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or more persons connected remotely via a computer network send one another
sexually explicit messages describing a sexual experience. It is a
form of role-playing in which the participants pretend they are having
actual sexual intercourse, by describing their actions and responding to
their chat partners in mostly written form designed to stimulate their own
sexual feelings and fantasies. It sometimes includes masturbation. The
quality of a cybersex encounter typically depends upon the participants'
abilities to evoke a vivid, visceral mental picture in the minds of
their partners. Imagination and suspension of disbelief are also critically
important. Cybersex can occur either within the context of existing or
intimate relationships, e.g. among lovers who are geographically separated,
or among individuals who have no prior knowledge of one another and meet
in virtual spaces or cyberspaces and may even remain anonymous to one
another. In some contexts cybersex is enhanced by the use of web cams to
transmit real-time video of the partners. Cybersex is sometimes colloquially
called "cybering". Channels used to initiate cybersex are not necessarily
exclusively devoted to that subject, and participants in any Internet chat
may suddenly receive a message with any possible variation of the text
"Wannacyber?"
-Internet Porn Statistics showed there are about 4.2 million pornographic
websites constituting 12 % of the total websites. The pornographic pages
constitute 372 million hits and daily pornographic search engine requests
range to 68 million or 25 % of total search engine requests.
-Over 60% of cybersex addicts have not previously suffered from a history
of sexually addictive behavioruntil they discovered the Internet.
-Among many online addicts, cybersex is perceived as the ultimate safe sex
method to fulfill sexual urges without fear of disease such as AIDS or
herpes.
-89% of sexual solicitations were made in either chat rooms or Instant
Messages.
-Every second, $3,075.64 is being spent on pornography, 28,258 Internet
viewers are viewing pornography, 372 Internet users are typing adult search
terms into search engines, and every 39 minutes, a new pornographic video is
made in the United States (Internet Filter Review, 2006).
Rules and Regulations Implementing Republic Act No. 10175, Otherwise Known as
the Cybercrime Prevention Act of 2012
Cybersex
MORAL ISSUES
We humans are such recreational creatures, and virtual sex, now more
commonly known as cybersex, is prevalently observed in the whole world as a
faade of our desire for love and physical connection. However, cybersex
poses incredibly numerous moral issues emphasized mostly by religious groups
and associations. The areas of concern definitely carry with them ethical
weight. Just about any of the discussions involving sins against chastity
come into play: masturbation, premarital sex, extramarital sex,
homosexuality, voyeurism, exhibitionism, sexual fantasy and sexual role
playing, fetishes, pornography, and the likes. Also coming into play are
issues related to living an integrated life in relationship to others in the
community at large.
Cybersex alters the essence of sexuality from being sacred to just for
pleasure
When a person becomes an object of cybersex, in due course it follows
that sexuality becomes just an object in his point of view. Cybersex no
longer demands the evolution of relationship, which so often leads to deceit
and dishonesty. Superficial acquaintances and false identities are often
made, giving no importance to respect and commitment or involvement. Cybersex
satiates only on ones primal passions.
CONSEQUENCES
Consequences of sexual addiction can be mental, physical, emotional, and
social in nature. They can damage not only a persons mental and emotional
health, but also the health of his or her relationships with spouses,
friends, children, co-workers, and beyond.
Common consequences of sexual addiction include:
- Strained relationships with those close to you
- Distance and isolation
- High levels of distraction that can interfere with productivity and social
connections
- Diminished or lost trust in a relationship
- An inability to find pleasure in healthy human interactions and activities
- Separation or divorce
- Stress, anxiety, and guilt
- Depression when not engaging in or being able to engage in cybersex
activities
- Financial and legal difficulties
The consequences of sexual addiction are real and do happen. Cybersex may
seem like a harmless, exhilarating activity at first, but with each exposure,
more is required in order to achieve the same level of satisfaction.
Offline sexual exploration and activity are often marked by risks and
inconveniences. These elements are precisely what cybersex conveniently
addresses.
POTENTIAL ACTION
Managing Cybersex Problems at Home
In some instances, maintaining home use of the computer online is
necessary. Some examples are a home office, using the Internet for travel,
helping kids with homework, or managing finances. If patients need to
continue using the computer online a home, here are some simple, helpful
guidelines:
3. Online providers.
There are several online Internet service providers (IPs) offering access
only sites that their evaluation team has determined are appropriate for
children and families. Such providers exclude sexual content sites.
2. Move the position of the computer screen. If the office computer screen
faces away from people walking by or entering your workstation, move
the screen so that others can view what is being accessed or worked on.
4. Remove any files or history of past sexual activity from the computer.
His behaviors would have been public knowledge had I not shielded and
protected him. I kept friends from knowing the truth about my marriage and
husband, so that they would continue our friendship. I ended friendships with
people who got too close and knew too much. I allowed him to choose my
friends and to tape my phone calls by not confronting him about it. I allowed
him to explore three extramarital affairs.
STAGES OF PRERECOVERY
Stage One: Ignorance and Denial
Although the partner recognizes there is a problem in the relationship, he or
she is unaware of the role of sexual acting out. I knew something was wrong
the first two years of our relationship, but I could not identify it. They
believe the sex addicts denials, explanations, and promises. They tend to
ignore their own concerns and may blame themselves for sexual problems in the
relationship. When sex addicts do seem interested in relational sex, partners
may try to enhance their attractiveness through purchasing seductive
clothing, buying sexual toys, or even attempting weight loss or cosmetic
surgery. Self-esteem is clearly suffering, but spouses are unlikely to seek
help at this point as they are attempting to control the problem themselves,
often seeing themselves as being at fault. Later in Stage One, suspicions may
increase and detective work begins, snooping or detective behaviors leading
toward Stage Two.