that promote that may or may not work,
but either way it's much easier and effective to go to the core of the
results. Body language, neediness, and many of the things other
books promote are all symptoms of predominant mental attitudes,
which when changed will transform all the symptoms.
In other words, once we change the cause, we'll change the effect.

We're going to cut through the layers of social conditioning and

beliefs you may have about women so that you can become the
absolute best version of yourself in all areas. Getting girls will just be
a byproduct.
This book also will not focus on manipulation of women, and as a
matter of fact, this book will show you how to get women to come to
you. This book will show you how to maximize your potential and by
doing so you'll become a happier person and you ll have beautiful
women naturally drooling over you. How's that sound for a reward?
As we go through the chapters we're going to piece together this so
called puzzle of life. By the time you're done reading this you'll have a
full understanding on why some men are successful with women,
and why some men aren't, and more importantly, how to change it.

This book is scientific.

If you're unfamiliar with the difference between anecdotal and
empirical evidence, anecdotal evidence is a collection of people's
personal experiences, while empirical evidence is proven using the
scientific method under controlled conditions. The techniques for
personal development presented in this book have been empirically
proven and when I discuss a technique I will reference the name of
said technique if you would like to research it further. I have
deliberately left out most techniques that are proven only with
anecdotal evidence, because they are considered to be unreliable. I
may provide personal experiences and viewpoints, but those will only
serve as examples or techniques that have been proven empirically.
In laymen s terms: This shit works.
The results you will see will be dramatic and immediate. If you want
to further your research on certain topics, I will provide other reading
materials for you to continue your studies. When I talk about a
specific author, I highly suggest writing down the name of the author
(or book) and check it out. Most of them you can get from the library
and I will only reference the best of the best. If you want to research
a specific technique, Encyclopedias and Wikipedia will be extremely
useful. While this book focuses on women, these universal concepts
can be used in any area of your life that you want to achieve success
in - whether it be financial, relationships, career, or literally anything
you can think of.

About the Author.

If you're thinking that since I'm writing this book, I must have been
naturally successful with women, nothing could be further from the
truth. Throughout High School I was just as confused as most guys
about women. I would wonder "Why would she like a guy who didn't
treat her very well?" and other common thoughts that teenagers
have.
I landed a couple of pretty girls, but it was nothing major. For a while

I didn t really care that much about having tons of women attracted
to me. The thought just never occurred to me. Perhaps I didn t even
think it was possible. Fast forward a few years I met some guys who
just made picking up women look so easy it was unbelievable. It was
then and there I decided I wanted it all. I knew the information had
to be out there somewhere, so I began to study.
I read all the dating books out there. All the books on how to become
a pick up artist, how to attract women, how to seduce women and as
much as I tried I was only getting tiny results, so much so that I gave
up on it for a while.
In the back of my mind I knew there had to be an answer. I knew
there was a reason some guys got all the girls. I looked at the guys
who were getting real results vs. the guys who weren t and on an
instinctive level, I had an idea of what they were doing differently.
I tried doing what they did but it never worked. I tried saying what
they said, and it was like it didn t matter what I words I used, I still
wasn t getting the results. I found materials on Body Language, tried
it and it just felt awkward. I changed my voice tone, but nothing
happened. I was doing everything to the T, and still not getting the
results all these gurus promised. While I respect the work they re
doing, I just wasn t getting results from it.

I decided I was taking the wrong approach on this. If I wanted to

understand women, I was going to have to understand people.
I started reading some real deep stuff on the inner workings of the
mind. I started reading some pretty heavy psychology books,
materials on human behavior, books on Cybernetics, and tons of
other subjects to the point where I would typically know more than
many professional psychologists or psychiatrists I ve met.
I applied the techniques for Personal Development on myself that
they suggested, and they were far different from the ideas I found in
most dating materials.
I worked them and worked them. Just kept working on my mindset.
Gradually peace and order came to my mind. My attitude began to
change very quickly. I kept working it, and working it until some very
funny things started happening to me.
Within weeks of doing these things, I was noticing dramatic
improvements in my results and within about 60 days, I would go
out, and women would stare at me. Women would literally get
nervous just taking to me. They just loved my new attitude. This was
not normal for me. When I talked to women, they would give me
signals to take them home almost without me doing anything. Girls
were calling me several times a day, and not just regular girls, these
were women just as beautiful as you see on TV and in Magazines.
None of this made any sense to me. All the things I had learned from
the dating community said that learning to meet women would be
hard work. That I would have to go out there and approach many
women to become successful. All of them had lists of things to do
and say and if you didn t follow them, you couldn t get anywhere.

