Dark Seduction: The Dark Truth About Seduction And How

To Use It To Get What You Want From Love, Sex,

Relationships And Romance

The Main Myths:

Love Is Scarce: Everyone is replaceable

Men Want Sex, Women Dont: Women are in possession of the

only organ in the human body which is devoted entirely to
pleasure and are capable of experiencing continual, repeated
orgasm. If anything, women are the gender most designed to
enjoy and make the most of sexual pleasure.

Money Is Seduction: A lot of men are astounded and even

offended when they find out that, in reality, women are willing to
sleep with anyone who is able to take action and arouse the right
emotional states in them. Attraction is not logical.

Show non-neediness: There is nothing more attractive than

someone who is entirely self-sufficient and who does not depend
on anything or anyone outside of their self for their satisfaction
and happiness. Think about the classic viewpoint of a smitten
lover. Such a person views romance as being completely involved
with someone else, constantly thinking about that person, craving
them and desiring them. In actual fact, such behavior ends up
repelling people of the opposite sex. If you ask people why they
ended some of their relationships or romantic encounters over the
course of their lifetime you are likely to come across at least a few
people who state that it was due to the other person becoming
needy, clingy or wanting more from them than they were willing
to provide. There is no faster way to lose someone than to
become too attached to them.

Dont get too emotional / too affected by rejection: One

consistent characteristic of a dark seducer is the ability see
nothing as a big deal. The most experienced dark seducers have
almost a zen like calm where nothing, either positive or negative,
is able to fundamentally change their mood and emotion. The
best dark seducers are able to take anything, extremely positive
or extremely negative, with almost a shrug of the shoulders and a
calm way of just carrying on.

Charismatic core confidence: The feeling of core confidence

experienced by the best seducers is one which does not depend
on anything happening in their life at the time it is simply who
they are. They are as confident with a million dollars in their
pocket as they are with none. They are as confident wearing
simple gym clothes as they are in a custom made Armani outfit.
Time and time again studies have shown that one of the most key
factors in being attractive is to be confident. Dark seducers take
this to a level which is experienced by few other people.

Dont need validation: A dark seducer never feels bad or in

need of validation or approval from others.

Self-centered: Because a dark seducer loves their own self more

than they love anything or anyone else, the dark seducer is
always able to put their own interests first. They will never act in
a way which puts anyone ahead of themselves. They are
incapable of caring deeply about anything other than what they
want to get out of life. As a result of this, they are able to make
choices and decisions which always further their own interests.
They never allow the pursuit of romance or seduction to
compromise what they want to get out of life.

It is a game: A dark seducer does not see anything as overly

important. Such a person is able to see seduction, and life itself,
as one giant game. As a result of this the dark seducer never
succumbs to the pressure of life, because ultimately, they do not
feel any. To the dark seducer, nothing ultimately matters, and
therefore nothing is able to impact them on a deep level.

Whereas regular people become emotionally invested in various

people and situations, the dark seducer is able to operate in an
environment and from a perspective of detached aloofness.

They know there is no right or wrong way - only what

works and what doesnt work.
Dark seducers know that what is said and done is irrelevant - all
that matters is the impact it has.

Tone, eye contact, pausing: Skilled dark seducers know that

their tone of voice, the intensity of their eyes at any given time,
the pauses they leave between syllables of words - all of these
tiny details add up to have a profound effect. As a result, dark
seducers do not leave a trace. They are stealthy and hard to
detect.

A dark seducers art form lies in forging a connection with

someone to the extent that they are able to gain their deepest
level of trust and intimacy.

A dark seducer meets all of their basic needs, such as those for
esteem, self-worth and purpose within themselves - they are not
in need of anyone else. The first key difference is that many
regular people attempt seduction and relationships to fill a need
they have. Dark seducers, on the other hand, already have met all
of their own needs. They therefore dont need to play the game -
they choose to through enjoyment.

