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Family therapy and its basis relationship theory constitute a new outlook
rather than another method for psychotherapy. The new outlook originates as
much from a state of bankruptcy of the value base of traditional psychotherapy
as from the accumulating experience of therapists who work with whole
families as relational gestalts. The essence of family therapy itself lies in the
therapists commitment to all members of the family relationship system. In
the advocacy model of individual psychotherapy the offering of confidential
alliance to one family member implicitly denies the right for the other members
and their aspirations to be considered by the therapist, even when the patient
behaves in a
patently
exploitative
manner toward
the other.
The realization
that when close
relationships end,
they can
become
intermitently
mutually
exploitative,
leads the family
therapist to a
reciprocally
balanced
commitment,
based on
multidirectional partiality, empathizing with now one, then another family
member, according to the issue at hand. Rather than refusing to concern
himself with the members convictions about exploitation, the therapist should
welcome the family members active search for justice as a potentially good
prognostic sign. Not every family has a capacity for facing and working through
the difficult, value-laden implications of close relationships. This reorientation
toward the dynamics of balance versus imbalance in relationships radically
alters the values and goals of psychotherapy, whether members are treated
individually or conjointly.
fundamental implications for community mental health practices and a wide
variety of social functions. To mention only one example, law and court
functions obtain a thoroughly different meaning when viewed in the light of the
recently discovered, unconsciously collusive relational structures, instead of the
traditional individual based framework. Ultimately, relationship theory and
intergenerational family therapy will offer a renewed definition of both health
and prevention in the field of mental function.
The goal of the family mascot is to break the tension and lighten the mood with
humor or antics. He is usually the cute one. On the outside The Mascot may
look; funny, carefree, attention seeking, charming, light-hearted, dramatic,
lovable, needy, manipulative or immature.
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past their own experiences and focus on the current situation. Focusing on the
situation at hand will help both parents see the all the
issues clearly and allow them to compromise on a
solution.
When raising two or more children, arguments are bound to arise. Frequent
disputes and/or competitiveness among siblings tend to be a manifestation of
jealously. When handling these situations, parents must be careful to treat both
children fairly and avoid favoring one child. Unless the dispute is completely
one-sided, both children will need to be disciplined equally.
This can be a tricky dispute to navigate, as these problems usually arise from
one relative feeling taken advantage of or neglected. To diffuse the problem, let
relatives know the truth why the trip cant be made, whether it is due to a lack
of money or a scheduling problem, and listen to suggestions as to how to
rectify the situation.