That wasn t true. I didn t have to do any of the things they suggested.

People would ask me how I changed the way I did, and I d actually be
able to tell them. From people who have read every seduction
manual on the planet to guys who have never had any success with
women. I ve seen so many people make dramatic improvements in
their lives it s ridiculous.
The purpose of this book is to put all this information and experience
into an organized format so that you, the reader, can stop wasting
time on gurus, eBooks, and DVDs, and finally get all the results you've
always wanted to get. These methods have been tested on
thousands of people, and nearly all have seen almost immediate
results. I really believe this is the last dating book you'll ever need.
This is my life's work. This is the end result of years of study, practice
and priceless knowledge. I hope you're as excited to learn this as I am
to teach it, because your life is about to change.

What will this book do for you?

Whatever you want. I'm being serious. I've dated more fabulously
beautiful women than a lot of the great seducers in history, had
threesomes with supermodels, picked up women across the globe,
got bored of it, found a woman to settle down with and went back to
square one using these concepts. Then I taught it to others.
Whether you want to pick up the types of women you see in fashion
magazines, land a great girlfriend, date supermodels, or sleep with a
bunch of extra women this book will work for you. If you can write it
on a piece of paper, you'll see how to achieve it.
So, what's the difference between men who are successful with
women and men who aren t?
Success is defined as: achievement of a set objective or goal.
Simple enough, but why do many men lack the success they desire?
If you asked any man if he wanted to be successful with women he
would say of course, but how many people actually are? It s
estimated that only 20% of the men get 80% of the women at some
point in their life. I m sure you can think of guys like this. You might
even be one already. Guys like this may not be the most physically
attractive but they always seem to know exactly what to say to
women. What makes men like this so different? Why aren t all men
successful? Why are so many men unsuccessful? Why do so many
men fail? The simple answer is: because they conform.

They learn all the wrong things from all the wrong places. They are
shaped by exterior circumstances. What they re exposed to on

television. Men being taught to be a nice guy and you have to

make a lot of money to attract women. Comedians that joke about
how poorly their wives treat them. All these things lead them to
believe the wrong things about how men should act. These types of
things have lead to the sterilization of men. If you ve read other
books on dating, you already know this. But why do people conform
to people who have the wrong attitudes? If you asked a man Why
are you bringing that girl flowers? he would most likely say I don t
know that s just what you do. If you asked him Why do you take
women on dates? he would likely respond that s just how it works
You see, these people don t know why they do what they do. They
let the rest of the world shape how they behave. They do things
because the rest of the world does them.
You see, the people that fail to achieve success they desire are the
same people who let things such as other people's opinions bring
them down. These people lack direction.
How can someone succeed if they have no direction? They have
nowhere to go. Think of this scenario: if someone wanted to make it
from Maine to Florida, but had no map, they could still make it to
Florida. They have a general idea where it is and they know they
would just have to start going south.
Even if they made a wrong turn they could ask someone how to get
where they needed to go.
Now think of someone with absolutely no destination. He would
likely drive around in circles hoping he got somewhere. So why do
people with destinations succeed?

Well, let me tell you a little something that I ve definitely yet to see
in a book of this nature, which if you understand fully will change
your life immediately. If you understand the full significance of what
I m about to tell you, from this point on your life will never be the
same. You will see that all the things you want in life just seem to fall
into place and from now on you won t have the stress, headaches,
neuroticism, and lack of confidence that you may have experienced
in the past.
Here s the key to success and the key to failure:
We become

what we think about.

Read that again.

