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1 Society and an Honorary Member of the British Psychoanalytical
2 Society. He is a Patron of the Squiggle Foundation. He is the author
3 of various books published in the field of psychoanalysis, among
4 others Chains of Eros, On Private Madness, Work of the Negative, and
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8 Mental Health at the Centre for Child Mental Health in London,
9 and the Winnicott Clinic Senior Research Fellow in Psychotherapy
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1 cian at the Tavistock Centre for Couple Relationships, part of the
2 Tavistock Institute of Medical Psychology. He has written or edited
3 several books on Winnicott, notably D. W. Winnicott: A Biographical
4 Portrait, which received the Gradiva Prize for Biography in 1997,
5 as well as Forensic Psychotherapy and Psychopathology: Winnicottian
6 Perspectives, and The Legacy of Winnicott: Essays on Infant and Child
7 Mental Health, all published by Karnac Books. He is also a Patron of
8 the Squiggle Foundation, and an Adviser to the Winnicott Clinic
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5 Clinic of Psychoanalysis, the registered charity responsible for the
6 annual Donald Winnicott Memorial Lecture.
7 The Clinic was founded in 1969 to promote professional train-
8 ing in the principles of psychotherapy, to conduct research, and to
9 assist in the provision of individual psychotherapy. During the
10 1990s, to meet changing circumstances, assistance was extended to
1 patients in group therapy, training grants were awarded, and sym-
2 posia arranged to encourage organizations to reduce workplace
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4 Since 2000, the main focus of Clinic activities has been the wider
5 dissemination of the work and ideas of Dr Donald W. Winnicott
6 (18961971), the distinguished English paediatrician, child psychia-
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8 the understanding of the causes of mental illness, particularly in
9 infants and children. To this end, the Clinic established the Winni-
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1 Counselling, and the annual Donald Winnicott Memorial Lecture,
2 designed for a wide audience of professionals and others involved
3 with children. Lectures focus upon specific topics arising from
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211 t is my great pleasure to welcome you to this, the third Donald
1 Winnicott Memorial Lecture. We are very pleased to see so
2 many, especially many who were here last year, and some who
3 were here two years ago. To us, this third Lecture is really some-
4 thing of a milestone. We have a partnership with Karnac Books, by
5 whom both previous Lectures have been publishedas we intend
6 that tonights will be.
7 We are a small charity, but we think that this dissemination is a
8 critical educational factor for us and for those around. We also
9 recognize that an annual lecture of this sort provides a meeting-
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1 months, or even a year, and we would welcome any feedback that
2 you might like to give usperhaps, for example, whether or not we
3 as a Clinic might do a little more to foster meetings of this nature,
4 acting as a catalyst for those who are often really quite lonely out
5 there in the field.
6 Having welcomed you, my next tasks are very simple: to ask
7 Brett Kahr to introduce our speaker, and to assure you that we are
8 very conscious that many of you will need to get away at the time
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211 ood evening, ladies and gentlemen. No doubt many of you
1 here tonight, if not all of you, will be familiar with the
2 wonderful bronze statue of Sigmund Freud, created by the
3 sculptor Oscar Nemon, that sat for many years beside the library in
4 Swiss Cottage in North London. In more recent years, the statue has
5 been relocated, and it now resides in a little garden nook in front of
6 the Tavistock Clinic, not far from the Freud Museum. Although
7 colleagues will know this statue quite well, it may not be appreci-
8 ated that Donald Winnicott, the man to whom we pay tribute this
9 evening, played a leading role in having Nemons statue of Freud
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1 only a few months before Winnicotts own death from cardiac
2 disease on 25 January 1971. Winnicott expended a great deal of
3 energy during his final months of illness to ensure that sufficient
4 funds would be raised so that his great hero, Sigmund Freud, could
5 be properly memorialized.
6 Just as Winnicott helped us to remember Freud, tonight we have
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2 accomplished, we opted not for a statue, but rather for something
3 living and breathing and very vibrant, in keeping with Donald
4 Winnicotts own character (Kahr, 1996). Following in the distin-
5 guished footsteps of Dr Joyce McDougall, our first Winnicott
6 Memorial lecturer, and Sir Richard Bowlby, our second Winnicott
7 Memorial lecturer, we have really struck psychoanalytical gold:
8 Professor Andr Green of Paris has honoured us by accepting our
9 invitation to deliver the Third Annual Donald Winnicott Memorial
10 Lecture, and to talk to us this evening about his reflections on
1 Winnicotts theory of play.
2 Born in Cairo in 1927, to a Sephardi Jewish family originally
3 known as Gren, Andr Green, the youngest of four children,
4 emigrated to France in 1946 to undertake his university studies. He
5 decided upon a career in medicine and psychiatry at quite an early
6 age, and after arriving in Paris on 8 May 1946, he set about his plan
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7 Andr Green undertook his psychiatric training at the
8 renowned Parisian hospital, the Hpital Sainte Anne, under the
9 tutelage of the eminent psychiatrist, Professor Henri Ey, whose
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1 who, during the 1950s, was indisputably the most important
2 figure of psychiatry in France, and maybe even in the world
3 (quoted in Green & Kohon, 1999b, p. 17). It may well have been Dr
4 Greens experience of working with Professor Ey that afforded that
5 privileged insight into the dynamics of the more troubled and more
6 complex patients with whom Andr Green has worked so closely
7 during the last four or more decades.
8 In the early 1950s, as a young psychiatrist, Green began to find
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2 captured the cultural imagination of France as it would do in the
3 period from 1968 onwards. In fact, Andr Green will remember the
4 mid-century discovery of two French biomedical researchers who
5 recognized the sedative properties of a class of drugs called
6 phenothiazines, especially chlorpromazine, which ushered in the
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8 worldwide. To have had the courage and independence of mind to
9 find ones way to psychoanalysis just as the rest of the psychiatric
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1 indication of Andr Greens strength of character, and of his ability
2 to remain his own man.
3 He began his personal analysis in 1956 with the highly respected
4 French psychoanalyst Maurice Bouvet, himself the student of Sacha
5 Nacht, one of the earliest Parisian psychoanalysts. Green completed
6 his analysis in 1960, shortly before Bouvets death. He then under-
7 took two more analyses, first with Jean Mallet, and then with
8 Catherine Parat (Etchegoyen, 1999a), qualifying as a member of the
9 Socit Psychanalytique de Paris, the oldest psychoanalytical soci-
211 ety in France. Since the completion of his studies, Green has had a
1 most distinguished career in all aspects of psychoanalysis, having
2 served as President of the Socit Psychanalytique de Paris,
3 Director of the Institut de Psychanalyse, as well as having served as
4 Vice-President of the International Psycho-Analytical Association.
5 He also held high offices for The International Journal of Psycho-
6 Analysis and the Nouvelle Revue de Psychanalyse.
7 No stranger to Great Britain, many of you will recall that
8 Professor Green held the Freud Memorial Professorship at Univer-
9 sity College London during the 19791980 academic year, and he
30 has visited the Squiggle Foundation in London on many occasions.
1 He has authored a large number of books on a variety of topics over
2 many decades, each characterized by a unique writing style, full of
3 classical and literary references that draw upon Greens great intel-
4 ligence and vast erudition.
5 Although trained as a classical psychoanalyst, Green remains
6 one of the few traditional French psychoanalysts who studied the
7 work of Jacques Lacan with great seriousness, at a time when
8 Lacans more conservative colleagues regarded him as mad. Simi-
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2 appreciation for the great English psychoanalyst. Though one may
3 not easily detect overt correspondences between the work of Lacan
4 and Winnicott, I think that Greens appreciation for these
5 two psychoanalytical titans provides us with more evidence of his
6 independent-mindedness, for not many people could have had
7 profitable dialogues with both Lacan and with Winnicott. Among
8 contemporary practitioners, Andr Green, perhaps more than
9 almost anyone, epitomizes an international spirit of independence,
10 which Donald Winnicott would so much have appreciated.
