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211 Andr Green is a training analyst of the Paris Psychoanalytic
1 Society and an Honorary Member of the British Psychoanalytical
2 Society. He is a Patron of the Squiggle Foundation. He is the author
3 of various books published in the field of psychoanalysis, among
4 others Chains of Eros, On Private Madness, Work of the Negative, and
5 Time in Psychoanalysis.
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7 Brett Kahr is Senior Clinical Research Fellow in Psychotherapy and
8 Mental Health at the Centre for Child Mental Health in London,
9 and the Winnicott Clinic Senior Research Fellow in Psychotherapy
30 at the Winnicott Clinic of Psychotherapy. He is also Visiting Clini-
1 cian at the Tavistock Centre for Couple Relationships, part of the
2 Tavistock Institute of Medical Psychology. He has written or edited
3 several books on Winnicott, notably D. W. Winnicott: A Biographical
4 Portrait, which received the Gradiva Prize for Biography in 1997,
5 as well as Forensic Psychotherapy and Psychopathology: Winnicottian
6 Perspectives, and The Legacy of Winnicott: Essays on Infant and Child
7 Mental Health, all published by Karnac Books. He is also a Patron of
8 the Squiggle Foundation, and an Adviser to the Winnicott Clinic
911 of Psychotherapy. Most recently, he has become the Resident
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4 Eric Koops, LVO, is the Chairman of the Trustees of the Winnicott
5 Clinic of Psychoanalysis, the registered charity responsible for the
6 annual Donald Winnicott Memorial Lecture.
7 The Clinic was founded in 1969 to promote professional train-
8 ing in the principles of psychotherapy, to conduct research, and to
9 assist in the provision of individual psychotherapy. During the
10 1990s, to meet changing circumstances, assistance was extended to
1 patients in group therapy, training grants were awarded, and sym-
2 posia arranged to encourage organizations to reduce workplace
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4 Since 2000, the main focus of Clinic activities has been the wider
5 dissemination of the work and ideas of Dr Donald W. Winnicott
6 (18961971), the distinguished English paediatrician, child psychia-
711 trist, and psychoanalyst, who made an outstanding contribution to
8 the understanding of the causes of mental illness, particularly in
9 infants and children. To this end, the Clinic established the Winni-
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1 Counselling, and the annual Donald Winnicott Memorial Lecture,
2 designed for a wide audience of professionals and others involved
3 with children. Lectures focus upon specific topics arising from
4 Winnicotts life and ideas, in terms of relevance for twenty-first cen-
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211 t is my great pleasure to welcome you to this, the third Donald
1 Winnicott Memorial Lecture. We are very pleased to see so
2 many, especially many who were here last year, and some who
3 were here two years ago. To us, this third Lecture is really some-
4 thing of a milestone. We have a partnership with Karnac Books, by
5 whom both previous Lectures have been publishedas we intend
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7 We are a small charity, but we think that this dissemination is a
8 critical educational factor for us and for those around. We also
9 recognize that an annual lecture of this sort provides a meeting-
30 point for people. Some of you may not have seen each other for
1 months, or even a year, and we would welcome any feedback that
2 you might like to give usperhaps, for example, whether or not we
3 as a Clinic might do a little more to foster meetings of this nature,
4 acting as a catalyst for those who are often really quite lonely out
5 there in the field.
6 Having welcomed you, my next tasks are very simple: to ask
7 Brett Kahr to introduce our speaker, and to assure you that we are
8 very conscious that many of you will need to get away at the time
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211 ood evening, ladies and gentlemen. No doubt many of you
1 here tonight, if not all of you, will be familiar with the
2 wonderful bronze statue of Sigmund Freud, created by the
3 sculptor Oscar Nemon, that sat for many years beside the library in
4 Swiss Cottage in North London. In more recent years, the statue has
5 been relocated, and it now resides in a little garden nook in front of
6 the Tavistock Clinic, not far from the Freud Museum. Although
7 colleagues will know this statue quite well, it may not be appreci-
8 ated that Donald Winnicott, the man to whom we pay tribute this
9 evening, played a leading role in having Nemons statue of Freud
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1 only a few months before Winnicotts own death from cardiac
2 disease on 25 January 1971. Winnicott expended a great deal of
3 energy during his final months of illness to ensure that sufficient
4 funds would be raised so that his great hero, Sigmund Freud, could
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211 n writing Donald Winnicotts commemoration I find that
1 I strongly identify with him. Throughout his life Winnicott
2 struggled against compliance, conformism, and submission. It
3 is scarcely surprising there has not been any Winnicottian school
4 and that no one is called his disciple, even those closest to him. As
5 I feel a certain continuity exists between Winnicott and myself, I
6 shall not provide a submissive account of his ideas, even though I
7 do think he was the most creative mind in psychoanalysis, after
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9 When Winnicott gave his first lecture to the British Psycho-
30 analytical Society, on 28 November 1945, on the subject of Primi-
