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1. Why do manners matter
2. Telephone Etiquette
3. Cell Phone Etiquette
4. Etiquette in Public
5. Etiquette on the Computer
6. Etiquette at the Table
7. Etiquette When Playing Sports
8. Etiquette for Thank You Notes & Invitations
9. Etiquette at Other People's Houses
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School Etiquette
You are here to learn. This is your right and the right of the
other kids.
Teachers need your co-operation to help you and the other
kids to learn well for your benefit.
You do not have the right to deprive the
other kids of their rights
Be on time
Dont give cheek
Don't tell lies - to anyone
Dont answer back
Dont be noisy or disrupt the
class
Co-operate with the other kids
Do immediately what the teacher asks
you to do
Pay attention to the teacher
Dont talk while the teacher is talking
Dont snatch anything from anyone
Dont fight, pull, push or shove anyone.
Save it for your organised activity such as
Tae Kwon Do.
Dont steal from anyone
Never bite anyone
Pick up your own litter
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Have fun by all means but not at the expense of any other
kids. Keep it safe and happy for all by not throwing hard or
sharp objects that could injure
someone, possibly for life:
Dont fight, pull, push or shove
anyone. Save it for your
organised activities such as
Karate.
Never bite anyone
Don't litter the playground
No bullying. It shows cowardice
not courage. Courage is what you have when you take on
You will remember and talk about these days for the rest of your life. Use
them to develop your strength of character, your integrity, your
knowledge and your skills to the best of your
ability:
Be punctual
Obey the school rules
Pay attention to the teachers
Be respectful to the teachers and staff
Do immediately what you are directed to do
Do not answer back
Tell the truth - always. It takes courage to
tell the truth. Cowards tell lies out of fear
Respect everyones rights
Don't litter the school grounds
Don't mess the toilets. If you do, clean it up.
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When you call up a friend and someone in their family answers the
phone, introduce yourself and say: "Hi, this is [insert your name
here]. May I please speak to [insert your friend's
name____________]?" Always remember to say thank you!
If you leave a message, wait until after the beep and make sure you
leave your name, your phone number, and your reason for calling.
If you accidentally dial the wrong number, just say that you dialled
incorrectly and apologize, then hang up.
If you answer the phone, just say, "Hello," and wait for the speaker
to introduce himself or herself.
If you answer the phone when no one else is in the house, don't tell
the caller you are home alone. Simply say the person with whom
they wish to speak cannot come to the phone.
If the caller asks to speak to someone who is not home, ask if you
can take a message or if he or she would like to be called back. If
the caller asks to be called back, make sure you ask for his or her
phone number.
Don't interrupt someone while they are talking. This goes for all
conversations, not just on the phone.
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Sometimes, people talking on cell phones forget that they are around
other people. The same
guidelines for talking on a
regular telephone also apply
to cell phone users. Below are
some extra rules for talking
on your cell phone.
Turn your phone off at school (only if your school allows you to
bring phones to school) (Otherwise ensure your parents/
caregivers know the number of the Schools General Office
and ensure that they call you there.
If you are around other people when you answer your phone,
move away and take the call in private. You do not need to
involve others in the call.
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Being "in public" means being anywhere not in your house. This includes
being at school, out with your parents, or just on the street.
Never throw your trash on the ground. Use the public trash
and recycle bins.
If you meet someone for the first time, shake his or her hand
and say "Nice to meet you."
Before you get into an elevator, let the people who have
arrived at their floor get off first.
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When you are talking to someone in person or on the phone, they can see
the emotion on your face or hear it in your voice. When you type
something, the person reading it does not know the attitude behind the
words on the screen, so it is important to follow these e-mail/whatsapp
guidelines.
If you get junk email, just delete it. It is probably not best to
forward it to others because it can be annoying and clog up
their e-mail.
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Help set the table. A traditional table setting has the napkin and
fork to the left of the plate, and the knife (the blade facing the
plate), the spoon, and the cup to the right of the plate.
Fancier table settings can include many different forks, knives, and
spoons for different courses. Just remember that the utensil furthest
from the plate is for the first course, and moving towards the plate
for the later courses.
If you notice someone has something in his or her teeth, let him or
her know quietly, but do not make a big deal out of it.
Sit tall and interact with the other people at the table.
Before you leave the table, make sure the meal is finished and it is
appropriate to leave.
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Sports can bring out the competitive side of people. Manners are
important in sports to make sure that no one's feelings get hurt.
If you hit someone during the game, apologize after the play
is over and ask them if they are OK.
If the national anthem plays, stand up, take off you hat, and
turn towards the flag.
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"Thanks again."
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Take your hat off when you enter a house or building unless it
is part of your outfit and is more formal & dressed-up.
Unless you know the family well, wait for them to offer you
something to eat or drink; don't help yourself.
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If you sleep over at a friend's house and you and your friend
stay up late, keep quiet so you do not wake others in the
house. If they hear you all night, they might not invite you
back.
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Say some sort of greeting such as, "Nice to see you, [insert
person's name here (example: Ms. Smith)]."
Unless an adult tells you to call him or her by just his or her
first name, address this person as Mr., Mrs., or Miss
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This year, Safer Internet Day (SID) falls on 10th February. Started in
Europe, the whole world comes together to make the Internet a better
place. SID is all about promoting safer and more responsible use of online
technology and mobile phones, especially amongst children and young
people. The Media Literacy Council spearheaded Singapores participation
in 2013.
Since then, the Council has been advocating the core values of
Responsibility, Empathy, Integrity and Respect on the Internet.
Safer Internet Day 2015: Let's Create a Better Internet Together
Watch our campaign video here:
(the one with the young girl and the heart that gets smaller)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dIS4qndqZQM
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This year, the Council's campaign seeks to recognise good on the Internet.
We have looked around cyber space and found 50 special people and
groups who we think embody the spirit of a better internet.
These are people who are making a better Internet in their own way, be it
just posting a kind word, a constructive comment, being a voice of reason,
or by using the Internet to start a social cause. All of them are ordinary
folks but have chosen to make the online world a better place through
their own ways.
Be inspired. Check out what they have done and said at the 2015
campaign.
http://www.medialiteracycouncil.sg/campaign2015/documents/individualn
omination/index.html@voteid=40.html
Think about it. A better internet is our choice really. Its up to us
to be safe, be smart and be kind online.
Start by posting a positive message today with the hashtag
#betterinternetsg
In 2015, we are supporting two groups of students to kick start their youth
campaigns:
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Extra notes
Optional / additional
Good manners Game
http://kindness-kingdom.myshopify.com/
Mr Vela S
A multi-hypenate, Mt Vela has held
distinguished positions in the
Singapore Police Force, helms
several charitable bodies and is
currently managing several
companies and entities as a
managing director and Board of
Director.
He is passionate about training as
he believes that learning is much
more than just book learning and
that opportunities to learn, grow
and glow from others is what makes
such training sessions so
meaningful and why he enjoys such
sessions as much as he does.
Mr Vela infuses his sessions with
meaningful anecdotes, real life
stories and past experiences as a
senior Deputy Superintendant of
Police, legal counsel as well as
mentoring junior entrepreneurs.
Thanks Mr Vela for sharing your life experiences
with us. Ive come to realise the importance
and value of asset management and selfdiscipline. Your sessions have greatly
influenced my decision making processes.
Dalston Gay Gabriel
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Entrepreneurs Club
Singapore Polytechnic (2011-2014)
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