We become what we think about.
Not only do we become what we think about, but we literally cannot
do otherwise. Every great leader and teacher all down through
history disagreed on many subjects, but it was on this one idea they
were in total agreement on.
The mind is everything. What we think we become.
"As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he."

Jesus

The Buddha

You are today where your thoughts have brought you; you will be
tomorrow where your thoughts take you.
James Allen
"Whether you think you can or think you can't, either way you are
right" - Henry Ford
Napoleon Hill spent the majority of his life studying hundreds upon
hundreds of the world s most successful people first hand to find the
secret of their success, and after exhaustive research he presented

his findings in his amazing best seller: "Think and Grow Rich." (Write
that down and check it out.) "Whatever the mind can conceive and
believe it can achieve" was the key of their success. Your average Joe
Six-Pack doesn't realize this, but the ones who do live fabulous lives.
Study everyone who's ever been successful at anything and you'll
realize they all had this belief.
The real truth of the matter is that you can do whatever you want to
do. All theology and science since the beginning of time have told us
this, and where people got the idea otherwise, I have no clue. Again,
are you going to listen to Joe Schmoe 1994 Honda Accord down the
block who isn't going where he wants in life or are you going to listen
to what pretty much every great leader in history from Abraham
Lincoln, to Henry Ford, to Albert Einstein, to freakin Jesus has agreed
upon. YOU CAN DO WHATEVER YOU WANT! Did you think they were
kidding? Start proving it to yourself right now.
Before we go any further...
Again, while this is one of the most effective books available on the
subject, I need to bring up a few words of warning. You can
memorize every word in this book from front to back, but that's not
going to guarantee change. You need to understand the concepts
and follow the ideas listed. None of the ideas we'll discuss are hard
and this book has been designed so everything can be done from
either the privacy of your own home or out in the field, but there is a
huge difference between knowing and applying.
If you're able to chew bubblegum and walk at the same time, you'll
be able to live the life you want to live by following these exercises.
Trust me, the rewards will be tremendous. The exercises in this book
are designed and proven to significantly improve Self-Image, Self
Esteem, and Self-Confidence, no matter where you re starting. They
won t make you "act like" a guy with a shit ton of confidence. They'll

make you be a guy with a shit ton of confidence. Once you start
applying these exercises you'll have all the evidence you need around
you. No matter where you are skill wise, this will increase your skill
enormously.
Another word of caution: apply the ideas suggested for at least 30
days before you start judging the results. Studies have shown that
the people who use these ideas and exercises for at least 30 days see
significant improvements in their lives, so if you're not seeing the
results, you're either not doing the exercises, or you're the one

exception to science.
Think Positive!
Remember, we always become what we think about. If you think
about the results you're getting, you'll become the type of guy who
gets the same results. Growth is an essential part of life. If you think
about the results you want, you'll get the results you want. This is,
without question the most important concept you'll ever learn. With
this you can literally create your own life or you'll be doomed to
others creating it for you.
Think of the mind as a fertile garden. You can plop whatever seeds
you want in it, and it has to yield the crops. You have a choice to
plant positive thoughts in it (for example "Life is really going well for
me,") or you can plant seeds that will grow into misery (such as "I'm
such a dick,") but regardless of what you decide to plant in there, the
crops will manifest themselves in more thoughts, feelings, actions,
and finally results. You absolutely cannot, by law, get positive results
from negative thinking. No way. "For every action there is a
reaction." Energy always returns to its source of origination. You
put negative energy in; you'll get negative energy back. You put
positive energy in; you'll get positive energy back. If you think in
negative terms; you will receive negative results. If you think in