1 tive emotional development, he said it was like the introduction to
2 a book. He expounded his original method: ideas were not formed
3 from other theories. He confessed that in building his own theory,
4 he gathered elements from various sources and related them to his
5 clinical experience, but was prepared to examine in due course the
6 few things he stole here and there from others. However, my
7 concern here is not what Winnicott is said to have stolen from
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111 between play and foreplay where, too, if the excitement is over-
2 whelming, what we have is premature ejaculation, which brings an
3 end to the sexual relationship. Moreover, Winnicott seems to ignore
4 Freuds concept of aim-inhibited drives, a very surprising matter
5 since he develops at length the relationship between playing and
6 friendship just as Freud did; he, for his part, quotes the same exam-
7 ple: friendship as an expression on aim-inhibited drives. It is
8 striking to see how much energy Winnicott spends in dissociating
9 playing from sexuality. Ever since the time of Melanie Klein, around
10 the 1930s, sexuality has been considered by British analysts as a
1 secondary and rather unimportant matter, except in the case of
2 perversions. Winnicott, therefore, recommends on the subject the
3 works of those who are not analysts. Let me point out that
4 Winnicott refuses the hypothesis of a preliminary or primary form
5 of sublimation.
6 Though there may be a great deal to say about thisas can be
711 inferred from biographies of Winnicott, as Rodman so excellently
8 demonstratesI shall systematically neglect all arguments related
9 to his historical background and personality. If I disagree with the
20 explanation grounded in the motherbaby relationship, I am not
1 going to interpret Winnicotts ideas according to this baby and
2 mother relationship, however eloquent are the details we possess
3 and their possible influence on Winnicott according to his own
4 confessions to his friends.
511 My feeling about the importance of play in Winnicott is related
6 to the fact that Winnicott himself was of a very playful nature. He
7 once said of himself that he was a clown and that he understood
8 how important it was to himself to have play as a remedy for his
9 helplessness towards reality.
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1 Winnicott (for example, those by Alexander Newman and Jan
2 Abram) different aspects related to that concept are described. I do
3 not intend to re-examine the relationship of playing to these
4 aspects, but will rather try to clarify what appear to me as the more
5 fundamental characteristics as I see them.
6 I agree with Winnicott, at least partly, when he writes: It is play
7 that is the universal and that belongs to health. . . . The natural thing
8 is playing and the highly sophisticated twentieth century phenom-
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111 The first words of the quotation are emphasized. I totally share this
2 opinion. There is no culture without play; there are no periods of
3 history from which play has been absent. But if it is so, and I believe
4 it is, this universality is compatible with all the varieties of
5 motherbaby relationships, either in the different phases of history
6 or in the different cultures on earth, although play is constantly
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8 My conclusion, therefore, is that play, this universal activity,
9 belongs to an innate attribute of the mind that takes different
10 shapes, not only in various groups, but also for different individu-
1 als. Winnicott was too stuck in the motherbaby relationship to
2 interpret its universality in relationship to the characteristics of the
3 mind. I am not even sure that play belongs to health. For example,
4 I wonder how health can be integral to some kinds of playsuch
5 as the Roman games, or playing a kind of football with the heads
6 of the defeated enemies in Latin America, or playing Russian
7 roulette; today, even football matches may become excuses for
8 assassinations. On the other hand, I see a strong participation of the
9 drives, both sexual and destructive. I wonder how Winnicott would
211 have interpreted the shouts of joy, the enthusiasm, the orgasmic
1 quality which accompanies the cry of Goal! I doubt health has
2 anything to do with that. I think the activity of play can sometimes
3 become distorted, corrupted and perverted, in society as well as in
4 individuals: e.g., Panem et circenses.
5 Here I am afraid that on this occasion, as on many others, we
6 meet Winnicotts idealization and his refusal to consider play as
7 part of sickness. I think Winnicott was wrong in mixing up ruth-
8 less love with what was sheer destruction, and also in being so
9 reticent about admitting the death instinct hypothesis. I cannot
30 prove the existence of a death instinct (though some recent bio-
1 logical discoveriesapoptosisdo seem to favour it). But what
2 I am sure of is that it is not enough to incarnate the good-mother to
3 cure a patient, to vanish when she acts out her destructivity, or
4 to accept passively the patients destroying the setting. Sometimes
5 the analyst cheats, lies, acts out violently. In none of these instances
6 is play absent; it is in fact provocative. Here, play requires the part-
7 ners submission and omnipotence based on the interplay of
8 colluding narcissisms, on the real desire to harm, debase, and des-
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111 Let me say that I think it is better to know what enemy you fight,
2 rather than want to save him by showing that you have not been
3 destroyed, or that the good-mother is still present.