1 It gives me great pleasure, ladies and gentlemen, that Professor
2 Andr Green has come from Paris to speak to us tonight, and I now
3 call upon him to deliver the Third Annual Donald Winnicott
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1 Green, A., & Kohon, G. (1999b). The Greening of psychoanalysis: Andr
2 Green in dialogues with Gregorio Kohon. In: G. Kohon (Ed.), The
3 Dead Mother: The Work of Andr Green (pp. 1058). London:
4 Routledge.
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1 I strongly identify with him. Throughout his life Winnicott
2 struggled against compliance, conformism, and submission. It
3 is scarcely surprising there has not been any Winnicottian school
4 and that no one is called his disciple, even those closest to him. As
5 I feel a certain continuity exists between Winnicott and myself, I
6 shall not provide a submissive account of his ideas, even though I
7 do think he was the most creative mind in psychoanalysis, after
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1 tive emotional development, he said it was like the introduction to
2 a book. He expounded his original method: ideas were not formed
3 from other theories. He confessed that in building his own theory,
4 he gathered elements from various sources and related them to his
5 clinical experience, but was prepared to examine in due course the
6 few things he stole here and there from others. However, my
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2 consider a sort of testament: Playing and Reality (1971). I shall focus
3 attention mainly on playing and not so much on realitydespite
4 Winnicotts locating play, like other transitional phenomena,
5 between inner and outer reality; outer reality does not seem to me
6 limited to objectively perceived objects. I think it is in the presence
7 of horror that we understand the necessity of play in making it
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9 Winnicott had been interested in play ever since 1942 (Why
10 Children Play) but I am more interested in his last statements about
1 it. Two central chapters are devoted to play in Playing and Reality.
2 One of them, Playing: a theoretical statement, is constantly
3 quoted at length and is considered to be the most detailed study
4 on the topic. The other chapter, Playing: creative activity and the
5 search of the self, is, quite surprisingly, almost never mentioned;
6 maybe it provokes little comment because it is obscure and diffi-
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8 that, bearing the same title, they must be tightly linked. I shall
9 consider this two-sided development as the axis of my elaboration.
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3 First, I want to make a statement to indicate where I stand. On
4 the one hand I accept the profound originality and the creativity
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8 I think that it was thanks to Winnicotts experience of the
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1 to notice what had been escaping everyone elses attention.
2 In Human Nature (1988), a book published posthumously, when
3 considering the earliest stages, Winnicott moves towards the
4 complete merging of the individual and the environment that is
5 implied in the words primary narcissism. Winnicott compares it
6 with the physical transformation of the endometrium intermingled
7 with the placenta. This basic hypothesis appears to me as a fecun-
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2 tionships which has very great importance of which it could be said
3 that between the mother who is physically holding the baby and
4 the baby there is a layer which, we have to acknowledge, is an
5 aspect of herself and at the same time an aspect of the baby. It is
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3 alternative area, the transitional phenomena and the symbolic
4 union, is grounded in this mad view of something belonging at
5 the same time to the mother and to the child. This, of course, poses
6 questions for our ideas on identity and on the meaning of trying to
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8 I think it may be a surprise for many of you to see how I dissoc-
9 iate myself from this point of view. I believe that as a paediatrician
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2 that playing is rooted in, or deeply influenced by, the motherbaby
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4 That concept is one which Winnicott would not consider impor-
5 tant in analysis with his adult patientsand probably in his own
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7 regrettable lacunae, in his theory. Such gaps, in my view, were
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9 gap, for instance, is Winnicotts dismissal of the part of sexuality in
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1 statement, Winnicott devotes a rather extensive section to the
2 (negative) relationship between play and masturbation: There is
3 one thing I want to get out of the way (Winnicott, 1988). He argues
4 about the physical excitement of play, yet rejects the links in our
5 mind between playing and masturbatory activity. He believes that
6 if, when a child is playing, the physical excitement of instinctual
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2 whelming, what we have is premature ejaculation, which brings an
3 end to the sexual relationship. Moreover, Winnicott seems to ignore
4 Freuds concept of aim-inhibited drives, a very surprising matter
5 since he develops at length the relationship between playing and
6 friendship just as Freud did; he, for his part, quotes the same exam-
7 ple: friendship as an expression on aim-inhibited drives. It is
8 striking to see how much energy Winnicott spends in dissociating
9 playing from sexuality. Ever since the time of Melanie Klein, around
10 the 1930s, sexuality has been considered by British analysts as a
1 secondary and rather unimportant matter, except in the case of
2 perversions. Winnicott, therefore, recommends on the subject the
3 works of those who are not analysts. Let me point out that
4 Winnicott refuses the hypothesis of a preliminary or primary form
5 of sublimation.
6 Though there may be a great deal to say about thisas can be
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8 demonstratesI shall systematically neglect all arguments related
9 to his historical background and personality. If I disagree with the
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1 going to interpret Winnicotts ideas according to this baby and
2 mother relationship, however eloquent are the details we possess
3 and their possible influence on Winnicott according to his own
4 confessions to his friends.
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7 once said of himself that he was a clown and that he understood
8 how important it was to himself to have play as a remedy for his
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1 Winnicott (for example, those by Alexander Newman and Jan
2 Abram) different aspects related to that concept are described. I do
3 not intend to re-examine the relationship of playing to these
4 aspects, but will rather try to clarify what appear to me as the more
5 fundamental characteristics as I see them.
6 I agree with Winnicott, at least partly, when he writes: It is play
7 that is the universal and that belongs to health. . . . The natural thing
8 is playing and the highly sophisticated twentieth century phenom-
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2 opinion. There is no culture without play; there are no periods of
3 history from which play has been absent. But if it is so, and I believe
4 it is, this universality is compatible with all the varieties of
5 motherbaby relationships, either in the different phases of history
6 or in the different cultures on earth, although play is constantly
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9 belongs to an innate attribute of the mind that takes different
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1 als. Winnicott was too stuck in the motherbaby relationship to
2 interpret its universality in relationship to the characteristics of the
3 mind. I am not even sure that play belongs to health. For example,
4 I wonder how health can be integral to some kinds of playsuch
5 as the Roman games, or playing a kind of football with the heads
6 of the defeated enemies in Latin America, or playing Russian
7 roulette; today, even football matches may become excuses for
8 assassinations. On the other hand, I see a strong participation of the
9 drives, both sexual and destructive. I wonder how Winnicott would
211 have interpreted the shouts of joy, the enthusiasm, the orgasmic
1 quality which accompanies the cry of Goal! I doubt health has
2 anything to do with that. I think the activity of play can sometimes
3 become distorted, corrupted and perverted, in society as well as in
4 individuals: e.g., Panem et circenses.
5 Here I am afraid that on this occasion, as on many others, we
6 meet Winnicotts idealization and his refusal to consider play as
7 part of sickness. I think Winnicott was wrong in mixing up ruth-
8 less love with what was sheer destruction, and also in being so
9 reticent about admitting the death instinct hypothesis. I cannot
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1 logical discoveriesapoptosisdo seem to favour it). But what
2 I am sure of is that it is not enough to incarnate the good-mother to
3 cure a patient, to vanish when she acts out her destructivity, or
4 to accept passively the patients destroying the setting. Sometimes
5 the analyst cheats, lies, acts out violently. In none of these instances
6 is play absent; it is in fact provocative. Here, play requires the part-
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2 rather than want to save him by showing that you have not been
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4 During these last few years we have witnessed many examples
5 of perverted playing, of dirty playing. Such play is not based on an
6 interchange, but on the will to dominate; it is a way of imposing
7 ones will, and the will to submit. It is a kind of play that is impreg-
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2 To come back to the quotation, I also agree that psychoanalysis
3 is a highly sophisticated phenomenon of the twentieth century. Yet,
4 the psychoanalytic situation can be spoilt by different factors: the
5 partners inability to play, or their propensity to get stuck in repeti-
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2 dreams, we also have nightmares, nocturnal terrors, or somnambu-
3 lism that, although being failures of dreams, are varieties of the
4 psychic life of the sleeper just as much as are dreams.