Consider the following metaphor. Imagine two people gambling at

a casino alongside one another. The first is desperately trying to
win - they need to win money in order to afford to eat. The second
has plenty of money and can easily afford to lose whatever they
are staking. They are simply playing for the thrill of the game. The
first person will be attached to the outcome of the game and
likely to feel a sense of desperation and emotion. A loss will
devastate them while a win will elate them. The second person is
able to carry out their moves from a detached perspective of
intellect rather than emotion. They need nothing from the game
and ultimately dont care about its outcome - only the act of
playing.

Dark seducers tend to have an incredibly strong concept of self.

They are not defined by the world around them or what happens
to be popular or trendy at the time. They are certainly not defined
by anyone else in their life. Dark seducers do not take particular
pride in being a boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife - they know
these are only labels. Their interaction with the opposite sex is
merely something they do rather than something that they are.

Whereas a mainstream person engaged in romance may think in

terms of the right way to treat someone, a dark seducer will
think only with regards to the effective way to treat someone.
There is no moral dimension to the thought of a dark seducer -
only a ruthlessly efficient focus on effect and outcome.

Presence is the ability of an effective seducer to switch off their

internal chatter and self-talk and instead focus entirely on the
moment in front of them. Most people are constantly preoccupied
by their own thoughts, doubts and feelings which are working
non-stop somewhere in their brain. This is a form of psychological
distraction which makes it hard to be effective in the present
moment. After all, how is it possible to focus on the here and now
if you are reliving something that has happened in the past, or
you are looking ahead to something that may or may not happen
in the future?

One of the ways in which presence helps seducers to be

exceptionally effective is by allowing them to place all of their
attention at any one time on their interaction with their seduction
target. Seeing as it is so rare for someone to have the experience
of being the sole object of anothers attention, when it does
occur, it can have a profound impact. The particular type of eye
contact displayed by a dark seducer is an outer manifestation of
inner presence. Such eye contact tends to be very intense but
without coming across as staring. If you think about the
stereotypical smoldering model gaze featured in advertising, it is
something like that. It is a very intense but solid manifestation of
internal stillness and calm.

The final main inner aspect of dark seduction is physical self-

mastery. This may involve finding the optimum combination of
diet and sleep to have a high level of testosterone and an
abundance of natural, clean energy.

One of the traits of the most effective seducers is they are not
reliant on alcohol, or other chemical crutches, which many
average people use when pursuing seduction in order to have a
feeling of confidence and a lack of inhibition. Seducers are able to
draw their own confidence, energy and expressiveness from
within themselves - not through any external means.

For example, think of a very simple verbal phrase - such as hello.

Depending on how this is said, it can mean anything from I am
shy and not confident in talking to you to I want to have sex
with you as soon as possible. The tone of voice in which words
are spoken, the pace at which words are said and the way in
which they coincide with body language are all key verbal aspects
of dark seduction.

The major difference between a friendly interaction, and a sexual

interaction, is the touch which takes place. Touch is a huge
aspect which many people who dont know about dark seduction
struggle with.

A silent open basically involves initiating contact and creating

intrigue through just gesture, eye contact and touch.

Someone who seems to understand them better than they

understand themselves - in other words an effective dark seducer
- is therefore incredibly attractive and hard to resist.

A dark seducer making use of emotional mastery understands the

value in spiking a persons emotional graph, either positively or
negatively. By triggering either an unusually positive, or an
unusually negative emotion, the seducer is instantly able to take
the target outside the boundaries of their everyday existence.

The skilled dark seducer aims to alternate strong positive or

negative emotion sequentially. Consider the following verbal
opener: you are absolutely beautiful, if not a little unimaginative.

This strong alternating feeling is likely to cause confusion,

attraction and intrigue in the target. The seducer becomes
instantly valuable to the target - he has distracted them from
their usual comfort zone.