4 During these last few years we have witnessed many examples
5 of perverted playing, of dirty playing. Such play is not based on an
6 interchange, but on the will to dominate; it is a way of imposing
7 ones will, and the will to submit. It is a kind of play that is impreg-
8 nated with destructiveness. I think Winnicott could not accept that
9 destructiveness could also be transformed into a sort of play that
10 brought not only a kind of enjoyment, but was also a way of feed-
1 ing ones omnipotence.
2 To come back to the quotation, I also agree that psychoanalysis
3 is a highly sophisticated phenomenon of the twentieth century. Yet,
4 the psychoanalytic situation can be spoilt by different factors: the
5 partners inability to play, or their propensity to get stuck in repeti-
6 tive compulsions, or, as we have seen recently, being used by the
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9 All these occurrences are also varieties of playing. Therefore ,we
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1 occurrences I have mentioned as non-playing. Just as we have
2 dreams, we also have nightmares, nocturnal terrors, or somnambu-
3 lism that, although being failures of dreams, are varieties of the
4 psychic life of the sleeper just as much as are dreams.
511 In wanting to put play on the side of health, Winnicott also
6 wanted to relate it to a satisfactory motherinfant relationship
7 based on trust and developing into group relationships. According
8 to my ideas, playing belongs to group as well as psychic phenom-
9 enaincluding dreaming, fantasizing, forging fictions, and myths.
311 If I have to find a trait to define it, I shall have to turn not to a
1 Winnicottian concept, but to a Bionian one. I would make the
2 hypothesis that it could be one of the applications of Bions alpha
3 function. And just as Bion created the symbol K for Knowledge,
4 he also created K as its complement. I believe that play, apart
5 from its emotional value, is a form of thought (like the dream) or of
6 knowledge that, according to some patients, is a form of not know-
7 ing. In the same way, just as treacherous, cruel, and destructive
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111 attention being turned away from the boy when his sister was born,
2 etc.), but instead to concentrate on the Squiggle game that the boy
3 accepted very easily without giving an abnormal impression of
4 himself. Winnicott writes: The boys laziness immediately became
5 evident and also nearly everything I did was translated by him into
6 something associated with string (1971). After the interview with
711 the boy, the parents confirmed his obsessive preoccupations with a
8 piece of string, which they had not mentioned before.
9 Winnicott tries to open up the situation by explaining to the
10 mother her boys fear of separation from his mother. She is, of
1 course, sceptical. Six months later, she is convinced that it is true.
2 Considering other details about the lack of contact between the
3 mother and the boy, Winnicott concludes that the string is used as
4 a denial of separation, rather than as a technique of communication
5 becoming a thing in itself, an expression reminiscent of Bion that
6 we do not find anywhere else in Winnicott. In a note added in 1969,
7 Winnicott sadly came to the conclusion that this boy could not be
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9 There were no significant changes from the first time Winnicott
211 saw the boy at seven, and ten years later. The boy could not be kept
1 from running back to his home from wherever he was placed. In
2 adolescence he became addicted to drugs and played with a rope,
3 hanging himself upside-down (perhaps symbolizing the murdering
4 of time). Nobody dared call his toys toys. I see this case as a
5 chronic repetitive compulsionmaybe related to separation anxi-
6 ety marked by its denial, but also characterized in Freudian terms
7 as a predominance of loss and no possibility of substituting for real-
8 ity. Playing is very restricted and its creative power is limited to
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1 the chapter Playing: a theoretical statement, Winnicott describes
2 the case of Edmund, aged two and a half, and Diana, aged five. In
3 both cases the children were not the object of the consultations, but
4 came along with their mothers. Winnicott had to accept them. Each
5 of these consultations turned into double consultations, with
6 Winnicott listening to the mother and still keeping an eye on the
7 children. Edmund very quickly asks, after a few minutes: Where
8 are the toys? That was the only thing he said throughout the hour.
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111 play, putting small train parts on the table, joining them up. Soon,
2 though he was only two feet apart from the mother, he came back
3 to her and got on to her lap. After about twenty minutes he began
4 to liven up, getting a fresh supply of toys. The mother explained
5 that her boy needed contact with her breast as well as with her lap.
6 At one point, when he was trying to keep some distance from the
7 mother, he started stammering. As a baby he would refuse every-
8 thing except the breast, even the bottle. His attention was then
9 caught by one end of a piece of string. Sometimes he would make
10 a gesture resembling the plugging in of the end of the string, as
1 though it were an electric flex, to his mothers thigh. To make a long
2 story short, the important thing is Winnicotts awareness that the
3 boys play was illustrative of what the mother was talking about,
4 although it was she who was talking to Winnicott. He writes: As
5 it happened, I was mirroring what was taking place and giving it a
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9 about what was happening between the mother and Winnicott.