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311 If I have to find a trait to define it, I shall have to turn not to a
1 Winnicottian concept, but to a Bionian one. I would make the
2 hypothesis that it could be one of the applications of Bions alpha
3 function. And just as Bion created the symbol K for Knowledge,
4 he also created K as its complement. I believe that play, apart
5 from its emotional value, is a form of thought (like the dream) or of
6 knowledge that, according to some patients, is a form of not know-
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4 Why turn to this abstraction? Because, to me, the specificity of
5 play is to change reality into something else, something that trans-
6 forms what is unbearable in realitybe it internal or external.
711 While I agree with Winnicott about the localization of play at the
8 limit of internal and external reality, I am afraid that Winnicott
9 again, and for the same reason, neglected to speak of the links that
10 exist between reality and horror. It is difficult to accept that exter-
1 nal reality is only objectively perceived. The distinction, of course,
2 holds when compared to the omnipresence of subjectivity. The least
3 we can say about external reality is that there is too much horror in
4 it: wars, delinquency, natural catastrophes, epidemics, unemploy-
5 ment, terrorism. This is our daily world. I wonder how we could
6 bear all the traumas inflicted by reality without play. And all these
7 themes become favourite topics of play for children.
8 Let us consider further playing and reality. The association
9 was first made by Freud in his paper Creative writers and day-
211 dreaming, where he writes:
1
2 The childs best loved and most intense occupation is with his play
3 or games. Might we not say that every child at play behaves like a
4 creative writer in that he creates a world of his own, or, rather,
rearranges the things of this world in a new way which pleases
5
him. It would be wrong to think he does not take that world seri-
6
ously; on the contrary, he takes his play very seriously and he
7 invests a lot of emotion in it. The opposite of play is not what is seri-
8 ous but what is real. In spite of all the emotion with which he
9 constructs his world of play, the child distinguishes it quite well
30 from reality; and he likes to link his imagined objects and situations
1 to the tangible and visible things of the real world. [Freud, 1908e,
2 pp. 141154]
3
4 This linking is all that differentiates the childs play from fanta-
5 sizing (ibid., pp. 143144). While Winnicott constantly repeats that
6 he is not in disagreement with Freud but adds to his theory, on the
7 topic of play there is not a single reference to Freuds work. He
8 could have paid attention to Freuds even earlier remarks in
911 Psychopathic characters on the stage (1942a), where he observes:
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111 Being present as an interested spectator at a spectacle or play


2 [schau-spiel written in two words to underline the components of
3 play] does for adults what play does for children (ibid., p. 30). Here
4 we have the importance of witness, which will be taken up by
5 Winnicott in a very different way. It is also surprising that we find
6 no mention about the cotton-reel game, which was considered
7 famous by so many writers, from Isaacs to Lacan. Nor do we find
8 anything on the precise remark that Freud made in Inhibitions,
9 symptoms and anxiety (1926d), stating that through play the ego
10 which has experienced a trauma passively repeats its activity in the
1 play. Thus changing from passivity to activity, they attempt to
2 master their experiences physically (ibid., p. 167).
3 I suppose that in this instance Winnicott did not care about Freud
4 because what he had in mind was the Kleinian technique. He criti-
5 cized Melanie Kleins conception of play, which considered the inter-
6 pretation of the play only as an equivalent of fantasy (seen as a direct
711 expression of the instinct) but neglected its study per se. To some
8 extent Winnicott comes closer to Freud, for instance, when he empha-
9 sizes the near withdrawal state of the child playing as being akin
20 to the concentration of older children and adults (Winnicott, 1971).
1 This concentration is also close to a sort of suspension of the
2 relation to reality that can even be compared to a negative halluci-
3 nation. It would be more appropriate to say a suspension of the
4 belief in reality, a neglect of it, though it is not ignored, which looks
511 like a splitting or denial of it. Returning to Winnicotts quotation
6 that psychoanalysis is the highly sophisticated twentieth century
7 phenomenon, its source can be traced back to Winnicotts first
8 psychoanalytic paper, Primitive emotional development, in
9 which he recalls his beginnings in psychoanalysis. Having decided
311 that he had to study psychosis in analysis, he writes:
1
I have had about a dozen psychic adult patients and half of them
2
have rather extensively been analysed. This happened in the war
3
and I might say that I hardly noticed the Blitz, being all the time
4 engaged in analysis of psychotic patients who are notoriously and
5 maddeningly oblivious of bombs, earth-quakes and floods.
6 [Winnicott, 1945]
7
8 So, if the psychotic denies and represses reality, the analyst, in the
911 sophisticated play that he plays with them, has to share some of this
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111 denialnot to the point of behaving like them, but by adopting an


2 attitude which suspends his relationship to reality.
3 This is true of all play, because this attitude is a prerequisite in
4 order to foster that mode of functioning, already described by
5 Freud in childrens play, where the child creates a new world or
6 rearranges his perceptions and combines different elements in
711 conformity with his will, building a new order.
8 Freud himself, in his paper The loss of reality in neurosis and
9 psychosis (1924e), thus compares the delusional world of the
10 psychotic to the world of fantasy:
1
2 It can hardly be doubted that the world of fantasy plays the same
3 part, in psychosis, as in neurosis and that here too it is the store house
4 from which the materials or the pattern for building the new reality
[the delusion] are derived. But whereas the new imaginary external
5
world of psychosis attempts to put itself in the place of external real-
6
ity, that of neurosis on the contrary is apt like the play of children
7 [my italics] to attach itself to a piece of realitya different piece from
8 the one it has to defend itself and to lend that piece a special impor-
9 tance and a secret meaning which we (not always quite appropri-
211 ately) call a symbolic one. Thus we see that both in psychosis
1 and neurosis there comes into consideration the question not only of
2 loss of reality but also of a substitute for reality. [Freud, 1924e, p. 187]
3
4 Two remarks have to be observed here. The first is that, according
5 to Freud, play is not only related to health but can develop in many
6 directions: one is the creative writing of fiction, the other is neuro-
7 sis and, by extension (if we think of psychosis), delusion.
8 The fantasy of the psychotic is not only a substitute of play, as
9 in neurosis, but also pretends to be reality, more appropriately called
30 a new reality. It is no longer a question of play, but of a substitute
1 for the lost reality. When considering borderline cases, it is some-
2 times difficult to trace the frontier between the playing of the
3 neurotic and the replacement of reality of the psychotic. My feeling
4 is that the dimension of playing, even when the patient is akin to
5 psychosis, is never absentbecause the belief in the new reality is
6 never complete and it can be subject to criticism in the oscillation to
7 and from the psychotic pole.
8 It is true that the great majority of the meanings attached to play
911 are positive, but we cannot forget that play is also associated with
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111 cheating, from which it is inseparable: to play into somebodys


2 hands, to be caught in someone elses play, or to be trapped. I think
3 that all these expressions can be seen as perversions of play. This
4 confirms my idea that playing is a category beyond good or bad.
5 The second remark to be observed is Freuds conclusion on the
6 loss of reality in neurosis and psychosis. What appears important
7 to me is the couple: loss of reality, and the substitute for reality. In
8 play, the loss element is minimal and the substitution element maxi-
9 mal. In illness, be it neurosis or psychosis, the element of loss
10 predominates and the element of substitution is subordinate to it.
1 Loss and substitution go together; whenever we think of one we
2 should also think of the other. When play is performed, there is loss
3 behind it. It is not by chance that Winnicotts examples deal mostly
4 with the kind of separations that cannot be overcome, or can be
5 only apparently overcome. When we think of loss, let us remember
6 Freuds phrase: But it is evident that a precondition for the setting
711 up of reality, is that the objects have been lost which once brought
8 real satisfaction (1924e, p. 236). What is the compensation for the
9 price paid for this setting-up?
20 During examination we find in many, many cases that in the
1 childs background, whether in the present or in the past, there is a
2 depressed mother. Here we have an example of a double loss, or even
3 of a reflected one: the loss represented by the mothers depression,
4 and also the effect produced on the child who also loses something
511 although he does not know exactly what. I have treated the subject
6 rather extensively in my essay, The dead mother (1999), but this
7 evening I want to concentrate on the double-sided loss and the
8 reflective effect that the mothers depression has on the child.