positive terms; you will receive positive results. It is absolutely

impossible to get positive results from negative thinking.
You probably don't like hanging around with people who are in a shit
mood, so it's a good idea for you to plant seeds that when fully
sprouted will make you a better person, and we always become what
we think about. So think positive! If there s any lack in your life, give
it no attention. When you look at the lack of anything, you'll just
perpetuate more lack.
The Subconscious Mind.
Here's the key: over 88% of all our behaviors are subconscious. For
example if you have to pick up the phone you don't have to think:
"Alright my muscles are going to need X chemical, I'm going to have
to move Y muscle at Z degrees," you just think "Lemme pick up the
damn phone." Your subconscious takes care of the rest. You don't
have to consciously think when you open a door. You don't have to
consciously think when you type. It's automatic and subconscious. If
you say "I'm such a loser" your subconscious takes care of the rest. If
you say "I'm fabulously successful with women"... Get the picture?
Your subconscious takes care of it and moves you right into action.
You plant the seeds you want; the results will come back to you right
on schedule. It's that simple. Get it? Got it? Good!
Now the first thing you need to do, before even reading any further,
is start picturing in your mind s eye exactly how you want your life to
be. Remember, you always have to have something mentally before
you have it physically.
Write it down, in the present tense as if it's always been true. For
example "I'm just the type of guy who dates 12 women a month." or

"I am dating the woman of my dreams" and list all her qualities. Even
if you consider it to be a huge goal, write it down and you'll be

surprised at how fast it happens by following a few simple

techniques. The more detailed the better. Write something that
moves you emotionally.
Make sure they are "I am statements" because "I am" statements
alter the Self-Image, which we'll talk about later. Do not phrase any
of your suggestions negatively, for example: "I do not strike out with
women" is a terrible suggestion. Your subconscious mind does not
understand the word "not" and it will interpret it as "I do strike out
with women" and give you those results. This is called
Autosuggestion, and while there's a lack of controlled studies for this
idea, it's generally accepted as a way of installing beliefs, and when
you do it in a relaxed state it s called Autogenic Training which has
been proven empirically.
Your statements
Your statements
will not work.)
Your statements
Your statements

need to be written in the present tense.

need to be positive. ( I am not statements
need to be personal.
need to be specific.

For example one person I helped out with this had a terrible problem
with shyness. I told him to do this exercise, but he made the mistake
of writing I am not shy anymore and he got no results. Good thing
we caught it and switched it to I am an ultra confident, outgoing
leader. He started improving within 2 weeks.
Another person I helped with this had a problem getting women s
numbers. I had him write down I am a master of getting women s
numbers, feel the emotions of this and read it daily. He read it daily,
but he forgot to emotionalize (feel the feelings of getting women s
numbers) and he got no results. After he emotionalized the
statement, within a month he was getting women s numbers.

This is one of the most important exercises we're going to cover in

this book so it's absolutely essential for you to really think about
what you want out of all areas of your life.
Write down what you want in every area you can think of, and be as
detailed as possible. I assure you, that just as sure as it will get dark
tonight that if you follow the concepts in this book you'll achieve
exactly what you write down.
At first, these ideas will seem like a fantasy, but as you play with
them they ll soon turn into theory, and as you go over them some
more, they ll literally turn into fact.
Rewrite it. Add shit. Add all the crazy ridiculous things you want in
your life.
For example when I first learned this concept, some of the things I

wrote down were "I love making conversation with women. I date
the most beautiful women in the world. I date 4 beautiful women per
week. I ooze dominance and raw masculinity, and my body language
completely conveys that. I am completely confident. I have fun
around women. I handle myself with raw power all the time while
still having fun. I drive a 2004 BMW 745, and my business makes
$16000 per month." I read it daily once before going to sleep and
once as soon as I woke up (this is the best time to program your
subconscious because your brainwaves are in a relaxed state called
"Theta.")
When I wrote this, I literally had nothing. It was insane for me to
even be thinking of things like that. I put myself in a relaxed state for
30 minutes a day (you can do more,) along with reading it twice daily
and within 1-2 weeks I started seeing results. Within 60 days, I was
dating 4 women per week, my business was making $16000 per
month and everything on my list was a tangible reality, aside from