20 Edmund did not seem to be interested or to care. The reality of the
1 situation was not denied, hidden by some sort of screen. But this
2 situation at first escaped the observerwho appeared blind. Only
3 Winnicott managed to understand that the boys play was another
4 dramatized and displaced version of what the mother was talk-
511 ing about. If we consider the couple loss and substitution, we see
6 that substitution completely covers the threatening of loss by
7 disguising it in the childs play. The mirroring situation was not
8 only Winnicotts understanding, but also the childs playing activ-
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311 her listener. Play here is the result of an attempt at transformation
1 and manages to cheat any observer other than Winnicott or any
2 other psychoanalyst. We are not here in a situation of rigid repeti-
3 tive compulsion but in a trajectory that goes to and fro between the
4 mother and Edmund. We can see that, far from realizing where he
5 stands, he seems himself to be lost. While wanting to be with his
6 mother, he tries, unsuccessfully, to escape her. As Winnicott says:
7 the boy communicates an ebb of movement in him away from, and
8 back to, dependence (Winnicott, 1971). We can define this play as
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3 But the most interesting example is Diana. One cannot forget, of
4 course, that she is five years old and in any case has a more complex
5 psychic organization than Edmund.
6 As in the previous case, Winnicott had to conduct two consulta-
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8 in distress, and simultaneously a play relationship with the
9 daughter, Diana. Winnicott accomplishes a threefold task: he has to
10 give full attention to the mother, play with the child, and record the
1 nature of Dianas play so as to write his paper. Diana presents
2 herself at the front door, putting forward a teddy bear. Here, we see
3 the play preceding the consultation: Diana is using the teddy bear
4 as a representative of herself. This is probably why Winnicott,
5 before starting the consultation or even looking at the mother,
6 addresses Diana; first he asks her the name of the teddy bear. Just
7 Teddy, she replies. We shall see the multiple identity of Teddy:
8 he can stand as a representative of Diana, or as her ill brother, or
9 as Dianas imaginary child. After a while, probably feeling over-
211 whelmed and unable to give the mother the attention she needs,
1 Winnicott suddenly puts his ear to the teddy bear (using the tran-
2 sitional object in order to enable the situation to change and move
3 into some other space) and says to Diana: I heard him say some-
4 thing. I think he wants someone to play with. Thus, he does not
5 leave the child alone, but enhances an imaginary relationship. He
6 tells the child about a woolly lamb that she would find at the other
7 end of the room. Acting in this way, Winnicott stimulates her mater-
8 nal identification. Then Diana puts the teddy bear and the lamb
9 (which was considerably bigger than the bear) together; here
30 Winnicott confesses that perhaps his suggestion was in the hope of
1 getting the bear out of his jacketDiana had stuffed it in his breast-
2 pocket, curious to see how far it would go down. Her play there-
3 fore alluded to her brothers birth and Winnicotts response, calling
4 the lamb to join in the play, was perfectly logical, though, I believe,
5 unconscious. Diana decided that teddy and the lamb were her chil-
6 dren. She emphasized the fact that they were not twins: the lamb
7 was to be born first and only then the teddy. After the birth was
8 finished, she put the newly-born baby in a bed she had improvised,
911 placing each of them at separate ends in order to prevent them from
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2 while, she placed them peacefully at the top of the bed. She then
3 fetched a lot of toys and played with them. Winnicotts prcis of this
4 is: The playing was orderly and there were several different
5 themes that developed, each one kept separate from the other.
6 Winnicott joins in the girls play spontaneously and exclaims: Oh!
7 Look! You are putting on the floor around the babies heads the
8 dreams that they are having while they are asleep! (Winnicott,
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10 The child, intrigued by the idea, was developing various themes
1 as if dreaming the dream for the babies. This shift of emphasis
2 allows Winnicott to come back to the mother, who cries about her
3 other childs cardiac illness. (Diana says: He has a hole in his
4 heart.) Winnicott comments on the mothers crying about her ill
5 son. The communication being direct and factual, Diana is reas-
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8 chosen by Winnicott. Both children show not only a capacity to be
9 alone in the presence of the mother, but also in the presence of a
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1 themselves, but because of her own distress. In one case we see how
2 difficult it is for the child to be separated from the mother, but what
3 seems important to me is Winnicotts awareness that the childs
4 play reproduces in action what the mother and himself were talk-
511 ing about, even when that was about the child himself. With
6 Edmund there is an unconscious will to reproduce and transform
7 what is perceived from reality, even in a limited way. Nevertheless,
8 play appears as a development of the relation to reality and a
9 rebuilding of a transposed and created reality. But in Dianas case,
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1 and becomes more complex by including a potential dream that is
2 largely the same as the play but in a disguised way.