9 In Playing and Reality (1971) Winnicott gives several examples
311 and I shall select some of them, remarkable to me, which are very
1 representative. He begins the first chapter, Transitional objects and
2 transitional phenomena, with a section entitled Stringwhich
3 he had already published in Child Psychology and Psychiatry (1961)
4 and also in The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environ-
5 ment (1965). This clinical case is meaningful to him. He wants to
6 show how a child copes with separations and loss, using the case
7 of a seven-year-old boy of normal intelligence. I do not want here
8 to give a detailed account of Winnicotts consultations (the clini-
911 cal depression of the mother, her successive hospitalizations, her
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111 attention being turned away from the boy when his sister was born,
2 etc.), but instead to concentrate on the Squiggle game that the boy
3 accepted very easily without giving an abnormal impression of
4 himself. Winnicott writes: The boys laziness immediately became
5 evident and also nearly everything I did was translated by him into
6 something associated with string (1971). After the interview with
711 the boy, the parents confirmed his obsessive preoccupations with a
8 piece of string, which they had not mentioned before.
9 Winnicott tries to open up the situation by explaining to the
10 mother her boys fear of separation from his mother. She is, of
1 course, sceptical. Six months later, she is convinced that it is true.
2 Considering other details about the lack of contact between the
3 mother and the boy, Winnicott concludes that the string is used as
4 a denial of separation, rather than as a technique of communication
5 becoming a thing in itself, an expression reminiscent of Bion that
6 we do not find anywhere else in Winnicott. In a note added in 1969,
7 Winnicott sadly came to the conclusion that this boy could not be
8 cured of his illness.
9 There were no significant changes from the first time Winnicott
211 saw the boy at seven, and ten years later. The boy could not be kept
1 from running back to his home from wherever he was placed. In
2 adolescence he became addicted to drugs and played with a rope,
3 hanging himself upside-down (perhaps symbolizing the murdering
4 of time). Nobody dared call his toys toys. I see this case as a
5 chronic repetitive compulsionmaybe related to separation anxi-
6 ety marked by its denial, but also characterized in Freudian terms
7 as a predominance of loss and no possibility of substituting for real-
8 ity. Playing is very restricted and its creative power is limited to
9 producing icons of separations.
30 Two other examples are also illustrative of Winnicotts ideas. In
1 the chapter Playing: a theoretical statement, Winnicott describes
2 the case of Edmund, aged two and a half, and Diana, aged five. In
3 both cases the children were not the object of the consultations, but
4 came along with their mothers. Winnicott had to accept them. Each
5 of these consultations turned into double consultations, with
6 Winnicott listening to the mother and still keeping an eye on the
7 children. Edmund very quickly asks, after a few minutes: Where
8 are the toys? That was the only thing he said throughout the hour.
911 While Winnicott was talking with the mother, Edmund started to
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111 play, putting small train parts on the table, joining them up. Soon,
2 though he was only two feet apart from the mother, he came back
3 to her and got on to her lap. After about twenty minutes he began
4 to liven up, getting a fresh supply of toys. The mother explained
5 that her boy needed contact with her breast as well as with her lap.
6 At one point, when he was trying to keep some distance from the
7 mother, he started stammering. As a baby he would refuse every-
8 thing except the breast, even the bottle. His attention was then
9 caught by one end of a piece of string. Sometimes he would make
10 a gesture resembling the plugging in of the end of the string, as
1 though it were an electric flex, to his mothers thigh. To make a long
2 story short, the important thing is Winnicotts awareness that the
3 boys play was illustrative of what the mother was talking about,
4 although it was she who was talking to Winnicott. He writes: As
5 it happened, I was mirroring what was taking place and giving it a
6 quality of communication. This mirroring situation seemed to him
711 to be fundamental.
8 In this case we can observe the boys apparent indifference
9 about what was happening between the mother and Winnicott.
20 Edmund did not seem to be interested or to care. The reality of the
1 situation was not denied, hidden by some sort of screen. But this
2 situation at first escaped the observerwho appeared blind. Only
3 Winnicott managed to understand that the boys play was another
4 dramatized and displaced version of what the mother was talk-
511 ing about. If we consider the couple loss and substitution, we see
6 that substitution completely covers the threatening of loss by
7 disguising it in the childs play. The mirroring situation was not
8 only Winnicotts understanding, but also the childs playing activ-
9 ity mirroring the relationship between the mothers narration and
311 her listener. Play here is the result of an attempt at transformation
1 and manages to cheat any observer other than Winnicott or any
2 other psychoanalyst. We are not here in a situation of rigid repeti-
3 tive compulsion but in a trajectory that goes to and fro between the
4 mother and Edmund. We can see that, far from realizing where he
5 stands, he seems himself to be lost. While wanting to be with his
6 mother, he tries, unsuccessfully, to escape her. As Winnicott says:
7 the boy communicates an ebb of movement in him away from, and
8 back to, dependence (Winnicott, 1971). We can define this play as
911 the impossibility of abandoning reduplication with an attempt to
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111 become distant from the object. On the whole, the mother
2 responded adequately.
3 But the most interesting example is Diana. One cannot forget, of
4 course, that she is five years old and in any case has a more complex
5 psychic organization than Edmund.
6 As in the previous case, Winnicott had to conduct two consulta-
711 tions in parallel: one with the mother, who is there for herself, being
8 in distress, and simultaneously a play relationship with the
9 daughter, Diana. Winnicott accomplishes a threefold task: he has to
10 give full attention to the mother, play with the child, and record the
1 nature of Dianas play so as to write his paper. Diana presents
2 herself at the front door, putting forward a teddy bear. Here, we see
3 the play preceding the consultation: Diana is using the teddy bear
4 as a representative of herself. This is probably why Winnicott,
5 before starting the consultation or even looking at the mother,
6 addresses Diana; first he asks her the name of the teddy bear. Just
7 Teddy, she replies. We shall see the multiple identity of Teddy:
8 he can stand as a representative of Diana, or as her ill brother, or
9 as Dianas imaginary child. After a while, probably feeling over-
211 whelmed and unable to give the mother the attention she needs,
1 Winnicott suddenly puts his ear to the teddy bear (using the tran-
2 sitional object in order to enable the situation to change and move
3 into some other space) and says to Diana: I heard him say some-
4 thing. I think he wants someone to play with. Thus, he does not
5 leave the child alone, but enhances an imaginary relationship. He
6 tells the child about a woolly lamb that she would find at the other
7 end of the room. Acting in this way, Winnicott stimulates her mater-
8 nal identification. Then Diana puts the teddy bear and the lamb
9 (which was considerably bigger than the bear) together; here
30 Winnicott confesses that perhaps his suggestion was in the hope of
1 getting the bear out of his jacketDiana had stuffed it in his breast-
2 pocket, curious to see how far it would go down. Her play there-
3 fore alluded to her brothers birth and Winnicotts response, calling
4 the lamb to join in the play, was perfectly logical, though, I believe,
5 unconscious. Diana decided that teddy and the lamb were her chil-
6 dren. She emphasized the fact that they were not twins: the lamb
7 was to be born first and only then the teddy. After the birth was
8 finished, she put the newly-born baby in a bed she had improvised,
911 placing each of them at separate ends in order to prevent them from
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111 meeting in the middle and fighting under the bedclothes. After a
2 while, she placed them peacefully at the top of the bed. She then
3 fetched a lot of toys and played with them. Winnicotts prcis of this
4 is: The playing was orderly and there were several different
5 themes that developed, each one kept separate from the other.
6 Winnicott joins in the girls play spontaneously and exclaims: Oh!
7 Look! You are putting on the floor around the babies heads the
8 dreams that they are having while they are asleep! (Winnicott,
9 1971).