the car (which came a few months later.) It s very strange, but I
assure you, it works. Doing this in a relaxed state is called Autogenic
Training if you would like to research it on your own.
The best times to read your statements are:
As soon as you wake up
Before you go to sleep
When in a relaxed state
And don t forget to emotionalize and visualize when reading your
statements.
Words
Feelings (positive)
Visualizations
Statements that are not emotionalized with positive emotions as well
as belief (just fake it) will have no effect on the subconscious mind.
The amount of time it will take for you to see results is based on how
often you do the exercises, so it s important if you want new results
to do them! Repetition is key. At first it may be hard to change a way
of thinking if you've been practicing it for a very long time but by
repeating an idea over and over again you'll create new
Neuropathways in your brain and it will get progressively easier.
Your thoughts when emotionalized (mixed with feelings) cause your
actions and your actions cause your results. That's all there is to it.
The problem is... most people let their results control their thoughts
and emotions, and that's why they never experience substantial
change. Change your thinking and shortly you ll start having thoughts
like "Hey maybe I should head out to the bar tonight and meet a few
women." You'll consciously and automatically start taking more and

more steps until one day: boom all the things you've put on your list
are reality. The feeling is inexplicable when it happens.
One word of warning with this is that a lot of people get caught up
because they start looking for the results to show right away. A seed
doesn't grow instantly, and if you start noticing a lack of results, the
lack of results will be the goal your subconscious strives for. Don't let
anything from your past or present control your mental state. If you
want results, just keep doing your exercises, viewing your world the
way you would like it to be, and it will become the way you want it to
be. You repeat your new attitudes with feeling and visualizing over
and over again, and it will become a fact. It's as simple as that.
Again, the steps for this process are as follows:
1) Write your life exactly as you want it to be.
2) Read it daily before going to bed and after waking up while
visualizing and feeling your statements.
3) For even faster results read it as often as possible, preferably
in a relaxed state.
4) ???
5) PROFIT!
I got this diagram on the following page from Bob Proctor who is, in
my opinion, the greatest financial guru of all time. It shows exactly
how it works. His "Born Rich" Seminar on DVD is one of the greatest
collections of human knowledge available to man; I highly suggest
checking it out. The diagram was originally made by Dr. Thurman
Fleet.
Again, thoughts when mixed with emotion cause your actions, and
your actions cause your results. Don t let your past or present results
control your thoughts and emotions, or those thoughts will control
your actions. The way ultra successful people operate is they choose
how they think and feel (not caring what people think, regardless of
what's going on around them and how many people tell them they
will fail) and they can see the results come out.
Look at Karl Benz, who sat and built the world's first car while
everyone told him it couldn't be done. These people are the
innovators of the world. This is their secret.
They are completely inwardly directed. They are the leaders in
society. They are proactive and make changes in the world.

Remember:
Formula for losing: Results -> Thinking -> Actions -> Results
(Letting your results control your thinking, and getting the
same results)
Formula for winning: Thinking whatever you want -> Actions ->

Results
(Letting your thinking control your results, and getting far
better results)
Read that part over and over again. The ideas people hold in their head
always manifests itself into results. Looking at a lack of results is a vicious
cycle of failure. Just build a picture of success on your mind and an exact
replica of that picture will pour out into your life. You'll probably meet with
failure, temporary defeat, that will make you believe that it isn't going right,
but persistence is key. Never give up and results must show.
Some may say "I don't want to picture myself as successful when it's
obvious I'm not," and I'd like you to know that it's just kind of thinking that
keeps people where they are. Your current results are just an effect of your
past attitudes.
Read Napoleon Hill's Chapter in Think and Grow Rich (available for
free on the web) on Autosuggestion. You are the boss who gives the
orders, your subconscious is the crew that carries out the orders, and
your body is the ship that moves in the right direction.
"Any Idea that is held in the mind that is emphasized, that is either
feared or revered, will begin to clothe itself immediately in the most
convenient physical form available" - Andrew Carnegie
One guy I was helping out with this stuff was in a real terrible spot.
Not only was he not getting the success he wanted with women but
he was also about to get evicted from his house.