3 In the second case, i.e. with Diana, play is not only a reaction of
4 something happening in reality but is a creation in itself, involving
5 first a transitional object (the teddy bear) that she has to introduce
6 into Winnicotts pocket as if he were pregnantjust like the mother
7 when she was expecting the ill child. There is a concern of how far
8 the teddy bear can go down (perhaps being aborted or falling
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111 animals are exposed to fight in the middle of the bed under the
2 clothes. This symbolism is probably a shift to the parents primal
3 scene, then sleeping quietly. But the most amazing thing is
4 Winnicotts interpretation of the toys that Diana puts at the end of
5 the imaginary bed: i.e., that they represent the dreams that the tran-
6 sitional objects have while they are asleep. To me this is an essen-
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8 reproduce more or less in disguise what is taking place in reality, as
9 with Edmund, but demonstrates to a certain degree how play can
10 represent a dream of which we know nothing, which is created by
1 the transitional objects themselves. It is a movement of inwardness
2 as deep as a dream, apparently incoherent, made of shreds and
3 patches, a product of the rearrangement of both elements of inter-
4 nal and external reality. Play is a manifestation of the mind that I
5 understand as being the result of undoing the pieces belonging to
6 reality, in order to recombine them and create a potential existence.
7 What I am attempting to say is that it is not enough to interpret
8 the content of the play; we have to understand its structure.
9 Perhaps am I not fully satisfied with a definition of play in terms of
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1 reality, symbolizing a potential space of a reunion between the
2 mother and the baby at the place and time where separation took
3 place. What I need to understand is how perceptions and fantasies
4 are the reproductions of an experience both internal and external
5 and, even more, to be able to perceive in play the extension of the
6 mirroring relationship, its dynamics in a system more or less open
7 to new developments, and the reflection inside the play through
8 which we may understand the interconnected fantasies as well as
9 their possibility of being transposed in another unconscious struc-
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1 In a few words, playing, fantasizing, creating fictions, telling
2 tales, and even imagining the dreams that appear in the play,
3 belong to one and the same world. Its interpretation is bound to the
4 complexity of the inter-connexion and the transformation of
5 communication through meaning accompanied by the changing
6 identity of the addressees. Compared to other structures marked by
7 primary processes such as dreams, fantasies, and so on, I suggest
8 that playing differs from them because it is three-dimensional, not
911 because it has depth but because it looks like reality.
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111 One element not to be forgotten is that even when the child
2 plays alone, there is always someone watching or, as in the situa-
3 tion we described, someone talking to someone else about what is
4 going on. It may be difficult for the analyst to know where he
5 stands in this situation. Instead of thinking that he is systematically
6 in the place of the mother, he may also be in the place of the person
7 to whom the mother is speaking. It is important never to forget the
8 place of the analytic third, and also always to remember that
9 between the play and the person (adultchild), there is always an
10 invisible screen that forbids too direct interpretations. Just as free
1 association is essential to analytic work, play has to be considered
2 as a creation of free association processes.
3 It is not quite clear to me why Winnicott gave the chapter
4 following Playing: a theoretical statementwhich is so accom-
5 plished and gives the feeling that he perfectly understood and had
6 definitely dealt with the subjectthe title of Playing: a creative
711 activity, and the search of the self; it is so different from the preced-
8 ing one.
9 I believe that Winnicott was here tackling the problem of the
20 pre-condition of play. Winnicott says that only in playing is
1 communication possible and the individual able to be creative.
2 Creative experiences are sometimes the only possible way for the
3 individual to be himself. Creativity is not a specialized activity but
4 a feature of life and total living.
511 What is important in this perspective is to react on non-purpo-
6 sive state, a condition close to the supposed unintegrated state of
7 the beginning of life to which one has to come back. The search of
8 the self has to go back to formlessness. Non-purposive being, form-
9 less mind activity, are free from anxiety and defence. These are con-
311 ditions favourable for a search of the self. It is difficult not to think
1 about free association as a first step towards this aim. Winnicott
2 gives an illustration of a case that he has seen in a very long session
3 (the patient needed a session of indefinite length, once a week, after
4 having had treatment five times a week). Tolerance of chaos during
5 the session may lead at the end to a finding of the lost self. There
6 is not a single element of play in the paper. There are, instead, lots
7 of destructive thoughts related to others or about herself, lots of
8 catastrophic fantasies, the feeling of never being oneself, memories
911 of feeling empty. After an hour and a half, the patient feels: Just
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111 drifting like the clouds, and then the negative feelings return with
2 the impression of having spoilt her life and not really being in the
3 session. When finally Winnicott has the impression that the patient
4 is in the session, he gives this interpretation to her: All sorts of
5 things happen and they wither. This is the myriad deaths you have
6 died. But if someone is there, someone who can give you back what
711 happened, then the details dealt with in this way become part of
8 you, and do not die (Winnicott, 1971).