10 The child, intrigued by the idea, was developing various themes
1 as if dreaming the dream for the babies. This shift of emphasis
2 allows Winnicott to come back to the mother, who cries about her
3 other childs cardiac illness. (Diana says: He has a hole in his
4 heart.) Winnicott comments on the mothers crying about her ill
5 son. The communication being direct and factual, Diana is reas-
6 sured.
711 I shall now pause to make some observations on these examples
8 chosen by Winnicott. Both children show not only a capacity to be
9 alone in the presence of the mother, but also in the presence of a
20 mother talking to a third person whom she wants to seenot about
1 themselves, but because of her own distress. In one case we see how
2 difficult it is for the child to be separated from the mother, but what
3 seems important to me is Winnicotts awareness that the childs
4 play reproduces in action what the mother and himself were talk-
511 ing about, even when that was about the child himself. With
6 Edmund there is an unconscious will to reproduce and transform
7 what is perceived from reality, even in a limited way. Nevertheless,
8 play appears as a development of the relation to reality and a
9 rebuilding of a transposed and created reality. But in Dianas case,
311 the play constantly increases its meaning, extends its connection,
1 and becomes more complex by including a potential dream that is
2 largely the same as the play but in a disguised way.
3 In the second case, i.e. with Diana, play is not only a reaction of
4 something happening in reality but is a creation in itself, involving
5 first a transitional object (the teddy bear) that she has to introduce
6 into Winnicotts pocket as if he were pregnantjust like the mother
7 when she was expecting the ill child. There is a concern of how far
8 the teddy bear can go down (perhaps being aborted or falling
911 through a hole?). A polysemous fantasy develops wherein the two
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111 animals are exposed to fight in the middle of the bed under the
2 clothes. This symbolism is probably a shift to the parents primal
3 scene, then sleeping quietly. But the most amazing thing is
4 Winnicotts interpretation of the toys that Diana puts at the end of
5 the imaginary bed: i.e., that they represent the dreams that the tran-
6 sitional objects have while they are asleep. To me this is an essen-
711 tial step forward, because reflection is no longer limited to
8 reproduce more or less in disguise what is taking place in reality, as
9 with Edmund, but demonstrates to a certain degree how play can
10 represent a dream of which we know nothing, which is created by
1 the transitional objects themselves. It is a movement of inwardness
2 as deep as a dream, apparently incoherent, made of shreds and
3 patches, a product of the rearrangement of both elements of inter-
4 nal and external reality. Play is a manifestation of the mind that I
5 understand as being the result of undoing the pieces belonging to
6 reality, in order to recombine them and create a potential existence.
7 What I am attempting to say is that it is not enough to interpret
8 the content of the play; we have to understand its structure.
9 Perhaps am I not fully satisfied with a definition of play in terms of
211 transitional phenomena, or standing between internal and external
1 reality, symbolizing a potential space of a reunion between the
2 mother and the baby at the place and time where separation took
3 place. What I need to understand is how perceptions and fantasies
4 are the reproductions of an experience both internal and external
5 and, even more, to be able to perceive in play the extension of the
6 mirroring relationship, its dynamics in a system more or less open
7 to new developments, and the reflection inside the play through
8 which we may understand the interconnected fantasies as well as
9 their possibility of being transposed in another unconscious struc-
30 tureas the formation of a dream.
1 In a few words, playing, fantasizing, creating fictions, telling
2 tales, and even imagining the dreams that appear in the play,
3 belong to one and the same world. Its interpretation is bound to the
4 complexity of the inter-connexion and the transformation of
5 communication through meaning accompanied by the changing
6 identity of the addressees. Compared to other structures marked by
7 primary processes such as dreams, fantasies, and so on, I suggest
8 that playing differs from them because it is three-dimensional, not
911 because it has depth but because it looks like reality.
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111 One element not to be forgotten is that even when the child
2 plays alone, there is always someone watching or, as in the situa-
3 tion we described, someone talking to someone else about what is
4 going on. It may be difficult for the analyst to know where he
5 stands in this situation. Instead of thinking that he is systematically
6 in the place of the mother, he may also be in the place of the person
7 to whom the mother is speaking. It is important never to forget the
8 place of the analytic third, and also always to remember that
9 between the play and the person (adultchild), there is always an
10 invisible screen that forbids too direct interpretations. Just as free
1 association is essential to analytic work, play has to be considered
2 as a creation of free association processes.
3 It is not quite clear to me why Winnicott gave the chapter
4 following Playing: a theoretical statementwhich is so accom-
5 plished and gives the feeling that he perfectly understood and had
6 definitely dealt with the subjectthe title of Playing: a creative
711 activity, and the search of the self; it is so different from the preced-
8 ing one.
9 I believe that Winnicott was here tackling the problem of the
20 pre-condition of play. Winnicott says that only in playing is
1 communication possible and the individual able to be creative.
2 Creative experiences are sometimes the only possible way for the
3 individual to be himself. Creativity is not a specialized activity but
4 a feature of life and total living.
511 What is important in this perspective is to react on non-purpo-
6 sive state, a condition close to the supposed unintegrated state of
7 the beginning of life to which one has to come back. The search of
8 the self has to go back to formlessness. Non-purposive being, form-
9 less mind activity, are free from anxiety and defence. These are con-
311 ditions favourable for a search of the self. It is difficult not to think
1 about free association as a first step towards this aim. Winnicott
2 gives an illustration of a case that he has seen in a very long session
3 (the patient needed a session of indefinite length, once a week, after
4 having had treatment five times a week). Tolerance of chaos during
5 the session may lead at the end to a finding of the lost self. There
6 is not a single element of play in the paper. There are, instead, lots
7 of destructive thoughts related to others or about herself, lots of
8 catastrophic fantasies, the feeling of never being oneself, memories
911 of feeling empty. After an hour and a half, the patient feels: Just
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111 drifting like the clouds, and then the negative feelings return with
2 the impression of having spoilt her life and not really being in the
3 session. When finally Winnicott has the impression that the patient
4 is in the session, he gives this interpretation to her: All sorts of
5 things happen and they wither. This is the myriad deaths you have
6 died. But if someone is there, someone who can give you back what
711 happened, then the details dealt with in this way become part of
8 you, and do not die (Winnicott, 1971).
9 Though the interpretation demonstrates Winnicotts creativity
10 more than the patients, he also introduces a very important idea:
1 however bad or negative are the experiences, the presence of some-
2 one just watching, acting as a mirror, gives to the scattered part
3 a unity that is reflected to the patient and becomes part of him. We
4 have some evidence of Winnicotts intuition being right when the
5 patient confesses later in the session that she made use in her room
6 of a lot of mirrors for some person to reflect back. But there is no one.
7 This is exactly what Winnicott does for her; in taking notes, writ-
8 ing interpretations he will never tell, being present, waiting for the
9 time when she will be able to be herself, Winnicott is the mirror
211 who reflects something other than the negative hallucination that
1 the patient has of her own image.
2 But we now come to a general conclusion, as Winnicott beauti-
3 fully formulates to the patient: It was yourself you were searching
4 (1971). The patient responded after a while: Yes, I see one could
5 postulate the existence of a Me from the question as from the
6 searching. This to me sounds unexpectedly very Cartesian. The
7 theoretical statement closes the chapter:
8
9 The searching can come only from desultory formless functioning
or perhaps from rudimentary playing, as if in a neutral zone. It is
30
only here in this unintegrated state of the personality, that which
1
we call creative, can appear. This, if reflected back, but only if
2 reflected back, becomes part of the organised individual personality
3 and eventually this in summation makes the individual to be to be
4 found and eventually enable himself or herself to postulate the exis-
5 tence of the self. [Winnicott, 1971]
6
7 I have some doubt that Winnicott really wanted to be found, as he
8 explained that the true self is hidden, secret and mute; maybe it is
911 in speculation of the formlessness or in elementary play.
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111 There is no play without reflection. Even when the child plays
2 alone, someone in his mind is looking at his play, someone who
3 maybe understands the play that he himself does not understand.