The best seducers are able to mix in what seems to be fairly

regular conversation, in order to build comfort and familiarity,
with a mixture of positive and negative emotional spikes, in order
to build deep, irrational, emotional attraction. Many dark
seducers take the approach of starting off with smaller spikes and
then pushing things further as the interaction develops. Consider
this in terms of a movie. Imagine the start of a movie featured a
mixture of amazing action scenes (positive emotional spikes) and
gut wrenching emotional scenes (negative emotional spikes).

This effectively melts the targets logic and puts them in an

emotional dreamworld for the rest of the interaction.

For example, if a target states an opinion about something, the

seducer may say something like actually youre wrong, thats not
a good (band/ color/ restaurant/ degree/ anything). Some targets
will respond with yeah youre right, I dont actually like it that
much. This shows they are insecure and crave the seducers
approval. The seducer will then capitalize on this knowledge in
their pursuit of emotional manipulation over the remaining course
of the interaction.

Skilled seducers know this, and are able to create a genuine

rollercoaster ride through their use of interest and disinterest,
approval and disapproval.

Failure to alternate interest and disinterest in an effective way is

one of the main reasons why a lot of seducers end up falling into
the friend zone.
If they are consistently nice and positive and interested, the
target ends up taking them for granted. It is boring. There is no
challenge, nothing special.

The target does not feel the seducer is high status or discerning -
they are not a prize. This goes against mainstream thinking but
also explains the common complaint of men that women always
go for the douche bags, they never go for nice guys like me. Nice
guys finish last, because nice guys are insufferably dull. Be
interesting. You owe it to yourself and to your target.

The Mundane and The Magical: Think about an epic piece of

music - perhaps a metal classic with an awesome guitar solo
somewhere in the song. What makes such a song so great? It is
because it knows how to mix in the spectacular with the
standard. If the entire song consisted of a series of epic guitar
solos, and nothing else, it would sound ridiculous.

Similarly, think of a gourmet meal. It might feature an epic,

indulgent, elaborate dessert. But are all the courses of this
nature? No. If they were, it would be over the top. Too much. No
one would want to eat a meal like this.

Trying to do too much is a huge mistake to be avoided at all costs.

First, try to create a sense of connection and comfort with their

target. This is achieved through the mundane - the sharing of
factual experiences, information about each others lives and
other similar topics of rapport building chat. This, on its own, will
lead to a friendly connection and nothing more. Instead, a good
seducer needs to use the magical as a spice to vary the
mundane. These are the emotional gambits that are able to
create intense emotions that stem beyond comfort and rapport,
and instead make a target feel a strong sense of attraction as
well.

Magic Names: Finding a magic, special name to call a seductive

target is a powerful verbal hallmark of many great seducers. The
name should be only between you and her. The best seducers
dont just give their targets a special pet nickname - they give
them one that really counts. This can have a variety of logic
underpinning it. One option is to choose a nickname about
something the target is playfully insecure about

One of the things that sets dark seducers apart from other people
is their ability to speak in a measured way which is almost
hypnotic to listen to. Words are likely to be spaced carefully and
spoken in a deep, resonant tone which is pleasant to listen to.
Many dark seducers listen to public speakers of great impact and
carefully modify their method of verbal delivery to match what
these great speakers have shown to be effective in the past.
Others match their tonality and rhythm to that of their target - a
technique known as verbal mirroring which is covered in the
next chapter.

Interestingly, mirroring is something human beings naturally do

when they feel a sense of comfort and connection with one
another. If you have doubts as to the truth of mirroring, keenly
observe pairs of people when you are next out and about. You will
notice that people who are spending time together often end up
copying one aspect or another of the other person - such as their
posture, their stance, the way in which they have folded their
arms or the angle at which their head is tilted. This is proof that
mirroring is a natural phenomenon which is hardwired into the
human condition.

The best starting point for verbal mirroring is the pace of speech.
Almost no-one is aware of the pace at which they speak, and the
rhythm of their diction. As a result, it is possible to imitate the
other without them realizing it is happening.