9 Though the interpretation demonstrates Winnicotts creativity
10 more than the patients, he also introduces a very important idea:
1 however bad or negative are the experiences, the presence of some-
2 one just watching, acting as a mirror, gives to the scattered part
3 a unity that is reflected to the patient and becomes part of him. We
4 have some evidence of Winnicotts intuition being right when the
5 patient confesses later in the session that she made use in her room
6 of a lot of mirrors for some person to reflect back. But there is no one.
7 This is exactly what Winnicott does for her; in taking notes, writ-
8 ing interpretations he will never tell, being present, waiting for the
9 time when she will be able to be herself, Winnicott is the mirror
211 who reflects something other than the negative hallucination that
1 the patient has of her own image.
2 But we now come to a general conclusion, as Winnicott beauti-
3 fully formulates to the patient: It was yourself you were searching
4 (1971). The patient responded after a while: Yes, I see one could
5 postulate the existence of a Me from the question as from the
6 searching. This to me sounds unexpectedly very Cartesian. The
7 theoretical statement closes the chapter:
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or perhaps from rudimentary playing, as if in a neutral zone. It is
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we call creative, can appear. This, if reflected back, but only if
2 reflected back, becomes part of the organised individual personality
3 and eventually this in summation makes the individual to be to be
4 found and eventually enable himself or herself to postulate the exis-
5 tence of the self. [Winnicott, 1971]
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8 explained that the true self is hidden, secret and mute; maybe it is
911 in speculation of the formlessness or in elementary play.
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111 There is no play without reflection. Even when the child plays
2 alone, someone in his mind is looking at his play, someone who
3 maybe understands the play that he himself does not understand.
4 From that chapter on we shall see that most of the other chapters
5 will include a reference to reflection. With regard to the distorted
6 reflection to which Winnicott alludes in his famous interpretation to
7 a male patient who had to deny and keep as far as possible from
8 consciousness the non-masculine element of his personality, we
9 note that Winnicott says to him: I am listening to a girl, I know
10 perfectly well that you are a man, but I am listening to a girl and I
1 am talking to a girl. I am telling this girl: You are talking about
2 penis envy (Winnicott, 1971).
3 Winnicott makes it clear in his interpretation, which has been
4 compared to playing, that it was hearing that was like a represen-
5 tative of the mothers look: This madness of mine enabled him to
6 see himself as a girl from my position (ibid.). This is a good example
711 of a distorting mirror.
8 In some other chapters we again encounter the importance of
9 reflection, as in Mirror rle of mother and family in child devel-
20 opment. We see, therefore, that it is not enough to compare
1 psychotherapy with the overlap of two curtains: a third element
2 must come into playand this is their potential mutual reflection.
3 If we now turn towards the theory and the area of illusion
4 between the mother (breast) and the infant, we also imply an
511 element of reflection. Maybe the origin of this reflectivity is to be
6 found in Winnicotts thinking, in an unfinished book. The inter-
7 mediary area does not exist from the start. It is an attempt to reunify
8 what has been separated at the place and time of separation. Of this
9 occasion, Winnicott says something so bold that he is afraid of
311 spelling it out: The intermediary stage is referred to as a layer of
1 the mind constituted of an aspect of the mother and an aspect of the
2 baby, both being mixed in one (Winnicott, 1971).
3 This for me involves some kind of inner reflection between the
4 two parts that the infant will try to find again in the intermediary
5 area. I suspect this to be related to the topic of transference. In the
6 cases quoted of Edmund and Diana, we have seen how reflection
7 is imprisoned in the first one, and open in the second. This hypoth-
8 esis also applies to the delocalization of cultural experience. The
911 value of Winnicotts thesis is the interrelation between the inter-
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fascinating lecture.
As always, Andr has been provocative. There is a tendency to
3 canonize many authorsbut certainly that is not what Andr ever
4 does; he always urges us primarily to read, and then to read again.
5 He teaches us that just because something has not been looked
6 at, does not mean that it is not worth looking at. That, basically, is
7 the message that I have received from him tonight: it is no use
8 repeating nice little packages and saying we need take just these,
9 and then off we go. Andr has challenged all of us here tonight;
30 some of us did not like it, that is quite obvious, but frankly I for one
1 did not expect anything else! But this is success. This is tonights
2 value.