4 From that chapter on we shall see that most of the other chapters
5 will include a reference to reflection. With regard to the distorted
6 reflection to which Winnicott alludes in his famous interpretation to
7 a male patient who had to deny and keep as far as possible from
8 consciousness the non-masculine element of his personality, we
9 note that Winnicott says to him: I am listening to a girl, I know
10 perfectly well that you are a man, but I am listening to a girl and I
1 am talking to a girl. I am telling this girl: You are talking about
2 penis envy (Winnicott, 1971).
3 Winnicott makes it clear in his interpretation, which has been
4 compared to playing, that it was hearing that was like a represen-
5 tative of the mothers look: This madness of mine enabled him to
6 see himself as a girl from my position (ibid.). This is a good example
711 of a distorting mirror.
8 In some other chapters we again encounter the importance of
9 reflection, as in Mirror rle of mother and family in child devel-
20 opment. We see, therefore, that it is not enough to compare
1 psychotherapy with the overlap of two curtains: a third element
2 must come into playand this is their potential mutual reflection.
3 If we now turn towards the theory and the area of illusion
4 between the mother (breast) and the infant, we also imply an
511 element of reflection. Maybe the origin of this reflectivity is to be
6 found in Winnicotts thinking, in an unfinished book. The inter-
7 mediary area does not exist from the start. It is an attempt to reunify
8 what has been separated at the place and time of separation. Of this
9 occasion, Winnicott says something so bold that he is afraid of
311 spelling it out: The intermediary stage is referred to as a layer of
1 the mind constituted of an aspect of the mother and an aspect of the
2 baby, both being mixed in one (Winnicott, 1971).
3 This for me involves some kind of inner reflection between the
4 two parts that the infant will try to find again in the intermediary
5 area. I suspect this to be related to the topic of transference. In the
6 cases quoted of Edmund and Diana, we have seen how reflection
7 is imprisoned in the first one, and open in the second. This hypoth-
8 esis also applies to the delocalization of cultural experience. The
911 value of Winnicotts thesis is the interrelation between the inter-
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111 mediate area of transitional phenomena, its location between inter-


2 nal and external reality, and its connection with symbolization.
3 When we speak of cultural experience, play comes to the fore in
4 certain privileged domains. To play, is to act. It is difficult for me
5 not to conclude by speaking about theatre, because there is in the
6 theatre a special occurrence that is worth thinking about. We all
711 know the existence in some plays of play within the play: Hamlet
8 and The Tempest easily come to mind, but to me the most astonish-
9 ing example is A Midsummer Nights Dream. Let us understand that
10 reflection is not enough; what we need in order to understand the
1 mind is the reflection of reflectionas in the playing within
2 A Midsummer Nights Dream. When we can arrive at a point of
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4 Freud, S. (1924e). The loss of reality in neurosis and psychosis. S.E.,
5 XIX: London: Hogarth.
6 Freud, S. (1926d). S.E., XX: 167. London: Hogarth.
7 Freud, S. (1942a)[190506]. S.E., VII: 30. London: Hogarth.
8 Green, A. (1999). The Dead Mother: The Work of Andr Green. London:
911 Routledge.
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2 Journal of Psycho-Analysis, 26.
3 Winnicott, D. W. (1971), Playing and Reality. London: Tavistock.
4 Winnicott, D. W. (1988). Human Nature, C. Bollas, M. Davis, &
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As always, Andr has been provocative. There is a tendency to
3 canonize many authorsbut certainly that is not what Andr ever
4 does; he always urges us primarily to read, and then to read again.
5 He teaches us that just because something has not been looked
6 at, does not mean that it is not worth looking at. That, basically, is
7 the message that I have received from him tonight: it is no use
8 repeating nice little packages and saying we need take just these,
9 and then off we go. Andr has challenged all of us here tonight;
30 some of us did not like it, that is quite obvious, but frankly I for one
1 did not expect anything else! But this is success. This is tonights
2 value.
3 When Andr speaks to people, he invariably asks if they have
4 actually read the paper, idea, or book that was being considered.
5 Too many of us tend to read between the linesand not the lines
6 themselves. It happens far, far too often.
7 I am sure that even those of you who are not perhaps as pleased
8 as you expected to be with the lecture, who have not been
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5 Masud Khan (2001), which created a great deal of concern
6 among the analysts of the British Psychoanalytical Society, but
7 not only among them. It generated much discussion and brought
8 more plainly into the open the question of boundary violations. The
9 Societys Ethics Committee, represented by A.-M. Sandler, replied
30 officially to Godley, addressing many of his complaints (2004).
1 Exceptionally, although not uniquely, prior to this particular inci-
2 dent, other papers had dealt with the Masud Khan casemostly by
3 Linda Hopkins, who is currently working on a biography of him.
4 In one of her papers, published before Godleys paper appeared,
5 she deals specifically with Winnicotts analysis of Masud Khan
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7 This Addendum proposes to show how Winnicotts unconscious
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111 debatable ideas on technique, which have their own blind spots. All
2 of this, combined, offered little hopeif there was any to begin
3 withof saving Masud Khan. Furthermore, it seeks to illustrate not
4 only how play can transgress the limits of the setting but how it can
5 also be turned into foul play (as in Hamlet). Linda Hopkins has
6 dealt in her paper with Masud Khans application of play tech-
7 niques to analytic consultation and the treatment of adults (Hop-
8 kins, 2000); here, however, we venture beyond what she reports.
9 Before continuing my discussion, I would inform the reader that
10 I had a long acquaintance with Masud Khan and that it ended on
1 unfriendly terms. That has no connection with the present matter. I
2 also personally met Wynne Godley on three occasions: the first time
3 was long before the publication of his article, and at the time I was
4 not even aware that he had been in analysis; the subsequent
5 encounters occurred after I had read it. I must stress that nothing in
6 the piece that follows has been drawn from my relations with either
711 Masud Khan or Wynne Godley.
8 My principal sources are Godleys article (2001), Rodmans biog-
9 raphy on Winnicott (2003) and, to a lesser extent, Linda Hopkins
20 papers before 2001. These have been used to provide an analytic
1 aprs coup interpretation of the events in order to try to explain what
2 may have happened, over and beyond Godleys description.
3 Finally, I would add that Wynne Godley, in my strongest opinion,
4 is not the kind of patient to leave any doubt about his complaints.
511 In the beginning of his paper Wynne Godley describes concisely
6 what he terms his state of dissociation. His self-observation, in
7 few words, is convincing. He describes his false self as being split
8 from the body. He tells of living in a waking dream, of his para-
9 doxical insensitivity, of his sense of estrangement when faced with
311 unpredicted situations, of his panic attacks, delusional beliefs, etc.
1 All of this fits in remarkably with Winnicotts clinical descrip-
2 tions, which do not belong to the range of neurotic disorders. We
3 can therefore imagine that Winnicott was quite familiar with this
4 type of pathology when he referred the case to Masud Khan. It has
5 been suggested, though this is open to question, that Anna Freud
6 was asked for her approvalGodley having married Kathleen
7 Garman Epstein, Lucian Freuds first wife.
8 I shall not describe the accumulation of traumas in Godleys
911 case history as the reader may refer to them direct elsewhere. What
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111 I wish to focus upon is a maternal relationship on the one hand,


2 involving a careless, neglectful, over-seductive mother (she used to
3 walk about naked in front of the child, creating an erotic intimacy
4 with him, and confess to him her sexual pleasure with men) and on
5 the other, a paternal relationship involving an impotent (sup-
6 posedly), humiliating, cruel, shallow, invalid, and severely alco-
711 holic father. This family situation caused to develop in the child not
8 only a huge narcissistic retreat and organization but also a feminine
9 identification mixed with denial of the mothers carelessness.
10 In spite of his mothers mismanagement the boy, fascinated as
1 he was by her seductive manoeuvres, did not complain about
2 her. Towards the father, however, one suspects a strong hatred
3 due to his ineffectiveness. I would suggest that the child blamed him
4 for his inability to offer any grounds for a masculine identification.