Aside from the pace of speech, other aspects of verbal mirroring

include the intonation used by the target. Sometimes, targets will
tend to place an unusual or distinctive verbal stress on the words
they use. If the seducer is able to pick up on this vocal signature,
and mimic it, it can be a good way of building a sense of rapport
with the victim.
The frequency of speech is another aspect that can be verbally
mirrored. Some people are very talkative - others less so. You will
know from your own personal experience that being around
someone who talks a lot more or a lot less than you do can be an
annoying or difficult experience. Seducers are aware of this and
will therefore adjust the frequency of their talk to match that of
their target. It is important to note that verbal mirroring can
work over text message and email in a similar way as it does via
speech. Good seducers will mirror the type of language their
target uses in a text, down to aspects such as complexity of
vocabulary, sentence length, format, choice of greeting and type
of punctuation used. By doing so, when reading the written
communication, the target automatically thinks this is my kind of
person without being consciously aware of where the feeling of
rapport is stemming from.

Physical mirroring can relate to both gesture, expression and

appearance.

Lets stand over there or lets go outside and get some fresh
air, this place is boring, lets go to this other place or lets go
get some food. The seducer aims to move their target around as
much as possible in the course of a short space of time.

The target will feel as if they have known the seducer for far, far
longer than they really have. Think about it - if a seducer and
their target go to several different places together in the course of
a few hours, rather than just sitting at one table in one restaurant
like so many conventional dates, then in the targets mind, the
seducer is someone they have had a far greater range of
experience with. This is how the human mind words. Time is
deeply subjective. Creating the sensation of a lot of time spent
together is just as effective, if not more effective, than actually
spending that time together.

It sounds deceptively simple, but talking about a shared future

can lead to a high level of comfort in the targets mind that would
not otherwise exist. For example, if the target mentions a certain
type of music or food they like, the seducer will say something
like oh theres this epic place for that nearby, well go there
sometime. This will be said in a very offhand manner and the
seducer will then move on rapidly without dwelling on the topic,
or even waiting for a response. Using the area of the future in a
humorous way can also work well. This usually involves making
absurd plans together. This is primarily used to create a sense of
fun as well as comfort.

A final comic response is to exaggerate. So if a target is like why

do you want to see me so much in the future? the seducer may
say something like yeah, I want to see you SO badly, I want to
see you tomorrow morning, and then every day after, and then
we will get married next week, and move in together and so on.
This should be done in an absurd, joking tone of voice in order to
create fun and good feeling in the process.

Read aspects of a target such as their body language, their life

circumstances, their age, the general vibe they put across and so
forth in order to determine things about them. The type of thing a
dark seducer is trying to figure out is what kind of person the
target is, what values they have, if they are generally happy with
their life or not, if they are open or averse to risk and countless
other factors.

Dark seducers will never give a comment of praise or one of scorn

without carefully thinking about why they are doing it. That is
because dark seducers know that words are weapons and they
should not be used carelessly.

Whereas most people will praise someone through a pure

intention of wanting to express positive sentiment, a seducer will
only ever praise for selfish reasons - namely putting pressure on
their target to behave in a certain way.

The seducers criteria for praise is not this person has earned a
kind comment - rather it is I want that person to behave in that
way again, whether or not it benefits them. Similarly, many
normal people will criticize or advise someone on the basis that
they feel they are helping them out. A seducer, on the other hand,
couldnt care less. They will do whatever they want - not what is
in the targets interest. For example, a true dark seducer will have
no hesitation in criticizing something that is not to their liking -
even if it helps out the target personally.

The most shameless of all dark seducers who are willing to do

whatever it takes to get what they want out of a target will
develop a pattern of inconsistency with their praise and criticism.
This unpredictability leaves a target feeling on edge and never
exactly sure of when they will feel reassured and when they will
feel attacked.