3 When Andr speaks to people, he invariably asks if they have
4 actually read the paper, idea, or book that was being considered.
5 Too many of us tend to read between the linesand not the lines
6 themselves. It happens far, far too often.
7 I am sure that even those of you who are not perhaps as pleased
8 as you expected to be with the lecture, who have not been
911 massaged in a nice way but have, rather, been stimulatedand
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1 counter-transference in the case of Masud Khan, in the
2 light of the Wynne Godley case
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4 n February 2001 Wynne Godley published a paper, Saving
5 Masud Khan (2001), which created a great deal of concern
6 among the analysts of the British Psychoanalytical Society, but
7 not only among them. It generated much discussion and brought
8 more plainly into the open the question of boundary violations. The
9 Societys Ethics Committee, represented by A.-M. Sandler, replied
30 officially to Godley, addressing many of his complaints (2004).
1 Exceptionally, although not uniquely, prior to this particular inci-
2 dent, other papers had dealt with the Masud Khan casemostly by
3 Linda Hopkins, who is currently working on a biography of him.
4 In one of her papers, published before Godleys paper appeared,
5 she deals specifically with Winnicotts analysis of Masud Khan
6 (1998).
7 This Addendum proposes to show how Winnicotts unconscious
8 counter-transference was a contributory factor in the failure of the
911 treatment. Its failure was also the result of some of Winnicotts
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111 debatable ideas on technique, which have their own blind spots. All
2 of this, combined, offered little hopeif there was any to begin
3 withof saving Masud Khan. Furthermore, it seeks to illustrate not
4 only how play can transgress the limits of the setting but how it can
5 also be turned into foul play (as in Hamlet). Linda Hopkins has
6 dealt in her paper with Masud Khans application of play tech-
7 niques to analytic consultation and the treatment of adults (Hop-
8 kins, 2000); here, however, we venture beyond what she reports.
9 Before continuing my discussion, I would inform the reader that
10 I had a long acquaintance with Masud Khan and that it ended on
1 unfriendly terms. That has no connection with the present matter. I
2 also personally met Wynne Godley on three occasions: the first time
3 was long before the publication of his article, and at the time I was
4 not even aware that he had been in analysis; the subsequent
5 encounters occurred after I had read it. I must stress that nothing in
6 the piece that follows has been drawn from my relations with either
711 Masud Khan or Wynne Godley.
8 My principal sources are Godleys article (2001), Rodmans biog-
9 raphy on Winnicott (2003) and, to a lesser extent, Linda Hopkins
20 papers before 2001. These have been used to provide an analytic
1 aprs coup interpretation of the events in order to try to explain what
2 may have happened, over and beyond Godleys description.
3 Finally, I would add that Wynne Godley, in my strongest opinion,
4 is not the kind of patient to leave any doubt about his complaints.
511 In the beginning of his paper Wynne Godley describes concisely
6 what he terms his state of dissociation. His self-observation, in
7 few words, is convincing. He describes his false self as being split
8 from the body. He tells of living in a waking dream, of his para-
9 doxical insensitivity, of his sense of estrangement when faced with
311 unpredicted situations, of his panic attacks, delusional beliefs, etc.
1 All of this fits in remarkably with Winnicotts clinical descrip-
2 tions, which do not belong to the range of neurotic disorders. We
3 can therefore imagine that Winnicott was quite familiar with this
4 type of pathology when he referred the case to Masud Khan. It has
5 been suggested, though this is open to question, that Anna Freud
6 was asked for her approvalGodley having married Kathleen
7 Garman Epstein, Lucian Freuds first wife.
8 I shall not describe the accumulation of traumas in Godleys
911 case history as the reader may refer to them direct elsewhere. What
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111 no evidence that his father brutalized or ill-treated him. One might,
2 of course, relate that hatred to the projection of the son experiencing
3 excessively erotic, too-close intimacy with his mother, whom he vis-
4 ited at her home (his parents having been separated from his birth).
5 I am not saying that one should understand this as a manifestation
6 of an Oedipus complex, for that was not structured at the time.
7 In any event, neither Winnicott nor Khan seem to have paid
8 attention to that central fact: the hatred of the father. It is my
9 assumption that Godley came to realize that his fathers inconsis-
10 tent behaviour, with its heavy alcoholism, was an unconscious way
1 of attacking the father image. It was, furthermore, to induce con-
2 tempt; above all, it was to remove any possibility of a positive iden-
3 tification in manhood. A sort of hallucinatory vision involving
4 his father had accompanied this: Unless he justifies himself I
5 must save him, thus witnessing a role-reversal in the parentchild
6 relationship, a splitting of the hate, a reparation process and, as it
711 were, a secret oath: I must save him (meaning, in truth, I must
8 sacrifice myself).