5 It is generally known how Winnicott underestimated the impor-
6 tance of the father and of sexuality, and denied their fundamental
7 role in the shaping of the personality. For instance, no oneneither
8 Winnicott nor Khanseemed to pay any attention to the fact that at
9 seventeen Godley confessed to ignoring the existence of the vagina,
211 and to not knowing that men ejaculate. These are far from ordinary
1 sexual symptoms: a kind of split in the body amounting to an ampu-
2 tation of sexuality. It would be unreasonable to think that these
3 symptoms could be cured automatically after caring about the self,
4 whether you call it artificial or false. These facts may be related to
5 Godleys confession of the skill he acquired during childhood that
6 he described as a spectacular ability to not see, identify or shrewdly
7 evaluate people and situations. I believe that this, which I connect
8 with negative hallucination, always means that one looks for similar
9 character traits towards the significant people of ones environment.
30 This is what happened in Godleys so-called analysis between
1 analyst and consultant analyst.
2 With such a disturbed background one would expect many
3 occurrences of symptoms along with different sorts of fixations.
4 Wynne Godley, despite having many reasons to be angry with his
5 mother, apparently did not hate her. He seems also to have liked
6 his stepmother (who eventually committed suicide). Indeed, it
7 is not stated anywhere that he had difficult relationships with
8 other women. He seemed to have realized at some time during the
911 analysis, and as a kind of revelation: My father hated me. There is
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111 no evidence that his father brutalized or ill-treated him. One might,
2 of course, relate that hatred to the projection of the son experiencing
3 excessively erotic, too-close intimacy with his mother, whom he vis-
4 ited at her home (his parents having been separated from his birth).
5 I am not saying that one should understand this as a manifestation
6 of an Oedipus complex, for that was not structured at the time.
7 In any event, neither Winnicott nor Khan seem to have paid
8 attention to that central fact: the hatred of the father. It is my
9 assumption that Godley came to realize that his fathers inconsis-
10 tent behaviour, with its heavy alcoholism, was an unconscious way
1 of attacking the father image. It was, furthermore, to induce con-
2 tempt; above all, it was to remove any possibility of a positive iden-
3 tification in manhood. A sort of hallucinatory vision involving
4 his father had accompanied this: Unless he justifies himself I
5 must save him, thus witnessing a role-reversal in the parentchild
6 relationship, a splitting of the hate, a reparation process and, as it
711 were, a secret oath: I must save him (meaning, in truth, I must
8 sacrifice myself).
9 Godley seems to have been quite aware of this when he chose
20 the title for his paper. There was, however, no reference as to how
1 it had been interpreted. What I am implying is that, consciously or
2 unconsciously, Khan did everything that was possible to confirm
3 Godleys secret promise by repeating the fathers behaviour (being
4 also an awful drunkard), by multiplying boundary violations, by
511 trying to impress his patient with his important relations, by inter-
6 fering with his marital relationship, by telling him about his own
7 marriage with a famous dancer, by being scornful and projective,
8 by keeping him at a distance, by giving savage interpretations
9 about the supposed (?) wish of the patient to be cuddled by him,
311 etc., etc.,but also by repeating the behaviour of the promiscuous
1 mother. Because Godley remained unimpressed, Khan felt he had
2 to double the dose: associating the patient and his wife with his
3 own social life. During a party, he is said to have declared to an
4 elegant woman attending: He and I the same, Aristocrats. This is
5 a key phrase. Khan was playing sameness although he always felt
6 the British regarded him as an inferior, a native. In fact, there could
7 be no equality in the relationship since systematically Khan was
8 obsessed with dominating his patient, humiliating him, and contin-
911 uously boasting about his own exploits.
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111 Khan had made a serious mistake in underlining the aristocratic


2 background of patient and analyst. As for Godley, the son of a Lord
3 who thought himself so noble that nobody would notice he had
4 been drinking, it was easy to see that the condition was a painful
5 one. The presence of the father was that of a shadow, the son seeing
6 him as an invalid and very different from ordinary fathers. Khan
711 never lost an opportunity to draw attention to his own powerful
8 father, who had made him his sole heir even though he had seven
9 other children. On the other hand, he rarely mentioned his fathers
10 marriage to a woman sometimes referred to as a courtesan but who
1 may have been a dancer; Khans mother had been a drug addict
2 and had given birth to an illegitimate child just before Khan. The
3 comparison with Godleys family situation is striking: an impotent
4 father married to a woman who proclaimed her right to promiscu-
5 ity. One might imagine that not only did Khan idealize his father
6 which he deniedbut also, as suggested by his violence (like that
7 of Godleys father), that the father image was less prestigious and
8 more terrorized than the one presented by the son. Both Godleys
9 father and Khan made very expensive gifts to Godleyas if asking
211 the son for forgiveness.
1 Now what about Winnicott in all this? Winnicotts own father,
2 although mayor of Plymouth and respected in the city, was always
3 considered a member of the lower middle class. Winnicott could not
4 identify in the least with the son of a worthy burgher. (Here perhaps
5 we may remind ourselves that Winnicott, though divorced from his
6 first wife and involved in a longstanding relationship, nevertheless
7 had to await his fathers death before remarrying.) It seems that
8 Khans ostentatiously provocative behaviour (involving the jet-set
9 society) was a kind of Don Juanistic accumulation of sinful acts to pro-
30 voke the wrath of the Lord (his own). Winnicott, however, instead of
1 interpreting Khans wish to be punished by him, kept silentQui ne
2 dit mot consent; he even indulged in telephone calls during Godleys
3 sessions in which erotic jokes were exchanged that the patient could
4 perfectly well overhear. Winnicott would not at any cost adopt a
5 prohibitive attitude towards Khan until certain limits were exceeded.
6 What we do know is that Khan was infuriated by Winnicotts passiv-
7 ity; Winnicott concentrated all his hopes on the virtue of holding.
8 I believe that Khan tried to seduce Winnicott by his boundary
911 violations (Rodman, 2003), just as he had seduced his own father.
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111 But Winnicotts naturetoo nice, as he qualified himself


2 certainly rendered him incapable of being an authoritarian figure.
3 Nothing is more revealing than Khans own words at Winnicotts
4 memorial meeting: Some of usand I am one of thosethink he
5 let the side down by his special stance of humility, which is larger
6 than arrogance and authority.
7 So. Winnicott sought to resist Khans provocation. Did
8 Winnicott realize that his obstinacy had inflicted a narcissistic blow
9 on Khan, who felt humiliated by the modesty of his analyst, a bril-
10 liant mind who could have become the King of Analysts to the
1 Prince that he pretended to be? Winnicott also humiliated Khan by
2 limiting his power of seduction. Performing editorial work after his
3 analysis on Sunday mornings, Khan even boasted of having edited
4 much of Winnicotts output in the last twenty years of his life
5 (Rodman, 2003). Joyce Coles, Winnicotts secretary, expressed
6 doubts about this. Yet he was never invited to lunch and Winni-
711 cotts second wife, Clare, was fiercely opposed to giving him access
8 to the privacy of the Winnicotts home. After Winnicotts death she
9 also declined Khans request to become her husbands literary
20 executor. She gave him nothing. This further increased Khans
1 hostility to women and his inability to get the better of them (quite
2 unlike his boasts about men), coupled with the disappointing real-
3 ization that Winnicott preferred his wife to him. Not being made
4 Winnicotts literary heir was a traumatic blow. Khan tried to take
511 revenge on Godley by endeavouring to break up his marriage; he
6 introduced him to another woman and suggested that she, who
7 already had a child by another man (just like Khans own mother),
8 would be a more suitable partner for him. Khan also secretly
9 invited Godleys wife to an interview with him. Ironically, at one
311 time, Khans wife was in such a bad way that Winnicott asked Khan
1 to yield up his sessions to her!
2 It is plausible to claim that Khan made every effort to ruin
3 Godleys marriage by suggesting another partner whom he could
4 totally control. The alternative partner was one of his analysands.