Dark seducers use reward and criticism in a similar way to dolphin

trainers. They never allow their targets to fall into a feeling of
safety or certainty. Whatever happens next is always
unpredictable and, as a result, the target is always going out of
their way to go the extra mile for the seducer, in the hope of
receiving a random reward. This is an effective, albeit evil, system
of control.

The ways in which a dark seducer is able to get into the head of a
target and look at how their target feels a complex mixture of
desire, doubt and everything that is in between the two.

Often, dark seducers take great pleasure from alternately playing

the role of the devil and the angel which sit on the shoulders of
the target. One minute, the seducer may take up the diabolic role,
tempting the target to push beyond the boundaries and limits of
their comfort and morality, and instead give in to pure, hedonistic
pleasure. The next, the seducer may switch back into a more
angelic way of being, lecturing the target for their sinful lapses
and blaming them for their own desires.

The best seducer should push their target into feeling alternately
naughty, guilty and gripped by strong desire. This moral
emotional variety keeps a seduction interesting and plays upon
aspects of a targets psyche which are rarely if ever touched upon
in the course of their everyday life.
Temptation, desire, guilt

A skilled seducer is able to say things which trigger the responses

of desire and guilt at the same time.

An example would be something like I wish you werent making

me want you so much right now, you are so shameless. This is
an interesting line for several reasons. First of all, it places the
blame for the seduction on the target rather than on the seducer.
This is likely to trigger equal feelings of lust, shame and guilt in
the target - a potent mixture.

Second, the exciting temptation stemming from the phrase want

you is mixed in with the reproachful shameless. The mixed
messages send strong signals to the targets subconscious mind
that strongly amplify the emotional intensity and feeling of
meaning present in a seductive encounter.

Verbal Moral Tests:

If the seducer says something like Lets play a game called

would you ever and then proceeds to test a targets moral
limits, but in a playful tone of voice, the target is less likely to
resist.

The seducer shouldn't be scared of holding fixed eye contact

during the course of the interaction. When this type of eye
contact is done well, the target may begin to subconsciously
touch their hair, brushing it away from their face in response to
the eye contact. This is traditionally known as an indicator of
interest.

The best seducers, on the other hand, are able to slow down the
pace of the interaction in order to make the target feel
comfortable and ready for something more to happen. This can
relate to the way in which their voice is used. For example, if you
listen to yourself talking very rapidly, and then more deliberately,
you will notice that the slower pace is more appealing and
sensual to listen to.
Speak in a more deliberate way. This involves leaving pauses
between words particularly when the person wishes to emphasize
something they are saying. This can also create a feeling of
expectation on behalf of the target, which can leave the seducer
in a position of power.

Move in a slow, controlled, and deliberate way, not fast, quick, or

jerky.

Due to the fact that a feeling of sexual energy is actually quite

addictive on a biochemical level, if a seducer is able to use this
effectively, they are able to leave their target feeling as if they
are physically addicted to the presence of the person who has
seduced them.

Always being available, and always replying promptly, destroys

the chance that somebody has to experience this joyful and
exciting anticipation.
Think about the attempts of fans to interact with their celebrity
heroes. Fans will attempt to contact the celebrities they admire
through social media. Do they always expect a response? No.
When a response is received it is seen as a big deal and the
persons incredibly happy and joyful. The reply is appreciated and
enjoyed but is not expected. Fans naturally understand that
celebrities are busy people whose time is valuable. Therefore, a
response is seen as something to be enjoyed, not to be expected.

A sign of low value and not having a full and fulfilling life is always
replying to messages promptly. It suggests you have nothing
better to do and nothing to occupy your time. People will quickly
become bored with someone who is always available and always
there to indulge them.

Basically, a skilled seduction artist is able to give the impression

that they are always on the verge of becoming bored and walking
away. As human beings, we naturally chase what is difficult for us
to achieve. This is due to the fact that anything which is valuable
in life does not necessarily come easily.

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