Venus in the Elements

Venus in the Elements: Fire, Earth, Air, & Water

It is helpful to consider the element of the sign that Venus occupies in a persons
chart in order to gain more understanding of the love nature and relationship
orientation of the individual.

The twelve signs of the zodiac are grouped into four elementsfire, earth, air, and
waterwhich represent four different approaches to life. There are three signs per
element: Fire signs are Aries, Leo, and Sagittarius; Earth signs are Taurus, Virgo, and
Capricorn; Air signs are Gemini, Libra, and Aquarius; and Water signs are Cancer,
Scorpio, and Pisces.

Venus represents, amongst other things, how people both give and receive love.
Perhaps more importantly, the position of Venus shows a persons perception of
relationship and affection. Venus in a particular element shows a particular style
and orientation in these respects.

What qualities and expressions of affection are people most receptive to? What is
most important and comfortable in a relationship to a Venus in Leo person may
not be the case for a Venus in Gemini individual.

For example, while dramatic expressions of affection may woo a native with Venus
in Fire, they may be a turn-off for a Venus in Air individual. Similarly, a Venus in Air
native may find it easier to maintain a long-distance relationship than a Venus in
Earth person, who needs physical presence more than most.
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Venus in the Elements

Venus in Fire people (that is, those with Venus in Aries, Leo, or Sagittarius) have
very idealistic, and often self-centered, visions of romance and relationship.
Although generally lacking in pretension, these individuals can blatantly disregard
their lovers dreams and desires. Venus in Fire natives often unconsciously write
scripts for their love lives, and they do expect their partners to follow them.
Otherwise, they are left rather disappointed. They tend to consider themselves to
be warm and passionate peopleand they are! But it can sometimes be difficult to
convince them that they are self-centered as a result. Venus in Fire need to breathe
new life into their relationships frequently, which can be exhausting for lovers who
prefer a smoother ride. At their worst, Venus in Fire natives can be somewhat like
vampires, demanding attention from their loved ones, getting it, and then feeding
off their lovers energy! If their lovers appreciate the drama, then all is fine. Those
less inclined to this kind of ardor might find Venus in Fire natives exciting for a
while, but eventually exhausting. Venus in Fire people are generally rather blunt and
direct in love, and they expect you to be too. Spontaneity, laughter, and grand
gestures turn them on. Remember, they feed on energy and excitement in their
relationships more than anythingand attention! Even those with more modest Sun
Signssuch as Taurus, Virgo, or Capricornneed to feel alive through their
relationships. In fact, some might say that they treat their lovers as objects and
extensions of themselves.

Venus in Earth people (that is, those with Venus in Taurus, Virgo, or Capricorn)
tend to most appreciate solid, long-standing, and reliable relationships. Although
somewhat cautious about entering new relationships, once they do decide, they are
admirable for their ability to commit themselves. Venus in Earth natives feel most
loved with physical proof of commitment. They work hard at making their
relationships work on a physical and practical level. Unless the element of Water is
prominent in the chart, however, their approach to relationships may seem rather
impersonal and overly practicalperhaps even conservativeto some. Venus in Earth
natives are most receptive to solid expressions of love that are tangible and easily
measured. Similarly, they express their love and affection in ways that are rarely
flowery or grand. They require, more than most, physical presence, steadiness,
reliability, and comfort in their relationships. Once committed, they quickly become
annoyed if their partners demand proof of their love. They might say, Im here,
arent I? Perhaps it has a little to do with all of the energy they put into entering
the relationship in the first place! (Venus in Earth people are generally quite
cautious and often need a lot of time to get comfortable). Again, physical
expressions of affection and commitment are most appreciated. Flowery romance
and excitement are seen as superfluous or even superficial.
Venus in Air people (that is, those with Venus in Gemini, Libra, or Aquarius)
consider communication to be the key ingredient in their relationships. These
natives will respond most lovingly to verbal expressions of interest and affection.
Sharing thoughts is, to Venus in Air natives, the most essential part of a
relationship. They will be most turned off by partners (or potential partners) who are
uncommunicative. Sometimes, these natives are more interested in what others
might consider superficial gesturesthe right words at the right time, for example.
In sharp contrast to Venus in Earth natives, Venus in Air people are less inclined to
require physical presence and expressions of affection. As long as there is what they
consider to be an open and flowing communication between themselves and their
partners, they tend to feel nurtured, loved, and appreciated. Venus in Air people
also tend to demand or require some independence and space from their lovers.
They are often rather playful and sometimes flirtatious individuals, promising a little
more than they can deliver. Expect lively, intelligent, and fun exchanges with these
natives.

Venus in Water people (that is, those with Venus in Cancer, Scorpio, or Pisces) are
most receptive to emotional expressions of affection. Although somewhat self-
protective and cautious about making new social connections, once they are in
committed relationships, they go out of their way to nurture and care for their loved
ones. Verbal expressions of affection are less important to them than exchanges of
feelings. Venus in Water people feel the need to become one with their
loversthey often consider verbal expressions of love superficial and are easily
baffled by any demand on them to make these expressions. Some may find Venus
in Water natives difficult to understand, especially due to their sensitive natures and
tendency to brood or become silent when unhappy. They can find it rather difficult
to share their partners, requiring more loyalty than most. They are especially adept
at feeling out their partners deeper needs and desires, and it is in this area that
they feel most proud. By picking up their partners emotional undercurrents, Venus
in Water people express their love. Some partners, such as Venus in Air or Venus in
Fire individuals, will be threatened by their tendency to nonverbal communication,
and they may want more. Others may find Venus in Water people to be too indirect
and even roundabout.