5 In fact, Khan wanted to succeed where he had failed with Winni-
6 cottfor he hated Winnicotts wifeby breaking the husband
7 wife relationship. Time and again Winnicotts wife showed great
8 pride in her success of making her husband potent, thus infuriating
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111 I presume that when Khan abruptly decided to interrupt his


2 fifteen years of analysis, it was because he had been discussing with
3 Winnicott the above-mentioned literary execution with the aim of
4 obtaining from Winnicott some form of official approval. He failed
5 to do so because of Clares strong opposition.
6 We cannot charge Winnicott with being mistaken and seduced
711 by Khan, nor of his having taken pleasure in Khans arrogant
8 behaviour, which Winnicott himself could not afford. I would say
9 that Winnicotts focus on primary emotional development, disbelief
10 in sexuality, and his very late discovery of the role of the father,
1 together led him to give up on any analysis of Masud Khans homo-
2 sexuality and masochism. Winnicott would not believe that these
3 could be responsible for his pathology, just as he did not believe in
4 interpretations. I would like to add that the choice is not between
5 not interpreting and interpreting in the Kleinian way. In any event,
6 to believe that a holding relationship has the capacity to over-
7 come these psychopathic behaviours is more than optimistic; but,
8 by all accounts, that belief maintained a mutually seductive rela-
9 tionshipa major error.
211 Was Masud Khan analysable? I guess many analysts today
1 would say that he was not. I do not blame Winnicott for his
2 mistakes, but I do regret his being blind to that part of psychoana-
3 lytic theory that was too close to his own pathology (being too nice,
4 or being devilish). The result is not only our concern at boundary
5 violationsthough this would deserve another paperbut also on
6 the sexualization of post-transference relationships.
7 What is tragic in the intertwined histories and misfortunes of
8 Godley, Khan, and Winnicott is that psychoanalysis has been the
9 occasion of a sinister farce, of fateful repetitions, where compul-
30 sions belonging to one individuals history are transferred on to
1 another in the wrong way, from analyst to patient when it should
2 be the reversethereby alienating the individual from his own
3 unconscious, without any real analysis.
4 Aside from all the mismanagements within the case, one thing
5 strikes me in particular: it seems as if Godleys traumatic back-
6 ground induced a narcissistic structure that Khan, despite his acute-
7 ness, did not know how to handle. Wounded by his own
8 therapeutic failure, Khan had the mad idea of trying to cure
911 Godleys artificial self, i.e., pseudo narcissistic, by projecting his
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111 own princely narcissism on to Godley in the hope that it would


2 change his into a more committed one. He did not succeed in his
3 methodfounded on shared aristocracy. Instead, Khan became
4 more and more furious, grew ever more dangerously psychopathic.
5 Above all, he felt his grandiose self was wounded. Having trans-
6 gressed all boundaries, Winnicott could no longer remain a good
7 enough mother who cures everything, and he paid heavily for his
8 mistake. He never showed his patients that he wished to embody
9 the paternal law. Winnicotts remark about the case, having cut
10 short the relationship between Godley and Khan, is interesting; he
1 refers, as if in disgust, to: all that social stuff.
2 Homosexuality is not only a sexual perversion; it may also be
3 found in paranoia. It is a disguised way of castrating the father,
4 stealing and destroying the fathers penis because of envy. It is a
5 subtle, indirect way of dominating the envied father figure who is
6 also debased by the sons behaviour. Moreover, it is a way to take
711 destructive revenge on the woman to whom the son is finally
8 preferred: through the cheating, the lying (and even the stealing).
9 Winnicott, however, did not take into consideration this aspect of
20 Freudian theory.
1 In Shakespeare, Prince Hal, after his fathers death, becomes the
2 worthy and virtuous King Henry V. Prince Khan could never
3 achieve this transformation because he never had access to the
4 crown, the one crown he really envied and which is only obtained
511 through writing. Masud Khans papers were well received when
6 they first appeared. Winnicott himself praised them. He even
7 backed Khan when he applied to the British Society, ignoring the
8 normal rule of neutrality. Moreover, Winnicotts support led him to
9 believe that his seduction game had worked and that he would
311 once more be made the unique heir! But it was doomed to failure.
1 Today, few, if any, refer to Khans work, whereas Winnicotts contin-
2 ues to be quoted, analysed and discussed. One might say, in spite
3 of the sound and fury, oblivion has had the better of Masud
4 Khanin all but the scandal.
5 I have tried to show the existence of a perversion of play in
6 Masud Khans treatment of Wynne Godley. But it was not only
7 present in the Godley case. Indeed, in Masud Khans papers he
8 reveals how he engaged in games of backgammon with some of his
911 patients, thereby misusing them also. He tells about another patient
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111 who had arrived at his session accompanied by his dog that fright-
2 ened Khan. In the next session he hid behind the door of his
3 consulting-room and waited until the unwary patient entered,
4 before jumping on him and making barking noises at him like a
5 wild dog. He explained the lesson to his patient: This is to show
6 you how one can feel when you come into the consulting-room
711 with your hound. In Wynne Godleys case, however, the complic-
8 ity of others helped subtly to pervert the whole thing into a social
9 entertainment. Svetlana Beriosova, Khans wife, was treated at the
10 same time as her husband by Winnicott and was also conferred
1 with during some of his regular sessions. Not surprisingly, she
2 developed a deep scepticism about psychoanalysis.
3 How can we explain Winnicotts refusal, in the counter-trans-
4 ference process, to become a re-enactment of the paternal figure?
5 Winnicotts own father played a significant role when he repaired a
6 doll belonging to Winnicotts sister that Winnicott had badly
7 damaged. Perhaps his father should be thanked for this act, but on
8 the whole he remained distant towards his only son. He would
9 refer all his sons existential questions to the Bible, saying that
211 he would find the answers he looked for there. But in so doing, he
1 refused to assume a fundamental paternal responsibility: that of
2 being a model of masculine identification for his son. Most of the
3 time Winnicott was left in the company of his mother and sisters.
4 On reading the descriptions of Winnicotts parents in Rodmans
5 biography I cannot help believing that his motherallowing for the
6 possible limitations of a woman of her generation and character
7 was less involved than his father in the genesis of the false self in
8 Winnicotts personal experience. His father, it appears to me, was
9 more evocative of a false self: more concerned and preoccupied
30 with his own social position than with his sons difficulty in devel-
1 oping into a man. One example is his decision to send Winnicott off
2 to boarding-school for having pronounced rude words. Although
3 he was rather shallow, his son seemed to have feared him.
4 Ultimately, Masud Kahns provocations were to prove fruitless,
5 since no father figure emerged. Certainly, Winnicott admired
6 Khans skills and it is probable that his antisocial behaviour secretly
7 attracted him. However, it was a long time before Winnicott discov-
8 ered the importance of the father in accomplishing the process of
911 separation between mother and child. Indeed, this understanding
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111 was to come at the end of his life: too late to save Masud Kahn.
2 Winnicott had his first heart attack the same day his father died and
3 his heart succumbed totally a few years later. He died enlightened
4 but without ever having felt what it was to be a father. As for Khan,
5 he felt orphaned by Winnicotts death: abandoned and left alone to
6 struggle with his own self-destructive impulses. Nor could he
7 expect help from anyone any more, having disappointed even the
8 best of his friends. Anna Freud, to whom he went subsequently,
9 was incapable of embodying the paternal figureunlike potentially
10 her fatherthat he so craved. In one of his rages Khan said to
1 Godley: You are a very tiresome and disappointing man. Did he
2 likewise wish to be scourged by an angry word from Winnicott?
3 Who can say? For play toolike all human endeavourhas its
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20 Hopkins, L. (1998). D. W. Winnicotts analysis of Masud Khan.
1 Contemporary Psychoanalysis, 34(1).
2 Hopkins, L. (2000). Masud Khans application of Winnicotts play
3 techniques to analytic consultation and treatment of adults. Con-
4 temporary Psychoanalysis, 56(4).
511 Rodman, F. R. (2003). Winnicott: Life and Work. Perseus Publishing
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7 Sandler, A.-M. (2004). Institutional responses to boundary violations:
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