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Importance of Marriage
But how can we maintain this bond and strengthen it? The
husband and wife need to treat each other like friends and behave
like friends with one another . With love, affection, having trust in
one another, relying and trusting one another . An additional thing
that makes the marriage blissful is that in this newly begun life,
both parties have various new responsibilities towards one another .
Each of them completes and complements one another, and thus
on their own they are incomplete . One should not assume that the
man is primary, while the woman is secondary this is not the
case . Rather, both are primary and fundamentally important to the
union, as far as sexual needs are concerned, but as well as
religious, spiritual, economical and ethical matters . This is why the
Quran states in the chapter of Rome, verse 21:
And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves
mates that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed
between you affection and mercy . Indeed in that are signs
for a people who give thought .
That which forms and gives form to a family is the woman, not
the man . To such an extent that without a man (if he has died or is
not present temporarily), it is still possible for a family to exist . If,
however, a woman is not present or dies, her husband is not able to
maintain and take care of children such that it be called a family .
Thus, we see many a times that the man is pressured into bringing
another wife into his life to give form to his previous family .
The ultimate role which we find that a woman can play in her
life and her family life, is that of a mothers . A mother is able to
train her children in ways that they would never be trained as at
schools or at daycares . A mothers role begins from the moment of
conception till the time she gives birth, and as the baby grows into
adolescence and eventually a young man or woman . Even if a
mothers education is not as high, we still see that the emotional
and physical training that she can naturally provide for her child is
different than anyone who would have theoretically had learned
these training methods . Of course, however, it is ideal that a
mother indeed be educated to be able to even better serve and
bring up her children in the best of manners .
And Allah has made for you from your homes a place of rest
and created from it its mate that he might dwell in security
with her
A Womans Struggle
The struggle of a woman is providing good care (to her
husband)
This criterion can be expanded onto all women who enjoy the
privilege of having a husband that is of strong faith, revolutionary
and committed for the religious cause . Meaning if such wives are
moral in their actions, God will indeed reward them twice as much
as other women because of the influence they cause in a society
due to their reputation . On the other hand, if they carry out
immoral acts, then they will indeed be deserving of a punishment
that is twice as much as normal, once again due to the harm and
corruption their actions can cause in a society .
Ali Imran Syed | 53675 |