I knew he was stressed out about the women situation but he came
to me asking for advice on his housing situation too. I sat him down,
told him to make a list of what he wanted and to study that list as
often as possible.
I told him: if he could see himself as the type of guy who is successful
at whatever he touches, I know for a fact he would act differently,
and his results will be much different.
He felt better immediately and within a month he got a nice raise at
his job, was able to pay his landlord what he owed him, and he was
able to be out there meeting women.
Another woman I was helping with this really wanted to win a quite
famous competition (which will remain unnamed.) I told her to go
over every detail of the competition in her mind, to see herself
winning the competition, how it would feel when she won. You could
see the emotion on her face. She won that competition right then
and there. She also won it 2 weeks later.
The mind is really so incredible. Before I won my first Mr. Universe
title, I walked around the tournament like I owned it. I had won it so
many times in my mind, the title was already mine. Then when I
moved on to the movies I used the same technique. I visualized daily
being a successful actor and earning big money.
Arnold
Schwarzenegger.
"It s sorta like a mantra. You repeat it to yourself every day. 'Music is

my life, music is my life. The fame is inside of me, I'm going to make a
number one record with number one hits.' And it's not yet, it's a lie.
You're saying a lie over and over and over again, and then, one day
the lie is true." - Lady Gaga

"I am no longer cursed by poverty because I took possession of my

own mind, and that mind has yielded me every material thing I want,
and much more than I need. But this power of mind is a universal
one, available to the humblest person as it is to the greatest." Andrew Carnegie
I wrote myself a check for ten million dollars for acting services
rendered and dated it Thanksgiving 1995. I put it in my wallet and it
deteriorated. And then, just before Thanksgiving 1995, I found out I
was going to make ten million dollars for Dumb & Dumber. I put that
check in the casket with my father because it was our dream
together. - Jim Carrey
A letter Bruce Lee wrote himself when he was a struggling Martial
Artist and read daily: "I, Bruce Lee, will be the first highest paid
oriental superstar in the United States. In return I will give the most
exciting performances and render the best of quality in the capacity
of an actor. Starting 1970 I will achieve world fame from then
onward till the end of 1980 I will have in my possession $10,000,000.
I will live the way I please and achieve inner harmony and peace. Bruce Lee

So how are some men naturally successful with women?

Well, it wouldn't be hard for people who were taught the right
attitudes to have success with women, but not all of us have had that
benefit. People who weren t brought up with those attitudes have to
develop those attitudes in order to achieve the success they want.
As for the people who naturally have those attitudes; somewhere
during their lives they learned the skills necessary to be comfortable
around women. It may have been attitudes they picked up from their
parents, and/or it may have been through experience.
Now those learned experiences turn into self-talk and beliefs, for
example: a man who is successful with women would think "Hey,
there's a cute girl over there, why don't I talk to her and pick her up?"
while someone who is who doesn t have that conditioning would say
"Why even bother, I'll just fail anyway."
Until people get a handle on their mindset, they will never, ever,
ever, scratch the surface of what they re capable of.
Now if you re wondering if this mindset can be developed, the
answer is absolutely.
So, how does one develop this mindset? Aside from
already done: the best way is, right now, in your
picture the amount of success you want with women
happening right now. Imagine it as if it's always

what we ve
mind s eye to
as if it's
been true. As you go

through your day, keep that mindset and write down new personality
traits you would like to install.
Before we can do something, we must first be something

Gothe

If this sounds a little silly, I'll put it all together so it makes a lot more
sense. Once these beliefs take root in the subconscious mind: that

you re extremely successful and it feels good to be this successful,

your brain will automatically start figuring out ways to attract women
into your life. In Dr. Maxwell Maltz' groundbreaking bestseller
Psycho-Cybernetics released for his non-profit Psycho-Cybernetics
foundation, it was discovered that your subconscious mind is not a
mind at all. It is essentially a goal seeking cybernetic mechanism that
man was built with. One of its main jobs is to take whatever goal you
impress upon it and move it into reality.
Your subconscious mind doesn't care if the pictures, thoughts and
emotions you hold in your mind are positive or negative. It merely
takes what you impress upon it, and moves it into physical form.
Whether you realize it or not most of our behaviors are completely
subconscious.
This is just how we're wired. This is how we get ahead or fail in life.
When we have a success at anything this is the reason. Once you
learn how to consciously control this mechanism, you open a lot of
new doors for yourself.
So realize that everyone talks to themselves. Whenever you talk to
yourself, feel grateful for all your successes, even if imagined, and let
your subconscious mind start moving you in the right direction.