9 Godley seems to have been quite aware of this when he chose
20 the title for his paper. There was, however, no reference as to how
1 it had been interpreted. What I am implying is that, consciously or
2 unconsciously, Khan did everything that was possible to confirm
3 Godleys secret promise by repeating the fathers behaviour (being
4 also an awful drunkard), by multiplying boundary violations, by
511 trying to impress his patient with his important relations, by inter-
6 fering with his marital relationship, by telling him about his own
7 marriage with a famous dancer, by being scornful and projective,
8 by keeping him at a distance, by giving savage interpretations
9 about the supposed (?) wish of the patient to be cuddled by him,
311 etc., etc.,but also by repeating the behaviour of the promiscuous
1 mother. Because Godley remained unimpressed, Khan felt he had
2 to double the dose: associating the patient and his wife with his
3 own social life. During a party, he is said to have declared to an
4 elegant woman attending: He and I the same, Aristocrats. This is
5 a key phrase. Khan was playing sameness although he always felt
6 the British regarded him as an inferior, a native. In fact, there could
7 be no equality in the relationship since systematically Khan was
8 obsessed with dominating his patient, humiliating him, and contin-
911 uously boasting about his own exploits.
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111 who had arrived at his session accompanied by his dog that fright-
2 ened Khan. In the next session he hid behind the door of his
3 consulting-room and waited until the unwary patient entered,
4 before jumping on him and making barking noises at him like a
5 wild dog. He explained the lesson to his patient: This is to show
6 you how one can feel when you come into the consulting-room
711 with your hound. In Wynne Godleys case, however, the complic-
8 ity of others helped subtly to pervert the whole thing into a social
9 entertainment. Svetlana Beriosova, Khans wife, was treated at the
10 same time as her husband by Winnicott and was also conferred
1 with during some of his regular sessions. Not surprisingly, she
2 developed a deep scepticism about psychoanalysis.
3 How can we explain Winnicotts refusal, in the counter-trans-
4 ference process, to become a re-enactment of the paternal figure?
5 Winnicotts own father played a significant role when he repaired a
6 doll belonging to Winnicotts sister that Winnicott had badly
7 damaged. Perhaps his father should be thanked for this act, but on
8 the whole he remained distant towards his only son. He would
9 refer all his sons existential questions to the Bible, saying that
211 he would find the answers he looked for there. But in so doing, he
1 refused to assume a fundamental paternal responsibility: that of
2 being a model of masculine identification for his son. Most of the
3 time Winnicott was left in the company of his mother and sisters.
4 On reading the descriptions of Winnicotts parents in Rodmans
5 biography I cannot help believing that his motherallowing for the
6 possible limitations of a woman of her generation and character
7 was less involved than his father in the genesis of the false self in
8 Winnicotts personal experience. His father, it appears to me, was
9 more evocative of a false self: more concerned and preoccupied
30 with his own social position than with his sons difficulty in devel-
1 oping into a man. One example is his decision to send Winnicott off
2 to boarding-school for having pronounced rude words. Although
3 he was rather shallow, his son seemed to have feared him.
4 Ultimately, Masud Kahns provocations were to prove fruitless,
5 since no father figure emerged. Certainly, Winnicott admired
6 Khans skills and it is probable that his antisocial behaviour secretly
7 attracted him. However, it was a long time before Winnicott discov-
8 ered the importance of the father in accomplishing the process of
911 separation between mother and child. Indeed, this understanding
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111 was to come at the end of his life: too late to save Masud Kahn.
2 Winnicott had his first heart attack the same day his father died and
3 his heart succumbed totally a few years later. He died enlightened
4 but without ever having felt what it was to be a father. As for Khan,
5 he felt orphaned by Winnicotts death: abandoned and left alone to
6 struggle with his own self-destructive impulses. Nor could he
7 expect help from anyone any more, having disappointed even the
8 best of his friends. Anna Freud, to whom he went subsequently,
9 was incapable of embodying the paternal figureunlike potentially
10 her fatherthat he so craved. In one of his rages Khan said to
1 Godley: You are a very tiresome and disappointing man. Did he
2 likewise wish to be scourged by an angry word from Winnicott?
3 Who can say? For play toolike all human endeavourhas its
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20 Hopkins, L. (1998). D. W. Winnicotts analysis of Masud Khan.
1 Contemporary Psychoanalysis, 34(1).
2 Hopkins, L. (2000). Masud Khans application of Winnicotts play
3 techniques to analytic consultation and treatment of adults. Con-
4 temporary Psychoanalysis, 56(4).
511 Rodman, F. R. (2003). Winnicott: Life and Work. Perseus Publishing
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7 Sandler, A.-M. (2004). Institutional responses to boundary violations:
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